If you want to be charitable, be charitable with your own money.

so he basically stole money from his own friends to give to a person he didn't know? this is way too extreme. i understand that he wants to do good deeds but one, it's not always about giving money. he could help those people by helping find a job or sell whatever they sell. two, you can't just be giving money away and not get it back, you put yourself and your friends in uncomfortable situations. tbh I'm surprised they stay friends with him if it's that extreme.

@lol99443

6 жыл бұрын

merry chrysler k

@kpopairconditioner8552

6 жыл бұрын

I'm actually pissed off rn

@samantha1299

6 жыл бұрын

Kpop Air Conditioner same, he does the absolute most. like who gives ALL their money to buy things

@Kaito-xb3en

6 жыл бұрын

I know....he can donate from his paycheck every month or join a community type of work...and not to be rude but people can get advantage from people like him...i have seen many "poor" people lying that they don't have money while they own a house and so on...of course, if you see a person really in need, don't ignore them.

@samantha1299

6 жыл бұрын

Kaito ikr, he has good intentions and a great heart but the way he does things is just too much

*Wise words* , *Help out those in need as long as you can afford to do so* . *I hope he learned something from this, you really should respect your friends*

This is a perfect example of pathological altruism. This guys "good deeds" are about his ego and his perceptions of himself through the eyes of others (narcissistic altruism). He may be helping those in need, but he's doing it at the expense of his friends, which just results in unanticipated harm to himself AND his friends. These sorts of good deeds are empty, because they don't truly help the people who are in need. Plus, he literally stole money from his own friends to give to strangers. He could've helped those strangers sell their wares or he could've used his social media following to attract attention to the people selling their wares. This guy needs to re-think his life choices. You can be a helpful, empathetic person without disrespecting (and manipulating) those around you.

@yume2626

6 жыл бұрын

teddymoon ALLLLL OF THIS. Youngja saw through his shit halfway and voiced out at him. Shoutout to his loyal friends for sticking to him but they deserve better than to be disrespected like this.

@otakucute1589

6 жыл бұрын

agree

@wolfkanna9983

4 жыл бұрын

how do you know its about his ego?

@janisgay5507

Жыл бұрын

I agree. there is a pathological element to his behavior.

I guess too many good deeds aren't always good.

@SerenaPro

6 жыл бұрын

Kaitlyn Page A good deed never goes unpunished.

@AlitaNNika

5 жыл бұрын

You know there is something like that, if you are in need maybe it will be too hard for you, but you would work hard with your all power. It makes you stronger. He doesn't make good job everytime, just giving money to someone. I mean everyone has gone through rough time, but you will force and someday you will be succesful. But if anyone just helps you, you will not learn anything from life

He stole their money. He owes his friends a lot of money...

This just proves that Anything too much is bad,... keep things moderately. That's how i live 😂

@otakucute1589

6 жыл бұрын

AhgaseForLife- Markjinbaby agree !!

helping is not bad but you need a limitation too

Can we please have Kim Yeonkyoung on this show all the time. Her experssions and body language are gold and shes about to go straight middle defender on this kid.

This dude is naive, his happy to give anything to anyone that spins him a story. But unfortunately for him, he will realize that his friends are there for him now but won't be soon and when he really needs them or anyone there will be no one around and all those strangers he helped won't be there to help him. As the saying goes "Charity starts at home" if you aren't considerate to the people around you and the people you love, what good is it to be considerate to strangers.

@ajbear9534

6 жыл бұрын

Robyn Baartman like wat u said at the end...wise...

I mean he’s nice for doing so and helping those in need, but he shouldn’t be forcing his friends to do so too cause what if his friends are in a financial bind too or in debt...like sure they would save up a bit to go out and eat but still they could be only using only a bit of that money and save up the rest you never know their situation and why they wouldn’t want to give away such a huge amount of money.

This friend is problematic in many ways. Good thing he still have friends tolerating his shit.

i'm glad they didn't leave him and rather find any solution that would help him out of his "bad" behaviours towards his best friends, THIS IS WHAT THE REAL DEFINITION OF WHAT BEST FRIEND IS!

What a selfless act. It's good to give but save some for yourself because you're giving all what you have to help but in the end you're the one ending to be in need.

His friends are definitely real ones, better than me….instead of dropping him they are trying to get him to take responsibility for his issues. That’s a good deed in itself from their hearts. Not every good deed has to do with money. They are taking time out their day putting all they business out in the world just for him to be able to change so they can continue being friends because they care.

theres a possibility that he will burden his wife if he got married. there was a concern like that b4. being nice to others but ignoring his own family .

to be honest, i love doing good deeds too. there's always a part of my salary that goes to animal rescue shelters or taking care of the environment or i buy stuff with proceeds that go to helping sick people or poor or uneducated. it's always a good feeling, really... :) but helping should come from the heart and should not because there's a guilt feeling inside you when you don't do it. helping shouldn't feel like it's an obligation or a moral standard. because if that's your reason for helping, then you aren't helping at all. you're just satisfying your need to be so-called, "right"...

My dad is like that. He helps a lot of people by lending them money. The things is, they always end up running away and not paying back their debt. Now he's the one in huge debt. I say he, because my mom who is living oversees just to make ends meet was so fed up that she left him and took me away. He didn't even support me through my high school and college years. Now we all know that college is expensive. And my mom supported me on her own. I have been living on my own for 8 years and was forced to become independent ever since I was 12 (Although other relatives supported me and stuff) Now I just feel sad for the good friend.

Seriously,would you like to be my friend instead😂😂😂😂,he has such good friends and that dude is really being a hypocrite;I hope he changes his ways soon,before he ends up losing all of his awesome friends

So disappointed he couldn't understand his friends' concern at the end. They should drop him as a friend, it's clear where his priorities are.

Plzz bring back the full version and if so plzz make it available in other countries thank youu

@lillieanne9482

6 жыл бұрын

Omo it's a daveed.

@circlerie

6 жыл бұрын

They’ll upload the full ep after a week or two

He's a hypocrite and selfish. Sure it's good to help others in need, but not at the expense of others, in this case his friends. He's going around giving away money which is fine as long as it's his money/time and he doesn't ask or depend on his friends to bail him out. The problem is he does depend on his friends and he's putting unnecessary burden on them. He might feel good about this show of being generous monetarily to those he views as are in need, but in the process, he makes his friends feel bad and resentful for putting them in awkward situations. He doesn't stop to think nor consider whether whenever he takes his friends' money to give away that they might need it for something else. Also, he's ungrateful for the times his friends helped him out and takes for granted that they're always going to be there for him. There are ways to help the needy without necessarily giving away foolishly his nor his friends' money. He can volunteer his time in the soup kitchen, orphanage, facilities for the aged or disabled, either help charities with fundraising or start up his own.

@vickyd4071

5 жыл бұрын

Preach!!🙏This comment made my night

He keeps saying, "My friends should understand." But if HE is a good friend, he should understand his friends' perspective. Everything is his way of thinking.

It’s similar to people who force their religion on you and try to tell you what they believe is right. I’ve had to leave behind a few religious friends because they couldn’t accept my beliefs and I feel like he’s doing the same thing, forcing his friends to do what he thinks is “right” Having your own beliefs is completely fine as long as you’re not forcing them on anyone or hurting anyone else, which is exactly what he’s doing.

When Yeong Jae starts giggling you know she finna spit fax 🥵👊

i swear both the dude and the old man are frustrating xD ps: he need to realize soon that forcing his friends to do what HE wants to do is never good and that he's going to lose them if he continues to do so

This guy is unbelievable. I understand he's helping others in need, but if he can't even handle his own things and monetary issues he shouldn't be trying to help others. If he has the resources and such, yes, helping all the homeless and poor would be great. But in this case he is technically stealing money from his friends (whose parents work to earn that money), and forcing them to follow his ideals. By trying to help others, he's causing inconvenience to the people around him.

That sunbaenim can make friends with this dude, and i shall just leave this guy. He should feel a sense of betrayal so that he can understand why this is a concern,just like yeongja says, stop making your friends the bad guy and you the good guy for that sense of pride or praise

I'm concerned. They wasn't able to convince the guy that he is actually stealing money from his friends. Poor them.

He's not doing a good deed.he's just showing off,to be praised and acknowledge by other people and getting praised makes him feel good.

I believe that whether "good" or "bad", go ahead and do whatever it is that makes you happy, AS LONG AS you don't cause any trouble for anyone else..

It's not a good deed if you're infringing on someone else's right. I think that rule has helped me understand and discern how to deal with people like this. Whether he wanted to admit it or not, he got defensive when Yeongja pointed out that he did that for his own gratification and sense of self satisfaction. I think he's gotten addicted to the feeling of gratification that he's just being selfish with how he thinks his friends should handle their money. He just needs to stop being selfish and mind his own business. He's just stealing money from his friends and thinks its okay because its charity.

제일 화나는건 남의 돈으로 생색낸다는거. 좋은일도 자기돈으로 하는거지 남의돈으로 하면 도둑임.

@user-mz1ui7un8c

2 жыл бұрын

ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ내용보다 다 영어인데 알아들을수있어서 방갑네

A friend has generous heart. What you give you received. That's what I believed. But don't forced your friends cause not everybody is same. May God bless you.

What u sow is what u reap.. This kind man will have a good fullest life in future ^^

I'M SO SHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOK

Helping others is good. But firstly we have to pay attention and help people closest to us like family and friends and then help others who needs. Because you don't wanna see them suffer, right? You wanna see them happy and live well. It's wrong to upsets and hurt our friends or even ourselves​ to help others. Help as much as *you* can as long as you don't become broke and suffer and be the one who need others help

The world runs on money, be careful and don't be a push over

Helping others but in the same time make trouble to others. It is not a good deed at all. Sigh.

I love that guy he is so carrying

He should just volunteer. You don’t have to use money and you feel the same satisfaction of helping

If anyone believes in luck.. if anyone believes there is someone over us watching all time than this man will be blessed.. Money is like river. It constantly flows.. what he said someday it will come back and indeed it will come back in him life.. Such generous young man.. life will be generous to him someday... Don't worry what other has to say.. Be good and do good..

There's a difference between temporary help and providing opportunities. Nothing he's doing has sustainability, and he seems to have a superiority complex.

its okay to be nice and all but forcing your friends to do what you want them to do isnt okay. its technically stealing money which isnt really good.

착함? 아니 멍청함.. 내 주변 사람을 무시하고 자기 고집대로 사는 고집불통에 염치도 없을 뿐더러 뻔뻔하기 그지없음 친구라는게 저 사람앞에서는 죄인이 될 수 있음을 새겨야 함 멈청하고 나쁜사람임..

There are some individuals who cannot avoid(or neglect) helping others and they're called altruistic. Someone who is altruistic always puts others first, regardless of the impact it might have on his or herself. Based on what he said 'I am not doing it for my own good' clearly he is not doing it for self-satisfaction but he just simply told them the feeling of being able to help others and wanted to share that feeling to his friends but he did not say that it was his purpose. Plus he is sincerely helping them because he and his family also experience and felt that kind of helplessness. Also to add, some people don't have the courage to ask for their money back. Idk, but Its just the way who they are. Its okay for them if you pay back or not. The only downside is that he is forcing his friends to do the same. I hope he'll realize that not all people in this world have the same heart as he is. 🙏

He want to help others and share, yet he takes/steals from his friends?? How is that helping the friends - it’s just bringing them to trouble. He could help in many other ways than money: volunteer work, helping others find work, cook cheap but healthy meals and share out, donate his own stuff, start fonds ect. Just giving away money isn’t the answer.

love this show lots 1st comment whoop

I would like a friend like that though. Gives me the influence to be a good person😅

you can tell that the guy has a really good heart and stuff lol, wanting to give to those who have nothing....but he should definitely tone it down and definitely not force his friends into doing it also :|

Im so speechless !

If he is so so so nice, he would realise how bad is it to borrow money from his close friends (sometimes without permission) and NOT RETURN IT. He thinks he's doing good deeds for other people but all he's doing is just for his satisfaction. Real good deed comes from the heart, not from other people's expense.

His friend should not be mad if he give his gift to other people. Thats just mindset of society. Actually if you give something to your friend, it become his things. Not yours again. So it depens on him about what he will do for that gift. There is no moral obligation to keep it. How people use their gift may be different right?

I like your show. I am a notorious regifter. If I can't use something, I pass it along. I tell people I do that. I think he is addicted to giving. It feels like bliss. I know, because I like to give away food. In times past, there were people like him. It was considered sacred. It is wrong to force anyone to do anything, because their path is different. Also, you should not ask him to hold money.

Good deed, bad execution

Oh no the old man is boosting that guy's ego so he doesn't understand what he did wrong

He could be a saint and his friends too

Am I the only one who like what he do it's their friend they understand him hope he is okay now

Well good deeds is not always money.. smile to others is considered good deeds too.. well it’s good that you can give money but just give money to the other that need money not because you pity them.. and always be good to your surroundings before to the other people

off topic but the guy that send this concern is lowkey cute tho 😂

Give a hungry man a fish he's good for a day..teach a hungry man to fish he's good for a lifetime. Had he not heard this saying? Or at least something similar

If he wants his friends to feel that satisfaction he gets after helping others out then the more they won’t get that feeling if he forces it on them. They should have consent...

First of all he doesn’t understand what charitable means! It’s not just about giving money, you have to give them dignity! What Dongyeop said is correct, if you give out of pity, they will probably not feel happy. They need dignity, not your pity.

It’s good to help others in need, but if you don’t have the enough money to sustain yourself don’t do it. Also, don’t push the others....

u can help others not only with money

wow this guy omg i cannot take it..he is being selfish and doing it for his own self satisfaction and glory without caring for the ppl ard him that actually cares about him...the fact that he has friends is amazing...they shld all just leave him

I don’t see why this is not a concern to that old man.. like it’s not about the money.. that guy put his friends in an awkward situation just to satisfy himself for doing a good deeds..

Because a guy like this, there are so many scam and fake people..do u know they got more money than you? Even 1day they can get about 1000, in my country they are so many fake people that ask for money..and they say for 1 day they can get atleast 1000, and more worst thing happen.. When children die and... Haihh you can search and seen how bad it was..

@c.c2466

5 жыл бұрын

ikr? He is just way too naive .

submitter is cute

@otakucute1589

6 жыл бұрын

Kaname Aoyama yes yes~

I admire that he wants to go out of his way to help others but shouldn't he ask his friends first instead of taking from them and passing it to someone he doesn't know because it wouldn't look right if they took from him and passed it to someone else they didn't know especially without their permisson in the first place :/

this guy's need to help others is a compulsion that is bordering on out of control but I get it. he must have low self esteem to the point that he feels worthless if he's not doing something in service of others. Forcing hiss friends to do the same is problematic, but the pat that infuriates me is when he takes his friends' gifts full of their sincerity and gives it away like it's nothing. That's really horrible.

I wish this guy has all the money of top 10 billionaires and his friends remain with him forever.

Hus act of giving should be applause. Sadly he did not hv a guidance on how to do it. At the end of the day he and ppl around him suffer. If he eant to do good eso to the needy he can always put aside remainder of his expenses. Say $50. Per month. If he meet someone tt deserve to help do not give all. Give some. And the remainder he can hive to other needy ppl. But if have used ip all his fonation money and if he mmet someone tt need help do not feel guilty for not giving but with a sincere smile and good encouraging word tt is more than enough.

Being generous is ONLY truly generous when you are not causing others harm by your giving. This includes giving time as well as other resources. There is a way to give responsibly, but this man...this man is a very irresponsible "giver." It is just as important to receive well as to give well. You have to consider how others would feel if you gave a gift, or received a gift. giving away something that was meant for your mom to a random stranger....Did you have to give the whole box? You could have shared just 1, not the whole thing. What a slap in the face to his friend and his friend's mom.

선행은 좋은것이지만 . 강요해서는 안된다. 저건 문제다. 자기 거 챙기면서 한다면 몰라도 빚지면서 하는건.. 김장훈님 꼴 나는것같다.

He s a thief and doesn t understand he has done anything wrong ? Some people are beyond saving

what if his mother gave him a gift like a very expensive jacket, he wears it outside then he sees a friend shivering and is very cold then he gives his jacket. he's doing good things but sometimes he takes it too far.

Just how much homeless people are there in Korea, that man just gives money to them. I am just shocked. I help to anyone in need,but if I can afford it. But this man just doesn't know what is okay, what is not. It is maddening

my mom says that if you do good things for others, you'll be happy and in the future good things will happen to you THIS however, is wayyyy too much. every once in a while I'd give a homeless person a dollar or two but that's it. you never know what they'll use the money for. the best way is to donate to those organizations that support the homeless. that way, at least you know what your money is being used for good. there are other ways to help too. i'm not sure how bad the homeless situation is in korea but they should be able to donate things like clothes and canned foods? if he thinks that nothing really belongs to anyone (which makes sense in a way but that's not really the smartest mindset to have) then he should have no problem donating clothes, shoes, etc.

His friend who send this concern has a face as an actor

I miss Taejoon oppa very much! :( Who is that male guest celebrity in a light blue shirt (who sat beside the pink guy)? He has very nice n warm smile! Wow wow.... :)

@ciarat8813

6 жыл бұрын

fml3131 he’s an actor

@fml3131

6 жыл бұрын

Ciara T ....Oh i checked him out already! Choi Jungwon. He is soooo Hot and manly! "Saranghae Jungwon oppa!" Lol! (Sorry, Taejoon oppa! 😅)

I started watching this with sympathy for the friend but it's quite disappointing to hear what the friend had to say at the end... He simply repeats the same line that he used throughout the whole interview and is self-righteous and doesn't think he has done anything wrong. The fact that he shows no sign of remorse or consideration to his friends at the end means he got nothing out of the show.

I'm honestly like him too but not too much

it's okay if you force me to lend some money but it is not okay when you give others what i gave to you

its better to do good deeds by sacrificing your time, rather than with money. i think he should differentiate the black and white

how is he a good person?.... He's basically stealing from other people to help others and feel good about himself. What if his friends are having a hard time too?? Seriously idk how people can overlook this concern just cuz he's doing "good" deeds

Throw the whole friend away 🙄🙄

@khanghoukamzkk

6 жыл бұрын

Ashlyn Simmons what do u mean ?

@denali2412

6 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@susauelaisa6747

6 жыл бұрын

*THE DOOR ----->🚪 😂😂😂😂😂

@jennylopez9840

6 жыл бұрын

khanghoukamzkk it means just stop being friends with him

@Nothing-iz6hw

5 жыл бұрын

There are so many solutions you can choose, but why you have to leave him? it is just not good at all, like they have already considered him as a best friend not just a friend :/

How can he re-gift a sincere gift. That's pure evil

He can do good deed with his own hard earned money. Stop using his Friends money. Doing good deeds is a good thing but he's treating his friends very badly so how good of a person is he really? I'm surprised he still has these friends.

You help others,but you also need help from others.you are burdening your friends. If you don't change you will lose those people who really care for you ..being kind is good but too kind is not. Some will only take advantage of your silly kindness. If you want to be like that be a monk.

Who are we to judge this man good heart! Ask yourself when have you helped a homeless person?...given food or clothes to the need? He gives without murmuring and complaining. The Bible says " It is better to GIVE than to RECEIVE ! One day I believe God will bless this young man heart. His friend will get his $30 back with interest...with a gift double the price for his jacket. If this young man was my son I would support him. God Bless his heart!

@avrilcadeul3207

6 жыл бұрын

Spunky Ok but at the end he receives the same amount of money he donated because his friends have to give it to him. And also he is giving away money that is not his...

@c.c2466

5 жыл бұрын

A good heart ? Hello?! He gives out his friend's money without THEIR permission ! Is 1000 dollars a small amount for you ?I know doing good deeds are not a crime but he should do it according to his will. Or at least do it with his OWN money so that his friends wouldnt suffer .

We we're born sinners already? Repenting and avoiding for sins is what we needed to do. I think you're not doing the right thing, even if you endlessly give all you've got to others that doesn't mean you'll be ignorant to others. Especially to your family and friends.

This is unrelated but I’m not going to school today yayyyyyyy

(17:29) And do not make your hand [as] chained to your neck or extend it completely and [thereby] become blamed and insolvent.

I didn’t understand one point he said that “he’s isn’t good at asking money back” ok got it but on the other side it’s so easy for him to take his friends money and forced them

By trying to do good deeds it seem he does some bad ones in the process. For example steeling his friends money. He claims to not be selfish but in a way he is selfish.

It's very simple. Don't be friends with this guy anymore. He may need to suffer before realizing his extreme ways was hurtful to his friends. Or that guy will find like-minded people to be friends with.

It's good to help ppl but u yourself need to have the ability to help. Not just ripping off your friends and gave those money to someone you don't even know! I would de-friend this kind of person honestly.

He seems to not understand the meaning of spending within his means. It is not wrong to want to help people, but he must learn how to do things in moderation. My personal opinion is that he likes to do these deeds as he enjoys the feeling of people thanking him and the satisfaction he gets from thinking he s a good person. No doubt he wants to help people, but i feel that helping people is not his main priority. If he really wanted, he should save money and invest or work hard for enough money for him to be able to help more people in the future with his own money, and not the money he takes from his friends.

That man just need to be praised and make his friend lost their money >:(