"Get out of my house or I'll punch you in the face" * stays in the house * * gets punched in the face * * Surprised Pikachu Face *

@Raiseflag_Surrender

3 ай бұрын

Yeah, it is actually a remarkable trait of OP's character, OP was keeping his word. He warned he'd punch his wife's lover if he stayed and punched him when he stayed.

@akl2k7

3 ай бұрын

Yeah, I don't swear, but I would totally say, "Get out of my f^cking house right now, you homewrecking b@stard!" He's lucky he wasn't in a stand your ground state, and OP didn't have a gun. The guy knew the wife was married, too.

@TheEDFLegacy

3 ай бұрын

​@@Raiseflag_SurrenderAnd now he will never show up at his place again! 😁

@denniskorn2635

3 ай бұрын

you all know that this is not a good thing right ? One police report and he never sees hs kid ...

@stefantsarev4442

3 ай бұрын

He is a man of his word.

When he said he was the father I actually said "Damn it." I was really hoping he wasn't so that this whole mess would be over and he'd never have to see her again.

@wertygospiner2245

3 ай бұрын

she might have swapped the DNA samples

@ashh4929

3 ай бұрын

I literally out loud went "Noooooo!" I can't believe all the garbage has been putting up with. And if I were him, I would get an actual court ordered DNA test because from what it sounds like, they just did one of those at home ones. (Unless I'm wrong, and they did, in fact, go to a reputable location.) But if they did the at home, I could totally see her switching names. That way, she has child support and kid free bang fests on the weekend without hiring a babysitter. He has it right. She sounds like total trailer trash.

@Tustin2121

3 ай бұрын

I’d advice him to get a second opinion from a different company, just in case, seeing as that news story came out just the other day about how one company was deciding who the father was basically by covering their eyes and pointing at one at random and not actually properly doing a DNA test.

@MrDoverfield

3 ай бұрын

@@wertygospiner2245OP definitely isn’t the sharpest crayon in the shed

@StuArts-Kustoms

3 ай бұрын

Yeah me too. Double check, take the sample in himself

Cheaters be like: “it was a mistake! I won’t do it again!!” To quote Dean Winchester: “Those aren’t mistakes, Sam. Those are CHOICES!”

@kindracorbridge6118

3 ай бұрын

Supernatural for the win!

@vanzy01

3 ай бұрын

💯👍🏿

@Nerobyrne

3 ай бұрын

making that choice was a mistake ☺

@yadfud363

3 ай бұрын

I don't think it's possible to make a mistake that wasn't a choice

@Nerobyrne

3 ай бұрын

@@yadfud363 true, those are called "accidents" I would think.

Story 1: I love how cheaters always say that their betrayed spouse is the one who gives up on the marriage when their betrayed spouse wants to leave smdh🤦🏾‍♂️

@Spongeboyking

3 ай бұрын

That happens a lot I don’t know why they say that when they’re the ones who let them marriage and gave up on the marriage?

@kaykay8855

3 ай бұрын

@@Spongeboykingit’s a guilt tripping/gaslighting tactic.

@vanzy01

3 ай бұрын

💯👍🏿

@MrDoverfield

3 ай бұрын

Cheater logic right there. You can also tell who’s also a cheater if they extremely butthurt when a cheater gets karma.

@kaylawoodbury2308

3 ай бұрын

Like that left at the altar story, he ended the relationship when he didn't show up to his wedding. You don't get to betray someone like that and act like you're the victim

"I cheated on him and got pregnant, he smashed my phone in a fit of rage, I hit him, but he is abusing meeee!" What he did, was destruction of property. What she did, was blatant infidelity and domestic abuse. The nerve!

@teslagod7221

3 ай бұрын

My ex-gf used to trashtalk me to other people like i'm the devil incarnate, her main basis is me hitting her, calling me very abusive devil and very violent devil. When, the fact is that i hit her when she's hitting our kids for stupid reasons, like a 3yo peeing in sleep or done nothing wrong but she is so depressed and frustrated about her siblings trashtalking her for not being able to give them money, no matter how she got it or what she does to have money to give them. So, basically, i'm the devil for not letting her abuse our kids and i defend our kids. And some idiots actually says i should had just pulled her away, but i know her, it ain't stopping her as she's just gonna get back on abusing our kids... That's how narcissists actually works, they are always trying their best to manipulate everything to their will, like they think they've the power of scarlet witch or The One Above All...

@Playingwithproxies

3 ай бұрын

She committed domestic abuse he broke her property

@chuuu4610

3 ай бұрын

I imagine she shouted REEEEEEEEEEEeeeEeee while hitting him

@arthurramirez5665

2 ай бұрын

Isn't that how chicks are? No accountability. It is never their fault. They are always the victim.

@chuuu4610

2 ай бұрын

@@arthurramirez5665 Ohh I spy an misogynistic generalization. Not everyone is like this b. What? Like is your mother problematic and the source of your personality? That’s like saying all men are incels.

OP's Wife: *cheats on OP* OP: *wants a divorce* OP's Wife: *suprised Pikachu face*

Wife: " I won't go to the gym anymore! I won't contact him ever again!" Also Wife: "I'm moving in with him!" Just, wow. The gall of this woman. She's saying that to get OP to forgive her.

@lilobutnotstitch8400

3 ай бұрын

why do I see you every video

@franciscolaurean8550

3 ай бұрын

She's not going to the gym any more because she'll get her workout at home😭

@jamesnorman9160

2 ай бұрын

This woman is cracked in the head somehow, honestly. Says she won't have anything to do with him, then moves in with him and wants him to be a part in the kid's life...then brings him round to her ex's house when said ex makes it very clear he doesn't want him there. Dude is lucky he only got hit once. Seems like both the AP and the cheating wife are trying to just stir shit up on purpose.

Honestly, I'm hitting X to doubt on the test personally? That she doesn't want to take the test when OP asked but suddenly wants to take the test when her affair partner does? Something is up

@akl2k7

3 ай бұрын

Yeah, if I were OP, i'd get my own test on the kid just after birth, just in case.

@Tustin2121

3 ай бұрын

Same, *especially* after that news story a few days ago about how the one paternity test company was basically flipping a coin on who the father was instead of actually doing the test correctly. Get a second opinion, OP. And a third, for good measure.

@MrDoverfield

3 ай бұрын

OP is not that bright because she could just switched the results.

@pathoesr7872

3 ай бұрын

She's definitely been trying to manipulate him.

@Sanodi21

3 ай бұрын

@@MrDoverfield It's not like OP is in a healthy mindset right now. His whole life just got ruined by someone he thought was the love of his life who's now basically emotionally abusing him

I'll never understand why people cheat and then when they get caught cheating act like they're the victim

@DarkEinherjar

3 ай бұрын

It's called narcissism. It's always someone else's fault, never theirs.

@Juju2927

3 ай бұрын

"You didn't put my needs and my person before anything else, so in a way, that's your fault for neglecting me" kinda thinking.

@trillionbones89

3 ай бұрын

HOW DARE YOU VIOLATE MY PRIVACY TO PROVE ME VIOLATING OUR WEDDING VOWS

@anonymouslyopinionated656

3 ай бұрын

usually because there's some unaired/unarticulated dissatisfaction, and when they're caught they want it to be understood.

@jorgefreitas5983

3 ай бұрын

believe me, as a member of a family where cheating is the norm, not even I can give you an explanation... And if you think that acting like the victim is weird, then thank God you have never seen a cheater turning the tables on his/her partner and guilt tripping them to belive he/she is the problem. I've seen it so many times as a child I thought this was normal...

woah, why would the guy trust the affair woman to do the test right. i would make a second test on his own to make sure

@Me-dr9dv

3 ай бұрын

Exactly what I was thinking.

@bcatbb2896

3 ай бұрын

@@Me-dr9dv i get the feeling those 2 are using him as a child support bank

@melissaconnellyjones2622

3 ай бұрын

@@bcatbb2896bingo!

@Me-dr9dv

3 ай бұрын

@@bcatbb2896 Yup, and there's little chance of him getting sole custody (I think there's a better chance of her getting it than him if they went that far).

@SergioBicerra

3 ай бұрын

Tests are done with all parties involved, then results are mailed to each one. Idk if there's an online option. So, unless they brive a lot of people in the clinic, or intercept the mail before it arrives to op's home, they can't do anything. Btw, the adresses arenchosen privately, so you can make his sent to a friend's home, parents, siblings, coworker, just to be sure nobody tampers or gets its hands on that mail.

"Who just leaves like that?" I would have responded "who just cheats like that?"

@ostlandr

3 ай бұрын

Every time OP's STBX wife said "I want to talk" OP should have said "I can't deal with this right now. I'm going to the gym." Rinse and repeat.

What always baffles me most regarding cheating stories is the affair partner. The cheater betrays the trust of their partner, destroys whatever relationship existed, and the affair partner is like 'Yes, that's what I want. This is the one for me.' It's like 'really? Your standards are that low?'

@joelrobinson5457

3 ай бұрын

"No but they cheated *for* me they wouldn't cheat *on* me"

@anonymouslyopinionated656

3 ай бұрын

i've been on that side of it. of course i was young and dumb. i was #3 in a chain of 4. though she has cheated on #4 as well, despite still being married.

@chaosstripe9446

3 ай бұрын

It's for the same reason the guy went to OP's house. Sadistic and controlling go hand in hand, and are super common for affair partners.

@lildanggun46

Ай бұрын

it’s because of their ego, they think they’re different, they’re special. they that the cheater cheated with them because they are better than their current partner, which is delulu. *what you compromise to get, you must compromise to keep.*

"You would really leave if it's not your baby?" Lady, I'm leaving you even if it IS my baby. We had a contract here that YOU broke. I can no longer trust you. Bye Felicia!

“I’m not sure how deep it goes” RSlash: 5-7inches Me simultaneously “balls” 😂

I’m sorry i ALWAYS find it absolutely hilarious, when cheaters get caught they always claim “looking through my phone is an invasion of my privacy” …you CHEATED on your partner….pretty sure thats an invasion of…something

@vanzy01

3 ай бұрын

😂

@shadowmewfred09

3 ай бұрын

Classic deflection they'd rather make you out as the bad one instead of facing up to what they've done just because they hate being wrong rather like a narcissist.

@caolanochearnaigh9804

3 ай бұрын

It's an invasion of personal dignity.

@sebastianviuf

3 ай бұрын

Wont call it a invasion. One of the worst sort of betrayal that exists? Yes. You complaining that your privacy was invaded is not really relevant at that point

@kozolith2121

3 ай бұрын

It's an invasion of trust that would give most people trust issues for life.

As a woman, with no kids....MY HANDS ARE SHAKING WITH RAGE

@LilDevyl17

3 ай бұрын

Glad I'm not the only one then!

There's this guy that used to work at my job that still comes around and hangs out. And back in the day, he got into a similar situation where his wife cheated on him and the dude knew. Instead of punching him like OP, he just straight up killed him. He did go to prison, but he's out and about now and owns a Towing Company while in a good stable relationship.

@GerbyLoby

3 ай бұрын

Wow

@thespiangamer6636

3 ай бұрын

What. That's horrific.

@joelrobinson5457

3 ай бұрын

​@@thespiangamer6636agreed, there's a line, injury looked down upon but understandable, that? Crosses the line

@pauldwalker

3 ай бұрын

@@thespiangamer6636yeah, he shouldn’t have gone to jail at all.

@chronobretz9511

23 күн бұрын

And the only thing of value that was lost was the time he spent in jail for that situation

If I were OP, I would try to file for full custody and get the mother to pay child support.

@victoriagarcia3078

3 ай бұрын

The court will more than likely refuse because she hasn’t done anything illegal

@spicybun81

3 ай бұрын

May be really hard depending on which country he comes from, a lot of courts favor the mother heavily

@ryanf4497

3 ай бұрын

@@spicybun81 You're right. Some countries are biased towards the mother and that's not right. Both parents should have an equal shot in court. Unfortunately, some countries and judges look at fathers as second class parents.

@Diamondr11Blue

3 ай бұрын

IN YOUR DREAMS. Since what does that happen. My mom had charges and still had custody after she lost it

@teslagod7221

3 ай бұрын

​@@victoriagarcia3078are you saying that cheating isn't illegal? And possibly falsifying/sabotaging dna results, which could basically be scamming...

Man, this episode was a rollecoaster. It didn't go up and down, it just went from side to side really fast and now I am just stunned. The AUDACITY of this woman. She is A++ trash incarnate. I feel like OP is going to break too, like he is going to explode in a rage and do something very bad to either his (soon to be ex) wife, or the affair partner.

@jorgefrade8900

3 ай бұрын

And nothing of value woud be lost

@marekvojta9648

3 ай бұрын

@@jorgefrade8900 I think the same OP is the cheated one but ahole too.

@zaej4317

3 ай бұрын

Just taking out the trash I'd say.

That wife is a red flag mixed with surprised Pikachu face.

@Masenken

3 ай бұрын

She's a complete stop sign with neon lights and mariachi music turned up to 11

@Human-kb6xc

3 ай бұрын

@@Masenken This cracked me up 😂

@Masenken

3 ай бұрын

@@Human-kb6xc this whole story was a roller coaster of "the audacity on this bish"

@Human-kb6xc

3 ай бұрын

@@Masenken very true. To be fair, I was only part way through the video when I posted the original comment 😂

@Masenken

3 ай бұрын

@@Human-kb6xc hahahaha

As someone who has been married for over 35 years. The one thing you don’t ever want to feel is giddy, over another person. That is the death knell in your marriage. Your spouse should always be the one who makes you giddy.

Holding out for the update where OP announces he's successfully sued for full custody because frankly that baby will be worse off if he doesn't.

@drwboy07

3 ай бұрын

I heard the update on another channel. Basically they had 50 50 custody, divorced and the AP and wife broke up, because he didn't want to raise another persons baby. And the ex wife was looking for an apartment. The Op made a comment how she wanted him to raise another persons child but her ap didn't.

@cCyberfantasy

3 ай бұрын

​@@drwboy07WAIT WHAT!? are you serious? If that's true then THAT'S just hilarious after the AP talk about how he "loved" her. Then he just bailed?? Karma came in quick 😂😂

@jeslybarillasmeraz880

3 ай бұрын

​@@cCyberfantasyNot true, I just checked the OP's profile and there's no such update

@freyja3153

3 ай бұрын

​@drwboy07 there's no mention of that on OP's actual reddit page though

@cCyberfantasy

3 ай бұрын

@@jeslybarillasmeraz880 Then is there an update that says he's doing okay?

Last story: if I were op I would have gone to the place where the DNA test was and get direct confirmation from a specialist. If they did a package delivery then all info would have been sent to her allowing her to bluff the evidence when she gives it to you.

Wow, the audacity to ask if OP would leave... woman, he should leave you even if the baby is actually his. You cheated on him and disrespected him. There's no coming back from this.

@moosecat

3 ай бұрын

HE shouldn't leave...if SHE didn't leave, then he should have kicked her ass out.

My guess as to one reason why the AP came with her was to size OP up and try to establish dominance. "You said I couldn't come? Too bad, I'm here. You say I need to leave, or you'll punch me? I'm calling your bluff. I'm the Big Man here." He may as well have pissed on the front porch, too. Unfortunately for him, OP isn't the type to let that kind of thing slide and actually punched him. Also, both the AP and the wife are gonna get bored of each other eventually. It's just a matter of time before they get stars in their eyes for someone else. How you get em is how you lose em and all that.

I was really hoping the baby wouldn't be OP's, so he'd have a clean break from his wife and her affair partner. Lol at his wife being shocked that OP would "consider throwing their marriage away" if the baby wasn't his. As if she didn't consider throwing their marriage away while she had her back blown out by "Jim." Best of luck to OP and the baby.

@akl2k7

3 ай бұрын

The wife could have faked the test, too. OP better get his own test just after the baby is born before signing any papers.

In story 1, I like how she leaves whenever anything happens, but gets upset at him for leaving to just not be around her. Like, okay.

@chaosstripe9446

3 ай бұрын

Especially when she's directly physically violent to him

@MrCrunchytime

Ай бұрын

It's because she was living in a juvenile world all about her, like she was in high school or something. She wasn't going to the gym JUST to work our, she was going there to be the center of attention, and having "The Popular Guy" start flirting with her just added fuel to the fire.

You know its going to be a crazy story when it takes up a full episode.

Yeaaaah I doubt AP is gonna stay, dude literally cheated with a pregnant woman. He's likely going to lose interest when the baby pops out and probably kick her out or cheat on her and she'll be up Schitt's creek without a paddle.

@benjiro8793

3 ай бұрын

Somebody posted that there was a update, that AP left her because he did not want to raise the kid. Its like i suspected, just a power play by the cheater and OP hitting him made the whole powerplay "less fun" knowing that OP will be in his life for a LONG time. Aka, you do not want to walk on eggshells with your "victim" going ham on your ass, if anything involves OPs kid. So out goes the (now)ex-wife, and hunt for the next married women.

"He's a sanitation worker and just picking up his garbage" I have to use that😂😂😂😂

OP's life became a living hell the moment he found out the kid is 99.9% his. I was sincerely hoping that the kid belonged to the affair partner, so he at least had an easy out of this marriage. ☹️

@Dragonemperess

3 ай бұрын

I hope he retests or goes straight to the company for the information, because I don't trust the results coming from her.

1st OP needed to be told by reddit that she could be cheating? Bro, if she goes to the gym twice a day, weekends, after stress events she should be ripped.

@joelrobinson5457

3 ай бұрын

Maybe they are, also now I have the question what happens if you have abs while pregnant?

@chaosstripe9446

3 ай бұрын

​@@joelrobinson5457 Skin is surprisingly stretchy

That poor kid is going to have a lot of sad twisted stories to tell to its therapist saying prayers for the OP that he heals eventually

OP's wife: *Ignores all of her requested duties to go cheat on her husband* Also OP's wife: Who could be so callous to walk away from this situation to go to a party!

Dude's lucky op didn't leave the trespasser bleeding on the curb. Strict instructions not to come. Still came to his house. Clearly voiced to leave or else. Didn't leave. And with that story he's just lucky op is not as much of a baseball enthusiast as some others would've been.

@TheRealNekora

3 ай бұрын

or gun

@danielbrant6740

3 ай бұрын

​@@TheRealNekora To quote the Dark Knight Joker: "Guns are too quick."

@TheRealNekora

3 ай бұрын

@@danielbrant6740 Ohh i agree, just saying its also a possibility

@marekvojta9648

3 ай бұрын

I see american...

I think OP misheard his wife. She wasn’t going to the gym; she was going to do Jim.

@TyTeaStrings

3 ай бұрын

Yes… RSlash already made that joke

@bigjalapeno7061

3 ай бұрын

Lol

I have a couple of things to say: 1) Op, you don't love her anymore, you love what she USED to be and how she made you fell. She's changed. 2) In my job we have a bending machine with lots of sweets, I'm avoiding sugar for the time being, so what I do now is avoid walking by this machine and take another route, or if I have to I think of my jurney to get fit and dismiss it. This is more common lately. So... is easy to avoid temptation. I may have all the sweets I want but it would ruin my journey, my life goal. Think of that.

Years ago I used to think RSlash was too soft, but years later he is a cynical old man like me lol😂

@christiannsl14

3 ай бұрын

Having to read Reddit stories as a job will do that to you 😂

@ostlandr

3 ай бұрын

LOL our 28 YO daughter insists her spirit guide is a grumpy old man. We get her T-shirts that say stuff like "Get off my lawn!"

Story 1: I'm a gym bro and most people wouldn't be able to go every day. So of course her schedule is a red flag.

Gain custody of the kid when it’s born op, gain custody and mention the affair, Take her to court, The second that kid comes into the world they will NEVER mention your the dad to the kid

@femaledenki6196

3 ай бұрын

She will LIE and make YOU look like the bad guy when her kids old enough, She will turn that kid on you

The way people just check out of their relationship and are too selfish and just leave always baffles me. EVERYONE knows it you cheat your relationship is pretty much done. The amount of people who forgive cheaters can be counted on one hand per person. People are so freakishly selfish and mentally screwed in the head nowadays, it's no wonder so many people are choosing to just opt out if the entire dating pool and just do bad by their damned selves. It's just not worth it

@Broeckchen

3 ай бұрын

Hey, hey... please don't let these stories inform your view of the world at large. People only come to places like reddit when things are already getting bad, and the stories that bubble to the surface and get picked up for channels like this go through another filter of especially upsetting on top of that most of the time. Look at how many people in this comment section are disgusted with the wife's behavior. Those are all people who have a better moral core than her. That's so many people to 1 cheater. Don't let the internet poison your ideas of the world. There are still so many lovely people out there. There are happy and loving relationships out there. There are loves that endure and grow stronger over time. Heck, RSlash himself is living such a love and relationship even. C: I don't want that toxic cloud to devour you. It may keep you from seeing when the right people for you come along. Hold on to some faith in good, okay? I send you a hug!

@Masenken

3 ай бұрын

@@Broeckchen I just celebrated my 9th anniversary. I'm good. However, I follow numbers like weirdo, and no one can deny that the dating world is basically in a dire crisis, ntm births starting to hit a steep decline across the globe as more or more people can't or refuse to have children. These stories keep popping up on reddit and other places because it's becoming increasingly more and more common. They're one of thousands of not millions, and I feel bad for the new generation for having to navigate this shit show of broken ideologies and an utter lack of respect for one another unless they can get something out of it as this messaging is thrown at them night and day. It's not enough to have a positive mindset and look for the good in people. Our entire culture and way of life needs a complete overhaul and fast

@Thecommentator-hc1fz

3 ай бұрын

@@Masenkencheating has always been very common, social media made it just look like it’s more “common”.

@Masenken

3 ай бұрын

@@Thecommentator-hc1fz you missed my point. I said it's baffling that cheaters think they can cheat and KEEP their relationship

@Thecommentator-hc1fz

3 ай бұрын

@@Masenken I didn’t miss it, I was remind you the actual reality.

I will never understand cheaters... like act like an adult and leave if your not happy in your relationship or try to fix it... especially if you are at a point when you are long married/want kids or even have kids. Why go to the risk of loosing everything in a fire instead of somewhat going out gracefully?

Stories like this genuinely make me feel sick listening to them. I feel so bad for Op.

My ex roommate (and family friend) started having an affair with his friend who was married with 4 kids. (Two 2 of which are 4 and 6). He now has them in his house after she said “oh btw due to the divorce, I only have 3 weeks to move out, I forgot to tell you” and now has 4 kids of another man and her living in his tiny 2 bedroom house. Cheaters are FOOLS that will reap the hat they sow.

@Robin93k

2 ай бұрын

No... The Fools are those you hear about. And most Cheaters destroy the lives of others before meeting their consequences...

"She told me not to come, and that I wasn't welcome, but I came anyway." Me: "Ah, ok, so you're willingly tresspassing." *loads gun with castle doctrine-related intent.

7:45 If you listen closely, you can hear Dabney's brain trying to keep control while he processes what he's reading.

Cheating Gym Wife: "Who just leaves like that?" Spouse: "Figured you'd be at the gym, so who cares."

I love these long narratives with a lot of updates. Also love your sarcastic comments (and voice)! You are my favorite KZreadr!

The first one sounded like a clear-cut sign of addiction to exercise at first. I thought maybe she developed an unhealthy addiction to working out because it makes her feel like she has some kind of power or control in her life - seen it happen a lot. Then that update hit, and I was like, "Nah."

There's another update about how OP hears his wife is miserable with the AP. How she misses stuff that OP used to do and how the AP is a selfish lover (only focuses on himself and when he's done they're done). The realisation of the consequences of her actions is just so satisfying.

As someone whos been cheated on several times... no going back. I made that mistake. I tried to forgive someone. Every text, every call, every day spent at work, always wondering if its another person. It isnt worth it. Cut your losses and dont look back.

Cheaters: " You cant invade my privacy!" Person they cheated on:" Apparently i can since you let JIM invade your privates." This woman is living in a delusional "Nicholas Sparks Novel Mentality"

5 to 7 inches on average had me rolling 😂😂😂

Why the cheater came into OP's house? A form of intimidation and show dominance. A "Ha I won" kinda thing. OP's free of this trashfire woman and what's that saying when someone gets the AP as a partner? A new opening is given. Get everything you can while she's in the affair fog OP. All OP has to do is concern himself with his child and their well being. Be ready to step up and make what needs to be agreed upon in the decree. Be ready to get a parenting app set up. Whoever is willing to cheat with you is a person willing to cheat on you. OP's wife is getting exactly what she's asking for.

This is why i like being single, you dont have to worry about none of this relationship bs

@ostlandr

3 ай бұрын

My Granddd: "A bachelor is a man who never makes the same mistake once." My neighbor: " If I ever feel the urge to get married again, I'll just find some woman I hate and give her half my stuff."

OP make sure to make it 50/50 custody and NO childsupport either direction. (apart from splitting bills for daycare et.c)

@akl2k7

3 ай бұрын

If I were him, I'd also get my own test done just after birth before signing any papers.

@ostlandr

3 ай бұрын

I would never be able to coparent with a lying, gaslighting cheater. Because she would 100% lie to the police, the courts and CPS. I'd offer her everything, in return for never having to lay eyes on on our child, much as that would break me. Better for the child. Alternately, I'd offer to surrender parental rights and allow Douchebag Gymbro to adopt the child, on condition they get married and stay married until the child is 18. If they split, I get half the original martial assets back. If Gaslighting Cheater ever was unwilling or unable to care for our child, or there was a substantiated CPS report, I would accept full legal and physical custody so long as we didn't have to coparent.

OP should absolutely try and get full Custody himself. Don't let the other guy steal your child as well as your wife. Get full custody, and let him influence your child as little as possible

Dang. Was really hoping the kid wouldn't be his. Hope he's able to navigate this mess.

@akl2k7

3 ай бұрын

It still might not be. He should get his own paternity test done once the kid is born before signing anything.

For as many stories of cheating as there is, there’s also tons of stories of a cheater getting with their affair partner and then being surprised when they get cheated on. They didn’t “fall in love”, they’re horny and horrible people and will hurt each other

🤦‍♂️ why is bro entertaining her nonsense? I know it’s easy for me, a complete stranger with no skin in the game, to say that he should drop her like month-old garbage but he really needs to drop her and stop listening to whatever comes spewing out of her, she’s proven that she can’t be trusted.

@user-qz7rf4qt6g

3 ай бұрын

Love... it does strange thing's to a man

You know Rslash is pissed when he makes A LOT of sex jokes.

OP do not sign any paperwork when that baby is born.

story one "i cheated but you caught me so HOW DARE YOU!!!"

When OP is wondering why AP would want a woman who is pregnant and married when he could have anyone else... I think maybe AP really does love her, like he tried to say in the end. Doesn't make him a good person obvs, but I think OP is trying to block out that maybe they do really have feelings for each other as a defense mechanism- which is understandable. He's in a shitty situation and is the only innocent party here. I hope he's able to move on and co-parent amicably for his kid's sake.

@wingracer1614

3 ай бұрын

Quite possible. More likely they are just confusing lust for love but who knows

@soogymoogi

3 ай бұрын

@@wingracer1614 that's possible too but at least for me someone would have to be the absolute 10/10 hottest, best sex of my life to make me want to take on the kind of baggage that the AP is 🤣

@wingracer1614

3 ай бұрын

@@soogymoogi He hasn't married her. The kid isn't his so he can leave at anytime (or kick her out since it's his place) with no consequences. He's good.

@Ikajo

3 ай бұрын

​@soogymoogi Maybe the AP is infertile and this is his chance to have a kid

@Broeckchen

3 ай бұрын

I seriously don't get how that's the main concern in the first place when that woman has been like... not just cheating, but also trying to stay with OP instead of pivoting to the new relationship. Like??? My main concern would be how she treated her former partner and how she didn't even care about her AP enough to stop hanky panky with OP! You can fall in love with pregnant women from other men or single dads all the time, that's not weird to me. That's not even baggage to me. But she basically used the AP for sex and validation without ever committing to him until she felt forced to, and she felt no remorse or issues with cheating on the man she *was* committed to. Even if... no, *especially* if I was deeply in love, I would feel so hurt by that. Those things are actual character flaws and mistreatments of people. It's so weird to me that they aren't what everyone focuses on, but instead the baby.

It's so weird that OP fixates on the pregnant woman thing. Instead of wondering why this guy would want a cheater who had no issues with boinking both him and her husband at the same time, or boinking him while already carrying her loving husband's child? Like, I feel like it's much weirder to stick with someone who not only cheated WITH you, but also kept going back to the original partner for seconds during their time with you! That doesn't bode well for their fidelity in the future and you should feel much more concerned about their unwillingness to throw in their lot with you once the relationship began than you should be about any pregnancy stuff or "a child from another man". That's such a weird thing to devalue in the first place.

"How could you betray my trust by opening my phone to find me throwing away our relationship" I really hope he moves for full custody this lady can't be trusted

Poor OP, it's easy for me to say it as I'm not in his shoes but I'd either fight for full custody or sign away parental rights. His life is gonna be miserable if he keeps having any link to her.

Paused the video at the perfect time to hear you say "welcome to arse"

I love how foolish cheaters are. Someone suddenly getting a new hobby they get unhealthily obsessed with will 9/10 times lead to cheating. And then when the betrayed party lashes out (rightfully) then the wronged party is the one to cry victim. Bringing children into the mix, the fact she thought OP would actually stay if the baby isn’t his is hilariously delusional! Tears salt the earth around her but no love blossoms there. Plus her getting pity from her coworkers because she’s not getting the attention she wants from OP is hilarious. AND THEN SHE MOVES IN WITH THE AFFAIR PARTNER?! AND RELENTS TO THE PATERNITY TEST WHEN THE AFFAIR PARTNER ASKS FOR IT?! Yoooooo she’s been love bombed to heck and back! She’s mega delulu!! This story is off the rails! Poor OP. Seems like the (ex) wife left her stuff because she’s probably hoping to having 2 homes that she can run to when she’s all pouty. And the gall of the of the affair partner to “stake his claim” like some cringey alpha male and her crocodile puppy eyes when saying “he convinced me to let him come”. No, hun! You let him come. I feel like that was a set up. Though I applaud OP for making the dude’s head spin. This whole story is a train wreck! But I got one question: what does her family think/know about any of this?!

Damn it, I was so hoping it wasn't his child so he could just wash his hands of her. I suppose filing for sole custody is extremely difficult without actual abuse involved. That poor child, if they actually stay in this toxic triangle, the ex and her boytoy will certainly poison the child against OP.

@akl2k7

3 ай бұрын

It still might not be his. He should do his own paternity test once the kid is born before signing anything in case the wife is pulling a fast one.

@magiv4205

3 ай бұрын

@@akl2k7 That's a very good point. OP should not under any circumstances sign the birth certificate before being absolutely sure it's his and before being absolutely sure he wants to co-parent with his trashy ex.

Romance movies have truly screwed people up mentally, if they think "falling in love" is a valid excuse for cheating. I feel so bad for OP, but he's sounds like a decent guy and he'll get his feet under himself soon

I love how when OP left to his family...she called him callous to leave like that...clearly she doesn't realise what shes been doing lordy...this is so horrid

My immense furious inhuman wrath would immediately cause a truly hyper massive explosive fury outburst

Everytime a cheater gets caught I always recall that Ozarks quote, "It's not the first time she's done it, it's just the first time she's gotten caught."

Story 1: the utter audacity of the wife to play as though she is the victim. She cries rivers to get OP’s attention yet not a single drop even splashes onto him. She shatters their relationship, betrays OP’s trust and thinks it’s okay to bring the third wheel into OP’s home? Not only that, but said wheel acts surprised when he actually gets punched when OP has warned him that he will punch him if he does not leave. Also, when OP requests a paternity test, she becomes embarrassed and refuses to do it. But when the third wheel requests it, she’s all in for it? Something about that tells me to not trust the results. OP should get the test redone from a specialist, just in case. Yeah, she can scream paranoia all she wants but does she really think that OP can trust an infidel?

"Really? After all we've been through youd leave me like that after all our history?", deserves a "Really? After all we've been through you'd cheat on me like? after all our history?"

Well... that was insane, and stupid, and just ridiculous! Who in their right mind hears that their girlfriends frigging husband doesn't want them at their house, and then insists on coming anyway? Who the he🏒🏒 builds up a romantic relationship with a married woman, stomps the husband's boundaries, then has the audacity to say "I respect you?" What the actual crap did we all just read?!

Man, that wife has some big balls trying to play victim when her husband (of course) doesn’t want to stay to raise an affair baby.

.. I know my “I’ll sleep eventually” is bad enough when I see RSlash uoads (they happen at 5PM here)

Love all your videos rslash! I’ve been watching for years, and you’re my most favourite Reddit story KZreadr. The work you put in daily really shows. This was an awesome video. Thank you always!! ❤

Every time I hear these stories about cheaters it just opens up old wounds

I’ve encountered a girl like this. Someone completely unrepentant and unashamed of how they treat people, and only try to manipulate everyone. She hurt me really badly, and I told her never to speak to me again. She posted something on her socials not long after about how proud she was of the girl she turned out to be. She avoids the place we used to work together like the plague, probably because she used to bring her _boyfriend_ around, and she’s worried I’ll tell him about what she did. She acted like we were close friends, claiming to be there for my mental health, and saying that she’d kill herself if anything happened to me. I was already having a rough time, and I thought she was just trying to be a good friend, since I knew about her boyfriend. Turns out, she just wanted a reference for her new job, and ghosted me after she left. Now when I say I was having a hard time, my antidepressants stopped working. I was borderline suicidal, and she knew it. It was so bad, my mother forced me to call the crisis hotline. My trust in people was already at an all time low, and she made me feel completely worthless. She came back months later and only gave me a passing, but very flirty, “bye [Name]~.” Yes, the exact tone you imagine when you read that. That was the Friday before Valentine’s Day. I was pretty sure she blocked my number as soon as she left, so I had a mutual friend of ours tell her I didn’t want her to speak to me anymore. I completely forgot I followed her on TikTok, since I deleted the app shortly after she ghosted me. I scroll through my email, trying to find some missing assignments from college, and I see her username. I click on it, and on Valentine’s Day, the day our mutual friend gave her my message, she posts about how proud she is of the girl she turned out to be. Since then, she’s avoided bringing her boyfriend around like the plague, and has avoided the store altogether. I can see why she’d be worried, but I’m of the opinion that she will ruin her relationship herself sooner or later, so there is no need for my intervention. The only reason I’d drop that bomb on their relationship, is if she was dumb enough to try and bring him around as backup if she tried to “talk it out.” At that point, I’d speak my mind, regardless of whether or not he likes what he hears. But as long as she’s not that dumb, I have no intention of ever trying to insert myself into their relationship, as I feel it would be overly petty. I refuse to sink to her level, so I’m steering clear of her, and trying to recover. I’m on some new meds, and I’m doing so much better. After months of being a mess, my coworkers managed to pry a loose timeline of events out of me, without me name dropping who it was. I didn’t want to say outright who it was, because she had so many people wrapped around her finger that I didn’t think anyone would believe me. They all immediately guessed who it was, citing how much she latched onto me over the past two years we worked together. I reluctantly confirmed it, and they’re all pissed. Possibly even more so than I am, as they’ve resorted to calling her ‘the demon girl’ around my workplace. I appreciate their support, I really didn’t think anyone at work thought that highly of me. But honestly, the fact that people like this exist is sickening. The irony is though, she used to tell everyone about how one of her exes was a narcissist.

OP should get his own paternity test after the baby is born and before he signs anything. I could see the kid being the boyfriends and they just trying to get OP for child support.

There's been a new update, initially soon to be ex agreed to keep AP out of the delivery room, but after AP insisted he "had to be there", she changed her mind - Oh, and she is also miserable, and b*tching to her sister how AP doesn't spend enough time with her, doesn't do all the nice things OP used to do for her, how he is really selfish with sex...etc. I don't normally find joy in the misfortune of others...unless they've brought it upon themselves and it is well deserved.

These paternity test circumstances sound extremely scummy! Sue for a professional test, custody and child support in that order! These people want you to be their atm and baby sitter!

My guess is that the guy (the AP) wanted to demonstrate that he's the alpha male, and that OP will just have to accept his decisions. AP learned that the real alpha male is the actual alpha male and that his kindness shouldn't be disrespected.

For someone who’s apparently like the star of the gym he really can’t take a punch

@TheOneWhoSimps

3 ай бұрын

Working out and fighting are two different worlds.... It's 2024, most people can't take a punch.

Story one: we can tell she’s been working out. 😈

Sue the gym bro for alienation of affection! And definitely confirm paternity after the baby is born.

Wife: I never meant to hurt you OP! I'm sooorry! Me: Well, you should've thought about that before you hurt him by cheating on him.

@bigjalapeno7061

3 ай бұрын

Yep

Was REALLY hoping OP wasn't going to be the bio dad, given the title of the video. I am very disappointed and pity that poor man.

If they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on you. If they cheat on you once, they'll do it twice.

That man is a homewrecker, and I seriously don't believe his claims. Honestly, he must be really bold to be strolling in the house that whose woman he's banging is married to, because yeah a lot of people lack the restraint to go ape on people like him. OP should not only divorce, but get the child too because he is the father, and I have doubts the affair man would be a good father

@akl2k7

3 ай бұрын

Heck, OP should personally make sure the kid is his with his own test once it's born.

I think OP shouldn't ever be alone with his ex-wife. Ever. Like he needs witnesses to make sure she doesn't twist things. Cuz if she's willing to hit him, she's probably going to make up a terrible story if given the chance.

As I always say: “Falling in love isn’t a choice, but cheating is a choice”

Story 1: "it's not my fault I feel in love!" Sure but it's your fault for cheating and putting yourself in the position too. You're the married one, and while Ap is still trash, it's ultimately you're responsiblity to reject someone else's advances. I'm so sad for op to be stuck in this woman's life but atbleast that kid would have at least one Good influence.

@akl2k7

3 ай бұрын

Heck, she could have stopped herself before falling in love, by, I don't know, not chatting with an attractive man at the gym who didn't care she was married.

@orchidoxs126

3 ай бұрын

@@akl2k7 Exactly, I get crushes can happen but It's up to the wayward spouse not to act on it. I can't stand cheaters, I can't stand their logic. Why would you think someone happy to engage with a married person would be a good and trustworthy partner? Heck, why would someone get with a married person, thinking they be a trustworthy and faithful person? Cheaters are delulu.

Nothing like waking up to a bestof on my day off :3

These are the backstories of murdersprees.

That CANNOT be the end, can he get full custody?! They sound psychotic

Poor guy, I hope his baby brings him joy and he can heal from what she did.