Signs of Interest & Non-Interest While Dating (w/special guest Tanesha Norman) Ep. 14

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  • @Fortheloveofglen
    @Fortheloveofglen24 күн бұрын

    31 years old came out at 13 it’s so refreshing to have queer content that’s understands me!!!🎉🎉

  • @wanchawancha5323
    @wanchawancha532321 күн бұрын

    When people start talking about themselves I listen. That’s when they start telling on themselves and I collect information 😏

  • @YosoyElJefe__
    @YosoyElJefe__25 күн бұрын

    Absolutely loved this episode. I could relate on so many levels, please keep dropping content. Love yall 🙏🏽

  • @sophienalubega2856
    @sophienalubega285626 күн бұрын

    Pay attention to energy flow. You feel it but ignore the signs

  • @Rita30rage

    @Rita30rage

    26 күн бұрын

    Fr

  • @Keianasvibe
    @Keianasvibe26 күн бұрын

    That comment about masculine women in professional spaces is so true. I always have to water down my dominance a bit for the boys. 😂

  • @tayloryvonne7117
    @tayloryvonne711722 күн бұрын

    Interesting take. I’d like to hear you speak on introspective healing, chakra alignment, and having emotional intelligence, or the lack there of. I do think it’s important to leave the ego at the door and figure out how you can help yourself first, then help others. I’ll speak on it if you’d have me. Judgement free of course. I believe internal healing is important so that we can better avoid situations mentioned. 🤓

  • @lashan3103
    @lashan310325 күн бұрын

    Communication in any relationship is important. However, in intimate relationships we seem to have higher expectations but a lower patience, than we have for our friends. So, I say, ask yourself would you be friend with this person, if you were not dating- my answer is my answer ….my two cents

  • @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    23 күн бұрын

    That’s a good question

  • @jonairoberson0104
    @jonairoberson010423 күн бұрын

    Nah when y’all said “no more Nicki“ and nookie said “BARDI gang!” 😂😂 I screamed

  • @tonilatrice1599
    @tonilatrice159926 күн бұрын

    The fact that I was watching Dark Matter and was like hold up one second, is that Marquita?!?!?! 🤣❤️ Not me becoming a fan girl lol

  • @ricoswave9310
    @ricoswave931026 күн бұрын

    This was good, I like the guest commentary, the topic, and looks Nelsia give Marquita when she calling cap cause she know her lol

  • @Fortheloveofglen
    @Fortheloveofglen24 күн бұрын

    The episodes are long and ya just be jumping right in mature content at its finest ❤

  • @saylesspraymore3210
    @saylesspraymore321024 күн бұрын

    I have to say this topic hit me hard. I’m kind of feeling what Marquita(hopefully I spelled that right) said, where I’m so aware of things that some people overlook or don’t see, so I always end up being looked at as I’m “tripping”. I feel energies on such a higher level, or I can see through things etc like I’m overly aware 🤷🏽‍♀️ but yes this was a deep topic overall tho. Nelcia, I love how you are still learning “self” cause we are never too old, to deep dive into self, and giving yourself grace. Trust, I’m learning that too at 40years of age, 2023-2024 has been about learning what I can and cannot tolerate, capacity etc.

  • @alienmoonmom1361
    @alienmoonmom136126 күн бұрын

    I’m coming over with my chips and a Pepsi and join y’all. This is a good regular kitchen table talk.

  • @NattyByNature-
    @NattyByNature-13 күн бұрын

    4 years single single. Dating now is exhausting, it’s not about genuine connections or getting to really know someone to see if we can built life together, it’s about games, cute pics and dates and material stuff. I don’t even try anymore. When I meet a woman that’s on my level I’ll know until then I’ll keep just living my life and not paying attention to being single.

  • @OBieMavuso

    @OBieMavuso

    7 күн бұрын

    You're on the right path fam. I was single and celibate for 3 years and met mine in April this year. Learned to do the work and that helped me with setting the tone for our relationship. Things still will be challenging here and there but with the right foundation and if you set your boundaries from the jump, your next relationship will be fyre.

  • @NattyByNature-

    @NattyByNature-

    7 күн бұрын

    @@OBieMavuso thank you so much

  • @infinitekharisma
    @infinitekharisma25 күн бұрын

    Great conversation. Once again I enjoyed listening in and hearing the different perspectives and experiences. Love it. Keep Glowing and growing! ✨💜💜💜✨

  • @hollelegend1740
    @hollelegend174026 күн бұрын

    Loved this conversation!!! I wanted to make all of y’all spit that gum out tho 😂🤣😂 smacking in my ear lol

  • @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    25 күн бұрын

    Our bad 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @allahshas4498
    @allahshas449823 күн бұрын

    mental attraction is a turn on for me.

  • @HERSTORY_888
    @HERSTORY_88826 күн бұрын

    When people constantly talk about themselves it's a big turn off for me 😑 When I notice we don't vibe, I disappear and never talk to that person again 😂😂😂

  • @allahshas4498

    @allahshas4498

    23 күн бұрын

    I definitely will 2nd this one

  • @nanettemacon7640
    @nanettemacon764026 күн бұрын

    Great show, great guest🌹❤️

  • @indiasurgeon1487
    @indiasurgeon148727 күн бұрын

    This is why I stopped dating ladies on a serious level. Too much guessing and mixed signals being sent my way 😮‍💨.. Can’t wait to hear yaws side.

  • @NoSauceBoss-sm6zx
    @NoSauceBoss-sm6zx27 күн бұрын

    Cant wait, i think this episode gonna be a really good one.

  • @NAhuufeloo
    @NAhuufeloo26 күн бұрын

    She can’t handle it 😂❤ I appreciate yall!!!

  • @ayepee9775
    @ayepee977526 күн бұрын

    Tbh i agree with temper on the friend zone thing ,

  • @raneeshapruitt7068
    @raneeshapruitt706826 күн бұрын

    Great topic and views, I love the energy flowing between you 3! I have a couple ending questions or possible episode topics. What's y'all's definitions of and differences between boundaries and blockages in life and relationships? My second question would be more personal. What in your life made you mature the most?

  • @Hirokis_Horror_Nexus
    @Hirokis_Horror_Nexus26 күн бұрын

    We in here!!! Best Podcast alive!! 💯

  • @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    25 күн бұрын

    We appreciate you!

  • @jonairoberson0104
    @jonairoberson01043 күн бұрын

    I always go back to this video to rewatch the end when she was talking about the cooking 😂😂😂😂😂 nah man

  • @latashajordan2893
    @latashajordan289326 күн бұрын

    Once you Lose Consistency, and Communication with me, there is no Coming back. I will not Continue to talk to someone that is not even putting in the Effort to do their part.

  • @itsmylaneful
    @itsmylaneful26 күн бұрын

    Ready 💯 - waiting for 6:00pm 🔥

  • @NAhuufeloo
    @NAhuufeloo26 күн бұрын

    She couldn’t take rejection 😂 at all!!! It’s ok sweetheart you still fine 😅

  • @allahshas4498
    @allahshas449823 күн бұрын

    if the conversation feels like it's scripted i lose interest quick. just let flow and the curiosity come naturally 😌

  • @dianKay001
    @dianKay0013 күн бұрын

    Great conversation ❤

  • @lovelife2186
    @lovelife218626 күн бұрын

    I don’t know if y’all did this topic before but I would love to hear y’all talk about is it OK being a homosexual and still love God

  • @heartdna

    @heartdna

    26 күн бұрын

    Yes love and the foundation of that truth is HE LOVES YOU!!!!

  • @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    25 күн бұрын

    It’s on our list of topics to discuss

  • @cosmiccreations9424
    @cosmiccreations942426 күн бұрын

    Can y’all touch on the topic of How do you break up with someone without feeling guilty especially if it’s nothing they really did , you just don’t want it anymore lol all the while kinda knowing why lol if that makes sense. I guess it falls under healthy breakups

  • @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    25 күн бұрын

    Adding it to one of ending questions for a future episode. Thanks for tuning in!

  • @latashajordan2893
    @latashajordan289326 күн бұрын

    I Can't stand when a person wants to be the Center of Attention.

  • @latashajordan2893
    @latashajordan289326 күн бұрын

    Tanesha Norman looks like Faith Evans, and she is Beautiful!❤❤

  • @heartdna

    @heartdna

    26 күн бұрын

    Yes and with a mix of Neicy Nash! But she is without need for comparison beautiful and seemingly good hearted 😍😍

  • @latashajordan2893

    @latashajordan2893

    26 күн бұрын

    @@heartdna ❤️🥰

  • @latashajordan2893

    @latashajordan2893

    26 күн бұрын

    @@heartdna I can see the Neicy Nash too🥰

  • @NAhuufeloo
    @NAhuufeloo26 күн бұрын

    I can relate to that AWARENESS

  • @phenomenal5537
    @phenomenal553726 күн бұрын

    I concur with Tanesha and submit my vote for "Decadence" ... I also concur with Tanesha on the libido 👋 .. My 3 non-negotiables are good sex, honesty, and loyalty. There is a safety, a maturity, and a freedom that comes with women of ambition who's soul are in alignment - there are some things that must be mutually respected and honored. All cards, face up - ONLY. I'm the 3rd Pisces on the couch - I love it. Words, Waters, Wealth of Wisdom and ambition💃🏽

  • @ehiobanor
    @ehiobanor24 күн бұрын

    i think that masculine women need to do a lot of soul searching in order to define what they want their partnerships to look like. i think it is important to mention that a lot of masculine women pursue women who are sexually but not romantically attracted to them (straight, bi-curious, etc. ) which is why they find themselves in relationships with feminine women that expect them to fall into heteronormative and traditional male roles. speaking personally, i do not know many feminine women, myself included, who are (genuinely) lesbians that are looking to treat masculine women as a man, or expect them to be a provider, etc. all the femmes i know want to provide and protect just as much as the next masc/stud.

  • @donnamoye3309
    @donnamoye330926 күн бұрын

    When y'all speak can you please let the other person finish there conversation before you say anything let them explain what they feel .

  • @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    25 күн бұрын

    We’ll actively work on being mindful that it’s a podcast. We carry on as friends unintentionally at times.

  • @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    25 күн бұрын

    If I’m being honest, the speaking over was all me… I was intoxicated and excited!!! However, none of the other episodes consist of us talking over one another. Note taken though!! 💪🏾 thanks for watching

  • @heartdna

    @heartdna

    25 күн бұрын

    ​@@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcastshella sauced and shella passionate 😂 love the honesty Shellcia 😂🧡

  • @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    25 күн бұрын

    @@heartdna 😩😩😩😂😂😂 Not Shellcia 😩😩😂😂 that’s a good one

  • @jonairoberson0104

    @jonairoberson0104

    23 күн бұрын

    !!!!

  • @TheMagnificentArtist
    @TheMagnificentArtist25 күн бұрын

    Make a part 2!

  • @latashajordan2893
    @latashajordan289326 күн бұрын

    Some people will want you to Hear everything they say, but don't Care what all you have to say. They just Completely Tune you out, Shaking my Head🤦‍♀️

  • @faithmusser5219
    @faithmusser521926 күн бұрын

    I have a fatal faul. Because I'm honest I believe that someone is telling me the truth until I know they aren't. Instead of being cautious.

  • @faithmusser5219
    @faithmusser521926 күн бұрын

    Ladies if I'm hearing you right there's the difference between cheap and frugal 😊

  • @latashajordan2893
    @latashajordan289326 күн бұрын

    Yeah, if the Vibe is off, I can't Deal🤦‍♀️

  • @breonnaclark-russell7425
    @breonnaclark-russell742526 күн бұрын

    Aina, I want to get to know you. How can I go about doing that?

  • @RainJElise
    @RainJElise26 күн бұрын

    Check in with me too!! I feel the same way!

  • @zenmusa222
    @zenmusa22226 күн бұрын

    bruh, a word that starts with d that means v@#$%...delicious .... best guest so far 🏆💐

  • @SplashTalk
    @SplashTalk26 күн бұрын

    I can read all y’all so well. Lol stud on the left give me Leo vibes a tad bit self centered but not too bad you can tell she definitely works on herself and has been told about herself a couple times lol I feel like she cap tho about not getting friendzoned or rejected because of her other stories at the end like about the girl with the bike. How did that end. I’m sure she done got broken up with before. It’s ok to admit it lol everyone has been rejected before. And if she dead ass haven’t then that mean she only go for people she know she has a chance with. and the other one on the right seem like she got a more chill humble vibe . I could be wrong. I fucks with y’all tho. Y’all definitely some mature good and kind spirited ppl. We all would definitely be good friends if we was all to link. Definitely in tune with universe.

  • @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    25 күн бұрын

    Maybe how we define it is different because Aina never denies being rejected in actual romantic spaces. We appreciate you watching!

  • @SplashTalk

    @SplashTalk

    25 күн бұрын

    @@TheShellaSpherePodcast yeah maybe I heard it wrong my b. Lol I was over here like nahhh ain’t no way. My fault y’all. Lol delete my comment

  • @ice8876
    @ice887625 күн бұрын

    Orange couch podcast 😂😂😂😂😂

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