'you can't set that girl boundaries' - boyfriend who cheated with that girl.

@ShadowTaipan

6 ай бұрын

"I did because I thought it would make her move on!" instead of telling her to back off - being harsh if necessary.

@bigjalapeno7061

6 ай бұрын

Lol

@Scarlett.Granger

6 ай бұрын

I mean not like the boyfriend wasn't a dirty cheater but he wasn't exactly wrong about that one. OP is 26. She shouldn't be acting like she's still in highschool trapped in a neverending rendition of mean girls.

She had it bad for your boyfriend, but he didn’t have enough integrity to refuse her

@Lopitra

6 ай бұрын

I hope facing the consequences of his spinelessness taught him well. May he never cheat again.

@coreylemon

6 ай бұрын

@@Lopitra He seems to have grown from it, but I applaud OP for standing up for herself and dumping him. I hope he keeps what little spine he's grown in his next relationship.

@MordorProject

6 ай бұрын

OP did nothing to stop it. It wouldn’t have happened if she was brave enough to face Jessie and to tell her boyfriend that he needs to push Jessie away. If the toaster catches on fire, you put it down. You don’t wait for the fire to grow big so it can burn down the house. You know what I mean ?.

@enchantedeboy9027

6 ай бұрын

He had no tegridy. It JUST so happens that I know a guy with a farm full of Tegridy!

@Shr00mbunny

6 ай бұрын

⁠@@MordorProjectum no.. that’s not how cheating works. He could have just said no? And been a decent human being- knowing he’s in a relationship! It’s HIS responsibility to not cheat lmao. What’s stopping him from cheating with other girls who push themselves on him ?

Like all cheaters, the ex-bf doesn't feel remorse or regret about the cheating. He only regrets that he was caught.

@juliaboskamp9666

6 ай бұрын

And like all cheaters he realize he frickt up big time very late I would feel bad for him but he is a cheater so he doesn't get sympathie

@Richard_Nickerson

6 ай бұрын

​@@juliaboskamp9666 Why'd you spell sympathy all French-like?

@Milk-ck1wv

6 ай бұрын

​@@Richard_Nickersonthat's how french people spell it?

@SkyEcho751

6 ай бұрын

Actually, in rare cases, some 'cheaters' have remorse and regret. But in those rare cases, either the person doesn't actually cheat(IE they were assaulted or had been under the influence of drugs and had not been in their right mind), OR the person starts to try and fix things before getting caught and usually confess to the cheating. The problem isn't that they don't show regret, it's that they only start regretting AFTER getting caught. There was one OP where he cheated for a couple months, realized cheating was not what he should be doing, tried to work on the marriage, wife found out about the affair a bit down the line, and basically became his Prison Warden for 2 years. And it turns out _she_ was cheating the entire time, since before they got married, and only started showing 'regret' after getting caught herself. They are, of course, the exception that proves the rule, that normally cheaters don't regret until after getting caught. But they still happen.

@user-ib4ld2hb8c

6 ай бұрын

Cheaters just suck.

That last story was incredibly heartwarming, which is something I definitely needed after hearing that first one

@natanoj16

6 ай бұрын

I had something like that happen with a kid i take care of from time to time and it also just made me tear up ❤

@lorilancaster5917

6 ай бұрын

I keep hoping for a best of updates with nothing but heart warming stories.

@catiepartridge5383

3 ай бұрын

Right? Now, I have to stop cutting all these onions...*sniff*...its bad for my eyes...*beaks down in tears fully*

Story 1: "the common friend said "look i don't wanna get involved but you should watch it" I asked what he meant he said "nothing just watch it". Why do people do this clearly its not nothing if you know something tell them stop being cryptic and tell them what they need to know

@energetix4208

6 ай бұрын

My thoughts exactly.

@Broeckchen

4 ай бұрын

I'm glad that he later realized how dumb that was and just came out and said it. Because wtf is "watch it" supposed to mean. It sounds like a dang threat!

"There was an update, but it wasn't super interesting" Proceeds to glaze over Very interesting bits.

@SweetLala25

6 ай бұрын

RIGHT! LOL Luckily I already heard that one on a different channel so I know all the details.

@lorilancaster5917

6 ай бұрын

I mean can’t we be the ones to judge?

@PyroRoadScout

6 ай бұрын

@@SweetLala25 Wait, what are the juicy details?

@VixyGirl

6 ай бұрын

​@@SweetLala25where can I hear the whole thing?

@sharonochurus

6 ай бұрын

Mark narrations ​@@VixyGirl

story 2 is a perfect example of why you should never bite the hand that feeds you

@lorilancaster5917

6 ай бұрын

And in OPs case, always cover your self. I can’t think of any place where $650 a month will get you a two bedroom basement suite with utilities. When OP high balled and offered over 3000 in rent, that sounds more realistic.

@bigjalapeno7061

6 ай бұрын

Yep

Jessie is the definition of a pick me. Gross.

@juliaboskamp9666

6 ай бұрын

She is a fake friend and a pick me karma will get to her

@dudeorduuude5211

6 ай бұрын

No, she is more the dominant toxic cheerleader in high-school stereotypes.

@paulineisme

6 ай бұрын

Jessie is so insecure, she's basically saying "I'm worthless, but OP is nice. Her boyfriend likes her, so if I get him to like me, then I must be good too"

@xxoxEVAxoxx

6 ай бұрын

@@dudeorduuude5211 Basically the same thing. Putting down other women for men’s attention- like the people you’re describing lol.

@user-ut3jk7it6c

6 ай бұрын

she have a lot of guy friends, and she needs ALL of the sausage, it's very rude and inconsiderate for OP of having a boyfriend of her own and not share...

Second story, to start with? Even $775 is a giant steal for an apartment that big and all utilities regardless of where you are. The ex roommate is honestly a giant entitled idiot who blew what was basically a once in a lifetime chance people would kill over.

@SailorMya

6 ай бұрын

Yeah! if the teacher had any common sense he would have stayed quite and saved his money so eventually HE could buy a house of his own! He was so blinded by the fact his money "payed the mortgage" he forgot to add up all the utilities he got for free! in his mind HE shouldn't have to pay anything since there is no "landlord" just his brother's friend! I wonder why he wanted to start giving his money directly to the landlord? makes me think he wanted to go behind OP to kick him out or something like that but the plan failed when he found out OP was the landlord!

@ostlandr

6 ай бұрын

I absolutely hate to bring politics into it, but teachers tend to be on the left side of the political graph. The Left has the wrong idea that "all" landlords are evil, greedy monsters. And that housing is a human right, and so should be free. (Spoiler alert: Nothing that requries the labor of others can ever be a human right.) It was never about the rent. It was about OP being a landlord. Not his landlord, but just a landlord.

@Mew_Mokuba_Akari

6 ай бұрын

​@SailorMya Yeah he thought if OP was paying the same amount he'd go to the landlord and offer to pay slightly more for the upstairs instead of the basement. He really should have looked into rental prices after getting into a fight with OP. But what did he think the real landlord if it hadn't been OP was doing with the money? They pay bills. If not mortgage on that property then the one where the landlord was living.

The best words we get to hear: and then OP posted an update!

@ShadowStryker

6 ай бұрын

Not really like not at all

@NotUnique_

6 ай бұрын

I've never had an orgvsm but I assume it the same exact feeling I get from hearing this sentence and an explosive one if there's a second update lol

@destinedtogame

6 ай бұрын

Story 1 has been covered by Dab already

The last story both OP and his adopted daughter are so mature in that conversation. It was so sweet!

@dopamiine4298

6 ай бұрын

Is it adopted when they share blood? An older sibling, especially by such a large margin, is already a parent in all but title. IMO, she is straight up his daughter

That last story. You can't choose who birthed you, but you can choose your family. I'm so happy for those two.

OP: "$650 a month including utilities." Friend's brother probably: *"NOT GOOD ENOUGH!"*

@thetruth1223

6 ай бұрын

Friends brother :" why aren't you paying me to exist in you're house lady ehhhhh"....

@anndownsouth5070

6 ай бұрын

I think it was including utilities not plus utilities. Big difference.

@ShadowTaipan

6 ай бұрын

Where is this apartment and where can I rent it?

@Richard_Nickerson

6 ай бұрын

@@thetruth1223 Your*

@Richard_Nickerson

6 ай бұрын

@@ShadowTaipan OP said they aren't renting it anymore

omg the last one is so heartwarming. I wish those two all the best.

Story 2: Geez, he had everything laid out for him, but he just threw it all away because of one misunderstanding and claims that he was taken advantage of. Buddy. Friend. Pal. If you think all of that for $650 is not good enough and is considered "Taking advantage," then you're a lost cause. I would've taken that deal!

@bigjalapeno7061

6 ай бұрын

Oof

@dudeorduuude5211

6 ай бұрын

I think his only comparison in life is mommy and daddy's house.

Wait wait wait... rent is *always* compensating for mortgage. That's literally normal. And $650/month for an entire basement to yourself and all utilities included? We're seriously calling this a *bad* deal? I'd kick the guy out and stop talking to those who agree with him. Edit: Back in like 2010-2013, I lived in a house with 3 roommates for $400/month each ($1600/month total) with NO utilities included and THAT was a steal. Add a decade of time and utilities, and $650 for a whole floor to yourself + utilities, and that's obviously a great deal.

@dudeorduuude5211

6 ай бұрын

I watched this story read on another channel with 2 people in their early 20s reading it. It took them a while to understand, and they weren't sure if OP was charging too much. It tool them reading multiple comments, explaining why, explaining life to them, that they understood. Naivete is sometimes painful to watch.

@Richard_Nickerson

6 ай бұрын

@@dudeorduuude5211 Literally just have to Google rent for 2 bedrooms in their area to get an idea

@Richard_Nickerson

6 ай бұрын

@@dudeorduuude5211 The inability and unwillingness to Google something is a very real problem. We have ALL of information at our fingertips, and people would rather be confused and assume incorrectly.

@AJ-zq8kv

4 күн бұрын

I think the problem is that renting so other people can own something is considered normal in the first place

How is having devil tango with your girlfriend "best friend" ever a good idea. Ex-boyfriend said he did it once so Jessie will move on but after that he did it multiple, and says it's nothing that guy is a cheater and OP deserves a better friend and a better boyfriend

@dudeorduuude5211

6 ай бұрын

Bahahaha! Devil tango.

@bigjalapeno7061

6 ай бұрын

Yep

@Lithium_Panda

6 ай бұрын

@@dudeorduuude5211 RSlash needs to use that as a description for cheaters lol

Story 1: Hope it was worth it, JessIe. She broke a relationship in the hopes of stealing the BF, and she lost multiple friends, a vacation, and the guy even rejected her because he was torn by the whole thing. I don't feel bad for the BF, but I hope he learned his lesson and finds better people

@NotLaura-Baka22

6 ай бұрын

I know right he lost someone he loved because he slept with someone he didn't even like the biggest fumble of all time.

@strawberrysoulforever8336

Ай бұрын

Jessie needs to read Ann M Martin's book "Slam Book". Paige breaks up Cassie and Gooz by writing in the slam book with disguised handwriting that Cassie is a liar who didn't really go the whole way with Gooz (even though she doesn't know if Cassie ever made that claim). But it backfires since Gooz isn't interested in Paige. In fact, he's more interested in her friend Anna, and so Paige starts writing undisguised things in the book, calling Anna a "boy-stealer" and "Pretty to look at but dangerous to touch". One of Anna's attempts to get back at Paige actually causes a girl in their class to commit suicide. This story meets Heathers, anyone?

Story 2: that teacher doesnt deserve to be teaching if hes that dumb about rent prices and tenant laws

@Monasaurus_Rex

6 ай бұрын

“Covering his mortgage” like isn’t that what rent is 😭 for a teacher he’s so stupid

@dimariahgunnemann3729

6 ай бұрын

Yes, and getting angry so easily all the time.

@rosegomez203

6 ай бұрын

He is a cheap creep! Who cares what happened!

@SilverGhxst

6 ай бұрын

I can't imagine getting mad at paying $650 for rent. Places for rent where I live go upwards of 1500-3000$ depending on what your looking for. 1 bedroom crack den looking shit holes cost more than that teachers rent does where I live! Shit I'd happily pay $650 for rent with a smile on my face and a thank you right behind it. The only way you'd be paying less than 1000$ where I live if it was a shares house and you were just renting the single bedroom (usually used for people in college) you'd never be able to find a decent apartment for less than $1000 that actually provided privacy. This teacher needs to go back to school himself it seems 😅😅 not too bright

@JosieJOK

6 ай бұрын

Can’t be too smart if he’d prefer paying market rate to a huge corporation to fuel their profits, but not paying way below market to a small landlord to pay their mortgage for the place he’s living. I mean, what does he think rent is to a landlord of any size? It’s their income; of course they’re gonna pay their bills with it. If he has an issue with that, he should buy his own place and pay the bank so they can make a profit.

I think the reason i love r/bestof is because in some of these stories, i want to know what happens next. I wanna know what the eventual fallout will be :3

@audreym3908

6 ай бұрын

Same here, but then some of those stories feel a bit incomplete in some ways

@BILLCIPHER8

6 ай бұрын

Ikr? I can't stand listening to incomplete stories. So I pretty much only listen to r/bestof, stories about Kevin, choosing beggers or entitled parents.

@rhondah.1478

6 ай бұрын

Yes, I love when Dabney reads that sub because otherwise I'm searching the user on Reddit while listening to rSlash to see if there was an update, lol.

@audreym3908

6 ай бұрын

@@rhondah.1478 sometimes Mark Narrations, Lost Genre and Jay Mick reads them with the updates but it's kind of tricky to remember when some of those stories were read.

@rhondah.1478

6 ай бұрын

@audreym3908 yes! I hate when I can't get closure. 🤣

I guess Jessie was obnoxiously correct that it was all for the best. OP was able to shed dead weight when her “friend” and now ex showed their true colors, AND both liars lost what they really wanted when their lies blew up in their faces. Bittersweet for OP, but some satisfying justice for the snakes in her life.

Only thing more pathetic than dating a known cheater is that cheater rejecting you.

S1) Both Jessie and the Ex suck. So glad OP tossed them where they belong. S2) Time to serve him a eviction notice and have witnesses there to do it. S3) What a sweet family. OP I hope you two continue to have a healthy relationship.

Ahh, the old I'll sleep with her to get her to leave me alone play.

@ShadowTaipan

6 ай бұрын

It's more like "I'll sleep with her to wake up alone."

@lorilancaster5917

6 ай бұрын

Is he lousy in the sack?

@condorboss3339

6 ай бұрын

Well, he did get left alone.

@ostlandr

6 ай бұрын

That only works with certain guys. In the words of singer Courtney Love, "They get what they want, and they never want it again. . ."

"Watch it" sounded so threatening but it was actually that friend warning OP 🙏🏻 I was super worried for a hot minute

Story 2: NTA. OP’s roommate had a sweet deal, below rent rate and all the amenities. He not only wrecked the kitchenette but also op’s walls.

They made a business transaction. I have a space to rent in a home. It includes utilities. This is the price. He agreed and signed the agreement. Done. Most landlords use the rent money to pay for some of all of the mortgage. But, OP is correct. Where the rent money is going has absolutely no bearing on the rental transaction. OP did nothing wrong and the friends should butt out. If they want to rent to this guy at lower rates, then , "THEY CAN RENT TO HIM AT A LOWER RENT!"

"Prank spanking?" Ummmmmm no. That ain't a prank.

@VixyGirl

6 ай бұрын

Exactly. If he consents then it's flirting and if he doesn't it's assault but either way completely inappropriate.

Homeowner story: OP has every right to evict this selfish idiot, and her finances are nobody’s business. I don’t care if she made $600.00 over her mortgage every month, it’s still not his business. If he doesn’t like it, he can always find a “cheaper,” place to live.

Wow imagine being a toxic bully then saying you're the jealous one.....op you dodged a thermonuclear device

Bestof is officially the best subreddit now it’s so satisfying knowing there’s an update ❤

The tenant was flat-out entitled and an idiot. OF COURSE the rent was paying part of the mortgage, that's how renting something the owner just bought works! In fact, in OP's place I'd have had him pay the entire mortgage since it was still well below market rate.

@dudeorduuude5211

6 ай бұрын

Exactly. Plus utilities, upkeep, insurance, property taxes, etc. And the financial risk of putting up that much money on a large asset.

@lordMartiya

6 ай бұрын

@@dudeorduuude5211 Talked of this story with my father. He says the renter is a double idiot.

@susangrande8142

6 ай бұрын

My question is, why would/should it make ANY difference what OP uses the rent payments for??? It’s not the tenant’s business.

@lordMartiya

6 ай бұрын

@@susangrande8142 It doesn't, it was just a poor excuse to demand a lower rent.

@susangrande8142

6 ай бұрын

@@lordMartiya I’m trying to understand the tenant’s reasoning/logic.

ROTFL Dude was getting a sweetheart deal on an apartment then a wrecking ball sized reality hit him in the face.

2nd Story, I'm sturggling to understand why the guy is annoyed about paying OP's mortgage for her. Doesn't he realise that's how small landlords operate? They buy the property with a mortgage and then pay it off with the earnings paid by the renter

I know you edited out your Dad crying at the end R/slash. I love how emotional you get with father daughter stories now. Its so sweet!

That last story was the sweetest thing ;-;

That renter got better than he deserved. Landlord tenat laws and lease agreements are pretty clear. He had no leg to stand on and no excuse for not knowing OP was the landlord. OP should have forced him to pay penalties but decided to be nice about it. Usually this amounts to the rent owed plus a months rent. That guy is an idiot and i can't believe he tried to move back in after how he treated OP. His life will be a sh*t show of bad decisions.

I really enjoy when you end the episode on a wholesome story like this. It helps forget the toxicity of some of the posts.

That last story is the good version of BrotherDad and SisterDaugther.

Tenant story: Why is it so common that somebody hears they have a 5 finger discount on rent, and their immediate response is to spit all over it? Just be happy about the discount!

@tailsofchaos

6 ай бұрын

You could say it's like they think they're being taken advantage of or I'm paying too much of this because it doesn't make any sense. Like they think they're better off not paying. We all know its arrogance but the guy got the reality. After all to them, free is way too expensive

@dudeorduuude5211

6 ай бұрын

5 finger discount means free by theft.

WHERE IN THE WORLD IS YOUR DOG

@geovannyortizsantos2664

6 ай бұрын

?

@SkunkApe407

6 ай бұрын

Upstairs, not in the studio, like it should be. Dabney wants to call this a business. Having a dog interrupt your recordings isn't professional.

@shin_l8072

6 ай бұрын

Yea puppy bloopers!?

@ugandangaming2560

6 ай бұрын

Yugo isn’t really a puppy anymore and if I recalled correctly Rslash said that yugo waits up at the top of the stairs of his basement entrance

@Secretadmirerlol

6 ай бұрын

He’s upstairs. He mentioned in a previous video now that his daughter is older and his neighbor’s landscaping business makes it harder to record because of the noise, so he bought like a sound booth thing. I miss the puppy bloopers too.

Basement apartment story, sounds like when the friend found out that Op owned the house he decided he was going to take full advantage of his friend to the fullest extent that he could

Drives me nuts that Rslash’ll skip over updates with interesting details just because he doesn’t feel like reading them. :\

@audreym3908

6 ай бұрын

Yes, but this story was out for a while and was constantly read so I don't mind it

Baby Sister: I think he should tell the kid that he’s always felt more like her dad than her brother because as much as telling her she can call her dad if she wants is amazing I think she’d love to know (considering she sees him as her dad) that he ALSO sees him as her dad and always has. Like that would be amazing to hear for her I think

“The former tenant” ☕️

I rented out a room in my house, it included Wi-Fi, cable. electricity, water, food, laundry and pretty much everything else I charged 400$ a month. Where I live you can't rent a couch for 1000$ a month. The person complained it was too much money for the same reason my mortgage is and was low (thanks to me saving my money). FYI, I did the cooking (making sure I made food they liked even if my family or I didn't), I did the laundry as long as it was outside the room in the bin. I had the best Cable/Wi-Fi money can buy (gamers).I went out of my way to make sure they felt welcomed and cared for. It was a HUGE lesson learned. I will NEVER have a roommate or let anyone ever stay with me again. Giving people a helping hand for some reason they think it's a pass too run you over.

Funny to think with 'the power of heartbreak' he was able to refuse Jessi's advance while his loyalty to OP is not enough. Lol

The rent thing... simple solution. Tell him to try and find a better deal, not to take the deal, but if he can find one, you'll consider lowering the price to match it. If you truly are charging half the standard, he won't find one. If I was in the situation of the renter, even assuming I got pissed off about "Lying" about the landlord thing, I'd do my research and figure out if it is a good deal before doing anything.

‘You can’t set boundaries with her’… dude, it’s 100% YOUR JOB to set boundaries with someone who is acting crazy with you

Story 1 - as a woman who's had many guy friends, i would never EVER act like your friend did when said guy friend is in a relationship. The ex bf was also clearly displaying red flags of cheating just by not stopping the behavior alone. A chick like jessie is the type of girl who uses their looks, what small personality they have, while manipulating others to get what SHE wants without care. I hope OP learns from this and finds a better friend and a better man

Story two: I have been in exactly this situation. The "tenant" ignores the added cost of taxes, utilities and maintenance, let alone the sweetheart deal he was already getting. Been there, done that. OP would be wise to rent only to people after she has seen their previous home.

Story one: I have heard it before but I still glad op got out of that train wreck and imagine being so delusional that after you cheated with your “best friend’s” boyfriend that you were still thinking you were getting an all expenses paid holiday. What a dumb dumb (I have other choice words but KZread would ban me 😂) Story two: I genuinely know a few people like that, but idiots are going to idiot Story three: can we please have more wholesome stories like this please it was so refreshing and lovely

@strawberrysoulforever8336

Ай бұрын

My ex bff tried to give me a Kris Kringle present the day after she dumped me because she'd already bought it. I refused to accept it, even though it was something I really liked. I don't take presents from people who aren't my friends.

1st story: Hear that? That's the sound of everyone hearing "I only slept with her to make her go away" saying BS at the same time. 2nd Story: "You used the money I owe you to BUY things for yourself?! THAT'S ILLEGAL!!!!!!!"

Technically Jessie wasn’t wrong. It is absolutely best that they broke up before the relationship went any further.

I just wanted to say thank you for ur videos! I listen to them all the time lately and I found (after listening to r/mr Reddit) that I love ur voice. I can only handle a little of the others but I can listen to ur regularly and it’s calming. So thank u again for making videos!

Due to the timezone difference, this is the earliest I've been to an RSlash video in years...

In my town, a house goes for 300,000 - 600,000 and apartment rent for a one bed room is at least 1000$ a month

On the home owner story: that’s how it works. Would her friends be mad at her if she rented the room at market price to someone, that wasn’t connected to anybody they know, for them covering her complete mortgage payment? No they wouldn’t care, they would have told her good job on finding someone that would pay that price. But since the renter is a relative of someone they know, she’s evil and should be run out of town.

Depending on the context the phrase: “I’ve always felt more like her dad than her brother.” Could be taken so differently. 😂 Good on OP. Such a wholesome story.

STORY 1: Behind every girl like Jessie, there is a spineless girl like OP who enables & tolerates Jessie's behaviour. Hope OP learns something from this experience and puts meaningful boundaries in her future friendships & relationships.

First story seems like something from a classic teenage rom-com. Pretty girl can't handle less pretty friend getting a boyfriend and has to steal him, because he suddenly gets a lot more interesting, when he's not available.

I'm in Cleveland, working a good job, and I can't afford an apartment. Prices r BAD I live with 2 friends. Our rent (rent + utilities) is 900 total. There r 3 off us, right? One refused to get a second part-time job/better job.....so my rent is 400.......that makes sense to complain about because it doesn't make sense. That friend needs a reality check

The last story has me crying 🥺 so sweet and I love the look guys get when a kid calls them dad for the first time 🥺🥺🥺

@durk5331

6 ай бұрын

I acted as a live-in nanny for my lil sisters who are 18 & 20 years younger than me, and each of me and my parents had our specific roles in taking care of them, my mom was the bread winner so financial, my dad took care of cooking, cleaning, and the like so physical, and I watched after my sisters and was there to help them, listen to their problems, etc so emotional. Hearing them tell me that growing up they considered me like their third parent made me cry so many happy tears. I may not have been able to be Dad or Mom (is enby), but knowing that they think of me like that just makes me so happy.

Final Story: This Dude is a Dad-Bro or a Bro-Dad to his Little Sister. Like you can't even get as Wholesome as that. Like wow, he has been the Light in her World since he got custody of her. He's always been there FOR HER, not because he was Obligated to but because he knew that he is what and who she needed in her Life. Brings Tears to my Eyes, and I'm just shocked that rSlash didn't even have any Commentary about it! Like Seriously Dude? You read this Absolute Wholesome Story and you don't even have any Commentary about it!? Like What!?

WTF your renting the basement for a great price. If the house was paid off should the a$$ get free rent? My lord, of course you are not wrong.

@kespeth2

6 ай бұрын

Sounds like r/choosingbeggars to me

@thetruth1223

6 ай бұрын

Friends brother :" why aren't you paying me to exist in you're house lady ehhhhh"..

Story1: the rift between Jesse and OP will be impossible to hide from the parents, and I'm really curious as to how that plays out. I hope there's some accountability for Jesse there.

Thank you for closing it with “baby sister”. Made my day a happier day!

Sounds like Jessie wants OP to know her place in the hypothetical food chain. Jessie is pretty and treated accordingly; and OP doesn't deserve better than her. This is a narcissistic power play.

Story 2: Theres a mindset in ppl nowadays that is like "Everyone is and will try to screw you up, they're just hiding it." So the moment that teacher get the thought that he can get more from OP he went nuclear for it. And when reality comes regret kick in, and the sad truth is he'll still think that hes not the problem lol. The fact that hes a teacher adds another layer of humor on it haha.

Story 2: does this guy not understand how rental property works? Yes, you are literally contributing to the bills for the property. If you are paying for a property where there is a loan attached, yes, you are contributing to that loan. If you are renting a house, it is entirely plausible that you are not only paying the mortgage l, but more than that.

BF: You won't set boundaries with this girl. BF: I slept with her because she was pestering me, idk.

I’m the oldest of 5. My youngest brother called me mom a few times. It was sweet, but at 16 I didn’t like it, nor was I adult enough to handle it well. I love the last story. Thanks R/ .

As bad as this Jessie is, at least she's not as bad as the one that manipulated her PPD afflicted "friend" to the point that she offed herself.

Second story: Its purely bias against landlords if anyone is giving OP grief.

Come on RSlash ! Dont end the episode with such a teary story without any comment !!!!

**sigh** That’s the problem with these types of “people.” They don’t just want to have their cake and eat it too… they want the ENTIRE DAMNED BAKERY. 😑

Story1 It isn't normal. She can't grasp that any guy could possibly prefer Op to her and plans to prove it isn't so in order to make herself feel better. Op should expect this to repeat throughout the pseudo-friendship if she stays with it.

someone must be slicing onions during that last story, my eye's seem to be watery,

The story of Jessie...Jessie didn't have it bad for her BF...she's just a narcissist who 'owns' OP in her mind and will not have OP having anyone else in her life or having success of her own.

1st story is the poster child for FAFO

Oh my effing glob! I have *also* been fought and screamed at over a lack of communication due to the other person blocking my number (and for no real reason, because we hadn't been fighting or anything). How tf is it MY fault that you didn't get the texts then???

Gotta love how a cheater will push the woman away AFTER he cheats and ruins the relationship

Last story was like "I cried. She crew too. We both crode".

That last story was so sweet 🥹 I love a good palette cleanser to reaffirm my faith in humanity

What? Of course he’s covering OP’s mortgage. That’s how RENTING works.

Oh my gosh. I can't imagine nuking such a freaking fantastic rental opportunity.

That last story made me cry, it was so freaking cute and wholesome.

Story 2: "He said he didn't get my notice to enter his apartment because he blocked my number." Wow this guy is a real genius /s Poor OP, but that story had me laughing pretty hard at that guy's audacity.

Handsy friend story: OP, she knows you and what you will and won't do. She hasn't grown out of being a high schooler yet and is still playing the "popular girl" nonsense and is deliberately trying to create problems between you and your bf. It's past time to tell her to back off. UPDATE 1: OP, she's showing you who she truly is. Believe her. UPDATE 2: OP, you're going to need to block your ex, Jessie and various other people not only from your phone, but your social media as well. You'd probably be better off deleting it all and starting over with new screen names, no profile pics and maximum privacy settings. UPDATE 3: Too bad it took the loss of OP to make Dean realize how stupid he had been to play Jessie's game. At least Jessie didn't win. But OP is right, she deserves better. Rent story: NTA! What in the world made him think someone else was the landlord? But I agree, your finances are not his concern, especially since he's paying so far below market rate in rent for similar places. UPDATE 1: What a spoiled child this guy is. Be sure to document everything in the apartment with photos that are time-stamped. And he's a teacher? I feel sorry for his students. UPDATE 2: After all his BS and damages he wanted to move back in? Guess he got a taste of the real world. Don't blame you for refusing him though, he was being ridiculous. Glad his brother is smarter than he is and doesn't disagree with you over it. "Dad" story: OP, you said in many ways you consider her more of a daughter than a sister. It appears that despite knowing the truth, she sees you as her father as well. Take that for the complement it is. UPDATE: OP, you're a special person and your sister/daughter knows it. Best wishes.

I’m glad OP in the first story broke up with scumbag. Both of them. Pretty sure their entire friendship was toxic and OP never knew. Jessie was clearly a passive aggressive friend who probably made OP feel as if she wasn’t worthy. Otherwise she would’ve known their behavior towards each other wasn’t normal. Jessie was probably jealous and wanted to take the BF to prove she was still “better” than OP and to make herself feel better. She needs help and OP just gets better and better having dropped them both.

STOP IM SOBBING, THAT LAST STORY MURDERED ME

"Those other girls meant nothing to me!" and similar variants, is such a common "excuse" guys use, but has it ever worked? I mean, they're basically admitting that they'll "passionately hug" anyone, regardless of if there's any passion. Maybe if you were polyamorous? Like there would be an important distinction between emotional cheating and physical cheating, maybe? However most, if not all, of these stories involve regular one-on-one relationships. If my boyfriend, or girlfriend (I'm bi and/or pan, let's not get into _that_ debate right now) ever said this to me, I'd inform them that they were a walking advertisement for cannibalism.

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I've never understood it either. "They never meant anything to me" than why'd you cheat? You gonna stick it in a fence hole next? Because obviously you have no issue with other holes that mean nothing

The lowest rented apartment in my area within 5 cities is $850/month in a crappy part of town. The highest is around $2,200-2,600 for a 3-bed 2 bath condo that don't have an option for single bed single bath. I don't feel bad for that awful tenant at _all._

Story 1: that non Jessie's friend is a very good person, they just saved your long term life.

the last story was so wholesome ... but my immediate thought was being at a get together and him saying "yeah im taking care of my sister" and they hear her say "dad" right after ... I only know of a few places in the world where you would not need to immediately give an explanation to stop the confusion :P

Story 2: I love how OP referred to him as "former tenant" and not "friend" because what friend accuses people of screwing them over when their getting a hell of a deal, $650 a month with free utilities is more than generous

As a math and English teacher, that diss at the end of the renting story slaps hard like a DMX song.

I feel a sensation of déjà-lu on that first story.

I've found that keeping a loose girl around helps sort through potential spouses. Be glad these girls do us favors that show who these guys truly are before we throw years away on them.

That last story, was definitely the BEST of Redditor updates. Man that shit had me emotional.