It's hard to trust people these days, people are full of 💩 😂 I'm a Leo and I have to be able to trust you. I'll be watching 💯
@latashajordan2893Күн бұрын
I can't Wait to Watch the next Episode!❤🙌
@Rita30rageКүн бұрын
I won't miss watching the next Ep ❤🥰
@RedHamilton-lm9wsКүн бұрын
Wow! This episode brought back a relationship i had with an ex. It's definitely narcissistic with BDP. Always saying " feelings aren't facts", she drained me physically, emotionally and 😮. All the mind ganes,seeking attentiin .calling me controling because she had no moral compass. No accountability. I learned everything in the first year about a narcissist. It took me a year to get out. It took me 2 years to recover. Thankful for the lessons for sure. I had to block her,her kids, and her mom. Move and change jobs. I am so grateful to be free.
@TheShellaSpherePodcastКүн бұрын
We’re glad you’re free from that as well
@jonairoberson01043 күн бұрын
I always go back to this video to rewatch the end when she was talking about the cooking 😂😂😂😂😂 nah man
@dianKay0013 күн бұрын
Great conversation ❤
@miaranee3 күн бұрын
I have a podcast coming up soon that I want y'all to check out. Men tease femininty/ weakness out of men because they feel like all they really have to offer is masculinity. They think that's all women care about. Can u blame them?
@Rita30rage4 күн бұрын
❤❤
@cosmiccreations94244 күн бұрын
Do what gives you butterflies because that’s what your piece of God within wants for you! Great show ✨✨
@TheShellaSpherePodcast4 күн бұрын
Much love to you!
@Bigevolutionz4 күн бұрын
I love that! Whatever I got going on between me and the creator of humans. People need to stop throwing away their own intuition for other people's words.
@TheShellaSpherePodcast4 күн бұрын
True
@marta93304 күн бұрын
Loved this ❤
@513jaayy4 күн бұрын
What’s great yall! 24 years old been supporting the channel for a while. Refreshing to see someone around my age with a like mind!
@TheShellaSpherePodcast4 күн бұрын
Thanks for tuning in!
@faithmusser52195 күн бұрын
Here's a topic I would like to hear about. I am from the older generation and still I run to folks who 1. Can't handle being in the company of a lesbian. They either think that my actions come with a agenda or I am seen in a over sexualized way. I will step out for my women friends with kindness they misunderstand my motives because people be whispering you know she trying to get next to you. Honestly that's not me. I'm not a player. I can be in a room full of gorgeous women and unless that have that special inner quality I don't even go there. I think they are attractive but there's no chase.
@faithmusser52195 күн бұрын
I'll say it again. I love how mature this young lady is. She's so articulate. So awesome!!
@karmeishakashaun5 күн бұрын
Absolutely loved ❤
@suavean26475 күн бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤DEEP😊
@breonnaclark-russell74255 күн бұрын
I love how Dani lights up when she talks about her woman 🥰. Her smile…her glow and how smitten she is, is so beautiful 😍. I love me some love honey and you can feel how real her and her partners love is through the screen 🤗 I love that for her and hope that we can all experience what she’s experiencing.💜
@TheShellaSpherePodcast4 күн бұрын
Couldn't agree more!
@breonnaclark-russell74255 күн бұрын
🗣️ “I’m going where ever it’s genuine and it’s real and where I’m happy at” ON MY SOUL 🤞🏽💯🎯
@hollelegend17405 күн бұрын
Great dialogue! I enjoyed both episodes.
@jazzj045 күн бұрын
I agree with the dating men for acceptance. That is so true! Another amazing episode 🎉
@Rita30rage5 күн бұрын
I really enjoyed this 💯❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@503DS5 күн бұрын
Very articulate convo young lady!!! You on the right path for sure
@tdsiva90512 күн бұрын
Truly
@latashajordan28935 күн бұрын
I Enjoyed this Episode of Part 2❤❤
@latashajordan28935 күн бұрын
Amen to that!🙏🙌❤️💯🗣‼️
@jaqkeejaq5 күн бұрын
Oh Imma WAIT On This!! 🏳️🌈💪🏽
@cranialropes5 күн бұрын
Definitely gonna watch this tomorrow. Hate I'm going to miss the live though.
@latashajordan28935 күн бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@ndeyembengue26196 күн бұрын
Ouuuu I want to get invited on y’all podcast! I have so many things regarding being gay growing up in a cultural African household and religious background 😅
@EssDee60496 күн бұрын
21:25 “You know that’s Mother Earth, she dives deep” 😂👏🏾
@TheShellaSpherePodcast4 күн бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@nicolethenor296 күн бұрын
❤❤❤
@KELLY-jv6hi7 күн бұрын
I'm a femme lesbian. I remember being in middle school and all the girls were boy crazy. If i got a "crush" on a boy, it would be because they were nice, funny, etc. It never had anything to do with looks. Then I went to girl scout camp the summer before freshman year. I saw this tomboy at the camp. This sensation happened in my body that I had never felt before. I was instantly infatuated. 25 years later, I've never had that sensation for any man. Compulsory hererosexuality is so programmed in people that they can't grasp that homosexuality is just as normal and requires no explanation.
@Rita30rage7 күн бұрын
💚💚
@DiamondFae-xd1gm7 күн бұрын
Men get extremely possessive, they get comfortable & start treating women like objects & not people. I think for him specifically, he could probably use more self reflection.
@kdotwayup8 күн бұрын
On Nelcias comment about gay men forcing their way in I say this, and this is my personal belief. The space was made because there are power WHITE MEN who made the space for gay men. Women as a whole are always put on the back burner. They made the space for gay men. Also, women tend to accept the “gay male” ideology because they for years have been the “gay best friend” and have been slowly having that space created for them. Gay WOMEN, especially gay black women, are seen as a threat to the black family and the black male ego. They don’t give a F about the gay male because they just see them ass a non factor.
@queen_jaylo2229 күн бұрын
This was a good conversation. I can say I really appreciate this young lady’s mind and her way of thinking. She is a great representation of the younger generation. I definitely wasn’t think like her at the age of 21. I’m glad y’all are having a part 2. 💯🥰 💕
@TheShellaSpherePodcast9 күн бұрын
We appreciate you chiming in!
@HonestLeighSpeaking9 күн бұрын
So much to unpack. As someone who used to identify as a member of the LGBT community who is also a therapist and is now a Christian, there is so much to unpack in this conversation. 1- Thank you for your levels of transparency and honesty. 2- While I do believe that gender has an energy, Please know that masculinity and femininity is NOT based on how emotionally hard/ controlling or soft/vulnerable that one is. If it was, then we could put on gender like a costume or we could devalue/value ppls gender based on performance; And that’s NOT the case. 3- while I don’t thinks that being a woman or being feminine is completely defined by our behavior, I do believe that we were created with purpose. Part of that purpose is to be what our creator intended for us to be. every human false short and that falling short separates us from the Creator. Yet, Christ provides a way to creator and purpose. I am not saying “Come to Jesus and you will be straight”, nor am I saying “Just continue to do you and God will be ok with it”… I am saying I know a man who is God in the flesh, and can tell you all about yourself and align you with your eternal purpose. For more information I HIGHLY recommend A) PRAY and reading God’s word (start with the book of John, then Romans, Galatians, 1&2 Corinthians and then the rest of the New Testament)… B) read Jackie hill-Perry (gay girl good god) and watch videos on sexuality (Preston Sprinkle, Jackie hill perry, Jude 3 and more . C) Seek Godly community (not the weird everything is a spirit or the rules/ gender performance based community… but one of true love for Christ and His creation. May The MOST HIGH God of all creation protect your mind, body and even family from the plots, plans, schemes, and devices of the enemy. May He draw you with His unfailing and unrelenting Love, Holiness and Mercy. And may your hearts be open to Him and Him only. In Jesus name Amen. Good show and god bless.
@TheShellaSpherePodcast9 күн бұрын
We respect your path
@vivik97210 күн бұрын
You wassss pregnant putting your feelings out there 😂omg I’m💀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 ON DRU HILL « Tell me » Yooo I’m really sorry cause THAT must have been painful But hey in her shoes I’d have walked away too…( after saying no 😂)
@vivik97210 күн бұрын
DSLs 😅🤣🤣🤣🤣 geeeez that was hilarious I’m gonna keep that 🤣 Wheeew y’all are great to listen to 🫶🏾🫶🏾
@dynastybabybeauty10 күн бұрын
Very mature for her age. Good points young lady 🫶🏽
@mswatts42611 күн бұрын
OMG….I went to NIU too!!! Graduated in 2000.❤️
@Abovedlaws11 күн бұрын
Is she a Cancer ♋️ or Sagittarius ♐️ 😄
@daniellenashaay367311 күн бұрын
Gemini lol
@GB-wl4tp11 күн бұрын
Society coddles men in general. I’m Gen X and I think if you’d ask any person in my generation who is coddled more Black men or Black women, I think the overwhelming response would be Black men. When the young man on the panel said, who do you think of when someone says “doctor,” I chuckled. An image of a Black woman would come to my mind wayyyy before an image of a Black man. It’s interesting how Black men seem to be in favor of gender norms that favor men, but would have a fit if the conversation was shifted to race. Lastly, of the three people on the panel if someone were to ask who is the smartest, I don’t think many would select the young man after listening to this conversation. I’m in no way trying to bash the young man on the panel, but I do notice that men who cling tightly to “traditional” gender roles happen to be the most insecure.
@karmeishakashaun12 күн бұрын
Loved the episode 🥰 And, as a newer subscriber, I really enjoyed seeing a different side of Nelcia and Aina as they interacted with this young woman/family member that they are so fond of and obviously love.
@cosmiccreations942412 күн бұрын
Aww I’m so happy for Danielle, she’s so happy and in love in her relationship it’s so refreshing to hear. She had a smile on my face the whole time 😊 if loving out loud had a face it would be hers ❤
@breonnaclark-russell742512 күн бұрын
I’m excited for part two. Everyone seems to be very blown away and intrigued at the fact that Danni is so mature and tapped in for her age. I’ve met more like her in her generation than I have the immature not yet tapped in ones, believe it or not 😌 She’s got a bright future ahead of her 💜😘 Blessings to her ✨💫
@cosmiccreations942412 күн бұрын
lol not y’all had y’all era I’m crying 😂😂😂
@kellirai3512 күн бұрын
Such a great discussion. So many in-debt observations. I love your guest even though she is young she was able to share so much of herself. Bravo ladies 😊
@kieba199512 күн бұрын
I like how Danielle explained the whole pronouns thing. I really feel like thats a battle that I could never understand fr fr. But like yall said the grace should be extended to people who aren’t trans/nonbinary. A lot of us have went 30,40,50 years without having to use this kind of language so it definitely a major adjustment.
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It's hard to trust people these days, people are full of 💩 😂 I'm a Leo and I have to be able to trust you. I'll be watching 💯
I can't Wait to Watch the next Episode!❤🙌
I won't miss watching the next Ep ❤🥰
Wow! This episode brought back a relationship i had with an ex. It's definitely narcissistic with BDP. Always saying " feelings aren't facts", she drained me physically, emotionally and 😮. All the mind ganes,seeking attentiin .calling me controling because she had no moral compass. No accountability. I learned everything in the first year about a narcissist. It took me a year to get out. It took me 2 years to recover. Thankful for the lessons for sure. I had to block her,her kids, and her mom. Move and change jobs. I am so grateful to be free.
We’re glad you’re free from that as well
I always go back to this video to rewatch the end when she was talking about the cooking 😂😂😂😂😂 nah man
Great conversation ❤
I have a podcast coming up soon that I want y'all to check out. Men tease femininty/ weakness out of men because they feel like all they really have to offer is masculinity. They think that's all women care about. Can u blame them?
❤❤
Do what gives you butterflies because that’s what your piece of God within wants for you! Great show ✨✨
Much love to you!
I love that! Whatever I got going on between me and the creator of humans. People need to stop throwing away their own intuition for other people's words.
True
Loved this ❤
What’s great yall! 24 years old been supporting the channel for a while. Refreshing to see someone around my age with a like mind!
Thanks for tuning in!
Here's a topic I would like to hear about. I am from the older generation and still I run to folks who 1. Can't handle being in the company of a lesbian. They either think that my actions come with a agenda or I am seen in a over sexualized way. I will step out for my women friends with kindness they misunderstand my motives because people be whispering you know she trying to get next to you. Honestly that's not me. I'm not a player. I can be in a room full of gorgeous women and unless that have that special inner quality I don't even go there. I think they are attractive but there's no chase.
I'll say it again. I love how mature this young lady is. She's so articulate. So awesome!!
Absolutely loved ❤
❤❤❤❤❤DEEP😊
I love how Dani lights up when she talks about her woman 🥰. Her smile…her glow and how smitten she is, is so beautiful 😍. I love me some love honey and you can feel how real her and her partners love is through the screen 🤗 I love that for her and hope that we can all experience what she’s experiencing.💜
Couldn't agree more!
🗣️ “I’m going where ever it’s genuine and it’s real and where I’m happy at” ON MY SOUL 🤞🏽💯🎯
Great dialogue! I enjoyed both episodes.
I agree with the dating men for acceptance. That is so true! Another amazing episode 🎉
I really enjoyed this 💯❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Very articulate convo young lady!!! You on the right path for sure
Truly
I Enjoyed this Episode of Part 2❤❤
Amen to that!🙏🙌❤️💯🗣‼️
Oh Imma WAIT On This!! 🏳️🌈💪🏽
Definitely gonna watch this tomorrow. Hate I'm going to miss the live though.
❤❤❤❤
Ouuuu I want to get invited on y’all podcast! I have so many things regarding being gay growing up in a cultural African household and religious background 😅
21:25 “You know that’s Mother Earth, she dives deep” 😂👏🏾
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
❤❤❤
I'm a femme lesbian. I remember being in middle school and all the girls were boy crazy. If i got a "crush" on a boy, it would be because they were nice, funny, etc. It never had anything to do with looks. Then I went to girl scout camp the summer before freshman year. I saw this tomboy at the camp. This sensation happened in my body that I had never felt before. I was instantly infatuated. 25 years later, I've never had that sensation for any man. Compulsory hererosexuality is so programmed in people that they can't grasp that homosexuality is just as normal and requires no explanation.
💚💚
Men get extremely possessive, they get comfortable & start treating women like objects & not people. I think for him specifically, he could probably use more self reflection.
On Nelcias comment about gay men forcing their way in I say this, and this is my personal belief. The space was made because there are power WHITE MEN who made the space for gay men. Women as a whole are always put on the back burner. They made the space for gay men. Also, women tend to accept the “gay male” ideology because they for years have been the “gay best friend” and have been slowly having that space created for them. Gay WOMEN, especially gay black women, are seen as a threat to the black family and the black male ego. They don’t give a F about the gay male because they just see them ass a non factor.
This was a good conversation. I can say I really appreciate this young lady’s mind and her way of thinking. She is a great representation of the younger generation. I definitely wasn’t think like her at the age of 21. I’m glad y’all are having a part 2. 💯🥰 💕
We appreciate you chiming in!
So much to unpack. As someone who used to identify as a member of the LGBT community who is also a therapist and is now a Christian, there is so much to unpack in this conversation. 1- Thank you for your levels of transparency and honesty. 2- While I do believe that gender has an energy, Please know that masculinity and femininity is NOT based on how emotionally hard/ controlling or soft/vulnerable that one is. If it was, then we could put on gender like a costume or we could devalue/value ppls gender based on performance; And that’s NOT the case. 3- while I don’t thinks that being a woman or being feminine is completely defined by our behavior, I do believe that we were created with purpose. Part of that purpose is to be what our creator intended for us to be. every human false short and that falling short separates us from the Creator. Yet, Christ provides a way to creator and purpose. I am not saying “Come to Jesus and you will be straight”, nor am I saying “Just continue to do you and God will be ok with it”… I am saying I know a man who is God in the flesh, and can tell you all about yourself and align you with your eternal purpose. For more information I HIGHLY recommend A) PRAY and reading God’s word (start with the book of John, then Romans, Galatians, 1&2 Corinthians and then the rest of the New Testament)… B) read Jackie hill-Perry (gay girl good god) and watch videos on sexuality (Preston Sprinkle, Jackie hill perry, Jude 3 and more . C) Seek Godly community (not the weird everything is a spirit or the rules/ gender performance based community… but one of true love for Christ and His creation. May The MOST HIGH God of all creation protect your mind, body and even family from the plots, plans, schemes, and devices of the enemy. May He draw you with His unfailing and unrelenting Love, Holiness and Mercy. And may your hearts be open to Him and Him only. In Jesus name Amen. Good show and god bless.
We respect your path
You wassss pregnant putting your feelings out there 😂omg I’m💀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 ON DRU HILL « Tell me » Yooo I’m really sorry cause THAT must have been painful But hey in her shoes I’d have walked away too…( after saying no 😂)
DSLs 😅🤣🤣🤣🤣 geeeez that was hilarious I’m gonna keep that 🤣 Wheeew y’all are great to listen to 🫶🏾🫶🏾
Very mature for her age. Good points young lady 🫶🏽
OMG….I went to NIU too!!! Graduated in 2000.❤️
Is she a Cancer ♋️ or Sagittarius ♐️ 😄
Gemini lol
Society coddles men in general. I’m Gen X and I think if you’d ask any person in my generation who is coddled more Black men or Black women, I think the overwhelming response would be Black men. When the young man on the panel said, who do you think of when someone says “doctor,” I chuckled. An image of a Black woman would come to my mind wayyyy before an image of a Black man. It’s interesting how Black men seem to be in favor of gender norms that favor men, but would have a fit if the conversation was shifted to race. Lastly, of the three people on the panel if someone were to ask who is the smartest, I don’t think many would select the young man after listening to this conversation. I’m in no way trying to bash the young man on the panel, but I do notice that men who cling tightly to “traditional” gender roles happen to be the most insecure.
Loved the episode 🥰 And, as a newer subscriber, I really enjoyed seeing a different side of Nelcia and Aina as they interacted with this young woman/family member that they are so fond of and obviously love.
Aww I’m so happy for Danielle, she’s so happy and in love in her relationship it’s so refreshing to hear. She had a smile on my face the whole time 😊 if loving out loud had a face it would be hers ❤
I’m excited for part two. Everyone seems to be very blown away and intrigued at the fact that Danni is so mature and tapped in for her age. I’ve met more like her in her generation than I have the immature not yet tapped in ones, believe it or not 😌 She’s got a bright future ahead of her 💜😘 Blessings to her ✨💫
lol not y’all had y’all era I’m crying 😂😂😂
Such a great discussion. So many in-debt observations. I love your guest even though she is young she was able to share so much of herself. Bravo ladies 😊
I like how Danielle explained the whole pronouns thing. I really feel like thats a battle that I could never understand fr fr. But like yall said the grace should be extended to people who aren’t trans/nonbinary. A lot of us have went 30,40,50 years without having to use this kind of language so it definitely a major adjustment.
thank you for sharing 💚