We need more youthful 40+ KZreadrs like you to share because the space is so saturated and focused on the 20 something yr olds that are just having fun and no substance. I’ve always enjoyed the quality of your content. I look forward to seeing what you have to say and share. Big up to the 35 and over crew!

@tiasmith6223

Жыл бұрын

That’s so true. A good mix is necessary

@cassondralynch6342

Жыл бұрын

As a 40 yr old I don't look up to the Bella's, the Kendall's, Addison Rae or any other young and famous influencer. They're borderline children to me. It's nice being a full adult that literally isn't influenced by the bullshit. There's tons of great content with non 20 something's here :)

@tishainnis

Жыл бұрын

@@cassondralynch6342 I agree for the most part. I haven’t found many 40+ KZreadrs who look much younger than 40+, dress hip and stylish and are women of color on KZread. I’m looking for those channels, Maya is one of them and another is Fumi Vold Desalu. I feel like I relate more to that category. I just discovered another channel, focused at forty. Very small channel but good content. I’m open for more suggestions if you have. 😊

@forthdimension686

Жыл бұрын

Lots of people in their 20's and younger have "substance". You're just no longer in that age bracket, you had your shot let them have theirs.

@cassondralynch6342

Жыл бұрын

@@forthdimension686 Such an unnecessary comment.

as someone who’s 27 and constantly stressing about being almost 30 and achieving nothing knowing you started your channel at 30 and have had such life fulfilling experiences in the past decade is comforting and inspiring to hear

@shamelessmaya

Жыл бұрын

I got you!

@sehwheatmanna3434

Жыл бұрын

Me too, I'm 26 and I know I'm young, but the worries persist 🙃

@CrissyRayaASMR

Жыл бұрын

Omg! Me too! I'm 25 and I'll be 26 this August. I can't help but frequently obsess and stress about the future and how I'll be 30 soon. The reality of "growing older" just frightens me and causes anxiety, but I just have to remember that we're still young and we have plenty of timee! There's so much life left to cherish!

@nataliewalters2759

Жыл бұрын

I remember being almost 3O feeling the same way , but 30 is actually still very young!😂 You are really just starting real adult life then . Iam 41 now and people always think Iam either in my late 20’s or 30. Enjoy your season because you still have such much life ahead of you . Like Maya I got married to a toxic man at 31 and then divorced almost a year later. I am not married to the man of my dreams you loves God and treats me with unconditional love. There is no time frame where you need accomplish something . Those are the worlds standards. Gods got you life in His hands if you let Him. My hubby started his two successful business at 29/30 and now we are almost multimillionaires . Again, life is your journey and when we compare ourselves to others we are doing ourselves an unjust service .

I think even for women who don't want to become mothers, it's vital that we learn about postpartum care so we know how we can support our friends, sisters, and aunties. I am 48 y/o childfree, and just graduated as a mental health counselor with a sub-niche in traumatic births. I started my program at 41, but life happened, and I had to take a break for a couple of years. Girl, the forties, mentally, are so grounding! Thank you for sharing your journey with us, Maya!

@shamelessmaya

Жыл бұрын

AGREED!!!! We should just know as women and a society!

@femdivinemind7777

Жыл бұрын

💯💯💯💯💯💯

@bianca4829

Жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏!!!

@zaink.7243

Жыл бұрын

men should learn to. only putting that responsibility/burden on women adds to a lot of issues. but i get what you're saying!

@femdivinemind7777

Жыл бұрын

@@zaink.7243 this is true - but as a standard all women should have this training

This is POWERFUL. I turned 30 this year and question if I've even begun to start living at all. I'm also from Toronto, ON! I've always found you to be an inspiration. but to find out the iconic Shameless Maya era begun at 30? I feel empowered. Your story has and always will be full of empowering, newfangled adventures! We must live -- and you my dear, you LIVE.

@shamelessmaya

Жыл бұрын

Yes child! I started my digital life here at 30! Life is beautiful! Trust in God and the process 🙏🏾✨

@Bronxchick92

Жыл бұрын

I agree with you. This is powerful. I been watching Maya for about a decade from her in LA. I remember when she cut her hair and talking about embracing your natural hair. I turned 30 last year and I am wondering about life too. My uncle mentioned to me that it gets better in your 30's. What I can say is take what you learned about yourself in your 20's and see if you can apply it to your 30's.

@sammierose1150

Жыл бұрын

@@shamelessmaya girl you still look 30! 😍 Asian and African genes come through 😩🙌

@belisebibi2399

Жыл бұрын

Wow all my 30s girls❤❤ we got this!!

@queenmia1965

Жыл бұрын

“I just wanted to do life for ME.” 🤍

I LOVE seeing a woman in her 40s just owning the shit out of her age and still living life to the fullest. Its such a breath of fresh air and makes me feel really freaking happy about how many decades I (hopefully) have in front of me.

@emmarose9466

Жыл бұрын

​@@kellyjuneit's needed! Aging is such a blessing, nothing to be sad about!

@cassondralynch6342

Жыл бұрын

I mean, isn't the whole thing really about not wanting to look old? That's what it is for me (who does) and at 40 you don't. I can't believe society is so ageist it's brave and celebrated to be ok and proud about being 40 lol. It's sad! No shade on her or anyone here, but lets talk again when we all start having marks on our bodies that last months just for gently bumping something, our skin sags, our hair loses it's luster and we become practically invisible to people. Especially men. I feel like that's the apt time to be cheering one another on in a world that made any damn sense.

i love myself, now at 40, more then i ever have. working towards a better future, etc. it’s NEVER TOO LATE. hate it when people say that 40s, 50s is too late. NOPE. we can all do this

So proud of you and your journey Maya. I started watching you when I was 58. I am now 68 and I feel like an Aunty watching you travel, vlog, create, fall in love, marry and have Saga and living and loving with Max. It is a good feeling that I have gotten a chance to see you bloom, baby, bloom!🌻🌺🌹🌸🌷🏵️💐

@shamelessmaya

Жыл бұрын

10 years!!! Ain’t that something! Thank you for the support all these years!

@youtubestreets3915

Жыл бұрын

😍🎯💯

I loveeee this for you!! And yes you are NO WHERE NEAR OLD - old is a mentality. - you as a doula though… I love that 🤍 I’ve been wanting to be certified also ever since I gave birth and I still keep in contact with my own doula who assisted us.

@shamelessmaya

Жыл бұрын

We love us an Alba moment 💕🙏🏾 There can never be too many doulas! Courses, classes and learning is there whenever you’re ready!

@memp9786

Жыл бұрын

And I love you two supporting each other because I be over here cheering for the both of you gorgeous, smart, YOUNG ladies!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

I’m getting divorced and starting over at 40. This is inspiring and I’m staying positive that the pain that I’ve had to deal with is settling me up for future blessings. I’m so proud of the life I’ve lived so far and I’m going to keep it cruising! 💜

@kennethrobinson1672

5 ай бұрын

How's it going now

@MsTwiththeTea1980

4 ай бұрын

Blessings to you ❤

Your journey through divorce and motherhood has been a powerful reminder that we can overcome anything when we stay true to ourselves, your willingness to share your struggles and growth with us has been truly inspiring. I'm beyond excited to not only see what the next 10 years have in store for you but also to witness your journey for the next 60+ years to come!

@shamelessmaya

Жыл бұрын

🙏🏾✨ You and so many beautiful souls here are absolute angels. Thank you for joining me on this journey and let’s see what I’m talking about 50 years from now! 🤣

@lblack1961

Жыл бұрын

💖💖💖💖

I'm 29 and I feel like my life just begun and I'm trying new things and I actually remember when you started your channel. I spent all these years watching you live your life now I'm beginning mine inspired by you. Looking forward to seeing your 40s🎉

@Guruthosa

Жыл бұрын

Totally! 30 only feels like the starting line somehow!

@UniqueEbonyBeauty

Жыл бұрын

I'm 29 too and this sums everything up! ❤

@SimplySteph.

Жыл бұрын

I feel the same way

I’m 27 this year but I have been watching you since I was 17 🥹 I sometimes stopped watching but always come back to your videos and it’s like catching up with an old friend/ sister ☺️ I’m super proud of you!!! I hope 2023 is full of growth and fun times ! 🌱🙂

@kiiiwiththreeiiis

Жыл бұрын

You just about took all the words out my mouth. lol same age and all

Hi Maya thanks for sharing your story, that was inspiring! Am Glad I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I’m now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself . This is to encourage someone “you can start anytime to have a reset it’s worth it! I’m striving to continue growing cus it’s a journey 💗

@gracedaniels6172

Жыл бұрын

Congratulations sis! Thanks for encouraging others with your story, I will love to get tips from you too

@kimayaknight7180

Жыл бұрын

Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on... I hope it is useful to you.

@eiraantoinette6793

Жыл бұрын

How did you grow to 6 Figure ? I’m honestly trying to work on my personal finance this year.

@marcosalvatore673

Жыл бұрын

Congratulations that's a great accomplishment keep it going 👍

@kimayaknight7180

Жыл бұрын

I learnt to be frugal, minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through Investing, made Plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plan consistently.

Omg girl you were 30?? When I started watching you I thought you were in your twenties! Seeing your journey has been so inspiring. I’m about to be 33 and am only now starting to feel like I can start living my life. I’m excited to see more videos about this new endeavor!

I remember Mya when you shaved your hair and now I see you evolve into a beautiful mother and wife and made the big move to Sweden

I'm literally in the middle of my journey now at 37 years old! I can totally relate as I am also a child of immigrants and have turned my hardships into appreciation❤❤❤ and inspiration! Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful heartfelt story.

I'm not crying, you're crying. ❤ OMG, Maya... What an amazing journey!!! and I can't wait to see your next adventures. Here for around 8 or 9 years now. THANK YOU

As someone who has been here from the start and now I’m about to hit my 30s myself, I feel like my life is just now starting, and it’s so crazy to see how far you have come, I’m so happy to see you glowing and thriving all these years, ❤ thank you Maya for being you, wishing you and your family nothing but blessings!

@shamelessmaya

Жыл бұрын

Life really gets started in your 30s! 20s was a joke for me and a lot of others...I'm excited for this decade!

I'm 27 now and feel like the closer I creep to 30 and haven't reached my potential...the more I feel like I need to hurry up and I'm running out of time. I'm putting in the effort and growing bit by bit. But it's so therapeutic to see older women LIVING and growing and feeling like life has just started 😢

YEEESSS! When I'm on the journey to become a mum I'll be coming to you!!!!!

I’ll be 27 this year, and I’ve been watching you for years. My journey is different, but I’m so excited for this next chapter of my life.

@shamelessmaya

Жыл бұрын

All of our journey's are different! That's what makes it beautiful!

I came to your channel 9 years ago when you shaved off all your hair! And I’m still here 💜

Man, and here I am 24 years old at times questioning if I'll ever live the life I long for... Thank you & everyone else that's shared their stories here. I have been inspired & humbled in the most beautiful way💗 WOW...gratitude🙏🏾

@Jaden370

Жыл бұрын

You ABSOLUTELY can & WILL live the life you've been longing for if you really want it !💯

@Jaden370

Жыл бұрын

💞💞💞💞💞

I was doing my makeup yesterday and randomly yelled “blend trick blend!”. Thanks to you ❤

I am a 33 year old first time mum! I gave birth at home with a doula and a mid wife on 15/03/2023! Same as you I did lots of research and really relied on my intuition and my breathing exercices. I love the new chapter for you !! You never fail to surprise and inspire! Congratulations on everything. #ALongtimeFriend

I have been watching you since PRINCE EXPERIENCE... God is good

@LifebyJazzieey

Жыл бұрын

SAME! I’ve been watching for a minute!

Maya! I am so glad to have come across this video as I have been heavily considering & researching becoming a postpartum doula myself. Such wild but perfect timing to come across this video. I am 30 years old & there are so many things that I want to do with my life. So many life paths & avenues that I am open to and hoping to explore this decade. You also inspired my journey through celibacy. Thank you for being an inspiration. Blessings to you & your family ❤

I’m 35, turning 36 this year. Single mother to an almost 14 year old daughter. I honestly feel youthful still but don’t feel like I’m fully living in my purpose. I am still waiting for my husband lol and want more children. But in the meantime, I am loving this time with just me and my daughter. I just can’t wait to feel like I’m finally living and not surviving. Healing out of that scarcity mindset. But I know it will happen soon. And this year I’ve been strengthening my faith with god. This video was empowering! I’ve been a subscriber since 2012. Your journey is so beautiful. Thank you for continuing to share with us. Much love! 💕🙏🏽✨

@shamelessmaya

Жыл бұрын

That part! Scarcity! Prayer is great but level it up with the Bible!!! That hits hard!

@samanthaking7517

Жыл бұрын

@@shamelessmaya Definitely! I will start reading the Bible too. My words for this year is grace, faith, and discipline. Thank you! 🌻🙏🏽

@PreciousKofi

Жыл бұрын

I’m also a single mom and recently turned 36. I can so relate to strengthening the relationship with God. This year just has a very good aura about it and I send you love on your journey❤

@samanthaking7517

Жыл бұрын

@@PreciousKofi Definitely! I feel that it will too! Thank you lovely! Sending love to you on your journey as well. 💕🙏🏽🌻

Oh Maya you’re a GEM. Truly! I love how you articulated being gentle to yourself as a Mom and passing down sources of good ENERGY to your babies, and not just tangible things or generational wealth. That was profound and stood out for me. Can’t wait to see what you and Max share from your time in Guatemala! x

My heart is with you through this transition! I’ve been a supporting this channel for years and will continue to do so ❤

It is lovely to see you doing so well. Been following along on your journey for years now. It’s always been inspiring and fortifying to hear your thoughts. I’m sending you all the positive light

Maya - your journey has been a joy to follow. I started watching you when I was a teenager and now I'm 27. I have loved watching every part of your journey. In all your life transitions, you light has never dimmed. And the excitement I get when you drop a new video has never stopped. I pray that life continues to fortify your soul - you deserve every good thing!

You’re so right. As an immigrant, (Nigerian living in the U.K) who moved here in my second trimester, the pregnancy and post-partum journey hits me differently. It was so much harder doing it in a new environment and rebuilding a new community for my little unit. So, thank you for this initiative!

Watching your evolution is so inspiring. Thank you for your courage to figure it out (out loud) here with us. Do you boo!!! You do it so well

I absolutely love you, there are so many parallels between you and I and to see you living in your authenticity gives me such an emotional boost. Thank you for being you

Your journey has been so inspiring to me, im 22 now and I've been watching you since I was 13. I've always loved and been so inspired by your content, you taught me so much about content creation and just shameless self expression in general. You've shown me that I can overcome anything life throws at me, keep doing you boo

This is amazing! I’m studying to be a doula currently and just learning how impactful it is to listen is so important! Every birthing person should have that support and love for their community. This is beautiful!

I felt this down to my whole soul. I thank God that you shared this with the world. Living and being ok with it being uncomfortable for the sake of actually living and loving and experiencing and learning and growing. Being taught and teaching. Sharing experiences and life . That’s so beautiful. Thank you

I seriously love the amount of gratitude you have about your life experiences. It's seems like the older we get, and the more beautiful experiences we have, the more empathetic and appreciation we have.

Thank you for being so vulnerable and authentic. Your transparency is priceless. I send you hugs and pray that you are blessed bountifully.

Omg Maya. I have been around since before you were bawling cutting your hair off and evoking feelings in me I didnt know I had about my identity and my hair as a fellow curly haired girlie. To see your life evolved as it has, and me being in new shaky territory myself with what feels like no support is so therapuetic. I am so grateful that you have chosen to share so much of your life with us randos on the internet. May you and your loved ones be blessed in this next phase of your lives. Sending love.

I love how you use your platform. It’s beautiful and inspiring. As a mom to 2 little ones (Irish twins) it was and still is hard. I have support but feel like more is always needed.

Maya, this video was wonderful. I hadn’t recognized I’ve been following you so long. Happy 40th and congratulations on this new step! I’m amazed by your willingness to fully embrace who you are as you transition into new versions of yourself. Thank you for sharing that with us, too. Looking forward to the content from Guatemala.

I started following you since you cut your hair and began your journey. It has been awesome seeing your life changes, how you got married and became a mother, it's inspirational! Thanks for taking us along your life adventures and I can't wait to see your upcoming series!

I love EVERY bit of this, for us, but mostly for YOU! As many of the comments have mentioned, many of us here have been there since your early KZread channels and have admire your growth, tenacity, and grit. Thanks for sharing a little piece of you with us Maya!

I actually just started my channel recently and watching this motivated me a lot and made me calm down and breathe. Even though I'm not close to 30 talk more of 40, I felt every word u said and I want to accept it. Yes life is just starting even at 40 so I should stop pressuring myself and just live a little. Thank you so much🧡

Thank you Maya for your contribution to expanding our view by sharing yours. I loved your tangent lol your thoughts, feelings and beliefs resonated with me. Love your spirit and how well you have lived this life in consistently being authentic and never gatekeeping throughout the highs, lows, new beginnings and reminiscing of the past. Your journey is an inspiration! I appreciate you!

Oh MYA! Your transparency is soo beautiful! Thank you thank you for letting us in on your journey. Recently loss my mom, and I’ve been struggling and it feels like I’m starting life ALL over again…This was beautiful ❤❤❤ thank you again

You go girl! I found your channel about 10 years ago and it feels like I’m discovering you all over again ☺️ Thank you for reminding me to embrace life always, and I can’t wait to see your new chapter unfold ❤

Aww Maya! It’s been wonderful seeing your journey throughout these years. You have and continue to inspire me! Glad that you are family are doing well!

The way I need you and needed this video. I've been struggling with the idea of becoming a mother for fear of having no tools (from family or society) but knowing deep down it's something I'd regret not doing. I appreciate you and am excited to see what's to come!

Wow!! Happy 10 years, Maya!! I've been tuned in all 10 years, and your journey continues to be as beautiful as ever! Thank you for being my big sister on my screen and heart💕. Excited for 60+ more years of the shameless journey lol 😍

I’m turning 35 in a couple wks and have been rebuilding my life since my divorce in 2020 (and live more in the process)! Totally relate to having lived multiple lives! I’ve followed you for yrs and feel there’s a lot of parallel in what we’ve been experiencing and how we’ve been evolving. So good to get this update frm you Maya!

Love this and thank you for sharing each of the chapters of your life journey. You don’t have to do this and your transparency and sharing of lessons learned is appreciated.

I feel you, I feel you Maya! This is so beautiful. The part that really spoke to me was that you said you didn't want to forget this transition into motherhood. So many mothers go unseen and unheard... we need doulas and people that are willing to support mothers. You're inspiring me to look into being a postpartum doula again. Mothers commonly wear many, many hats; we do it all! We got this!

Yes! I'm sick of hearing about generational wealth! I have equipped my daughters with deep spirituality and tons of wisdom. The money is fine, but self-love and self-actualization are better! ❤❤❤

Look at you changing my life in another period of change for me again!!!!! You were there for me 10 years ago and still here! I love you Maya! Thank you

Wow, what a journey you’ve been on and have been so gracious enough to share with us. Thank you for being so inspiring!!

I love that you keep stepping into new levels of life! I call it heavy lifting and deep waters. You go girl!! Keep encouraging us to live and do and to do it afraid. Blessings.

I agree on your view point on age (I'm 36) and just your outlook on life. I thank you for your transparency and I CANT WAIT🎉❤🙋🏽‍♀️🥰🙌🏽 I'VE BEEN WATCHING YOU FOR FOREVER AND I'VE LEARNED SO MUCH FROM YOU . I APPRECIATE YOU SHARING YOUR LIFE AND BEAUTIFUL TRANSPARENCY . I'M SOOOOO EXCITED 🎉❤

I loved this so much! The color, the speed, the message, the melanin! It's giving forever 25 energy. 💫 Also, turning 32 and hearing this resonated so deeply for me. Ima sit my ass down and absorb the fact that I'm still a baby. I pressed play feeling old and at the end pressed pause and feel straight out the womb lol.

Wow 🥺 I’ve been following you for so long and haven’t watched in a bit. To see how far you are now is so beautiful. Love seeing your growth ❤

Maya thank you for sharing a small part of your life with us. You have officially joined the 40s happy tears club. No one ever told me that in my 40s these happy tears would come from the pure bliss and gratitude of being in such a great place.

Yesssssss! I'm still here for it, girl! Im 48 and a single mom. I'm now dealing with the transition of teenage years to young adult and its definitely been a challenge. Nobody talks about that phase at all I feel and the fact that my daughter suffers from depression and anxiety heightened everything. On top of that I'm trying to get my Jody mom on.... Mommy gotta have a life too....Baby Boy.....I don't want to loose myself in this process. I wish you could be there or you were here to interview me I have a ton to say. I'm so happy your doing this because I wish I had that support when my daughter was your daughter age.

OMG you got me over here crying! It’s been beautiful to watch your journey over the years. I’m proud of you girl! 🥰

I feel you, and I appreciate you 🙏🏾🙌🏾

This was a breath of fresh air to watch. I’m new to your channel, but I thoroughly enjoyed your video. Thank you for sharing your journey, experiences and showing there’s still so much more life to live and embrace after your 20s and 30 because society portrays it as going down hill. Im 31 going on 32 but I don’t physically look or actually feel like it. Just knowing that I am in my 30s I feel like I’ve been stressed, anxious and just in this constant circle of confusion for the past few years about where my life feeling is going. Feeling like I’m running out of time and just beating down on myself about my life and myself just not being where I thought it would be at this point. It’s been hard trying to figuring out what I want to do as far as if I still want children, marriage and choosing a partner. As well as trying to figure out my career, and deciding if should try putting more efforts into creating content or go into the direction of being a business owner or going in a completely different direction all together for me to get to the stable, secure and fulfilled point I’m yearning for.

I just discovered your channel. I really enjoyed & can relate to your story. I am a 43 year old mom, divorced & remarried at 41 to an amazing, emotionally available & supportive man / amazing step dad to my now 9 year old boy. I had an unplanned at home birth. All went well thank goodness. Yeah we are pretty awesome & life is pretty cool. It has taken a lot of inner work & literally Googling "Self love" to get to this point. Big love. You got this.

This was healing to listen to. Motherhood has taken me to all of the untouched corners of my body and soul. It's been the hardest and most beautiful transformation and every day I try to promise myself I won't forget how hard this journey is. We deserve more knowledge and our children deserve more too. Thank you.

So here for this Maya! I became a mom myself at the end of the last year and felt like I went into birth and the forth trimester well equipped with plenty of my own learning, but still whewwwww. Can’t wait to see more of you back in this channel x

I love this so much!!! The end was so very real. We SHOULD be educated on motherhood a lot sooner than before becoming pregnant. This touched home for me because I have 3 daughters and I’m expecting and I’ve finally gotten to a place in life where I’m just trying to share as much of the experience with them so that they are able to understand IF they decide to have kids and even if not!! Thanks for sharing Maya!!! 💛

This was so inspirational and refreshing to hear I am 34 years old and I long to be a mother but I’m not one yet and yes society does put it in your head that you’re getting old. When are you gonna have kids etc. and I can totally agree with you on the home numbers thing, and generational wealth. I thank you for posting this.❤

@beijosparavoce

Жыл бұрын

Find the first and the best man and start a family asap. I am 37. I had my first and struggle for a second. If you are longing for it, do everything in your power to make it happen

Hey Lady! just happened upon your chanel, I'm also over 40(and canadian:) and starting my life all over, which was an absolute necessity for me, everything fell apart and I'm starting fresh, it took awhile to really surrender and see what a blessing this actually was, but it has been a struggle and I've been thru some very dark times...it's nice to hear of otter people going thru similar experiences.

I’m 40 & feeling like I haven’t accomplished much at times even though I have & a mother of 4 yr old. You inspire me so much I too have a families who have lived through their 90s thank you for your wisdom

I turned 30 a few days ago..you have no idea how much this video inspired me 🥲

Omg!!!! I’ve been watching you for a long time!!!! Welcome back!!!❤you have grown and with that little cute baby😊😊😊Can’t wait to see more of you

You are incredible, I've loved following your journey throughout the years and agree with what your vision is. I lost my mom at a young age and because of thar have no idea what motherhood would look like if I choose to walk that path❤❤❤

So Proud of you Mya been following since the start 🎉so ecstatic for your journey God is so awesome 🙌🏾🙏🏾💯

You are such a beautiful soul - inside and out!!! 💜💜💜

I'm turning 30 in a few months and I love hearing your perspective. Over the last couple of years I've had to make really challenging/scary decisions in order to protect my overall sense of wellbeing. It led me away from "safe" choices and towards living in the moment, seeing where life takes me and doing what I WANT to do instead of what I've been told I SHOULD do. It's been really hard feeling like other people judge my choices because I'm not trying to tether myself to one standard life path and also terrifying because what if they're right and I end up failing. It's definitely been a challenging practice to embrace the fear and trust myself. Hearing you talk about how satisfied you are with your life choices, even the ones that brought you pain, was like a balm to my nervous system lol I honestly look forward to 40.

@DMVButterfly

Жыл бұрын

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Been here since you started your journey, shaving your hair… this feels like a full circle moment and it’s been beautiful to watch you, as well as see all the progress I’ve made myself in this time ❤

I’ve loved watching you the past 10 years. Really inspiring to watch you take on each new phase of your life. I turned 30 in September and feel the youngest and lightest I’ve felt in years. Ready to see what my new phase has in store for me too 😁 will be following along on your journey 🫶🏾

Also 🎉🎉🎉 congratulations on becoming a doula! I recently became a Menstrual Cycle Coach because of my own traumatic cycle experiences and learning more and getting help! I also seek to be that change and change the narrative, give women a chance to live well and thrive in at whatever age they are without compromising on their natural rhythms. LETS DO THISSSSSSSS

Yesss we are not old at 40!! Excited to see this journey! ❤

You’re so inspiring. You’ve been a huge source of inspiration for me for YEARS, but man.. you just keep killing it.

You can say “It Is Well With My Soul” we love ❤️ you and to see this joy in this chapter so inspiring to me because I’m an older woman 🤫🫣🤩🤪

Maya, Maya, Maya… You inspired me through my thirties (I used to wear that « Do you boo » tee all the time) and I’m so happy you’re opening a new chapter and setting the record straight. Happy to see you back on this channel. ❤❤❤

Maya! You were definitely missed. It’s so beautiful to see your growth and and transformation and after all these years you still inspire us to live shamelessly! ❤

@shamelessmaya

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You've been missed as well!

Congratulations! Many women will be so fortunate to have you by their side. Thank for continuing to share your journey and inspiring growth no matter how old you are.

It's never too late to start... As long as we are alive, we can start over and over again.

Mayaaa!! Can I just say.. that I am so GRATEFUL for the Being that is You 🙌🏾 From the first time I saw you talking about and being about: Being Shameless and all the way until now, I am so grateful to share this Earth with you ✨💖 you light it up Mama 🌞

@shamelessmaya

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You’re so sweet!!! Thank you for the appreciation 🙏🏾💕

Maya thank thank thank you for this! ❤I’ve watched you from the beginning and watched you blossom. I’m 40 and at first I limited myself with what others say about 40 year olds. I don’t feel 40 and that’s that. Another thing, your so right conversations about pregnancy-before and after are need to educate women and men more. Postpartum depression is sometimes apart of your birth story,that being said we need to be prepared for the curve balls in life. We need to teach that to our future generation just in case. Postpartum is a nightmare especially when there is a stigma around it and, heck people just don’t talk about it. We are taught to just deal with it. Also, your overall expectations when giving birth, can change. My first daughter was in the NICU for the whole stay at the hospital due to the doctors thinking she had a heart murmur, which was actually reflux. I had never even imagined having to leave her there for additional days after being discharge. It was not in my birth plan. The way I see it though we grow through things to help others. So yea these stories need to be passed on, talked about, and normalized. Being a doula sounds amazing. I love birth, pregnancy, and children. It’s magical and you need support through these times. Thank you sooo much for your content!! Your awesome! ❤💕

Maya, this video was just what I needed to hear and see 🙏🙏- I’m watching this on Mother’s Day in the UK. I have found it beyond challenging since stepping into parenthood 6 years ago and it has been a life changing ride. I feel like my life started when our children arrived because it made me see the things I needed to heal from, unlearn, learn and grow from. So much of what you said here really resonated with me especially about changing the status quo, the energy we bring to the world and how much we still do not know. Age is a social construct: our souls are boundless and abundant. If energy resides in us, there’s no stopping us!🙌 Thank you for your spirit and energy: we are in good company ✨🙌🙏 Welcoming all you will share and how I’m positive it will inspire the rest of us, lots of love and high vibrational energy on this side of the pond ✨☀️💗🤗

I’ve loved watching your content it’s always felt intentional and inspiring ❤ as a 31 year old who feels born again after a adventurous and at times challenging 20s watching KZreadrs like yourself encourages me to keep going and you make growing up look authentic peaceful and enjoyable

Maya, I've been with you ever since your no-hair journey years ago. I'm reinventing myself WITH YOU yet again. Now's the time for me personally since my son is now a young adult. Let's goooooooo!! EDIT: Btw, I found you during a very difficult time in my life so you're one of my Godsends & I am grateful. Salamat y Aloha 'oe~~

I'm late to your video but omg I'm already tearing up with the beginning of your video 🥹 I'm so happy that you are now a Postpartum Doula 👏🏻👏🏻 So so so happy for you Maya! I am 41 and I have this itch to do something new like change careers, become an artist and take skills class to learn to make crafts/art and cooking/baking homemade bread and nourishing meals. Lately, I've been feeling joyless because I'm still on the path of comfort and not being true to myself. Definitely feel like I need to change up the environment or myself. Let's not say we are old. We are just WISE! Can't wait to see what else you will share with us. 😊😊

@cassondralynch6342

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You know how many actual old people would kill to be 41? I'm 41 as well and of course we aren't f'ng old! Absurd. Don't let society f you around like that. That's silly as hell.

I just prayed that I wanted to see videos that I could truly resonate with, love Vlogs but whew my algorithm needed a refresh. I have been following you for years and honestly feel like I haven't seen you in so long, glad this video came across my page. Well, I am 30 as of March 6 and I just started my KZread channel a few days ago, knowing that's when you started makes me so damn hopeful. I needed this because I truly feel I am starting a new life, for so many reasons. Thanks for your story, your inspiration, and your vulnerability! Love you!

Love this! It's been a joy to grow with you. ❤

Turned 40 this week! Came at best time

Thank you Mya 🙏🏾 As a mother in the military, I’ve found it very difficult. I didn’t know how hard it would be compounded by my obligation to be in a uniform. At the time if you had a vaginal birth according to military regulations, you got 6 weeks off and expected to return to work, it has since changed. God forbid you had baby blues or postpartum. To not be understood or felt seen and then to be expected to perform at your given rank….a lot to say the least. However I’m on the down slope of my career and will be retiring soon. I have a 11 & 9 yr. Sometimes I honestly feel like I’m failing as a mother and also in uniform. The balance has been hard. Anyway, just sharing a piece of my story. Thank you 🙏🏾 Oh and I’ll be 43 this month!

@ambriaashley3383

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You are not a failure in either sense, mama, In fact, you are a hero. Thank you so much for what you do as a Black woman at work, and thank you for what you do as a parent!!!! 🙏🏾 You are incredible, & not everyone could do what you do.

@BillyJean327

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@@ambriaashley3383 Thank you so much 🥹🙏🏾

@hernameistah_jay7482

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This hit home for me. I’m newly divorced and single mom now in the army. I feel like at work no one understand me and right now I’m on leave because I just couldn’t balance it. I pray I get through my struggles with my head held high and be on the down slope as well in my career