1st Story: Don’t push kinks onto people. Simple as that. Kinks are something you need verbal and physical boundaries and consent about. Ya gotta listen to your partner and when they say no, they mean no

@Human-kb6xc

5 ай бұрын

I love that the couple actually COMMUNICATED and worked out the issue.

@E_P_O_N_A_S

5 ай бұрын

@@Human-kb6xc honestly, communication is key as they say

@kaylawoodbury2308

5 ай бұрын

​@@Human-kb6xc It's not always the solution but it should always be the first step.

@BloodyAngel1221

5 ай бұрын

Probably what I love best about the BDSM community is that these conversations are hella encouraged, to the point a majority of us have saved files so we can just send our kinks to play partners and then discuss them

@E_P_O_N_A_S

5 ай бұрын

@@BloodyAngel1221 yup! I was pretty open at the beginning about my bdsm kinks to my partner when we first started dating and we went over what was ok and what wasn’t, pretty happy on that side now

Second Story The fact that a 12 year old is thinking to buy his own sister something expensive rather then save it for himself makes that boy more mature and wholesome then that trashy ex

@GodBroly

5 ай бұрын

Not just that, it makes him more mature and wholesome than 40% of other men in general. I swear sometimes I get sick at the fact that I'm a guy over some of the shit my gender does.

@holyek7892

5 ай бұрын

First pegging then find a new church. What a roller coaster!

@lorilancaster5917

5 ай бұрын

That kid is going places. I was worried that the story would get worse. Such as the ex breaking into OPs and stealing her PS5. Glad that wasn’t the case.

@bonniehalf-elven

5 ай бұрын

@@lorilancaster5917it doesn't sound like he's motivated enough to even think of that.

@StealthTheFoxz

5 ай бұрын

That generosity paid off tenfold, for sure.

In the kink community, our motto is safe, sane, and CONSENTUAL. Consent is absolutely the biggest thing.

@gecko2.617

5 ай бұрын

Not only in the kink community... No means No, simple as that!

First story: "Should I do something sexual that I dont want to do?" No, the answer is always no. You dont need to explain or give reasons. No can be a complete sentence.

@joimumu

5 ай бұрын

Agree and I don’t believe she is dropping her fantasy only temporarily letting it go

@MrDoverfield

5 ай бұрын

And girlfriend saw absolutely nothing wrong with her trying to force it on to her boyfriend even after he clearly refused.

@Milk-ck1wv

5 ай бұрын

​@@MrDoverfieldyeah that's weird af

@MrDoverfield

5 ай бұрын

@@Milk-ck1wv girlfriend: Despite you saying no multiple times I bought a strap on behind your back. Now that we have one you can’t say no. *Cries idiotically * why do think I’m pressuring you

@wmdkitty

5 ай бұрын

But he pesters her for butt-sex all the time, he even admitted it.

The last boyfriend is 100% cheating on OP, there's no way he's that braindead to think skipping important events for OP is okay for the BOIS1!!! . That or he's a narcissist, both equally horrible qualities in a partner. Part of me thinks that he was intentionally horrible to OP so he can pin the blame on her being ''just crazy bro!!!'' and break it off without feeling guilty.

@lorilancaster5917

5 ай бұрын

I got that feeling when he brought up his ex and playing a song for her. Sounded like he was trying to get on OPs nerves. Maybe even get a slap from her.

@Auxiliar

5 ай бұрын

I 100% disagree. This guy is just stupid. It sounds like he treats his family the same exact way as his girlfriend.

@drwboy07

5 ай бұрын

Nah he was honestly trying to find an easy way out. Hes just a cheapo, you can't date materialistic people when you are a cheapo.

@marcoagorozco

5 ай бұрын

When the Olympic add the mental gymnastic category, watch for this A hole. For anyone who is confused, a book of pictures of my vacation is one of the worst gifts (an adult) can give to anyone let alone to everyone.

@lorilancaster5917

5 ай бұрын

@@marcoagorozconow I’m thinking of the Simpsons whenever Patty and Selma would hold people hostage with their vacation slides. That’s what the photo album was of sorts. A gift nobody asked for of pics containing nothing to do with them.

Last story: Man says he’s afraid to be poor and spend money but goes on a 3 month solo trip. Checks out.

@kaylawoodbury2308

5 ай бұрын

And makes less than op, AND has no savings... He's just a bum getting high off his own hot air.

@lorilancaster5917

5 ай бұрын

@@kaylawoodbury2308and full of himself for thinking people want albums of just him on his vacation. Let’s be honest. We all know that most if not all pics had him posing.

@glennrishton5679

5 ай бұрын

@@lorilancaster5917 Yeah makes me wonder excluding obvious selfies then who took the pictures, the girl he did go with perhaps?

@Mewse1203

5 ай бұрын

I just had the same thought. 😂😂

@spydersoup8447

5 ай бұрын

Probably a lie he made up to get OP to shut up, which is something I've seen before on this channel.

Story 2: Dude, you CHEATED on OP, and then only feeling apologetic when she mentioned the PS5. He isn't sorry he cheated on her and called her boring, he is saying it so that he will get the PS5. The update is so sweet, her brother deserves that PS5 way more than that deadbeat boyfriend.

@yazajag

5 ай бұрын

Yep, notice he started cursing at her when she said she gave it to someone who deserved it more.

@Toaster_Draws

5 ай бұрын

Yeah, I agree. He isn't sorry. The ex is just saying that because he wants the PS5.

@ianaamdan

5 ай бұрын

He sounds like my ex. Jobless and leeching off his parents and me. When i broke up with him he started cussing at me. He had issues with me buying things for my baby brother. I'm not talking about expensive stuff. It was just a drink or some snacks for the kid. Shortly after breaking up with him, i got myself a high paying job. And then he was all "i'm so sorry for swearing at you. Please let's get back together." He likely saw me as an atm with a bigger cash pool.

@dracko158

5 ай бұрын

@@yazajag He's like "How dare you give something I really wanted to someone who doesn't deserve it?!" Bro, YOU cheated on OP and called her OP, do you really think you are gonna get a PS5 after everything you done?

@kaleblong7508

5 ай бұрын

i agree he is a POS but are we going to excuse domestic physical abuse because she is a woman?

“He told me I was just trying to make him feel guilty, which he would never do.” Said right after he compared OP to his ex, in a blatant attempt to guilt trip.

@lorilancaster5917

5 ай бұрын

In this case I’m thinking what he meant was that OP can’t make him feel guilty. He’s trash and trash doesn’t feel bad for being trash.

@ItsAllAboutPerspective375

5 ай бұрын

IKR? He was Projecting the current situation. Talk about a Narcissist alert!

The "hehe" after "exit ramp" caught me off guard, I almost spit out my coffee 😂

@risto375

5 ай бұрын

I understood the joke instantly

@bland9876

5 ай бұрын

​@@risto375I did not get that joke.

@H1NCH023

5 ай бұрын

​@@bland9876 Not sure myself, but maybe a bumhole could be referred to as an exit ramp 😂

In story one, they realized the actual hole that needed filling was the one in their hearts - not in OP's ass.

@maieen2665

5 ай бұрын

That's deep. That's what _he_ said.

@LunaP1

5 ай бұрын

Goddamnit, look what you started.😂😂😂😂😂😂

@ScooterBond1970

5 ай бұрын

Plug it, yous guys. 🥁

Last story: I'm pretty sure the guy who forces his vacation photos on everyone and calls it a gift has no business judging anyone else. Your problem was that you wanted a meaningful gift that you would actually like not some bull crap scrapbook where he gets to brag about his wonderful vacation. Now he's being a stubborn ass trying to keep your stuff, and it's real funny how his biggest fear is to not be poor but that only applies when it comes to getting you something not vacations for him. I say you dodged the bullet, and I would tell him that you're coming over to get your stuff.

@OuchingTigerLimpingDragon

5 ай бұрын

"I'm giving you the gift of my own happiness!" 😆

@CSKaras

5 ай бұрын

It's worse than that. A scrapbook implies that he took time and effort to design each page and add flair and such. No. He is getting photo albums. Just a book of printed pictures with no extra work or effort.

@Dondizle

5 ай бұрын

OP's husband: ✨️I am the gift!✨️

rSlash: Wow, these stories have been nothing but wholesome! 4th story: Yo, what's up?

@Logitah

5 ай бұрын

But it ended well, because a lousy relationship is now over! ❤

Consent is key. If your partner is not comfortable, don't push them. If you're not comfortable with it, don't let your partner steamroll you into it. I glad it worked out tho.

@limeehermin6695

5 ай бұрын

Also, if you said “yes” one time doesn’t mean it’s always gonna be a “yes”. Consent can be taken back at any time

@orchidoxs126

5 ай бұрын

@@limeehermin6695 This too!

@MrDoverfield

5 ай бұрын

It rubs me the wrong way that girlfriend continued to pressure him after he communicated that he was against doing that. Not only that but she was clearly acting stupid.

@Tortilla.Reform

5 ай бұрын

Right? It’s reminiscent of SlushyGate

@orchidoxs126

5 ай бұрын

@@Tortilla.Reform I'm scared to ask, but what is slushy gate? I've never heard of that.

Story 3 reminds me of my husband and I. Priorities shift when you're in a long-term relationship. And sometimes that means letting go of people you've known longer.

@lorilancaster5917

5 ай бұрын

That’s what we do as adults. We evolve and at times change drastically from the people we once were. Fiancé has evolved whereas those friends are stagnant.

@ItsAllAboutPerspective375

5 ай бұрын

Unfortunately most of them don't simply accept it and move on quietly though.

@It-is-me...Melsie

5 ай бұрын

In saying that, it's also important to have your own friends, and I'm not meaning couple friends, as well as your own interests.

@no1halofreakkatty2

5 ай бұрын

We have been fiancé for three years and he had a best female friend right now after our third year anniversary. I found her texting him inappropriate photos and basically I found out throughout these all three years she had been trying to poison his mind against me because I had the unfortunate thing of dating her ex in the past that I didn’t even know about before my fiancé, and she hated me for multiple reasons. Now we are still healing from all the poison she put into his head. And mine. I lost myself when I found out it was her..his bff/“sister” Asking him to be drunk in her bed and asking him to care about her and please ask her questions daily🙄 How the fuck are you gonna talk shit about me when I have given my everything to this man and you can’t even keep nobody and talk to multiple people at the same time constantly? And when you do date somebody you talk shit about them? You try me so hard but you have literally been in my house, I cooked for you and I’ve cleaned up after you after you fall all over my floor and bathroom floor and pissed yourself and my floor when you were drunk, I took care of you. Smh People who break up relationships that are actually actually trying to work out are evil. Misery loves company .

The tenants of all sex is safe, sane, and, most importantly, consensual for all parties involved. If it doesn't meet all of these requirements, it can't be done, and if it is, it's assault and charges need to be pressed. Simple as that.

@BVBGirl-3313

5 ай бұрын

And sobriety (I seperate that from sanity, a sane person can get drunk. I feel like for sane you mean mentally capable of consent)

@9r7g5h

5 ай бұрын

@@BVBGirl-3313 Generally "sane" refers to the act itself. So, like, if you're knife play, it can be done in a safe and sane manner if you take all the proper precautions and do the proper research and don't do anything actually dangerous. Like using a fake or dull knife so no one can actually get hurt but it plays into the kink. Having sex while skydiving without parachutes is neither safe nor sane. Having sex while skydiving with parachutes and a third party to tell you when to pull the cord is "safe," but many won't consider that sane. Being drunk falls under consensual. While you can have drunk sex consensually, it's generally agreed upon before the drinking starts. Just picking someone up in a bar who's drunk doesn't.

@survivedandthriving

5 ай бұрын

I've heard the phrase, 'everyone must be consenting and able to consent', which seems to cover most eventualities.

@BVBGirl-3313

5 ай бұрын

@@9r7g5h well yeah thats why I was seperating it. Though I guess mental capacity and sobriety can fall under consent, I was just elaborating on it but im not disagreeing with you.

@9r7g5h

5 ай бұрын

@@survivedandthriving You would think, but sadly some people don't seem to get it. Or refuse to.

the last story just made me shake my head. my stepdad, while he didn't have a lot of money did other things to make my mom smile with gifts. either candy bars, cards which he'd sign 'to my beautiful flower, love your little weed' which is what I also have on the frame picture I bought for my mom with his thumb print, sometimes he'd make his own little coupons for my mom to use for 'free lovings' he at least put thought into what he could do for my mom, that guy? didn't do even the bare minimum

@lorilancaster5917

5 ай бұрын

All while expecting the moon and the stars from OP.

@inuyasha9568

5 ай бұрын

RIGHT?! just what the hell@@lorilancaster5917

@survivedandthriving

5 ай бұрын

This! Even when my friends and I were all dirt-poor students we were still able to find ways of creating meaningful gifts for each other - and we were just friends, not even romantic partners. It just takes a little bit of thought. And, that was the problem for OP - her now thankfully ex-BF gave her zero thought. She is well rid of him. p.s. your mom and stepdad sound so sweet.

Last one: A good test would have been to get him a present thats equal to the stuff OP recieved. Sometimes "morror, mirror on the wall" really helps people see how their behaviour feels for others without the need to have an argument. That of course is best done as soon as you realize that something is annoying you. When the behaviour to start really hurting you its too late.

@noinfo5630

5 ай бұрын

I was shaking my head over the irony of him calling her materialistic but refusing to return the very materialistic golf set... 😂

@ItsAllAboutPerspective375

5 ай бұрын

​@@noinfo5630He sounds like your typical, hypocritical Narcissist.

@theickster3008

5 ай бұрын

At first I thought maybe he's bad a gift giving but a little self absorbed, but that changed fast. Like I'm not good at giving gifts, but I also don't care about receiving them either. Every year my mom has to force me, a 25 year old man, to give ideas for my birthday/Christmas gifts, and my list for that is always sweatshirt/t-shirt, a hat, or jeans. That being said, if I were in a relationship and my girlfriend got me something nice that she knew I'd enjoy, I would go out of my way to reciprocate and get her something she would like.

@Kingdo_RGT

5 ай бұрын

Oh, I did that when I was a kid. I didn't like how my parent talk to me, mostly sarcasm. I started to mimic them, playing fool when they wanted to correct my behavior. Completely oblivious to where I learn to talk like that. Eventually, I told them I mimic them, they didn't believe me at first, but realizes it few days later and they stopped.

*First OP:* I'm glad things worked out for OP and his now fiancee in the end (heh heh). OP was NTA. Heh, "(w)wholesome." Okay, I'll stop. 😛 *Second OP:* If I had a -nickel- *changing it to dollar as suggested in a reply* for every story involving a b00tyh0le that ended up wholesome, I'd have -10 cents- *$2.* It's not a lot, but it's weird it happened twice in one vid. *Third OP:* Make that -15 cents- *$3.* And OP was NTA. A blanket with photos of their trips sounds adorable. *Fourth OP:* Well ... there's an AH at least. If OP's ex-boyfriend used those photos to make a blanket, OP might've liked it. Best of luck to OP. I hope she gets the golf set back.

@audreynothepburn7663

5 ай бұрын

I think we should up that nickel to a dollar because ✨ inflation ✨

@Tortilla.Reform

5 ай бұрын

Yeah that reminded me of slushy gate

@OuchingTigerLimpingDragon

5 ай бұрын

Lol! One literal butthole, and a couple of figurative ones!

@OuchingTigerLimpingDragon

5 ай бұрын

​@@Tortilla.ReformSlushy gate? Why do I feel like I should know what that is?

@maieen2665

5 ай бұрын

@@OuchingTigerLimpingDragon Some popos in Louisville was filmed throwing slushies at people. Nice username btw lol

Her parents: living together before marriage is sinful Them:Hey, were getting married! Her parents: WHAT THE FUCK?!

@TonySamedi

5 ай бұрын

She's supposed to be a good virginal daughter and marry whoever her father chooses for her. Man I wish I was kidding but there really are folks like that out there.

@johnlockelmao4238

5 ай бұрын

@@TonySamedinot how Christian marriages work in the US my man

@TonySamedi

5 ай бұрын

@@johnlockelmao4238 I didn't say it was all Christians, but I assure you those folks do exist in the US too. Seriously you can look up Christian influencers who think "dating" is bad and want "courting" which is usually depicted as much more focused on the parents approval than the other person in the relationship. If you're Christian and this stuff doesn't happen in your neck of the woods, great. It still exists though

@johnlockelmao4238

5 ай бұрын

@@TonySamedi Generally, I would agree that “dating” relationships are invalid relationships. If there is no covenant between two people then their relationship is rendered null. As for the virginity claim, God calls Christians to be celibate until marriage, this doesn’t mean if you fail, that you are doomed to being unwed, simply means that there has to be a level of repentance, followed by actual obedience to the command. Say you have a man or woman who has slept with 3 people in their life, so long as he repents and remains celibate until marriage, there shouldn’t be an issue with the church there.

@johnlockelmao4238

5 ай бұрын

@@TonySamedi I don’t think dating is “bad” as much as it is simply not a true relationship in the eyes of God. But for the not religious it is important to guide people towards marriage. Like Edmund Burke said “the family is but a little platoon” and it is true, the creation of families ought to be the goal of marriage, as well as providing stability.

I had the first story pegged wrong. I was expecting it to be a pain in the butt to listen to, but it turned out pretty good.

In the last story the guy talked about anxiety about ending up poor and not buying expensive gifts... Then proceeds to take a 3 month long traveling vacation? He's full of bull****

Story 4: Ouch. That was not a good gift. OP is gifting all of these expensive stuff, and yet she gets like two videogames and a picture book that doesn't have her in it. No card either. He's going to forever think of OP as this materialistic narc or something even though all she wanted was at least him attending her B-Day party and a card, but he chose his friends

@lorilancaster5917

5 ай бұрын

And since she didn’t go into detail about the video games, I’m betting these were games she wasn’t thrilled about

@LunaP1

5 ай бұрын

He's an ungrateful gold digger, full of himself and probably cheating on her (cheaters sometimes mention their ex when they to hurt the current SO).

@nickiegoldinhart

5 ай бұрын

​@@lorilancaster5917They were probably games that he wanted to play

As someone who is into some .... stuff .... I would like to make it very clear that especially in topics like this, NO MEANS NO! The FIRST no. (Unless that's part of the game lol) Any attempt to convince beyond that point is just going to get increasingly creepy VERY fast, and OP should have left her if she wasn't going to stop. That's kind of a sacred thing in such communities, because a lot of things happen that, if done without consent, are just straight-up crimes.

@jariccacierra8445

5 ай бұрын

Yeah, thats not how it works. Consent is an ongoing conversation. By your logic, one partner is still forcing their sexual preferences onto their partner, just by refusing to acknowledge or be open to their desires. (Edit: spelling)

@MrDoverfield

5 ай бұрын

Normally no means no, unless you’re a woman then it’s completely normal

@xxoxEVAxoxx

5 ай бұрын

@@MrDoverfieldYikes

@Nerobyrne

5 ай бұрын

@@MrDoverfield yes officer this post right here

@jariccacierra8445

5 ай бұрын

@@MrDoverfield r*pist ass comment, bro. Seek therapy and the authorities.

Rslash giggling about butt jokes made me start giggling too. Also story 2 was so wholesome! I love OP and her brother!

Story 4 GIRL FUCKIN *RUN* !!! That man is a straight up NARCISSIST!! My dad was exactly like that; inconsiderate, horrible at buying gifts for others, and cheap to a T. He blamed it on growing up poor but then would go out of his way to buy himself a $200 KILT 🙄🙄 he was also extremely abusive but I won’t get into that, just omg if you ever are with someone that cannot stand to spend money on you and can’t even get you something cheap that they know you’ll love- LEAVE RUN VAMOOSE get out while you STILL CAN!!!

My girlfriend spent 30 days travelling Europe. She's putting together a photo album and writing a short journal style book(about 200 pages) with anecdotal events of the trip and some history notes for the pictures. It's mainly a keepsake for her, but she's making copies as gifts to share with her parents and grandparents too. And probably for a couple friends that asked for more details. That kind of thing is nice to share with those who want it. But it's also not a holiday gift or even replacement gift. It's just something extra she's giving to anyone that wanted to know more about her trip. I don't know what that guy was thinking trying to make it a Christmas/birthday gift.

The list was a very good idea. It emphasizes the importance of the "two yeses, one no" rule.

Last story: My grandma loved the photo album that me, my mother and my brother gifted her for christmas. However, we also put photos of her in that album and she had been saying for a long time that she would like to have photos of us (she doesn't know how to use a smartphone laptop or any device from this century and isn't interested in learning)

Last story: the gift equivalent of gifting a cook book with pictures of food to a starving kid in India.

2:11 that hehe is amazing. Almost as good as puppy bloopers

@TitanWar93

5 ай бұрын

An unintentional joke is something

@lucifermorningstar2505

5 ай бұрын

It’s from bevis and butthead they laugh at dumb crap rslash was trying to be funny but comes off as lame

@chriscarpenter3370

5 ай бұрын

petition to bring back puppy bloopers!

@sneko2860

5 ай бұрын

fr that bit was so funny i liked the video lol

@lacko623

5 ай бұрын

Yeah, it was funny, but still missing puppy bloopers 😄

1st story: Stop saying _"No kink shaming"_ as if people have no control over their interests and that personal lifestyles are too sacred to be openly condemned. 4:11 _"although I can't deny the fact I'm their son, not daughter, plays a part in it."_ As it should. OP has good parents.

Story 2: Yeah, he was taking advantage of OP while cheating. Heck, you can even tell how much he doesn't love OP because of how shameless he is about the cheating and that he only wanted to get back on her good side for that PS5. Fat chance

@lorilancaster5917

5 ай бұрын

And of course got verbally abusive when he found out OP no longer has the system. I still think OP should report him to the police.

@derrickarmstrong9493

5 ай бұрын

​@lorilancaster5917 It would be a terrible idea since she physically assaulted him during the break up. The slap is something he would definitely use to his advantage.

no idea why everyone is saying good morning but i like the happy mood. Good Morning!❤

@leejeevas

5 ай бұрын

Good Morning!!♥ I hope you have a great day :)

@jenueledwards8786

5 ай бұрын

Cause it’s morning. Good morning

@vinaynegi7239

5 ай бұрын

Cuz it's morning in US

@aparnarai3708

5 ай бұрын

no idea why I'm saying it since its night here but Good Morning ❤️

@Untitled_-_Productions.

5 ай бұрын

@@aparnarai3708 it’s early dinner for me lol

last story: I think so many guys just don't understand that the whole point of gifts is to show someone you care and the only way to do that is by getting them something you know they will like. It needs to be thoughtful.

Remember when Patty & Selma used to show the Simpsons their vacation photos and they absolutely hated it? Imagine how fast a photobook would get tossed into the bin? 😂

16:23 "He then told me how much it hurt his feelings that I didnt want his photo book and said "I've never met someone so inconsiderate." damn OP, you should have given this guy a mirror.

Whoa...All of these stories ended well?! Even the last story, because the OP got out of a sucky relationship! To be honest, story 2 made me cry a little. The gift going to someone who actually deserves it + OP receiving an amazing, thoughtful gift in return= 😭❤❤❤❤

Story 4: That “growing up poor and not wanting to be in that situation again” while a valid sentiment, is such a shitty excuse. I grew up poor and in college I worked a shitty part time job that paid me like $100 a week but I would still buy my ex-partners little trinkets and gifts that reminded me of them. It’s not hard to show someone you care. A $2 ceramic figurine or a $5 bouquet of flowers from a grocery store, while not a lot can still be extremely meaningful gesture. That ex-boyfriend just sounded like a selfish, uncaring narcissist. OP is better off without him

When you say finding a church community that fits your values, you’re referring to a church community that won’t immediately turn their noses up at you and judging you and shame you for premarital sex or kinks.

Wait... The guy has anxiety around spending money because he grew up poor... But he can take off THREE MONTHS from work to go on vacation? I don't even HAVE the anxiety he does and the idea of taking off 3 months is terrifying.

@callanightshade8079

Ай бұрын

I agree. During covid I was out of work for 2 weeks before I started going crazy

Story 1 is taking "y'all need Jesus" to a new level lol Glad they had an open conversation about consent. A+

@DoodleMcNoodles

5 ай бұрын

hahaha

@MattAnderson-dy9tv

5 ай бұрын

Why do they need Jesus? Kink is not a sin, it can be very therapeutic

@DeaniraDarling

5 ай бұрын

@@MattAnderson-dy9tv right, the joke is cause they ended up seeking religion in the story........

@rickywilliams1586

5 ай бұрын

​@@MattAnderson-dy9tv Cause the gf was getting extremely rapey.

“A BLANKET with PHOTOS from the trip on it??? Who ARE you people??” HAS ME ROLLING 😭🩵

The second story got me crying. I lost my brother almost 2 years ago to the day (tomorrow is the second year since he passed. So hearing stories (especially happy stories) about brothers tend to make me tear up as other than my grandfather (who was suffering so it was for the best he passed so he wouldn't suffer), my brother is the only other major passing I've had in my life. He was only the 3rd funeral I had EVER been to in my 25 almost 26 years on this earth. The first being an ex's grandparents funeral. I'm editing to add: the average person who was raised poor doesn't take 3 MONTHS off from work to TRAVEL. I was raised poor. Some nights I didn't have food on the table. Only time I got new clothes was when my grandmother would get them and I immediately had to pass on my other clothes. It sucked. I had shoes that had holes and were falling apart. That stuff pisses me off like no other.

The pegging story got me dying in the sales floor at work. Everytime RSlash chuckled with every butt joke got me laughing and everyone kept looking at me weirdly

@rickywilliams1586

5 ай бұрын

Nothing more funny than hearing about consent not being in someone's dictionary.

Last story: the boyfriend saying he has never met anyone so inconsiderate and he is the inconsiderate one

“This is repulsive my sweet OP, I’m so happy for you and disgusted at the same time” has me cracking up waaaaaay too much

2:29 Beavis and Butthead laugh lol

I think Rslash should do a 2 mil subscribers special video where it's an hour long video of nothing but wholesome stories from reddit

Dude picked a PS5 over his lodging and girlfriend. Now he has none of it.

@lorilancaster5917

5 ай бұрын

Actually he picked another woman’s parts over a PS5.

> I've never met someone so inconsiderate Guess he never looked in the mirror then.

@lorilancaster5917

5 ай бұрын

Depends. Do bloodsucking leeches cast a reflection?

@lorilancaster5917

5 ай бұрын

Depends. Can bloodsucking leeches cast a reflection?

All these stories with the mushy endings are just what my heart needed today. Edit to add: Anxiety about spending because he grew up poor, buuuuut takes 3-month long vacations. This is a guy who makes any excuse to be cheap.

Story 1: "If you keep pushing it you'll be able to experience it with whoever you want" is a great response to show just how little you'll tolerate boundary stomping when someone won't stop pushing. I'm glad they worked things out in the end.

Last story: What gift would be worse than what this guy got her? Seriously 😂

I love how 3/4 stories ended in a wholesome way. As for the forth story OP deserves better than some a-hole who can't even bother to give her something nice for her ONE time if at all. He's such an egotistical moron.

@lorilancaster5917

5 ай бұрын

And unfortunately she may have to cut her losses and accept she won’t get the golf system back since it was a gift. It’s a small price for not having that loser in her life anymore.

For years one of the biggest jokes in television was that people would get together at a party and then somebody would ruin that party by popping out a slide projector and showing off pictures of their vacation. This dude saw all those episodes and thought, "Those people know how to party."

Story one: man, I love that story. And why the jokes at the end? I’m not complaining, because they were honestly kind of funny, but just why? Again, I’m not complaining. But I also don’t think I could’ve made those jokes with a straight face ever. And also, please bring back puppy bloopers!

@Human-kb6xc

5 ай бұрын

Yes!! R/puppybloopers was adorable!

The third story: finally a supportive boyfriend who isn't an immature little wuss.

Story 1: Refreshing to hear an actually wholesome story. Congrats on the engagement. OP may not be into getting pegged but at least they are into getting tied down... lol

I haven’t heard Dabney this excited for wholesome content in a while. It appears all conversations about pegging are not just a pain in the ass. 😂

Guys, i cant be thd only one who wants Rslash to make a wholesome compilation! Anyone else out there wanting to see all the stories with aweet endings?

RSlash laughing during the first story had me cracking up.

There’s a huge difference between receiving a lousy gift with grace and repeatedly receiving horrible gifts from someone who refuses to care about you

Cheater story: You’re not going to believe it. As soon as this story ended, a PS5 ad came on, the coincidence is uncanny. Good for OP to “finally,” wake up and see him for what he truly is, a waste of time. I’m glad she has a great little brother.

The last story is so depressing because with some effort (and without giving that same thing to everyone else), that photo book could have been a great sentimental gift. OP mentioned really wanting to go on the trip with her ex, but she couldn't. All the dude had to do was take photos of things that OP would have liked to see and put them in an album with notes about each pic and how he missed her. All it would have taken was him being thoughtful.

That last story is just baffling. This guy is so insecure with money it’s crazy. “I’m looking for someone to buy a house with and combine savings with.” This translates to “I wanna be with someone who can buy a house FOR ME and then I can leach off the savings they have because it’ll be THEIR money in a JOINT bank account”. Good luck trying to keep someone around with this arrangement. The awareness is at 0 here 😂

Story 1. OP: My cult doesn't match my families' cult, causing the family to fracture and trauma for us. Rslash: How wholesome! Me: Yikes.

Fourth story "Babe, why are you crying? I got you the best gift. Me!" Tragically, my dude 100% thinks he's The Horatio.

_"No kink shaming"_ *- uh, no. Kink shaming is perfectly fine. You're allowed to be disgusted and turned off by someone else's kinks.*

@truthseeker9249

5 ай бұрын

I say that at the very least, try to shame the kink not the PERSON. Only start shaming the person in a case like this of them shoving their kink in your face.

First story's ending was such a contrast to how it began that I was SURE Rslash had just forgotten to put a break between two completely different tales.

You know the last story was going to end bad because the OP didn't talk about pegging which seems to have saved the first story's relationship.

2nd story: OP's brother reminds me of my brother! He's only 10, but has been a giver since he was very little. He'd give me the most random things (a toy car with a 3-D sticker on it and a piece of paper with a penny taped to it when he was like 2, for example). For my birthday, he got me a Minecraft mug that changes design when you put hot water in it. My stepmom (his mom) said he looked at it and immediately thought of me and wanted to get it for me for my bday😭 it was so sweet! He knows I love Minecraft and I’m the reason he got into it to begin with. Little siblings (or other family members) giving meaningful gifts is one of the best things to experience to me❤️

If these stories get anymore sweet, I'm going to contract diabetes. 😂😭☠️ J/k I actually rather enjoy stories with happy wholesome endings.

We need more stories with wholesome endings. This was a refreshing change from the norm of terrible people that I normally hear on this podcast

That last guy is why some women are so jaded. Guys, if you're dating a woman, then LISTEN to her cues. Learn what she likes, and understand that you're not going to like everything she does and vice versa. You may think 10,000 pairs of shoes is ridiculous, but women think $10k worth of gaming stuff is ridiculous many times. She might be thinking "why get the $200 controller when a $50 controller will do the same? don't we have more important things to prioritize?". Yes, some frugal women exist. Examples of what to listen for: - "I really liked that [event/place] we went to" - "this stuff [feels/smells] so good" - "I hate the [feel/smell/appearance] of..." - "I used to enjoy..." - "I can't seem to find..." - "I remember when..." She won't tell you straight out what she wants, but if you pay close attention to certain cues, you can figure out what she likes. Or just be like Daffy Duck and wonder why she doesn't like your gifts. *whoosh*

Last story: So, finding a good gift can be hard, less if you KNOW the person. BUT, the guy calls her materialistic but never complained about getting materialistic stuff, he doesn't even want to return the golf set. I never had problems finding stuff for my ex - I either bought her what I knew she liked or crafted something. She on the other hand always struggled. One of her last offers was - I kid you not - a /fan fiction. For those not in the know, those are pornografic, usually homosexual and EVERYBODY is homosexual. I don't care for fan fictions, shipping and all that jazz, and she knew it. Oh, and on a side note thinking about the first story, it always was more important to her to get what she wanted in sex, down to the point trying to use it as leverage and me stopping caring.

I love the wholesomeness that wound up happening in the first 3 stories. And in the second story, money isn't the important thing in the gift, but the fact that her brother thought about her all year to work towards doing something for her. That's the real love and gift.

Oh that last one hurts. I understand not wanting to spend tons of money or not being able to but it's not hard to go to a dollar store and get things to make a gift. Literally one of the first gifts my boyfriend got me as my partner was a painting of the moonlight jellies from stardew valley. I've made him jewelry out of resin and makeup to color it. It's not hard to make something small with meaning. It's not hard to go to the dollar store or Walmart and get a cheap little wooden thing to paint, or get some plastic flowers or even just some candy and a card.

"I was trying to find an exit ramp _hehe_ 😏" lol "She recognized that behavior is really toxic and she would think I was a butt _hehe_ 😏" lol "I wouldn't have 'pegged' you as a religious couple 😏" lmao

1st story. Absolutely don't do things you don't want to do and don't let someone pressure you into it but at the same time, don't just dismiss it immediately and stand your ground for all time. Give it some thought and if somewhere down the line you change your mind, don't be afraid to let her know. It can be a LOT of fun as long as you do it right and prepare ahead of time.

The story that ends with two siblings spending time together brought me to tears

That photo book is way more of a gift to his own ego than anyone else. He fancies himself some kind of amateur prodigy photographer, and he's shoving it in everyone's faces but framing it as a "gift"

Lasy Story: OP, absolutely do not "suck it up" when someone treats you thoughtlessly and ignors or writes off your attempts to communicate.

Last story. Never in my life have I heard of a guy so self absorbed before like that! That’s just really sad really. Wow. A song on the piano seemed so nice! He couldn’t even do that for his girlfriend not 1 heartfelt gift at all!

Finally reading wholesome stuff. Keep reading wholesome stories.😊

Honestly? It’s really nice sometimes to hear about couples who talk openly and honestly, listen to each other, are reasonable and find their way through without resentment or hurt or anger and are just better off for it. I’m not saying a channel focused on this would be successful (for some reason, we tend to find it grossly saccharine after a while) but it’s still just really, really good to be reminded about how healthy and happy relationships should look.

The second story ended up being so sweet! It kinda hit me in the feels, because I’m also very close to my little brother. That kid is a gem, glad such an awesome gift went to someone who actually appreciated the gift giver! That ex is such a joke, so glad OP didn’t waste time kicking him out.

I laughed my ass off when you said: I am so used to horrible storied that a wholesome ones make so surprised 🤣🤣🤣🤣 That is so true for my part too. I sometimes forget that "we" are not the only normal, decent human beings on this planet! LOL! Love your content, miss the puppy bloopers though 🥰🥰

I hope that dude that likes counting days until wholesome stories sets his clock to 0 because this is it.

Ooof, we must remember to respect each others boundaries! Great job on getting help. Anything less than respect is harassment and we ALL know where that leads.

The only nice thing about waking up early is watching the sunrise and listening to R/slash early

I never would have expected a story about pegging, having a wholesome ending. All in all their were wholesome moments throughout the video until that last one.

That last story was fantastic. The guy is so unabashedly self-centered and struggling to understand the norms of others that I fully expect he’s on the spectrum. But at the same time - i appreciate that he’s kinda (unintentionally) very upfront and honest too. ‘I need a partner who will treat me like the main character - do whatever I wanna do, expect nothing I don’t want or think to give and be happy as my support character.’ Is the message he’s expressing, even if not quite worded that way. 😂

Yeeeeeeeees. FINALLY. Healthy communication. THAT is how you have a good relationship in equal footing. 👏

I don't know what the friends were thinking with the surprise party. If you're planning a surprise party, the first person you should always get in on the party is their significant other, even if it's gonna be a boys night out.

Last story: that guy 100% cheated on her in that three month trip.

The last part of Story 2 got me a little nostalgic for the first time I ever did Secret Santa. Just before we drew names I heard one coworker mention that he and his wife had just bought a new Xbox, and when I drew his name, a huge lightbulb flashed in my mind. I did a little window shopping and learned that none of the Xbox systems were backwards compatible with each other, and I also saw a plan B option for if plan A didn’t work out. The next time I worked with that coworker, I learned that it was a Xbox One and he didn’t have any games for it yet. I was able to mask it as friendly chatter by saying that I had an original Xbox and I mentioned a few of the games I liked playing on it. A few days later I’m at a used game store and I almost immediately see the perfect thing: a game that was ~$18.50 (we were told not to spend more than 20) and was a game I heard many people say was one of the best games released in the previous year. On Christmas Eve, everyone gets together to exchange gifts, and when I give my coworker his he gets all emotional and hugs me and is saying oh my gosh and no way over and over again

Story 2: well to be fair it's not just the PS5, he got a whole year with no rent, my guess is he thought you are such a pushover it didn't matter that you knew he was cheating on you and that he could still live in mooch off you for as long as he wanted. Only for reality to literally smack him across the face. And even then he still didn't think much of you because he thought he could be emotionally manipulate you in the least giving him the PS5. I hope you you guys have a good year now that you taken out the trash.

When it comes to pegging, even if you're into it, always go half the size you think you can manage. Length isn't so much of a problem. Also, getting a dude to just breed you prone is the best imho. Especially if he's bigger and taller. Get an sti panel so he can creampie. It feels amazing.

@soogymoogi

5 ай бұрын

Maaaaaan i wish lol, i need to find someone who's into that

That last story just reminded me of my dad. He'd go to Disneyland every year with his wife and step-kids, promising to bring me and my brother next year. He never did. But he would bring back pictures of them with the characters, on rides and brought us back hats with our names on them

1st story : aw what a *HOLE* some story 😆