"I know how powerful it is for a boy to see that his mother is loved, because that's how he's going to treat his wife." Crying. Preach. Amen.

@potatobalamory757

7 жыл бұрын

Kaysha Ainayya I cried so much at that part. I'm not even an emotional person

@sun.sh.in.e

7 жыл бұрын

Kaysha Ainayya That's when I started crying!

@linal5471

7 жыл бұрын

Kaysha Ainayya i cried so much at this part

@lisaduke2001

7 жыл бұрын

Kaysha Ainayya I didn't cry am I a soulless potato 😂😂

@aishaally3351

7 жыл бұрын

Keeley Barrnett i didnt either lol

For a moment there, it seemed like the biological father was about to ask the step-dad to be his dad too

@Kilaraya

7 жыл бұрын

Im dead😂😂😂

@gloriahauter4437

7 жыл бұрын

Alexander Millar hahha

@80spurple13

7 жыл бұрын

LMAO!!!

@rubengutman8856

7 жыл бұрын

lmfao

@yukyayukyukya2330

7 жыл бұрын

Alexander Millar 😂

This is the 1st time I've EVER seen a blended family that looks and acts like mine (minus the instruments). I LOVE my son's stepmother for the way she LOVE'S our son. When my son woke up on his 9th Birthday he came straight to my bed, laid next to me and said he'd never love someone else more than he loves me. I said "awwwwww, baby me too"! Then he wasted no time asking me if he could call his step mother mom.... I cried almost immediately. ONLY because my son has ADHD and is SUPER DUPER HYPER. MOST ppl can't handle it, and make him feel like he's a bad kid... including some of his teachers. This makes him assume that most adults just dont like him or want to be around him. So, when he experienced the opposite reaction from her, it made him feel like he was loved and accepted by someone other than ME. At that moment I knew that she was a blessing to him, his father and I. I happily told him OF COURSE BABY..... WHATEVER IS IN YOUR HEART.

@Tanisme777

5 жыл бұрын

Wow...your family is amazing

@nicolelollipops8268

5 жыл бұрын

Racquel Le'Andra omg this brought water works.

@niurkamilano

5 жыл бұрын

You are amazing and your son is so blessed to have you ♥️ Many blessings.

@jamedraa8472

5 жыл бұрын

That is beautiful. Btw, look up the attributes of a genius they are similar to ADHD "symptoms"

@chloekit4861

5 жыл бұрын

Racquel Le'Andra you should write her a letter like this

I’m crying my eyes out watch this - he is so blessed to have 4 parents that love him so deeply and respect and appreciate each other 🙏🏾❤️👏🏾

@nancymorogo519

5 жыл бұрын

NurtureInChrist so sweet.

@gordo1163

5 жыл бұрын

get a grip

@annewanjiku52

5 жыл бұрын

NurtureInChrist that what really make my tears comes out dear

@JeevesReturns

5 жыл бұрын

A child has TWO parents. That’s it.

@DjKuality

4 жыл бұрын

I dont even have 1,, Smh.......

it takes a real man to cry to another man

@scooterstudios123

6 жыл бұрын

Shut yo sensitive ass up

@kanejones8153

6 жыл бұрын

Hippopotamoose 😂😂

@jm--nf7sz

6 жыл бұрын

Hippopotamoose Hahahahahhaha this got me dead bro.

@visualpr3cision

6 жыл бұрын

I officially am gay for hot crying black men and I'm not even gay!

@ACDBunnie

6 жыл бұрын

+

Teacher: Who do you stay with? Boy: with my parents Teacher: Both of em? Boy: Yeah, all four of them.

@blue-or7co

7 жыл бұрын

Sucky Johky lol

@rawabeenamer9812

6 жыл бұрын

Sucky Johky 997

@lilbobba1888

6 жыл бұрын

2005th like

I love the dads relationship💯 #thatshowyoudoit #realmen

@outlaw3440

5 жыл бұрын

Moesha if you're not a man then how are you gonna say what a real man is

@aowch1942

5 жыл бұрын

Outlaw well there’s someone in the comment section that’s a man saying that’s a real man too

@lynneacevedo6641

5 жыл бұрын

@@outlaw3440 bc a real woman should only accept a real man, and to do that she needs to know what one is 👌

@outlaw3440

5 жыл бұрын

Lynne Acevedo ok ill give you that. But if its that way its visa versa

@outlaw3440

5 жыл бұрын

1000 subs with no videos I have biased feelings towards that. My parents split when I was 10 and my step dad tried to act like the guy in the video. And I did what my real dad told me to do. I told him he's not my dad and I dont have to listen to him. I'm 19 now and am greatful my dad told me to do that. My point is step parents should respect the child's real parents and leave the parenting to them

This should be shown everywhere as an example of adults caring the most about their child’s happiness. Great watch 👍🏻

@august88837

4 жыл бұрын

Kamila Whiteman yes they should , dats how Iam I have stepdaughter but like d man said I don’t say dat , I say she my daughter n she ok with dat

@lifeunderbudget

3 жыл бұрын

@Victor Rodriguez what do you mean? because they didn't stay with the 1st guy? There's a lot happening in life that could lead to that. Life isn't that simple. Hope you get chosen by a woman with great decision making skills and you live happily ever after.

This. This is how it should be.

@anandaadlam9746

7 жыл бұрын

shevonnie salmon I wish my parents would do this (they just finalized their divorce :( )

@liagiannotti5167

7 жыл бұрын

shevonnie salmon isn't like that for me

@justingrant4860

7 жыл бұрын

shevonnie salmon them working through and remaining together or not working it out but remaining separate is how it should be.......it's a contridiction to say God blessed them with new spouses after a divorce when those things are not in the will not God marriage us a ONE TIME covenant scriptures are clear about divorce and remarriage I pray that people will not continue to be deceived

@insomb

7 жыл бұрын

Fr, you're aspiring for broken marriages.

@ako122

7 жыл бұрын

There is no god.

This type of maturity is what the world needs more of 👌😁

@mohamedyusuf7612

7 жыл бұрын

cadey iskwrn

@positivevibes5364

7 жыл бұрын

Naima Hersi it's so rare...we need more

@amaryllisbrooke8098

7 жыл бұрын

Naima Hersi where is the love? the love... the love..

@UltraXplor

7 жыл бұрын

Yes! But unfortunately my boyfriends baby mama was going to blackmail him and I.

@Sarasara-bi1oq

7 жыл бұрын

Naima Hersi definatley!

“At some point we stopped watering the plant...” wow

My step-mother made damn sure my father had nothing to do with me and my brother...and he complied!! It's amazes me that there can be step parents like mine, and like this! THIS is the way it should be!!

@mariekevanaart6536

5 жыл бұрын

Angie Vano oh same story here, your not alone ❤️ x

@jessicablaze8721

5 жыл бұрын

Same

@kraftthisile9113

4 жыл бұрын

Same. And I miss my old dad.

@tmack3256

4 жыл бұрын

Angie Vano mine like dat 2 he thinks he could control me and shii and i cant say nun abt it

@andrewbean24.2

4 жыл бұрын

My stepdad made sure i had nothing to do with my real dad. Sure enough my mom mostly complied

So my father left me and my mother when I was 2 DAYS old - at the hospital. They were law students then and were supposedly in love, problem is, my mother didn't know that he already had a pregnant girlfriend in the province. So he left to go back to his other baby momma and left us. When I was 3 my mom met her life partner, and I also met the man who would be more of a father to me than my actual father. I have never once felt that I wasn't his child even though we wern't related by blood. We were related by the bond of family and love and that was already more than enough - sure as hell more than what my real father gave me. when I was in High School my father got in touch wih me again, and I figured what the hell, family is family so just forgive. Sometimes I feel like my real father underappreciates my stepdad so much when he should be so embarrassed that my stepdad was raising me while he was off to batman knows where. My stepdad sometimes becomes insecure since my real dad is now a lawyer and can give me more than what my stepdad can. I just want my stepdad to know he is not my stepdad, he's my real father and nothing would ever amount to the love and care he has given me while growing up. Gonna write a letter and tell him how grateful i am, that because of him I never felt like I lacked something because my biological dad wasn't there. So here's to stepparents. ♡

@northline5670

7 жыл бұрын

Fangirl Faye . Wow, if you let your dad ( the one that raised you ) see this post , I think it would make him the prowdest happyest dad in the world! Thank you for being greatful and caring enough to let him know ! So many take things forgranted ( sorry for my bad English spelling ) and we humans can do so mush for eshothers espeshaly if we know that we are aprishiated .

@naomirae2

7 жыл бұрын

I went through the same thing and it is true that your dad ( the MAN that raised you) is going to feel insecure. That's normal but you need to reassure him of your feelings. On your biological fathers case , mine actually got back together with my mother so he feels this "relief" like he can just brush off what he has done. It's really weird but as long as you know who loved and raised you, I'm sure you'll be alright ! Much love ❤️

@angellightning9005

7 жыл бұрын

That is so nice, I bet it will make him very very happy. I got married at 24, my husband already had two kids 9 and 11 years old. people don't realize how hard it is for stepmoms and stepdads. I wish their mom could have gotten past the differences she had with their dad so that we could have made things easier for the kids. I loved them with all my heart and the hardest thing for me was to pull back from them at a certain point because their mum was making them feel bad and guilty for loving me and enjoying their time with me, she made them feel like they were betraying her. Today those two kids are all grown up and I can honestly say I hope I was a little ray that made them feel a little more comfortable if not a little more happy. I have two kids of my own now a 10 years old and a 4 years old, and I have promised myself if me and their dad decide to go our seperate ways I will do everything I can in my power to be nice to the new woman that would come in their life. See knowing my husband I have no doubt that he would bring a bad person on his kids life, because he loves them, and that is what we have to keep in mind...

@vivaglamnadia

7 жыл бұрын

Fangirl Faye damn wish I could relate. Dad left me and my mum when I was 1. My mum started serial dating and introducing every single guy to me, regardless of the seriousness of their relationship. She finally got married 2 years ago after knowing the guy for a month at most. He treats me like I don't exist, and it feels like I'm living in a house with strangers. Luckily I'm moving out next year but it just sucks that I never had a father figure and my mum was always seeking attention from men so I never had a strong relationship with her either.

@tawandabranch8766

7 жыл бұрын

Fangirl already tearing up from video now he you go lol.He would love the letter.

this case is so rare

@shaybrown7087

6 жыл бұрын

But it's beautiful and shows the possibility

@kamissadiarra5074

6 жыл бұрын

Erik Leidecker ikr

@kooldude2777

6 жыл бұрын

Erik Leidecker as a product of divorced parents, seeing this, I'm not sure whether to think this is normal or not, because a lot of my friends and their step parents and parents are tight, but mine could not loath the other more :(

@alexmorante5489

6 жыл бұрын

Erik Leidecker I'm lucky to have a step father like him. He's been raising me since I was 7 and I am now 17. Much love.

@kooldude2777

6 жыл бұрын

sadly, i couldn't agree more..

Yup. I totally cried through this AND watched it a second time just to make sure that what I saw... Was ACTUALLY what I thought I saw. This is love the right way! Nack is the centre of that family. And this is how it should be. Children should be allowed to be children instead of worrying about divorce. Perfect example of co-parenting.

@markthompson1084

5 жыл бұрын

Sydney Syd, I really appreciate what you said about children being allowed to be children instead of worrying about divorce. You seem to embody the happiness and good nature our world needs more of. If you're interested, we'd love to show how we're building something similar at Garlew. - your friends at GARLEW

@dearpastorr

5 жыл бұрын

@@markthompson1084 hey Mark, I've just re-watched this video because I absolutely love it. And looked down in the comments to find your response. I'd love to know more. Please reach out when/if you read this. THANK YOU x

THIS is how co-parenting with adults is supposed to be! Not all that jealousy nonsense like most of us deal with. 👏🏽💜

This is why I always argue when people say parents should stay together for the sake of the kids. If the parents aren't getting along, but divorce could give the kid a loving family like this (and like mine), then it should be an option. And I know that unfortunately not all divorced or blended families are like this, but I firmly believe that it's not because of the divorce in those cases. It's because of the people.

@EreneWOlson

8 жыл бұрын

+Cassidy Parker Knight when people say stay together for the sake of the kids i'm pretty sure they mostly mean if the relationship is damaged but still repairable. I think it's just to say try a little harder for the kids since although a lot don't have this but, a two parent household is the norm. Also every child is different and handles situations in different ways, so it's basically saying just keep your child's feelings in mind when thinking about divorce.

@victoriahillmitchell3982

8 жыл бұрын

+Daisy Long the selfish thing is to put your child through misery because you dont believe in divorce. your child should never think a norm relationship is fighting and mistreating. after 4 years of staying for my child I decided I was worth more then lies, & cheating.. my son is great and his step dad is his best friend. you are right we will all issues but you should not be unhappy.

@victoriahillmitchell3982

8 жыл бұрын

+Daisy Long people change. you go through different stages before you settle into who you truly are. my son was not planned and before you throw the you should've used protection, I did and it became detatched. so how bout you shut your judgemental trap. its awesome when parents can stay together but if they cant its wonderful when you find someone who loves your child as much as you do.

@catk5857

8 жыл бұрын

This is so true! My parents are divorced and it's hard on me, but that's not because of the fact that they're split up, it's because unfortunately my mum continues to be toxic about it. All I want is for both my mum and dad to be happy, but they won't let that happen. And yet despite this I'm so glad they're not together, because as broken as my family is, it would be more broken if they were. Thanks for commenting this, because it's a really important message, and thanks soul pancake.

@liliacholashka6193

8 жыл бұрын

+Cassidy Parker Knight I agree. And also if the kid sees that it's parents aren't getting along and aren't happy together this can affect kid's whole life and /for example/ when the kid is about to get married it will be under pressure will he/she make the partner happy and can he/she build a strong emotional and physical bond between the family members.

Lucky kid, he's got 4 parents and they all genuinely love him.

@yayokra9392

6 жыл бұрын

T Allen Some people have 4, others have none. Fvcked up world.

@siahbossio7385

6 жыл бұрын

Ya Yo Kra fo sho

@talent6295

6 жыл бұрын

T Allen I have 1

@TheAwesomeguy559

6 жыл бұрын

Talent Johnson as of my 16th birthday a few days ago on the 10th, I lost my father...I only have 1 now

@tianavstheworld

6 жыл бұрын

TheAwesomeguy559 I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️❤️

Imagine having 4 parents who love & care for you?! Beautiful

@sakurakou2009

4 жыл бұрын

nope I rather have my two parents then another additional 2 .

@ViaMirage

4 жыл бұрын

I wouldn’t want to have any extra parents, no matter how they’re trying to frame that in this video.

@briannaarmogan6513

3 жыл бұрын

sakurakou2009 exactly

@Momo11191

3 жыл бұрын

ViaMirage still he really s loved

@gsmith557

3 жыл бұрын

Na

The maturity, humility and selflessness of these people are humbling and inspirational to me ! Thankyou

The part were the dad and step dad were talking got me

@antonyreyes7667

6 жыл бұрын

PagBrothersGaming yea me too i cryed

@familiapascual8784

6 жыл бұрын

Same

i dont know why im crying in the club right now

@spacerocket3294

6 жыл бұрын

isabelle h 😂😂😂

@amaniiheaven708

6 жыл бұрын

7294bryan LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

@TianaTajana

6 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@abde7246

6 жыл бұрын

Ain't no crying in the club Let the beat carry away

@reggieb5471

6 жыл бұрын

isabelle h stop lying

Yeah my stepmother resented me. She let it be known that she wished I wasn't part of the picture and that she wished it we're just her, my dad, and their kids minus me. Seeing this video made me cry. I would've done anything to have a loving family like this.

@ns.jandali

5 жыл бұрын

So what happened in the end?

@zc-m6642

4 жыл бұрын

Owow Photoshop her face out of the photo and add yours instead! (jk but fr sorry to hear that, that's inappropriate for a stepparent to say)

@ericag5346

4 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry you went through that. How she treats you is a reflection of her, not you. I bet you're an awesome person, I bet going through that you've learned how to treat people and it's better than that.

@millysimpson8130

4 жыл бұрын

I literally have this same dynamic now, find it very challenging...

@makaylak2k

4 жыл бұрын

Ugh what I wouldn’t give to be close to my bonus kids (step kids). This gives me hope but not sure if I should have hope.

This took me out. “Black men loving Black men is a revolutionary act!” Joseph Beam

Why can’t every divorced family be like this

@chevycruze2061

6 жыл бұрын

Because kids shouldn’t be split between families. The parents should have focused on fixing their marriage especially when they already have a child together.

@HDDaviid

6 жыл бұрын

Because that love never goes away, as hard as they try to replace the other partner... that is a lifelong bond no one else can replace

@psniidearly814

6 жыл бұрын

Exactly.. I'm crying because my dad and mom don't get along and they yell at me because of their problems they can't figure out on their one

@breaththrou

6 жыл бұрын

Andrew Ringquist But what if being in the family with the two parents causes too pain?

@MB-ml8ti

6 жыл бұрын

Savage_Darling15 please keep in mind some people are abused so situations like this aren't an option

Love how the men showed their emotions more than the women

@bigdaddyjayman7878

6 жыл бұрын

Jekku Kepponen yup. That's also what I thought.

@JulieAnn02261990

6 жыл бұрын

Get glasses, the other step mom cried.

@thethird3d

6 жыл бұрын

I think it's because men are so reserved with their emotions, that when we see another man starting to get emotional, we know how it feels, and we drop all the bullshit and form this sort of connection. It's like a brotherhood with all of us.

@bigdaddyjayman7878

6 жыл бұрын

Julie Ann i know but they still showed their emotions more.

@bythe9290

6 жыл бұрын

Julie Ann He never said that the women didn't show any emotion at all. I think you need glasses if you can't read a comment properly.

I love this is pure kindness,most people are jealous of their ex’s spouse but they admire them and are grateful for them .

@101szniper

5 жыл бұрын

Not really

@ThePimmy11

5 жыл бұрын

The ones that do are awesome but I don't thing it's most. I think it's pretty rare. Most either quietly resent, pretend they don't exist, or stir up drama.

@jessehill9993

3 жыл бұрын

I wouldnt say jealous a much as in you can't say much and the state favors the mother so whatever mom wants mom gets even if its to the detriment of the kids/alienated parents. Do *not* tell me otherwise until you wear my boots. None of us were told growing up how our families can be played into the drama as well. I do not sleep well nor do I speak much. At this point I haven't seen my kids in two months and nobody cares except them and I. Edit: yes this was hard to watch. Especially when these situations are like ogres and onions.

@yomom3545

Жыл бұрын

why would i be jealous of a dude that recycled my old trash from my old trash can with my extra baggage ...did you see his new wife compared to his pink haired ex with baggage????? nothing to be jealous of when you upgraded like that lol

Stepparents.......People that STEP up to be a PARENT!!! Much Love to you all and to all parents as well! STAY STRONG

my dad and stepdad would have killed each other in the first five minutes lol

@haylee4009

7 жыл бұрын

Hunter Leger my dad and my step dad became good mates, they used to go fishing together and everything but he's not my stepdad anymore and he moved away

@Katlady001

7 жыл бұрын

Hunter Leger Oh no! 😮

@queenareanna3534

7 жыл бұрын

Hunter Leger same😂

@jayrod2536

7 жыл бұрын

That's our genetic makeup as men. We often strive to be the alpha and anyone challenging us for that slot become targets. You see it all the time in the animal kingdom and it is obvious in the human race. So it takes an incredibly strong and selfless man to let his guard down to a fellow man and show his softer side. I commend him

@Landon1860

7 жыл бұрын

Hunter Leger same

What's warped is that THIS is how exes should treat each other. Put the positivity, and the child first. THIS is RIGHT, and the peer pressure to hate, the trend of jealousy, is WRONG.

@SilentHotdog28

6 жыл бұрын

You said it spot on, you don't have to like your ex and their partner, but just get along for the sake of the children.

@marcdefranco9203

6 жыл бұрын

My parents are multiplive cheap and annoying

@EmmLee1111

6 жыл бұрын

Clobbersaurus I mean, some people come from abusive relationships, like my parents. It is an ideal situation, but there is a reason parents get in these situations in the first place... some people don’t want to be parents even, after they separate from the other parent. It is a beautiful statement and dream, but a lot of the time not the case.

@foodislife728

6 жыл бұрын

Clobbersaurus why would anyone put someone else's child before their own that's just not how it works. reality is different and that's how we were born. no blood connection no unconditional love!!!

@bokarndiaye323

6 жыл бұрын

I disagree with you, EatwithmeASMR. There's plenty of counterexamples to this: many adopted children, or children in reboud families, have the unconditional love of their parents, and many biological parents don't provide unconditional love - think of parents who are abusive to their child, or who throw them out because they're gay (which is litteraly putting the condition of being straight to their parental love...). So, you can't equate blood connection and unconditional love, because obviously, one can exist without the other, and having one doesn't guarantee the other.

This kind of relationships with mix families, is very rare, its like LESS THAN O.1% in the world.

@concepcionledezma5027

5 жыл бұрын

You're so right. That's why parents have an obligation to think of their kids and not have divorce be an option. It'll always affect kids negatively.

@peruanodecorazn5731

4 жыл бұрын

@@concepcionledezma5027 but dumb bitches only think about themselves and believe they're wise enough to make their own choices

I’m going through a divorce and i pray that when the day comes I’ll have the same love and respect for my sons stepfather as this man.

I never want to experience divorce. :(

@izumocore

8 жыл бұрын

So dont marry, cause marriage only has two endings and they both start with the letter D.

@SPYBOODY

8 жыл бұрын

+izumocore my dirty mind made me think the second one was dick but then i realized its death :(

@mazinombies4752

8 жыл бұрын

+TManChristian 100% of divorces start with marriages. Facet

@izumocore

8 жыл бұрын

+WaterMalone unless it is for a tax cut/benefit or a green card/equivalent for hetrosexual males there is no logic in marrying. I am 33 and most likely will never marry and yes i have a child ( but no marriage required)

@malone2002

8 жыл бұрын

+izumocore whatever Scrooge

This is how it should be when parents divorce. No anger just love. Kids are so much more important than hating your ex or their new partner.

@afnanalnajar9196

7 жыл бұрын

Ali McNew IKR too bad most relationships aren't like this... ☹️

@hotheadon11

7 жыл бұрын

Ali McNew ya, too bad it's not😂

@lauren.7267

7 жыл бұрын

Ali McNew I totally agree

@Musti._

7 жыл бұрын

Ali McNew Tell tht to romans bitchy ex wife

@stephenhodgkinson4086

7 жыл бұрын

Ali McNew yes :(

if this isn’t the furthest thing from how my life with step parents is. this little boy is so unbelievably lucky to have all 4 parents that are mature enough to put aside the stigma of step parents and just bond for their love of him. wow, i’m just breath taken. i pray one day my parents can learn to love like this.

This is when 2 parents are both respectful, considerate, devoted and there is no abuse. Extremely rare.

This is beautiful

@annemaveera5112

8 жыл бұрын

I can't find deeper words for this

@hightimetrev

7 жыл бұрын

heart touching

@beigelover95

7 жыл бұрын

its honestly one of the most beautiful videos on yt

@robwilson8366

7 жыл бұрын

SpicyTheTaco I agree

@davi66urtin

7 жыл бұрын

sheep

Blood doesn't make family. Love makes family.

@cloudie8314

6 жыл бұрын

Sean Schollaert :')

@cloudie8314

6 жыл бұрын

JAKE N9NE S7VEN Well said!

@cloudie8314

6 жыл бұрын

TheLemur 27 I Respect your opinion and maybe it's true in your family but I can count at least 20 people in our family I do not share DNA with. I absolutely love them the same. Open your heart n u will see u have family everywhere💕

@kyoukabun

6 жыл бұрын

Tom you must be fun at parties...

@shegotblackeddude4538

6 жыл бұрын

Sean Schollaert DNA makes a family

WAIT I just want to know where she found all these fine black men lol

@mochamommyATX

5 жыл бұрын

Black men are so beautiful

@eriothkeruma6643

5 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@gordonckeene

5 жыл бұрын

I'm right here

@cocot9414

5 жыл бұрын

I found my strong passionate loving black man online. I've heard horror stories from some woman but online dating was a great experience for me. Be the type of woman you'd want to be with if you were a man and your frequency will attract awesome men.

@blakman41

5 жыл бұрын

@Jake DeSander. 😂🤣😭

Beautiful! This just shows us that it is possible for a step-parent and a real parent to have a good relationship with each other. Tears are falling down from my eyes when they started talking to each other and appreciated all the good things that the step-parent did for the child.

i thought they would be dissing each other.

@leetlebob8203

6 жыл бұрын

Nawaf Almadi but this is real life, not a shitty movie

@anthonyreyes1682

6 жыл бұрын

leetlebob me and my step mom should be in a UFC fight because anytime we see each other there is a huge argument

@zikekounreal4454

6 жыл бұрын

good luck out there i hope your *GUMBALLS* will not fall off.

@zikekounreal4454

6 жыл бұрын

u dont get it dont u?

@bruh_itz_nuam7133

6 жыл бұрын

Nawaf Almadi sameee

Ok, who started cutting damn onions?

@MehrzadKhaksar

7 жыл бұрын

i need to punch some walls to feel manly again

@Sinic818

7 жыл бұрын

It's those ninjas

@Aprilluvv

7 жыл бұрын

They at that onion cuttin AGAIN over here too!! Damn Ninja 's!! 😭😭😭😭

@sayannieishere8921

6 жыл бұрын

*slows down cutting* I'm sorry, it's starting to hurt my eyes too ;-;

@LaCasitaTampa

6 жыл бұрын

voya so many onions

That part where the dad says he's thankful for showing his son how his mother is to be loved... that was purely deep.

The Father's are who struck my soul! Soulful. Honor. Dignity. Respect.

F this. this made me cry. I'm a proud stepdad

@ccMomOfJays

7 жыл бұрын

iSaiah Freehling Proud Dad

@mricecream5194

6 жыл бұрын

Don't rape that kid

@corygeorge4029

6 жыл бұрын

And what made you come out of your face to say that?

Is SoulPancake sponsored by Kleenex? If not, they should be.

@andreweverett

7 жыл бұрын

weenermeat I'm not crying, you're crying!

@kandywaffle

7 жыл бұрын

I was crying and then I busted out laughing at your comment!

@ricorecklezz7687

7 жыл бұрын

for some reason I was thinking a dick beating joke

@jeyonce9501

7 жыл бұрын

It was a hard fap but I arised victorious!

@jussiaho828

7 жыл бұрын

Rico Recklezz Ey boy..... U aint Rico. Dont fxkin take his name ya got it?

😭😭😭😭 THIS IS ONE OF THE MOST BEAUTIFUL THINGS I'VE EVER SEEN!!! ❤❤❤❤ GOD BLESS YOU ALL!!!

This is great but this is not the typical scenario with blended families

@concepcionledezma5027

5 жыл бұрын

Double Amen to that! This video is total fantasy.

@esotherwiseotherwise9927

4 жыл бұрын

FACTS.

@nathalyacosta375

4 жыл бұрын

I agree, but it's a great example to follow and to reflect on. I myself am a mother of two girls and divorced. When my ex decided to re marry the only thing I could think of is, I hope she is a wonderful women not just for him bit because it meant that my daughters would have someone wonderful too. We just need to stop being self centered and learn to let go of what it's not ours and learn to love unconditionally.

@blveberriez9190

4 жыл бұрын

true... i still wanna kill my moms boyfriend

@tammiepage6489

4 жыл бұрын

Believe it or not it has and can happen no it doesn’t happen that much but it can better do more research on it because there are cases that everyone gets along

what the hell! my stepparents and parents aint like this lmaooo

@tamarabrunson9022

6 жыл бұрын

WizOfTime ikr 😂😂

@leo-pf3fk

6 жыл бұрын

+Malaya Buena same, verbally and also literally

@madilopez6384

6 жыл бұрын

My parents would pull out the belts and start smacking each other

@isiahvasquez4019

6 жыл бұрын

FORALLLL

@leonoratesoro2586

6 жыл бұрын

You all this is just 5 min.I don't think they are perfect in real world.lol

Such endearing video . there is a lot of broken homes, and this video is showing us that it doesn't need to be broken. Families can be United. Unity of the world will start at the home.

@johnsnow9210

8 жыл бұрын

+Sina Serati well said indeed!

@christophergeorge5077

7 жыл бұрын

Do you knoooow what YOUR man is thinking? twitter.com/ab4430b5907a80421/status/822777194636152832

@tomtaylor4537

7 жыл бұрын

Is that Tyler the creators dad

@xXRAVENSx52Xx

7 жыл бұрын

When i first seen him thats who i was thinking of hahahaha

This was so beautiful. It made me tear up before they had their face to face with each other. That was so lovely what the dad said to the step dad.😢☺

This needs to be on TV as a series!!!!! People need these examples.

I'm so grateful God gave my mother a husband after my father left and he gave me an amazing step dad who I believe was meant to be my father all along.

@jordansmom143

8 жыл бұрын

this is great. my biological dad isn't really a dad but I was able to have a man in my life that I consider my dad. he was amazing and he was supposed to be my dad all along. unfortunately he passed away. I miss him.

@sabriasasalinas

8 жыл бұрын

im sorry to hear that, im hglad you got to have that though RIP

@sharos2168

7 жыл бұрын

Bria R. I'm glad that you & jordansmom143 were able to have great stepdads. There are so many horror stories out there that they get a bad rap.

@ambersbamber7739

7 жыл бұрын

Bria R. Sometimes that happens. Your put on the would then fate brings the right family to you. I hope u have a amazing life with your mother and father.

@lilymay1591

7 жыл бұрын

Bria R. Omg this is exactly my life to ! Xx

Oh I love my step dad. I love him more than my real dad. I didnt accept him at first but he was a trooper. He is the only parent that went to my PTA meetings. Took me to and from sleepovers, picked me up from school sick. Drool and snotted all over him as he rub my back while I had a very bad upper respiratory infection. Took me to the hospital as I had a hard time breathing. Held me as I cried over my first heart break. Taught me how to drive. Never once did he tell me he my dad or that I was his daughter. He didnt have to, he just showed it. I gladly call him dad cuz he earned it.

@eliltak1688

6 жыл бұрын

Aww that is touching❤

@kammarj7164

6 жыл бұрын

this made me cry. im so glad you have someone like that for you. that's so pure:')

@zach2649

6 жыл бұрын

That is so awesome

@KatalovesLinkinPark

6 жыл бұрын

this teared me up. thank you

@collegefootballnut9556

6 жыл бұрын

mitsukipuki

So much respect for all of them. That boy, together with all his other siblings are loved above and beyond. Beautiful family.

This is so lovely wish we all could be like this so the children involved in divorce are not torn apart !

how can people thumb down this video. must be bitter people.

@cessw2308

7 жыл бұрын

people who didn't listen to the story but only saw interracial relationship perhaps

@libertygantner5190

7 жыл бұрын

When my parents got divorced it was the opposite of this. My mom and at that time step mom were okay with eachother but my dad hated my stepdad. I will say that this video did upset me because I didn't have this but I'm happy that that kid is going to grow up with so much love in his life. I wish them the best.😊

@shayanabtahi9670

7 жыл бұрын

Mahagony1985 same my dad hates my stepdad and it's hard cuz I feel like I am betraying my dad by also loving my stepdad even though I love them both

@bayleepena2062

7 жыл бұрын

Shayan Abtahi I read yours and the other people above you's posts and it makes me feel so sad, because I also can relate. I'm angry bc I always wanted what the little boy has. And be able to see my parents in the same room together at least once, bc I never have, I was 1 when they divorced and the wars between them began, but this also makes me so happy because that boy will grow up with love and he will be one of the lucky few who maybe won't have to deal with depression or feeling of emptiness not having a certain parent in his life or growing up around so much hatred. This video was so amazing❤️ makes me certain my kids will never have to grow up In a household with divorced parents, and if they ever did, I would be certain there is no hatred.

@SuperAyaj

7 жыл бұрын

My BF is divorced with a son of 11 yrs old. The kid lives with his mom. I am going to be a step mother too in the future. I am unsure about how the kid will take it. I only want him to be happy. What would a boy of this age expect from all this situation? What advice will you give to a step mom?

Sadly this isn't the majority...

@briggs9187

7 жыл бұрын

This is .00000001% of step Parents... the biggest issue is they simply want to continue their relationship (Parents) when they are with someone else. So sad, but glad it is working for these people.

Truly genuine and heartwarming, I love when this pops into my feed I will watch it forever.

This was incredibly heartfelt and left me with the warmest feeling. Such a great family, such great values

the husbands got way more emotional than the wives

@xCosmicMuffinManx

7 жыл бұрын

Cris Zamora lol

@KompletterGeist

7 жыл бұрын

cuz women tend to fake how they act. You could also tell that the wife's letter was just cheesy, whereas the husband's letter was real talk and came from the heart

@acertainanimeindex420

7 жыл бұрын

Cris Zamora my stepdad cried for a day straight when i finally accepted him and asked him to adopt me...men hide alot

@oliviaplayer8039

7 жыл бұрын

Mothers typically get more custody of children

@K84r7

7 жыл бұрын

Men are more loving than women . Fact

Well, I wasn't expecting to cry.... but i did 😂😭💙

@JBella-pq2qi

7 жыл бұрын

Lali F. Me too 😂

@beyond2766

7 жыл бұрын

Oh Wait. W

@hauwakulumaijidahhassan1154

7 жыл бұрын

Lali F. truss

@bukunmiawofisayo506

7 жыл бұрын

Lali F. I didn't even know I was crying until I felt the tears on my legs 😭😭😭

@dianakrueziu

7 жыл бұрын

Lali F. Sameeee I'm like crying an ocean

That was raw and yet the most beautiful thing Ive ever ssen.. Blessings to all of you.

This makes me smile from the deepest part of my soul. It gives me such hope. Thank you, Jamey, Jason, Tara and Natasha ❤

they should all get married, four parent family haha

@alexlg9521

6 жыл бұрын

OrcaPlayz It already looks like one big happy family to me! 💓

@phuongnghi8283

6 жыл бұрын

OrcaPlayz they should all live in the same house too

@pewpiedeetown7721

6 жыл бұрын

polyamorous icons

Any man can be a Father. It takes a real man to be a Dad.

@kidgrunge9607

7 жыл бұрын

Zstray17 i think its the other way around but i agree

@lauren.7267

7 жыл бұрын

The two words are synonyms...

@kidgrunge9607

7 жыл бұрын

Lauren. i know but I'd rather have a father than a dad. A dad to me can be anyone around a child but a father is someone who takes care of that child even if they are not blood related. but thats just me lol

@TheHEROFamily

7 жыл бұрын

Zstray17 you have that saying backwards. any man with a dick can be a dad but it takes a real man to be a father.

@cornyado_9383

7 жыл бұрын

straight from tumblr

wow, this is powerful stuff. In a world that seems so divided by hate, it feeds the soul to see such love and respect shown to each other.

They found the perfect couple- you can feeel the LOVE with them

This is what happens when educated, loving, intelligent people co-parent, this was a blessing to watch, good for all of them.

I wish my parents had sat down like this and did this. I had a tough time growing up because of so much tension and fighting :(

@evohei

7 жыл бұрын

Helene Im 12 years old and i've been a victim of over 5 divorces. stay strong💪

@helene6686

7 жыл бұрын

+evoevolution aww man I'm so sorry you had to go through that in your life💔

@JBella-pq2qi

7 жыл бұрын

Helene me too . But between my grandma and mom because they both raised me

@KateCirque

7 жыл бұрын

I agree, I dread the day i ever get married, will end up being the worst day of my life because of parent conflict.

Tears have flowed freely... this is so beautiful! Lessons worth picking..to always put the best interests of the children before our feelings for each other as co-parents! Love it!!

So much respect to the parents for their MATURITY. It could all be so beautiful and peaceful if folks just acted maturely.

Soul Pancake for the Christmas Eve tears!

This is about loving your children. These parents are awesome.

Its so beautiful to see them cooperating so kindly and respectfully. It really sets a good example and environment for the children as they grow up :) I love it

Wow hope this goes viral. There are a lot of people out there that hold there anger and it affects the children. It can work. This is so beautiful. Thank you for sharing and filling my heart with joy.

The stepparents are gorgeous

@thelazyhuntress

7 жыл бұрын

lmao in a perfect world they are. Not all of them can be that great

In a perfect world everyone is a parent of every kid.

@safaaclermont1560

7 жыл бұрын

Vlad Kostin this is really how I feel

Wow this made me cry😩 Oh how lucky & loved this little boy is🥰 God bless this blended family. What a blessing

😭 the is so Beautiful. It's all about the children. We need more of this in the world. 🙏

the stepmom reminds me of annika from the show empire

@its_miriamdawg

7 жыл бұрын

Myklo Alias yaaassss!!!!

@blastoisemetapod

6 жыл бұрын

same

@camilleholliday6972

6 жыл бұрын

Myklo Alias omg I was thinking the same thing

@typhanieberry3361

6 жыл бұрын

Child yesss. I had to blink my eyes a few times cause I don't have my glasses on

When the dad was talking to the stepdad, I broke into tears like crazzzyyy

So beautiful to see grown men cry with so much joy....bless them.

You all are so blessed to have each other. Thank you for sharing. What a beautiful family.Those children are extremely blessed.

oh wow that's like the ideal divorce sadly that's not always the case my best friend's dad basically abandoned her, because he found a new woman, who has kids. he's gonna marry that chick and kick out my best friend. his own, 17 year old daughter.

@TheRaveyBabyy

6 жыл бұрын

apple crumble happened to me happened to my sis now happening to my little sis shes 9 sadly... this is ideal saaaadlllyyy

@squishieicecreamzsoo3207

6 жыл бұрын

apple crumble That thing is not a human that is an animal.

@illestkid236

6 жыл бұрын

happened to me too except at the beginning it was literal physical abandonment and now we're all living together and it's emotional abandonment bc he's more invested in her feelings and keeping her from throwing tantrums than anything else

@bobbyc.1111

6 жыл бұрын

sad divorce to decent people shouldn't need a divorce. It splits the fam. When there is harmful disfunctions we need a divorce. its sad in this case. glad they get along but it is sad.

THE DAD PART

Tears.... this is so beautiful... you guys are some beautiful loving people. ❤️

This is so beautiful to watch. And the man cried, aww!

as a step parent myself, this is by far one of the most inspiring and loving videos i have ever seen. My step daughters father came to me one time and thanked me for everything i ever did for his daughter. That was truly one of the best moments ever in my life.

it seems like they each remarried copies of their ex. odd.

@anfalassaqa-5

7 жыл бұрын

Julie Ayton Yates that's what i was thinking exactly

@LexieNicole24

7 жыл бұрын

maybe they just both have a "type"

@SlowMotionStylez

7 жыл бұрын

It is common for Humans who had a good realationship with their parents. That those persons, automatically choose a partner who looks a bit like their parents. So if the man had a great realationship with his mom, then he would more likely chooes a partner who looks, act, behave or sounds bit like his mother. 60-70% Men 30-40% Women It is most likely not because he/she finds it attractive. It is more about, feeling safe an protected.

@scarydrake67

7 жыл бұрын

Pheeraphon Kabbun Oedipus Complex

@lyrae2469

6 жыл бұрын

Juicy Box OEDIPUS IM WHEEZING

This is so beautiful 😥😥😥 That little boy is so blessed!!!

that is the sweetest, most heartfelt thing I've seen in so long!

my parents and step parents would never do this they hate each other they say they don't but they really do I truly wish my parents did this... when I get married I will never put my kids through what my parents put me through.

@karvast5726

6 жыл бұрын

Mybparents don't argue anymore but what really sucks is all the stories even some that i can remenber because i was there,and the thing that really suck is that i love them equally and that my mom keep saying bad thing anout him,and i don't even know what to think for if he deserve it or not,and i huess there isn't any answer,also when i hear that all other students in my class that their parentd are married and i say that mine are divorced and once some people asked me if ot was not hard and i said that i was maybe 4 when it happened do in fact i don't even remnber or just sligtly how it was before,i'm not bad about it but it just suck.

@collegefootballnut9556

6 жыл бұрын

Funny Everlasting Skits .

@markusseiler2693

6 жыл бұрын

SCP-087 just remember it is perfectly normal for them to not get along, when relationships (especially a marriage) end there will always be certain feelings that "muddy the waters" so to speak, but it is also perfectly normal for you to love them both, when you get older ask both of them for there sides of the story, and come to your own conclusion. My father abandoned my family when I was two, and for most of my life no one would speak about him except for in negative ways, so when I moved out at 18 I tracked him down, and started talking to him, eventually I got his side of the story and found his reasoning for leaving to be inadequate, and I hated him for the longest time, but as I got older I began to realize that I couldn't go around holding on to that hatred, it was ruining my life. So I did the only thing I could think of, i tried to forgive him; except I never got the chance as he committed suicide before I could. Now everyday I feel horrible for how things turned out, and i wish I had just one more chance to see him and tell him that I forgive him. I guess the point I'm trying to make is whoever was at fault for the divorce, you don't have to hate them for it, as in my experience that is no way to live. Love your family with every ounce of your being, as they're the only one you have, and this is the only shot at life we get.

@karvast5726

6 жыл бұрын

Markus Seiler thank you,pretty sad story...

@markusseiler2693

6 жыл бұрын

SCP-087 my only hope is that others can learn from my mistakes, life is too short for trivial things like hatred, thank you for taking the time to read my story, and if you ever need to talk about things, I'm sure your family is there for you, and if not myself and/or others like me are always there when needed. Have a great day and DFTBA.

The step mom looks like Anika from Empire

@elle2368

7 жыл бұрын

SOOO TRU.......LoL XD

@flowerbit4137

7 жыл бұрын

Hanna S. yes! I saw her and I was like "omg it's boo boo kitty"

@tolua7255

7 жыл бұрын

Hanna S. I wasn't the only one that noticed 😂

@kaydani5520

7 жыл бұрын

Hanna S. Anika straight pimping huh 😂

@jamadi4501

7 жыл бұрын

yessss and shes preggo with bella 😂😂

This broke me. As a young stepmom, it's amazing to see more families getting along for the kids

This made me cry... man the dad was really genuine and very impressive to see him have so much respect and admiration for the stepdad.

I DIDN'T SIGN THE PERMISSION SLIP FOR THIS FEELS TRIP

@axelleamani9025

7 жыл бұрын

SAME

My divorce was final November 16th. My ex husband bringing a woman around our son has been an extreme struggle for me. There are so many different feelings involved in something like this. This video helped open my eyes. ❤

This just makes me miss my stepdad a ton. He was so sweet, and so dear.

This is so special and so lovely. There have been many divorces in my family, some quite yucky some quite decent. These folks have aspired to be outside of the ugly they have successfully risen above the petty. Thank you soul pancake from my heart to yours. Blessings be