"Know the language but still read the subtitle" gang where you at?

@msnina5379

4 жыл бұрын

Iya interesting to see how they translate our informal speaking 😁

@taeyocaa9675

4 жыл бұрын

Here 🙋

@zeinhermanto3354

4 жыл бұрын

Filipinos : don't know the lenguage but think similiar to their 😂 Berani taruhan gw pasti ada yg komen kek gini

@adityahakim7420

4 жыл бұрын

Saya dsni masss 🙏😂😂😂

@RivaldoRamli

4 жыл бұрын

Mantap jiwa semuanya 🤣

I'm Indonesian. In my neighborhood most girls get married around 16-19 yo. The youngest one is 14 yo. But mostly because the girls get pregnant before marriage. I'm a 28 yo woman and haven't married yet. And I know my neighbors are gossiping about me especially because I'm still dating my boyfriend in long distance relationship. The pressure on me to get married is unbearable. I get used to hear this from them very often, "Leave that man! Just marry someone without dating!"

@DimitriMoreira

4 жыл бұрын

Marry without dating? Like you're some kind of commodity to be trade off? Wtf... And you're 28? So what? You're not old. Don't give in to the pressure. Do whatever you want. Marry because you want to, not because your neighbors gossip about it.

@mutiyangpilingbabae9207

4 жыл бұрын

No girl, just ignore them you are doing it right. You made the right decision to not marry at a very young age.

@Alexlittle9

4 жыл бұрын

Be patient and love YOUR life...live for you😘

@sb8095

4 жыл бұрын

Just do what you want and don't listen to people

@bigmaculous

4 жыл бұрын

Freeze some of your eggs if youre not married by 30 yrs old. The older you are, the more chances for mutation. Best wishes.

There are two kinds of people: A: "She's wasting her youth. She could've...." A: "become a doctor" B: "PLAY"

@simedioker

3 жыл бұрын

🤣 6:10

As Indonesia myself, i disagree with "young marriage" I'm 21 years old, and I'm still not ready to get married. You have to mentally prepare, and take big responsibility too. Cus, when someone is too young, they still unstable to know what's right and wrong. some say it is to avoid adultery, which not. Marriage life isn't always about sex and lovey dovey fantasy. I'm not married. But, i know how hard it is when you step on it. Taxes, need money, take care of the children, Clean the house, work, your child is crying, get yell at work/house, arguments, etc. I see so many cases like: Abandoned child, Divorce, Arguments everyday in front of the child, etc. Edit: why I'm telling this? Cus so many who already married, even my family said so. Its not easy yes. But, hey if you young marriage its okay, I hope you have a best life! Its happen alot. I'm still act like a child, and still want to be free before ready to get married someday. I'm still pursuit my dream too, and work hard for the future. (Edit: if you the person who's agree with young marriage, that's fine. People have different point of view. But, this is just my personal opinion.) Update: in Indonesia there's a new policy for someone who going to married and need to test if they ready for married yet, and telling them how after married will be. Like I said: how to paying taxes, how to do when baby born, etc. If you want to read that, you can google it. I think cus so many cases like family abused, divorce, etc. And the government want to drop the rate. But, idk maybe change? Maybe not? I mean that's good to have like that.

@jaeger9654

4 жыл бұрын

Aisha married at 6.

@foreverdreamer9171

4 жыл бұрын

@@jaeger9654 , do you support early marriage?

@jaeger9654

4 жыл бұрын

@ratna chanel istri nabi juga cewek

@rif-q8521

4 жыл бұрын

@@jaeger9654 setiap negara dan setiap jaman mempunyai budaya dan kebiasaan yg berbeda bambanggg

@iarshintasudjana4382

4 жыл бұрын

S7😍bgt....kebanyakan nikah muda kl didukung ibu kandung yg mau masak dan bantu2 urus cucu... Utk mandiri pasti beratt bgt

Most of those girl that married under the age of 21 usually because they came from a poorer family, arranged marriage and/or didnt finish school or care to further their education... its not uncommon to see these conditions in Indonesia

@simsgazytech2013

4 жыл бұрын

TRUEE

@NightcorEDM

4 жыл бұрын

Happens in all poorer families AROUND THE WORLD ALSO!

@noobadinsaan369

4 жыл бұрын

@@NightcorEDM Yahh but it can be prevented

@Cheeseboiga

4 жыл бұрын

@@noobadinsaan369 yeah. As we grow up we all kept on seeing morally wrong things that never got in a discussion just because it's "common", or deemed as "normal". Crap like that is what kept the public from rediscussing the problems.

@chiyoko4244

4 жыл бұрын

And the poverty cycle continues...

The matured lady with the headscarf seems super intelligent!

I'm Indonesian. One of my housemaid married when she was 15 years old. Now, she is 23 years old and don't have a child. Her husband is very poor and she had to work as a housemaid (she was work at factory before, but she don't like it). I ask her once. "After you married for 8 years, are you happy?" She said "No, better marry after 25 YO and have enough savings". And i have a cousin that married when she was 16 YO (now 24 YO). Her life is miserable, she is divorced with her alcoholic ex husband who likes to beat her and having affair, she lived in rent apartment with 6 YO son, selling food and cake. For me. Marry is not just about love. But, responsible, affection and loving.

@j358x7

4 жыл бұрын

Wether someone marries at 20 or at 30 doesn't matter if they fall for bad boys they will always have a miserable life.

@miguelbermudez5426

4 жыл бұрын

@@j358x7 I second that!! Too many women fall for bad boys but then want the "Knight in Shining Armor" to save them from their bad and destructive decision making.

@yiquanchen7916

4 жыл бұрын

Many east asia countries share similar problems. Lacking of sex education before 18 YO, avoiding but sometimes happening to have sexual intercourse out of marriage, and with a culture that strongly disagree with that. IMHO, I do think sex education is the key solution. FYI, I'm Chinese.

@williamgunther6069

4 жыл бұрын

Married at 15 wtf??

@sharlemon08

4 жыл бұрын

I don't mean to be rude but you need to fix your English grammar

there are kids in indonesia whos being married legally to old dudes as long as their parents allowed it.

@svckshinesunflower1959

4 жыл бұрын

roni nontroll especially if they want to pay their debt and use their children as the toll

@bendegorro754

4 жыл бұрын

It's happen on rural place, yes. Hardly happen on big city. So what you're going to do with it ?

@flightlesscoffeebirdboy9655

4 жыл бұрын

I had discussion about this. The conclusion we got is, economic burden of poor people.

@HarekaTysiri

4 жыл бұрын

Cough saefuji cough

@ndiyabucaphukelaubusobakho1732

4 жыл бұрын

@Darren Ya, I heard he claims that his god is timeless and knows the future so there's no excuse for marrying a 6 year old even tho it was normal at that time

Young marriage are common in rural area because of tradition. But in big cities, they do it because the girl get pregnant. 😅

@zbigbozbboy5245

4 жыл бұрын

True

@uzuhany7412

4 жыл бұрын

Truth

@Emy4316

4 жыл бұрын

Yes

@streltsov-kun1088

4 жыл бұрын

Да, согласен!

@MaryIsEatingAnApple

4 жыл бұрын

Nah. Both are from pregnancies

In Malaysia, where I'm from, we're already facing this issue of child marriage. I do not want Indonesia to go through the same problem. The best way to prevent child marriage in any country is not only for governments to set the minimum age for marriage, but also for every woman, regardless of income background, to have the best and most decent education possible, so that they can economically support themselves.

@MultiGreatNinja

4 жыл бұрын

Ekmal Sukarno i Think regulating arrange marriage needs to be a thing too. Though I don’t know how religious the arrange marriage in indonesia is like say here in the Philippines the minimum age is 18 but due to religious reasons muslim communities can marry at a younger age usually through arrangement. So yeah that’s probably why some people do not agree in increasing the age.

@ekmalsukarno2302

4 жыл бұрын

Jessie Briones In the Philippines, Muslims are a minority, so they tend to live by their own rules. In Malaysia, on the other hand, any laws that set the minimum age for marriage will definitely impact its Muslim-majority population. Then again, child marriages in Malaysia are mostly common in rural areas, where laws regarding the minimum age of marriage are not implemented strictly enough.

@danialhannan9167

4 жыл бұрын

@@ekmalsukarno2302 i think i rarely heard child marriages here...and yes im from rural areas too...if you are talking about other religions marriage here,maybe it's true bcs im a muslim...

@siso8683

4 жыл бұрын

dpt nama sukarno drmn korang?

@HeavenlySaviour

4 жыл бұрын

Ekmal Sukarno That was well said and I agree with you

Indonesian sounds like music to my ears. Love it.

@aroesdi7483

3 жыл бұрын

@@averglio8119 javanesse apaan? Denger tuh jokowi ngomong nah itu aksen jawa beda bgt dg di vidio nih.

@antiorangtolol5819

3 жыл бұрын

@@aroesdi7483 wkwkwk jAvANeSe dong

@kurnie17

3 жыл бұрын

@@aroesdi7483 semua presiden indon dari jawa kecuali habibi, apa mereka semua sama cara ngomongnya?

@jhienja8678

3 жыл бұрын

@@averglio8119 it isn't javanese accent, its normal indonesian accent. and fyi Indonesian accent is likely flat and plain not have hard accent and thats why indonesian actually have privilege to talking other language well. and for the commenters : maybe thats why you can enjoy indonesian, maybe :3

@derrierelobscurite7358

3 жыл бұрын

It's not javanese accent dude, it's modern indonesian accent

16 years old is waaaay to young ;o I'm 25 now and feel I don't wanna get married yet. When I was 16 I still thought about my Disney crushes lol XD

@doyouknowtheway6282

4 жыл бұрын

Yup u r right

@wavemaker2077

4 жыл бұрын

Are you Indonesian?

@TimeManInJail

4 жыл бұрын

Developing nations cannot afford the luxury we see as norm, young brides or early marriage is the best option for people who are in poverty. There are other factors but poverty stricken is the major cause.

@-datnerd-3125

4 жыл бұрын

Speak for yourself

@siegel947

4 жыл бұрын

Disney why ?

Hai... I'm Indonesian, and I propose Asian Boss to interview about government people (DPR/People Representative Councils) about their abrupt decision on new ratification on Old Regulative in Indonesia. Thank You Asian Boss

@daffa690

3 жыл бұрын

...

I'm French, My mom was married at 18, but she was mature and too much responsible (most of her friends were elder than her) and she had me at 19. It was not an arranged marriage, she married because she was in love. But please don't force yourself if you're not ready, you're gonna regret it, and it might cause some traumatize or stress... In other side I don't see the problem if the girl is ready, mature, responsible and want it, but under the age of 18 it's young I think. My old grandma (in Algeria) was forced to marry at age of 16, she escaped by the window the day of the marriage lol (it was canceled after)

@wanishabirahmad9268

11 ай бұрын

Nice

im indonesian and all my friends from elementary school and junior high school are married. im 23yo just graduated from university, and if i back to my hometown (small city in indonesia), they're always asked me when i get married... hell nah.. i think 23 still young enough! i need to know the world more and im still not ready for married yet...

@wanishabirahmad9268

11 ай бұрын

I post Graduation

I am a men working overseas and originally from rural area of indonesia now I’m 26 years old and all of my friends there mostly already have 2 kids cause the got married just after graduated from junior high school( 16 YO), when i go home I’m the one who look weird cause remain single in this age LOL, the question “kapan nikah?” Is so irritating sometimes..

@iarshintasudjana4382

4 жыл бұрын

Dont mind them! You hv done your decision to be single until you r ready. Wait until mature enough rather than sorry😀

@donnyef7282

4 жыл бұрын

Iarshinta sudjana yeah..since they started to ask few years ago,.now im strong enough not to give a damn about their questions.. aahahahah

@StudioArtFX

4 жыл бұрын

You are wise. Go and build your life and get what you want.

@rg9448

4 жыл бұрын

I can relate to that Though many of my friends are still not married too Let them speak whatever they want dude. You will marry when you feel like wanting to marry. No rush

@user-oj7tf5vl9j

4 жыл бұрын

You shouldn't go back, there is neither hope nor future there.

In Uzbekistan a month ago, the marriage age was 17 for women and 18 for men. From September 1, the marriage age for men and women changed to 18.

@GauravKumar-qr8pt

4 жыл бұрын

In India age for marriage for men is *21* and *19* for female

"Kenapa kok ga mengagetkan buat ibu?".. "La saya sendirikan nikah mudaaa..." Ibu" emang suka bercanda

@fajarmaulanayang

3 жыл бұрын

Vanessa Adev haha

@Leon-dx4jc

3 жыл бұрын

faktanya yang paling ngakak itu kebanyakan cewek is... yang hamil hadehh..

@febrianeki6668

3 жыл бұрын

Bedakan jaman ya ..ibu itu nikah mungkin 30-35 thn yg lalu

@byunbaekhyun2283

2 жыл бұрын

Jamannya juga beda:),itu ibu2 mungkin umur 50-an,dijamannya dulu nikah umur 19 wajar,kalau jaman sekarang kan ga wajar, daripada nikah tapi ga bisa ngapa2in mending gausah nikah dulu.

@febrianeki6668

2 жыл бұрын

@@Leon-dx4jc saya tau maksud komen anda , tapi harusnya anda pintar sedikit karena emang warga islam adalah mayoritas. Begitupun dinegara non islam pasti non islam yg menjadi kebanyakan hamil mudanya tapi dikebanyakan negara mayoritas non islam warganya banyak yang melakukan aborsi/membunuh janin.oke

I particularly think that between 16-19 years old we are still developing mentally and physically, like, my friends think about getting married and having children in their late 30s.

@keepscrolling1767

4 жыл бұрын

Yes because some people are immature 30 is too old tbh to me to make that the average age to get marriage

@katherineevangelia9649

4 жыл бұрын

And when you are at 30 you already to old, and the ladies prefer more the younger one

@Robbie0208

4 жыл бұрын

@@keepscrolling1767 I think it's very subjective you know? Most of them (my friends) want to focus on the professional future, financially, these things, but i understand your point of view.

@asit6947

4 жыл бұрын

Lol I'm 18 and not gonna marry until late 20s or even at 30

@CGTestKdnihaf

4 жыл бұрын

I think it would be fine for girl who don't have a goal or don't have anyone else beside them if they marry with some mature guy that have a job and a fine life. Beside 18 age legalization is a country law not a world law. The law that allow you to marry when you're wise, can take responsibility have reach puberty and have a body to bear child and most people reach puberty when they're above 14 year old like what our pass predecessor did when electricity still not exist yet but It's not fit in this modern day nowadays since they have a school and a goal they want to achieve, but I think legal to marry only when you're 18 mostly only apply to a man not to a girl.

I think the interviewer is much better now. Sorry mas2 yang duluu, bukan maksud mematikan rejeki. Please cover Students' protest against our goverment now

@lengkengjeruk

4 жыл бұрын

Nah ini!

@FerdiIrawanID

4 жыл бұрын

si masnya rada gagap ama kaku sih, but mad respect for him, gw pun belom tentu bisa ngomong lancar di depan kamera

@tonilts7235

3 жыл бұрын

Elu yg ngebuli dia yah... hahha Makan tainya aja bro, dia sampai diundang ke korea.. sedangkan lu masih bego di kampung wkwkwk 😁

@rickville8898

2 жыл бұрын

@@tonilts7235 hhahaa sakit hati ini yang dimomen datang

That's a good change. 16 was way too young. Anyways, if you wanna make more Indonesia related content, I can suggest another interesting topic at hand. The government is currently planning on a constitutional "reform", and it seems that the majority of its people don't consent to the change.

@hilmidwiputranto6944

4 жыл бұрын

yeah I was just about to say this

@zeke1145

4 жыл бұрын

@🔴Warped🔴 for romeo and crusades this was old asf for them

@rizamayl9397

4 жыл бұрын

YESSS

@zainabumar2994

4 жыл бұрын

Those were complicated contents, because it's about a whole law. Even not many Indonesians understand.

@s.a.8548

4 жыл бұрын

@🔴Warped🔴 His first wife and most loved one was a 45 year old women when he was 20 so no.

Most of the cases, true to the answers, are happening in the rural area. They usually do not have aspiration or even education that makes them think about something bigger. So they get married because that’s what the supposedly normal “next step” for them, to build family. Also the cultural aspect where girls over 25 is considered “late” or old to get married plays a role in normalizing young marriages. I do think that even though we still have a long way to go, raising the minimum age requirement to get married is a good step forward to help young girls escape underage marriages.

As an Indonesian, I think people should be aware that there's a very big poverty gap in Indonesia and I'm very suprised to hear that there's still a lot of child brides here. I think that this situation is very common in more rural areas of Indonesia or people who live in kampungs however it is very frowned uppon in cities and by people with educational backgrounds.

@KimAhrina11

Жыл бұрын

My mom is a d*ctor. They surveyed these things, indeed yeah in rural the cases can be because of teenage pregnancies or poverty, like the parents letting their kids get married ( around 16/17, can't continue hs). While in the big cities mostly because of teenage pregnancies. But it's still not common even in kampungs or rural areas, try you go to kampungs or small towns in other islands etc. There's no way that people said something like common when the cases mostly from 5/7 because childs/teenagers that marriages out of wedlock. In the rural areas, they get married above 18 y.o/after hs especially if they come from below middle class or poor. If you check tho, Indonesia is not the country in the list of the highest child marriage rate as of 2021.

I'm 19 years old and live in a small city. My parents never wants me to get married at such a young age, almost all of my friends are the same too. Not much people i know here got married right after they graduate from high school, they all went to college. Well for me, personally. I never ever want to get married. I don't even have any plans to date someone, I've been having this thought since i wad in primary school. I think that marriage is something that made me have to lose everything i have just to raise kids and take care of my family?? Sorry but that's a waste of time for me. I think that being alone is great, I don't spend my money that much, and if i did, i would only spend it on my parents. I really want to bring them traveling around the world, i want to buy them a house, i want them to just relax without thinking of having to work. That's all I've ever wanted in my entire life. Also, having kids are hard as hell and i don't want to be part of that. I don't like kids either, they're pretty annoying

@surbhiprasad8411

3 жыл бұрын

Well I suppose you are a great child and a blessing to your parents but its okay to think about yourself too. If being single gives you joy in life go ahead and pursue it. I was so stubborn that I will become monk when I was around 10 and now I am 19 I want to date. Its your wish though at the end of the day. But its okay to explore other options and if you don't like it you can always disregard it.

@kokave7139

3 жыл бұрын

Good for you. Keep pursuing your dream!

my mom is Indonesian , i remember she told me about the dating system in Indonesia 🙂 the fact that some people actually marry without dating to prevent sins 😅

@fauzafitriyah

4 жыл бұрын

I actually have many friends like this, most are religious. I cant imagine that happen to me, but i guess that works for them

@touristfromearth

3 жыл бұрын

but it's uncommon

@yoanitabalya5574

3 жыл бұрын

Yah i also marry without dating when i was 19 yo and a university student .and have a daughter when i was 21 yo after my graduation lol

@njannah97

2 жыл бұрын

Yup it's called Halal Courtship. Even that one needs to be educated in how to be conducted properly. However, with widespread ignorance, low education, all these traditions it will be difficult to adapt or even see the beauty of it. Most times, the Halal Courtship is being misused thus people see the option of dating which is by right not allowed in Islam as the concept of Ikhtilat which is the Intermingling of Sexes. People who misused the Halal Courtship and making it look bad which leads to people prefering dating and thus committing more sins are also bad as well. Hhh, we are not to commit sins. 1. Teenagers want to try out cause want to experience. That's also a stupid logic. Can be solved with more governmental education on sex awareness and religion education on sins. These could curb the sex-out-of-marriage leading to pregnancy which leads to child marriages. 2. Child marriages as a result of tradition. This one also goes with governmental education not much of religious education because this is in the jurisdiction of culture and mindsets. Parents need to view statistics and be educated on harmfulness of child marriages and even have parental counselling/how to be a parent classes. Simply marry off daughter because can't afford...is sooo much an economic and poverty issue. This could be solved with more support in job-related sectors which could help alleviate people out of poverty. With more out of poverty, more will have jobs or think about their future first and not marriages. This will lead to decrease in child marriages. Kind of a chain reaction with all parties at fault one way or another. All problems are intertwined and interconnected with one another.

@wanishabirahmad9268

11 ай бұрын

​@@yoanitabalya5574Indonesian girls lost their virginity before teenage

Absolutely not. Thats the answer im looking for.

@Vinnafetish

4 жыл бұрын

Period!

@tolor8180

4 жыл бұрын

TOONFLIX Exactly. Young girls are still kids and need to appreciate they teen-hood, and etc. Especially because teenage girls are still developing and mentally.

@toonflix3757

4 жыл бұрын

@@tolor8180 first of .. who the f would marry a teen. you know better than her as an adult or a guy. Its not about age doesnt matter its about doing whats right and pretty much everyone knows this right? They need to change the system to protect the lives of youngsters as they still dont know what they are doing. If this continues what would happen in the next generation much more worse than this, poor children. I have notice this oftenly about marrying young teenage girls and even a child. People nowadays ...

@tolor8180

4 жыл бұрын

TOONFLIX I’m a teenage girl. I was agreeing that teenage girls are kids and not adults, because we aren’t mature and etc

@tolor8180

4 жыл бұрын

TOONFLIX omg you misread my comment, I’m a kid myself 💀

USA and South Korea both countries have a minimum age for females at 16 so why are you only presenting this like it only happens in Indonesia. In USA girls in high school get pregnant at a very high rate and they even made a show about it called ''16 and Pregnant'' and ''Teen Mom''.

@depthstrider68

4 жыл бұрын

I know right

@bendegorro754

4 жыл бұрын

Because everything about them are "modern", us the Asians are "retards".

@lifetobelived9102

4 жыл бұрын

actually teen pregnancy has been on the decline. Where you see a big increase in pregnancies is the year after graduation. Teenagers are pretty stressed with school and getting good grades to get into college. They are more goal orientated than years past because they've lived through the recession and they know jobs are guaranteed.

@ohnoitsaaaaa

4 жыл бұрын

Hello, you have the age mixed up for USA! The minimum age to get married here is generally 18. That’s also the age of consent here as well as the official age of adulthood. So how do shows like “16 and Pregnant” happen? Well nobody can dictate when you choose to get pregnant. However, if you’re 16 and your partner is 18 or over, your parents may be allowed to take your partner to court for statutory rape. Not every state has this law yet but I live in California and that’s the law here. Can’t speak for South Korea, but all I can say is that 18 is also still too young to be making decisions like marriage. I think 21 is a smarter age to determine maturity and adulthood.

@gilangpermadi8828

4 жыл бұрын

@@ohnoitsaaaaa unless google lied to me, in usa you can get married at 16 with the consent of your parent or guardian.

I was shocked when the girl said the man's minimum was already 19. WHAT? It really should be the same minimum age for everyone. That's super weird they didn't have that before. Chattel marriage was sorta okay hundreds of years ago, not so much now.

@nofanfelani6924

4 жыл бұрын

It's not THAT suprising actually. Generally man enters puberty period 1-2 years later than woman. And woman also enters the menopause age much earlier than man. I don't agree with such rules, but i can understand why it exist.

@Jim73

4 жыл бұрын

@@nofanfelani6924 You're saying women enter menopause earlier than men? You might want to think about that more. Men don't have menopause. Also, girls have a growth spurt about 2 years earlier than boys around 12 years old, so maybe we need to protect boys from overdeveloped girls? ;)

@sb8095

4 жыл бұрын

@@Jim73 prevent boys from overdeveloped girls? That doesn't make any sense.

@nofanfelani6924

4 жыл бұрын

@@Jim73 Nah, man also enters the "infertile" period when they are old. I don't know what it's called, perhaps the term is different. And oops, sorry i got it wrong. just like you said, girls do growth spurt earlier than boys. in fact , that's what i was trying to say. That's why in some country woman have lower marriageable age than man.

@GenerationNextNextNext

4 жыл бұрын

@@nofanfelani6924 Actually, WOMEN, scientifically, reach puberty before men do. Still, while women reaches menopause much sooner, men decrease in stamina and push very soon as well.

Honestly I feel like you shouldn't get married until you're at least 21 years old. That's when your brain is fully developed (it's between 21-25); It'd be pretty difficult for you to make rational decisions before then, because literally the 'rational' part of your brain is still developing (and it's only HALF way finished at 18). You also most likely have to go to school at 16, so there's a TON of stuff you still need to learn and figure out in life, you're so immature with hopefully a lot of oppurtunities, you should get all that handled and make sure you know what you want before settling down...

@ScarlettKriss

4 жыл бұрын

I married at 18, I wish now I hadn't. We are ok, he's ok, but it's just ok.

@ChiragKava

4 жыл бұрын

@@ScarlettKriss Have a good life

@joelmontealegre.banaco1224

4 жыл бұрын

That is better than 18 years of age get married.

@nicolegrant8101

4 жыл бұрын

@ For some it is, there's a range between 21-25; 21 is generally the earliest.

@fetchstixRHD

4 жыл бұрын

I’m someone who’s for personal freedom and being able to do whatever you want (bar hurting other people etc) but for that you need to be able to understand the risks/downsides/upsides you’re getting into in order to accept them.

3 of my classmates is married, fyi I'm 16 yo. I'm Indonesian and I'm not living in the city so actually it's pretty common here and perhaps way to common. It's even worse that some of them is incest. It's disgusting tbh.

Before any of you Indonesians gonna comment about the New Bill Protests here, please be calm and collected and not rush AsianBoss with bad, stupid words. They covered HK protest, lets just hope they'll do the same for the protests here in Indonesia too.

@Tama-sw8tn

4 жыл бұрын

agree

@ProjectbyMAS

4 жыл бұрын

Actually, you can submit your work to Asian Boss regardless your Asian region. It's because only Jakarta's journalists that proactive submit their street interviews. You can read on the description box about volunteering your work to Asian boss

Im Indonesian, why am i reading subtitle 🙃?

@tonihidayat4927

4 жыл бұрын

Ahahaha

@HarekaTysiri

4 жыл бұрын

To see how translation could change some meaning of the content

@immapunchu5313

4 жыл бұрын

Hehehe kebiasaan kali.

@harisnaufalia3430

4 жыл бұрын

Maybe because you're used to watching foreign movie with subtitles?

@zetsuboualbert9798

4 жыл бұрын

Stiap asian boss keknya ada komen ginian mele

Mostly young marriage happened because of teen pregnancy. In Indonesia, it's a taboo thing to talk about sex education, yet the older generation still tell racy jokes freely. Once they found out their children get pregnant, they only forced them to get married, as if there's no other solution. I also ever read news where a raped victim being forced to marry her raper. That's a nightmare. Also, since the older generation getting married in such a young age, like my grandma get married at age 16, they still see young marriage as a normal thing just because that's how they used to be. Ngl, as soon I turned 20 and still in college, my family asked me a lot about when will I'm getting married and they considered my age as the perfect age to get married and have children. Now that I'm 23 and still haven't introduce my boyfriend to my family, they legit think I'm not normal. And from my perspective, my generation or at least people around my age have no big interest in marriage because we see how messed up our parents marriage is, I have many friends whose parents are divorced, some of their parents also abandoned them and they have to struggle alone.

@wanishabirahmad9268

11 ай бұрын

Are you single or having boyfriend

I am from Indonesia ... my mother was also married from the age of 13 and my father is 21 .. Thank God my family is still given happiness ... Early marriage in Indonesia occurs due to several factors, there are from the family economy, lack of education, violation of norms, or arrangement marriage... But most of them occur because of pregnancy outside of marriage ... a lot of my friends or acquaintances who get married early and don't continue their education. As a result, their lives are only focused on how they earn money for their daily needs, without being able to dream or explore their own abilities. Its so sad to see them do their life only for giving birth, earn money, take care of their husband/wife without do something more than that. Also I'm agree that the mindset of my people is need to be changed. Even our government create a law about that we still so stubborn and still in the mind that the woman only ends up being a wife.. the only thing we need to change is the people also. Thankfully my parents are not really persue me to get married or having a partner..They give me the freedom to choose what is best to live.

@apriadi199

3 жыл бұрын

Ngmong naon aing mah gk isa bahsa egless

@wanishabirahmad9268

11 ай бұрын

Hi

Masalahnya di indonesia ga semua kawin muda manage their life into successful life jaraaang. Kebanyakan kawin muda di daerah cerai, anak ga keurus. NGomongin ini karen Ibu ku punya usaha bisnis yang pekerjanya Janda janda yang cerai sebelum umur 23 tahun. Mereka antara cerai atau kawin umur 16 tahun. Pendidikan mentok SMP. SUami ga tanggung jawab karena usia ga jauh. Rata rata konflik rumah tangga berujung kabur, ekonomi ga jelas dkk. Miris denger cerita mereka , mau nyalahin kawin muda tidak menyelesaikan masalah

@ifafauziah5546

4 жыл бұрын

True that. Banyak yang belom nyadar kalo marriage life itu complex.

@zbigbozbboy5245

4 жыл бұрын

Yakin bukan shotgun marriage, kalau shotgun marriage aku percaya itu tapi kalau yg bener2 siap dan yakin aman2 aja tuh beberapa kenalanku bisa kok malah sampek sekarang lengket terus kayak prangko.

@simsgazytech2013

4 жыл бұрын

@@zbigbozbboy5245 bukan ga ada yang shotgun marriage. jangan kayak gitu mas orang daerah meskipun pendidikan rendah ga semurahan itu juga kawin gara gara MBA. meskipun ada kebanyakan memang karena kurang pendidikan dan ekonomi rendah. kenalan lu lengket kayak mungkin karena lu tinggal di KOTA. bukti banyak yang balik lagi kerja setelah berhenti karena punya anak. karena suami aja ga bisa mencukupi kehidupan sehari hari. mereka juga sama kayak kita yang kerja kantoran pengen ngasih orangtua, ga usah minta izin ke suami. Dengan mereka kerja suami macem macem mereka punya power buat nentuin hidup sendiri. ada yang cerai karena KDRT kok.

@zbigbozbboy5245

4 жыл бұрын

@@simsgazytech2013 MBA gak mesti shotgun marriage mas , mas pulang berduaan sampai tengah malem jg bisa kena MBA tapi kalau Shotgun Marriage itu lebih spesific ke yg wanita hamil sebelum nikah. Dan saya tidak merendahkan intelectual seseorang jadi mas jg jangan merendahkan intectual seseorang.

@iarshintasudjana4382

4 жыл бұрын

S7...

APAPUN ALASANNYA, GUA GASETUJU PERNIKAHAN MUDA. Yah kecuali kalau mau jadi ibu muda sih gara2 hamil diluar nikah, tapi tetap aja disayangkan. Umur sekitaran belasan itu menurut aku belum sepenuhnya berkembang mental dan fisiknya. Yang seharusnya gadis belum harus memikul banyak tanggung jawab. Jaga suami, jaga anak, belum lagi desakan apa dari mertua. Ku juga sekarang baru umur 19, kalau disuruh nikah amit2 jabang bayi ohtuhan aku gamau. Gua masih mau ngeyam pendidikan, masih mau liat dunia luar juga, mau dapet pengalaman2 baru. Kasihan sama gadis2 yang dipaksa orangtua atau tradisinya buat nikah muda. Berapa banyak kesempatan yg terlewatkan?? Cuman mau berdoa aja, semoga mata2 orang yg masih keterbelakangan cara pandang mereka bisa terbuka.

@wanishabirahmad9268

11 ай бұрын

I can't understand Indonesian

Isn't a big part of it what's scientifically considered a "child" now? We've reached a point in the modern world now where we know a lot more about brain chemistry and maturity. The cultures are just catching up. A century ago an unmarried 18 year old would have been odd to say the least. But then the father would have been able to support the family too. And life expectancy was much lower, as was population. I think that in the modern world mating young is pointless, but in the old world it was a survival mechanism. Especially considering infant mortality. There are still cultures where it's considered unlucky to name a baby until it's two years old because of the high risk of infant death. It's a pretty complex issue that's also quite visceral for many.

They will marry at young age? How about the goals, for future opportunities, and helping parents first than to marry at young age.

@mariambella4828

4 жыл бұрын

Child married is common in rural area especially for muslim family. the children think that they are helping their parents by marriage, the groom will provide their family needs.They usually come from a low educated family and marriage is considered as the solution for a better life, its like a shortcut. 😅 sorry for bad grammar yo

@ikapuchino

4 жыл бұрын

Not all.. More more young people prefer work instead marriage..

@jasondapula9152

4 жыл бұрын

@@ikapuchino that's the point of my comment/opinion

@jasondapula9152

4 жыл бұрын

@@mariambella4828 yah they think marriage is the solution

@In.New.York.I.Milly.Rock.

4 жыл бұрын

Secular values are not even remotely universal, despite the cultural hegemony

Great topic boss, with the recent news. Excellent topic

I am living in Indonesia, and in my opinion one thing that really need be change by government is to helping making education available for the less folks. Because this happen cause most of them didn't have any ideas about what they could do after they graduate High School. So they tend to believe more into Tradional Laws instead of Government Laws. It's the need to know the other side of possibilities in the world that so different from what they usually know. If they have that change to came across that i think by experience it's entirely posibble to make them don't keep following this absurb child marriage that will devastating for both parties and the child they will have in the future.

Indonesian law prohibits teenage marriage (18 years is the age limit for children). Teenage marriages occur because of pregnancy

Mostly forced by parents or urged by cultures. Marriage is not even a must in today's world, its a choice and if u feel like living alone and go with a free life thats up to u. For some women they only need a child and not a man.

@nurulwahyunis1206

4 жыл бұрын

I agree

@zbigbozbboy5245

4 жыл бұрын

Which someone actually reggret not married early since she need wait more to see her grandchild face. As long the women is okay and the men already have income. I don't think it's problem.

@sb8095

4 жыл бұрын

@@zbigbozbboy5245 no one should get married before 20 at least. Not everyone cares about seeing their "grandchilren's face"

@bigmaculous

4 жыл бұрын

The child needs a man and woman. Let go of ego.

@ngandang96

4 жыл бұрын

@@bigmaculous no a child needs a good environment and if its a good single parent whether a dad and a mom thats ok. The bad thing is the child staying with bad adults, not abt having 1 or 2 parents

Even if the law raises the minimum age for getting married, there may still be young marriage. In some rural places in China, the convention is that 16-20 year olds will unofficially ‘marry’ each other and wait to be officially registered as couples after they reach the minimum age. They have the wedding ceremony, live together, have children, and are recognized as husband and wife by their community. And the government can’t do anything about it. Because the law says consensual sex between two people who’re older than 14 is not considered rape. In those places young girls may still face pressure from relatives if they don’t get married at a young age, even though the law says ‘no, you can’t be married this young’. I know one of my classmates in elementary school who went back to her hometown to get married when she was 15. 15! She was not physically forced cuz in such case we could call the police. But I think she would definitely prefer to stay in large cities and go to college if there was not such a ‘convention’. That convention thing is sometimes more powerful than laws.

As an Indonesian, I feel strange. What exactly do children want, from marriage.

@billydabomb8669

4 жыл бұрын

probably avoiding judgmental glance from the boomers and/or conservatives.

@KimAhrina11

2 жыл бұрын

@@billydabomb8669 yeah cases like that mostly because of pregnancy out of married

I'm Indonesian and i'm 22, still don't wanna get married yet 😂

@foreverrain7401

4 жыл бұрын

u r still too young to get married. just enjoy ur life

@nidaatika7024

4 жыл бұрын

@@foreverrain7401 yes, that's my point

@iarshintasudjana4382

4 жыл бұрын

Wait until you r ready....

@anangkurandi7541

4 жыл бұрын

Get married is not the end of your life baby 🤔

@djay00009

4 жыл бұрын

Ur young I'm 29 and still not married . I almost feel I am getting older now , should get married soon but it's quite common to get married in late 20s or even early 30s

Marriage is more than just saying "I do" and signing a piece of document. Whether you're 16 or 26, commitment and so many things have to be considered.

The real native cultural in across the archipelago in Indonesia is Young Marriage. Marriage at later age is happened because of modern lifestyle. Almost my grandpas generation married at 14yo. My parent married at 20ish yo. And my generation at 25ish yo. The main reason is Economy. Modern lifestyle is not cheap. In the past there are no electricity bill, there are no water bill, there are no gas bill, etc. If you live a traditional live, than its cheap, thats why economy is not a major problem. Just little bit of romance is needed, not a hyperbole romance shown in the movies. People marry simply because of the necessity to have a descendant, to help when they got old. The second reason is Influence from other culture, especially Western Europe.

Can you do an interview too about the Haze that's going on around SouthEast Asia. It already reach some parts of Philippines and El Niño made it worst

We need more sex education at school, less teen pregnancy = less teen marriage.

@yoanitabalya5574

3 жыл бұрын

Other countries have sex education at school yet still facing problem with teen pregnancies .. sex is seriously mysterious

I am from the Philippines. I am public grade school teacher in a remote barangay (village) where I also lived. I am handling third grade class, 2 years ago I have a student aging 13, due to poverty, she still in 3rd grade that time. Unfortunately, she wasnt unable to finished her third grade due to early marriage. Her husband is just 19 years old, 5 years years older than her. It saddens me that at that age she got married. It was her parents decision. A beautiful and smart girl ended up getting married untimely. That is not the case alone, a number of young boys and girls (elekentary and high school students) got married in the past years and until today. There is a girl, a high school student just celebrated her birthday at 18 and in the next day she got married. This is reality! It is so alarming her in my place! I can't imagine what would be their life in the future. They came from less fortunate families and some of them have their children already. Life is hard here,I also blamed their parents of allowing their children got married at early ages. But they are accountable of their children, it is not my business. Feel so sorry seeing them struggling. By the way I am 29 years old teacher but single for a long time. I am the only one out of 12 teachers in our school who is single and no child😄😄😄

i never went to another highschoolers wedding.... but ive been to a hell of a lot of their baby showers :/

@Zen-sx5io

3 жыл бұрын

Yikes.

@SharukhSaifi

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

26 yo indonesian woman and still happily go travelling without caring about other's opinion~

@artaemip3044

4 жыл бұрын

Kudos to you. 👏👏

I'm Indonesian. My grandpa married at 22 yo and my grandma was 18. My dad at 28, mom was 24. I'm married at 32, my wife was 28. My older brother not even married yet at 38 now.

@arsyapermana1

3 жыл бұрын

I think it is normal, since older generation have limited access to education

@vanphongnguyen5935

2 жыл бұрын

@@arsyapermana1 what does that have anything to do with education

@arsyapermana1

2 жыл бұрын

@@vanphongnguyen5935 education not only means formal education like school, what i say is informal education

@vanphongnguyen5935

2 жыл бұрын

@@arsyapermana1 gotta disagree mate, the internet is non existed back then, not much to do but to make a family and settle down. Believe it or not,a large portion of today people actually not as educated as people back then. Since there no internet to encourage the stupidity like today.

If you want married you must: 1. Have decent job to support your family 2. Have healthy mental state 3. Know how to raise child materially, mentally, spiritually 4. Biologically ready

@DimitriMoreira

4 жыл бұрын

I think 2 should be used for everything in life, not only to get married. I also don't agree with 3, since nobody is ready to raise a child until they do. Nobody thinks they are an awesome parent without actually being one. It's a situation that no one can predict. You can prepare all you want for it, it's never going to be the way you think it is. Hence why no parent EVER said: "yeah, it's a piece of cake".

@chvhndrtntlr3482

4 жыл бұрын

@@DimitriMoreira I said they must "know how" .....not necessary excel that Like if you want to transport on water you must know how to swim, not necessary you must be olympic winner first, and you can also use boat to to travel on water....but everyone who travel on water already know the consequences of drowning, and swim is one of first aid or emergency procedure

@eeva4700

4 жыл бұрын

Okay thank you so much you just described my long ass comment shorter and much to the point. Geez some people actually think an eight year people able to married.

@chvhndrtntlr3482

4 жыл бұрын

@@eeva4700 geez some moron just found out how to read...

@mymonamkeess6516

4 жыл бұрын

I agree with that , if the man and the woman are ready why to prevent them from getting marry ? even if they are 17 or 16 There are people who get mature very early , people are different, and age is not a thing ! So why to prevent them from getting mary ? And push them to get sex before marriage? ...weird world

Finaly asian boss do the right thing and make a good content about indonesian not only about religion like always... And the reporter/ interviewer did well and not ask unnecessary question like the previous video

Don't these usually happen in rural areas though? I don't hear much of it in the city

@natasha2432

2 жыл бұрын

Probably they would prefer to keep it low-key in the city.

I'm Indonesian and at my place when you over 20 and still not married your family feel its a "shame" (here, people already married at 14-18). Imagine, when you have so many dreams that you want to achieved but you're family force you to marry "anyone" just because the neighbours keep talking about you. Thats what I feel.

Im on my mid twenties and i still cant see myself marrying someone. I feel like 20s to 30s is the best time to focus on ourselves and the dreams we wanna achieve.

I hope you can make interviews about the recent haze happening in Indonesia.

Me 25 yo Single for life (From Algeria) . I am happy they rise the age for marriage. So, let people think about the future and educate themselves.

It's the maturity that matters. Sometimes a 16 year old might be more mature than a 30 year old.

Ahhh, you talked to Jakartans, the epicenter of modern lifestyle and liberal thoughts in Indonesia. Try going somewhere, at least 15 km out of Jakarta and you will see the drastic difference of their opinions about this issue.

I am Indonesian, I live in a village, they get married young around 16-17, and they become responsible parents for their children, they are looking for work for their children, possibly their sense of responsibility because they are used to living simply and independently.Most in the village get married young because of the community's thought of the existing traditions in the community, not because they got pregnant outside of marriage

As Indonesian I hope this condition becomes better...nowdays our nation is still strugling to the 明るい未来ために😉

The guy who's face is blurred is lowkey outta pocket💀

@hohhobiyum1743

3 жыл бұрын

He just too closed minded

@natasha2432

2 жыл бұрын

From my experience, it's probably because the people around him have the same mindset and influenced his thoughts and opinions.

Im really proud of Indonesia's young people.

Some teen marriages happen because of financial difficulties.. especially in rural area. Often after elementary school, children can’t continue to go to school because their parents couldn’t afford it. Most of them working as tenants farmers. They either go to bigger cities to get a job as domestic assistant or sent to marry some wealthier farmland owners to repay their parents’ debt... sometimes as second or third wife. Plus in rural area, if you are above 20 years old and still unmarried, you are considered as spinsters and leftovers. Sad, but still happening here.

It's not just young marriage case man.. It's usually depend on their state of education, religion, culture etc.. That can't be described just by common people saying this and that..

Don't. I'm glad the Indonesian Government is doing so much to save Indonesia. Peace and Prosperity to Mr. Joko Widodo!

@sanikilua3611

4 жыл бұрын

No! Zo ko Wie is the most failed president Indonesia ever had

@weebtrashcat

4 жыл бұрын

please ask your president fix your haze situation :) sincerely from malaysia

@rizamayl9397

4 жыл бұрын

Hah apa

@aquaisnotades

4 жыл бұрын

What kind of president deals with a problem only after the people complain?

@user-uy8tp8qt2i

2 жыл бұрын

ngakak planga plongo

Makanya mukanya disensor, krn dia sendiri malu sama pendapatnya yg ngedukung gadis 16 tahun udah disuruh nikah dan ngurus rumah tangga seumur hidup tanpa pendidikan.

In Philippines, the issue's more on teenage pregnancy than teen marriage. And If I'm not mistaken, you can only get married here when you're 18 both for Boys and Girls.

I used to live in Garut, West Java, Indonesia.. and a lot of my neighbors's kids were getting married after graduating middle school or elementary school,.. the sad thing is that most of these kids were forced to get married by their parents because of financial issues, and they think that by getting married it would remove their responsibilities of raising the kids ... :( .. and it's still going by now, I often got a call from them telling me like 'do you remember 'bla'? she's or he's getting married', and I was like, 'aren't they 13 or something?' , and they said 'well that's an ideal age for marriage ' ... :(

The real issue in here, Indonesia only developed less than 20% of it's country. Outside Java/Bali Island & central city on each provinces, the country is still undeveloped and backward. The big city teens vs town teens are far difference. The 16's teens in big city still spoiled kids, while the small town teens already work on their farms or trading in market since 12yo. The small town teens already an adult at the age of 16 and all they're going to do next is to marry and make their own family.

Ini penyebab indo overpopulated.. Apalagi bnyak yg kawin cerai.. Masalah utama ekonomi.. Duh klo bisa nikah umur 25-35 gk usah keburu2 napa..

@rangefibas4653

4 жыл бұрын

Sekarang Indonesia turun penduduknya dalam persentase 0,7% itu kata dosenku

@Fahlevyy

3 жыл бұрын

@@rangefibas4653 waduh

@rickville8898

2 жыл бұрын

Muncung kau asbun kali.. overpupulated itu kau punya referensi yang bisa dipertanggungjawabkan? Untuk ukuran negara se luas Indonesia populasi 260 juta lebih itu bukan overpopulasi karena masih sangat luas tanah yang jarang penduduk Kalau Jawa overpopulasi memang betul karena 60% populasi Indonesia tinggal di Jawa. bukan keseluruhan negara!

@keepspirit027

Жыл бұрын

Kurangnya edukasi dan pas kecil mreka mkirnya pcaran doang jadi gk da motivasi buat maju gak sih kebnyakan bgitu hbis lulus

I think it'll also be interesting to see Asian Boss cover other major cities in Indonesia that aren't Jakarta, such as Surabaya, Bandung, Yogyakarta, Medan, etc.

I'm usually really for getting married, but that's really for adults. There isn't much of a reason to be married so young anymore. There are many options for both men and women, although Indonesia might be different compared to more developed countries.

In Asia and many parts of the world a 14 yr old is like a grown up lady with a 25yr old mentality and attitude in America. A 25 yr old American is like a 8yr that cries.

1:58 *Right there, officer*

@Zen-sx5io

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Josuke.

Asian boss. Please come to Jakarta ComicCon in mid October and get info about Bumilangit Universe.

It can be some reasons, most of the time it's financial reason and religion reason. They believed it's better to get married faster so you're not easily attracted by random opposite genders and devoted to your one and only partner instead. It's also depends on the parents as well. Personally, my mom won't let me marry until I both financially, educationally and emotionally matured, just so I won't be deceived by my own future partner. Grateful for that tbh.

Im indonesian and agree with the standar age for marriage, because i have 1 cousin (girl) married in age of 12 and 1 years ago she divorce, its hurt to seeing her as a still teenager with a kid and now become widow 😥

@sb8095

4 жыл бұрын

She got divorced, so how is she a widow?

@dikadistira150

4 жыл бұрын

Man or women that divorced called widow in our country

@dikadistira150

4 жыл бұрын

English translate Janda (women) = widow Duda (man) = widower

@wanishabirahmad9268

11 ай бұрын

​@@dikadistira150so sad

I have a friend. She's 16, the same age as me, and she dropped out from school just for her boyfriend. They got married 2 months ago. It's so sad because she abandoned her education for a very young marriage. But what can I do, it's her choice. I totally support the new rules, anyway.

Please cover more important issue like the students movement protest in every cities in indonesia

3:11 agree on this as well. In extreme phrases kinda like selling your daughter

Why not. as long as it's not forced. This is about human rights and democracy.

As a 23-yr-old Indonesian living in a village where most people do not consider high education important, I receive some very inconvenient treatment in my neighborhood. They're gossipping me who haven't been married until now like.. every day. I know, when I'm away for study, the burdens that my mother has to carry is no joke. Well, I'm still focused on my study and career, so I can't think of getting married ofc. But it's just hard when I come home and I have to face the views that consider me too late to marry already. Crazy really. Moreover, here in Indonesia, there's a belief that forbids younger sister who's a sibling to marry before her older sister does. It's related to a myth that I'm still confused where the logic is until today. I'm in that position now so I feel highly pressured every day. However, I never stop trying to manage myself to respond those problems better.

Even if in Italy you can marry at 18 (and in particular circumstances also at 16 years old), most of italians young people won't get married before 28 (i'll say also after 30). But looking back in the 40s or 50s, not educated girls like both my grandmothers usually got married and pregnant around 18 or 20 years old. I think all depends on educations. The more you have the possibility to study and improve your life, the less you think to get married young, even if you got a "sexual incident" and you become mother/father very young. It's probably that in one or two generations also Indonesian young people will stop to get married so young...i hope so!

The guy who didn't show his face is more rational than the others,in my opinion. He states facts that are less likely to change that easily. It's also strange how in some countries like the US, the age of consent is 16 in some states, yet it's called CHILD marriage if they legalise their relationship. Otherwise, education is more effective than laws to prevent those kind of problems to happen

Minimum age for married 19 years old My parents react to minimum age for get married : Hey, what do u say son ? What you'll give to her ? I'm not allowing u married before u got successfull 😅 And for the blurred guy, where u live bruh ? Easy u say it's very common (may be in small village or kind of I guess 😂) in my circle it's not very common, they got married in 25 - 27 years old

@-datnerd-3125

4 жыл бұрын

I saw someone in the comments says the translation must be it's normal instead if common

Education, one of the most important thing to be considered why people should agree with the new law. Over population, divorce, child abuse, sexual deviation, most of those cases are caused by the lack of education in young age.

I'm 29 not married but I am indian not Indonesian but really ,when I was 16 or 19 , marriage seemed like a joke haha . Imagine marrying at 16 but truly ,its best to settle down , have money etc before marriage. In general , goals can be achieved even after marriage . And you can also progress, be happy and even study after marriage so even getting married at 23 or 25 odd isnt exactly bad . Just needs more maturity to understand one another and take responsibilities. Marriage is a commitment and then raising kids is a whole another level of problems and responsibilities but it sort of just works out in the end . I would say . I am probably ready to get married but single T.T . Life gives less time for love

since Indonesia is a diverse country , i think it'll be more interesting to hear it from diverse communities :)

0:59 cute boy. 2:09 cute girl. You're welcome

Asian boss, can you discuss about the student protest about the revision of the law?? Need others opinion about this matter

*Not even a question* _No_

Although my parents were married at a young age but when one of those Indian aunties says that " you should start preparing for a marriage in your family , your daughter have grown up " ( they probably says this cause I have graduated from highschool and am quite tall 😂) . My parents just snaps back at them like what are you talking about , no marriage for at least next 10 years until she graduates and gets a good job 😐 .

@surabhi_kumari

4 жыл бұрын

@아난 디타アナンディタ sorry but I can't tell you that cause you know privacy and stuff.

and now I will go to Indonesia

Hello Asian boss, please do review about protest that happening in Indonesia now, please

I’m Of Mixed race, my 74 Year Old Maternal Great Aunt was Married At 13 to a 22 year old. We live in US in the states all they need is parental consent. I think it’s wrong but, it depends on the Girl and Get family’s circumstances.

Age is arbitrary. The physical and mental readiness of your body and mind is not. Some people are mentally ready to make life decisions way earlier than others. Some people are never ready. Don't push your culture's morals on other cultures just because your hear stigmatized words like "pedophilia" thrown around. (Pedophilia actually refers to children who haven't hit puberty, basically 11 and under). No country has it right by selecting any specific age.

@GenerationNextNextNext

4 жыл бұрын

Some girls reach puberty at 8. My sister began menstruation at 9. You think that's a good age to allow marriage?

@eeva4700

4 жыл бұрын

Game Channel we're not pushing our culture, it's just common sense. while I agree that some are more mature than their age it doesn't make them an adult. Marriage is not simply 'uwu we love each other and want babies everywhere' it's more than that. I don't even know what to say about your comments about pedophillia, you know just because they past their puberty doesn't mean they're an adult already right? Most of them still in developing age and still try to find their goal, dreams, and most importantly school like most student age. They probably doesn't know the sign of abuse which a 18+ would probably good at it whether it's a man or it's a woman. That's the problem, and even in some cases they know, they're too weak to fight against an adult. And more importantly basically why would anyone thinking about married to a underage people anyway lmao, are you scaring the people around your age? Cause it's kinda obvious why