Gentlemen listen up... The best way to make a girl chase you is to steal her purse

@Kjertinge

3 жыл бұрын

Can confirm. You can even get police women to chase you!

@koukimonster6957

3 жыл бұрын

Aww bro I laughed so hard

@TheHornet1fan

3 жыл бұрын

LoL !!

@jccgold

3 жыл бұрын

What was the site kortney said that exposed false gurus?

@mrrokoso

3 жыл бұрын

@@jccgold Coffeezilla

You aren’t ready to date until you’ve accepted you’re comfortable alone. A relationship is a complement in your life, not the focal point

@bento4876

3 жыл бұрын

The what if you are comfortable with it for such a long time that it makes you uncomfortable with it?

@gol_d.kralii2124

3 жыл бұрын

i am so comfortable alone, that i don´t want a relationship anymore. It would be a bonus if the right person would be there but i am selecting very hard so i don´t find the right piece for me, but my life is also perfect without "that" gurl.

@TheKenshin54

3 жыл бұрын

Wrong... That's non sense

@robinsonmbapah5801

3 жыл бұрын

You are very right. Thanks.

@peewee3030

3 жыл бұрын

Right

I’ve said this a million times I’ve been single for 7 years and it’ll take someone who’s genuinely interested in me for me to change my relationship status. And in my 7 years being alone I really learned who I really am and I’ve enjoyed my single life. I absolutely have nothing against women I just decided to stay single all this time. I enjoy being single and I do eventually want to find someone absolutely. But I’m in no rush to find anyone I’m glad I’ve never been a chaser, if I don’t get back the attention I put into her. I walk away and pull back entirely. There was a girl I really liked at the church I go to and every time I talked to her it was a one way conversation. So I let her go and I’m still like friendly to her and say hello to her when I see her. But I’ve moved on and let her go

@RexGalilae

Жыл бұрын

Maybe the girl at church was madly in love with you but loved Jesus more 🤔

@RexGalilae

Жыл бұрын

@@joan5844 Man I love you guys, your Fufu and Adobo Rice but whenever a Nigerian comes to me with an offer I can't refuse, I can't help but doubt you 💀💀

@joan5844

Жыл бұрын

@@RexGalilae no problem if you wanna doubt me

@joan5844

Жыл бұрын

@@RexGalilae I'm not a man but a woman

@RexGalilae

Жыл бұрын

@@joan5844 Never said you were a man, just Nigerian

"She should want to be just as much a part of your life as you want to be in hers." Yes. Exactly. Lesson learned. Definitely not making that mistake again.

@D3xterJettster

10 ай бұрын

Too bad no such woman exists for me

@HiPlayerProdigy

2 ай бұрын

​@@D3xterJettsterPassport 📘

As a single man, I am not in the business of fixing women. I am in the business of looking for the one who is truly worthy of my love & attention. She is either the right person or not, pick wisely, save yourself a headache and move on.

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

Yes sir!

@munkeefinkelbeen5395

3 жыл бұрын

Well done, and well said! 👏☺

@richardvincent8338

3 жыл бұрын

You said, "Who is worthy of your love and attention." What if you or any of us fool ourselves and think that we are that special to deserve what we demand?

@munkeefinkelbeen5395

3 жыл бұрын

@@richardvincent8338 do you not think you're special enough to have someone who loves and respects you, and is worthy of your love? You are worthy of love, especially your own ☺

@pulast4386

3 жыл бұрын

fuck off dickhead

I appreciate how your videos are more like "how to be a better more solid person" and less like "how to manipulate the opposite sex into liking you"

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

👏🏼 that’s my goal. I don’t like the negativity that is associated with most dating advice these days. Thanks for being here!

@grumblesa10

3 жыл бұрын

What's even more impressive is she won't TAKE MONEY for her advice. Not dissing other "dating coaches", I'm as pro-business as the next guy. But, IMHO it GREATLY increases her street-cred.

@prashantkadam4374

3 жыл бұрын

The person she's teaching you to become, she won't date at all. As she has already mentioned here that 65% men she has dated were the ones cheating on her. Myth busted here itself.

@sanethpierre8560

2 жыл бұрын

No interest in dating. No interest in "running through" women like I used to. A better, more solid person is the goal.

@wellington5397

2 жыл бұрын

I absolutely agree

I love Courtney's patience and reserved judgement while reviewing other people's content. So classy. She's clearly showing you what a high value women looks like.

@sonnyc3826

Жыл бұрын

yes she seems very nice.

@denisedoherty4909

Жыл бұрын

I agree. She is very classy and (dare I say) ladylike. I guess I love her feminitity and refine.

@53strat55

Жыл бұрын

agreed

@jeffs7267

10 ай бұрын

Agree 100% real class, beauty and intelligence

@HarryZurk

7 ай бұрын

simp

I love your delivery, Courtney. You explain and elucidate things in a non-dramatic and positive way that makes your suggestions and your insight very easy to follow. I find your content so refreshing, and by the way, it really helped me on my first date! ❤

I had a girlfriend say to me once "I have to keep you off balance in order for you to stay." Uh... this was one of the unhappiest periods of my life. Constant games.

@williambontrager2349

3 жыл бұрын

There can be only one.... Cue highlander theme lol

@Leto2ndAtreides

3 жыл бұрын

Getting you to fix things is one way to make you invest more.

@Mett19

3 жыл бұрын

She said “a billionaire”. No one needs that much. It’s overcompensating for a deficiency if the billionaire does not donate to charity anonymously. She said she’s only had 2-3 relationships. She may be a good and knowledgeable person, she needs a bit more life experience/maturity to advise others.

@axltyler

3 жыл бұрын

I would've told her: "I'm not playing your games. Goodbye."

@georgekolotouros548

3 жыл бұрын

That's fucked up.

The power of "No" is what makes a boy into a man.

@lloydkline1518

3 жыл бұрын

Some men who are experience with woman can turn down a great looking woman who wants to get laid;; the roller-coaster ride is the same;;no Matter how pretty & great looking the woman is

@JoeBuck207

3 жыл бұрын

They ask me can you lend me money ? Can you help me move ? Can you walk my dog ? Can you drive me to the airport ? Can you change a lightbulb for me ? I answer no !

@lloydkline1518

3 жыл бұрын

@Simon Edwards pickup pretty woman is like selling stuff professionally;;; selling stuff professionally is different;; it take alot more strategy to sell merchandise than getting laid because nicce looking woman .might want sexual intercouse for different reasons

I really appreciate how open-minded and understanding you are. That's a very fine quality in anyone.

Courtney I have so much respect for how rational you are and how you have so much grace in explaining things without an ounce of bashing someone that doesn’t have the same view.

once I stopped chasing girls and focused on my own self improvement, the right girls started chasing me. Chasing gets you nowhere. Focus on things you are passionate in and women will be attracted by your energy. And really, just be a good person :) Great video Courtney - you got a new subscriber

@kenriehl7852

2 жыл бұрын

Not to be contrary, but if that was the formula that did the trick. They, eligible ladies should be beating down my door by now. It seems that the kinder, more engaged and generous one is, the less it is appreciated ultimately. I am convinced that the majority of women are so accustomed to being treated poorly by men, (especially older women who have had several longer term nightmarish relationships a result of repeated poor decision making) that when they come across a man who treats them with respect and dignity they reject it because it’s so foreign to them. I’ll tell you ladies, it’s maddening!!!

@aiyyazmohammed507

2 жыл бұрын

Its true, not going for a girl just cos she's pretty i used to.know a guy who used to stay at this one girl at work I would get on with my work not really focus on her, whags fhe point when your not getting anything in the first place

@AW-zy1kw

2 жыл бұрын

@@kenriehl7852 These guys are both dead wrong and right at the same time as are you. Bottom line is if the girl is not physically attracted to you none of that matters. If you are physically attractive to that woman then she will respond to either; ignore them and focus on yourself (in which case she might think you are gay or uninterested.....more likely) or be a nice good person, then you aren't mysterious or dangerous enough. Bottom line is you never know what will work so not giving a damn is the best approach for your sanity. Of course once you win her its only a matter of time until she's bored and decides to monkey branch.

@kenriehl7852

2 жыл бұрын

@@AW-zy1kw Wow….

@AW-zy1kw

2 жыл бұрын

@@kenriehl7852 You are wowed by my common sense? Thanks

Red pill isn't about hating women, it's the mentally unhealthy men that think that's what it's about. It's really about waking up to the reality of female nature and learning how to focus on the work you need to do to be the high value man you should be.

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

Well said.

@LeeEverett1

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Too many guys are overdosing on the red pill to the point that instead of understanding female nature, they start hating them for it.

@jleano609

3 жыл бұрын

@@LeeEverett1 That's the Black Pill. True Red Pillers don't hate women, we strive to understand true female nature for the betterment of our relationships with them.

@adnanzahir

3 жыл бұрын

@@jleano609 facts 💯

@STRIVER

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly.

I really like the chill and relaxed look when you listen to the guy’s insights. The way you pause and comment is absolutely unique. You’re a pro. And the contents is really good. You grasped the gist of what constitutes toxic people and toxic relationships that are so prevalent now! People are not comfortable with themselves and are just not ready for a relationship.

Thank you,Courtney! Its really worked!Every person in this world should respect themselves first. It shows others how to treat you. And respect others' right to be different. Attitude is everything.

Your goal is not making a woman happy. Your goal is yourself. She's just your companion. I have so many friends that haven't understood this yet.

@NormanLy101

Жыл бұрын

It's impossible to make anyone happy...let alone a woman. Happiness comes from within. Be happy....then your surroundings will be better.

@NormanLy101

Жыл бұрын

@Ocean Size You sound like a woman that think men live to serve you.

@BloodyHeck

Жыл бұрын

The problem is if you're not making her happy, she files for divorce and you lose everything.

@NormanLy101

Жыл бұрын

@@BloodyHeck If your goal is to make a woman happy you are set for failure. No one can make any ody else happy.

@BloodyHeck

Жыл бұрын

@@NormanLy101 True, I see your point but I also see this as a catch-22. If you try to make her happy, she won't be. But if you don't try to make her happy, she won't be.

"Guys who respect themselves can walk away from a situation that is not serving them." Thanks...this is an important quote for single men, and deserving of a place on a plaque somewhere. I already practice it, but, I'll remember it now.

@nyterpfan

Жыл бұрын

This is probably one of the most important life guidelines to follow--knowing when to recognize and move away from toxic people and situations!!

@bobg6638

Жыл бұрын

Totally agree

Thank you for your honesty & sincerity ! It’s very appreciated courtney!

You are a terrific teacher and I love the way you softened his message and I appriciate you communicating clearly

I don't hate women, I hate what they do, there's a difference. And Darius is the coolest dude on the internet. He is direct, street smart, and tells it like it is.

"chasing the happiness you are creating for yourself" i guess it took a divorce for this to sink in with me, but it resonates and it is how I'm living life today as a single dad.

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

👏🏼 sometimes we have to learn the hard way lol wishing you all the best!

@Mr.87O1

3 жыл бұрын

happiness shouldn't be chased. It should be created by loving yourself above all else...In my opinion.

@thelegendkillersshittyduff1335

3 жыл бұрын

@@CourtneyRyan because a lot of guys are ignorant and they don't want to listen to other people's advice if that makes sense

@dn1697

3 жыл бұрын

... how are you defining the word "nature" ... something that "selects"?? ... are you sure "love" is an "emotion"?"

@CashCowz962

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah...a divorce is the onliestreal teacher

love your straight out humble way, with a gentle sweet way of saying the truth

Courtney, I have been watching your videos for a short-while, and I appreciate the value of the information you share from your wisdom and experience. Also, you are very photogenic, charming, forthright, and communicate extremely well. Rock-on!

This is such a great channel. As a guy who has been listening to a lot of red pill stuff, it's refreshing to hear a high-quality woman reiterate and confirm so much of this important stuff.

@Discaptured

2 жыл бұрын

The red pill is so toxic bro

"You should be chasing the happiness you create for yourself" well said Courtney!

Courtney, thank u for ur humility, honesty,& balance!

Thanks again Courtney for your advices. Please keep on going with your channel.

How i wish more women in this world to be more feminine, kind & thoughtful like you Courtney! 👍

@jimfrederich8852

3 жыл бұрын

I agree with Terry Lim. I wish women were more feminine and sweet today. I miss seeing women in dresses and skirts that are much more feminine than slacks or jeans.

@jazzman1626

3 жыл бұрын

@@jimfrederich8852 One of the (many) things that I find very attractive about Holly Willoughby is the way she is nearly always in dresses and skirts and that she obviously loves being girly, swishing her dresses around.

@ThaFuzzwood

3 жыл бұрын

And even if she isn't dressing like that, she has a good head on her shoulders. And that is something which is way more important than looks to me, within limits.

@williamwilkins3084

3 жыл бұрын

Terry Lim: Well, Courtney hasn't said shit in reply to yours or any of these other comments following yours, I notice. Not that I don't agree with it, just saying. Makes me curious.

@jameswheat4225

3 жыл бұрын

Yea feminism has killed the modern female

As an attractive woman you'll never quite understand what men go through to get dates in the first place. Everything is easy mode for you. If you want hard mode try being a man for a week. Then when men finally get into a relationship it's usually not what he signed up for. And then the process repeats.

@tonii5690

3 жыл бұрын

I think the just work on yourself advice only works for women. They are not going to approach a guy unless he is a 10. For most guys they are the ones who need to take the initiative and I believe women expect them to as well. I have been working on myself, mostly financially, and after 20 years I can say I have achieved financial independence, I am still single though. The few times women have approached me was when I was young and broke.

@ShiniGorky187

3 жыл бұрын

​@@tonii5690It's true. I am fully independent now and have gotten laid less since college days living with my parents. My first girl friend still hasn't really happened at age 36. Just a series of hookups and friend with benefits. I even went to a pickup bootcamp, spent a few grand for nothing. But I got to see the whole attitude of guys who go out regularly and approach women. Consistency and perseverance seems to be the only key to getting the women you actually want unless you're a solid 10 like you say. No way around it. And I'm 6'4'' with a lean body, makes little difference if you aren't the one doing the approaching and saying the right things.

@rapsheets4993

3 жыл бұрын

@@ShiniGorky187 yeah it's not hard to say hi and you want to grab a drink on Tuesday.

@gumnaamaadmi007

3 жыл бұрын

Try being a non-Chad/Tyrone man for a week*. There, fixed it for you, good Sir.

@floragreen6399

3 жыл бұрын

Me as a woman I have to say apparently I do not really know about the struggles that man face and always appreciate it when you speak up about it, like you did here !!!

Courtney, I just wanted to let you know how on point I believe your commentary is. I've watched a half dozen or so of your videos and I feel as though you bring a balanced perspective which honors both genders-very refreshing to see. Thank you!

You're Right!! I very much respect and enjoy the wisdom you have that you share with us!!! I am a wise old man that appreciates your understanding!

Her face when he said “I clapped them cheeks” killed me 😂😂

@Moonshine668

3 жыл бұрын

🥱

@Quantum3691

3 жыл бұрын

*Smashed

@saltykrug

3 жыл бұрын

I think she bout puked didn't she? Yeah I spit lemonade out my friggin nose right there, hahaha.

@ernestsysbm1175

3 жыл бұрын

Her reaction was priceless. 😆😆😆😆😆

@Gregsgreatfood

3 жыл бұрын

Courtney was kind enough not to comment, but was clearly disturbed by the choice of words. Plus Darius M could have left the comment out. We got the point.

Watching Courtney's facial reactions when Darius drops some super polarising red pill one liners is brilliant.

If you love something, set it free. If it comes back to you it's yours. If it doesn't, it never was.

@user-df5vn7sp1k

Жыл бұрын

HaHa

@malakatan3235

Жыл бұрын

Or it is just your turn & never be yours🤣

@VigilanceTech

Жыл бұрын

or the Red Neck version of that: If you love something set it free. If it comes back to you it's yours. If it doesn't, hunt it down and KILL IT!

@tombowler6458

9 ай бұрын

😬Those Red Necks don't ,mess about @@VigilanceTech

@Rambo-lv9hu

8 ай бұрын

That's just a lame excuse for her to go screw around

Your advice is always spot on, Courtney. I admire your intelligence, articulation and eloquence. Brava, Courtney.

Darius is the best! Listening to this guy for a long time now. His content improved over time. He doesn't sugarcoat things like other youtubers. That's his best quality. Those men who believe in hollywood/disney love should listen to him.

@leoruivos

3 жыл бұрын

His channel is the best thing on KZread. Maybe some older videos sound a bit more hateful, but he did improve a ton over time indeed. Darius saved me from a pit of insecurity and I'm sure he's saved many other men as well.

@Neptuneman07

3 жыл бұрын

I agree. A straightforward source of wisdom.

@pingupungo3365

3 жыл бұрын

Yesssss, Darius M is the best, cheers brothers!

@karmax5615

3 жыл бұрын

I’ve been watching his videos kind of a long time now

@srinjoyroychoudhury7034

3 жыл бұрын

He makes awesome videos. Some many people like it the way it is. But doesn't hurt to sugarcoat it to the guys who just can't take it straight up. Sometimes you gotta ease it in them instead of being that blunt.

I love how well balanced you are in your responses, even when you disagree. You can tell you're not ruled by your emotions. Love that.

@itsmustafa9366

Жыл бұрын

She's amazing

@TheFishdoctor1952

5 ай бұрын

Love the content and espically her facial expressions and her eyes. They are "Priceless".

My first watch and wanted to say you provide really good advice, Courtney. Great suggestion about focusing on making your own happiness.

Courtney’s face at 7:14 in the video lol. But seriously, great content as always Courtney! Keep it up, you’re helping so many men!!!

“I invited her in and smashed her cheeks”! Omg that reaction was classic! Hahahaha 😂😂😂

@frankcastellanos

2 жыл бұрын

The cheeks : 🐣🐣🐣

@zeroman155

Жыл бұрын

😁

I don’t think she realizes most women have a lot of issues. Darius is a guy so he understands and knows what we men have to go through.

@christopherowens7462

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah we all have issues, even the ones that seem perfect, we just ignore them and that’s why they’re still issues and she doesn’t acknowledge that but that’s more of a guy thing to know like you said

@nicknicholas3186

3 жыл бұрын

100,% true.

@maxpayne4129

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah you're right man 100%

@dennisjr77

3 жыл бұрын

At 44…. I KNOW most of this is geared for 20 somethings…. Stay persistent guys….. women get “better,” in their 30’s and beyond!!!

@RachelGerrard

3 жыл бұрын

No, you're just picking the wrong ones. After dating for the first time in my life at age 38, and going on around 50 first dates, I can tell you that men have a boat load of issues. I had a good dad and was in long relationships with good men before now so I was very surprised. Many of the men I have rejected will say that I have issues when I absolutely know this isn't true, I simply was not into them and I ended it nicely and early. In the past few months I've been verbally abused for not opening texts quickly, told I have attachment issues, been lied to and led on, been sexually molested and emotionally blackmailed. These were guys I went on a few dates with. I've also met a few great guys. What I refuse to do is pander to men in case they call me a bitch or say I have issues. I dust myself off from these events and look at what I can do differently, I don't get butt hurt and start blaming all men.

I feel like I'm listening to a good friend talking to me. I trust you and feel this advice comes from the heart. No BS. You're videos are great thank you.

Spectacular video Courtney! You bring a lot of light to landmines we, men, get into oursleves!

I love Darius he is down to earth a real mans man he doesn’t show off watches and cars and lifestyle stuff he’s just a man on the street with good content

@josephanthony6264

2 жыл бұрын

Kevin Samuels reference, right. Yeah he sometimes comes across as a real jackass.

@RUHAUNTED

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed, some are not even worth being friends with, he seems very down to earth.

@kathleenhernandez2030

2 жыл бұрын

If he’s just a man on the streets then why does he subscribe to “women should be submissive” if he himself isn’t rich. Traditionalism is a two way street. If you want a submissive woman, then you gotta provide for her. If he doesn’t then he doesn’t get a vote. That’s just how his metric is designed to work.

@marc416

2 жыл бұрын

@@kathleenhernandez2030 are you his ex he is talking about??!!

@kathleenhernandez2030

2 жыл бұрын

Traditionalism is extremely transactional both ways. “Are you the ex he’s talking about”. Sure yes it’s me, happy?

Darius always speaks the truth.

@1_Bad_Z

2 жыл бұрын

He tells it like it is. You either accept fact or fiction.

So true. The moment I was happy by myself, someone walked into my life. Being single can be a bit addicting though. I like my alone time and don’t wanna be around someone or talk to them all the time.

@brogers1559

4 ай бұрын

A good woman will respect your alone time.

I'm so thankful your reviewing / doing reaction to other KZreadrs. Simply because alpha and how to beast and Darius are few of the guys I followed for awhile and as time goes on I wondered if they truly knew what they're talking about. Your honest feedback and insight is definitely appreciated.

Courtney love your channel, its so refreshing to hear an intelligent woman advocate for men, encouraging accountability for both men and women. Thank you!

There’s three types of love: 1.) Dependent 2.) Co-dependent 3.) Inter-dependent Dependent is the chase - one person chasing the other. Co-dependent is both chasing each-other Both of these are bad. Inter-dependent is the love everyone should strive for. It’s two people, living THEIR OWN LIVES, together.

Love your voice and the way you get right to the point! My time is limited due to my job. Your awesome Courtney!! :)

I was always the nice guy and got used and used and couldn't figure out why I was going so badly with women. Then everything changed when I started having respect for myself and invested in myself, I went off the radar for a few months and ignored women , my messages went mad. Now , I don't chase , I replace. I give women 1 chance with me , disrespect me 1 time and I ignore you. There is not 1 woman on this planet that I feel I need to impress. Not anymore, I don't hate women, I actually love them , but I don't put up with being dissed now. I'd rather be single , than be disrespected.

@cobaltxphoenix

2 жыл бұрын

👏👏👏

@vitali-opal-and-gem

Жыл бұрын

Lots of women test though because they have been approached by all sorts of guys. They don't want a weak needy guy so they test his strength. Best not to be deterred too fast. Could be letting a good one go. Even the sweetest unicorns do this tests thing.

@hycron1234

Жыл бұрын

I think being nice to women literally repulses them.

@davidm4566

Жыл бұрын

@@vitali-opal-and-gem if they play games and test you like that they might not really be a good girl. That sounds like a good filter to pass that kind of girl up.

@vitali-opal-and-gem

Жыл бұрын

@davidm4566 na brother, they all test. Most of the time it's subconscious. Even the real sweet good girls do.

Thank you for reacting to his video. I love his channel. He's helping a lot of men. God bless him

I didn't thought I would think like this after seeing a video on dating, but I feel like I need to find my way in life before being in a new relationship. Thanks Courtney for this video and also for being genuine and not trying to ''selling your services'' on your videos all the time, it's really appreciated.

By FAR the best, most unbias channel regarding the female and male perspective on dating, GOD BLESS YOU

I gave you thumb up and suscribed, because this is the best video I've seen on this topics. Uncommon person: honest and sincere plus educated and speaking well and elegantly.

You should be chasing the happiness you create for yourself. Great quote, great message. I need to start doing this myself more.

"Do you think you're going to become a billionaire from an ebook? No!" Hahahhahahahaha!! Soo Good!

Just watching you and listening to your voice is therapeutic for me. You're so pretty and you have a nice voice. You're calm and you enunciate clearly. Thank you

Courtney, I agree with how you present the information giving both sides and giving common sense answers. I going to use it for myself. Thanks!

I really needed to hear this … Still healing from a sad past relationship . God Bless - and thank you 🙏

I can't thank Darius enough for his videos. He's just the best. You should react to his new videos.

Thank you for the insight Courtney and Darius I was enlightened beyond this 🌎

Hi Courtney- You are a huge breath of fresh air with so much common sense. Why have I not met you yet ? Seriously, I really enjoy your style and wisdom for such a young woman you are dead on correct with your relationship advice. I am glad to have run across your videos on KZread. If more men and women would just be real and honest with each other there would be a lot more happy relationships and marriages in this world. Please keep up your valuable advice

I love Darius M’s channel. Very excellent, clear advice. Courtney’s perspective from female vantage point, does center his advice even a bit more. Thanks Courtney! You voice is just so feminine and calming and pleasant to listen to.

Yes Courtney, he is on point. Knowing this can save a lot of failed relationships. I always say if its yours it will come willingfully.

Courtney I can confidently say You're amazing ..I love your content !

Thank you for those advises, need it today

"If things don't change for him, he's gonna marry the first girl he lays, and she's gonna treat him like shit, because she will have given him what he has built up in his mind as the end-all, be-all of human existence. She won't respect him, 'cause you can't respect somebody who kisses your ass. It just doesn't work." --Ferris Bueller (1986)

@johnnyedge9594

3 жыл бұрын

Oh yes....., The 80's was a great time to be alive and dating......!!!!!!!!

@simonalexandercritchley439

3 жыл бұрын

@@johnnyedge9594 Sooooooooooo much simpler than now it's just scareyville !!

@brockwagner939

3 жыл бұрын

John hughes shaped my adolescence.

@JamesRDavenport

3 жыл бұрын

Save Ferris. No, really dude, Save Ferris his quote to your phone and remind yourself when you want to obsess over someone. No one is the end-all be-all of life, not even you. Relax, do your thing!

Kinda like what the Bible says,” if someone wants to go you let them go.”

@benny_singsxd5467

3 жыл бұрын

Who cares people do what they want. Darius is so right

@Matthewsala

3 жыл бұрын

Source?

Hi Court I love how you rephrased some of the stuff he said and the most important thing for both men and women to realize is that it has to be reciprocal. If one is more invested than the other they give the less invested person the upper hand..

Courtney, I haven't seen this vid yet, but I will tell you, I love this man and his thinking. He is so real and hits the nail on the head every time I have listened to him. His wisdom is far beyond his age. Noel LaChance, JD

EVERYTHING that my MOTHER teached me about women's was wrong and nothing worked for me!!!! On the other hand, my father had a lot of women's in his life! The moral of the story: If you want to catch the fish, don't ask a fish how to do-it but ask the fishermen!

@robseriously2419

2 жыл бұрын

That’s why I’m doubtful in listening to women. Ever for advice.

@robseriously2419

2 жыл бұрын

@Jay Bee Maybe you're right. Maybe I should just take a break from reading stuff on the internet so much.

OMG Courtney Ryan !! You just hit the jackpot by saying something I wanted to hear or read by someone who knows about this bad experience I had years ago ... and is this, " I will send you more of my pictures if you help me out with money, I need your help " Back then, I was not able to understand that situation, pictures for money with a excuse of " I need your help " Thank you very much Courtney Ryan !! I love you as you have no idea for this information you just posted !! 🥰

I love this video content, cos I love listening to you, and Darius, especially the sound beat played at the end of his videos.

Really good counterpoints Courtney. Appreciate the work you do. 👍

"There power in a relationship belongs to the one who cares less."

@Gr88992

3 жыл бұрын

That's only true if a person has low self esteem and believes that they don't deserve more, when either a man or a woman has high self-esteem they're not going be in a relationship with someone who 'cares less'. I've seen this happen irl

@drunkencitizen6168

2 жыл бұрын

@Jean juju Exactly, thinking 'I don't want to be emotionally too close to her so I don't get hurt that much if she leaves me' is a wrong mindset. I speak from own experience. You shouldn't make her the focal point in your life but you should commit to her, work on the relationship all the time. I don't wann get into too much detail otherwise the comment would be bare long

@ikhalid2030

Жыл бұрын

@@Gr88992 The person who care less IS the one with high self esteem. 😎

Darius has the best advice for men, IMO.

@Omnitrix8

3 жыл бұрын

No cap!

@imdannymartins

3 жыл бұрын

Coach Corey Wayne 🙌Darius is good 👏

@ss-jk8js

3 жыл бұрын

No cap

@YoungDen

3 жыл бұрын

The original

@llcooldrockindahouse4631

3 жыл бұрын

Darius, StephisCold, the Hafeez from the room mates, Fresh and Fit and FitxFearless and 33 secrets are also pretty good as well. and Coach Greg Adams is pretty decent as well.

I spent Sunday afternoon with my Mom and we get to catch up since I work so much and do not have time to visit her… So she told me that I look so Happy being alone in my life!!! Wow!!! What a nice compliment from my Mom… So I am Joyful no matter what!!! My Life is Bliss filled with Dreams and Goals yet to be accomplished!!! So I have a Beautiful life I can share with a woman that wants a Real Joyful Man!!! Courtney Thank You for sharing Real Life with US!!!! You are Beautiful Woman inside and out!!!! Thank You for being there for us guys who want a Real Loving Relationship but are not in a rush!!!!👍🏼❤️💙😎

I think that you are genuine and that is why i like to watch you. Thnak your for that.

You have a clear logical rational thought process..very refreshing to hear things that resonate with me.

Thankyou so much for your thoughts and comments in this video. I am 49 and I walked out on a toxic relationship after 23 years. I did anything and everything to please my ex and nothing I ever did could. I am still hurting after 6 months and I am healing little by little day by day. This video made me feel like I am not alone. Thanks so much. I have subscribed and I am looking forward to more content from you. Thanks from Matt in Australia.

@s.j.5810

2 жыл бұрын

"No More Mr. Nice Guy" Read that book, my dude. You're welcome.

@HaschinKazi

2 жыл бұрын

@@s.j.5810 thank you..

Hi, I'm a new subscriber. I love your content. I like how you present things. You sound very articulate, logical and it's nice to see a woman's perspective that isn't disturbingly emotional and biased.

Courtney Ryan is an inspiration, May God bless you

her tone and voice are super kind and so calming and attractive all at the same time, you can tell she is genuinely nice person inside out

We appreciate you so much Courtney😁 100k pending

Thank you for the insight Courtney

You offer great advice Courtney 👍 decent and optimistic. You have a life coach quality. Greetings from Ireland 🇮🇪 😀

@cara.leo_

Жыл бұрын

She totally does!

You are the first woman I have ever heard say out loud that not all men cheat. I swear, my biggest pet peeve is women who generalize male behavior based on their poor dating choices. You're right though, men do it too. And its not right.

@dominicbrogsdale3348

3 жыл бұрын

I know right another one on here is Six the Goddess , Denukia MArie dope discussions to name a few they get it a BUCK!!

@RKmndo

3 жыл бұрын

I get into it with women over that kind of BS. When I first started dating my wife, her sister and her friends acted like they hated me. Many of them talked trash...to me, about me, about men, etc. I was a PUA and had spun plates for years...ever since getting cheated on and then ghosted while in the Marines. To this day, even while seeing 4,5, 6 women at a time, I've NEVER cheated on any woman. I simply told them that I was seeing other women at the time. Women talk trash about men in my presence and I laugh at them, then counter with the stories of all the guys I served with getting done dirty by their women. My SIL and some of her friends have now been cheated on, abandoned with kids, etc. They see me...still with my wife and not hitting on any of them. They don't say jack to me anymore about how I am, nor about any other veterans. Not in my presence, anyway.

@andrewcarlson2178

3 жыл бұрын

There have been many studies ttatbshow women cheat more than men

@allenhammer7923

3 жыл бұрын

The stats are they cheat just as much, and then leave and take your stuff too. Then find at 35 that the so called good men want the 26 year old and not them for marriage and become more hateful and bitter and wonder why men don't want them with someone elses kids? They screw themselves in the end literally with and endless technology of vibrators.

@user-lj6jp8qp7z

3 жыл бұрын

Literally. So many Women use the exact same logic racists use in generalising a whole group of people because of the actions of a few people in that group.

Best emoji freeze frames of Courtney timeline 1:39; 1:59; 2:33; 3:10; 6:02; 6:29; 7:01; 7:14; 11:04; 11:13; 12:51; 13:31; 13:41Courtney you have to make your own emoji app because the reaction faces are priceless! Love them!

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

😂 I’m laughing at this hahaha

@joeblow1942

3 жыл бұрын

Ha, they are good!😀

@universe-ie2mk

3 жыл бұрын

7:14 is the best one. she was appalled at "yea i smashed those cheeks"😂😂😂

@killianmccluff36

3 жыл бұрын

Facts Courtney’s reaction faces are gonna become a meme.

@joeblow1942

3 жыл бұрын

@@universe-ie2mk I laughed out loud when I heard Darius say that! Never heard that one before.

Thanks! Keep up the amazing work!

Love your dress, print is cool, linen? Mad style. Bravo! Well spoken great communication style. You really listen. You show real interest and provide insights. You don’t agree with everything at the same time you let it be know when you do. You are genuine, true to yourself. Kudos.

Brilliant content! Not a single dig at him for any of his options. How refreshing this is. A real lady, thank you for your video.

I loved how you said the issues represented in the video are due to deep unresolved trauma, how one should learn to love his/herself before becoming dateable. Most of the time, alot of people start developing an idea of hate towards the opposite sex when they get rejected, neglected or cheated on, etc...They think it's due to something bad they did when in fact it has nothing to do with them in the first place and everything to do about how the other person feels about themself. Stoicism really came to my mind when watching this video, "do not get emotional about things on which you have no control", you be the best person you can be to the point where you're truly sincerely happy with yourself and only then start inviting other people into your life. If you're not happy with your life, do not think that entering a relationship will make all your unhappiness go away because it won't. Great video overall.

What a wonderfully balanced reaction. So helpful. Thank you.

You're amazing at this Courtney! Keep it up.

Courtney’s facial reaction when she heard..... “smashed her cheeks’. 🤣😂

@émbeny

3 жыл бұрын

Her expression was from experience.

@truthimagination2997

3 жыл бұрын

Lol right

@truthimagination2997

3 жыл бұрын

@@émbeny no, not bcuz of that lol

@bricklayerlzdp9825

3 жыл бұрын

@@truthimagination2997 she's heard this several times 😏

@jesuscervantes3442

3 жыл бұрын

I had to replay it few times too funny

This is amazing knowledge and proves Darius is one of the most honest out here and truly looking out you just proved and showed us thank you I’m enjoying your videos as well (:

Courtney, I don't know what your credentials are, but I think you give very good advice. I do know that I feel better after listening to your advice. You see, I recently needed to end a relationship with someone whom I had previously fallen in love with. Although I loved her, the relationship was no longer healthy. I was miserable most days. Instead of being healthier and happier, I was less healthy and less happy. Anyway, I happened to stumble upon your channel, and I just wanted you to know that your advice has helped. Oh, it still hurts, but it hurts less, and I am reassured that I made the right decision. Thanks!

Thank you for existing.. ♡♡♡