Preparing for my Natural Home Birth at 39 years Old

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In this video I share with you how I’m preparing to get my mind, body and soul ready for my natural home birth at 39 years old. It takes so much courage and strength regardless of how you decide to birth your beautiful baby into this world. Shout out to all the mothers out there doing their best! This video is sharing my personal experience so far. Take what resonates, toss the rest.
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  • @debramitchell
    @debramitchell3 жыл бұрын

    My mother gave birth to me at 39 years old. 🙌🏾✨

  • @demimiller8437

    @demimiller8437

    3 жыл бұрын

    My mother gave birth to my sister at 38, it's actually still pretty young in my opinion.

  • @farishageorge6464

    @farishageorge6464

    3 жыл бұрын

    I will like to have 1 more and I'm 38 this yr❗

  • @Janettoi

    @Janettoi

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@farishageorge6464 I pray it happens for you 💜

  • @Lafilledlapluie

    @Lafilledlapluie

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wow really ❤️

  • @bertaseyeview9422

    @bertaseyeview9422

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's more common than mainstream media makes us believe.

  • @PAHGirly
    @PAHGirly3 жыл бұрын

    “I identify as a Christian even though other Christians don’t identify me as a Christian” - RELATABLE

  • @Brandy1488mae

    @Brandy1488mae

    3 жыл бұрын

    I said the EXACT same thing! I felt that.

  • @Moongoddess3651

    @Moongoddess3651

    3 жыл бұрын

    Mood

  • @tameekawyndon2665

    @tameekawyndon2665

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's Christianity for ya!

  • @ExoticalsUnited

    @ExoticalsUnited

    3 жыл бұрын

    lol so relatable

  • @inni3642

    @inni3642

    3 жыл бұрын

    Identity is found in Jesus Christ alone 🙌🏼✝️

  • @abrewer7931
    @abrewer79313 жыл бұрын

    Mama you are beautiful, my mom had me at home at 47 years old she is a healthy amazing woman. 39 is a wonderful age!!

  • @sanjeesen3408

    @sanjeesen3408

    3 жыл бұрын

    *Thanks For Watching, For Questions Guidance's And Support Anytime. Just Send a DM On WhatsApp +1..9..0..9..7..1..5..5..1..0.0*

  • @HeartLatic

    @HeartLatic

    3 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful! Age is a number and society is outdated and ignorance when it comes to pregnancy

  • @desireewatford4438
    @desireewatford44383 жыл бұрын

    Being in the medical field I’m so glad you mentioned taking ownership of your health, it makes a lot of things a lot less complicated when the client is self aware and involved in their own journey towards their definition of wellness

  • @shamelessmaya

    @shamelessmaya

    3 жыл бұрын

    Facts! The prenatal classes I’m taking with a midwife who works both in hospital and at home helped lay it out in bullets points! So much out there to know!!!

  • @chidenisee
    @chidenisee3 жыл бұрын

    I had my son at 39 as well. It took me a while getting my body ready to accept and receive a child. After I changed my diet, started new vitamins and lost 20 Lbs, I got pregnant naturally. I was set up for in vitro fertilization just 3 months after I got pregnant. I knew the moment I conceived and it was amazing. Now I have a 22 month old who is the love of my life. He’s a handful but he is mine and I absolutely adore everything about him.

  • @purplesoul9927

    @purplesoul9927

    3 жыл бұрын

    Awe🥰 simply beautiful 😇

  • @pereznohilton
    @pereznohilton3 жыл бұрын

    I cannot believe she’s 39. You look amazing

  • @dreamless1988

    @dreamless1988

    3 жыл бұрын

    She's 39 not 60. She's still young

  • @marmackk

    @marmackk

    3 жыл бұрын

    39 is not old

  • @cw2302

    @cw2302

    3 жыл бұрын

    She didn’t say 39 is old. I’m also shocked too because I thought I was older than Maya when I discovered her years ago. She looks so young.

  • @marmackk

    @marmackk

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@cw2302 She implied it

  • @kaye5408

    @kaye5408

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@marmackk that she looks young. There are many people who are 39 and look 59

  • @avaava3031
    @avaava30313 жыл бұрын

    My friend became pregnant for the first time at 45...she stopped trying and said "God's will be done..I'm not stressing about this"..then it happened!

  • @purplesoul9927

    @purplesoul9927

    3 жыл бұрын

    Awe🥰 congratulations to her. Pray that the blessings overflow and healthy delivery ❤

  • @JJ-jn7ei

    @JJ-jn7ei

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amen!

  • @shantelleholden9182
    @shantelleholden91823 жыл бұрын

    I had my first baby at 36 and currently pregnant with my second at 39. I had no complications besides gestational diabetes, which I controlled with diet. I was not trying to get pregnant with either child 😂 Your overall health as well as reproductive health are more important than your age.

  • @purplesoul9927

    @purplesoul9927

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wow congratulations you should tell your story 🥰

  • @sashakay3
    @sashakay33 жыл бұрын

    I’ve had a child at 25, 38, and 41! Our bodies are amazing!!!!! Blessing and health to you, the baby, and Max. 🥰🙏🏾❤️🍼 Maya!!!! Me too, I dislike fluttery touching, give me a firm grip, caress, and I’m Gucci!!! Wow, I’ve never met anyone else who’s the same until you!!!!!

  • @expatlifestyle6069
    @expatlifestyle60693 жыл бұрын

    I had my beautiful son at 39 here in Toronto at Women’s College Hospital. Age is only a number. You are doing the right things. Healthy living, low impact exercise (gardening), stretching, walking, etc. Congratulations to you both❤️

  • @soulfullyroyalnita4446
    @soulfullyroyalnita44463 жыл бұрын

    “Focus on you and your well being. When you are full and fulfilled, I think it’s a formula for your success” perfect sissss! You right

  • @connief2730
    @connief27303 жыл бұрын

    I am 34, single and this video gave me hope Maya! I have been following you for years now and to see the joy with you blooming and glowing just warms my heart. That gem growing inside of you is blessed to have you for a mom. 😊

  • @taylora6305

    @taylora6305

    3 жыл бұрын

    BLESSED.

  • @wanderingcucamber7082

    @wanderingcucamber7082

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m 31 and hoping to settle down and have my first baby at 33.

  • @imjennim
    @imjennim3 жыл бұрын

    Wow! Watching this and just nodding my head in furious agreement. Mindset is everything! Thank you for sharing, Maya! x

  • @shamelessmaya

    @shamelessmaya

    3 жыл бұрын

    Jenn!!! Sending you all the positive vibes on your pregnancy, delivery and postpartum 🙏🏾✨🙏🏾✨

  • @Princess0ftheLight

    @Princess0ftheLight

    3 жыл бұрын

    Omg! I cannot one of my favorite yt watches another yt I love. So nice seeing you here Jenn I’m🤎✨🌻

  • @luvmyjujuntootie

    @luvmyjujuntootie

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Princess0ftheLight facts I’m sitting here like 😮😮😮

  • @asuquoessien3498

    @asuquoessien3498

    3 жыл бұрын

    I accept u as a Christian and heaven accepts u too

  • @SherwoodAnderson

    @SherwoodAnderson

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@shamelessmaya how do we report fake accounts pretending to be you?

  • @gyptianwifeey
    @gyptianwifeey3 жыл бұрын

    Love that “ don’t give ownership to anyone else over your body and responsibility” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @jamericanrebel
    @jamericanrebel3 жыл бұрын

    I’m 28, single, not pregnant but I have a different kind of appreciation for this video. Not sure if I’ll ever have children, but if I do it’ll be well into my 30’s so thank you for this video love ❤️.

  • @AnnaBell033

    @AnnaBell033

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m with you!

  • @kuimuturi6152

    @kuimuturi6152

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here

  • @TheRealGNC

    @TheRealGNC

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here. I’m 29 && will start trying after 30.

  • @ShanTalks-Podcast

    @ShanTalks-Podcast

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same 29

  • @simply_court3271

    @simply_court3271

    3 жыл бұрын

  • @ninastone9054
    @ninastone90543 жыл бұрын

    Isnt God good??? You didnt get pregnant when you knew and your body knew it wasnt going to be right. Stress is really something what it does to us. I'm so happy for you!! I remember the time that you are speaking of. When your first began posting on youtube. Good advice you're giving as well.

  • @kingmichael5008
    @kingmichael50083 жыл бұрын

    Omgggg it's good to see you! And 39 where??!?!??! You look stunning and I'm wishing you the best !!!!

  • @shamelessmaya

    @shamelessmaya

    3 жыл бұрын

    She finally showed up! But you can always catch me on my other channel and that one has vlogs: bit.ly/city2country

  • @MissPopeyes22

    @MissPopeyes22

    3 жыл бұрын

    My first pregnancy I barely felt any kicking. My daughter would sometimes on the super special occasion push a bit. This time around mashaAllah constant kicking

  • @irisotero6561
    @irisotero65613 жыл бұрын

    I think instead of ‘Shameless Mya’ it should start being,… ‘Mindful Mya’ lol There’s something about your voice and, your energy that truly brings me a peaceful feeling. I am not pregnant but, I want to be mindful of my body and, my mental health also. (As we all should) pregnant or not. THANK YOU for these sweet, informative and, empowering videos 🙏🏾💛 GOD BLESS! Xoxooo to you & the BEBE ☺️

  • @kimberlyhampton5332

    @kimberlyhampton5332

    3 жыл бұрын

    I like that...

  • @1blaqbella
    @1blaqbella3 жыл бұрын

    I’m going to be 39 in 4 weeks.. I am 9 weeks. Not gonna lie, my anxiety has been thru the roof.. but your video gave me some comfort. Glad to know what I’m feeling is normal and I am reminded to just breath. Thanks for sharing💗

  • @natalieschannel4508

    @natalieschannel4508

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes, it's society that makes us gets anxiety. If you do the typical sedentary lifestyle and eat unhealthy foods, it will age you faster, but if you are following a healthy lifestyle, you will definitely be fine, include lots of sunlight and herbal concoctions that are good for pregnancy. If you still have a period, then you are still blessed with the ability to have a baby. The west has made it a medicalized event because a lot of people are unhealthy.

  • @purplesoul9927

    @purplesoul9927

    3 жыл бұрын

    Enjoy the experience don't worry about the naysayers. You got this 🥰

  • @sax_25
    @sax_253 жыл бұрын

    We don’t have children yet but I’m a firm believer that everyone’s birth experience is up to them and the people they’re surrounded by. Prayer and research work.

  • @MarleeDecember105
    @MarleeDecember1053 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations on chosing natural childbirth. I had a natural childbirth as well and the experience was amazing. Painful but amazing. 🧡👶🏽 She's 28 now.

  • @riannatripp6594

    @riannatripp6594

    3 жыл бұрын

    Congrats. I also had a natural childbirth at the age of 46 yrs. My daughter just turn 18

  • @Dreamytresses

    @Dreamytresses

    3 жыл бұрын

    Does a healthy uterus have anything to do with A natural birth vs cycerian?

  • @MarleeDecember105

    @MarleeDecember105

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Dreamytresses Natural birth means a vaginal delivery with no pain meds.

  • @cece3547

    @cece3547

    3 жыл бұрын

    I had my 2 and only children also naturally 1 i hospital ward the other in birth centre

  • @purplesoul9927

    @purplesoul9927

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@riannatripp6594 I would love to hear more on this. People make it so taboo last 35 years old to still have children. Congratulations to you 🥳

  • @ga7741
    @ga77413 жыл бұрын

    As soon as you said red raspberry leaf, I was like okaaaayyyy Maya be doing her homework! It really sped up my labour, only 5 hours from the time my water broke to holding baby in my arms! I still drink it to this day! Baby is 3 (almost 4yo) and it's helped regulate my periods, no more cramps and shorter periods for me. Nettle and red raspberry is my absolute favourite herbal tea combo. Baby (I dunno why I keep calling him that haha but he's still my baby lol) has it too and loves it! It has kept cold symptoms at bay which is great especially considering the times we're in! Much love to you Maya! You've got this 💛

  • @moniqueparker3290
    @moniqueparker32903 жыл бұрын

    I was literally just saying to myself "I need some Maya in my life while I eat my lunch," lo and behold, He provides lol!!

  • @shamelessmaya

    @shamelessmaya

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @bisouselle
    @bisouselle3 жыл бұрын

    Wow, pregnancy looks so good on you!! Look at you!

  • @dympiece

    @dympiece

    3 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful and glowing

  • @KobokoFitness
    @KobokoFitness3 жыл бұрын

    26:06 i felt EXACTLY the same way about kicking but unlike you, I never got used to it 😂😂 I stayed shook the entire pregnancy lmao

  • @shamelessmaya

    @shamelessmaya

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Neide0310
    @Neide03103 жыл бұрын

    Have been living in the Netherlands almost my whole life. And seeing that a lot of women here focus on their careers in there thirties and start having children in their forties. So it’s definitely different in some European countries to be a mother later in life and most of the time considered to be very normal.

  • @kaylaschregardus4062

    @kaylaschregardus4062

    3 жыл бұрын

    Doesn't the Netherlands also still have like the best birth outcomes in the world? Dont women birth at home most of the time? Im from the US, midwifery is so political and torn here. I wish we would learn from THe Netherlands

  • @Neide0310

    @Neide0310

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@kaylaschregardus4062 I’m sorry I don’t know a lot about home birth in the Netherlands. But I know that women here prefer to give birth at home rather than in hospital. Let’s say that it is not seen as something special.

  • @kaylaschregardus4062

    @kaylaschregardus4062

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Neide0310 I see

  • @Onelovekeepcalm

    @Onelovekeepcalm

    3 жыл бұрын

    Right i also live in the netherlands!! when i heard mya was pregnant i was like omg yess!! i never thought that she was to old because here in the netherlands alot of women get pregnant at that age or in their 40s.. my mom naturally had twins when she was 38 ! so yeah it was kinda strange for me to see some people in the comments thinking 39 is old to have a kid! smh!

  • @kaylaschregardus4062

    @kaylaschregardus4062

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Onelovekeepcalm a lot of people thinking its too old are most likely from societies where they think past 39 is "too old" and don't normalize pregnancies and birth. I'm from US and this is very much the attitude. But I know age in a way is just a number. Doctors also fear women into thinking their bodies cant birth past 40, not true!

  • @geeniality4215
    @geeniality42153 жыл бұрын

    "Eww it's tickling me from the inside" 🤣🤣🤣. You look beautiful and wishing you and Max a lovely birthing experience.

  • @livl7147

    @livl7147

    3 жыл бұрын

    Loooool I laughed so hard 🤣

  • @atreeiamorgan6535
    @atreeiamorgan65353 жыл бұрын

    Your skin is flawless, I pray that you have a healthy and safe delivery.

  • @JAllen-tx3di
    @JAllen-tx3di3 жыл бұрын

    Perfect timing for the "dance party" phrase and closing music! I can hear your breathing is different. I'm so excited for you and for me when the time comes. I'm 34 and no man in sight so you're videos not only give me hope but excitement!

  • @okorolina
    @okorolina3 жыл бұрын

    Had a natural homebirth at 41. Congratulations and ROCK it MAMA!!

  • @user-bv4pn1ql6s

    @user-bv4pn1ql6s

    2 жыл бұрын

    **Thanks for watching! don't forget to hit the subscribe button! Fore more enlightenment WhatsApp me ➕ONE:FOUR:ZERO:FIVE:FOUR:NINE:FOUR:ZERO:ZERO:ZERO:SEVEN❤️❤️❤️

  • @Catherinestoring
    @Catherinestoring3 жыл бұрын

    This video. So good. My favorite line: “I identify as Christian although other Christians might not think I am.” So good. Same girl, same. We know the truth.

  • @j.e.pierson9433

    @j.e.pierson9433

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think it's because she's always talking about her zodiac...🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @StruggleSkates

    @StruggleSkates

    3 жыл бұрын

    So

  • @TryonThrift
    @TryonThrift3 жыл бұрын

    You're so right! Our mind and spirit have to be in alignment with everything that we do. I had two natural births, 12 hours each time 🥲 lol all I can say is focus on an object in the room and just breathe through the contractions. You're going to do great! Excited for you mama Mya 🙏🏽

  • @MrzTeria

    @MrzTeria

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yessss! I counted ceiling tiles

  • @JahariiAse
    @JahariiAse3 жыл бұрын

    Omg! I just had my baby!🥰 less than 2 months ago and I can not tell you how healing and how much this video has resonated with me. 💗🦋

  • @aleesharenea8565

    @aleesharenea8565

    3 жыл бұрын

    Congrats on your new baby💜 Im due in Late August

  • @shamelessmaya

    @shamelessmaya

    3 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations!!! I'm happy to hear you've crossed over and resonate with this video!

  • @foxxiest
    @foxxiest3 жыл бұрын

    I promise you, I did the same thing I was very concerned with eating healthy and exercising during the pandemic. I did counseling, acupuncture, chiropractor, and meditation (praying) and I got pregnant at 41! I was shocked because I tried many years ago after my son who’s 17 years old! So I agree with you I was very stressed and really not ready, I see God felt like it was time! So congrats to you!

  • @user-bv4pn1ql6s

    @user-bv4pn1ql6s

    2 жыл бұрын

    **Thanks for watching! don't forget to hit the subscribe button! Fore more enlightenment WhatsApp me ➕ONE:FOUR:ZERO:FIVE:FOUR:NINE:FOUR:ZERO:ZERO:ZERO:SEVEN❤️❤️

  • @Caprivlogs
    @Caprivlogs3 жыл бұрын

    I hear Sweden is a good place for mothers as they provide maternity care. I hope your mom will be there with you or someone close. Congrats, Maya. Very happy for you and your hubby!!!!

  • @PhyllisAlexis

    @PhyllisAlexis

    2 жыл бұрын

    And they provide paternity leave . Each parent 240days each per child☺️ mom of 3(expecting 4th) living and grew up in Sweden 👌🏾🤗

  • @kresustakid
    @kresustakid3 жыл бұрын

    I'm so happy you're back home! Comfortable with your support system at this stage in your pregnancy! 💖💖 your joy spreads to anyone watching your videos

  • @debrieannaeddins8789
    @debrieannaeddins87893 жыл бұрын

    Is today a good day or what? First a video from Max and Maya and now one from Shameless Maya. Made my day😊

  • @shamelessmaya

    @shamelessmaya

    3 жыл бұрын

    We on fire! Working side by side trying to do the most in such a hectic transitional time

  • @theetravelhippie
    @theetravelhippie3 жыл бұрын

    39?! I pray to look like this at 39 holy hell

  • @carolynthinji9968
    @carolynthinji99683 жыл бұрын

    i got pregnant at 39, I do not live a healthy lifestyle but it was easy and I was happy.... you are doin great sweetie

  • @user-po2ft4nt3p

    @user-po2ft4nt3p

    3 жыл бұрын

    T•h•a•n•k•s f•o•r •y•o•u•r• •re•p•l•y C•h•a•t• m•e• on W•h•a•t•s•A•p•p +•1•8•1•3•6•8•0•0•9•3•0• I•n•v•e•s•t•inC•r•y•p••t•o B•T•CA•N•D•E•T•H D•O•G•E📍...!!!!

  • @mysticmoon3042
    @mysticmoon30423 жыл бұрын

    They literally call it geriatric pregnancy I think that’s a bit much.

  • @codename495

    @codename495

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s just a term, it’s also a fact that complications are more likely after 35. Does that mean you shouldn’t have kids after 35? Nope, but the medical side of it is riskier.

  • @youinmybusiness1388

    @youinmybusiness1388

    3 жыл бұрын

    Right! She’s not 75 lmfao!!!

  • @Freedomstyles
    @Freedomstyles3 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful shameless 🥰 I was living very close to you before Karlstad But we moved to Stockholm now

  • @shamelessmaya

    @shamelessmaya

    3 жыл бұрын

    oh WOW!!!! We were practically neighbors

  • @FloraIvyRoads

    @FloraIvyRoads

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes, beautiful Shameless ❤️🌺

  • @keshiamichelle6603
    @keshiamichelle66033 жыл бұрын

    Love the message in this video! Focus on yourself, your health and when you’re fulfilled things will just flow. 💕

  • @nonyem1
    @nonyem13 жыл бұрын

    I love your advice about having your mind and heart/soul in alignment, and getting your mind right and reducing toxic thinking. That is so true for everything in life we want to be successful at, including relationships, career, raising kids, building friendships, etc. Very happy for you and your husband 😊

  • @jessmercedes2669
    @jessmercedes26693 жыл бұрын

    Yay Maya 🎉🤍 Im happy you're happy, you are radiant. You're helping me feel more at ease with the idea of waiting for pregnancy. I really appreciate you touching on those unpopular (but very real) topics like holistic health and the importance of healthy mindset integrated with action vs empty appearances. You a real one! Sending you nourishing vibes

  • @becky5937
    @becky59373 жыл бұрын

    Man I remember subscribing from years ago, when TGAW were together. I am crying because I am so happy for you. It’s like seeing a Big sister and feeling like we are all one going through this experience. God bless Love xoxo

  • @myluvtru1980
    @myluvtru19803 жыл бұрын

    You are 100% right. My husband and I tried for yrs to get pregnant and nothing. Once the pandemic started last yr, we got pregnant. I had no stress in 2020 (condolences to everyone that passed and lost their job). For me, the pandemic took 10000% of stress off me and we got pregnant. Unfortunately we lost our peanut November 2020. Strees/the mind has alot to do with it..

  • @poet82n

    @poet82n

    3 жыл бұрын

    My prayers are with you! I can only imagine losing a child.... especially that young.

  • @myluvtru1980

    @myluvtru1980

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@poet82n Thank you! We appreciate it 🙏🏾🙏🏻

  • @electricbeing993

    @electricbeing993

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sorry for your loss. You will be blessed again

  • @myluvtru1980

    @myluvtru1980

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@electricbeing993 Thank you so much 🙏🏾😊

  • @lorealdonae

    @lorealdonae

    3 жыл бұрын

    God bless!

  • @sescast1456
    @sescast14563 жыл бұрын

    Love hearing about your journey! So happy & excited for you

  • @trinigirlchrissy
    @trinigirlchrissy3 жыл бұрын

    You’re sooo beautiful Maya! Inside and out and you deserve allll the joy you’re experiencing!❤️ such a freaking light man!

  • @sTomiRey
    @sTomiRey3 жыл бұрын

    This is so helpful as a 37 almost 38 yr old woman that's looking to have a baby soon. Shows me I have to speak into my inner hippie and assess by day to day stresses, i.e. 40wk etc. So good to see your face again after seeing many phases of shamless maya! Congratulations on all you happieness and milestones!

  • @gabriellecooper1083
    @gabriellecooper10833 жыл бұрын

    Just so happy for you guys! Y’all are just figuring it out and it’s all falling into place! ♥️✨

  • @JazneaBrumfield
    @JazneaBrumfield3 жыл бұрын

    So crazy I’ve been watching you since I was in college and I’m having a home birth and 39 weeks in labor today and literally just came across this while I stretch on my birthing ball. Love youuu

  • @kima.8315
    @kima.83153 жыл бұрын

    A big ole’ FIRM hug to you, Ms. Maya, from Alabama☺️You look absolutely beautiful & may God continue to BLESS YOU, MAX & your beautiful healthy baby to come. So happy for you🙏🏽💕

  • @indiagriffin8993
    @indiagriffin89933 жыл бұрын

    Ugh!!! Thank you so much for making this video. I was becoming so anxious about the idea of “being forced” to give birth in a hospital and not having the choice to do this the way I always imagined. Living in Alabama is literally so frustrating when it comes to home births, midwives, etc. But you’ve made me realize that I do still have some agency over myself and my baby. I’m so grateful to you for always being a light in the darkness.

  • @LifebyJazzieey
    @LifebyJazzieey3 жыл бұрын

    I’m so happy your pregnancy is going well! I’m so excited to see the baby 🥰

  • @deedrawalker5805
    @deedrawalker58053 жыл бұрын

    Hey Maya! Ive also been listening to the Pure Natural Pregnancy podcast and it has definitely opened my mind to the idea of ownership of my choices and not being fearful. Ive dealt with a lot of anxiety in the last year but I must say since finding out I was pregnant, I’ve been so calm. All Glory to God! 🙌🏾

  • @oliviaschenck
    @oliviaschenck3 жыл бұрын

    This fills my heart, I remember watching your channel since I was a freshman in high school, To just see the peace, love, and the women you've grown in just makes me at awe, My god I am so happy for you!! God is Good!

  • @sanjeesen3408

    @sanjeesen3408

    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @solarsky3691
    @solarsky36913 жыл бұрын

    Things happen for a reason. You have different chapters in your life that are only suppose to be learning experiences. You are meant to be where you are. Your journey has been amazing to watch and thank you for sharing it.

  • @traceyhutchinson3177
    @traceyhutchinson31773 жыл бұрын

    This video is SO ENCOURAGING! Thank you for posting this and going THERE!

  • @MrKawaiiichigo2
    @MrKawaiiichigo23 жыл бұрын

    I've been following you for years!! I became a fan of your Tech Talk videos and now here we are! I love seeing you grow, lovely human (:

  • @starzzzy22
    @starzzzy223 жыл бұрын

    I love that plug for talking to a therapist. I will most definitely need a therapist when I decide to have children. It's such a huge life/mind shift and I feel like people take it so lightly (or don't openly discuss how big of a life change it is).

  • @nieshat
    @nieshat3 жыл бұрын

    Maya, I am genuinely happy for you and Max. You deserve everything that God has in store for you.You will be at 2.1 million viewers in a few months.

  • @soulfullyroyalnita4446
    @soulfullyroyalnita44463 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations queen!! So thrilled for youuuu and your hubby!! 😍 I already know you will have an excellent birth experience 😘

  • @HowViolet
    @HowViolet3 жыл бұрын

    Maya you are like an angel leading me throughout life lol. I’m due in January & here you are leading the way yet again. I appreciate you so much & all of the light you’ve brought to my life! Congrats and thank you!

  • @jahzyjase
    @jahzyjase3 жыл бұрын

    So encouraging to listen to you...it's feel good to heard all that abd specially that we can feel your peace of mind in your advices and the way you talk. Be bless sis I know God will provide for an healthy pregnancy and baby🙏🏽💞

  • @queenmaterialtv
    @queenmaterialtv3 жыл бұрын

    I'm watching this video on Sunday, June 19th, Father's Day here in America. My 35th birthday is this Friday and I've been married for a year. I have large fibroids and cannot have children...yet. Maya, you don't even know how much joy and confirmation this video is bringing me. Like I am physically responding to your video in the most positive way. Like you, I choose health AND joy, happiness! Thank you for sharing your journey and gems with us!

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    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @Thrivewithabi
    @Thrivewithabi3 жыл бұрын

    I enjoyed this video so much! I am so happy you emphasized being able to own the process whether its hospital or home birth and this is something I realized with my second son. I am so happy for you Maya! I have been watching you for a while and I wish you nothing but Joy and Blessings on this journey, Love you mama..xoxoxo

  • @kiairagary2407
    @kiairagary24073 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations shamlessmaya! Good luck with your pregnancy and healthy baby ❤

  • @MajorMorris
    @MajorMorris3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your experience! I found that knowledge was THE THING that settled my fears throughout my pregnancy. People were quick to share horror stories which freaked me out so I stopped asking people about their experience and just focused on mine. I I wanted to have a hospital birth so I made sure to get fully educated on my birthing options, hospital options, etc. I went on the hospital tour of their birthing unit. They walked us through everything start to finish. I made a birthing plan which I shared with my husband, my OBGYN, and the nurse at the hospital once I went into labor so everyone was on the same page regarding my wants. I packed a diffuser and a radio (which I didn’t end up using but was nice to have). I do wish I read more about breastfeeding. My baby developed Jaundice which I later learned was partially because I wasn’t feeding her enough the first few days.

  • @therace8119
    @therace81193 жыл бұрын

    You look AMAZING Maya! And this mindset, feeding the mind with the good good is setting yourself up for motherhood, always remember that you are a phenomenal Mommy, can't wait♡

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    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @ruthwright6247
    @ruthwright62473 жыл бұрын

    This is very encouraging! Thx u for being so transparent and sharing your life with us. God bless So happy for you and your husband.

  • @ashlimorgan5517
    @ashlimorgan55173 жыл бұрын

    Girl!!! You are literally such a beautifully stunning 39 year old pregnant woman!! I’m done having kids but may the Lord bless me with your skin when I’m 39! Amen! Congratulations on all your new changes!

  • @maryb868
    @maryb8683 жыл бұрын

    You're glowing! I pray a very safe delivery of you and baby 🤎

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    @user-po2ft4nt3p

    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @goldenmarie7964
    @goldenmarie79643 жыл бұрын

    My mom gave birth to me at 41 after 3 boys! I was the baby girl she always wanted! Sooo happy for you! Lots of love from Toronto💕

  • @popcookie10
    @popcookie103 жыл бұрын

    Love you 🤍 been watching u since middle school. Its always wonderful to hear from you wherever you are 🤍🤍🤍 and congratulations i feel so happy and beautiful for you/you two

  • @Tolu1994
    @Tolu19943 жыл бұрын

    I’m so excited for you! Praying you have a stress free birth ❤️

  • @TaylorMadeCori
    @TaylorMadeCori3 жыл бұрын

    My Mom had me and my twin sister in her late 30s. You've totally got this, Maya! Wishing you and baby well - and good wishes to you and hubby!

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  • @tinasarafinas4962
    @tinasarafinas49623 жыл бұрын

    You’re glowing! How amazing you and Max finally are in the same place! Wishing you a continued beautiful pregnancy 🌸

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    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @Memkoh
    @Memkoh3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Maya for sharing that it’s important for us to take care of our mind and heart. That internal toxins part was whoa! You’re doing amazing. I love your simple life and this happiness.💘

  • @user-po2ft4nt3p

    @user-po2ft4nt3p

    3 жыл бұрын

    T•h•a•n•k•s f•o•r •y•o•u•r• •re•p•l•y C•h•a•t• m•e• on W•h•a•t•s•A•p•p +•1•8•1•3•6•8•0•0•9•3•0• I•n•v•e•s•t•inC•r•y•p••t•o B•T•CA•N•D•E•T•H D•O•G•E📍...!!!!

  • @dancedevagar
    @dancedevagar3 жыл бұрын

    OMG!!! This is soooo beautiful, so amazing. I'm so happy to follow your journey.

  • @iambella11
    @iambella113 жыл бұрын

    You are absolutely glowing! To all the expecting mamas, All Birth is NATURAL birth, hospitals are perfectly fine if that is how you feel most safe. This new trend of shaming women who chose hospitals need to stop. I so agree with Maya on books and “gurus” being one sided. This journey is so special, take time to enjoy it, do your research no matter where or how or little one enters this world. Do your research, turn off all the negative thoughts and stories and do what feels safest for you. And that part about being lonely, that hit home. I will be checking on all my pregnant friends after my experience. Wishing you so much joy on this journey! You deserve all the happiness.

  • @cleopatramyers6134
    @cleopatramyers61343 жыл бұрын

    Honey, I’ve been watching you for years and am so happy to hear about this new beautiful journey for you and your husband! I’m still super confused about the “39” years, I don’t believe you, but love you anyway 💕

  • @Jessica-bj5qi
    @Jessica-bj5qi3 жыл бұрын

    *Oh my gosh Maya.....OH MY GOSH!* _I love_ *THIS* _I love it! You are being so raw, so real, and you look AMAZING! Literally glowing! Yasssssssss!_ *Please continue to recording your journey on both channels! My Fiance and I love your channels because we are a biracial/mixed couple in our early 30's with no kids yet. So we are learning a lot from you!*

  • @oog711
    @oog7113 жыл бұрын

    God bless you! I've been watching your channel since I was a little girl and it's beautiful to see the way your life has changed as you've pursued and chased your happiness. Many blessings for you and your child!

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  • @tanikaw6100
    @tanikaw61003 жыл бұрын

    Your so inspiring Maya! You’ve grown so much and it’s great to see your in your happy place with your husband and soon to be baby :)🤱🏽🤰🏽

  • @tsaonedee
    @tsaonedee3 жыл бұрын

    Can I just say, gorgeous thumbnail 😍😍😍 good to see That Trick Jackieeee living her best life!!!!! 🥰

  • @meredithjohnson5910
    @meredithjohnson59103 жыл бұрын

    I’m so happy for you and Max. I have one child, she’s 17, and I wanted a natural birth but GOD had other plans, and I had to have a C-section. I was thrown off by it because it wasn’t my plan, but because I had a plan, and was prepared mentally, I wasn’t scared. I 100% agree with the head and heart being in alignment. When I found out I was pregnant I was scared, mostly because of other peoples horror stories but my great aunt told me that I’m strong, to just breath and surrender, that my body is made to bring this child into the world, and that I have all the tools I need. It was comforting to hear and it helped me a lot, along with my own research and being prepared. You got this!!! Your going to be such a good mom!! You’ve taught me so much and I’m 40. Blessings and Love to you!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @mrs.a

    @mrs.a

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too!!! With pregnancy well with the labor bit things happen and you can plan all you like and I ended up with an emergency c section. What I found was how other mothers would stigmatise c section mums. Like having an emergency c section makes you less than a mother. 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @makingmemories1001
    @makingmemories10013 жыл бұрын

    Proud of You Gurl !!!!🌻 You will be fine, just find your balance Boo and take your time and give yourself patience and understanding.

  • @benkiful1
    @benkiful13 жыл бұрын

    Yesss Maya!!!!... Im grinning cheek to cheek so happy to see you

  • @rainriver1281
    @rainriver12813 жыл бұрын

    Stunning! You give me hope. Blessings to you and yours.

  • @ItsMikaela
    @ItsMikaela3 жыл бұрын

    Mamassss… you are ABSOLUTELY RADIATING ❤️😍 so excited for you!!🥰

  • @TankaVizion2
    @TankaVizion23 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations again to you both.. Maya you are naturally a beauty, however this pregnancy have you "Glistening, growing & Glowing" on a whole other level!! You're absolutely stunning pregnant! I wish you a beautiful safe delivery!!

  • @uxbymia
    @uxbymia Жыл бұрын

    Ohhh Maya!! You are truly a QUEEN. Your words will touch so many people 💗💗💗💗💯

  • @kiahlacarr55
    @kiahlacarr553 жыл бұрын

    This was beautiful. So happy for you. I’m 32 and clearly and won’t be having my first baby until “later in life”. I hate the way that sounds as if we arent still young 🙄. But I’d been looking for videos of woman in there 30s talking specifically about home and natural births and let me tell you their aren’t many. I was so happy to see you pop up on my feed. This video gave me so much reassurance in my desire to have a natural home birth while still realizing that I could have a hospital birth and be in control of that to. Thank you for all these suggestions. I don’t plan to try to get pregnant soon but Ive already ordered those books you suggested. Good bless you and baby and hubby throughout and after your pregnancy 🤗

  • @OfficialChanelleMusic
    @OfficialChanelleMusic3 жыл бұрын

    LOL at "weh di rass did you do". Love to you and Max, congratulations and I wish you a safe delivery.

  • @cherylbass09
    @cherylbass093 жыл бұрын

    I am so happy for you. You look absolutely beautiful. I have followed you since your early LA days. You have really come into your Queendom! Blessings

  • @PrettyPeoplePleasePressPlay
    @PrettyPeoplePleasePressPlay3 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations Maya. Sending sooooooo much love. 💗

  • @BabyyiJustwanaDancee
    @BabyyiJustwanaDancee3 жыл бұрын

    OMG MAYA congratulations!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Ccgemini
    @Ccgemini3 жыл бұрын

    You are going to be a great mom, just be in each moment. And that soft touch that you can’t stand get over it because baby will be rubbing on you for comfort.

  • @2toosexE
    @2toosexE3 жыл бұрын

    I am so happy for you my cuz had her first at 39 and her second at 41 both with no issues. I am 37 and I feel like having kids later is better, I feel like Im still not ready. Videos like this let's me see it can happen later for women who did not do it earlier.

  • @SorelleAmore
    @SorelleAmore3 жыл бұрын

    love, love, love, love, love!!!!!!

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