Nine-Year-Old Wanders into the Night | Asha Degree Case Analysis

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  • @ReSearcherSusie
    @ReSearcherSusie Жыл бұрын

    I have trained & certified Search & Rescue dogs for over 12 years (both Live Find and Cadaver dogs.) The only reason a certified Search Dog would not pick up the scent is because Asha got into a car. Car trails can be indicated by a Search Dog, but it takes a very specifically trained dog. They are few & far between.

  • @rucianapollard7098

    @rucianapollard7098

    Жыл бұрын

    I was wondering if the rain is the reason the dogs couldn't pick up her scent??

  • @ReSearcherSusie

    @ReSearcherSusie

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Ass_of_Amalek - not necessarily. It depends on the time elapsed since the dogs got there after the disappearance, the amount of rain and the surface to be checked. If it was a softer surface the rain actually helps hold the scent down for a period of time. “Scent” is actually shedding skin rafts (they’re like cornflakes) and we all shed about 40,000 per minute.

  • @ReSearcherSusie

    @ReSearcherSusie

    Жыл бұрын

    @@rucianapollard7098 see my answer above. 👍🏼

  • @chachadodds5860

    @chachadodds5860

    Жыл бұрын

    Fascinating insight; thank you for sharing your expertise.

  • @nikdagr33k

    @nikdagr33k

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing, these kind of nuggets are gold!

  • @CrystalSaysSo
    @CrystalSaysSo Жыл бұрын

    Dr. Grande, thank you for covering Asha's story. This happened near our county. This little one has just haunted me. I've never forgotten her and never will. I just wish her family had some answers to give them some sort of peace and finality.

  • @BucketHeadianHagg

    @BucketHeadianHagg

    Жыл бұрын

    Her poor parents must be wondering what they did to make her want to run away.. I can’t even imagine the tears they cry

  • @pepperjones7559

    @pepperjones7559

    Жыл бұрын

    I think that impulsivity, a lack of maturity, is playing into this problem as well as her family history. Forensic investigation turns up the strangest and unimaginable results.

  • @CrystalSaysSo

    @CrystalSaysSo

    Жыл бұрын

    @@BucketHeadianHagg I know. I think as parents, we subconsciously put our children in those places and find it is just impossible to do. Not at all saying you have to be a parent to understand or empathize. Heartbreaking.

  • @CrystalSaysSo

    @CrystalSaysSo

    Жыл бұрын

    @@pepperjones7559 I couldn't agree with you more. ✌🏻

  • @CrystalSaysSo

    @CrystalSaysSo

    Жыл бұрын

    @Tiffany Thompson Thank God! Oh, 15 is right at that age of being a kid while you're turning adult! All those hormones! Been there, done so twice. 💜

  • @OhtheSuffering
    @OhtheSuffering Жыл бұрын

    This one spooked me, to be honest. A little girl leaving her home in the cold early hours and just vanishing into the night? And the only things found are remnants of her school supplies? Parents, hug your children tight.

  • @charliechurch5004

    @charliechurch5004

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too...😞

  • @pembrokelove

    @pembrokelove

    Жыл бұрын

    This case has bothered me since I first heard of it some 20 years ago. Of course we all know what most likely happened to that little girl in the end, but why? Why did she walk out that day? Did someone lure her, and if so how did they groom her? Where did they make contact with her and how did they convince her to go out in the dark in that weather.

  • @holaizzy

    @holaizzy

    Жыл бұрын

    @@pembrokelove yes... 💔

  • @holaizzy

    @holaizzy

    Жыл бұрын

    @ohthesuffering I'm with you. Doesn't make sense.

  • @maxalberts2003

    @maxalberts2003

    Жыл бұрын

    @@pembrokelove I can answer your questions easily. The why, where and how aren't that complicated. What's complicated is proving daddy dearest's involvement. And figuring out why mommy dearest looked the other way.

  • @Orionscribe
    @Orionscribe Жыл бұрын

    This is one of my "Top 5" missing persons cases that I would love to see conclusively solved. It just doesn't make sense, no matter what angle I look at it from. If she was running away for whatever reason, why do it in the middle of a storm. In addition to being afraid of dogs, she was said to be afraid of the dark too. Why not take a coat? Why double-wrap a backpack? Was this a trophy intended to be retrieved later? Who was the other girl in the picture? Was it bait as a phony "long lost sister" or a new friend? I really hope a breakthrough happens soon.

  • @Andreamom001

    @Andreamom001

    Жыл бұрын

    I think she left home willingly to go meet someone she thought of as a friend. And on the way, someone in a car picked her up and harmed her, burying her things. :-(

  • @Agaettis

    @Agaettis

    Жыл бұрын

    She had to have a strong reason to run away. There is no way, in my opinion, that a nine year old runs away in the middle of the night when she's scared of the dark and dogs and it's storming outside without a strong reason

  • @thatsalt1560

    @thatsalt1560

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Andreamom001 It was suggested that her basketball coach might have been involved.

  • @sarahm9813

    @sarahm9813

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too. I think of this case often.

  • @felicita5237

    @felicita5237

    Жыл бұрын

    Wich are the other top 4 cases ?

  • @michellecaddell725
    @michellecaddell725 Жыл бұрын

    This case reminds me of Isabel Celis, 6, Tucson. She went missing in the middle of the night in 2012. Her remains were found in the desert in 2017. A man named Christopher Clements was eventually arrested and awaiting trial with killing Isabel and another little girl. He had visited the family home at least one time. My theory is Asha was taken by someone the family knows. I think most little girls don’t wonder off from their families in the middle of the night. Prayers for the family 🙏🏼

  • @roseredm1

    @roseredm1

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for telling us what happened to Isabel Cells. I live in Arizona and remember that hearing that news report on her disappearance. Only thing I'm happy about is the family got closure.

  • @stephaniebaker6001

    @stephaniebaker6001

    Жыл бұрын

    I believe her name was "Asha."

  • @michellecaddell725

    @michellecaddell725

    Жыл бұрын

    @@stephaniebaker6001 Yes, her name is Asha. I tried to edit the post. I’m not sure why correction didn’t save. I’m going to try again.

  • @stephaniebaker6001

    @stephaniebaker6001

    Жыл бұрын

    @@michellecaddell725 Sorry, I wasn't trying to be a b*tch! 🙃

  • @CallMeKevinIsMyCmfrtCharacter

    @CallMeKevinIsMyCmfrtCharacter

    11 ай бұрын

    I went to school with the other girl… she was honestly a sweet/genuine person- I remember she was always very generous! I felt so angry, to think someone had the audacity-to think they can take someone’s life?!!! She was so trusting, I feel as if they took advantage of it-

  • @spasticjackson9578
    @spasticjackson9578 Жыл бұрын

    Something at home was scarier than the dark, cold night.

  • @lisakaye3919

    @lisakaye3919

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree

  • @ambrusin4889

    @ambrusin4889

    Жыл бұрын

    yes, oh lord the fate of this little one. There are nothing more awful than disappearing, and a lil girl..world is full of predators.

  • @tmelanie2815

    @tmelanie2815

    2 ай бұрын

    Exactly

  • @Traderjoe
    @Traderjoe Жыл бұрын

    The fact that two truck drivers mentioned noticing her and thinking it was unusual indicates to me that she stood out. That other people thought it was unusual and was concerning. All it would take is another, evil minded person to also notice her and act upon it.

  • @maxalberts2003

    @maxalberts2003

    Жыл бұрын

    Do you have kids? Have you lived in a small apartment with young children of your own? Her parents are lying through their teeth. The story, on its face, is preposterous. No decent parent sleeps soundly through the night with small children in the house. Period.

  • @Nunya22Too

    @Nunya22Too

    Жыл бұрын

    But why didn't the truck drivers contact the police when they saw her?

  • @michaelperez9966

    @michaelperez9966

    Жыл бұрын

    She stood out because she was 9 years old walking the streets at 4:30 in the morning.

  • @clintonedgerton6452

    @clintonedgerton6452

    Жыл бұрын

    True but not surprised.

  • @theamethyst93

    @theamethyst93

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Nunya22Too people fail to remember this was the early 2000s and most people did not have cell phones like that.

  • @iamyoutoo1
    @iamyoutoo1 Жыл бұрын

    In 3rd grade my friend asked me to help her run away. She had great parents and home life. But she was going through a faze where she thought her younger siblings were getting more attention and all she got was responsibility. I told her the rental house next door to me was empty and it also had a loose door knob in the back and my sis an I would sneak in there and play. Hey it was the late 70s so whatever. My friend wrote a letter packed her stuffed animals and left her house about 3am in the cold rain. I went next door in the morning and she wasn't there! So I called and she was home thank God but her Mom said she wasn't feeling good. Turned out she had a change of ❤️ leaving her pets behind and turned back half way. She had to wake her parents up and they didn't even know she had left! So she ended up with pneumonia and dropped one of her favorite stuffed animals. Someone turned it in at the school so I took it to her. Everything was back to normal. Not long afterward we had the Oakland county child killer where we lived. I shudder to think what could have happened to her. We were 8-9 yrs old. We just didn't have reasoning skills, experience or knowledge about the world. Certainly not maturity. My heart goes out to the Degree family and sweet Asha. But as I experienced, Asha may not have been visibly upset like my friend. She also could have had a friend like me, too young to know better. She could have talked to a kid they dont know about at the valentine party. Idk either but I hope this brings back attention to the case and it gets solved. God bless the family. 🙏

  • @lulub1433

    @lulub1433

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing, it's hard to understand that a girl so young would not be afraid to go out to walk alone miles in the rainy dark night , so to hear a story that is similar helps make more sense to it, even thought the motive is unclear. I'm hoping that any child she talked to with clues would have come forward, even years later to tell her family what they know. What an awful secret let alone burden to carry.

  • @That_Trans_Kid

    @That_Trans_Kid

    4 ай бұрын

    *phase not faze🙄

  • @sunrae7680
    @sunrae7680 Жыл бұрын

    I believe it was someone she knew. The child doesn't seem to trust strangers. Her household seems to be a place where she felt safe. Prayer for her return.

  • @maxalberts2003

    @maxalberts2003

    Жыл бұрын

    But was it? A place where she felt safe? We have her parents' word on that, not hers. And what was her father doing, out "shopping for Valentine candy" in the middle of a stormy February night? Not to mention the fact that no small child would venture out into that weather when she had a warm comfy bed to sleep in. She wouldn't have lasted five minutes out there. And, in an apartment that size, her parents would have heard her attempts to leave. NO PARENT sleeps soundly through the night with small children in the house. At least, no DECENT parent.

  • @patsysmothermon7861

    @patsysmothermon7861

    Жыл бұрын

    AMEN !!🙏🦋💕💒💖

  • @phantomrose2092

    @phantomrose2092

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree, it was probably someone she knew that lured her out of the house. Maybe someone from her basketball team, as her emotions seemed to be really high around that activity. Praying that her family finds peace.

  • @sponish0

    @sponish0

    Жыл бұрын

    As grande mentioned though why wouldn’t they pick her up from near the house seems very strange they’d get her to walk so far at night

  • @wolfslullaby

    @wolfslullaby

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sponish0 maybe so no one like neighbors or the parents would see?

  • @MsNooneinparticular
    @MsNooneinparticular Жыл бұрын

    YES this one has haunted me for years. Little girls don't go off alone into the dark, freezing, rainy night for no reason. People say "Well maybe she was going on an adventure like she read about in a book." No. Even small-town kids (like me) don't just wake up in the middle of the night & go "adventuring" alone in driving rain in the freezing cold. ALONE. That's terrifying. She was also scared of dogs & relatively shy. Something doesn't add up. Either she was running from something in the house or running TO something outside. Or we're not getting the actual story/timeline from the family & the truckdrivers are just projecting misremembered eyewitness accounts after hearing of her disappearance.

  • @gaiaiulia

    @gaiaiulia

    10 ай бұрын

    True, if a child wanted to go on an adventure, she'd probably pick a warm night when it wasn't pouring rain.

  • @SJ-ni6iy

    @SJ-ni6iy

    12 күн бұрын

    Logically, what makes the most sense - she was running away from something or someone had tricked her into meeting them.

  • @elbeelondon
    @elbeelondon Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for covering this case. It has always haunted me, shes only a year older than me so I wonder what she would've been today...sad.💔

  • @lulub1433

    @lulub1433

    Жыл бұрын

    It always sickens me to think someone so precious is taken by an evil person this world is left with.

  • @jodiemcbrodie4997
    @jodiemcbrodie4997 Жыл бұрын

    “No computers and no cellphones in the household ” - don’t forget that this was in back in 2000, and this was standard for most households at that time, definitely with regard to children having cellphones with internet access

  • @TheMariemarie16

    @TheMariemarie16

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes especially for a poor family many didn't have home computers yet although many did already, many still did not. They mention church being a big part of the family's life. Alot of hardworking, poor people focused on family and church didn't see the need to get computers right away yet. It was seen as expensive luxury. I had this type of family but we did get a slow dial up internet PC. It was a miracle my parents bought one pretty early in the mid 90s because my mom typed up programs for the church.

  • @diannt9583

    @diannt9583

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Ass_of_Amalek True. Only "dumb" phones back then.

  • @icturner23

    @icturner23

    Жыл бұрын

    He didn’t say it wasn’t standard. But it was far from universal so he was rightly explaining that that possibility didn’t apply to Asha.

  • @tlc6756

    @tlc6756

    Жыл бұрын

    @@diannt9583 awe, I miss my dumbphone.

  • @marytygett4189

    @marytygett4189

    Жыл бұрын

    My thoughts exactly.

  • @doxasophosmoros
    @doxasophosmoros Жыл бұрын

    Her father said he slept on the couch. he changed his story to say he went to the store at 11:30 to purchase candy and returned at midnight to see Asha lying on the couch, and told her to go to bed. But if that's true, it contradicts the mother, who said she put the kids in bed at 8:30. The circumstances surrounding Asha and Harold's whereabouts the night before are very unclear to me. Concerning the eyewitness accounts - I'm puzzled about these eyewitnesses for several reasons. First off, none of them called 911 when they supposedly saw this little girl. They only reported this after seeing someone was missing on the news. Secondly, we don't even have official statements from them, we have second hand accounts from the police. none of these eyewitnesses have been named, they haven't done interviews with the media, there's very little information on them whatsoever. And lastly, the description some of them gave was a "young woman" walking down the highway. I think it's possible they either saw something or someone else....or they are simply having a bad lapse in memory. Eyewitnesses are notorious for being unreliable, and people are basing all their theories about what happened to Asha on them. It's a very unstable source of information, especially in this case because we've heard so little from them. My theory is that somebody harmed Asha at home between midnight and 2:30, then spent the next couple of hours covering it up. They report her missing, and after hearing reports that she was spotted on highway 18, go back and plant more evidence in the Upholstery shed, and this is why it isn't found until 3 days later. I would be taking a serious look at Asha's father. Something about his stories sound very off tO me

  • @caroleterrell3101

    @caroleterrell3101

    Жыл бұрын

    And in the parents recent interview, the mother said she was asleep on the couch, waking up at midnight.

  • @radioactiverabbit1762

    @radioactiverabbit1762

    10 ай бұрын

    I agree with all of this. Harold said he went to get candy. I think he said that incase someone seen his car out that night.

  • @Laneaa

    @Laneaa

    7 ай бұрын

    Yes, I totally agree! The more I think about this case, the more I think something happened in the house that night. I wish there were more detailed interviews with the parents.

  • @basic_CeceRae

    @basic_CeceRae

    28 күн бұрын

    I’m not saying I 💯 agree but you do make excellent points. Also if I’m not mistaken ,in the 911 call the dad says the neighbor says that they claimed to have seen Asha that morning walking outside. Why didn’t they go outside and walk her back home? Why didn’t they call the police? Why didn’t they walk over and get her parents ? Something has been withheld or altered with the original story and as such we can’t help but be suspicious as to why.

  • @Neillan
    @Neillan Жыл бұрын

    Can't even imagine how the family feels, just never seeing your child/sibling again with no closure. Terrifying!

  • @teijaflink2226

    @teijaflink2226

    Жыл бұрын

    I imagine that they must feel so much guilt for whatever happened that made her run away, must feel horrifying.

  • @carolyncostner9619
    @carolyncostner9619 Жыл бұрын

    My brother was chief investigator on this case, and the parents were ruled out as suspects early on in this case. He feels she càme in contact with tis person at church or school, hence, it was someone she knew and trusted. Our local law enforcement has never let this case go cold. They have at least one person assigned to her case at all times. There is a theory that she was struck and killed by 2 guys coming back to Shelby after making a drug deal in Morganton. These 2 guys were known to law enforcement due to their past drug activity and were afraid to contact law enforcement because of this. They have since come forth and relayed this information to the authorities. Law enforcement have not found this story to be credible for some unknown reason. These 2 guys state they put her body in the bed of their truck and drove to a local lake Moss Lake, and put her body in the lake. This lake has been searched but no body has been found. This is a large, man made lake with untold coves and structures left under the water when it was filled. We all hope that Asha will be found and a resolution comes sooner rather than later. Thanks for covering this mystery.

  • @CyntaxEraNZ

    @CyntaxEraNZ

    Жыл бұрын

    Sounds plausible about someone hitting her with their car, killing her and moving the body. She may have been sleep walking in the middle of the road (where people are probably not expecting a young girl to be, especially in those conditions and at such an early time of the day), didnt see her for whatever reason, and collided with her. If she were sleepwalking she wouldn't have been aware of the car heading towards her. Then the person put her in the car, drove somewhere secluded and disposed of the body. I could imagine that the person(s) who was/were responsible may have been known to police (or on parole maybe?) so unlikely to report it to try and escape the consequences... or they may have been doing something else sketchy at the time - maybe driving while "self medicating"/under the influence of a myriad of drugs, looking for homes to break into (or just burgled somewhere), being in possession of stolen goods, driving without a license (or not permitted to drive). Whatever the situation, it's all so very sad, and I feel awful for her family.

  • @relax2dream164

    @relax2dream164

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this information the first thing I though of was the parents. So odd her scent was not picked up by the dogs.

  • @toughntiny

    @toughntiny

    Жыл бұрын

    But why were the parents ruled out?

  • @carolyncostner9619

    @carolyncostner9619

    Жыл бұрын

    @@toughntiny thru polygraph and investigation. Verifying timelines, etc.

  • @carolyncostner9619

    @carolyncostner9619

    Жыл бұрын

    @@relax2dream164 it was raining at a pretty heavy rate alll night. The heavy rain has a tendency to wash away scent.

  • @ebgreenham
    @ebgreenham Жыл бұрын

    Bruh this is the 3rd video by Dr. Grande in the past 18 hours. I love it, but this man's insane productivity needs a rest! You need a week off to relax, Sir. We don't want you to burnout. We want you for a lifetime.

  • @bthomson

    @bthomson

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes! 🏕🏖🏜🏝🏞

  • @kelseymathias3881

    @kelseymathias3881

    Жыл бұрын

    Dr. G's a pro...he sets his own pace and can handle it fine 😎

  • @doctorajaguar
    @doctorajaguar Жыл бұрын

    I hope Asha's case get solved. Poor little angel. I cant imagine the pain of their parents. Prayers to her entire family.

  • @CarrietheCritic
    @CarrietheCritic Жыл бұрын

    I must argue that even back in 2000, not everyone had computers or cell phones.

  • @naivenitara

    @naivenitara

    Жыл бұрын

    I def didn't

  • @audralynn7454

    @audralynn7454

    Жыл бұрын

    Dr Grande is fairly thorough in his analysis, I believe he mentioned it just so that it was clear she wasn't on AOL or something.

  • @rucianapollard7098

    @rucianapollard7098

    Жыл бұрын

    My mother had a bag mobile phone back in 1993.

  • @icturner23

    @icturner23

    Жыл бұрын

    I don’t get your point. No one has said otherwise.

  • @Bella.216

    @Bella.216

    Жыл бұрын

    I didn't get a real cell phone 2007.

  • @Reina.Nijinsky
    @Reina.Nijinsky Жыл бұрын

    2 truck drivers see a child walking alone alongside a highway & neither one calls 9-1-1? Boggles the mind tbh.

  • @marcusdolby1

    @marcusdolby1

    2 ай бұрын

    Thats because those calls were bogus, misleading.

  • @mookmane4096

    @mookmane4096

    Ай бұрын

    It was in 2001.... not everyone had cell phones...

  • @SJ-ni6iy

    @SJ-ni6iy

    12 күн бұрын

    One of the drivers didn’t say a child but he said a small figure. I’m not sure what he actually saw

  • @Indusxstan
    @Indusxstan Жыл бұрын

    Her rame means hope in Hindi. I hope she is still alive somewhere and the truth comes out one day.

  • @CraftySouthpaw
    @CraftySouthpaw Жыл бұрын

    Glad to see you covering this case. The image of that little girl walking alone at night on a roadside in the pouring rain has always given me chills.

  • @jamaaldavis6243
    @jamaaldavis6243 Жыл бұрын

    Yay! You’re covering Asha Degree!!!!!! I requested this sometime back. Not all heroes wear capes. Thanks again, doc!

  • @julialucas1482
    @julialucas1482 Жыл бұрын

    Many children do not feel safe at home. It is a terrifying reality.

  • @rucianapollard7098
    @rucianapollard7098 Жыл бұрын

    I don't believe that Asha is alive. Her remains just haven't been found. And I think her killer disposed of her back pack.

  • @cantfindmykeys

    @cantfindmykeys

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes. But he intended to return for the backpack and other items. They belonged to his victims and he preserved them by wrapping them in plastic.

  • @theamethyst93

    @theamethyst93

    Жыл бұрын

    @@cantfindmykeys how do you know he intended to return? What makes you think his intention was to come back and get the items and why did he suddenly need to get rid of the items?

  • @cantfindmykeys

    @cantfindmykeys

    Жыл бұрын

    @@theamethyst93 I don't know, I'm only speculating. Many predators and serial killers will keep trophies from victims. They keep clothing, jewelry, even body parts. He probably didn't want the items (evidence) in his possession until he disposed of the bodies. Later he would retrieve them and store them in a secure location near or in his residence. But that's only my best guess.

  • @thatonethisone5904
    @thatonethisone5904 Жыл бұрын

    Not gonna lie, this case only makes sense to me if the parents know more than they’re letting on. She was too protected for anyone to groom

  • @BrisLS1

    @BrisLS1

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes, why didn't he offer the parents as one possibility here, some kind of conspiracy? Why did they check on the kids so many times over night? I get the first check after the power outage, but not the second time hours later.

  • @tlc6756

    @tlc6756

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes, she seemed to be raised to be wary and had several fears. It could've been her parents, but also someone who came off as very caring/parental could have been there while Asha was in the woods feeling extremely vunerable. A commenter here suggested that because the trucker had radioed the message in, a criminal could've heard it over a scanner and drove out to abduct her (or could've had a shady girlfriend to entice her to get into their car).

  • @tlc6756

    @tlc6756

    Жыл бұрын

    @@BrisLS1 that stood out to me too.. why check them a second time only a few hours later at a time when most children wouldve been asleep? (Although maybe they were just checking that they weren't talking/reading/goofing off). They could've just been overly fearful/compulsive parents which could correlate with having no computers/cellphones and her not being aloud out alone during the day. I'm wondering if they had an acquaintance/relative they feared might take Asha. Or it could be that Asha rebelled at her parents constant overprotection and did run away.

  • @maryjanerx

    @maryjanerx

    Жыл бұрын

    @@tlc6756 it was mentioned that her brother heard squeeking from the other bed. Is it possible the father commited crimes of a s3xu4l nature and thats why she ran away?

  • @tlc6756

    @tlc6756

    Жыл бұрын

    @@maryjanerx it's could be, but it's so hard to say. It depends on if the brother thought the squeaking was unusual/loud or if he simply heard the squeaking and it wasn't unusual. So many things could've happened. Even if the parents were to blame for her running away, it doesn't explain why shes never been found since. Very sad🧐

  • @denish1
    @denish1 Жыл бұрын

    Oh Sweet Asha 😔 Living in NC I've seen her face most of my life. I've always hoped there will be resolution 🙏🏽 Thanks for covering this one Doc and for providing your perspective

  • @Vidikis360
    @Vidikis360 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for covering this case Dr Grande! This is such a haunting case. As you put it, each theory seems unlikely, yet one has to be true. I think theories 1 or 2 are the most plausible, but even those theories require logical leaps. I wonder if there is a chance that she could still be alive, as they haven’t found her remains. For example, she could have been sold into human trafficking, illegally adopted, or held captive. Law Enforcement stated that they are operating under the assumption that she is alive, and that they are not looking for remains, but rather Asha as a 32 year old. I just wish the public had more information about the evidence, and all of the unconfirmed facts about the case. I think this case often, and my thoughts are with her family, and community. Once again, thank you Dr Grande!

  • @sabrinashelton1997

    @sabrinashelton1997

    Жыл бұрын

    He didn't speculate that the parents or sibling were involved. That could be true.

  • @gardensofthegods

    @gardensofthegods

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sabrinashelton1997 my first thought for some reason is that a relative was involved

  • @SjofnBM1989
    @SjofnBM1989 Жыл бұрын

    I always wonder if Asha was talking to a pen pal who was posing as the little girl in the photo. Pen pals were still quite common in the late 90s and early 2000s. The pen pal could have posed as the little girl to groom Asha and tricked her into coming to meet them at their house and then snatched her up before she had a chance to get away.

  • @Peeved100

    @Peeved100

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree. That New Kids on the Block shirt looks more like a little girl's nightgown. My daughter had several with that exact cut, just different design on the front. Thus, I think Asha expected to be gone at least overnight. So maybe she was lured to a sleepover with the little girl in the picture?

  • @rachaelhume1818

    @rachaelhume1818

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah, now that you say this, I can remember reading about cases where this occurred. Sorry, can't remember any names.

  • @GAshoneybear

    @GAshoneybear

    Жыл бұрын

    That's a good point. A lot of us had pen pals in the 90s so that is a viable option.

  • @lulub1433

    @lulub1433

    Жыл бұрын

    That is definitely a good theory. The "girl" could have even sent her the nightgown. I wonder if the phone records picked anything up, a lot of weirdos have been known to call girls and send gifts.

  • @maryjocassell48

    @maryjocassell48

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Peeved100 They did actually find out the exact style, and you're absolutely right. It is a little nightgown.☮️💜

  • @samjam2376
    @samjam2376 Жыл бұрын

    One thing I want to point out is that the two drivers "think" they saw her. It's not like this was a positive ID with 100% certainty.

  • @nathanjackson4189

    @nathanjackson4189

    Жыл бұрын

    And if I recall correctly, both notified police AFTER the story aired on the local news.

  • @sarahmccrimmon5268

    @sarahmccrimmon5268

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@nathanjackson4189which makes me think that they didn't not see Asha that night because if you see a child walking along the highway in the cold rain why wouldn't you call 911??? I think Asha was killed by her parents, her father's whereabouts that night have changed multiple times and K-9 units couldn't track her scent pass the driveway and there were no footprints.

  • @fredajordan5704
    @fredajordan5704 Жыл бұрын

    Even living in Germany I`ve heard about this sad case. It`s totally puzzling to me. Since the squeeking of the bed woke up the brother for a secind it could have been Asha was taken by a stranger right at that moment....But then the sightings on the street...Really very mysterious. Hope that there will be answers soon.

  • @puketinmoarliek994

    @puketinmoarliek994

    Жыл бұрын

    I always thiught someone maybe was watching them

  • @maryjocassell48

    @maryjocassell48

    Жыл бұрын

    I believe her brother had heard her bed squeak at two different times. Crime Weekly does a 3 part series on Asha if you're interested.☮️☮️

  • @rodrickweir
    @rodrickweir Жыл бұрын

    I sure hope the police thoroughly investigated eveyone close to Asha, not only her parents, but the people who work with the parents and the landlord. This story gave me the creeps and broke my heart at the same time!

  • @vladimirputindreadlockrast812
    @vladimirputindreadlockrast812 Жыл бұрын

    As a person who lived next door to a beagle in a pen next to the garage wall, like the amphitheater of the Hollywood bowl facing my bedroom, beagles are literally air horns on four legs.

  • @tlc6756

    @tlc6756

    Жыл бұрын

    Ah, you have my sincere condolences 😣.

  • @missymitekite

    @missymitekite

    Жыл бұрын

    LOL

  • @cantfindmykeys

    @cantfindmykeys

    Жыл бұрын

    lol, true. And the one my friend had would get under the covers and crawl up beside me when I was dogsitting. Funny breed.

  • @rachaelhume1818

    @rachaelhume1818

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes! I had a friend who would leave her beagle with me when she traveled. He was was quiet during the day, but when the lights went off, I was shocked by the howling!

  • @vladimirputindreadlockrast812

    @vladimirputindreadlockrast812

    Жыл бұрын

    @@rachaelhume1818 Thank you for understanding!

  • @Andreamom001
    @Andreamom001 Жыл бұрын

    I really wonder if she was sleepwalking at first. Recently, I was on a camping trip with a group of girls that age, and one girl who was sleepwalking got out of her sleeping bag, navigated past the other girls without waking them, unzipped her tent, climbed out, walked across the campsite to another tent, and started calling out for one of her parents. Adults woke up and started talking to her, but by the time they could get out of their sleeping bags and find the door of their tent and get out, she had gone back into her tent and zipped it closed again. She never fully woke up.

  • @chachadodds5860

    @chachadodds5860

    Жыл бұрын

    Interesting theory, and quite plausible. I've seen a number of sleep walkers in action, and was one myself while on the insomnia medication, Ambien. It's very dangerous, and very scary because anything is possible when you're in that state. I've heard of people getting in their cars and driving while asleep. You made a very good point, that would have to be confirmed by the family as to whether Asha, was a sleep walker, or not. Thought provoking, nonetheless.

  • @sparky6086

    @sparky6086

    Жыл бұрын

    @@chachadodds5860 I think, that sleepwalking should be on the list of possibilities. Perhaps the interruption in her normal routine from the power outage triggered an episode of sleepwalking? Maybe, she didn't eat that evening due to the outage? Going to bed hungry can cause sleepwalking. That could explain why she apparently left the house unprepared for the weather and without the fear of the dark, which she usually had. Many people, until they encounter a sleepwalker, don't realize how common it is. I remember my elderly dad had to use a cane, when he walked for balance, but I encountered him sleepwalking & navigating the halls & stairs of his house without a cane, like he was 40 years younger! When I was in college & in the Army, drinking seemed to be a common cause of it. I don't know about children specifically, but sleepwalking could be just as common with them as with adults. I don't know, that there even needs to be a cause, like hunger, drinking, or Ambien? Sleepwalking could certainly explain, why things didn't make logical sense Btw, I had a girlfriend who took Ambien 20 years ago. She quit taking it, after she woke up in her front yard, in her nightgown a couple of times.

  • @melfreemans

    @melfreemans

    Жыл бұрын

    My neighbor was a chronic sleep walker between the ages of 6-10. She would exit her house and walk around in the yard. It was during the 1960s, in a quiet neighborhood in NC. But had it been these days, or in a not so nice area, someone could have easily grabbed her.

  • @govinda102000

    @govinda102000

    Жыл бұрын

    My sister was often sleepwalking at this age.

  • @cantfindmykeys

    @cantfindmykeys

    Жыл бұрын

    I had a roommate that was a sleepwalker. But usually there is a history of it so if it never happened before, it's unlikely.

  • @jpc3603
    @jpc3603 Жыл бұрын

    The photo in the outhouse of an unidentified Black girl found alongside Asha 's possessions makes this sound like somebody absolutely is responsible for her disappearance and it was not random. She had contact with people who could have gained her trust such as teachers, church folk or even family members. My heart goes out to her 💔

  • @tlc6756

    @tlc6756

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes, because most likely if the photo was a friend of Asha's the police would've found that friend early on. I'm wondering if the photo was ever put up as flyers or on a crime show? If not, it should've been.

  • @nathanjackson4189

    @nathanjackson4189

    Жыл бұрын

    @@tlc6756 it’s on Reddit

  • @tlc6756

    @tlc6756

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nathanjackson4189 thanks , but alot of people don't read Reddit. It needs to be on the news.

  • @lulub1433

    @lulub1433

    Жыл бұрын

    Not sure how much coverage went out with releasing that photo, but that is no random little girl. I'm surprised no one at all could identify her, it's a school photo and those are always unique to the individual so why does no one know/ or has recognized this mystery child?

  • @tlc6756

    @tlc6756

    Жыл бұрын

    @@lulub1433 exactly, something's not right.

  • @rosedewinter5633
    @rosedewinter5633 Жыл бұрын

    I've always thought this a very strange case. Thank you for covering

  • @LDD04Gaming
    @LDD04Gaming Жыл бұрын

    Dr. Grande, a sincere thank you for all your content and hard work! It's a pleasure watching your channel flourish! I'll be a Doc myself in May, and I'll make sure to write back, with my new title! Until then, keep up the phenomenal work!

  • @iheartwaffles91
    @iheartwaffles91 Жыл бұрын

    I think someone stalked her at the basketball game. They saw her stand out when she got upset and began targeting/plotting to kidnap her. That or she really did run away.

  • @MusgraveRitual
    @MusgraveRitual Жыл бұрын

    This case reminded me of Linda Healy, Ted Bundy's first (official) victim. She was taken from her bed in the middle of the night, no one heard or saw anything, and her backpack and housekeys were missing, which stumped the investigators initially thinking she took those items with her and left of her own will, but now we know Bundy took them along with her body. I thought a lot of elements of that crime sounded similar to this case.

  • @positivelysimful1283

    @positivelysimful1283

    Жыл бұрын

    This actually makes more sense to me in some ways than the idea that she left voluntarily without a jacket in the middle of the night to go on an adventure or meet someone in the pouring rain... you're running away/sneaking out for the night in February and you don't bring a jacket? that makes no sense. She had recently had a sleepover, maybe that's why she had a bag packed. If someone abducted her from the house they could have taken it to make it look like a run-away. We know Asha (or someone or someone with her bag of stuff) made it to the shed; could that have been an abductor hiding out for a while snacking on her candy and looking through her stuff after he disposed of her body? But then I think there should have been some trace of evidence of an abduction-- how would her brother not hear it when he can hear the bed squeaking? Plus two people later reported seeing her walking alone down the road... how reliable were those witnesses? Such a confusing case.

  • @kerri4756
    @kerri4756 Жыл бұрын

    Children are naturally curious about the world, so I wonder if she waited to leave in the middle of the night to do something “reckless” or “exciting” as she had a sheltered, seemingly strict upbringing. I believe it’s possible that seeing other cars made her scared and she realized the reality of what she was doing, and in the process she was scared to go back to her home fearing consequences from her parents. It’s possible someone with bad intentions picked her up seeing her along the road and she thought that they were there to help :(

  • @twinvasion7798
    @twinvasion7798 Жыл бұрын

    Used to work with her mom back in 2003 in Lincolnton, NC. Such a sad situation.

  • @annie_b17
    @annie_b17 Жыл бұрын

    Something that really broke my heart while reading about this case was hearing that some of her family still has faith she may be alive somewhere. Part of me wishes so much that were true. But if she did live, what must her life have been like? 💔💔 the mind goes to so many dark places. This is such a fucked up case. I hope one day her family gets answers 🕊

  • @Mellypepper
    @Mellypepper Жыл бұрын

    My thoughts: she was either groomed by someone at her church and lured out or she was using the computers at the library, met someone in chat and was lured away. Since it’s usually someone you know I’m leaning towards the first one, churches give a lot of opportunity for grooming.

  • @tlc6756

    @tlc6756

    Жыл бұрын

    I don't think there's too many stories of people at churches kidnaping children that could easily identify them. Sure, its possible and child molestation can happen anywhere.. but child abductors usually don't groom someone from a church where everyone knows them. Also, it seems the parents were overprotective and would be intune if an adult was paying Asha special attention. Also, she was seen walking alone late at night near the woods by witnesses.

  • @SoullessGinger1313

    @SoullessGinger1313

    Жыл бұрын

    Someone close to her had to be involved, or she ran away and was a chance victim. I can't really see her running away in the cold and dark, though, so I also think someone groomed her.

  • @gigiwills7851

    @gigiwills7851

    Жыл бұрын

    I know one such story. In this case, the parents were "groomed" too-the perp bent over backwards to be "such a good guy". No one could believe such a good guy would do anything like that. Despite earlier accusations by "crazy" people. (His narrative). The family of the little girl left the church; the perp stayed, member in good standing.

  • @Mellypepper

    @Mellypepper

    Жыл бұрын

    @@gigiwills7851 Yup, me too! There was a baby just kidnapped by a woman from his parents church. I also recently read a news story of a pastor grooming a 16 year old girl. She’s now an adult and finally reported him. It happens more than people realize.

  • @everwhat013

    @everwhat013

    Жыл бұрын

    the basketball team kept coming up...

  • @paperdollglitz
    @paperdollglitz Жыл бұрын

    I get that parents check on their children before bed to make sure everything is okay but why would the father check on her at the 9 o'clock hour and then hours later at 2 in morning? Did he suspect something would happen or hear anything? Did he normally check on the children multiple times? Seems like there is something there. Did the brother know more but was hushed from saying something? 🤔 Thank you Dr. Grande.

  • @TiffWaffles

    @TiffWaffles

    Жыл бұрын

    I wonder if dad had a feeling something was going to happen and checked his children's room because he wanted to ensure everything was okay. Sometimes parents have these premonitions. My mother had a bad feeling the night that my sister and I were supposed to go to our bio dad's house for a weekend trip. I remember her checking up on us a few times during the night. Turns out bio dad planned on kidnapping us and bringing us to an Indigenous reservation where he knew police couldn't get us without jumping through hoops and hurdles. Maybe something similar happened in this case and dad just had a feeling that something bad was going to happen? Also, if Asha planned on running away maybe she had gotten up and was going to leave when dad heard something and decided to check it out and she jumped into bed. Her brother said that he heard his sister's bed creak as though she had gotten up or moved right after dad moved away from the door or something. I feel that she was going to meet somebody and met up with foul play. It doesn't make much sense for why she would leave the house during the night, especially when she was terrified of the dark (according to reports).

  • @Seegoatlove

    @Seegoatlove

    Жыл бұрын

    Possibly, but I have a kid, and usually suffer from insomnia, so I check on my kid multiple times during the night.

  • @cleoldbagtraallsorts3380

    @cleoldbagtraallsorts3380

    Жыл бұрын

    Maybe he got up to use the bathroom and just stuck his head in the kids room. Lots of parents do this.

  • @SoullessGinger1313

    @SoullessGinger1313

    Жыл бұрын

    I didn't wonder so much about that. If you have a small child who is afraid of the dark and a power outage that takes out the nightlight, you check on them more - a quick reassurance while they are still sleepy and in bed beats getting an upset and crying child to go back to sleep. I always checked when there were power outages. Everyone is different, but the night checks would have been normal for our household.

  • @cantfindmykeys

    @cantfindmykeys

    Жыл бұрын

    I used to check on my old doggie several times a night because I was so attached to her. I don't think it's that strange. The parents seem to be truthful about the events of that night.

  • @snappingturtlehiddentiger6571
    @snappingturtlehiddentiger6571 Жыл бұрын

    Her family involvement? What a scary and strange case. Poor little darling girl 😟 she deserved far better.

  • @onelife7247
    @onelife7247 Жыл бұрын

    Children who’ve experienced trauma can sometimes sleep walk. When observed by parents, it can literally look as if the child is awake but the bloodshot eyes and vacant stare are a giveaway that the child is not actually awake. Also, the child can sound as if they’re in a trance-like state when interacting with the concerned caregiver. If she wandered off whilst sleep walking then who knows what happened. On February 13th 2022, why did neither of those truck drivers actually stop??

  • @diannt9583

    @diannt9583

    Жыл бұрын

    One did return to investigate. (Hard to get a 18-wheeler to stop on a dime.)

  • @ariesgirl9592

    @ariesgirl9592

    Жыл бұрын

    @@diannt9583 or to get it turned around to go back.

  • @onelife7247

    @onelife7247

    Жыл бұрын

    @Diann T Nonsense. I saw a man do it when a black cat crossed in front of us on the road! True story ☝️

  • @SunflowerJuliet
    @SunflowerJuliet Жыл бұрын

    I became aware of Asha when Prosecutors Podcast featured her - it is the strangest story - someone the family knows got her to leave, someone she trusted and then who knows what happened - but it isnt good, poor kid--the items were put there not by asha but by someone who wanted it to appear they were left by asha-i truly believe what happened to her began inside her home

  • @theSemiChrist
    @theSemiChrist Жыл бұрын

    She may have had "secret" plans to meet up with a friend that, as one would expect, had trouble getting out of their house at that hour and at that age.

  • @merrymaid2890

    @merrymaid2890

    Жыл бұрын

    If so, why have that friend not come forward after all these years?

  • @kelseymathias3881

    @kelseymathias3881

    Жыл бұрын

    @@merrymaid2890 guilt, or fear maybe.

  • @ninabrown3044
    @ninabrown3044 Жыл бұрын

    She did attend church the day before the disappearance. Maybe she made a plan to meet someone and that person turned out to be untrustworthy. Such a sad situation.

  • @cantfindmykeys

    @cantfindmykeys

    Жыл бұрын

    yep, I think so. Lots of predators lurking in churches and schools. Sad.

  • @BucketHeadianHagg
    @BucketHeadianHagg Жыл бұрын

    Good morning Dr Grande! Thank you for the upload!

  • @ceejay4911
    @ceejay4911 Жыл бұрын

    There was an update done in this case. Truly sad. The parents talked about how the police initially thought they were involved. They said they would like to know what happened to their daughter.

  • @Harlow_Khmer

    @Harlow_Khmer

    Жыл бұрын

    Sadly in a lot of cases, the parents are the actual suspects. Not saying her parents were, I'm just not shocked they were looked into as suspects.

  • @claudinejames7731

    @claudinejames7731

    Жыл бұрын

    I know they have to interview everyone including the family but it is horrible being told you are a suspect at the same time you recieve the news.

  • @maxalberts2003

    @maxalberts2003

    Жыл бұрын

    That poor, beautiful child vanished in the middle of the night from a small, locked apartment. Who would YOU suspect?

  • @tlc6756

    @tlc6756

    Жыл бұрын

    @@maxalberts2003 a nine year old would have no problem unlocking a door. Plus witnesses have told police a girl fitting her description was seen in the woods late night/early morning hours. How many 9 year old children would be walking alone at the time?

  • @canileaveitblank1476

    @canileaveitblank1476

    Жыл бұрын

    The parents must be looked at to rule them out. Every family member is a suspect.

  • @crystaaal7824
    @crystaaal7824 Жыл бұрын

    9 yr old, middle of the night at home, no dog track scent, my theory is one of the parents killed her, grabbed some of her things, put them and her into their car, and dumped the body somewhere. They put the random things around to throw the case off. The “witness sightings” were not her, even though the truckers said it “might have” been her.

  • @tlc6756

    @tlc6756

    Жыл бұрын

    How many children are walking alone at that hour in a storm to where a witness might mistake them for an adult? Also, it would be too risky for the parents to later go to different scenes and plant her belongings, especially in a tight knit community where they were known in their church. Neighbors could've noticed their car going in/out at odd hours/could tell the police, , and they definitely wouldn't want to be seen during the day at the same places where her belongings were left. Also, in another comment, a canine search and rescue expert explained how the sent will stop as soon as the victim is driven off in a car. Perhaps the storm erased any footprints.

  • @eadweard.

    @eadweard.

    Жыл бұрын

    Another 9 year old girl in the middle of the night? What an idiotic theory.

  • @crystaaal7824

    @crystaaal7824

    Жыл бұрын

    @@tlc6756 Good questions, but since the case has been cold over 20 years, it might be beneficial for them to take a fresh look again at the parents and not have tunnel vision that she ran away. Statistics show that most missing kids end up being found a lot closer to home than imagined.

  • @tlc6756

    @tlc6756

    Жыл бұрын

    @@crystaaal7824 yes, they definitely should look at this case again, especially if they said they felt she was still alive. I'm wondering if they ever posted the photo of the girl they found in the backpack. Someone's got to have recognized her. That would seem to help find some answers.. Maybe it should be on Americas Most Wanted!

  • @katieg.9235

    @katieg.9235

    Жыл бұрын

    I wonder if the rain also interfered with the dogs finding her scent?

  • @heathernikki5734
    @heathernikki5734 Жыл бұрын

    I just don't think she ever left the house and I've looked into it for like 7 years. Eyewitnesses can be so unreliable, who knows if the truck driver saw a kid

  • @minnietrout814
    @minnietrout814 Жыл бұрын

    Both sad and puzzling. Her parents have lived in torment for so many years. I pray they get a resolution.

  • @so-cas4454
    @so-cas4454 Жыл бұрын

    I knew it was raining but I had never heard that it was 35° when she disappeared. I do not believe that a nine-year-old would have the fortitude and the bravery to leave the home for any length of time under those conditions. Also some of the planning seems very sophisticated for someone her age... However, Leiby Kletzky’s murderer was someone who took advantage of the fact that he got lost the very first time he was to walk home alone. Who knows who was out and about and will decide to start their career in Crime.

  • @82nonnie
    @82nonnie Жыл бұрын

    What really disturbs me is why the police search was so short. This is why people complain that little black girls dont get enough attention when they are missing. I have an 11 year old niece and could not imagine her being brave enough to go outside at 2am on her own. Most little girls are afraid of the dark. And a 9 year old well behaved little girl that seems very unlikely. I think her being taken from her bedroom is possible! I had a break in my house when i was younger and my stupid uncle didnt wake up even though they climb in through his window! His room was the only one on the main floor so the rest of the house didn’t hear anything. The whole family was dumbfounded, luckily he just took a few things and left! I definitely think a small child would also have a hard time being so quiet.. and was she walking around the house in the dark,? Was the lights left on by her in the morning? Sometimes these investigations really bother me, as someone who has delt with family tragedies ive seen first hand how some detectives miss alot of details and just come up with the easiest explanations, i would’ve immediately hired a private investigator, sometimes you have to. I pray she wasn’t sold into sex trafficking and is ok

  • @jasminerangel7609
    @jasminerangel7609 Жыл бұрын

    I feel like it had to be someone she knew either someone in her family or maybe an older neighbor teen

  • @lisabradford8180

    @lisabradford8180

    Жыл бұрын

    i do too.

  • @doreenedeputy5118

    @doreenedeputy5118

    Жыл бұрын

    i do too something don't add up that late at night

  • @jasminerangel7609

    @jasminerangel7609

    Жыл бұрын

    @@doreenedeputy5118 another thing that bothers me is the car accident that happened earlier that night! It could’ve been a coincidence but I wonder if it could be connected

  • @anne-mariemoore
    @anne-mariemoore Жыл бұрын

    Didn't know about this little girl but it sounds horrendous. So sad 😞

  • @donnanhuggler8451
    @donnanhuggler8451 Жыл бұрын

    Horrific thing to parse .🤢 …. Great analysis as always. Humanity as it relates to modern day society has some terrible ticks. It’s important to take note and share the data. Thanks again.

  • @blueStarKitt7924

    @blueStarKitt7924

    Жыл бұрын

    Not only modern day society unfortunately.😔

  • @combatwombat1973
    @combatwombat1973 Жыл бұрын

    I'm surprised you didn't consider the theory that her parents killed her, and faked everything. That's usually what happens in cases like this. Presumably the police were able to exclude the parents as suspects.

  • @Cinder_311

    @Cinder_311

    Жыл бұрын

    I don't think they did

  • @gardensofthegods

    @gardensofthegods

    Жыл бұрын

    For some reason I think a relative did it but not the parents

  • @cantfindmykeys

    @cantfindmykeys

    Жыл бұрын

    You would think. But me and my brother and sister were always threatening to run away. It seemed like fun. My parents were overprotective and we wanted to see the world. We made a raft and floated down the creek for a mile and called my mom to pick us up. We were just spoiled and being silly.

  • @Moodboard39

    @Moodboard39

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@gardensofthegodsthey know something

  • @gardensofthegods

    @gardensofthegods

    Ай бұрын

    @@Moodboard39 it is possible they know something . I remember some of this case but not all of it but I don't want to have to hear it all over again as I recall how depressed I was after hearing this and I don't like hearing about kids getting murdered and so I just hope somehow that poor girl is getting Justice someday soon and that whoever did this to her will be brought to the law ... prison

  • @Fumi007
    @Fumi007 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for covering this. It’s rare you see people talking about missing black and brown girls.

  • @anncorsaro224
    @anncorsaro224 Жыл бұрын

    Dr. grande, I’m so glad you did this episode on Asha. I live in Charlotte and have always wondered about her.

  • @Lei-AICPhD
    @Lei-AICPhD Жыл бұрын

    They found her backpack and some hair right behind my childhood home. There’s a Creek on highway 18 that we all played at, literally fall out of my front door into the creek, this is where they found her book bag and some hair. This was always close to my families heart. We would walk through the woods and the side of the mountain over and over trying to find something. Realizing that her stuff was right there more than likely meant the killer way right near us if they’re the ones who dropped it there. I’m so thankful you’re covering this. I absolutely wish this could be solved, she could be found, and whoever did this, locked up permanently.

  • @Vidikis360

    @Vidikis360

    Жыл бұрын

    Did they find hair? I only knew about the backpack.

  • @Lei-AICPhD

    @Lei-AICPhD

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s what the detectives told my Mom and Dad when they were scouring the ground after finding the Bookbag. It may have been found not Hair, we just always went with it as the initial report

  • @TheFixIsIn-fe1jy
    @TheFixIsIn-fe1jy Жыл бұрын

    You said that the kids didn't take a bath because of the power outage, they went to bed at 8:pm, the outage was at 9:00 pm, so the parents lied? they had already been in bed for an hour before the outage.

  • @sunnydays2178

    @sunnydays2178

    Жыл бұрын

    I thought the same thing!

  • @cptjockitch
    @cptjockitch Жыл бұрын

    Can you do the Terrance Woods jr case?? It’s one of the stranger cases I’ve seen.

  • @skreemqueen7520
    @skreemqueen7520 Жыл бұрын

    I’m so excited to watch your analysis!!! This case haunts me …. I heard about it a year or so ago. I still think about it. Love you Dr Grande!

  • @jennifergiannantonio7764
    @jennifergiannantonio7764 Жыл бұрын

    Dr. Grande, please look into and cover the case of 10 year old Amy Mihaljevic taken from a shopping center here in Bay Village, OH. I was only 3 when my mom had me pass out flyers for people in the area to look for her body. Personally, I already have my theory and suspect to this point... having followed and studied the case for so long. But I would love to hear your input.

  • @rucianapollard7098

    @rucianapollard7098

    Жыл бұрын

    I read a book about this case. The author believes he interviewed the killer.

  • @jennifergiannantonio7764

    @jennifergiannantonio7764

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Ass_of_Amalek lol!! luckily i didn't know what i was passing out. i couldn't read yet and it was at a christmas expo thing where a lot of christmas stuff was going on. i didn't know i passed them out until my mother told me years later.

  • @jennifergiannantonio7764

    @jennifergiannantonio7764

    Жыл бұрын

    @@rucianapollard7098 yes. James Renner. he's a reporter. he was a kid like me when Amy was found murdered. so he's always been concerned with the case, and the fact that even having good suspect options, one very much in particular, the police would never question him as years and years passed. so eventually he kind of went rogue to where this guy is known to be living and tried to get him to talk himself. and he was met with some antagonistic, curious responses. but the police just yelled at james for getting involved. personally, i believe james is correct on the suspect... no other suspect matches everything about the killer and the investigation so completely. i've heard people claiming on reddit and stuff that the police have officially ruled the guy out and now think it's someone else. but i think there is zero chance that they really have. i believe that 1) they would claim so in attempt to get james off their back & 2) they don't want the guy to know how much of a suspect he really is. because he's flighty. he already fled the state after the crime to begin with. they have items found with her body and are trying to have them identified by the public. i would think so that they then can present and arrest with physical evidence on hand, but there is no question that this man matches everything known about the killer and the investigation so completely. if law enforcement does their job right, i think James will find himself to have been right. this man should not have been let to live free for decades now. the local public has always seemed to be more concerned about justice for Amy then local law enforcement has... and it's just really upsetting. over 30 years now. we want answers. we haven't forgotten about her.

  • @rucianapollard7098

    @rucianapollard7098

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jennifergiannantonio7764 thanks for the comment. I agree, I think Mr. Renner found and talked to Amy's killer. I just wonder how many other little girls he has hurt or possibly killed?? People like him do not stop committing these types of crimes unless they are caught or incapacitated in some way like being in jail on an unrelated offense, locked away at a mental facility or dead. There is no statue of limitations on murder, so I don't understand why the police wouldn't put pressure on this guy. Perhaps one day justice will be done for little Amy and Asha.

  • @lindanowak7893
    @lindanowak7893 Жыл бұрын

    Why couldn’t she have been sleepwalking? One of my children did that and had no memory of it the next day. He walked out of the apartment and went down the hall and threw a stuffed toy into the trash room. He came back in, leaving the door open, and his stuffed toy was gone when he woke up. The janitor later said he saw the toy in the room for a couple days before he threw it out. Why couldn’t Asha have walked out in a sleep state? It makes no sense. She could have woken up after a while not knowing where she was. She could have encountered any number of mishaps after regaining consciousness. She had no cellphone and was sort of isolated, no? My son missed his toy, so I bought a few more exactly the same for him.

  • @kimberlygabaldon3260
    @kimberlygabaldon3260 Жыл бұрын

    It sounds like she was likely taken by someone who she knew. If the book was checked out from her school library, and not by her, they had to have known where she went to school. Could someone have prearranged for her to come downstairs and meet them at the door, for instance by signaling her with a flashlight or something? (Could she see out the window from her bed?). Then, she got into a car? I'm wondering about child trafficking. Someone she knew from school or church?

  • @icturner23

    @icturner23

    Жыл бұрын

    No, It’s much more likely that she took the book without officially borrowing it, either directly from the library or from a classmate.

  • @tlc6756

    @tlc6756

    Жыл бұрын

    But how would you explain the sightings of her by witnesses such as the trucker who saw her in the woods?

  • @kimberlygabaldon3260

    @kimberlygabaldon3260

    Жыл бұрын

    @@tlc6756 Maybe things got weird, so she changed her mind and got out of the car?

  • @NickTraina

    @NickTraina

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kimberlygabaldon3260 thats a reach. she prob just couldn't have just walked out of the car lol

  • @muchtested

    @muchtested

    Жыл бұрын

    Nobody has brought up if Asha is the only child to ever go missing from her school. Could the backpack have held trophies of multiple victims? You have someone in this comment thread willing to accuse this child of theft with no proof, when the 3 different items could be from 2 or 3 different crimes. Most Dr. Seuss books are for much younger children Asha. It wasn't mentioned if the book was recently checked out or missing either.

  • @Khaotic450
    @Khaotic450 Жыл бұрын

    Such a sad, sad story. Poor Asha. I can't even begin to imagine what she went through. It's so heartbreaking. 💔 Dr. Grande, we need an analysis on all of this Ezra Miller madness that's going on. Keep up the great work my friend! 🙌

  • @michaelmoran9720
    @michaelmoran9720 Жыл бұрын

    There’s definitely, another theory! The most simple and statistically likely: she never left the house alive that night. A family member killed her, and disposed of the body. People say that that couldn’t possibly be the case here, bc her parents passed a lie detector and have been helpful in the search. I just don’t get why those 2 things clear them completely. The quickest study on lie detectors and their accuracy, will shock those who think its a good indicator of guilt or innocence. As for the truckers seeing Asha AFTER the details were announced publicly? That happens all the time with high profile cases. People “remember” all sorts of things they go to the cops with. They aren’t necessarily lying, it’s just a trick our minds play on us. Asha’s items were almost certainly planted by someone, later. Not her. I simply don’t understand why this case has all these bizarre twists and turns, when it all seems pretty simple.

  • @cutiepiebb

    @cutiepiebb

    Жыл бұрын

    the thing is, they would have to be some kind of criminal masterminds to leave 0 evidence in the house, for the brother to not notice anything, and to dispose of the body quickly

  • @tasheenajohnson602

    @tasheenajohnson602

    Жыл бұрын

    @@cutiepiebb yeah, if she did not leave the house on her own. She was taken out silently, by who we don’t know. 😢

  • @Jdawnsha

    @Jdawnsha

    Жыл бұрын

    Correct!

  • @jaxbutterfly9186
    @jaxbutterfly9186 Жыл бұрын

    Good morning Dr. Grande. I really appreciate that you still have humor in spite of the horrendous circumstances. I personally find missing children to be the biggest nightmare any parent could endure. Love the checks.

  • @helpyourcattodrive
    @helpyourcattodrive Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for another interesting story and analysis, Grande. There are so many and your input on them means a lot.

  • @davidwartski7213
    @davidwartski7213 Жыл бұрын

    If she's alive, it's difficult to believe she would've survived without someone intervening. Same goes for her not being alive. But the weird thing is how some of her possessions were found in the "out building" a mile from her house, while more of her things were located twenty-six miles away. And yes, the library book is puzzling, along with the photo of the girl who was never identified. By the way, I thought I'd look up that book, McElligot's Pool, and there's kind of an eerie quote: "Oh, the sea is so full of a number of fish, if a fellow is patient, he might get his wish!" Just a bit creepy. So, if the book didn't belong to her, but it was checked out from the school library, who checked it out? Of course, I'm probably reading way too much into it, but perhaps the t-shirt, photo and book are somehow all connected, and the perpetrator was leaving clues in two or more locations. Also, yes, the beagles didn't bark, and there's a Sherlock Holmes mystery about "the dog that didn't bark."

  • @esoteric_mememaster

    @esoteric_mememaster

    Жыл бұрын

    last part goes into schizo territory, but the part about the book and so on could be true

  • @icturner23

    @icturner23

    Жыл бұрын

    There is nothing in the least surprising about a child having a library book that they didn’t officially check out themselves.

  • @Mrs.buildingblackwealth

    @Mrs.buildingblackwealth

    Жыл бұрын

    The killer probably died and his family cleaned out his car and home abd found all 4 trophies/ items from different girls. Got scared threw everything in the garbage bags and tossed it.

  • @esoteric_mememaster

    @esoteric_mememaster

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Mrs.buildingblackwealth that makes a lot of sense tbh. The average sex offender is a bit older than the average age for men nationally, so it's plausible that some old guy croaked. On the other hand, the south has serious problems with child trafficking.

  • @osonomeo

    @osonomeo

    Жыл бұрын

    @Davod Wartski 'New Kids On The Block,' makes one wonder if there were any new kids on the block and or if that is a clue left by some demented kidnapper.

  • @jackiegrice714
    @jackiegrice714 Жыл бұрын

    Poor kid-yeah, I think Dr Grande was right, I think there’s more to the story than has been made evident. It’s disheartening that nearly all theories lead to Aisha meeting a violent killer-but that does seem to be the most likely scenario

  • @helpyourcattodrive
    @helpyourcattodrive Жыл бұрын

    So many great videos. Can’t wait for the next one. Meanwhile, this one sounds like an unbelievable situation. Let’s do this.

  • @10191927
    @10191927 Жыл бұрын

    This reminds me of the Jed Hall story, he just ran off into the night with no warnings at all, then his vehicle was finally discovered by AWP, and he drove it off the bridge into the water. So who knows what happened to this girl.

  • @GritsandBiscuits

    @GritsandBiscuits

    Жыл бұрын

    I saw that on AWP's channel. Sadly Jed had left a suicide note so there was a clue. Understandably the parents didn't want to think the worst.

  • @user-cs1un6sp1wRennata
    @user-cs1un6sp1wRennata Жыл бұрын

    This is shocking to me simply because the 9year girl left without any unusual indications. That's what bothers me the most. This case is weird and tragic at the same time. I do agree with your analysis Dr. Grande and thank you for your coverage of this mystery.

  • @annalisegiovanni7032
    @annalisegiovanni7032 Жыл бұрын

    Hey Dr. Grande💖😃 I love these middle of the night upload! This case has ALWAYS drove me out of my mind. Thank you for covering this case.

  • @sharonmacphisto849

    @sharonmacphisto849

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi Annalise -- I like the middle of the night uploads too!! 💙

  • @annalisegiovanni7032

    @annalisegiovanni7032

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sharonmacphisto849 ~Horrible insomnia😭 I'm always hoping for these uploads lol

  • @Harlow_Khmer

    @Harlow_Khmer

    Жыл бұрын

    @@annalisegiovanni7032 you and me both! I only get 4hrs of sleep but I'm thankful I don't wake up tired feeling! So I guess it could be worse.

  • @annalisegiovanni7032

    @annalisegiovanni7032

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Harlow_Khmer ~are you able to get like a solid 4hrs? If so, I'm hella jealous! I'm stuck awake for literally a couple days & nights in a row, every single week thru no fault of my own. But I'm used to it, so jus as u said, Better than being tired all day. It just really sucks.

  • @Harlow_Khmer

    @Harlow_Khmer

    Жыл бұрын

    @@annalisegiovanni7032 not a solid 4hrs. But I'm so sensitive to sound and light when sleeping so I need earplugs and have to make sure no day light leaks in around my curtains. What sucks is a have to sleep with my door slightly open just enough for my cat and dog to slip in and out so I get woken up every morning once it's turns daylight lol 😭

  • @sylvesterwilliams9531
    @sylvesterwilliams9531 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for profiling this case!! I never want this girl to be forgotten.

  • @songbirdnzinga7709
    @songbirdnzinga7709 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this story. Often these types of stories are no covered as much 🙂

  • @mikelobrien
    @mikelobrien Жыл бұрын

    Another mystifying case, Dr. Grande. You're right, there does seem to be a lot of missing information regarding this girl's disappearance. And some of the known items (e.g. a borrowed book, a rather unique 1970s rusty green Lincoln/Thunderbird, picture of an unknown girl) should have been helpful. I also question whether her older brother might have had anything to do with her disappearance (e.g. friends or other contacts interested in his sister). It has got to be heartbreaking for her parents never knowing what happened to their little girl. Thanks for the thought-provoking analysis!

  • @kathycochran544
    @kathycochran544 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks once again Dr. Grande. You help to keep me balanced . I can't imagine not knowing where my child or grandchild is !! This is tragic .

  • @iainholmes2735
    @iainholmes2735 Жыл бұрын

    Great vid. Missing persons cases are so thought-provoking. Would be great to hear some Dr Grande analysis on the disappearance of the Welsh rock star Richey Edwards, the Mary Celeste mystery and Lord Lucan.

  • @OrangeSapphire-dm6rm

    @OrangeSapphire-dm6rm

    Жыл бұрын

    Poor little girl ,let's hope she will be found one day ,its very sad

  • @m.f.richardson1602
    @m.f.richardson1602 Жыл бұрын

    I never heard of this case. Someone knows something. Thank you. Peace 💕🇺🇲

  • @zeeshawn15
    @zeeshawn15 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your knowledge!

  • @leylamoody3177
    @leylamoody3177 Жыл бұрын

    Such a sad and mysterious case. Excellent analysis, Dr. Grande! ❤️

  • @thesongbird2383
    @thesongbird2383 Жыл бұрын

    Dr. Grande... This case is a sad mystery; and, a perfect example of why I enjoy walking through these analyses with you. I had never heard of this young girl, but as always you covered the case in great detail. Now we can only hope she miraculously survived, is a 20-something young woman and will be found alive and well (perhaps through DNA).

  • @winifredokolo1861
    @winifredokolo1861 Жыл бұрын

    thank you for this upload. 👍🏾

  • @AmyAndThePup
    @AmyAndThePup Жыл бұрын

    This one spooks me. It's got an ominous feel to it. What child leaves her home in the middle of the night when it's just above freezing, raining, and while not wearing appropriate winter clothes? Something about this feels deeply wrong.

  • @diannacotwright4892
    @diannacotwright4892 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for keeping us informed.

  • @Richard-lh3te
    @Richard-lh3te Жыл бұрын

    This story is always haunted me. She may have come from a good family but unfortunately anywhere there are children there are predators, I think she was groomed by someone in the community.

  • @janinemccartha1811

    @janinemccartha1811

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi Dr. Grande. The predator was more than likely someone she knew. Even though this is an unsolved cold case, I hope it can be solved somehow. Keep your awesome analysises coming, they're cases most psychology channels don't cover. Peace & fabulous times & good evening, love, Janine Smiley🙂😀😎😍🤩🆒️🍉🍊🍌🍍🍇🥝🍎🥑🍒☕🍪☕🎂☕🥧🍧🍨🍦🍫🦓🦄

  • @maryjocassell48

    @maryjocassell48

    Жыл бұрын

    Crime Weekly does a 3 part series on Asha.☮️💜

  • @BackyardButcher
    @BackyardButcher Жыл бұрын

    Oh, how sad 😭💔 Thank you for uploading this

  • @katiobrien7854
    @katiobrien7854 Жыл бұрын

    Is there something else about this case that would exclude one or both of the parents' involvement being theory #6? I see from some of the comments that they were interviewed, so presumably they were eliminated as suspects, but it would not be the first time that everyone including family, friends and community were blindsided by the fact that this was the case. Understand that I am NOT accusing them, merely putting forth a theory.

  • @LoremLipsumz

    @LoremLipsumz

    Жыл бұрын

    I think that she was spotted by two different truck drivers walking along the highway alone is probably what excludes them.

  • @technomage6736

    @technomage6736

    Жыл бұрын

    @@LoremLipsumz This still leaves the question of why she would've been walking down the highway in the first place, especially without a coat or whatever. It nearly totally rules out grooming.

  • @reidye
    @reidye Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for covering this story doc. This one has always perplexed me!

  • @vladimirputindreadlockrast812
    @vladimirputindreadlockrast812 Жыл бұрын

    Asha was born on Auguts 5, 1990. JonBenet Ramsey was born one day later, on August 6, 1990.

  • @eadweard.

    @eadweard.

    Жыл бұрын

    Is that important?

  • @vladimirputindreadlockrast812

    @vladimirputindreadlockrast812

    Жыл бұрын

    @@eadweard. Not important to the case, but merely a point of interest.

  • @That_Trans_Kid

    @That_Trans_Kid

    4 ай бұрын

    Points of interest should at least be interesting.

  • @vladimirputindreadlockrast812

    @vladimirputindreadlockrast812

    4 ай бұрын

    @@That_Trans_Kid and it is.

  • @alicesmith6750
    @alicesmith6750 Жыл бұрын

    I've always suspected Asha's disappearance has a link to the sleep-over the night before she went missing.

  • @RobinPillage.
    @RobinPillage. Жыл бұрын

    The chances she stumbled into a child killer has to be incredibly low. And it's not just that, all the non-child killer citizens she runs into are likely to get involved seeing a 9yr old girl walking around in the middle of the night. If not actively trying to get her to go with them for genuine protection for the time being then at least calling the police or whatever. Hell, even the neighborhood dirtbags are likely to help a 9yr old in the middle of the night to some degree.

  • @jenanne31

    @jenanne31

    Жыл бұрын

    "Non-child killer citizens" lol, that's a good one.

  • @francesmariesostere9233

    @francesmariesostere9233

    Жыл бұрын

    Crime of opportunity it happens

  • @Faristol7

    @Faristol7

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jenanne31 That sounds like a Dr Grande 'gem'....His style seems to be catching!

  • @rucianapollard7098

    @rucianapollard7098

    Жыл бұрын

    You would be surprised to know just how many predators are roaming the streets of cities and towns and neighborhoods just looking for an opportunity

  • @inner-path

    @inner-path

    Жыл бұрын

    Strong logic

  • @kashmm
    @kashmm Жыл бұрын

    9:10 I came for the therapy, but stayed for the jokes. Thank you so much Dr. Grande, your insights as well as your humor are an absolute boon to humanity.

  • @kelliearnold8498
    @kelliearnold8498 Жыл бұрын

    Great job Dr Grande!!!

  • @trip2belize
    @trip2belize Жыл бұрын

    One of the cases I always think about randomly. Still hoping for resolution to this sad case. She seemed like such a sweetheart 💔