Dude got an anxiety disorder, he needs something other than hello counselor. Give him an actual therapist please

@jul2447

5 жыл бұрын

He needs to see one himself tho at his own will

@tanzinasyeda

5 жыл бұрын

And then he will be contemplating whether he should go and see his therapist. I agree, he needs to go at his own will.

@sanii7302

3 жыл бұрын

They talk to a proffesional after the show

He actually needs to meet a real psychologist to overcome his weakness though. It seems like he has anxiety.

I feel like he's dealing a lot with anxiety, I think seeking professional help would make him feel better

He has a lot of anxiety. I can relate. I just internalize it too much, and i don’t like burdening people

I used to have the same problem and got scolded a lot and get ignored because of worrying too much even over the small thing, but since those worries got me in trouble with my mother (because of misunderstanding) I start to tell myself to prove to myself that all of my worries weren't true. I understand that people found his behavior silly or annoying then laugh or mad at it, but it wasn't as easy as just get away with all those worries or send less text to his friend. Because his friend who he texted non stop probably the reason he is not depressed. He comforts his worry by texting his friend non-stop and calmed down once his friend says things are going to be alright, meanwhile I choose to write every single worry on my diary when my worries are too much to handle then re-read it to prove my concern was groundless and everything does not happen like I thought it would. Well, I hope he seek some professional help

@lizetteavila4415

5 жыл бұрын

Megan Chynthia Dewi thank you so much for your story bc I am going through the same thing however I suffer anxiety when it comes to school bc I am afraid to make less than an A in college bc then I start to doubt myself and feel pressure that I am not smart enough to even go to school and achieve my goal to go into the medical field. I have suffered from several panic attacks about 3 months ago due to finals and taking classes with non stop hw and exams to the point that I felt ashamed that I would become a failure to my family mostly my dad. Now as the new semester is starting this Monday I can't deny that I do begin to have my doubts about the classes I will take and starting my new job but one thing that really has helped me is listening to instrumental/classical music and I can not tell you how much of a life saver that has been for me. Sorry if this was long lol I just wanted to take this off my chest and the way you wrote about your struggle made me feel comfortable to tell you mine. I hope you have a great day!🙌🌼🍃💛💛💛💛💛

@lourdessilverio9320

5 жыл бұрын

Lizette Avila girl you can do it!!! The fact that you got into university is already a big thing we all love a smart queen!!! Goodluck!!!

@lizetteavila4415

5 жыл бұрын

Lourdes Silverio awww thank you so much I needed that right now bc I just started to work and managing school and it is very stressful but you made feel really amazing thank you so much Love!🙏💛💖💛

@Doggiemix1

5 жыл бұрын

@@lizetteavila4415 Let me tell you a little joke that someone once told me. What is the difference between a doctor that got C grades in med school and a doctor that got A grades in med school? Nothing! They're both doctors! Hope that joke gave you a little laugh. The point is to do your best. It doesn't have to always be straight As.

@meggydc5284

5 жыл бұрын

@@lizetteavila4415 OMG you did great already! I always worry about my grade too back in school, but when I have the melt down infront of my parents they start to worry and shocked that I was pressure to get a great grade. It's good that you could find way to handle all that ❤ instrumental music is indeed relaxing... You go girl!

Sounds like anxiety to me I've been diagnosed with anxiety and watching this is actually making Me realize I actually am alot like him but to a lesser extent. For one i almost never make a decision about what to eat when out with my friends, they always pick for me. Also I will cancel on meetings last minute for stupid reasons "what if this happens" ect. Same with social situations, i can't even order a large fries at McDonald's i always get my friends to order for me. I always cook meat to WELL DONE I'd say I'd rather eat burnt meat than anything even kinda red since I'm worried about if it's actually cooked properly. I also IM SO SCARED of public transportation, specifically getting lost. I definitely feel for this guy and understand him. Living with anxiety isnt easy, it can take over ur life. It seems like he trusts his friends alot, i never tell anyone about all my worries lol I just deal with it myself. But the fact they have put up with him for a long time is amazing to me lol.

@lesoleil400

5 жыл бұрын

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...So....they're making fun of and berating a guy who has crippling anxiety...

I feel so bad for him :'( , the burdens was too heavy that made him become lika that

He is dealing with a lot of anxiety, thinking too much is the worst part in my opinion , it affects you physically and psychologically, you always feel tired, I would suggest everyone dealing with the same problem to engage in activities that requires focus and attention so your mind won't be wandering too much and when you have to make a decision just write yes or no on a paper and ask yourself a question example " Should I date this person ? " Reply yes and if it feels wrong you know the answer is no ... or you can just go with the flow of things and see what happens , stop over thinking is not good.

The brother with glasses is so handsome😍

This is exactly me! (Except the million texts) I worry abt alot of useless things and always think of worse case scenarios.

As always, I cried a lot again.. I think he is a nice guy but yeah we can't control anxiety. I hope he seeks advice to professionals. He is cute tho along with his brotherss. and his friend is sooo nice

I believe the worst thing you have to deal with when you are having a psychological disorder is the others opinions, people would say everything that comes to their minds, what you are wrong at or what you should do to be "normal" but it's hard to find someone who really try to understand you, like everybody said, he has an anxiety disorder but they are making a joke or something less of it, mental health surely is still a tabu in a lot of places so it becomes a worry to look for professional help

The brother with glasses so cuteeee😍😍😍

What's really scary about the situation is that although he is sad and anxious he doesn't show that, instead he let his anger on the closest people around him so maybe he is depressed from the hardship he is been through that is build up on his chest so he is definitely in need of a psychologist or a specialist for his case.

He's kinda cute tho

At the same time I do feel bad for the guy I'm also appalled at how it has turn out for him to not really think more of how others would feel and to be so dependent on the people that do care and keep him grounded. Hello counselor really needs to bring in actual experts because as always such taboo topics appear yet to no avail it really isn't solved but only talked, lightly joked and moved on with advice but never enough to truly fix a situation based on how concerning it and then moved on to the next in my opinion. Many were laughing as well as him but it's gotten to the point where his anxiety literally controls his actions on a day to day basis so much he has become dependent. I do get that point but he aside from that he must learn how others have felt when he never really tries to help his friends as well whether it's a phone call or their personal life and it may be hard (I've been in this position throughout my life keeping it in only grounding myself which isn't really good but as well becoming too comfortable in that nature can be bad as well) but I hope he overcomes it and build more of stronger friendships and bonds and go reach out to a psychologist. Overall hello counselor should really take seriously of such topics even if it seemed as if it was or joking concern and digging in much deeper as to why and how it happened and much more to at least help him cope with his form of anxiety. It's pretty clear they try to hide in the true concern of it all since it is somewhat "family friendly" and not much of letting raw emotions most times play out on tv but c'mon.

@haleyclark990

5 жыл бұрын

ANG3L B Hello Counselor doesn’t really “fix concerns” but for many it starts them on the path to getting professional help because Hello Counselor helps them to realize how important the issue is or how much it’s interfering with their life.

i watched for 5 minutes and got tired, these concerns need to be taken to a professional not on the show

@susauelaisa6747

5 жыл бұрын

yngi well hopefully through the show the person seeks help. The show only exists to hear out the concerns and help them understand the seriousness of the concern.

I think this need a real expert. People may thought it as silly or feel frustrated when they listen to his worries but they didn't know that it is stressing for himself too. He just can't control his mind

10 mins then i can’t anymore. he has anxiety. i can’t stand ppl, including the hosts laughed and victim blaming on him.

I wanna know the name of the app that helps people decide. Whenever I go out to eat, I can’t decide what I want and have to flip a coin often times or come back home to make something.

@lavenderlunetta

5 жыл бұрын

Stephanie B just look up choice randomizer, something should come up :)

@stephy333

5 жыл бұрын

kins thank you 🙂

Oh my gosh...poor man. :( I have anxiety as well and i thought mine was bad...but his case is even more serious than mine...he really needs help.

do they not have therapy in Korea?? This is obviously anxiety disorder but no one seems to notice

@Doggiemix1

5 жыл бұрын

Yes they do but people with mental health issues hide their problems if possible because it's a stigma in Korea. Western and European countries are more open about it as they see it like a health issue. Korea kinda see mental health like there's something shameful, embarrassing, and wrong with the person. I think that's why they never mention psychiatrist or physcologists on this show. They never mention words like "alcoholism," "abuse," "disorder," etc. No one brings up seeking professional help.

@Longsotoad

5 жыл бұрын

this is a variety show. theyre not here to diagnose people. If he wants to go to a therapist he needs to take himself there. Not go to a show.

@daddyhoe2189

5 жыл бұрын

@@Longsotoad it's his friend that sent the concern lmao

@Longsotoad

5 жыл бұрын

doesnt make a difference. these people choose to go to the show. they have the option to refuse and go to therapy or whatever.

@judithleexD

5 жыл бұрын

Employers have access to their health records, is what i remember when some people in korea explained it If it shows that you've had mental health issues than it can be harder to find employment Plus it's still seen as something that isn't real. Theyre told to get over it, stop being weak, it's not a big deal, stop exaggerating, there's something wrong with you, why arent you normal. Of course not all are like this, but it has been seen

Dude got less votes than the guy with the long hair. Guess long hair on man is worse hm

@absoluteballs

4 жыл бұрын

If hair is more manly then that should apply to head hair too just saying Also he wasnt rebelling people just weren't accepting and were judging and that's wrong

there are two big groups of worries - real worries and hypothetical worries. real worries are what most people experience, it's a natural response to problems and responsibilities in life. but then there are the hypothetical worries, that seem like they have little chance of happening, stuff that you can't really predict and have no real control over. people with anxiety disorder experience those hypothetical worries overtly. so tldr: this guy needs to see professional help.

@swatibisht4572

3 жыл бұрын

I think so too. He talked for only 1 min and i knew he had anxiety problem. As I have them too, I can relate to it.

Anybody else low key getting anxious just watching this? Lol

Damn I wonder how he did on multiple choice questions on tests or when there weren’t any multiple choice questions.

He is neurotic. Dongyeup is awesome. There is no definite answer in our lives, we all make decision and be responsible for our choices and keep going, doing our best.

The guy with the concern has beautiful skin 😂 Also the overly worried friend kinda looks like Seventeen's Mingyu. But Mingyu is the complete opposite. He just does things without thinking too much & ends up doing something clumsy.

@diahayugalihsari6085

5 жыл бұрын

Well Mingyu is just a clumsy puppy lol

Counselling definitely, to get his life back to normal .

hope he'll be okay soon.. he's amazing as brother of five btw,

yall dont know what anxiety is or?

This is a serious concern..he possibly has anxiety and he's relieving it through his friend

I have seen this kind of person before. It's really hard for him because he always has negative mindset. He always regrets after making a decision. I did suggest that he sees a psychiatrist. But due to his financial issues and his denial, he did not opt to see a psychiatrist. He continues to live his life like this. He sometimes becomes verbally violent due to his sickness. At times, he'll be physically violent.

Anxiety is real deal and is not something can be joked around..it is really hard to us..

As someone who gets anxiety very easily and often, i can relate to how he may feel. I do seek reassurance at times, but only when it's a serious concern, plus I'd like to think most of the time I put my family and friends concerns before my own.. I think that he needs to find another outlet to relieve this stress and anxiety

If he really needs to get it out of his chest there are many things he can do for example he can do a voice recording and just say everything that’s bothering him and later listen to it and see how things turned out and slowly realize that it’s not as bad he thought or he could write it down listen to music anything of the sort

his friend should have another phone only for him...

I don't like how people in the comments sections of hello counselors act like doctors, giving clinical diagnostics to people just through a video. That's such a problematic and dangerous thing, stop doing it guys! Just professionals can give diagnostics to someone. You may think it's anxiety but you're not a doctor to know it

Lol has anyone noticed the guy with the striped shirt(don't know his name)(he's a foreign looking dude)with those wide shoulders lol

I was kinda annoyed of him when he said that he should come first but tbh i can totally relate. I’ve been sending messages to a certain person about my worries, how i feel and such for like four years now. Though I’m not as bad as he is, in my case I only send messages occasionally, like when something happened and such. And i’m just grateful that I have that person in my life. Its good that he also have his friend but he should really limit himself specially when his friend is at work and/or with his girlfriend. He’s also got a life to live, i hope he keep that in mind.

I didn't know Chidi from 'The good place' existed in real life.

Sometimes i really feel bad for him😢

Get this guy to a therapist I’m diagnosed with anxiety and I was the same way when my anxiety was at its worst

i really can relate with this guy??? it took me 3h driving around to find food i want and when i finally decided i might skipped the place and be like "do i really want it should i look again" and ended up buying nothing

Wow, he just like me. I get worried easily, I worry if there's someone recognize me or no, I worry someone badmouthing me, even I worry about my look (this clothes look weird or not on me) And I cant made a fast decision, can't decide about what should I eat now and if i still can't decide i will end up to not eat anything. I also not really like try something new. So, I should prepare what movie i wanna see before i go to cinema. I should know what time and what place before i meet someone. I should decide what food I gonna eat before I go out of the house. I ever take 1-2 hour to made decision about what should I and my boyfriend do on a date, should we watch a movie, or eat, or play bowling, and else. And he always mad at me when i cant made a decision, and now i let him to choose. If there's so many choices (like food court) , i will choose the food or thing that i know or familiar for me, cause i'm too worry to try something new. But, if it's about travel with friends i will not hesitate to decide. Because, I'm not that kind of selfish people. My level is under him 😅

im pretty sure this show is just to see how serious the concern is from multiple people's points of view. im sure they get help later. if you hate this show so much then why watch it?

I'm exactly like him except i don't share my concerns and worries with my friends.

I have the same concern except I'm pretty sure it's just my personality since my mom is identicam, I even got a burn out,.if someone has a magical solution, i'm very curious

i am suffering from anxiety and i can relate with him...:-(

Read the title and already knew it was related to anxiety I RelAte

God I so understand him. I have anxiety and take medication for it but I still anguish over every small choice. Should I go to this area right now? Should I buy this? No, I shouldn't it's too much money. But I like it. But when will you wear it? Ok I won't buy it. *Days later* I'm still thinking of it. I should've gotten it. This goes all the way up to my career choices too.

@jessicaknight6416

5 жыл бұрын

Suloisin B I understand. I really do 😂

Don't mean to sound ungrateful but I noticed that there's alot of delay in the recent updates . I hope that KBS would look into this matter and update on time . Thank you for the hard work .

삼형제가 다 잘생겼네.

youngja looking at taegyun like hes a crispy corn dog HAHAHAH

Anxiety. He should definitely get some professional help. I was diagnosed with a anxiety disorder

What aver it is I'm in love with him i fall for him alrdy.. But he really need physiologist Doctors others wise he is in very dangerous life for himm😘😘😘😍😍😍

I think he will over think sending messages to his friends or not, will they not feel good or not, should he keep that to him self or not. It's an endless struggle, anxiety is just horrible. He needs professional help 💔 hope he is better now 🙏

I worry alot to

What's the name of the app they mentioned around 2 mins into the video plz?

The caption Lol hahaha

@choohah5604

5 жыл бұрын

a mouthful concern ever~~ hahahaha

Bring him to a therapist pleaseeeee

bruh the hosts are just like "you worry too much? just try not to worry" like wtf

Can someone tell me about the app that decides stuff for you? I really need it.

He reminds me of Chidi from the Good Place

My parents tell me that I worry a lot. They need to see this :v

*_Anxiety Disorder._*

This guy is legit me but a tad more extreme.

I have the same thing,he has anxiety.

Woow the man who came (the one who is tired of his anxious friend) looks like a 40 yo DO (from EXO)

Damn soo frustrated watching this. Its obviously anxiety n he need professional help not some kind of promise n that he to face his enxiety alone again. He can fall to depression.

Julian looks younger as he age

14:26 LOL

Im actually almost same like him... now become negative person to everyone... that’s why so fuckin lonely

i dont think hes a freak. i think hes just a soft boy :)

😭😭😭😭

An I thought I worry too much.. But this guy worries about so much more o.o How?

libra culture relates

I feel bad for the poor guy, it seems that he has anxiety issues and needs actual help.

Get that man some anxiety meds! With some therapy for obsessive tendencies

Julien kang or Daniel henny ? Choose one folks .

@Longsotoad

5 жыл бұрын

this is just evil of you

@kangtavenus1236

5 жыл бұрын

鹿J sorry m lost ? What do u mean ?

@Longsotoad

5 жыл бұрын

making us choose between two gods

@kangtavenus1236

5 жыл бұрын

鹿J haha so u can't choose any ?

Lol he’s like me, but I have anxiety disorder so he might too 🤔 I don’t know. But if that’s the case I hope life gets easier for him because IT WILL NEVER GO AND THIS SHOW WONT HELP HIM 😂😐

We're the same😶

wow, these people don't understand how he feel even a little bit. Anxiety disorder is really frustrating. It's serious and not something funny to be laughed at.

Hwangbo look different. She used to be tan

What’s wrong with being gay though. I’m hurt.

I constantly worry about my perky nipples. they're so perky that you can register them as deadly weapons.

Aunt Josephine

As if these people's advices could really work for some reasons. Just humiliating themselves on tv

This show seriously needs to be canceled. None of them are psychiatrists or therapists, they have no educational background or experience with handling these situations.

This friend is very inconsiderate... 🤨

Ak batbolnna hai pahlehi bar msine ladai kar lithi uske bad aaye nahi jise humchamcha kahte the wo bhidobra nahi unko bhi bahubate bol thi sabke samne jabjaunga tomera hal to bura haihar jagahdusmani hogai ghar bahut the pr ghar ab ghus nahi sakta kahi dog hai kahi bilihai sab katne dodenge mera priwar bahut bada hai ok

You need a therapist or else you lost your mind

he needs help ; pls go and see doctor ; I believe there was something happend ; he is always in a trauma

*selfish.indecisive.guy*

@ejc2001

5 жыл бұрын

More like a guy raised in a society that cant recognize the signs of a significant anxiety disorder and where he cant actively try and seek out help because it's too taboo to take care of your mental health so he doesn't even realize how significant the problem is to him and others.

@salma31000

5 жыл бұрын

right ...

@snowangeliquexx

5 жыл бұрын

Selfish. Uncaring. Commentator.

@lavenderlunetta

5 жыл бұрын

can’t say im surprised to see this comment. people who have never had high functioning anxiety will never understand.

I have never seen a more selfish and immature individual than this jerk!! His friend needs to do behavior management and set limits!! Like 9 years ago! To say "I am more important" than his friends police work!?! Totally unbelievable!! He needs professional help, regardless of the cause, or he will have a miserable and friendless life!

@dummydami

5 жыл бұрын

wow its almost like he very probably has a mental disorder that he cant help