Tripp just needs to teach a master class. He got it!

I agree w/ this and can say I fall short of not always accepting all communication styles when it’s not appeasing to me , not recognizing we all communicate differently and there can be “emotional intelligence” in diff forms of speech .

@shadowalkerwho

Ай бұрын

I think a big gain in achieving that is learning to catch yourself and stopping to check-in on what set you off when you reacted. The pause to check and see if what you received was what was intended can do a LOT to defuse and bridge that gap. But it hinges on being able to recognize and stop yourself when you feel your gears slip, because maybe there was a valid reason to be upset OR maybe it was just receiving something as other than it was intended. It's important to be able to take that breath and acknowledge that the way I took it, and what made me angry in that moment may not have been what was meant. And when you check-in to clarify it needs to be a question of "Is this what you meant? ... " paraphrasing your interpretation of their words and *not* an accusation of "You meant this" or "You said this" but a genuine intention of clarifying meaning. The paraphrasing is important because the literal words said and the meaning intended and the meaning received are each distinct from one another and you aren't there to confirm what words they said but whether you took the intended meaning from those words.

@shelbyspellman3046

Ай бұрын

@@shadowalkerwho this is real ! I heard someone say trauma isn’t what’s happening in the moment, it’s a past experience… like you said you have to pause and ask am I fighting what’s in front of me or am I fighting what’s past ?

So true, alot of ppl often forget due to work and other social environments is where alot of various vocabulary is articulated but unfortunately forget when they're engaging in conversations with that are emotional with their significant other. I know of some ppl who attempt to use that as a means to assert themselves over their loved one seizing control the situation and it does more damage because the other is frustrated and left feeling hurt.

This is a complex topic... but I love tht yall are talking about it....this is just my opinion... but I think Emotional intelligence and articulation are not gifted to anyone....jus like having an in shape body..isn't gifted... it's created over time no one is born with Emotional intelligence..it's something we can work on and get better at... the same with articulation someone who is not articulate can become articulate over time by working on it

Deeds NOT Words can be even more powerful and impactful

@christopherchristie4642

4 ай бұрын

I love it! I was similarly told a long time ago, "A man of many words, without deeds, is like a garden full of weeds."

I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND, AND AGREE 💯🖤

Alright Trip! Love your insight!

I wish I was this skilled with my words. This guy CONSISTENTLY says everything that i think but don’t always have the words to express it!!

@digfitness7598

5 ай бұрын

I grew listening to people like him and my life talk so learned to take a deep breath and articulate my words from copy what I saw. I saw adults take a deep breath and spoke with clarity. And readying varies books to strengthen one's vocabulary helps a lot 🤣😄

@xMister.Misterx

5 ай бұрын

@@digfitness7598 not sure if you’re ironically trolling me with your response about being articulate and leaving out words and misspelling other words, or if your comment is genuine 🤔

Facts. Even if it could be cut on an off, that's not healthy. That energy has to go somewhere and come out somehow

I love this group ❤

The problem is people that _say_ "not right now;" often are the same people that will _never_ bring it up again even when their good time" occurs.

Tripp doesn’t know what emotional intelligence is. I’ve seen him give unemotional responses to many question

Brother "Tripp" always has his shoes tied 🤞🏽

ALSO people don’t respect boundaries.

Emotional intelligence = Understanding Articulate = Communication In order to be emotional intelligent you must understand & be self aware of others emotions but you must interpret interactions, response, & communicate effectively. It all goes hand to hand

@Dawood-pi8ly

6 ай бұрын

Emotional = can’t think straight so therefore you reject logic which is intelligence because one must think. How many bad decisions are made based on emotion? Huh? My cousin got 10yrs doing something stupid because of his emotions. Those words are polar opposites and I see women is trying to confuse men and trick them into being feminine. Not me.

I appreciate the explanation 🤔 I will definitely implement this technique in future situations.

Correct cauSe He Busy Trying To Scam The Boi Though Again 🥶

Thank you young man. I need to send this to a few people for them to gather their thoughts. One of them especially, because he's in another world right now. I won't mention his name because he's well known and people think that he has all of his S together but he don't. Really I'm not pleased on his thought process, and I really think that he's spoiled by his significant other for what she has done for him.

Thank you

I fully agree i remember when my husband told me if i say not right now we will talk later. Ijust walk away

I’m really surprised that you haven’t expanded on what emotional benevolence is versus emotional intelligence because they’re related ideas but they’re not the same thing

I felt this makes perfect sense 😊

*"Having some savings is worth it, but having investments is the wisest decision one can ever make, in order to be financially stable"...I heard this from someone* 🥰

@clarissajasmine8607

6 ай бұрын

From NY city, I have a lot to say about her; but I'll only say "no regrets for inves'ting with Tonya Evans"

@Theresd5788

6 ай бұрын

True. I first came across investing in the market in 2019. Already stashed about $80k in savings then, and the free money from the Government was pouring in, increasing inflation rate. I just got an advisor and kept the money there, just because I didn't want to keep the value of the money depreciating in the bank. Tbh, it's the best investment decision I've made since then.

@ronduece9066

6 ай бұрын

And she got a phat azz

@sunofabob

6 ай бұрын

Shut up bots!

I LOVE HIM 100%

I can articulate, stimulate an penetrate the mental and emotional to relieve, yet the set up for failure I'm not indulging anymore

I’m articulate with words but not that good at emotional intelligence however I’m aware of how I should deliver a response

girl had to correct herself mid-laugh

He’s absolutely right

Emotionally intelligent. True

Many people have to be upset to communicate.

It's crazy ppl have to be taught this😖

Let's be real that's acceptable once or twice but that can't be your go-to move.

Very well said God.

Hey guys the video should be entitled different, it would be read with more clarity. A person can be “emotionally intelligent” even if they struggle with articulation. A person can be “considered” emotionally intelligent even if they struggle with articulation. A person can be possess emotional intelligence yet struggle to effectively articulate. I’m sure there are better ways to write what I did as well, however I didn’t want to exclude any important words in the original title. Hopefully this isn’t taken with any offense. I appreciate the content I just wanted to help 🖤✨

@logicalblackman8228

6 ай бұрын

The word is “titled,” not “entitled.” Entitled means you deserve something.

@moniquelaing9433

6 ай бұрын

@@logicalblackman8228 correct sir! Thanks for noticing that. The word should have been “titled” not sure why I wrote that. Happy New Year ✨

@logicalblackman8228

6 ай бұрын

@@moniquelaing9433 Thanks! You too!

@moniquelaing9433

6 ай бұрын

@@logicalblackman8228 Thank You 🖤✨

Kita has a crush, I can tell😄

@kammyr4082

6 ай бұрын

Kita has a man I believe. He's just the most sensible male up there. It's easy to agree

I'm a be devils advocate a Lil and say the words emotional and intelligence should not be next to each other in a phrase

@kammyr4082

6 ай бұрын

Why should they not? One doesn't negate the other....like at all. Humans have feelings. They will never be just one thing. Emotional---feeling Intelligence--a mental capacity Both require a brain to function...

No Comments' Because Everybody' Busy Scamming

Bruh! 🎯

Okay what happens when we do try to set that time to talk but the person wants to disappear for a week plus?!

@user-jk3nz3sp3o

6 ай бұрын

He or she ain’t worth your time anymore 🤷🏽‍♂️

@mdumagutla4292

6 ай бұрын

@@user-jk3nz3sp3o it hurts though... Especially if you love the person

@logicalblackman8228

6 ай бұрын

When you say “disappear, “do you mean they ghost you for a week or just don’t want to talk about that specific conflict? Depending on the situation, ghosting for a week might not be the worst thing. It depends on what happened.

@user-jk3nz3sp3o

6 ай бұрын

@@logicalblackman8228I guess context does matter here but I’m speaking from a long term living together relationship situation, there should be no reason we go a week plus not talking about the issue in front of us … it shows what you prioritize in our relationship & it damn sure ain’t us lol

@user-jk3nz3sp3o

6 ай бұрын

@@mdumagutla4292 take your time let it hurt & strengthen you , also add that to your list of communication standards in your next relationship that way you never feel that kind of hurt again

Brother Tripp on point… turn things into a fetish man

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🤔 They ain't lying because I don't understand why everybody keep saying cheesecake factory??

So glag i bought all my fitted caps before they put the new era sign on all the them ..dont like it at all

I hate that phrase emotionally intelligent. You can’t be emotional and logical at the same damn time. Logic is intelligent because one must rationalize and reevaluate the problem or situation. Men-don’t let these women bamboozle you into being emotional. Stay logical stay intelligent-an emotional person can’t think straight like the coach for the lions who was emotional after a bad call then became stubborn and cost them the game.

@kammyr4082

6 ай бұрын

Are you a psychologist? Did you go to school at fckn all?😂 Intelligence is being able to listen to a discussion and not immediately turn it into a fckn gender war like you're a child.

If women handled emotional intelligence like this maybe I wouldn't call it bull shit when they pulled that word out of there azzz 😅

Goofy dudes trying to prove they have emotions!!!! Gtfoh 🤣🤣🤣

@kammyr4082

6 ай бұрын

Everybody has them. If emotional intelligence was TAUGHT PROPERLY, blk males wouldn't be out here killing one another....blk women and kids at high rates. The intelligence part escapes a lot of yall.... just out here emotional...