I'm cut, cut, cutting cords Ace...woo, I'm in my IDGAF season...all that bullsh!t talking these beta men are doing nowadays, I'm not trying to hear it!...it's falling on deaf ears now. Boundaries firmly in place, 💯. You don't want to earn me, then take your ass on. I'm not a therapist, a band aid, an option, a maybe...naw bro, kick rocks! So thankful you keep it real bro. Much love ✌️.

@irmabryant6979

10 күн бұрын

Don’t forget bank because some of them see you have a few nice things automatically think they’re entitled to the funds $$$😮

@Hardworkdedication777

9 күн бұрын

Everything you said. Everything you said I swear is on point 💯💯💯✅

@stylephyles8932

9 күн бұрын

Yup…some woman don’t want to wait and be pretending…we got F@Ck men & woman out here in these streets…Let’s be real…No real plan to stand on business so that you won’t be taken advantage of…Don’t do it to yourself…same game person after person year after year…No discipline and that’s why woman keep getting played…It’s called insanity.

@datingdiaries1681

10 сағат бұрын

This

I'm not dickmatized either...that sh!t don't matter if the mf who has that magic stick comes with a bunch of disappointment, headaches, confusion, and overthinking...oh hell no. No thank you 🙅🏽‍♀️.

@chantemckeithan372

15 күн бұрын

Facts!!!! Some of these guys really think that penis and money can keep a real woman. They mistake these grown girls with a grown healed women.... It's won't work fellas...

@alondajohnson8101

6 күн бұрын

TEACH😮😮😊😊😊

@chrysteenakin

6 күн бұрын

❤❤❤💯👸​@@alondajohnson8101

Don’t give it away ladies.. it’s not candy!!

You are so on point! Patience is key. I was talking to a man consistently for three months, went on two dates. I did not have sex with him, he did not know where I stayed. He saw that I was not easy so he ghosted me. I didn’t question him as to why he’s not responding. I just let it go and move on. It basically showed his intentions.

@reestillbloom

8 күн бұрын

😊

Nena Simone sang an important part in one of her songs "When love is no longer being served, get up from the table" 💯💯💯💯

The true test is when you meet your type … gotta stand firm mama… it’s hard af but no more contributing to my own heartbreak

I listened to this 3 times in a row. It was the scolding I needed to get from a man. Thank you

@ranifaulk26

9 күн бұрын

Me too sis

I really should keep my legs closed 😔

Settling is still rejection. They don’t really want you if they aren’t willing to see,know and love you for who you are. They only have a facade and usually a drama fiilled, chaotic sad situationship. Peace is great.

“Talking about ima wait 90 days to give it up you waited 9 hours” noooooooo 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Don't be sorry some of us need to hear this

You're right, we are stringing ourselves along

Ace out here dropping 💣s 🎯‼️😂

@tnt3929

9 күн бұрын

He really is!!!❤

Gods way..is the way. THINK ABOUT IT

@goddesstreasure

9 күн бұрын

💯♥️

@islandgirlxx3465

9 күн бұрын

Totally agree. I'm a christian and for me is no kissing, no sexual touching and no sex before marriage. I was talking to a man for a very long time. He seems consistent, loving, kind. He offered me a trip to see him in his home country and he paid for the tickets. He wanted to pay for hotel too. I told him I would like a seperate room. He got upset and wanted us to stay in the same room cause he wanted to be able to sleep next to me and kiss me. I communicated my standards to him he was still pressuring me. When I stand on my standards all of a sudden he wasn't as interested anymore. Well, he did me a favour. It showed me that he is a boy and not a man. Not emotionally mature. Instead of focusing on connecting with me on an emotional level..he was more focus on the physical part. People will always reveal themselves and he showed me on time. Now that we cut off all communication now I make space for the man that God has for me.

Welp there you have it!! I needed to hear this!! I have standards and I've been single for so long because I have standards that I'm not deviating from!! I'm looked at like I'm an alien and told I must have baggage. ...naw!!! My bags have been empty of BS and full of standards!! Thank you for this!!

I love you ACE! Calling a spade ♠️ a spade!! 😂

Yoooo ace…. This the one right here!!! I feel like I got my ass beat by my daddy 😩😩😩😩😩

@October3074

14 күн бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

Yes when you walk away from your " type " thats growth . Especially before it even gets started .

Who is going to teach these grown boys how to be men, It's not ALWAYS the woman ijs.

True I had to hold myself accountable about my decisions and what I allowed to begin with .by the time you look up you’re down the rabbit hole of a mf expecting you to give & give and they don’t have to do anything to get it. no matter who it is it’s levels. you have to see each other in y’all 4 seasons to even determine if that’s someone you could trust in your space forever . Boundaries and standards ladies! we’re not taking chances any more we’re taking receipts and reciprocation .let’s see what he truly stand on . That takes time it’s ok to take it slow and observe! So when you know you know 🤷🏽‍♀️

Dropping truths HILARIOUSLY

You know us better than we know ourselves! We need your strong advice. Thank you

Sometimes even when you give them time and withhold certain things, and they go out of their way for you ... .and you still get burned and told they love you but don't want commitment :( It's true .... it's hard not let it get to you having standards and then having real feelings ....

Amen 🙏🏾 straight FACTS💯 These men nowadays aint worth shit ‼️ US as women gotta love ourselves more & stand on business .. yall go for anything . NOT me , this video was confirmation that I’m doing exactly what I’m supposed to do.

@detricegaines1889

10 күн бұрын

Amen lady!! 👏🏾

"proficient basic adult things" hit me like a ton of bricks!! damn, the truth hurts. i was blinded by a lexus, a good city job, and some generosity. then he turned around and ghosted me after we spent the weekend together. thats his true form. the ghoster. the unavailable

It was a crazy trauma bond

@kysharooks5219

10 күн бұрын

Yes

Not one word came out of your mouth was a lie!!!!!

You are talking directly to me. Thank you for this, I haven’t had anyone talk to me like this in years. I needed to hear this….

Thank you for the truth..it doesn't hurt. It is refreshing and most welcome!❤

Aye Ace I'm offended because I'm a carpenter apprentice so I'm literally "Barbara da builder" working heavy highway! Most men are intimidated by me. My Dad instilled in me to be a hardworker & he said one day a man will fall head over heels in love with me. So I will keep grinding and continue to wait while I swing my hammer.

This video gave me goosebumps! I'm embarrassed to say that I recently lowered my standards to a dusty bum but NEVER again! 😡

Most people don't respect what they didn't earn...sad but this is where the world is at... When having conversations with co-workers & I tell women to stop with the sex you should see men's faces... it's like their heart has dropped at the thought of this happening. SMH if this doesn't make you wanna reinvent the game, i dont know what will.🤦

Ace bloopers are so funny and cute 😂🥰

Ace you stepping all on my toes😢 this is pure Castor Oil but I'm still taking it. Love You Sir for the bitter truth!

I DISCOVERED THAT I AM TOO GOOD FOR THE B.S.... and my self esteem, peace of mind and self respect is cool being single and I don't care what noboy says or thinks about it. 😊

Thank you, sir!! I appreciate your reminders. As a woman in her 50's..I know better. Letting basic stuff impress me.

Whewwwww!!! He is talking real truth!!!

Ace- you crack me up !!! Thank you for ALWAYS keeping it real❤

You are funny as heck...them lil pistols..i was weak

❤ Thank You so Much 😢 i needed this everything you saying im dealing with it and word for wors that's been my life preach genuinely and respectfully applied you. V

Ace you went off this entire video, thank you! 🙌🏽

Bro are u speaking to me 😂lol dayum you are good 🎉

Men be strung out too . If he isnt strung out for you he doesnt want us.

This is what I need to hear tonight. I’m feeling this way because he’s letting me feel this way. Thank you

Always dropping free Gemstones! You’re appreciated and I’m always tuned in💙 Keep living in your truth. I’m listening and applying to where it applies.

I been keeping my legs closed about a year

❤God is speaking through u TRULY YOU ARE THE MAN AND GOD WENT IN

📌📌it 😌😌🙌🏽🙌🏽 Mood: Forever 😮‍💨😮‍💨 Sometimes (Us) women want LOVE.. Thanks for sharing.. 🖤🖤

Sent this to the group chat fr

Hilarious but 100% truth!!😂😂

@steph.no.stylist3863

6 күн бұрын

Baby he left no crumbs. I’m bout to cry in the car !

Lord have mercy !!! A woman’s mind and heart and eyes are her biggest enemy . No lies told cause baby then rules change quick when it’s a certain type of man ! The ones we like . We become fools overnight! Jesus I cover myself under your blood.😅.

I hear you I'm to good and nice and I'm taken advantage of

Oh yess truth, you spoke a mouthful 💯💯💯🔥

You going in. We appreciate you.❤

Thank you, I’m officially single

We too weak. It's time to stop being weak ladies.

I rather be single

This is my second time in a row...Thank you Ace

I appreciate ur growth Ace! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

😂😂😂😂omg I’m dead ur hilarious

Teach Brotha so true👍🏿

Ace you are right on time with this. Thank you ❤

Standards usually will require us to walk alone.

i really needed yo hear this thank you

Your right Ace. Tell it like it is! I thank you.

We too grown to be dickmatized. Smh

Grand Rising Queen!🤣🤣💃🏽

You're so right 💯.

Truth brother love when you talk love all your videos bless you ❤❤❤❤🎉

This! Was Everything!!!

thank you so much i really needed this

Thanks Ace ❤

I feel attacked but it’s the truth

This is so true 🎉

Whew preach lhh

This is empowering, thank you

So, on point, ACE

Exactly the man of my dreams is a outsider

I know better given my keys to my emotions to a man

I should have kept my legs closed a long time ago

I love your show your vibe your personality etc. I subscribed.... plus you mad funny 😊👍🏿

I don’t know how to make him earn it😢 thank you for helping me Ace Metaphor

I agree with this message

hard truth!

I loooooveeee ittttttttttt!!!! Real real life💯💯💯

Thank you

That nice shit is the MASK 😂😂😂😂we literally u said Mask and I was writing it in the comment

The way you are telling this all is so so funny 😂 thanks tho🙏

Ok u did great

I need to learn the basic

My man show no remorse

Facts!!!

Wow!!

I was missing you. I love your lectures. Kudos.

Whew! 💯

I love the new thumbnail

Your the truth (although it hurts and makes me feel stupid 😂) it’s what it is. Now being that the earning has been given how do I revert back because being “WOKE” whewwwwwwww!!

Single is a mindset

Coming from Raleigh NC

@kysharooks5219

10 күн бұрын

In Winston Salem NC

Daaaamnnn 🎯