I honestly commend people who are married with kids in today’s society. I don’t know how people have time to be a parent, wife/husband, care for self, and work 40+hours a week. Bravo to you ALL. May you continue to prosper in all areas.

@sidfalcon7714

5 ай бұрын

To be these 3 things sometimes one of them is lacking..You don't/won't always be able to be the best husband or the best father or the best employee with losing your ish from all the day to day bull-ish you experience..Some mask it with drugs & alcohol others "disappear" for pockets of time..But thanks for the acknowledgement..❤

@tinyking11

5 ай бұрын

No lie I agree. When I had my son with my ex I definitely lacked being an attentive girlfriend at times bc all of my energy was being put into being a good mom. I commend people that can do all 3-4 areas bc I was fighting for my life trying to do all of that except I wasn’t married.

Tripp has wisdom from his experiences, and we're all blessed because of it. Even us married ones.

@JackieS812

5 ай бұрын

I love his insight and his wisdom! There a lady on here also that’s just as intellectual and, has strong insight! Ms. Kitti

I think taking a step back to heal and decide what you want is a good thing. Rather than continue to self destruct,self sabotage, repeat toxic cycle

@user-zw2rp4qp3j

5 ай бұрын

Yes!! Your absolutely right! 🫶🏾

@akeemguy7331

5 ай бұрын

Feels like this is exactly the mistake i'm making.. the self sabotage part

@vaclinciapounds8859

5 ай бұрын

Exactly!!! 💯 💯 💯

@user-xy2of1cd6l

5 ай бұрын

I agree 👏🏽

I ended my toxic 3yr relationship on 01/01/24. I am currently taking the remainder of 2024 to heal and find myself again. Even though he treated me bad I also take blame for allowing the relationship to go on out of familiarity with him/just having someone vs being alone. I am falling in love with myself all over again. Setting boundaries for myself and getting into therapy to figure out my core issues. I’ll definitely be a better woman for the next man but I wanna be a better woman for myself whether I’m single or not.

@megandaniels3875

5 ай бұрын

You got this.. I'm two year single this fall. I'm still loving him. But I know I'm in better place without him. I can't make people grow up. Or be who I want them to be. I say that daily ❤.

@m.joiw7

5 ай бұрын

I ended a 16 year situationship right before Covid. I'm still recovering. It's a process. ❤ Peace ✌🏾Queen👸🏽

@the_shadow_healer

4 ай бұрын

🙏🏾🫂 I am in the same boat ended it 2022 and doing still the self work and self healing. Self work and healing isn't easy but it's so worth the effort. You will look back and be amazed at your progress.. Give yourself grace as you traverse this new road. You got it! 🙏🏾🫂

@tyshawnwilson3412

4 ай бұрын

That’s my problem idk what boundaries are frfr .. I’m in the process of unlearning and relearning; deconstruction and reconstruction.. it’s tough . I agree w you tho this year is for me to truly heal and properly.

@Adoseof_Ri

17 күн бұрын

I know that’s right ❤

Been saying this for a minute. But if it don't come with a medical diagnosis, nobody wanna listen. Folks just need a reset.

I tell my friends all the time, but some people just can’t be alone. Thats the issue

Dating burnout is real!! Imagine getting to know someone & then that shift in energy happens. Now you have to disassociate yourself from them & move forward but its so hard cause the chemistry was everything!!

@Wubby805

5 ай бұрын

That part💔 Bruh...

@guyyscotty

5 ай бұрын

@@Wubby805 trust me bruh, its crazy lol. But you come first! so close that chapter & keep pushing 💪🏿

@yudelkagomez5854

4 ай бұрын

​@@guyyscottyexactly 😊

@the_shadow_healer

4 ай бұрын

Or was it surface level chemistry and the shift is a reminder to self heal and self love.....🙏🏾🫂

@Derekperseverance

2 ай бұрын

Aye I’m late but yea bro , I feel the same way. The way you described it , is literally the worst part for me. Bro I’ve been through a dozen girls the last few months that fell apart that I’ve had a few dates with. That shit gets exhausting wasting all that time to build chemistry just for it to not work. I need to take like a few month break to more focus on myself.

When it comes to dating I think people should date who they actually like. Be open to dating IF that’s what you even want. You shouldn’t have people around just for the sake of having someone around. If you’re just TOLERATING someone and they’re open to dating you, all you’re going to do is make them jaded. Sometimes the single life is better.🤷🏾‍♂️

I swear if this man started a church tomorrow, I'd join. Many people aren't even on this level of self-awareness. He's not taking sides. He's just being real. Most of us could heal a lot faster and end the cycle of toxic relationships if we could be that honest with ourselves. Instead, we'd rather point fingers at each other instead of taking accountability for our own mistakes/issues.

This is exactly where I’m at now. I admit that I’m jaded and need to be alone.

@DeeDe730

5 ай бұрын

Same here

I respect your self reflection my brother. Honesty looks good on everyone.

His mental is soooooo Enlightening. LOVE a Self Aware Individual...Blessings him always and thanking you Tripp for the Honesty and Transparency 🩷

This guy is so honest and u love it he so attractive with his words and ho he carries himself. I really can dig a man like this 😊😊😊😊

#TRIP YOUR HONESTY IS VERY RARE 🖤🎯🔥

Taking a break from dating and going celibate is the best thing I did

I admire Tripp so much...his delivery and upright approach...I dig...❤❤❤

2024…I’m back to dating MySelf. #LoveMeSomeMe 🦋🦋🦋

Currently am in this situation after getting played by the last 2 women I was involved with.. shit hurt deep

Right there with you Tripp! Biological mama hurt me, then my adopted my hurt me. Then a few women in the dating world hurt me. It got to a point where, I had to look in the mirror… changed my Life

I truly believe in taking a break from dating, worst when there continuous bad cycles. Step back, take time to heal and see where your going wrong and boundaries need to make.

Word up💯His Wisdom is True 🔥take time out to heal, look at myself before I move forward again in Dating atmosphere 🤔

I'm going through my healing process, and it's okay to renew one's self.

@DeeDe730

5 ай бұрын

Same here

I honestly have nothing to say. He hit every point I wanted to make. And yes, I'm burnt out. I've been burnt-out since about 2004 and it hasn't really gotten any better. But I have to keep moving forward because if I don't, my demons will catch me & kill me. I can't allow that because there are things that need doing in this life & it's up to me to get them done.

I do think that we need to normalize putting ourselves up and just spending quality time hanging out with self for a little while. It's a beautiful experience.

Healing after a relationship can take time and it's important to be gentle with yourself. It can be helpful to focus on self-care, spend time with supportive friends and family, and consider seeking professional support if needed. It's also important to reflect on the lessons learned and to envision a positive future. #BigUpAndTrust

He's right. I'm burned out and not dealing with anyone.

I honor the voice of Tripp. Wisdom is offered freely

Tripp don't miss

It's so true and honest listening to you guys and I thank you for the insight

There is still hurt, bitterness, and a little misogyny there. I hear it in his comments all the time. But at least he’s aware and acknowledges it. He’s still growing, learning, and developing. ❤️

this guy is funny af 😂 aye he's spitting facts tho... sometimes u just gotta disengage and regroup

Luv dis dude......he's da real fukn deal. We must b kin....cuz I giv u unfiltered fukn truuut!! Grt analogy too.😊😊😊

The fact that this resonates with so many is proof of its validity.

Aint no person walking this earth ever Jaded me to the point I'm going to treat someone else messed up. 🤷 Again I am so Grateful and I am so Thankful to not have these problems 🙏

The thing is you don’t have to be bitter to do this also folks gotta stop acting like being in a relationship or having a man is some kind of validation thing it’s crazy

When I decided to take a break then stop dating altogether...guys who approach mostly villify me for it. Like, I'm supposed to only make the exception for them.

I feel that. I have opted out of the dating scene because I know I'm not ready. First, I was bitter, then I was desperate, and now I'm just hopeless. Don't no man wanna deal with dat so...I'm out! If I ever feel completely whole, maybe I'll jump back in. Or maybe I'll be content with myself and never return.

Free wisdom!! I’ve been out the dating pool for almost 2 years. I did not want to be a bitter ex. I was hurt and definitely did not want to bleed on someone else. It wasn’t easy being on that healing journey alone but I appreciate that time to myself. And that’s what a lot of people need to do…take time to heal before dating again.

Too much of anything is bad. Life is about balance.

This God Message Always Hit

My break has been 7 years. Drama after drama from women. The last one I thought was it, career woman smart. Then one day, Accused me of cheating. We both go to the doctor and she had the gift that keeps on giving and I got lucky I didn’t catch it! After that I was done.

I did... Not 2023/2024 and on. Last relationship 💔 has definitely left me😢. All he has said last 5/ ten shorts. I agree. Trying to work on me before I go further in life. Definitely take ownership of my wrong doing. I'm living my best life 💖🧬 solo. Open to relationships but not looking ❤

All I can say is Right'on . 👊🏽

Fam be droppin them jewels

That’s why I stopped dating 8 years ago…..but 4 years ago some one caught my attention and snatched my soul. Yo! I tried to fight it….I tried to be “interested” in other people and attempt to date again. I really tried. Now, I’m just here soulless and heartless 😂….. Ma’am imma need my heart and soul back

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I just came off a 2 year relationship we broke up in November. Im actually genuinely happy and not bitter. I have no ill will towards him. My friend keep trying to get me out dating and im like im not in the mood. Not because im bitter or jaded i just want to sit in this moment. This is the happiest ive been in years i wanna enjoy it in peace and not in the dating rat race. But to be honest dating is exhausting especially the older you get. The constant obsession with marriage and relationships is exhausting.

So true 👍🏾

Yess

that's a big bar at the end

Self awareness and reset is necessary. Otherwise, how will you know what you need to adjust or correct

Agreed! 😂❤

That’s Real Trip

I agree

Mannn if this ain’t the truth. I just told this man I called myself trying to date that I have become a bitter and angry person (not woman, but person). Long story short I’ve done my share of dirt in my early dating years (16-23).. and after having my first son at 23 years old, I tried being serious in relationships. Clearly that was a fail bc my head and spirit wasn’t right.. from then up until at 27 years old i was genuinely trying to be on the dating scene but I was being did so wrong.. then I was baptized (at 27 ) and I THOUGHT I had the right idea.. but man no. I didn’t start really FEELING anything until I was 29 and now 30.. I am now just being able to come to a realization that I’m effected by what I did to others and what others especially have done to me.. and long story short again I desperately need and want to heal.. I hate how angry and bitter I am rn …

💯💯💯

I took a break then came my hubby 😊

Yep, I needed that.... .....fuck!!

I took a 8 year break, I’m not sure if I should have waited that long though

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So Glad I don't have these problems 😂😂😂

well technically if one pissed in pool the pool doesn’t has chlorine this most definitely justifies him point😂

🔥🔥🔥👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🔥🔥🔥💣🎤

Trippology 101

Well..... Sin leads to destruction.... Facts.... You get tired if. Sin.... Call it. Wat. It. Is.... Acceptance..... Is....apart....of.... The. Best.... also....apart of the worse.... Accept...your. wrongs....and....Correct...yourself... not mistreat yourself or. Nobody else..... 2. Timothy 3:16.... Be. Ready to do every. Good. Works....

Most people are selfish, they have a god complex and they think they are something special. Everyone is trying to do the least amount of work but expect optimal results. Taking a break is cool I get it, but what do you achieve....... most become narcissistic They try to associate with other people they believe are unique or gifted in some way, which can enhance their own self-esteem. They tend to seek excessive admiration and attention and have difficulty tolerating criticism or defeat.

What was the goal of that show? were they planning to just spit deep facts all night?

Bro why is this dude in my feed...I don't care...it's bad enough he randomly on my facebook

Its giving weird to me when I meet men and women friends that have never had a break. Like how you always been in a relationship?🫤

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