This is brilliant. I have just been told by my therapist about this. I intend to go back to school and study psychology here in Ireland. I would like to work with parents of children with ASD and other needs. I have raised my son to 18 yesterday and there is no help here in Ireland for parents just a lot of talk that goes nowhere. Love what your doing.

Brilliant explanation and suggestions, thanks

I love the idea of throwing the stress balls at the piece of paper, I'm going to try this.

I read Schema Therapy several years ago. Will repost at our blog selfhelpchampion❤️🙏selfhelpchampion

thank you!

Great explanation. So much easier to understand than academic handouts. I particularly liked the mention of boundaries at 9:10, so often missing or met with psychological reactance

Thanks Jess. Great presentation and insights.

Excellent overview, thank you.

You have great content on schema therapy and this video was also really useful. I'm just not sure that venting anger in the manner recommended here could necessarily help to manage aggression in a healthy way. Some studies talk about how the catharsis theory to manage aggression can be ineffective. (Does venting anger feed or extinguish the flame? Catharsis, rumination, distraction, anger, and aggressive responding. Brad J. Bushman. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 28, 6, 2002). I really appreciate your work, thanks a lot!

Cool vid, thanks for the insight. Hadn't been familiar with this 'mode' terminology or way of understanding anger in kids. I agree that 'anger facilitates change' and I appreciate how you explain things! Thanks again

my angry child started popping up after my 25th birthday, now at 31 I cannot hold my tongue when I see an injustice and have cussed absolute strangers out because they were being c*nts.

i really liked the idea with big paper of things that makes people angry and throwing balls into it! cool one👏🙂

Thanks for your explanations about bully and angry child modes! Was a bit confusing for me that part, not anymore😁

You are good. I wish my sons school teaching staff would try this am so angry with them. I wish you had more info on boundries.

nice

I follow ur series of videos related to Schema therapy this is really helpful and informative, plz can u share a reference book or any other authentic source of information related to ST. Thank you.

@psicologiajoseh

3 жыл бұрын

I think you can start with Reinventing Your Life. Is for the general public. Then, Schema therapy a practitioner's guide. Both from Jeffrey Young and Janet Klosko.

@hiramukhtar5866

3 жыл бұрын

@@psicologiajoseh Thank you

Sometimes I get angry say with my partner because is not being fair or fulfilling my needs, but even if she apologizes and do stuff to make up, I can't calm down... Same happened as a child.. got stuck a bit and needed that people apologize several times... Maybe I just felt safe in that emotion so I wanted to linger 🤪 Now I'm thinking that I should do more of Self-love than Selfish-love

Thank you for the video. Can you make a subtitles for those who have problems with the language like me . Thank you.

Is it possible to be all three? Angry child, angry protect and bully attack. Because I'm all three and it's ruining my life.

@thePSYCHcollective

3 ай бұрын

We call it mode flipping when you move quickly between multiple modes.

@matthewrideout426

3 ай бұрын

@@thePSYCHcollective I see. Do you have any videos on how to deal with this when it arises, I know you touched on it briefly but I really feel like I need to know why I am this way.

Why does a person get angry if I tell them to go get a job..