Insecurities Centered Around Not Making A Woman Orgasm (Ep. 06)

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  • @queen_jaylo222
    @queen_jaylo2222 ай бұрын

    Yes! I’ve never had intercourse with a guy and I knew from a very young age that I was attracted to girls/women. And I don’t like when people say “Sumthin must’ve happened to them” and my question to that is so what about the ones that something happened to them fa real who are straight? 🤔 They be stuck without a answer 😂

  • @ashleyCu379

    @ashleyCu379

    2 ай бұрын

    😅😅😊😅😅😅😅😅😅

  • @chunter7782
    @chunter77822 ай бұрын

    You should have asked him how does he know he doesn’t like men if he’s never been with one 🤷🏾‍♀️ .. It’s mental for me. I knew the first day a saw a masculine presenting woman that I was not attracted to men. Everything about her was flattering.

  • @dyshemaross
    @dyshemaross2 ай бұрын

    It’s something about the dynamic that you all that makes these conversations so interesting to watch. Thank y’all for being so open and vulnerable. I learn so much from watching y’all.

  • @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    Thanks for that observation!!! We have been friends since the 90s 💪🏾💪🏾❤

  • @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much!

  • @sophienalubega2856

    @sophienalubega2856

    Ай бұрын

    I was thinking exactly this. I love their chemistry.

  • @chunter7782
    @chunter77822 ай бұрын

    Yes.. it’s important to communicate the levels of comfortability because we are all different. I don’t like to be licked like a dog or sucked like a vacuum.. It’s a turn off to me but your ex may have loved it!

  • @puseletso9776
    @puseletso97762 ай бұрын

    This topic needs part 2

  • @goldengoddessguidance2783
    @goldengoddessguidance27832 ай бұрын

    A lot of masculine women I dated wouldn’t allow me to explore anything.

  • @ayepee9775

    @ayepee9775

    2 ай бұрын

    That’s wild , I’m a stud and i love women , we can explore each other and more

  • @Urhiness415

    @Urhiness415

    2 ай бұрын

    That’s the real problem

  • @drika..7611

    @drika..7611

    2 ай бұрын

    This is definitely the real problem masculine women not opening up in the bedroom!!!

  • @kellirai35

    @kellirai35

    2 ай бұрын

    @@JustObserving313 It’s a problem being in an intimate relationship with someone who is guarded, it becomes very challenging to grow

  • @kellirai35

    @kellirai35

    2 ай бұрын

    @@JustObserving313 Then how do you get through hard times with your partner if your only solution is to leave. It’s not about changing someone’s personality it’s knowing when situations from your past are not allowing you to grow as a person. Think about it, if you can’t allow yourself to be touched, you won’t be able to maintain a healthy relationship with anyone. Is holding onto fear more beneficial than dealing with what’s holding you back? The alternative is a life alone. In the end is it worth it?

  • @mynk7329
    @mynk73292 ай бұрын

    So thankful for yall… clear communication is key! Talking about sex is not always easy y’all made it effortless.

  • @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    Effortless??? Ok bet 💪🏾 thanks for watching!

  • @goldengoddessguidance2783
    @goldengoddessguidance27832 ай бұрын

    Not spirit legs 😂😂😂😅

  • @SierraShante-S
    @SierraShante-S2 ай бұрын

    Aina was fighting for her life this episode lmao! I swear I feel that all the way tho im outside with y'all too! great episode as always great conversation and I never not laugh I be waiting on these episodes !

  • @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    Thanks for tuning in!

  • @1979MissMichelle
    @1979MissMichelle2 ай бұрын

    Talking about sex and all its intricate details is never easy. I truly appreciate you all for being so transparent and vulnerable with us about sex and exploration. The dynamic is great for discussing such sensitive topics. I appreciate you all so much and this discussion is very helpful for those of us trying to improve our relationships with women on different levels. Love you all.

  • @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    We love you back!

  • @tiffanytaylor45
    @tiffanytaylor452 ай бұрын

    Just found this space but gotta say, I feel like I found my tribe! OMG You are ripping thoughts literally out of my mind. I thought I was the only one thinking how I think on a lot of these topics. I have literally binged all the videos leading up to this one. Keep doing what you do and bringing what you're bringing! I love it here.

  • @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    Welcome aboard! We appreciate you!

  • @becominglala9365
    @becominglala93652 ай бұрын

    Y’all have me cracking up 😂

  • @kellirai35
    @kellirai352 ай бұрын

    I love the connection between the two of you this conversation was so vulnerable it makes me miss that spiritual connection I can only have with women. Bravo ladies😂😂❤😊😅

  • @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    We appreciate your support!

  • @faithmusser5219
    @faithmusser52192 ай бұрын

    There are different types of organisms as well. 😮

  • @Musiq3031
    @Musiq30312 ай бұрын

    This episode definitely needs a part 2!

  • @luvdastuds
    @luvdastuds2 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂 I can not stop laughing ❤❤❤ and I'm like yup yup yup 😂😂😂

  • @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    We appreciate you watching!

  • @2mrsnenajess
    @2mrsnenajessАй бұрын

    Damn... This Conversation Is Not For The Singles Sleepin Alone 🔥 😅 🥴 Yes To Frequencies Playin 😋 Yes To Masculine Centered Women With Little Femininity 💯 Yes To That Descriptive Fantasy From A 🫦

  • @chanell_le3
    @chanell_le32 ай бұрын

    I really like this new dynamic…. ❤

  • @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @GiGiDupris
    @GiGiDupris2 ай бұрын

    Great episode 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 I was thoroughly entertained

  • @TheAndromeda24
    @TheAndromeda242 ай бұрын

    This is thee best conversation!

  • @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you for watching!!

  • @KELLY-jv6hi
    @KELLY-jv6hi7 күн бұрын

    I'm a femme lesbian. I remember being in middle school and all the girls were boy crazy. If i got a "crush" on a boy, it would be because they were nice, funny, etc. It never had anything to do with looks. Then I went to girl scout camp the summer before freshman year. I saw this tomboy at the camp. This sensation happened in my body that I had never felt before. I was instantly infatuated. 25 years later, I've never had that sensation for any man. Compulsory hererosexuality is so programmed in people that they can't grasp that homosexuality is just as normal and requires no explanation.

  • @NyrishaThaA1singer
    @NyrishaThaA1singer2 ай бұрын

    Ok I would like to pose a part 2 of this and add different toys or interesting ways to introduce different type of sex or how to be more open to evasive things just to throw some things out there. Rope wrapping, shifting control, role play, spontaneity, what level do you open up Pandora’s box, like how deep does it go for the both of yall and or how closed off can it be. i always thought to give up control and trust in a sexual situation is such a sexy thing to me… 💁🏾‍♀️ I guess that’s tha Scorpio talkin 😌

  • @Musiq3031
    @Musiq30312 ай бұрын

    I am a verbal person I enjoy leading sometimes a person that can let go and just let me enjoy they is an extreme turn on if you’re uptight or in your head too much it ruins the mood . When it comes to me being with a masculine presenting it’s a must that you can relax and trust I will respect your boundaries but at the same time take you to a place you haven’t explored

  • @Bellalovelola
    @Bellalovelola2 ай бұрын

    This was a great conversation

  • @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @herwhirledvue
    @herwhirledvue2 ай бұрын

    Just wanted to say I appreciate your podcast and look forward to yall's new episodes every time they drop. Thanks for creating a space for discussion for the Shellas

  • @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    Thank you for tuning in 💪🏾

  • @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    We appreciate your presence here!!!

  • @marsha_rose
    @marsha_rose2 ай бұрын

    Loved this episode. You two being open and honest about your experiences was great to watch.

  • @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    Thanks for watching!

  • @allahshas4498
    @allahshas44982 ай бұрын

    I'm so happy that I'm watching this after work. Bc ya'll definitely had me lmao in this...

  • @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂 Thanks for watching

  • @GoddezzTe.TravelerOnGoooo
    @GoddezzTe.TravelerOnGoooo2 ай бұрын

    I really was intrigued with this episode and couldn’t wait for it and I enjoyed this episode so much very satisfied, keep up the good discussions ☺️‼️

  • @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for watching!

  • @sherinathorpe
    @sherinathorpe2 ай бұрын

    This was Dope I really enjoyed the conversation ❤❤❤

  • @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @YoHLaNG
    @YoHLaNG2 ай бұрын

    This was so good and entertaining 😂❤🎉

  • @NanaTheDon
    @NanaTheDon2 ай бұрын

    Ayy love the vibes ladies keep it up😊

  • @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @latashajordan2893
    @latashajordan28932 ай бұрын

    I Enjoyed Watching Y'all Episodes. Y'all are Beautiful, and we are who we are. I Love, and Respect everybody's Lifestyle❤️❤️

  • @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much!

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    @latashajordan2893

    2 ай бұрын

    @@TheShellaSpherePodcast You're Welcome!❤️

  • @Promise_Faith_love
    @Promise_Faith_love2 ай бұрын

    Skin glistening 😊. Love the glow

  • @phenomenal5537
    @phenomenal55372 ай бұрын

    Tantric 🙌❤ ... Yes, the 90's blended with tantric sounds playlist ... but it has to be experienced with a mature partner. Synchronizing your breathing is a great experience as well as a "prequalifier" to see if you can connect on a deeper tantric level. Once you experience THAT level of security within your sensuality as a woman, your energy is recalibrated to a different level.

  • @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing!!

  • @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    A pre qualifier?? Ok bet! Thanks

  • @allahshas4498
    @allahshas44982 ай бұрын

    That still line... 😂😂😂😂😂🤐

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    @themadamizm25582 ай бұрын

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  • @tdsiva9051
    @tdsiva9051Ай бұрын

    Awesome sauce

  • @drika..7611
    @drika..76112 ай бұрын

    I say yes if it’s together!!!

  • @BVsaceswz
    @BVsaceswzАй бұрын

    Where can I leave some questions for the show? Is there a way we can speak on upcoming topics?

  • @birdma108
    @birdma1082 ай бұрын

    This is me and my cousin all day 😂😂😂

  • @dferg9320
    @dferg93202 ай бұрын

    Communication is a MUST!! Side note…. 2 guest I highly recommend. Candle Bae and Damn Mindy.

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    @angelabrockington48172 ай бұрын

    I love it here ❤

  • @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    Thanks for watching

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    @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @lovelyval4397
    @lovelyval43972 ай бұрын

    I have definitely faked it but at this grown age I would just stop the woman and tell her it’s not it. 🥴. Communication is the key. Learning her body 💪🏼

  • @JuscallmeRobbie
    @JuscallmeRobbie2 ай бұрын

    Great episode! Keep them coming 😂

  • @faithmusser5219
    @faithmusser52192 ай бұрын

    How often have you ladies experienced your partner's surprise at being able to have multiple organisms during love making? It seems that women don't know what they are actually capable of in the bedroom. But when they discovered that it was like taking it to a new level. There was a happy shock and surprise!

  • @theselfcenterllc
    @theselfcenterllc2 ай бұрын

    I'm in my voyeuristic bag today 😅 I don't have any comments except this one 🍵🍿 Edit: I straight lied to myself and yall 😅 I tore that live chat up honey! 🤣🤣🤣 **sips lemon water**

  • @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    Lol I love your comments 💪🏾💯

  • @SCISSORINGQUEEN
    @SCISSORINGQUEEN2 ай бұрын

    New subscriber here ❤

  • @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    Welcome!! We appreciate your presence in this space!

  • @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    Yoooo! This @ is crazyyyyu!! 💪🏾💪🏾 Thanks for watching!

  • @HERSTORY_888
    @HERSTORY_888Ай бұрын

    I'm masc and I'm attracted to all females. Aina always been fine to me. Please don't get offended, it's a compliment 😂 You know we love those! 😜 LEO GANG 🔥👑♌

  • @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    Ай бұрын

    LEO GANG 🦾🦾🦾

  • @tianastephens8225
    @tianastephens8225Ай бұрын

    This conversation had me parched🔥 💦 😂

  • @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    Ай бұрын

    😩😂

  • @user-bl4xv4dx2t
    @user-bl4xv4dx2t2 ай бұрын

    Anyone should talk to their partner BEFORE the sex. If you do it BEFORE, everything can be worked out. It's that simple! ; )

  • @XRESET.AND.FLY555
    @XRESET.AND.FLY5552 ай бұрын

    MARQUITA was definetely suffering !! oh Leo , leo ,leo with their dirty mind hahahaha.... you guys should do a pod on astro sign you dated

  • @chunter7782
    @chunter77822 ай бұрын

    Wait am I late to the party..

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    @crystalrios31922 ай бұрын

    👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @DJLisha
    @DJLisha2 ай бұрын

    Aina must be a Leo 🥴

  • @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    Yup lol

  • @tarahhhj
    @tarahhhj2 ай бұрын

    I’m curious to know how often is too often when it comes to libido for you both? You said you like to miss it, so what’s a time range?

  • @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    We’ll add this as an ending question to a future episode.

  • @Rita30rage
    @Rita30rage2 ай бұрын

    👂👏😊❤❤

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    @chunter77822 ай бұрын

    Ok moneybagg yo 😂😂

  • @queen_jaylo222
    @queen_jaylo2222 ай бұрын

    I’m trying to donate to the Cashapp but the profile is not poppin up when I type in the name.

  • @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    It’s $theshellas 🙏🏽

  • @queen_jaylo222

    @queen_jaylo222

    2 ай бұрын

    Can you post the link in the description? For some reason it’s nothing popping up when I type in that name.

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    @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    cash.app/$theshellas

  • @queen_jaylo222

    @queen_jaylo222

    2 ай бұрын

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  • @MsNastasiaB
    @MsNastasiaB3 ай бұрын

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  • @YondiasHill
    @YondiasHill2 ай бұрын

    I love y'all sooooooo much!!! Spirit legs huh.... 😏

  • @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    We love you back!

  • @bonoloferim2259
    @bonoloferim22592 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @888beloved
    @888beloved2 ай бұрын

    Can someone please tell me what the hell “Pokémon” is??? In all of my lesbianism I have never come across such terminology I’m so confused & thrown off.

  • @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    😂 Pokémon is a term myself and a college teammate made up for fingering 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ we had clique 😩😩😂😂😂 and a handshake

  • @888beloved

    @888beloved

    2 ай бұрын

    @@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast wow. & after all these years, you guys let that live like it was in the dictionary 😂 that’s the word that stood the test of time? An unsexy anime born term. That’s great.

  • @ladyant73
    @ladyant733 ай бұрын

    😉🫶🏾🔥

  • @TheClosetRatchet
    @TheClosetRatchet2 ай бұрын

    Aina so fine. Damn.

  • @nikag8666
    @nikag86662 ай бұрын

    This was a great episode and I related a LOT. I am glad you covered a subject that we shy away from because sex is powerful and communication is key. 🫶🏾👍🏾

  • @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    Thank you for watching!!

  • @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    @TheShellaSpherePodcast

    2 ай бұрын

    We appreciate you tuning in!

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