People dont understand depression and mental illness. We can throw a hat on and put on a smiling face but be dying on the inside. May God bless her and and all those that are suffering in silence.

@erickacolden692

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, I just touched on that. My heart is so heavy my neighbors are good friends. We met through my youngest daughter and my neighbors granddaughter. Thursday morning my daughter went on Facebook and found out her my neighbors grandson ( brother of the lil girl friends with my daughter) Took his own life, he was in 12th grade. I was sure it was him, but i had and text from neighbor to call. I ran over and I just held my friend, im sorry to get heavy. Put u appear to understand depression and it is a muthafu****

@SebastianBlackwell94

3 жыл бұрын

Yea, I start lacking on my hygiene when my mental health is shit(I have schizophrenia, depression, etc). I was lacking with it for 2wks,but I took a nice long shower yesterday and holy shit I felt soooooooo relived. And im going to the shop to get my hair retwisted cause I'm tired of looking bummy 🤣

@adriennelopez5936

3 жыл бұрын

Yesss 💯 correct

@JayDivfame

3 жыл бұрын

Amen

@erickacolden692

3 жыл бұрын

@@SebastianBlackwell94 yes 😊👏🏿god. My hair needs to be loved on. I too took a long bathe with Mr. Teals and watched 📺 on my phone. I feel a lot better too. Im not sleeping the best yet, but im praying for all of you and plz do the same for me god bless good nite. Ill check in on our group 👌❤💪🏿🙏🏿

On behalf of everyone who has struggled with personal hygiene due to mental illness thank you for helping and not judging. You saved her not just her hair.

@babydidyoueat

3 жыл бұрын

I agree 😖😭♥️

@leighdavis7813

3 жыл бұрын

AMEN Sister ❣️🙏🏾❤️

@Maria_maria412

3 жыл бұрын

Amen!!! ❤️❤️ been there done that

@dimplezpgh

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed!

@laineyerin5801

3 жыл бұрын

Truth

The moment I heard one year, no brushing no washing, I immediately had to come here to tell her it happens to the best of us with depression. No shame. you survived that year, still here with us, that's a celebration. It might just be a really unconventional one🖤🌻

@mapleext

3 ай бұрын

Well said!

@American-Jello

3 ай бұрын

Beautifully stated. ❤️

@taezaj123

3 ай бұрын

Aman Amen...❤❤❤

@zeamaria1

2 ай бұрын

I saw your comment today, and it had me in tears. nice said!🖤

Girl, you ain't no hairdresser, you a miracle worker! Her hair looks GORGEOUS! You got some serious talent.

@NBnNC

6 ай бұрын

And serious patience 😳

Not only did this stylist spend 3 full days working on her hair, it looks like she spent 3 full days TALKING with her client. I'd bet this client is unaccustomed to that, and I'm so happy she's received some of the attention and care she deserves.

@Sweetsrananglobione

3 жыл бұрын

Well said sister😊👍🏽👏🏾

@rivkacampbell677

3 жыл бұрын

Shann I feel she talk today and tomorrow and next day 🙏🏾😇💙❤️✌🏽💫

@acat9978

3 жыл бұрын

That can be almost considered "torture". When you are used to not talk and have someone talking 24h over 3 days can be very exhausting

@melissaclark7734

3 жыл бұрын

New to the channel, Did it really take her 3 days? Did she have her leave and come back for 3 days? Great Love & Patience this woman has for this client💖💖

@ShannOliver

3 жыл бұрын

@@acat9978 Yeah I get that. I feel like good stylists are super attuned to if people want to talk or not. I'm pretty introverted and 99% of the time they pick up on it and we both get to enjoy silence. Hopefully this client had a great experience either way! 😊

Depression is an evil beast, but she made it through. Her hair is gorgeous.

@crimson636

3 жыл бұрын

It may have not been depression

@myrthasmascary4086

3 жыл бұрын

She beautiful. Yes depression is a killer

@suet.r.4815

3 жыл бұрын

It is! -I struggle with it, too. You can't let it win.

@9290SC

3 жыл бұрын

She could have been homeless. Not everything is mental illness

@md-ge7dg

3 жыл бұрын

@@9290SC and not everything has to do with being homeless. let’s use common sense, she wasn’t homeless. it was depression, if you would listen to the video.

I’ve never seen such a patient non-judgmental hair stylist. You are amazing

@BusyHands-dd2bx

3 ай бұрын

She sure is ❤️❤️

@KatinakittykatPatterson

3 ай бұрын

YESSSSS HONEY! Where is your shop located? Cause I DEFINITELY CAN USE YOUR SERVICES AND HELP! 😏 😉 😅😂AND PPL JUST DON'T GET IT AND UNLESS YOU'VE HAD MAJOR OR CLINICAL DEPRESSION....OOOO CHILD.. I AM SO GRATEFUL FOR MOM&MOSTLY DADDY'S COMBINED FOR ME 2H HAIR AND YESSSSS I TOOK THE HAIR CODE TEST 3 TIMES😅😂😅😂 AND THANK GOD BECAUSE OF MY DEPRESSION, IT'S HARD TO BELIEVE THAT I BARELY CAN GET OUT OF MY BED TO TAKE CARE OF MYSELF 😢😢AND MY SICKLE CELL DISEASE PAIN IN TOP OF EVERYTHING ELSE... IT'S NO LAUGHING MATTER. BUT I THANK YOU FOR BEING SO KIND, AND RESPECTFUL OF YOUR CLIENT AND FOR SHARING THIS PRODUCT. I DEFINITELY WILL BE GETTING SOME. GOD BLESS YOU, ALL OF US. AND PLEASE PROTECT YOUR MENTAL HEALTH AND ITS AS STRONG AS THE SICKLE CELL PAIN CRISIS. Y'ALL TAKE CARE OF YOURSELVES AND THERE IS NO SHAME IN GETTING HELP FOR YOUR MIND QUEENS! CAUSE, I KNOW THAT IF YOUR MIND AIN'T RIGHT, THEN THE REST OF YOU AIN'T GOING TO BE EITHER 😢❤ SO PLEASE DON'T LET ANYONE TELL YOU "JUST CALL JESUS- YES HE WORKS AND HE GIVES US FREE WILL AND HOPEFULLY YOU HAVE COMMON SENSE-TO GO FIND THE THINGS YOU NEED AND BE PROACTIVE ABOUT WHAT YOU NEED TO DO FOR YOUR LIFE, OK?

@DaijaMonroe

2 ай бұрын

A non-judgmental stylist is so hard to come by.

Depression is no joke! I’m so happy you were able to save her hair. I’m so happy you were kind to her and that she was brave enough to let someone help her.

When you said, I spent three days detangling her hair, three days speaking Life into her... That Part!!!!

@love518salon

3 жыл бұрын

🥰

@Brandithaboss_

3 жыл бұрын

You ministered to her... that’s beautiful ❤️

@Lavonlloyd4689

3 жыл бұрын

That part!! 🙌

@rosesibanda5842

3 жыл бұрын

Hadassa are you in Dallas?

@love518salon

3 жыл бұрын

@@rosesibanda5842 I’m located in Miami, Florida

You're not only a stylist, you are a healer.

@simplyytaeee1401

3 жыл бұрын

FR

@chefsizzle8138

3 жыл бұрын

True shit. I always feel amazing when my girl do my 2 strand twist. The whole process is therapeutic

@maryhopexyra

3 жыл бұрын

redo of healer

@alishanaicker6035

3 жыл бұрын

Amen bïțćh

@jokerssmiles5159

3 жыл бұрын

True tho-

Bless you. I had my first major depressive episode the summer between 7th-8th grade. I sat in the dark the entire summer and every part of me suffered. The judgement I felt going to the shop to get it detangled was painful for anyone, let alone a kid. I have severe depression and have times still where I have to spend a few hours detangling and just putting myself back together. It’s painful, and so many times I see women saying “just suck it up” or “the last thing I’d let go is my hygiene”. No one knows until they go thru it and that’s all there is to it. You didn’t ask for all of that but I needed to share. You are a blessing for taking the time to help someone reach a step towards healing. Wishing both of you nothing but the best.

@jakjak5400

4 ай бұрын

❤🙏🏽

@toadacrosstheroad

3 ай бұрын

Exactly. Your perspective completely changes when you're the one stuck there. I didn't expect to be unable to care for myself either, and I felt ashamed. Not just because others felt they needed to share their input, but because I had so little empathy for others who struggled until I was there. Destigmatization is so important for the well-being of everyone, especially health wise. It all seems so different until it's your normal, and only then do you understand it.

@alylu-to-esutej

3 ай бұрын

I feel you. My first depressive episode was around that time. Going through it that young is so cruel when you don't have the tools or context to deal with it

@sayjay26

3 ай бұрын

Its one day at a time, we all can hit a wall, I tell everyone each day you wake up is a new day to start over again. Peace Blessings and Love ✌🙏💜

@DemeterTelphousia-Erinyes

2 ай бұрын

I want to wish you the best for your mental health ❤

I'm so glad she didn't cut her hair off and that she found the strength to go out and be vulnerable in order to be get the help she needed. She looks wonderful and I was so happy for her and the stylist at the end. Great video ❤

Damn she went through all of that effort, respected her clients privacy and didn't judge her one bit, can we have more stylists like this Im tired of being anxious going to the hair dresser and feeling like Im going to get roasted for split ends 😂

@Alyssaj1236

3 жыл бұрын

Right!

@Jboog742

3 жыл бұрын

I totally agree!

@sweetathegreat

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah just because they want to sell some shampoo they roast my hair so much... Instead of gaining confidence after a hair cut I come out crying😥

@geelllee

3 жыл бұрын

@@sweetathegreat you would think that they would know making someone feel insecure and uncomfortable after going to their salon would make clients less likely to return and yet-

@m.f.m1006

3 жыл бұрын

Totally. This happens even with the dentist. Always judging.

I had a client come in with bad depression. Her hair was all matted, some falling out. I spent 4 hours untangling her hair as gently as I could. That Christmas I got a random gift at my work and I realized it was from that girl. She thanked me for making her feel so beautiful again. I had no idea how much this meant to her but I'm glad I was trained right and made this girl's life a little less stressful.

@thedigitaljide

3 жыл бұрын

I'm not crying 😭

@kerianal9456

3 жыл бұрын

That’s awesome ✨❤️

@ItsDcruz

3 жыл бұрын

❤️

@sadaf186

3 жыл бұрын

💗💗

@frankiemcbean.

3 жыл бұрын

I’m not crying...your crying-

Ok this is definitely a trauma response. I went through trauma i never couldve imagined this year, and i instantly stopped eating, sleeping, everything. My stomach never growled, and i felt nothing, dropping tens of lbs in weeks, even though I'm an athlete. It is HORRIBLE what trauma does, but I'm so glad shes recovering. ❤

@christaoo4347

Ай бұрын

You’re not alone. We are strong tho and we bounce back

Is it just me or is her hair incredibly healthy and full considering she hasn't combed, washed or conditioned in a year? Her hair seems to be in better condition than those who are getting weekly treatments. This is what should be called "good hair". Kudos to you for being able to do this for 3 days. I can barely get through 3 hours when I'm getting crochet braids done

@katlegosako9278

9 ай бұрын

I was just thinking of the same thing😊her hair looks amazing. More healthier

@maximusstorm1215

8 ай бұрын

So you'd be happy & complacenct with hair just like this?

@stacyb1341

8 ай бұрын

@maximusstorm1215 I don't see why not. I'm not sure you understand how strong her hair has to be to withstand what it withstood and look like that in the end.

@HssnsidndjdndBdndndjndk-yn4vh

8 ай бұрын

Black hair thrives when it's left alone. (I'm not saying go a year obviously) The women who always get their har done 2x a month and stay putting their hands in their hair and using heat and chemicals, that what breaks off your hair. If you just leave black hair alone it'll thrive. I wash my hair once a month and rice water rinse three times a week and I use coconut oil and blue magic twice a week...and do a twist out or braids to the back and leave my head alone.

@InBrad

8 ай бұрын

because the uploaded exaggerated in the title for views. and only fooling the weak minded

When I relapsed into really bad depression, my hair has matted like this too, but my grandma sat with me for hours to help me untangle it.

@TorTheWeirdo

3 жыл бұрын

That’s love

@tynellesharratt463

3 жыл бұрын

Naaaw - Grandma 😍 Look after yourself beauty, and that lovely Gran of yours x

@patriciaroysdon9540

3 жыл бұрын

❤

@emalinu

3 жыл бұрын

my mother cut pretty much all of it off

@auraholly

3 жыл бұрын

A Grandma’s love 🥰 so sweet!

This isn’t about the hair, it’s the fact that you didn’t give up on her. That’s what she’ll take away from this-that during her hard times, someone stayed by her side and didn’t give up on making her feel beautiful. She’s putting out new vibrations with that hair that’ll change her life for the better!! Get it girl

@susanniah9343

3 жыл бұрын

Yes

@tamara7301

3 жыл бұрын

Yess

@saye3902

3 жыл бұрын

@WoahIDidntDoIt K your level of emotional intelligence is low af but cool do you

@Augustbeauty69

3 жыл бұрын

@WoahIDidntDoIt K it's not about the hair. It's about the journey.

@radkillz3692

3 жыл бұрын

@WoahIDidntDoIt K bruh Mental health Put your few braincells together and use them

I love what you did for her. Depression hits hard to some people. You gave her something she needed and the dentangling the hair is like detangling all the bad stuff we need out of our lives. You are amazing. ❤

@ambert666

6 ай бұрын

Why didn't you use detangling conditioner

@Lilithd3mon

6 ай бұрын

@@ambert666 me? What do you mean?

I just went through this myself after not doing anything with my hair for 2 years. It was so matted and tangled that I cut it off and started over; she and I have the same hair type so I know the struggle that was making it through the detangling process. My hair locked itself and started the dreading process on its own. It was ultimately easier to start over. I so resonated with this lady because it was a lot of pouring going on for years that took its toll for me. I lost a lot and struggled with doing “triage”: If I could just get through this disaster … and then another thing would pop up, and then another and another and another. This went on for like 5 years. And when it was finally over, the family I thought I had to support me weren’t there, and made it a point to dismiss the pain and loss I went through. I had my now-husband and that’s it. So self care took a backseat. That’s how mine got to 2 years. I would consistently do self-care and then fall off. I just consistently started again and I’m determined to stay on it and keep doing what I know I can do for myself. I told my husband that you fell out of the same angel division that he did because I know God sent you to work miracles and heal those of us in need. Please keep working your healing power on the rest of us. We need kindness and compassion and more folks like you.❤️

@gigiheights4195

3 ай бұрын

❤

As a clinical therapist, this makes me happy. I’ve also felt like there should be a fusion between the mental health and cosmetology professions. Beauty salons and barbershops are wonderful healing spaces...I hope she continues to have peace and stability.

@tessc541

3 жыл бұрын

Good point!! How does a person REACH another with bad hygiene during those heavy depression days?

@siginotmylastname3969

3 жыл бұрын

A non profit called open barbers does stuff like this in London. They run clothes swaps, do protests, just coffee and tea for any time if you go in, there's a therapist I think who works with them? It's an lgbt+ hairdressers, there's a specialist for black hair and another for colouring, and they also do home visits for disabled people who can't get there, and a sliding scale with the lowest price slots given out to poor clients... I just had to comment but there should be more places doing that!

@erickacolden692

3 жыл бұрын

Yes I worked for CMH IN MICHIGAN, SOME WOMEN IN THE EARLY ON PROGRAM JUST NEEDED THAT AND RESPITE😊💪🏿❤ AGREE EBONY

@samanthafriend1177

3 жыл бұрын

It’s wild for me see your comment cause I want to university to become a psychologist, I’m not one but I also went for cosmetology and feel that getting our hair done is a form of therapy. From the personal conversations with your stylist to the elevation in self worth everyone gets from a fresh hair due. It’s awesome to see and this has my wheels turning! This video is awesome and inspirational. Thanks for sharing 🥰

@meeka2225

3 жыл бұрын

I couldn’t agree more. The amount of conversations I’ve had with my clients and advice I’ve given you’d think I would have a PHD by now.

Did anyone randomly have this recommended but loves watching it

@thecorruptedcat989

3 жыл бұрын

Yes I was like why but it's well needed

@cinnamonroso

3 жыл бұрын

It’s 2am and I bored so why not😆

@jazsol

3 жыл бұрын

Literally just now

@xaviersdeadO_O

3 жыл бұрын

yup.

@georgiadyer665

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!

My daughter went through this because of depression due to trauma. She finally let someone work on her hair and now it's down past her butt and gorgeous! And this young lady is no different, she is GORGEOUS! And you truly are an angel for doing this💕💕💕

I love everything about this video - the empathy, patience, concern for client's privacy, and even the cute mask. I've never been to a salon and I wonder if they charge based on hair type or per hour. If so, three days of such labor intensive work must cost a lot, but totally worth it.

she could’ve been the hospital alone, homless or depressed. please don’t be mean guys

@RoxiiYolii

3 жыл бұрын

Sometimes we have to be reminded... And when I say we, I mean me... So thank you for reminding me 🥰🥰🥰

@sookie8483

3 жыл бұрын

me

@yvettepowell7178

3 жыл бұрын

You and her are beautiful people made my day your words your work and her being so brave GOD bless you

@niafaith

3 жыл бұрын

@@yvettepowell7178 thank you queen bless you

@niafaith

3 жыл бұрын

@@RoxiiYolii we arent perfect!

good thing she found you because any other stylist would’ve just cut it off you took care of her for three days that’s amazing

@angelica.86

3 жыл бұрын

When you love what you do....the passion shows and the work quality is outstanding. She is very lucky to had found you. I pray to God she keeps finding strength and will. We have to take care of ourselves to care for others.. can't pour from an empty cup. Great job! Beautiful work!

@yinkabb7298

3 жыл бұрын

Wow and her hair was so long

@furiosa1203

3 жыл бұрын

Nah, my sister had this issue and got her hair fixed by a good salon. Most places are good and kind.

@mandigrace6329

3 жыл бұрын

@@furiosa1203 not here where I am. My son's hair is maybe 1/10 as tangled as hers and I get sent home every time if I don't have it mostly detangled. Where are you located because I need some help! 😭 He's a typical boy but with a lot of hair and he doesn't like braids, twists, or ponytails. Nor does he want it cut. So that means a lot of lint and randomness from tumbling and rolling around on the ground. He has a beautiful fro when it's detangled and moisturized but it never stays that way for long.

@furiosa1203

3 жыл бұрын

@@mandigrace6329 Hm, It depends. I live in Ontario Canada, so I never had a bad experience with a hair salon before. I would try a salon that works on POC hair though. They are probably the best. Or try a salon that might be a bit more higher end, as those places can be really good too. I try asking on a facebook group in your area if you can. That's the best way to get good recommendations.

My daughter caught nits when she was younger and I ended up catching it. The nit lotion ended up tangling and matting my hair immediately. It was like the girls in this video. I went to the hairdressers in tears and said whatever you do don’t cut it off as I had been growing it for years. The hairdresser without my knowledge took a razor blade to my hair and cut off the entire thing. I couldn’t even get it into a hair band. I said what did you do, she laughed. My hair went from my mid back to short, short. My hair still hasn’t regained its original length a decade later. It’s great to see a hairdresser that takes care. I also really appreciated your compassion and sensitivity towards this young lady. Support is what she needs and you gave it to her.

@robtooley4002

3 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry that happened to you. It just shows how special this hairdresser is.

THIS IS AMAZING!! I love how willing you were to detangle instead of jumping straight to a haircut!!! Sooo many stylists would not have the patience you did for a THREE DAY PROCESS!!! Girl I am smiling so hard at this video. Amazing, AMAZING job. Wow.

Imagine the girls courage she had to have in order to walk in and get this done. 😊

@thislittlethingcalledlifea8586

3 жыл бұрын

I know right?! Battling inner demons is no joke and she rose above it. I’m so happy for her and I’m just a stranger on the internet! 😊💕

@sunshinesolace3540

3 жыл бұрын

@UCFDJak6tUl7TGvNbGri3JcA There are many reasons why people may unable to properly care for themselves. A big reason is battling mental illnesses like depression. It's honestly none of our business and we shouldn't judge.

@JB-vr1qe

3 жыл бұрын

Courage or stupidity ?

@nevaswitchupp

3 жыл бұрын

@@JB-vr1qe why is it stupid to get your hair washed?

@feventekle5533

3 жыл бұрын

@@JB-vr1qe don't judge people with out knowing the reason.

Can we appreciate the beautiful masks that protect her identity? They could've been made of a carton box, but no, they had flowers and beads :)

@user-wu4wp8xn4t

3 жыл бұрын

:)

@elpidak6554

3 жыл бұрын

its the little details :)

@echomcclellan7079

3 жыл бұрын

So beautiful! I love it! I think it adds to this process of helping people feel better and beautiful and cared for.

@audreygreen8697

3 жыл бұрын

It nice :)

I cannot imagine how freeing that must have felt for her. What a strong lady for being able to come in and ask for help. Beautiful hair!! So happy she didn't have to cut it off.

I cannot imagine allowing my hair to get to this state… but watching your love and care for this woman was absolutely humbling… only God knows what this woman is going through to cause this. What an amazing spirit and gift to love and empower someone in this way. This was beyond humbling to watch… your right… we have no idea what people go through…🌷

I stopped washing my hair for a whole year after my mom passed. Depression is a bitch I feel for this woman

@xristinarose2409

3 жыл бұрын

I m sorry to hear 😔 are you doing better now?

@Cutay7BOOTAY

3 жыл бұрын

I completely understand. My momma passed away on July 2, 2018 and my daddy passed on September 10 2018. It was totally unexpected. I was devastated and my afro suffered. I had to cut it all off.

@shirleysimmons734

3 жыл бұрын

I did the same thing when my son passed, my only child. I thought I would die to, when I did my hair my therapist and office people were so happy, you would have thought I hit the lottery. But having the strength to care for yourself again is a break thru at getting better. I'm so sorry for your lost, you lost your Queen, be strong and I feel you.

@ms.valdez5633

3 жыл бұрын

@@shirleysimmons734 these stories are breaking my heart. I hope you doing well.

@saron4445

3 жыл бұрын

@@Cutay7BOOTAY I’m so sorry for you loss ❤️ I hope you doing better 🤞🏾🤞🏾

Clinical depression will do you in. During my worst stage, I cut mine off. When you’re dealing with depression, your hair isn’t important. Your mental health is paramount. I am glad she better!! God keep her in his hands.

@missamericanpie1

3 жыл бұрын

THIS IS NOT DEPRESSION!!! STOP BLAMING IT ON DEPRESSION.

@We_Are_All_Vultures

3 жыл бұрын

♥️

@We_Are_All_Vultures

3 жыл бұрын

@@missamericanpie1 it is exactly *CLINICAL* depression. We are not talking about feeling a bit depressed every now and then we're talking about damn clinical depression. Why are you speaking on something obviously have no idea about?

@Hannahsx

3 жыл бұрын

@@missamericanpie1 it is 💀

@mayalyynn6580

3 жыл бұрын

I just cut mine for the same reason! I noticed that it was no longer a priority and I hated doing it. I feel SO much better since I cut it!!

She has BEAUTIFUL HAIR! Thank you for unlocking her from depression. I bet she felt beautiful

Her hair is gorgeous! As someone who has also had mental health/adult life struggles, it is so amazing that you create a safe space for people. Losing her hair could’ve have been one more stressor on top of everything else, and you gave her that piece of herself back ❤

Depression is real. And your self care suffers. She’s brave for asking for help instead of just shaving her head. I hope Life turns around for her 🙌

@RonLarhz

3 жыл бұрын

I'm living with pdd I just shave off whenever it became too long n oily. My hair is falling off almost like cancer patient,lol... But I just don't have the energy to be consistent. Feels like a chore even it's simple thing like taking a pill or applying cream.

@larasouzaguerrer3677

3 жыл бұрын

@@RonLarhz hey babe I hope the things get better and you find what you need I'll pray for you I hope you get better I know you will get better You are enough And you are strong I love u

@Acidfunkish

3 жыл бұрын

I feel this. I've had a few really bad times in my life in which my skincare and haircare really, really suffered. I did end up having to get my hair all chopped off, because I just couldn't care for it, properly. 😔 Not a fun time. I'm sorry for anyone else going through something similar. It can get better, and it likely will. Do whatever you need to do. Don't let anyone shame you for it.

@ezzyalvarez7206

3 жыл бұрын

Depressed or not the most I can go without washing my hair is 2 days after that I need too wash it! Feels all oily n nasty....especially in the summer I was my hair everyday...too not Wash hair for a year!!! Wow thas crazy....😬

@gb917

3 жыл бұрын

@@ezzyalvarez7206 Your depression is probably not that severe.

Thank you for taking the time to do her hair and not just cutting it all off 👸🏾

@love518salon

3 жыл бұрын

She really wanted to save her and I really wanted to help her! 🥰

@brittneyhicks600

3 жыл бұрын

Amen this was AMAZING. Her hair was beautiful when you were done and she still retained alot of length

@Maria-ju3kf

3 жыл бұрын

Wow, you are the best stylist on you tube. You did such a wonderful job. I would be honored if you do my hair one day. What state are you located in?

@desmariewilliams8216

3 жыл бұрын

Damn !!!!

@santricemcpherson7809

3 жыл бұрын

Yes

You are amazing for creating a safe space for her! There was a point in my life where I was too depressed to take care of myself and once I lifted myself out of that depression, I was too afraid to go to a salon for help. It really warms my heart to see caring people like you exist! ❤

This is definitely a big victory. I love how kind you and protective you are over this women. What you did for her and her hair is amazing we need more people like you in the world!

You DID SO MUCH more than her hair; you gave her the self respect she had lost along the road of life. May you both be blessed.

@ekuaasabeamintah1183

3 жыл бұрын

Amen! great comment from a good place

@messaraahmed1303

3 жыл бұрын

Amen.

@user-zb3dw8rg8r

3 жыл бұрын

Amen

@user-hj5io2wt3d

3 жыл бұрын

Amen

@evelynenyokabi6369

3 жыл бұрын

😂

I love how she's like no judgement and protects her clients identity. This is a beautiful channel. Her hair ended up gorgeous! I hope she feels better (:

@platypi8185

3 жыл бұрын

ayeee 100th likee but also yes i agree privacy is everything in situations like this 💜

@mjdirksen4004

3 жыл бұрын

You are an angel. Grateful there are people like you out there. 🥳 😘

@Melissa-dn5kd

3 жыл бұрын

U did awesome

@sxxsxsaveanimals991

3 жыл бұрын

YESSSS

The only thing that made me feel better for a while was washing my hair but running a comb through it made me want to cry. I love your videos. You're helping so many people.

I watched your video while prepping for my own much-dreaded detangling session of my almost one-month neglected, mid-back length, VERY matted, tangled hair, and I loved the positive inspo! I am also tall with intense shrinkage just like her! 🙂 Yep you never know what life is going to bring right around the corner and depending on the severity the hair just doesn't become a priority. I'm so inspired! And can I just say her hair is beautiful even when its matted. Its so thick! There's nothing quite like our texture! Ok I put the Creed 3 soundtrack on, I got my combs and product ready, I'm going in!

I have clinical depression, and I totally get this. I have gone ten days without bathing during a very bad episode. I mostly slept.

@D.hazard

3 жыл бұрын

Ten days is ok but how can your hair go 1 year without water it's like she even shielded it from the rain to

@walkingintruthknowledge7418

3 жыл бұрын

@@D.hazard that's not how black hair works and it's clear u dont know that

@kaylariggs5188

3 жыл бұрын

Girl I understand you so much you don't even know!!

@fiercenunbothered

3 жыл бұрын

Amen. Showering, eating, leaving the bed, and self care can be very difficult for me during a bad episode. Some people may not understand if they haven’t been there

@forkscr3w

3 жыл бұрын

@@D.hazard so you just ignored the judge free disclaimer right.

The fact that she came into your salon means she wants to take care of herself, which shows she's starting to get better. It couldn't have been easy to do that. I hope she continues to get better. Wishing her all the best. I hope you know how much it must have meant for her to have someone like you, help her, without judging.

@halamadrid6733

2 жыл бұрын

She had a whole year to take care of herself

@omarabrody5469

2 жыл бұрын

@@halamadrid6733 depression, mental illness and many other factors (such as having a complicated life where your priorities have to be towards others) can make someone neglect oneself. What matters is that she's back to caring for herself now.

@halamadrid6733

2 жыл бұрын

@@omarabrody5469 I re read your main comment. I see what you mean that Now she's trying to take care of herself

@PrisTvv

2 жыл бұрын

Yea

@katehalasz5069

2 жыл бұрын

@@omarabrody5469 As someone who has gone through something similar, thanks.

You did that!!!! I’m so happy for her loving on herself through self care! That can be so hard when you are experiencing struggle. Go girl go! 👏🏾👏🏾

All I can say is I get it. Praise God for people like you who pour love into people who need it. Especially as you mentioned “the strong friend”. We cry in hiding but smile in public.

Maybe this woman is gone through depression and finally able to overcome it and starting to take care of herself.

@WendyRamrattan

3 жыл бұрын

Probably it's the rastafarian culture I'm from the Caribbean

@Bigglizzyk

3 жыл бұрын

What is your picture bro Lol ..

@chaddyormillo1164

3 жыл бұрын

@@WendyRamrattan carribean is such a wonderful place we have our own carribean like place and paradise here in the Philippines its called Boracay Islland is also influenced bay rasta culture where you will see people along the white sand beaches wearing their locks as well 😊

@kayda-leemclean7802

3 жыл бұрын

@@chaddyormillo1164 exactly and ir ain't looking like that

@AJENKINS1920

3 жыл бұрын

@@WendyRamrattan no they wash there hair 😡

I was homeless for 2 years, and I was lucky to get a shower once a week to wash my body, hair and wigs. It was A LOT of wash ups instead. 🙄 People didn't even know I was homeless until after I got on my feet; it became my testimony at that point 🙂 I can relate because of what I have been through. God bless you and her... 🙏🏾

@dollsNcats

3 жыл бұрын

Your amazing !!!! You fought hard girl ! Im so glad you made it and your ok 🥰

@163368

3 жыл бұрын

@@dollsNcats Thank you so much queen 👑🙏🏾

@kathyo166

3 жыл бұрын

Well done Delisia!!!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Keep looking after yourself. Sending you sincere kind thoughts and hopeful future blessings. X🤗

@163368

3 жыл бұрын

@@kathyo166 Thank you so much. 🙏🏾 Your kind words are definitely appreciated 🤗

@michellebamtyles

3 жыл бұрын

Jesus loves you and cares for you Please reach out to Him

I have never met a person in any industry with the patience and dedication to do what you just showed. A little matting and most people are like cut it or shave it. You are a blessing to your clients.

This was just so moving and motivating! I appreciate and respect the care that you had for this client and most of all, the respect you had for her as well. It’s hard to find people who understand and know how to work with all individuals. Keep up the amazing service!!!

What you did for her was more than fixing her hair. You helped fix her heart. Sometimes you just need a reminder that you are worthy to take care of yourself.

@asmrsleep3079

3 жыл бұрын

Beautifully said. We need more people like the hairdresser. ❤️

I had some bad luck at 19 I was homeless and I was try trying to figure out what to do and I had nobody to turn to and honestly my hair was the last thing that I was worried about I was worried about eating where I’m going to sleep ,how am I going to make money when nobody wants to hire me, I was at my lowest of the low and honestly I lost my faith and everything , but thankfully somebody finally hired me and I’ve been climbing to the top since then. people don’t realize how hard life truly is

@pinky12345pinkie

3 жыл бұрын

Wow. I’m sorry you had to experience that. I hope you continue to be great!

@mjndiaye

3 жыл бұрын

Over here rooting for you. I hope you are as proud of yourself as we your internet fam is of you. Keep rising!

@thewordsmith5440

3 жыл бұрын

You couldnt get on welfare and section 8 or do you have to have kids to get on welfare? I'm not judging or codemning its a real question btw. I always wonder how not one family member will help out a homeless relative.

@pinky12345pinkie

3 жыл бұрын

@@thewordsmith5440 yeah I wondered how it works too. I’m not sure the government really helps out like that.

@TheSub2rainen

3 жыл бұрын

@@thewordsmith5440 There isn’t much help for a person without kids. Just SNAP (food stamps) and general relief, which is a loan that will be attached to your income 100% until paid off. I stopped after 3 months for that reason. If she had been working, then unemployment benefits are 26 weeks, although there were years of extensions around 2007-09. It can be a very low level compared to salary, however, and often not enough for rent.

Bless her heart🥺 she looks so beautiful, and the end that being her real hair!! So valuable, so glad she kept it

I was a cna, i came into work one day to shower a lady who was bed bound with ALS, she was my first black patient ive ever showered. I was horrified when she told me her head was so itchy and if i could was it more for her. I spent two hours detangaling her hair and massaging her head. I know shes bedbound, but patients need dignity and careing for their needs is important to providing them dignity. Poor thing really enjoied the extra attention. This hairstyalist really is a miracle worker!

Years ago I got very ill. I was bed ridden for about 6 months. I had long jet straight hair but over the 6 months it became matted. My appearance put me in such a deep depression. I lost too much weight, I looked like a vampire and my once long beautiful hair was a knotted disaster. I wanted to just stay in my house and never leave. My friend talked me into going to a salon to get my hair cut off and styled. I went to a salon I never been to, figured nobody knew me and they would laugh at me, refuse me and boot me out, the first one kinda did! Said they couldn't help me because my mats were to close to my scalp. Seen them smirking and whispering. I wanted to just die! My friend forced me to go to another as they took walk ins too, so I walked in and told the lady in the front, what I wanted and why it was the way it was. I was in tears. An older woman who must of been listening came up from the back looked at me and said.. no need to cut off your gorgeous hair, not sure what she seen but it was far from gorgeous. And she took me by the hand and took me back to her station then to the sink. She worked magic in that sink, used several products, some of this, wait, put some of that, wait. With in about 45 mins, she was putting a comb thru my hair. I didn't even feel any pulling. She talked to me like she knew me my whole life, talked to me like a human being, made it seem my wreck of a head of hair was something she seen a lot and was no biggie. I went in embarrassed but after a few mins she had me feeling better and hopeful. After she was done cutting and styling, my hair was longer then I remembered, super shiney and gorgeous (just like she said!), the person in the mirror was a woman I forgot existed. I cried and she cried with me. God may have healed my sickness, but he sent me to an angel to heal my soul. Price was $9.99 plus tip.. she got a 100 dollar bill. If I had more I would of given it. A few months later I went back to that salon to get a trim, I asked for the Angel who worked that miracle for me, but she retired a couple weeks before. I just watched another angel working a miracle and I can guarantee the woman hiding behind the mask was in tears with a huge smile on her face,. God bless all the stylists who use their talents, other then just use it as a job.. that can work miracles, to not only fix hair but restore confidence and fix souls. I will never forget Miss Teesha who worked at Cuts and More.. in Cleveland Ohio.. in 1998. Salon is no longer there. My guess she would be in her 80s now. ❤️

@hustlemedia8315

3 жыл бұрын

What a story! Glad you had that experience good and bad made you the best version of yourself and better to come. You speak truth, now that’s something I RESPECT from my soul. Painted such vivid pictures through energy alone, Mam God bless you and your future. Wherever Miss Teesha at, bless her to!💯 brings me actual genuine happiness to know people like yourself beating the STRUGGLE and making it out of a hellhole. You deserve it, live life with 100% confidence in yourself. That’s goes to all who see this.

@radiancehall7905

3 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️

@digitallocations1423

3 жыл бұрын

❤❤❤

@garfieldswillyyt584

3 жыл бұрын

Reddit level comment

@bainezdas7297

3 жыл бұрын

🥰🥰🥰🥰❤❤❤❤❤.

For anyone wondering this is why I don’t sleep at night. These random videos are so entertaining!!

@KevinPerez-zs4qj

3 жыл бұрын

I love this kind of vids too 😂

@bjalexhasstoppedstreaming508

3 жыл бұрын

Ikrrrrrr

@user-bo7oc7fz4w

3 жыл бұрын

fr

@sejiparaiso871

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. I got you bro.

@andreariitano6497

3 жыл бұрын

3 a.m. here

Her hair is AMAZING!! With everything her hair has been through, LOOK AT WHAT’S LEFT!! Some us could only wish for that much hair!! I wish her all the best!

Much Kudos to you for representing your clients and others who may be struggling. We all stand up and commend you!

Today I’m convinced hairdressers are life’s healers. Not all of course but this lady definitely is.

I like how they hid her identity from everyone so she would feel comfortable and i liked how they told everyone how to act in the comments. The person must be very grateful for this.

@l-3832

3 жыл бұрын

@@gaize1017 well everyone seems to be so..

This is amazing. I suffer with mental health and depression. It is amazing there are people who don't judge and willing to help those in need because of inability to maintain there personal care when struggling emotionally.

Wow, I am so happy for her! This must have felt amazing in the end and I really applaud her willingness to come in and have this reset. Full respect to you for reminding everyone not to judge. 😊

“I spent 3 days pouring life into her” one of my best parts

@brownstyle371

3 жыл бұрын

Those words made me tear up!! That was powerful. Speaks volumes

@bajanred

3 жыл бұрын

Yesssssss

@sofiaahmad1926

3 жыл бұрын

Good job

@morningfruit9102

3 жыл бұрын

Yessss!

@shebron7265

3 жыл бұрын

Bless you sis💜

I literally just spent 3 days chiseling through my own hair and I'm still not done! People don't understand the toll mental illness takes on upkeep and hygiene!! Sending her lots of love!!!

@debbiedullabaun5928

Жыл бұрын

Bless you for your determination 🤗

@GooniesGirl

Жыл бұрын

Real talk 💯

@bobbie-jenehenderson7824

Жыл бұрын

Or physical illness too… I have an autoimmune and autonomic disorder which both make me super susceptible to getting sick. I’ve been battling an ongoing bout of illness since October. It’s just a simple cold so anyone else would be fine but for me I get bronchitis and secondary infections every freaking time and end up laid out in bed with a fever and zero energy to eat let alone wash my face and brush my hair. 😢

@jilliandominguez4915

Жыл бұрын

Aunt Jacky knot on my watch detangler + creme honey detangler with water and mix. Use detangling brush. Those 3 days can be turned into HALF a day. Hmu!

@aubriellemorgan

Жыл бұрын

Especially when you have that this 4C hair that requires so much work!

Thank God she has the courage to move forward. God bless her and you for your attention and care for her. You’re a blessing.

YOU DID THAT🙌🏽👏🏽🙏🏽💖✨✨ I went through this when I was in 5th grade. I wore a ponytail in my head for MONTHS. I just continuously brushed the back and front, which made my hair knot up right in the middle. My mom was so upset😫😫 And I have curly hair. She cut the middle out while crying. But at the time, I didn’t know why she was so upset and emotional about cutting it out lol 😂

This woman... my heart breaks for her. This her crown and she likely hasn't had this kind of love in a long while. Reason doesn't matter, I just wanna hug her.

@florarose1626

3 жыл бұрын

😍😍😍😍

@lupez3325

3 жыл бұрын

This is so nice

@avocadolover1070

3 жыл бұрын

Same 😔 hope she's doing better now :) 💓

@natasja1977

3 жыл бұрын

😍😍😍

HADASSA IS THE BEST HAIRSTYLIST. CAN CONFIRM, SHE DOES MY HAIR.

@love518salon

3 жыл бұрын

Awww thank you Kelly. You’re such amazing being 🥰

@saigephillipss6826

3 жыл бұрын

That’s it, that’s all I needed. Get me a appointment. 😂

@andrearoyal8329

3 жыл бұрын

@Hadassa Creations I wish you were in Philadelphia because you are just the type of stylist/wonderful human being I need to do my hair. I try to do my hair because of the horrible experiences I and my daughter have at some Black-owned salons. A lot of people, and I mean women mainly, are so judgmental and hurtful to each other. Don't mean to ramble. God bless you and that young woman. Much success.

@Jess273

3 жыл бұрын

I’m sold 🙋🏾‍♀️

@amazonbeauty4271

3 жыл бұрын

@Hadassa i didn’t even realize this was you/your work because i was watching it was on silent. But girl you have always been talented in all you do! ❤️ Hope you were tip well !

Just want to say thank you for pouring life into her and to your channel and the people who learn and watch you!

You are a very kind and loving person. I so glad i experienced you kindness. You are the epitome of "judge not lest thou be judged" i hope i remember your teaching.

I love how you give your clients a means of protecting their identity that represents something beautiful and hopeful. You are amazing.

@pendita66

3 жыл бұрын

I didn't understand the hopefulness in it

@tiffanyadeeyinwo1990

3 жыл бұрын

Um I think you are going about this a bit tooo deeply

@RideRedRacer

3 жыл бұрын

Beautiful? That's disgusting

@mr.ricochet8603

3 жыл бұрын

@Kaitlyn Kenyon not sure we can consider your translation true without the authors confirmation

@mr.ricochet8603

3 жыл бұрын

Covering someone's face during a haircut is beautiful and hopeful? What do you do when someone survives a big surgery? Buy them a house?

Black hair can be a handful to take care of and not everyone has hours to detangle and twist. Please be kind to this lady as it is not always so simple. I'm so glad the stylist was able to assist her in getting back to basics.

@geelllee

3 жыл бұрын

the comment section has surprised me, the majority has been overwhelmingly positive and supportive, like faith in humanity has been restored at least for five minutes

@PopMami

3 жыл бұрын

It really can be that easy but we have been tricked by people pushing products that we need a whole wash day to do our hair.

@sullivann

3 жыл бұрын

Cant you just say hair??

@PopMami

3 жыл бұрын

@@sullivann No.

@platinumpepe8626

3 жыл бұрын

@@sullivann iTs SPecIAl.

On behalf of us who suffer from mental illness thank you for taking the time and patience to help one of us. You don’t realize the impact it has on us to take care of ourselves when we in our mind.

I almost started crying with this transformation. Wow! You’re incredible.

I’m a white guy in Canada; no clue why this was in my feed, but goddamn 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼. That’s some quality work

@ekuaasabeamintah1183

3 жыл бұрын

im so happy for her

@ritakapia7140

3 жыл бұрын

😂👍🏿

@Navaura

3 жыл бұрын

You are awesome for watching this.

@ekuaasabeamintah1183

3 жыл бұрын

@@Navaura tnk you lov..same to u dear

@tracyhowe5698

3 жыл бұрын

I'm a white lady from Canada and what a transformation! So happy for her..and great work to you! You're an angel with great dance moves!!

I’ve had such severe depression that I wasn’t showering, brushing hair, changing clothes. It is hard and to see someone put the work in to take care of you because you’re worth it and you need help means so much. I hope this woman had a renewed feeling and a sense of relief after your beautiful work!

@aw1npang

3 жыл бұрын

I hope you’re doing okay now!

@morningfruit9102

3 жыл бұрын

Blessings, love and light to you. I hope you are better and overcoming.

@natashadaniels2562

3 жыл бұрын

Been there a few times myself. It is an on going thing. Sometimes you don't even know why

@sashagabor76

3 жыл бұрын

Omg yes. When brushing your teeth takes too much energy, things like showering and brushing your hair seem absolutely insurmountable. Both of these women are amazing. ❤️

@hanjesse31

3 жыл бұрын

Do you have family members living with you?

No judgement because there but for the grace of God Goeth I!! I've walked in her shoes before due to depression but I didn't have someone as wonderful as you and I had to shave my head. What a blessing you are and I love your holistic approach!! Keep it up because you are making a real difference in people's lives. You are appreciated!🙏🏽🕊❤

I love how positive and supportive you are!

As someone with depression, the way you talk about her and being so respectful warms my heart. I wish there were more people like you in this world

After I lost my mom at 22 (almost 9 years ago), I stopped taking care of myself. I lost so much weight and stopped doing my hair. Grief and depression can inhibit someone from performing normal, daily tasks. It wasn’t until I met my husband (a few months later), that I felt able to take care of myself. Sending everyone love

@alurvva7521

3 жыл бұрын

I’m sorry to hear that! Thankfully I still have my mom. I KNOW your mom is looking down on you right now! All love and support 🤗💕

@naomic8605

3 жыл бұрын

my condolences, thank you for sharing your story beautiful

@tamara7301

3 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending love and hugs

@qaxarx312

3 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry for your loss , take care of yourself 💓💓🥰

@itsalexilixyt740

3 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry for your loss but I’m glad your better now!

Came back 2 years later to watch this incredible video again. You're a lifesaver, her hair is shining and I'm sure she has a big smile behind that mask

Beautiful story. Thank you for being her light and caring for her

My hair hasn't gotten this bad but when my depression gets bad I've gone more than a few months. I love how you didn't demean her about it.

@LovelyTrueRed

3 жыл бұрын

I've been there too.

@GodzHarleyGirlStudio

3 жыл бұрын

Same here. Hold your heads up peepz! Hugz, Tree

@florivalentina3400

3 жыл бұрын

Me too but for a week or two.

@lexussteele3913

3 жыл бұрын

Dude I thought u was the only one

You’re such a blessing! Most stylists would reach for the scissors ✂️ immediately. May God continue to bless you!

@foczysmalec7374

3 жыл бұрын

I fail to see god's relevance... to detangling hair

@elizabethomilabu5380

3 жыл бұрын

Amen🙏

@hitzoneproductions7858

3 жыл бұрын

I wish more women looked like you - Natural. Natural beauty at it's finest.

@LK-dz9uk

3 жыл бұрын

@@foczysmalec7374 don’t act like you wouldn’t be thankful if your hair was in a knot and someone had the energy to fix it and detangle it for you

@Igbocurls

3 жыл бұрын

@@foczysmalec7374 I see God in everything.

Just wanted to say that all your videos have made me cry!! You are a blessing!

This just came on my feed. Bless you for helping to restore her dignity. You did an amazing job.

I appreciate the care that you took with her hair and her generally as a person. Her hair turned out beautifully!

@love518salon

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🥰

@dorothybohanon5396

3 жыл бұрын

You did a great job on her hair

@queensheem3337

3 жыл бұрын

@@love518salon love your video

@christsservant5472

3 жыл бұрын

Yes. Her hair came out so beautiful!

@bgknowable

3 жыл бұрын

I just read what other sisters said. I am still at home alone(covid), but thanks for letting me know that I am not stupid crazy. As I texted this, I feel that our Mistress of Hair just not listened to me... Thank you, Goddess.

I love how she protected her privacy and I love the process. Tedious, but cool.

God bless you for your positivity and pouring into another woman when she needed it! ❤

Wow just wow at the patiences! I quit doing hair a long time ago (I do keep my license up though) and I can honestly say I would have been so stressed out if I had to do this. You are very blessed and VERY patient and the care and persistents paid off. Keep doing what your doing! We need more hairdressers like you! ❤ You did a great no awesome job!! 😍😊

I’ve been in that type of depression where I didn’t comb my hair and would just throw a wig on a matted mess. I knew it was bad underneath and every time I looked at it, it made me even more depressed so I would sleep in my wigs so I wouldn’t see it. This time in my life was a reflection of what was going on with everything in my life. Just like the mess under that wig, my life was a mess and I was covering it up, not reaching out for help and settling for “the look” of being okay. I finally shared what was happening with my best friend who was also a hair stylist. She had me come over and loved on me, hugged me, prayed for me and we cried together. It took forever for me to allow her to remove my wig and I cried hard. I felt like the band-aide was ripped out and I was exposed. She worked with my hair and it felt so good to be washed and cared for when I couldn’t do it for myself. Depression is real. Please don’t live in this pain. Reach out to someone you trust.

@iluvbooty

Жыл бұрын

i’m tearing up reading this… 🫴🏽💜 that last sentence is so important.. reach out to someone you trust. people who don’t get it are usually the ones who say “don’t be afraid to ask for help!” but when you do they still paint you as someone who is inherently damaged/unstable.. very few people will actually be there for you. sometimes a listening ear is all it takes. i’m glad someone was there for you ~ ✨

@sii479

Жыл бұрын

This is so beautiful

@crystalcorbett1705

Жыл бұрын

U made me cry Melinda…hope ur doing better now sis…

@michellemclaurin1688

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this video gets me so much hope it's been the same amount of time I was trying to see how to get my back to myself with my hair thanks for your video I have tears in my eyes this gives me hope God bless you

@aubriellemorgan

Жыл бұрын

Some of us don’t have anyone, but so glad you got what you needed 🤎

When I finally left my abusive ex, I hadn't brushed my hair in 6 months. Thank you for doing this for her. I don't know her story but I know that you gave her a gift she will never forget.

@erickacolden692

3 жыл бұрын

Amen

@timothycalvert1269

3 жыл бұрын

Did he or she not allow you a brush?

@auntieescreations4309

3 жыл бұрын

@@timothycalvert1269 dude gfy

@vrtex6414

3 жыл бұрын

@@auntieescreations4309 no

@petitensweet08

3 жыл бұрын

Sending love to you ❤

How awesome!! Her hair looks fabulous!!! You are a blessing.

You’re incredibly kind. We need more people like you in this world. I love you! 💕💕💕

I have gone years without self care, life is hard. You gave this women her life back now that she is ready to take care of herself for once. I devote my life to caring for my family and friends and never for myself. It takes a long time to realize you can't care for others until you first care for yourself. Thank you for helping this wonderful Goddess to let her own light shine bright, she deserves it.

@dougydimadome4525

3 жыл бұрын

Yuzzir

@NotRyanReynolds.

3 жыл бұрын

I'm you 700th like.

This is what my hair looks like when I go through extreme depression.....i thought I was the only one. Thank you for not making mean remarks about her. Cause i could imagine that being me.

@natashamassie6268

3 жыл бұрын

Me too gurl, her hair is very beautiful too

@tape8036

3 жыл бұрын

I eventually just got my hair cut really short so when I go through a depressive episode it wont really mess up my hair, and I can take care of it easily when I'm ready to.

@FreeSpiritMom

3 жыл бұрын

You are not alone, Raven 💖

@amethystsugar7411

3 жыл бұрын

Me too, when I was a loose natural. I went 6 months a few times, myself

@lisasmith8007

3 жыл бұрын

Same here❤

Thank you so much for doing this. There are a million reasons (disability, depression, PTSD, other mental illness, domestic abuse, homelessness etc.) that a person can end up neglecting hair care through no fault of their own. By doing this and posting it (and I'm so glad your client was brave and gracious enough to let you post, so she deserves a huge thanks as well), you're showing both people in these positions and other stylists not to give up on hair in this condition. Forcing someone to shave their hair can be dehumanizing and after any situation that leads to someone's hair being in that condition, that's the last thing they need. This is so uplifting. I'm sharing it with my stylist and I hope everyone else who watches it does the same!

You're such a beautiful person for helping that lady ❤❤❤❤ she will remember your act of kindness