It's not about rejection so much, it's mostly about my inability to stop hoping they'll change their minds.

@innogee8423

4 жыл бұрын

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@attacktitan6868

3 жыл бұрын

Hahaha,so true

@wrenadams7550

3 жыл бұрын

So true

@HisaLight2mypath

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. We hope they will come running back

@tykotate9346

2 жыл бұрын

Oh lord I hear ya. Then I think 'but they keep popping into my mind for no reason, this must therefore mean something'. Insanity.

"The right person is the person that chooses you" thank you Matthew Hussey for this!

@neerajakumar4462

6 жыл бұрын

Priya kandulna Indian? hey cheers I'm an Indian too

@cyantulip

5 жыл бұрын

So true. That's what I feel like I'm missing most in my life: having someone who chose me.

@crystalclarke4574

5 жыл бұрын

Nobody has ever chosen me ever .

@carlagheorghiu9906

5 жыл бұрын

I feel the same now, but I know this is gonna change. But what is the most important: Do you choose yourself? Cuz I didn't do that, but I'm going to change this. 😊

@misswill8488

5 жыл бұрын

Yes!

the hardest thing is realizing the person you're willing to choose isn't willing to choose you. thats the riskiest part of relationships, is allowing yourself to be vulnerable to being chosen back by someone else.... makes you not really want to do it at all sometimes.

@faeleia

9 жыл бұрын

emjayy Feel you so much on that.

@theadventuresofemily_

6 жыл бұрын

And then the person that chooses me lol I’ll end up friend zoning him cuz I won’t like him .. forever alone and shit xD

@racheladdams3365

6 жыл бұрын

Oh god. Hit me so hard. That’s what gets me so fucking depressed. Actual depression that I can never escape.

@vegitoblue2187

5 жыл бұрын

Even an tank has a limit to how many hits it can take.

@annettashannon8077

4 жыл бұрын

Imagine being rejected twice by the same person. Bruh...

I think what bothers me is when you get rejected and you know in your heart and mind you did nothing wrong to them but you know it's their loss.

@MirandaCasiano

6 жыл бұрын

christi crenshaw Amen to that girlfriend! My ex rejected me after a year of being together because I couldn't recover fast enough from my mother's death. It hurt, and still does, like hell that he didn't want to remember how good we were before that happened.

@emilytustin4540

3 жыл бұрын

You don’t have to be everyone’s type. If ur not they’re type it’s not a personal thing. They arnt missing out on anything. Ur not what they are looking for. Like holy fuck everyone in this comment section is either entitled af or has zero self esteem. Grow the fuck ur y’all. Really b pissin me off how people get so personally offended just because someone didn’t drop to their fukin knees when you went for them. Like y’all... seriously. It should b mutual anyways. If u don’t have sexual tension or didn’t have enough time for that to happen don’t even try. How bout that? There’s so easy instructions to follow. Good luck 👍

@weirdscience6820

3 жыл бұрын

Look, I agree with the prior albeit colourful comment 😆. That's fine if you think you're the bee's knees (great, confidence is good) but unfortunately and sadly, you may not be right for them. It's defensiveness talking to say it's their loss, cause it hurt your ego.

@CJ-ft9yo

3 жыл бұрын

Miranda Casiano Rejection can be protection too - you were protected from a weak poorly evolved man

@lewismcelroy6946

2 жыл бұрын

It's a pity my smiling comment had to go viral and c her name in every shop. Its enjoying being single for once u realise that u have no spare time when u have kids

the worst kind of rejection is, when you get rejected but someone who is not even great at all, who is actually a looser and you were stupid enought to want to give them a chance. you saw simething in there and wanted to give it a shot, but the person doesnt want you. I hav been in that situation and I havr couple of girlfriends who were too. all of us ended uo broken harded because we didnt have enough self esteem

@Vincisomething

7 жыл бұрын

Markéta Myslivcová Ha, I ended up rejecting that kind of pig. Now they're an even bigger loser so...

@CatEyedGoddess

6 жыл бұрын

Markéta Myslivcová truth

@redfather5342

5 жыл бұрын

Bitter much

@dwupus8661

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah! What a looser!

@alexandrar.4900

4 жыл бұрын

Mark Rosenfeld talks about this on his channel. It’s actually better someone “lower” than you rejects you. Because if he actually thinks that you’re on his level then that’s a bad sign because he thinks you’re lower worth than you really are. Really by him rejecting you is a blessing in disguise! Mark explains it really well on his channel, way better than me.

"Remember always; the right person is the person that chooses you, not just the person that has all of the great qualities you like." Probably the most profound words on finding love I have ever heard. Amaaaazing Matt, you rule! :D xx

@kathy2trips

4 жыл бұрын

Why can't I have the man I CHOOSE? The ones that choose me don't appeal to me. Often they're damn boring or too egocentric. The ones I want "think the world" of me, but invariably choose someone else or just walks away.

@katjatezak5816

4 жыл бұрын

@@kathy2trips Could it be that the unattainability is what makes you want the men you want in the first place?

@martinemaryhernandez729

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly the person that choose you is your person because we have both chose each other💍🔐 I Love You Martin💜💚💕Forever and Always♾💫💞🐞🐸😍🥰😘👸🏽🤴🏻👅🦋🕊

@behnazoskouei9864

Жыл бұрын

@@kathy2trips m

@behnazoskouei9864

Жыл бұрын

@@kathy2trips m

The right person is the person who chooses you, not just the person who has the qualities you like. - Yes.

i like this video. But I would also add that a lot of times when a person "rejects" you it is not about you, but about what they are dealing with and going through at that time.

You can't imagine how much you ease my pain. A proof that everyone gets rejected is the large amount of comments here from beautiful, sensitive and communicative women I can see.

I am going through this right now and it hurts so bad...Thank you for this video. I'm also on Matt's online program and he does a great talk on rejection, for anyone who has not seen it, he also teaches that rejection is a sign that you are dating right, because you are putting yourself out there. If you never get rejected, then you are not truly putting yourself out there. So for those of you who are making the conscious choice to date, love and be vulnerable, just remember....we are the brave ones.

@harleenadhindhsa6423

8 жыл бұрын

oo

@GutsAndGall

8 жыл бұрын

+Sophie N So well put, thanks for the perspective!

@annifanni23

8 жыл бұрын

Its terrible when you both have a connection on some level, talk for 6-8 hours a day and are inseparable. He told me we would see where things go when he gets back. Now he told me that he doesn't want to do that, and i said well you hurt me. I've met his family and he's met mine. Horrible feeling. I said i can't keep going on like this, we need a break or its over completely. Mind you we are best friends, never been together but acted like a couple. Everyone could see it. He cried so bad he told me he never wants to lose me and loves me like a friend. Crazy how you can go from being so close to not feeling that anymore. Have to face reality at this point it won't be the same.

@sophien5416

8 жыл бұрын

annichaaa I've been there and send you a virtual friend hug! I have learned that when the time is right, it is right. When it is right, it feels easy and natural because you have both learned enough about yourselves and say, "hell's yes!" to love. There is no lukewarm in love, so don't stand for it, if love is what you want. I am happy to say that after my original comment, I returned back to myself, got out there, took risks and finally met the man of my dreams that October. Now we are planning on moving in together and wedding talk is happening! So great job setting your standards for not dealing with lukewarm anymore hun. Go out there and find someone who will say, "hell's yes!"

@annifanni23

8 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Sophie!! What an amazing story i'm so happy that you have found someone better and talking about the future :D You are so right finding someone who wants you 100% is what you want im still in denial though it sucks. really weird relationship now it wont be the same

How can a person switch from one moment saying 'I love you' to the next saying 'I don't want to be with you'... how do I get over this shock?

@martinemaryhernandez729

3 жыл бұрын

People will say stuff just to say it definitely not necessarily actually feeling it or meaning it yet y have to remember it’s a free world and anybody can say as they please... when they realize what’s going on or happening they quickly get their ass out of that ugly situation THEY REMOVE THEMSELVES QUICK FAST AND IN A HURRY....

@dianematlock7922

3 жыл бұрын

Sometimes a rejection can be your protection...sometimes it just isn't meant to be...consider it a blessing, And let them go...sometimes it isn't anything you did or didn't do. Refuse to be miserable cause it brings more to you...thank HEAVEN you haven't lost anything...it could have been a an angel protecting you...

@BloopyBlobBob

2 жыл бұрын

Going through this right now.

@nogalistictuber7166

2 жыл бұрын

Ahhh IK me too, but these videos are really helping me

@bhavna783

2 жыл бұрын

So true😂 life is a big joke

That's the worst being rejected from a person you love and at one time loved you too

@SaloniSingh19

4 жыл бұрын

Magical Kelly so true

@martinemaryhernandez729

3 жыл бұрын

Love doesn’t let you walk away unless it’s not “YOUR LOVE”AND WHEN THEY REALIZE WHATS HAPPENING THEY WALK AWAY MAYBE EVEN RUN NEVER LOOKING BACK💯💯💯💯

I'm in a puddle of tears. This is exactly what I am going through right now...and the pain is absolutely unbearable. But its just like Matt said: its not only that I lost this person I thought was perfect in every way...its also that he hurt my pride by ending the relationship in a very disrespectful and careless way. At least the pain fuels me enough to improve myself and become a better person - in spite of someone deciding to leave and disappoint me.

@Rere-O

Жыл бұрын

Me too. 1 month to our wedding. I knelt and pleaded but he walked right past me in my tears.

@sarahalderman3126

Жыл бұрын

@@Rere-O better then, than 20 years down the road. My husband should have walked away, instead he married me, had children with me, and continued to cheat all along. Same rejection but far more detrimental.❤

the higher you expect, the higher chances to be hurt.. i am saying this because i went through it now😌

I've been rejected dozens of time and I've decided to give up, love isn't worth the pain and time

Rejection is all about our Ego and not always because we truly thought the person who rejected us was the perfect person. When we look back on relationships gone wrong we can usually see that it was meant to end so that we move on to a better place with someone who truly loves us. Another great topic Matthew!!

The right person is the one that chooses you. Words to live by. Thank you Matthew

@waffa008

6 жыл бұрын

I cried when i heard him say that.

@englishmadeeasy6141

5 жыл бұрын

Actually many people choose u then they reject u this is life grow up WE DIE ALONE not lonely

I think it's important to remain hopeful after been rejected. Yes, it's cliched but I think everything happens for a reason. We all deserve someone who sees us for how great we are, and rejection just takes us one step closer to meeting them.

@jana1682

2 жыл бұрын

Hi after 6 years. What if we will never meet the one who deserves us?

@warmekip2713

Жыл бұрын

@@jana1682 That’s what I’m afraid of… I don’t want to have to wait for the rest of my life just to end up dying alone.

"The right person always chooses you..." I like that. it makes it easier to understand.

I'm going through this and it KILLS

I really cried listening to your words.

Rejection was the scariest thing I had experienced in my life because it made me feel that I wasn't good enough but despite what had happened I didn't have any regrets about it because it made me become who I am today.

I am going through this kind of rejection right now, and I really appreciate your line "The right person is the person who chooses you, not just the person that has all the great qualities that you like"

Cheers Matthew. I'm a 30 year old gay guy and this exact thing happened to me last week. A week later and the pain is still quite raw, but I've found sharing my feelings and spending time with my friends, who remind me how great I am and whose opinions I really value, as well as doing the things I love has really helped me deal with the pain and slowly get me back to my old cheery self. Thanks for the top advice and keep on doing what you're doing. You're great.

it hurts so much, when you've been dating someone for months and treated you like you treated them, but then suddenly that someone is snatched by you best friend, not only that, that "best friend" make it as if you're threatening her and make you look so evil everybody hates you.

The last three girls I've went out with did this. Two of them I dated for 2 months and bam out of nowhere it was over. I thought I had a two month curse with girls and finally I met someone that blew these girls out of the water. I dated her for 6 months which seemingly went well and boom dumped for another guy. These breakups actually hurt more than my 3 year relationship that I had in the past and has put a huge blow on my ego. I feel like no matter what, it's only a matter of time until I face rejection. Dating now for me is a game of not trying to get attached and keeping my distance, which in turn probably ruins any chances of progressing, but it saves myself a lot of pain in the end.

@goddessvibes08

5 жыл бұрын

I feel you. Whatever happened to people wanting true love. Since when did courtship become a game of whoever catches feelings, loses. I hope there are more people who want a genuine convection out there.

@memoir02

5 жыл бұрын

@@goddessvibes08 Since when did courtship become a game of "whoever catches feelings loses"? OMG You hit the nail on the head! The guys makes me feel so special for a long time, then the moment I mention hanging out they shut me down. Wth is this??? 😡

@goddessvibes08

5 жыл бұрын

@@memoir02 He's a baby who enjoys the chase. Waste of time. Move on to a man who actually wants a relationship.

@memoir02

5 жыл бұрын

I feel you! And I'm the type that gets attached easy if I already liked the guy and he started showing me special interest over a period of time. Makes me feel wanted and worthy of his time and I get hooked. Then you find out they don't even want to date you. It's devestating and unfortunately I gotta discipline myself to NOT get attached/invested so soon (though it's hard because I rarely get approached by good looking guys who I really feel connected to)

@KURTrek

4 жыл бұрын

Oof, wow two dates for 2 months, one date for 6 months, thats rough. I have never gotten past the first or second date with about 12 girls (from online dating) and for me the 2 girls that I went on two dates with and when those rejections happen it feels so crappy, so I can’t even IMAGINE what that must feel like for it to be months. It’s definitely odd to be on the side that is always getting rejected. After 12 in a row i’ve found its made me a stronger man. I’m still sensitive to feelings, but in some sense it feels good to get rejected, it’s like, you showed them that you wanted to invest, and they denied you, so screw them. That’s the silver lining to life, what can bring you down in one moment is what gets you to a stronger sense of well being.

He understands women so well. Its so good just to have someone identify your situation, and that way you dont feel so alone. Yes - in my case a bright shiny object came along who had all sorts of appealing things that I didnt. She was the damsel in distress leaving an abusive partner after 25 years. She had no friends and he felt for her. That meant he could play knight in shining armor - there to galantly protect her. She also had skills of seduction that I just didnt have. I stood there helpless not knowing how to fight back. Then he left, insisting that we were still good friends, and that I would be stupid to throw away a perfectly good friendship - although he couldnt see me anymore. 6 months later it still hurts, but I now think "why would I want someone who so readily dumped me"? Better I found out early rather than later that he had no substance to him.

@caucasianafrican1435

6 жыл бұрын

He sounds like a weak person. No spine.

@nonyafourthreetwoonezero7350

6 жыл бұрын

skills of seduction- you mean she liked sex

@waffa008

6 жыл бұрын

I'm sobbing a bit now. I can relate. He's not worth it.

@martinemaryhernandez729

3 жыл бұрын

@John M. Castillo I definitely disagree HE FOLLOWED HIS HEART WHERE HIS SOUL TOOK HIM💯💯 THATS why he could so readily dump you.....

"The right person is the person that chooses you".... and chooses you every day. 🙏♥️

this type of rejection reminds me of online dating you find someone interesting you have great talks laughs and then you get so into the whole thing you forget that people on there are not all there for the same purpose

@martinemaryhernandez729

3 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY💯💯💯💯

Thank you Matthew for making this video. Sometimes your videos and talks hit the nail right on the head with where I am in my life. I appreciate the honestly and integrity of your advice. You have a simple yet sophisticated way on delivering the message that seems to help the information click a bit easier for me. Keep up the amazing work!

Quietly sobbing....Love you, Mat, for this great, heart-tugging message...

The right person is the person who chooses you! Thanks man, will keep coming back to this video, always. I don't wanna forget this until I find the right person. Or rather, until the right person finds me!

After four years of being in a relationship. This person decided to reject me over the phone while I was 400 miles away an hour before my interview appointment for a job position I really wanted. The reason for the rejection "he wanted to start dating normal hearing female." I have hearing loss, but that a brutal rejection. For a whole year, I felt sad and my pride was hurting. Now I've come to realize anyone can get rejected no matter what type of person you are. He may have rejected me but I still believe there's a guy out there who will love me just the way I am with hearing loss and he'll have to repeat words for me no matter how many times. That's all I ask. A guy with a lot of patience and lend me his ears. Is that too much to ask?

@joannemkz5521

5 жыл бұрын

What a brutal asshole!! I hope you're doing so much better now x

@lanabridges

5 жыл бұрын

I know someone who can't hear and have a person to love her. You will be fine, have faith

@misswill8488

5 жыл бұрын

Alicia I’m sorry that happened to you. I am mostly deaf in one ear and I used to say huh a lot when I was younger, not so much now that I’m older thank God, tho nothing has changed. I’m skinny. I was recently rejected for not being thick enough. I can improve a lot of things about myself, but those are 2 things I just can’t improve. It’s just the way my body is, take it or leave it. I believe I have a pretty face and a great and loving personality, that will have to do. There are men out there that like petite women and won’t mind sitting on the same side of me when whispering in my good ear at the movie theater. It’s just a shame when we are rejected for the very things that we can’t change about ourselves, but it’s superficial to me as well because those very things that they may choose someone else for having are going to change as they age and will deteriorate. That thick woman is going to look like flab and hearing loss starts to go with age. So, what we can’t change about ourselves, is the very thing that will change in others that they say they want. So no worries. Now from your picture, you seem to have the nice body, so don’t worry about the hearing. Like you say, some man won’t even mind, and I bet you’ve already met him. Also, you’d be surprised how many people have hearing loss in this world just like us, so don’t sweat it.

@blackiris3143

4 жыл бұрын

@@misswill8488 I feel you on this one, had a guy reject me for not being thick, I presumed. Said he wasn't ready for a relationship only to see him on a dating site looking for "love and happiness'. I called him out on it too, told him he could have told me i wasn't his type. He had all sorts of bullshit excuses.

@Joao-ur7ey

3 жыл бұрын

@@misswill8488 Not that I'm not on skinny women. I much prefer then over the chubby ones. But the fact is that you CAN change this. It isn't just "the way your body is". It's hard no doubt, but it's definitely possible whit diet and gym. Considering the amount of effort to achieve this, tho, you should only do it if you really want it and are not confortable with your body.

Thank you Matthew. This broadcast breached a topic that is not often mentioned in the dating realm but sorely needs to be. As humans, we tend to deify or demonify the actions of the ones that we come to love but, in the end, they are people just like we are. That fact makes it even harder when you find yourself rejected, which is why people can go to the extremes that they do because they feel unwanted and worthless.

I'm going through this as of right now, and it really sucks!! I really thought he can be a potential boyfriend or for now a friend! I just hate it that guys say the things that a girl wants to hear, but few weeks later they just disappear into the thin air. And you just seat there and question yourself, what did I do wrong ? :((

@Sarah.K_

7 жыл бұрын

sishomies Same here ! and Guess what i see him every week at the gym. GOD THAT HURTS ^^ he switched from the shy sweet guy To the one who doesnt even respond To my msg. .. and whats weird is that he keeps on staring at me BUT he chooses To ghost me. i did thé same pretending Not To care BUT that HURTS !!!!

@Sans21new

2 жыл бұрын

Going through the same thing , it hurts deeply. I thought we had something and he kept saying sweet things like I mean a lot to him, that I was special, if I ghosted him it would break his heart. And here we are, been weeks he is not responding to my text and showing he couldn't care less. I wish he would atleast be a man and break things off, rather than keep me hanging.

@silviam.9224

2 жыл бұрын

Exactley what happened to me now😫 one day they are all in...the other day they change their mind for no reason. Fuck them! I never felt worst after years, and I discovered I dealt with a dismissive avoidant so everything was totally crazy.

@shysoul4931

Жыл бұрын

Ikr🥲

I start a day with your inspiring videos. It keeps me going all day long. After a long day, I listen to you and convince myself there must be someone out there right for me. I can't thank you enough.

This speech has a very Spiritual sound to it. I think it is one of your best.

I cried while listening to you. This is such a wise, non judgemental thing you just said. How can such a young person be so smart?

Hey Matt - I'm glad you spoke about this. I fell in love with a guy and we dated for a year. 3 months into the relationship, he told me that he really cared about me but the physical chemistry wasn't there. We tried to make it work up will 12 months when he finally broke up with me for the same reason. I was devestated. He told me he loved me, talked about seeing a future with me, marriage and even kids but our sex life sucked. It hurt so bad, but I am moving forward with my life.

I will never understand men. Twice in the last 4 months 2 guys have shown a lot of interest in me but suddenly it just stopped. No warning signs or anything. I do not understand how they are able to go from really interested in me to not replying to my texts at all. When I think It's going somewhere it just isn't. Don't know what I'm doing wrong.

@staceywilk77

9 жыл бұрын

TheyCallMeKatwin I know the feeling all to well! The worse is when they reappear weeks later and I have to be strong and not respond. The man I want to be with, wouldn't leave me hanging for weeks. :-)

@bodaciousmos

9 жыл бұрын

TheyCallMeKatwin well you forget that they first met you and in the beginning they son't know anything about you and after they get to know you they may don't feel a connection anymore and maybe they only just wanted a easy girl and it took to long to get you .

@tubaeda312

9 жыл бұрын

This happend to me so often in the last 5 years.. Yes i am single since 5 years.. I think its a normal reaction when we think that its our fault, that ourself is not good enough.. Cant find the words to cheer you up.. But life goes on, and there are so much more things to enjoy, so dont give up 😊💕

@TheyCallMeKatwin

9 жыл бұрын

Indeed i'm not a easy girl. I have changed in the last 5 years from very introverted to a hardcore extrovert. People don't believe me when I tell them how little experience I have with guys. I want to have experience but it's just scary as fuck :'D I met a guy at a bar yesterday, and i'm thinking about asking him on a date, which is something I've never done. In my country women are the ones who make the effort, because men are too scared of just talking to a girl. Dating is definitely not a thing, which is a shame. It takes months and a lot of effort to even get to the boyfriend/girlfriend stage! I'm not like any other girl, and need to stop acting like it and just do me.

@MaricaIvica

9 жыл бұрын

I was almost in love I had to find out after 2 months he was not ready for a relationship, because he was besties with his ex.. Etc. But girl just move on.. Learn from it. I have to say when I was younger i would be mad! But now I am like, i am on a path and the guy will Come... But he will not come if i stay angry or confused about men.. Not all men are dogs!

That last sentence was for the the perfect way to sum up this great video - ""The right person is the person that chooses you".

Thank you for your inspiration. I am dealing with this now, but from someone i spent a year and half of my life with, so it hurts so bad. But what stood out to me from your video is one quote " remember always the right person is the person that chooses you" and he didnt so he isnt right for me. Thank you again

I'm just so hurt. And the worst part is I can't even confess it because I don't want to ruin a friendship :( I can't breathe sometimes.

@msexlexi1606

7 жыл бұрын

Michael Panayi, if it's a real friendship and worth anything, it will survive this. But if you keep silent it won't. You should speak up to save the friendship.

This is so true. Coming into acceptance that no matter how smart, beautiful, successful, etc. you are, you will get rejected in your life. It hurts even more when I hold on to the mentality that I'm great and have a lot to offer only to get rejected for a variety of reasons. I never take it personal. I used to spend days ruminating that if only he sees the greatness in me or give me more time, he will change his mind. No. Learning to accept it and move on is the best thing to do. Some things cannot be forced and if we try to force it, we end up getting more hurt. So important to find someone who values us rather than thinking how great that other person is because if the other person does not reciprocate, it will not work out. Thanks Matthew!

Gosh I so needed to hear this. This happened to me twice. First time the guy came running back after the shiny thing didn't last and I didn't want to be second choice. Then once again when I thought this one guy was perfect for me, especially because he totally got my spiritual side which is rare. Got totally rejected but because he had so much rejection in his life he couldn't have a relationship again. He rejects everyone. But it sent me into an insecure funk for awhile. But I agree with what you said. there is always someone better for you and sometimes I think it is who you don't even know you need. I actually call it a "supernatural upgrade" haha cuz just upgrade isn't good enough. Meanwhile, I just have told the married guys at work if they set me up on dates, I'll bake for them cuz apparently I bake better than the wives. rofl I don't go to bars, so this is my plan. Ask the men to find me the men. haha

@anushkas.1168

6 жыл бұрын

Aimee Montgomery I can relate with you so much . The pain is crippling and the insecurity is seeping into my work .What did you do to come out of that insecure place?

Thank you for this. I went through this rejection a few weeks back. He stopped calling/texting me after 2 great weeks of dating. I didn't chase him since I know that would scare him off even more. When I talked to him a week later he gave an excuse of our schedules being too busy to make it work. Your advice is what my friends and family have told me, but hearing it from an outside source definitely helps me even more! Thanks Matthew! :)

I just don't know how many times I can do this. I finally got back out there and found somebody. I thought it was going great and I started to get hopeful..then all of a sudden he just says he doesn't feel it and doesn't want to to see me anymore. It makes me feel horrible about myself. It makes me feel like nothing will ever work out and it's not worth going through this again. I'm so lonely and depressed. It went from great to nothing so fast.

@carissafisher7514

2 жыл бұрын

How are you doing now?

@katiestarling665

2 жыл бұрын

@@carissafisher7514 been single since then, going on 3 years, and freaking love it! No desire to ever peruse a relationship again. I feel complete and happy. Once I learned how to be comfortable and happy all by myself, I just feel no need to date or have that variable in my life anymore.

@Sans21new

2 жыл бұрын

@@katiestarling665 Good Katie! Wish you love and happiness always😊😊

@silviam.9224

2 жыл бұрын

I feel the same right now and soo stupid to believe the first part actions and promises were real. I feel like if I dreamt everything and soo heartbroken like an idiot.

@jana1682

2 жыл бұрын

@@katiestarling665 how can we become happy with ourselves?

I believe you are sensibly walking me through what I think is heartbreak. In reality, I feel an emotional maturity arising from within that I truly had not gained access to yet. It aches as it should because I am only human after all. But I will keep listening and taking my notes. Thank you for your great work.

I love this: "The right person Is the person who chooses you ~ not just the person who has the qualities that you like." Perfect video and thanks Matt :)

This brought me to tears, I have been going through this for the last month and it's was great to hear this

Wow! Those are very touching words. My 12 year old has a "mini broken heart". I comforted her as what a mom would do and did everything I could. But this talk from Matthew is just full of substance.

Hit it right from the start...this men is a genius and has touched my heart every time. This is EXACTLY what I'm going through...much thanks !

He's amazing. My main tutor. when I just trying to understand men, relations and sytuations between people, hes words are so halpful . Massive thank you for that Matthew

I am trying to understand "this type" of rejection right now. And is one of the hardest things I've ever experienced. Thank you for this Matthew.

SO Brilliant!! " The right person is the one who chooses you AND who has all the great qualities."

I really needed to hear this , I am recently going through a rejection heartbreak . I have to accept what’s not for me and work on myself to find who is for me one day .

I love matthew too. you can tell he really cares about helping us

The hit the nail on the head. Every words. Needed to hear this. But it’s still hurts.

I dont want to talk about it much... but I just want to say thank you. So many things out of my control have happened to me and all so close together and I search youtube to look for help.... but you have literally saved my life. Thank you 😢

I needed this today. This scenario fits what I'm going through and this video hit the nail on the head. I'm so thankful you're doing what you're doing. You've made a huge difference in how I view relationships - romantic and unromantic.

I don't agree many things that these so called "relationship gurus" say or their type of marketing and selling technics, but I have to give to you, he has some very good gems on his youtube videos. This one touched me deeply.

Matthew u have no idea. How much better I feel and I feel like your genuine advice has lifted a weight of my shoulder. I will keep believing there is someone out there chooses Me! With more qualities I like. Thank you so much. Means a lot.

I watched this video and remembered how great it was today i think of this video again when I'm in the moment of truth that I've been rejected by someone i have feelings for. And Matt said it right. It might hurt but I will get over it. Thanks Matt.

Omg ur content and how u choose them is literally perfection, like no flaws. Thanks Matt once again for phenomal advice so useful, ur videos just make my day

Thanks, Matthew, In the last couple months I have dealt with the worst kind of rejection from my the man I have spent the last 11 years. Finally, I decided that if I truly love him, I must let him go! I humiliated myself a lot in the last period, but today I decided that is time for me to move further. I listen to your advice every day and it really helps me to move on and stop crying.

I cried listening to this I felt his pain while he was talking and I know how that exactly feels More power to you buddy

Thanks so much for posting this video. I just had to get over a rejection from someone who was a childhood friend and later turned out to be a crush of mine. For years I had obsessed over them and got jealous when they got a new friend who they're now dating. It took me a lot of thinking to get over it and I'm still getting over them dating now. For a while I felt like there was no future for me and they were the best person I could possibly imagine dating. However, I have so much more of my life to get together and days that I can better myself and I'm only in my teens so yeah. Anyway, just thank you soon much for posting this and you have a new subscriber!!!

I know people say try again. And I appreciate people saying to me try again. But it does hurt. And the hurt doesn't change overnight.. it isn't just jump into a relationship right away, some of us don't want to go through it again

I've been through hell and back, without any closure.... You gave me the best advice... You rock dude...

This is superb. I've had a potentially great relationship disintegrate because of someone else's jealous lies and gossip about me. The guy I liked sooo much believed the lies and hated my guts. I was utterly devastated. But to know that there is someone even better out there with qualities I don't even know about yet - I'm finally getting that.

Well said Mathew Hussey

Hi Matt, Thanks for this. I just experienced this heavy rejection last night from someone I've been getting to know for 4 months. I really did think we were great together. As a retreat graduate, I've been pulling on all your training but it's been a head vs. heart battle for 24 hours. Thank you for this crazy unbelievable well-timed video, Coach! With love....

Thank you matthew. I got rejected by this very person that I thought i might be with for the future. It is really hurtful and some tears came out after i have watched this. But i believe the right person for me is still ahead, and i need to look to the future!!

Great advice - thank you. Rejection is redirection. Rejection is/has been very painful and also I have rejected in return which was reactionary for many regrettable reasons. Painful lessons. Ultimately we are all being redirected onto a better path even if it really doesn't feel like it at the time. I am still working on my path.

Thank you for putting words to this, Matthew - I needed to hear this after being rejected by a really good friend who I developed feelings for but who didn’t feel the same 💔 I like your perspective on this 👌

Went out with this girl for over a year, and in the end she decided she didn't want anything with me. She's the first person I ever truly loved, the pain was unbearable.

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Oh my goodness Matthew. Thank you! Perfect words. You really put my sad heart at ease. Just got rejected by a guy yesterday

I am crying after watching this. I really need to hear this today, thank you so so much matthew!!

Thank you for this message. I went through something like this where i was going on dates with this person and out of the blue he just said he cant go on i was heart broken because i did value him. I found out later that he stopped it with me so he can be with one of my friends. I got over it but this just helped so that i could know that there is someone out there that will value me and want me. This message is important for the ladies out there going through all of this

This is it. This is exactly what I needed. I just found out about you Matt and I appreciate the fuck out of you. I knew I had to change my perspective but didn't know how, and now I can continue my life with a more positive mindset. Thank you so much.

This is exactly what I’m going through right now but couldn’t put it into words. Thank you

Yessssss the right person is the one who chooses you!!! ❤❤❤ not the one that has all the great qualities. OMG. I needed to hear that today!!!!

I love you Matt Hussey!!! Your line about the right person being the one who chooses you is so important and relevant, I appreciate your great advice!! Thank you :)

Where have you been all my life Matthew. I recently discovered you and also went to the Seminar by Steve yesterday in London and it was amazing. I am so happy I stumbled upon this. Yesterday was the start of my journey. Thank you for all you do. Hanan x

That's exactly what I needed to hear right now!!! I am going through it right now...I thought that man was perfect for me, we could talk about everything and for hours. He was so sweet and had everything I appreciate at a man but he is completly ignoring me from one day to the other 😞 But I can't let myself be down because of him...but it still hurts for the moment...

I've never been hurt this much.Feeling really terrible.Thanks for this great video...

Recently, I got indirectly rejected by a guy I've been pining over for a year. He was physically attractive of course, but more than that, he was a great guy who shared my values and just got me on a level other people couldn't. However, I was dealing with issues that I was trying to work on my own. That's when he told me that he got himself a girlfriend, and it felt like my heart was hit and run over by a truck. I was devstated. How could he not choose me? Why did I even think he would choose me? However, after watching Mathew's video, it really opened my eyes. The right guy for me will choose me. And if this great guy who I liked for a long time, didn't choose me, then there must be an even GREATER guy out there whom I haven't even met yet. Thank you Mathew for all the encouragement you give and effort to give people fate in that they can have a chance.

worse when combined with the type that brings humilliation

You have no idea how I needed to hear this right now. Everything you said helped me. Thanks

Thank you for this video. I am going through this right now. I fell in love with my best friend, and he kind of had feelings for me too, but now he has a girlfriend. I'm happy for him because this is the first girl he's ever taken seriously, but it hurts me at the same time.

i love you Mathew Hussey! thank you, this was the realest and the wisest advice i could have gotten...SO GOOD

Dude, you're insanely good at this. Keep at it.

The most nicely spoken words I have heard for this matter so far. Thank you. I visit the video often to remind myself this truth. Thank you.

Great insight as to admiring someone and being crushed by rejection. My ego was massively bruised when this happened to me. But learning with gratitude that the rejection has taken me on a path of self awareness and knowledge. And this ironically is what I saw in the person I loved (and still love) in the first place. Life is very strange and excitingly weird! :)

Grateful this popped up on my view feed. Thank you. I really needed to hear this.

My number 1 thought after rejection is "I guess I don't deserve that guy and I should aim lower."

@KingOfKingz911

7 жыл бұрын

you should aim lowest

@msexlexi1606

7 жыл бұрын

Zilke Barkhuysen, but you do deserve the guy and actually better. You should aim at least as high.

@dianedizayee2439

6 жыл бұрын

Zilke Barkhuysen Rather than thinking that you should aim lower, why not think " He definitely wasn't a fit for me. Next time, I will aim higher" Then be grateful that it didn't work out as you were probably spared years is disappointment and a huge heartache.

@redfather5342

5 жыл бұрын

Damn straight bitch

@KURTrek

4 жыл бұрын

Zilke Lourens, That can be problematic, ranking people on a ladder. Don’t listen to me tho cause I tend to value brains, but then again, that’s gotten me rejected about a dozen times in a row. I say Care for the inner soul, everyones entire existence is 2 inches behind their eyeballs, why does it matter what vessel (or body) they are in?

"The person not only has the qualities we like but has more that we didn't even know we liked, yet!" Very true. I have met men where some of their qualities were mesmerizing but the whole picture WAS NOT. The guy for me, his qualities will make me melt. Think about all the best qualities of guys YOU have found intriguing and put them in *One Man (TIMES) More You Didn't Expect (EQUALS) The One That Chooses You or the Best Version for You!* Great Equation ***** you are ON IT, with this advice.

So much wisdom, it's unbelievable. Currently falling for someone but my guard is still up that this might happen, he is showing interest and everything is good but just because I'm so cynical I look for the worst case scenario and try and prepare myself- just in case.

@foooable

8 жыл бұрын

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Thank you for your words... I’ve been feeling pain for close to 3 weeks now, trying to wrap my head around why it happened when everything seemed like it was going well. This gives me some comfort..

@estherjoes5903

3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

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sometime you just give up on trust ,when you have been hurt so much you so afraid that giving all of you to that special someone,they are millions of people out there that feel the same way to ,just hoping someone comes along and save us because after all love is all that matter .... ..