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  • @Aaron42L
    @Aaron42L7 ай бұрын

    Fellas, we gotta get this girl issue solved or else Jack isn’t gonna stop making these videos, it’s in our biological desire to have a feminine mate. Great video Jack! 👊🏻🔥🔥

  • @matthewm6466

    @matthewm6466

    7 ай бұрын

    I have a plan to overcome it not only for myself but for my friends too,because I’m the end men need to be needed by women

  • @Aaron42L

    @Aaron42L

    7 ай бұрын

    @@matthewm6466 Totally!

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    7 ай бұрын

    I want to stop making these but I will not until each and every one of you has a girl😆

  • @darthvaderr8

    @darthvaderr8

    7 ай бұрын

    Ngl I have this ego shit holding me back. If they dont talk with me, why should I talk with them? This is holding me back in all social situations in college.

  • @maciekjarek2248

    @maciekjarek2248

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@protoknightsmusicarchives3232 Me neither. Maybe in the future but now I just enjoy time on my own.

  • @andreicspartan3145
    @andreicspartan31457 ай бұрын

    Im 21. I met my first and ,as of right now, the last long term gf when I was 19 at the bus stop. I fit the smart, introverted, socially awkward type. But being single really made me pull the trigger that day, she was pretty and she was sitting next to me so for the first time in my life, i had balls to talk to a girl in the "im intrested" way. And guess what. Best time i've had in my life.. for those 2 minutes, resulted in 2 years of relationship and fun. Stop procrastinating and say an internal "fuck it" and send it boys!! 100% worth to try it out.

  • @vbxrserker5125

    @vbxrserker5125

    7 ай бұрын

    What did you say?

  • @andreicspartan3145

    @andreicspartan3145

    7 ай бұрын

    @vbxrserker5125 "hey! The bus sure is taking a while!" Then we just talked about the buses being bad, small talk, then I proposed to go that night at a hole in a wall restaurant.. and from then on is history. Point is.. is not what u say, is how u say it... Smile, have a good vibe, actually listen to her and try to make the conversation continue based on that. Also pro tip, make her talk about herself.. people naturally love talking about themselves, gives u time and things to talk about, and make them feel good. "Girls just wanna have fun". And trust me, if i can do it, u can too. I believe in all of u.🔥

  • @brianc469

    @brianc469

    7 ай бұрын

    Hell yeah

  • @vbxrserker5125

    @vbxrserker5125

    7 ай бұрын

    @@andreicspartan3145 Amazing 🙌

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    7 ай бұрын

    good man, send me an email with your story

  • @ricardovicente5334
    @ricardovicente53347 ай бұрын

    You can't have a ex-girlfriend when you never had One, that is me😢

  • @ricardovicente5334

    @ricardovicente5334

    7 ай бұрын

    This is not a joke, it causes me great stress and i have considered killing myself many times

  • @SenileLuke

    @SenileLuke

    7 ай бұрын

    That’s exactly what his content is for! Go get yourself an ex-girlfriend😂

  • @_phantom_2264

    @_phantom_2264

    7 ай бұрын

    Me too man

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    7 ай бұрын

    go get yourseplf an ex brother

  • @ricardovicente5334

    @ricardovicente5334

    7 ай бұрын

    To be clear Im not an Incel, i do not harbor any ill Will or anger towards women

  • @starcourt_official
    @starcourt_official7 ай бұрын

    Hard truth to guys that don’t want to hear it. Tomorrow isn’t guaranteed, so live everyday like it’s your last and you’ll be surprised at what you can accomplish 👊🏼

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    7 ай бұрын

    yup 100%

  • @yeahrightbear8883
    @yeahrightbear88837 ай бұрын

    A girl I work with told me that that there were at least 3 girls we work with that have a crush on me. And I had no idea. The girl that told me also had a crush on me but she was the only one confident enough to tell me so now I'm going over to her place tonight. It's been a serious confidence booster for me.

  • @DiggingDeepVlog

    @DiggingDeepVlog

    7 ай бұрын

    Be careful dipping your pen in the company ink. Be safe brother.

  • @darkmidnight818

    @darkmidnight818

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@fiat_ow7876lucky girls never tell me that. They just talk behind my back and stare from far away. They should know im NEVER going to approach them. Im 25 now. Ive changed a little. But ive ghosted all my friends from high-school because i love to be alone. I haven't had any friends for year's now. So getting a gf doesn't make any sense.

  • @andrescalderon979

    @andrescalderon979

    7 ай бұрын

    W bro

  • @freakinccdevilleiv380

    @freakinccdevilleiv380

    5 ай бұрын

    How did it go

  • @darkmidnight818

    @darkmidnight818

    5 ай бұрын

    Ratio

  • @ChrizJenson
    @ChrizJenson7 ай бұрын

    A great way to warm up and practice talking to girls for me was at work. I worked in an office where there were more women than men. I didn't try to flirt. I just focused on casual conversation and making little jokes that got them giggling. Basically leveling up my charisma and conversation skills. Mastering that helped me with my approach with women overall.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    7 ай бұрын

    agreed G

  • @dudydude3287

    @dudydude3287

    7 ай бұрын

    Yep. Most guys don't even talk to girls at any point

  • @someguycalledcerberus9805

    @someguycalledcerberus9805

    3 ай бұрын

    I'm also in an office, most coworkers are women, I'm on very good terms with them, no issues with talking to them. But I'm still an incel...

  • @whynot1548
    @whynot15487 ай бұрын

    I've heard older women slam modern women for being soo foggy with their presentation with men. "In my day, if I liked a guy....he knew it!" - As my 89yr old grand aunt would say lol

  • @ChicagoJ351
    @ChicagoJ3517 ай бұрын

    I agree with just about everything jack said here. As an older guy the only thing I’d add is whatever age you are, there is never this idea that your time has run out, game over. It’s always about new challenges, and making things happen despite any odds here or there. Definitely take action when you are young. But, don’t think younger, top tier women are off the radar when you’re older. They are definitely available. You just have to work on yourself. If you are a couch potato and expect a high level girl at age 50, that’s going to be a stretch. But, if you are fit, confident, and have your act together, then top tier women are still available. In some ways more than when you were younger, other ways not so much. Odds don’t really matter, only what you are going to do about it.

  • @FuckTheState

    @FuckTheState

    7 ай бұрын

    Meh just gave up on all of it.

  • @DiggingDeepVlog

    @DiggingDeepVlog

    7 ай бұрын

    @@protoknightsmusicarchives3232 I’m almost your age and there’s still younger hotties out there hitting me up. Don’t lose hope. Women can smell desperation so work on yourself physically and mentally and stay positive. The options do kinda dry up as you age no pun intended and I’ve noticed ladies in our age group are either obese or are just not pretty about 90% of the time

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    7 ай бұрын

    thanks for sharing brother

  • @grubbyarmadillo9863

    @grubbyarmadillo9863

    7 ай бұрын

    @@protoknightsmusicarchives3232you can still make changes to your reality, instead of just letting life just pass by.

  • @albodav9602

    @albodav9602

    7 ай бұрын

    Well I'm 30, finished a 7 years long relation and after that shit I felt like newborn, man, like I never talk to women before since I get so used to the "family" thing I had. I really don't have any problem interacting with women but it is like I really can't see the "perfect" moment to make the step on them and invite them to go out or something. The worst part, I think, is since I forged that relation out of a friendship it comes difficult for me to talk to stranger women and expect to build a relation out of nowhere, like, I am more the 'friend first, bf after' type It really sucks but hey, we are alive, so I'll take my chances following this guy advice and let's see where it leads

  • @76063co2
    @76063co27 ай бұрын

    Practice conversation with older ladies in public is tremendous advice. I'm older now, so I'm not as shy as I used to be, but I wish someone had suggested that when I was younger, as a way to improve my conversation skills. You spoke so much truth in this video.

  • @tomlahtam4077
    @tomlahtam40777 ай бұрын

    Denmo is correct, and if you are young, teens or early twenties you get a lot of leeway to talk to girls of any age (your age or older). Once you get older it’s kinda weird to randomly approach people since you could be perceived as a threat or some loser. So make the most of it while you are still young.

  • @tomlahtam4077

    @tomlahtam4077

    7 ай бұрын

    @@UserRobot215 Don’t get too discouraged, you can still safely approach women but keeping a range closer to your age which at 26 still includes college girls. You have to be assertive though, acting clueless is not cute anymore.

  • @ChrizJenson

    @ChrizJenson

    7 ай бұрын

    @@UserRobot215 You are far from old. 26 is the perfect age where people are very receptive to you because you have more life experience under your belt but still young enough to learn more about the world and the people around you. Have fun. Don't count yourself out so early. You are in a great place age wise.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    7 ай бұрын

    yup dont wait til your 40s fellas

  • @Jedilord882

    @Jedilord882

    7 ай бұрын

    @@UserRobot215same (25 year old undergrad lol)

  • @dreamawake2670

    @dreamawake2670

    7 ай бұрын

    @@Denmosocial Oh that can work great too.

  • @connorburns8915
    @connorburns89157 ай бұрын

    21, a virgin, never had a long term gf. We’re making it out of the drought with this one, boys.

  • @jannikstfl

    @jannikstfl

    2 ай бұрын

    How's it going

  • @theycallmewudu
    @theycallmewudu7 ай бұрын

    Your point about approaching women when they are stationary is spot on bro. There was this cute blonde girl sitting on the bench at my college that I approached last Friday, ended up getting her IG after having a 10-15 minute conversation. We agreed to grab coffee on Wednesday, wish me luck guys!

  • @GabrielXDrums

    @GabrielXDrums

    7 ай бұрын

    So how’d it go?

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    7 ай бұрын

    legendary, send me an email brother

  • @theycallmewudu

    @theycallmewudu

    7 ай бұрын

    @@GabrielXDrums it didn't go as planned. She sent me a text the day before the date saying she's tryna reconnect with her ex to see how things go but was still down to grab coffee. So I was like ok sure and then she responded that she has covid. I didn't bother replying back to her text and moved on.

  • @freakinccdevilleiv380

    @freakinccdevilleiv380

    5 ай бұрын

    Thanks for the honest update. Feel good in that you tried and followed through to completion.

  • @humblewoodcutter3000

    @humblewoodcutter3000

    3 ай бұрын

    @@theycallmewudu pretty typical. But you did the right thing. Well done.

  • @azherbboy
    @azherbboy7 ай бұрын

    Confidence is EVERYTHING.

  • @303machine

    @303machine

    7 ай бұрын

    Psychopats, narcissists approve.

  • @kaiseri.4641
    @kaiseri.46417 ай бұрын

    Me at public: " Hey, how are you..." She: " I have/wait a boyfriend...."

  • @miguelaguilar9190
    @miguelaguilar91907 ай бұрын

    Thanks for the uploads Denmo! You've helped me get out there way more and get stuff done 💯

  • @christiansnaturestudio6599
    @christiansnaturestudio65997 ай бұрын

    No woman is waiting for me 😆. I sadly cold approach all the time and ended it up one-sided

  • @ejomatic

    @ejomatic

    7 ай бұрын

    lift and go learn how to be lethal. Jk no really go lift.

  • @joneyor6595
    @joneyor65957 ай бұрын

    Thanks dude, i really needed this, its just one of those things that sometimes people have to slam it on your face for you to realize that life is way more than what you're doing right now

  • @Kamisuitendo
    @Kamisuitendo7 ай бұрын

    As if she doesn't have 10's mens in her DM's, 100's of likes on dating apps and other trying to approach her

  • @jeremybeaverson7167

    @jeremybeaverson7167

    4 ай бұрын

    I agree but tbh irl they have to be nicer right?? Idk

  • @nadaesfacil
    @nadaesfacil7 ай бұрын

    Denmo I just want to say thank you for all the advice you've given me. Your videos are giving me great results. Outside of dating and maturing as a person. I'm doing small things like folding my clothing and having a clean room. I've been so focused on working on myself. The results are insane if you're truly committed to bettering yourself.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    7 ай бұрын

    good man, glad to hear

  • @Mr.sleeepy
    @Mr.sleeepy7 ай бұрын

    You’re a good man and you have a lot of knowledge bro. Thanks for making these type of content.

  • @Himal_1
    @Himal_17 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much! This is the exact thing i needed in my life right now.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    7 ай бұрын

    I gotchu brother

  • @captainalbert2143
    @captainalbert21437 ай бұрын

    I’ve been rejected so much bruh, I don’t wanna approach and ruin it for myself

  • @abhilashnijamkar4881
    @abhilashnijamkar4881Ай бұрын

    Jack I really appreciate you giving these talks on living life. Videos with pickup lines is important but these small talks are more helpful.

  • @Paralyzed-rm6vc
    @Paralyzed-rm6vc7 ай бұрын

    I have a really close friend that was going down a bad path just getting high every day, but we went out to a sports bar Saturday and he said he wants to get better so we are going in it together.

  • @unholydiver1095
    @unholydiver10955 ай бұрын

    You have a most balanced and healthy mindset out of any other content creators in your sphere. Earned a sub from me.

  • @JayTeeAyy
    @JayTeeAyy7 ай бұрын

    Talk to the cougars before talking to the leopards… Got it

  • @mitchellyula4447
    @mitchellyula44477 ай бұрын

    Spot on. Denmo is the realest out there for this kind of stuff. I once approached a girl at university when she was sitting next to another dude. Got her number and she even said herself it was attractive that I hit on her with another person sitting next to her. (Dude was just a friend and she wasn’t interested in)

  • @christiansnaturestudio6599
    @christiansnaturestudio65997 ай бұрын

    Keep up the amazing work, Denmo! 🎉

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    7 ай бұрын

    you too christian

  • @user-ds3si4xx7r
    @user-ds3si4xx7r7 ай бұрын

    Woooow, nice video editing, great work 👏🏻

  • @JayS.-mm3qr
    @JayS.-mm3qrАй бұрын

    When he started talking about age, it really started getting depressing. I'm 42. I mean... how many years can a person remain attractive even?

  • @starfighter1972
    @starfighter19727 ай бұрын

    Thanks to the great information in your videos I have received a rare opportunity to get good at women and I'm gonna take it. For all of you young guys out there, please do not take anything for granted. I was in your position once and now I'm 51. The fire in me still burns and I will not let any opportunity fly from me anymore.

  • @alb12345672

    @alb12345672

    7 ай бұрын

    Same here brother. 52. Important to stay in top shape.

  • @humblewoodcutter3000

    @humblewoodcutter3000

    3 ай бұрын

    You're gonna piss off the young bucks. They don't want the competition, don't cha know. So, do it anyway. And good hunting.

  • @coochykilla
    @coochykilla7 ай бұрын

    Love these videos

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    7 ай бұрын

    keep making em for guys like you

  • @jaimegranado7278
    @jaimegranado72787 ай бұрын

    I’m not afraid of rejection. I just have too much self respect to boost someone’s ego and get nothing in return.

  • @pijcab

    @pijcab

    7 ай бұрын

    But in a sense, you do get something out of it, you get less of that "I dont want to boost this person's ego for nothing" feeling (which is, I assume, a negative one), think about it 🤔

  • @justifiedmasagony3635

    @justifiedmasagony3635

    7 ай бұрын

    facts or have someone be rude , label you a creep, or record you

  • @selfish2.0

    @selfish2.0

    7 ай бұрын

    Facts dawgg

  • @SilentPenguinCreations

    @SilentPenguinCreations

    5 ай бұрын

    Thats so stupid, not every girl is going to like you. I understand this in a club that yoy dont wanna be one of the 10 hyenas standing in line to boost her ego but by daylight you have 0 competition

  • @contaejus
    @contaejus2 ай бұрын

    well boys, i asked her out, and she said yes, now it's just a matter of her keeping her word

  • @33Danso3x
    @33Danso3x7 ай бұрын

    This one of ur best videos , looking from the female perspective makes u realize there is nothing to lose from talking to girl and should get u excited, at least it does for me

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    7 ай бұрын

    glad it helped you

  • @user-bw3ct9bj6b
    @user-bw3ct9bj6b7 ай бұрын

    great video editing there

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    7 ай бұрын

    new editor :)

  • @GK-dw1fo
    @GK-dw1fo7 ай бұрын

    Oh hell no bro, trust me, she is NOT waiting for me to talk to her

  • @Colt19

    @Colt19

    7 ай бұрын

    That’s what I’m sayin.. ain’t no way bro..

  • @games68775

    @games68775

    7 ай бұрын

    Well, chances are if they're single, they're waiting for *somebody* to do it, and maybe you'd meet their criteria, or maybe not. Who cares it really doesn't matter.

  • @humblewoodcutter3000

    @humblewoodcutter3000

    3 ай бұрын

    @@games68775 word^

  • @JayS.-mm3qr

    @JayS.-mm3qr

    Ай бұрын

    Why do you say that?

  • @pnvlgt
    @pnvlgt3 ай бұрын

    Really nice and motivating video bro. Kudos to you 😊✊🏽

  • @josephballard4565
    @josephballard45657 ай бұрын

    I'm 27 and divorced with 2 sons. They're 6 and 4 yrs old. I don't have any issues talking to women. I went through a fitness craze years ago and lost a bunch of weight and got in shape and all that stuff. I've only been with 3 women sexually but I've talked and dated a little here and there. In my current situation I am primarily focused on getting financially stable and spending time with my children every chance I can. There's not much room left in my head for dating after all that. And to be completely honest I only feel lonely about 5% of the time. The primary reason finding a new long-term woman is on my mind is because of my kids. I want to find a woman who is gonna be good mother figure for my boys. Their mother is pretty damn rough but I don't want to bad mouth her. Should someone in my situation be actively approaching women or going to social events to save my brain the extra weight? I'm trying to figure out what a good strategy would be for me. I am a tiny bit lonely but not enough to make me depressed. I need a life partner to improve my quality of life and be a good mom to my kids

  • @darkmidnight818

    @darkmidnight818

    7 ай бұрын

    27? And divorced with two sons? Jeez im 25 and in no were near my first kiss.

  • @josephballard4565

    @josephballard4565

    7 ай бұрын

    @@darkmidnight818 At least you were smart enough to wait bro

  • @msash2536

    @msash2536

    7 ай бұрын

    I think you should find a woman for you, later on, your sons will grow up and leave you alone. So you need someone to share life with you now and later, this one should be wise and can take responsibility, a true woman not one of these idiots nowadays, she should understand ur situation as a family so she should be like a mom for ur sons also ur sons need love to grow in good mental health raising kids with one person isn't good for kids the kids should raise in a family with a mom and dad to grow well mental health.

  • @darkmidnight818

    @darkmidnight818

    7 ай бұрын

    @josephballard4565 I don't think what I'm doing is called waiting... I have another problem.

  • @josephballard4565

    @josephballard4565

    7 ай бұрын

    @@darkmidnight818 my advice is the same as what you'll find online. Just take care of yourself and have some kind of overarching goal in your life. That alone will be enough to make you stand out alot and give you genuine confidence. Women like guys who serve a higher purpose. Mine is my kids and breaking a family cycle. You have one too if you think about it. Or you can choose to go offscript

  • @Moop666
    @Moop6667 ай бұрын

    Lmao no she’s not she probably wants to be left alone 😂

  • @popthiccle1158

    @popthiccle1158

    7 ай бұрын

    Truth be told Women don’t like to be alone

  • @Jewish.Hotdog
    @Jewish.Hotdog7 ай бұрын

    Ive worked at hotels doing valet past 2 years. Luckily for me i had amazing co workers who were willing to teach me by example. Like u said we are visual learners, its hard to picture doing it but when u see the guy next to u do it and u analyze how he did it. It all comes together with time.

  • @geminiblue6677
    @geminiblue66776 ай бұрын

    This is so positive and sounds normal !

  • @CuCuz305
    @CuCuz3057 ай бұрын

    Thanks, Jack. I must be a stud: I’m 37 and dating a girl who’s just turned 22 (pretty, hot, smart). Lucky me!

  • @LefeverDream

    @LefeverDream

    7 ай бұрын

    Holy. When you were 17 she was 2 years old. That’s crazy.

  • @CuCuz305

    @CuCuz305

    7 ай бұрын

    @@LefeverDream I wouldn’t have dated her then, don’t worry. 😅

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    7 ай бұрын

    atta boy! Proud of you G

  • @CuCuz305

    @CuCuz305

    7 ай бұрын

    @@Denmosocial thanks, homie. 🥰

  • @dreamawake2670

    @dreamawake2670

    7 ай бұрын

    Whats the story there?

  • @bigcat9356
    @bigcat93567 ай бұрын

    I can assure you that she was, in fact, not waiting for me to talk to her.

  • @TyeDye622
    @TyeDye6227 ай бұрын

    I'm 31 years old so it's already too late. Honestly females aren't into me and I've accepted that a long time ago. There's always someone better and it is what it is. No hate or anything like that just accepted my reality.

  • @kinganthony6912

    @kinganthony6912

    7 ай бұрын

    Way younger then you and already have the same mindset gotta accept reality

  • @piercebunge4297

    @piercebunge4297

    7 ай бұрын

    31? You still have ability whatchu talkin bout?

  • @ceebee312

    @ceebee312

    7 ай бұрын

    Same

  • @RealityPlaceTV

    @RealityPlaceTV

    7 ай бұрын

    DONT LISTEN TO DENMO...31 is still not too old....you need to learn from a stud instead of listening to a cornball (denmo)

  • @piercebunge4297

    @piercebunge4297

    7 ай бұрын

    @@RealityPlaceTV everything he says is alright except the age thing

  • @blackstorm6542
    @blackstorm65427 ай бұрын

    Nah girls dont see me im invisible

  • @Maks-lx2ge
    @Maks-lx2ge7 ай бұрын

    Dude, I'm 24 and I get rejections all the time. I don't talk to girls often, but none of them wanted to meet me. I'm not ugly, just an ordinary guy, I don't believe that anyone can like me at all.

  • @jaydonovan2025

    @jaydonovan2025

    7 ай бұрын

    it takes time, it’ll happen eventually

  • @RealityPlaceTV

    @RealityPlaceTV

    7 ай бұрын

    you just gotta embellish yourself more.(physically)

  • @JayS.-mm3qr

    @JayS.-mm3qr

    Ай бұрын

    It is a skill. If you're not getting results, there is something missing from your game. You are probably doing things that could use work, and you don't know it. There's probably nothing inherently wrong with you.

  • @russellwestbrookyellingatw9381
    @russellwestbrookyellingatw93817 ай бұрын

    No she's not she never even looks at me

  • @timmykole9339
    @timmykole93397 ай бұрын

    Well said

  • @DiggingDeepVlog
    @DiggingDeepVlog7 ай бұрын

    One point is I disagree that women don’t approach. It’s kinda rare and happened more so when I was younger but a woman that likes you will put herself on your radar.

  • @EndritBs

    @EndritBs

    7 ай бұрын

    This is it.Period.Approachijg girls is stupid.I did thousand times in my 21s.Women are suppose to approach.Is so unnatural to go approach women.If they like you,they will put herself in radar,true.

  • @thebestbaseballguy

    @thebestbaseballguy

    7 ай бұрын

    Agreed. If you have a good enough social life, it isn't that rare. Although I agree with you, they don't directly approach, but they make it clear in other ways. The most recent one I had came up with a very clever excuse to give me her phone number and then was super flirty when I texted her, so I asked her out and we hooked up for a couple of weeks. That type of thing happens to me maybe once every three months or so, I'm in my late 20s for reference.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    7 ай бұрын

    they do but its so rare its not worth waiting around for

  • @DiggingDeepVlog

    @DiggingDeepVlog

    7 ай бұрын

    @@Denmosocial Thanks for the reply brother. I think the best course of action for a single guy is to maximize all dating opportunities…cold approach, dating apps and anywhere else (cafe, work, bars etc). Most women have liked me from work. I usually worked where there were lots of women like call centers with hundreds of people, grocery stores where you see hot women all day

  • @cnessence
    @cnessence7 ай бұрын

    Hello Denmo, there’s this girl at my school that I see at the end of the day that I find very attractive and was going to ask for her number today, but got scared and she left. I feel like a puss for not going up to her, but tomorrow I will. I’ve been watching a lot of videos like this learning and taking mental notes, thanks for these videos, they help a lot. Wish me luck!

  • @jlcdrawings9312

    @jlcdrawings9312

    7 ай бұрын

    So did it work

  • @cnessence

    @cnessence

    7 ай бұрын

    @jlcdrawings9312 she left early, trying it today instead, will let you know.

  • @jlcdrawings9312

    @jlcdrawings9312

    7 ай бұрын

    Ok try again

  • @cnessence

    @cnessence

    7 ай бұрын

    @@jlcdrawings9312 she has a boyfriend

  • @jlcdrawings9312

    @jlcdrawings9312

    7 ай бұрын

    @@cnessence hey did you do it yet

  • @Pietzeps
    @Pietzeps7 ай бұрын

    I am not shy in general like I can talk and approach strangers I do not care about that, I can talk to and approach good looking women and talk to them casually like I would with a male friend but I do not have the confidence to escalate with them. I am 6ft and muscular and currently in university with 140 students in the course or so, I have talked with one third of the women, good conversations with smiles etc and I have the feeling that some of them find me attractive but something inside me is blocking me from taking a step forward.

  • @leecifer15
    @leecifer157 ай бұрын

    Denmo, I've been watching ur stuff for quite some time and since July, I've been monk mode, voluntarily celibate. I repeat, voluntarily. However, over the last couple months, I've developed this nightly dread, that it's too late for me, and my window is gone (35). It's a dread you've mentioned a few videos ago. Anyway, i was finding this dread to be counter-productive, but i'm in a work/life situation where I was only seeing chicks at work, or at night at the grocery store. Long story short, like a simp, I downloaded Hinge app, and had a date lined up within 2 hours, without paying. I just wanted to know your thoughts on dating apps if you're confident you can kill it, but just aren't seeing any badies in ur day to day.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    7 ай бұрын

    nah bro you are fine. If you still need help join socializer but 35 is fine

  • @leecifer15

    @leecifer15

    7 ай бұрын

    @@Denmosocial hell yeah, thanks for getting back to me. I'll let y'all know how it goes. May join socializer soon for community and to share what I know, learn what I don't.

  • @magicass8437
    @magicass84374 ай бұрын

    the tried and true "talk to old ladies" strategy . no shame that's how I get momentum for the day

  • @stayhuman7244
    @stayhuman72447 ай бұрын

    I'm 34 and wondering if it's too late. Had a serious 4 year LTR 3 years ago now, i was so stupid back then, knew none of this stuff, was walking blind in the wilderness. The past 3 years since then I've been deeply depressed because i was also caretaker for my dad who just died from dementia, that was brutal. But I've learned about this stuff since then and feel like a new man, but definitely feel time slipping through my fingers like sand. I never wanted kids, but now i think i do, and i don't want to be like my dad who had kids when he was 45+.

  • @mediumchungus9662

    @mediumchungus9662

    7 ай бұрын

    I'm 34 as well and going through a divorce after 12 years together. We got this 💪

  • @yung_Latios

    @yung_Latios

    7 ай бұрын

    Dude absolute same I'm 28 and had been a caregiver to my dad and had to work full time. I didn't have time for anything and still feel behind and frankly am still terrified of girls. Factor that and the depression from my dad and work, I don't know how I'll ever be able to make it work. Even if I miraculously ever get a girlfriend who's to say she won't cheat on me since I'll be at work 6 days out of the week. Also rip to your dad

  • @jacobsmith1105

    @jacobsmith1105

    7 ай бұрын

    Im 31 and been celibate since 1992 ive had offers but i decline mainly because im unhinged and say stupid stuff either way im accepting that the single life is for me just because im very angry alot and deal with some mental issues.

  • @mediumchungus9662

    @mediumchungus9662

    7 ай бұрын

    @@jacobsmith1105 what's the point in saying you've been celibate since 1992 when you're 31 lmao that's you're entire life.

  • @senshai1267
    @senshai12677 ай бұрын

    Its true older women are very easy to talk to

  • @ideamachine39

    @ideamachine39

    7 ай бұрын

    Like grandma

  • @hongjiao7469
    @hongjiao746920 күн бұрын

    How I met my last 5 gf's: 1. Buffet line in Vegas on NYE 2. Friend's wedding 3. Moldova 4. Tinder 5. Nightclub

  • @AmericanIdiotPolitics
    @AmericanIdiotPolitics7 ай бұрын

    2:30 relatable. It doesnt even have to be older ladies (thats more true aswell), but even college girls treat me so much better than girls my own age (16).

  • @Vormav777
    @Vormav7773 ай бұрын

    Dude literally recorded himself with your money and you're still single xD

  • @Manuel.Um-pierrez7549
    @Manuel.Um-pierrez75497 ай бұрын

    This gives me courage, but i dont know man i feel like really lost, im 20 yo and i dont have any girl im talking or seeing right now , I dont know if cold approaching would eventually work to get dates and a relationship, I want to know the truth cause I dont want to waste time in something that wouldn't work. Like nowadays people meet online and that kind of shit, and i hate dating apps and all that

  • @JayS.-mm3qr

    @JayS.-mm3qr

    Ай бұрын

    There is a double edged sword of courage. On the one hand, people kind of need to psyche themselves up to talk to bitches, but on the other hand, it's supposed to be easy going and fun, not really like th8s thing where you are showing how brave you are, and how hard you're working for her

  • @GameW200
    @GameW2003 ай бұрын

    She’s literally waiting for me all the time

  • @badbrat
    @badbrat7 ай бұрын

    Hey Jack I watched a lot of your Old Videos And Just Wanna Know Why you Stopped Posting On Those Channel

  • @DreamWolfPics
    @DreamWolfPics7 ай бұрын

    Denmo, thank you.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    7 ай бұрын

    your welcome dream

  • @HrissW
    @HrissW7 ай бұрын

    Not kidding, I'm 22 never touched or talked to a girl.

  • @Cenatcenat902
    @Cenatcenat9027 ай бұрын

    Im on nofap for like 3 months and im so down bad that i actually started approaching girls even tho i can barely hold a conversation with anyone

  • @piercebunge4297

    @piercebunge4297

    7 ай бұрын

    TESTES YEAH BOYYY RAHHHH

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    7 ай бұрын

    keep going G you got this

  • @someguycalledcerberus9805

    @someguycalledcerberus9805

    3 ай бұрын

    4 months later, I'm curious how it's going. Any updates?

  • @Cenatcenat902

    @Cenatcenat902

    3 ай бұрын

    @@someguycalledcerberus9805 i relapsed but now since ramadan started im on it again

  • @Lukyfilmslego
    @Lukyfilmslego7 ай бұрын

    i was rejected by a girl from malta boys! still have many girl friend's (also some from malta too)

  • @henrydiaz5173
    @henrydiaz51737 ай бұрын

    One little question buddy when you’re having a conversation with her and in the middle of a story and then one of her friends cuts me off and then they start talking I should just?

  • @silverhetch3383
    @silverhetch33837 ай бұрын

    Interesting narrative your pushing. On the one side you say we should go monk mode and hustle from 20-30, but at the same time you emphasize that we should invest time and effort into dating as well, to be able to focus more on our career/providing value. How much time per week should one invest into dating? Like 3-4h?

  • @stonalisa3729

    @stonalisa3729

    7 ай бұрын

    Balance both. Approach girls as you’re doing your normal daily routine is what he’s saying. Dating doesn’t mean to not focus on your life because ultimately dating is supposed to be fun and add to your life rather than make it.

  • @MASTERLUKEYSLOC
    @MASTERLUKEYSLOC7 ай бұрын

    My most recent ex came into the gym and became my student for a year before she messaged me late one Friday night…

  • @gustavoadolfomonterohernan6159
    @gustavoadolfomonterohernan61596 ай бұрын

    I'm mentally ill, however achieved to hold a 6 year relationship. Now that it's finished I don't know what else to do, I feel stuck, I feel I don't want to risk my well being with a next relationship. I feel somewhat depressed with no energy to approach women, I guess more time has to pass

  • @1nfeRnaLRaV3n
    @1nfeRnaLRaV3n7 ай бұрын

    U know i kinda recognize that i knew all these stuff but i just couldnt do, for example solving her problems, i always wanted to have my own money, have a brain to give her good advices. For example once my friend she told me that she lent money to her jobmate ddd kinda old man or smthn and i didnt know how to react and what to do, cz that man didnt gave her money back💀

  • @sir.confident
    @sir.confident7 ай бұрын

    .....and all this time, I thought she was the reward.

  • @303machine
    @303machine7 ай бұрын

    Not worth it. Just paying a prostitute and don't bother with stupid mind and power games, mostly in cold approach. I take chances only in sport and video games. Not going to boost ego of women. If she likes you, she will approach and make a move or give a sign she is interested in you.

  • @davidduarte2603
    @davidduarte26037 ай бұрын

    Use me as a botton of "I want more videos of pick up girls"

  • @v_stands_for_value124
    @v_stands_for_value1247 ай бұрын

    0:47 i'm 23 and since I started making 5/6x the money I need the urge of going after girls went close to zero, I want to be around people but only if they are somewhat useful for my business or also in the game Girls are rich dudes toys and at the moment I still can't afford stop working and go after ho€s The gym helped a lot, heavy training makes u wanna lift you own house and do anything Get successful and in shape and girls will come

  • @nurtaytulegenov7431
    @nurtaytulegenov74317 ай бұрын

    I am just curious to hear you guys perspective. How is it empowering, interesting or even enjoyable to fix some random persons problems? Like, people have their own problems to fix and to solve others peoples problems we are getting payed at our jobs. How is providing services free of charge is so good than doing them for money?

  • @9volt101
    @9volt1017 ай бұрын

    Will this help with hookups too?

  • @joshuafernando8161
    @joshuafernando81616 ай бұрын

    Damn I do the exact same thing. I always talk to older women, I’m afraid to talk to younger women.

  • @raphalost3907
    @raphalost39077 ай бұрын

    When are you going to get back with the main Channel and the pickup lines whatever i really miss that content😢

  • @ndmorris14

    @ndmorris14

    7 ай бұрын

    He's giving out a shit ton of free value and you're upset he's not giving you what YOU want. Narcissist.

  • @delronmackay1473

    @delronmackay1473

    7 ай бұрын

    Never

  • @kulik03

    @kulik03

    7 ай бұрын

    He took the easy way out and decided to these talking videos now, its a shame cuz his pickup line videos were super helpful

  • @CenationTroop
    @CenationTroop7 ай бұрын

    Denmo, could you make a video on why you left Canada? My reason for asking is because I’m thinking of leaving my home country next year (just for a year or 2 for the experience) and the place I want to go to is Canada so I’m very curious as to why you left it

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    7 ай бұрын

    sure bro will do

  • @apz202

    @apz202

    7 ай бұрын

    probably because is has become fascist under Trudeau with all the wokeness and euthanising the elderly and banning truckers from accessing their bank accounts.

  • @GameW200
    @GameW2003 ай бұрын

    What a game changer

  • @ceebee312
    @ceebee3127 ай бұрын

    Nah.. more like takin’ a break from Chad/Tyrone temporarily!

  • @KlausKinskiPsycho
    @KlausKinskiPsycho7 ай бұрын

    Jestermaxxing lessons

  • @AmericanIdiotPolitics
    @AmericanIdiotPolitics7 ай бұрын

    Yall got any advice for a 16 year old dude who's trying to be more attractive to women both with actions and words, as well as looks?

  • @piercebunge4297

    @piercebunge4297

    7 ай бұрын

    walk up and small talk I guess is what this guy was saying. Be determined to get what you want. Be nice and easy going about it tho. Maybe set your eyes on one and preplan your next move with her. Get off your bum and show her who u are. Get an adventure on. Get a license too, since you're of age.

  • @stonalisa3729

    @stonalisa3729

    7 ай бұрын

    Take this time to start getting into fitness brother and like this guy says build up conversational and communication skills. I’d argue school is the perfect environment to improve on this. Just don’t go talking to every girl because I’m a high school they will talk. And don’t take the rejection poorly.

  • @AmericanIdiotPolitics

    @AmericanIdiotPolitics

    7 ай бұрын

    bruh, im homeschooled. My parents decision but still, it's hard to even find girls my age to talk with lmao. I'll do my best tho@@stonalisa3729

  • @AlexKosSaheli
    @AlexKosSaheli7 ай бұрын

    My last girlfriend? Cold approach

  • @autoclearanceuk7191
    @autoclearanceuk71917 ай бұрын

    I met my last girlfriend in Champion Agogo in Pattaya, Thailand.

  • @martinsdunu9754
    @martinsdunu9754Ай бұрын

    Socializer price wants to kill me

  • @HarbingerOfFinality
    @HarbingerOfFinality7 ай бұрын

    So let her wait and wait and wait. Abandon her as she would do to you. One should work and provide for themselves, parasites have no right to exist, let alone enjoy the rewards of our work while deceiving us.

  • @decxphvr
    @decxphvr6 ай бұрын

    I'm 19, gonna be 20 next month and I have no experience with women whatsoever. That includes no physical touch with them either. But I have no desire or motivation to pursue women. I would much rather do literally anything else. Is there something wrong with me?

  • @Divy91311
    @Divy913117 ай бұрын

    Hey Denmo , really nice video! I was wondering if I could help you edit your videos and also make a highly engaging Thumbnail which will help your video to reach to a wider audience .

  • @Deathroll201
    @Deathroll2017 ай бұрын

    Fellas, There is light at the end of the tunnel. A guy I know personally just lost his virginity like 2 weeks ago to this other girl and they're happily dating... and he's 35!!! Don't.give.up

  • @Vincent-tq3tw

    @Vincent-tq3tw

    7 ай бұрын

    Same thing happened to my best friend's brother at 30. I like those stories. It sucks to go through that too, I was virgin until I was 23.

  • @stonalisa3729

    @stonalisa3729

    7 ай бұрын

    Gamers winning the ultimate battle of virginity is great to hear

  • @MrTeddyTimes
    @MrTeddyTimes4 ай бұрын

    I don’t got friends. 😂

  • @97Crazysteve
    @97Crazysteve7 ай бұрын

    Anybody have advice on how to do all this while working Nights? 6PM to 6AM here, and have to sleep during the day. Coworkers are off limits as I'm in a leadership position and need to keep things professional. Want to avoid using the Internet.

  • @conservativemacro80
    @conservativemacro80Ай бұрын

    I've been told sense a kid that looking at women or talking to them without consent is literally r4pe then they ask why I'm scared to talk to them

  • @philgoescrazy
    @philgoescrazy7 ай бұрын

    She's waiting in South East Asia...

  • @brokekidfromthebayarea7965
    @brokekidfromthebayarea79657 ай бұрын

    Denmo can u make a video of how to get over a girl?

  • @sedled2829
    @sedled28297 ай бұрын

    I got charged with SA and I just beat the case. I was just approaching kindly and she lied , I’m really reserved in approaching these days. It’s just scary right now

  • @Teutonius88
    @Teutonius887 ай бұрын

    If you had unlimited money and time, what would you do? Pursue that.

  • @MarianWLF
    @MarianWLF7 ай бұрын

    Anyone else trying to clean the black spot from your upper left screen?😅

  • @bigstoner42069
    @bigstoner420697 ай бұрын

    bro get some sleep you earned it.