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@amittenlove

6 ай бұрын

We were doing perfectly fine we were perfectly fucking happy until you stepped In with your set of lies and manipulative plans in an effort to tear our love apart. Dont ever ever ever ever tell me how do be a man, how to chase love and how to treat a woman. You are narcisstic sociopaths and you have no idea how to court a beautiful woman something I was doing just fine with

@guzzler6584

6 ай бұрын

What voice are you using in this video? Btw very nice content and knowlegeable.

@missacoustic1033

6 ай бұрын

Pp

Once you stop chasing the wrong things. The right ones catch you.

@Himal_1

6 ай бұрын

That’s true!

@Omar31587

6 ай бұрын

@@Himal_1 thank you!

@NemalynsTrip

6 ай бұрын

yeah yeah

@lightlove167

6 ай бұрын

Sooo true .. thank you for that great reminder ❤

@Omar31587

6 ай бұрын

@@lightlove167 you're very welcome😊

"Love is the attempt to form a friendship inspired by beauty." - Marcus Aurelius

@ArmoredWisdom

7 ай бұрын

Thanks for the comment!

@user-pz1be9tv2v

7 ай бұрын

Hi

@Omheloasis

7 ай бұрын

I, there...❤

@dark-void2174

6 ай бұрын

Nonsense

@noraizpasha529

6 ай бұрын

Couldn't agree more

Whoever is reading this, I pray for you: a heart free of sorrow, a mind free of worries, a life filled with joy, an abundant source of financial wealth, a body free of disease disability and a day filled with God's blessings

@Feed-My-Mind-Not-My-Ego

6 ай бұрын

Thank you for your prayer. God bless. 🙏🏾

@chiku7793

6 ай бұрын

Ty I pray the same for u

@ArmoredWisdom

6 ай бұрын

Thanks for the comment!

@MrBasu-iq6md

6 ай бұрын

Thank you....🙏🏻🙏🏻

@AnaThaLight

6 ай бұрын

Ty ❤

"No man is free who is not master of himself." - Epictetus

@carribgirl007

6 ай бұрын

Extremely so.

It never ceases to amaze me: we all love ourselves more than other people, but care more about their opinion than our own

@tinamarie8061

6 ай бұрын

That’s because your first statement is not true. If more ppl loved themselves first we wouldn’t have so much heartbreak

This came to my attention at the right time I feel like I’m in a relationship where the other is just doing the bare minimum. That’s it I’m done… thank you stoicism !

@vinnadoncoppious8930

6 ай бұрын

Get out. There is nothing they have to offer that that is more valuable than your peace and safety

@oakinwol

6 ай бұрын

Don't be quick to discard people just for a lack of perceived effort. There is nothing out there. Stoicism starts to sound like religion when it talks about magically stumbling onto people. Our culture determines who is out there, and western culture sucks. There are no magical men or women who will fall from the sky. So we will need to craft for ourselves the relationships we want by articulating clear visions. Most people do not have clear visions, just random things they demand from others. Make sure you've actually either articulated a vision (if you're the man) or fully elucidated his vision (if you're the woman) before you just leave

@musikeradaw

6 ай бұрын

@@oakinwol I am a great communicator well… I don’t know if I am but I’m very straightforward so I want people that I date that I say what I think. I talked to this individual several times about it and when I say something it’s like I’m requesting so much from this person when I’m only asking for time. I feel loved when someone consciously spends time with me and not just a once a week thing . Sigh

@_mykol

6 ай бұрын

Don't force love on this world.. usually comes on its own

@reddasher3061

6 ай бұрын

you are screwed my guy. I was in this situation but she dumped me. long story short, you can give and give but the other person seems like they are not interested is because they are not interested. my advice is to detached your feelings because it seems like you are forcing to try to make the relationship work and it is not working. It will be hard but the pain will be less when your person is finished with the relationship. I wish i can take your pain because i know how you feel but i think each of us has to experience this to understand ourselves. my advice; DO NOT AND I REPEAT DO NOT FALL MADLY IN LOVE AGAIN AND GIVE YOUR HEART WITHOUT KNOWING IF THE OTHER PERSON REALLY IS WILLING TO STAY. YOU RISK FALLING FOR THE SAME LESSON I HAD TO LEARN OVER AND OVER.YOU KEEP TRYING TO MAKE THEM HAPPY SO THEY WILL NOT ABANDONED YOU BUT IN THE END, THEY LEAVE. GOOD LUCK AND STAY STRONG. maybe she and I were not compatible but dam i loved that girl. I hope that you find your happiness out there Danielle.@@musikeradaw

I was just dumped by the girl ive loved for 3 1/2 years, and who's hand I'd started saving to put a ring on. First real heartbreak of my life. I was dumped in the typical modern fashion, with little reasoning or insight into what happened or what i might have done as a catalyst to this. It feels like a deep well, but im trying to let it be a moment of reflection and transformation for me. I'm trying to keep my head up, and these words really helpled.

@x_MrYAYA_x

3 ай бұрын

Better now then after ur married with kids and she takes half ur shit and u have to pay child support for 18 years.

Art of loving is the art of letting it go

You don't find love it finds you when it's the right time

@Melinda8162

6 ай бұрын

'Funny', I thought it did...and, guess I was wrong. He didn't want it.

@Micah-3333

6 ай бұрын

@@Melinda8162 thin he doesn't deserve you my lady

@NikosM112

6 ай бұрын

Lol cope. It doesn't Chad find love from all women, well rip to the rest of the men.

@Melinda8162

6 ай бұрын

@@Micah-3333 I guess I didn't deserve him ...?

@DarrinSK

6 ай бұрын

Bullshit

Helped me immensely. I have been trying to force something that isn’t there. And the more I try to force it the more I realize it was not for me.

“The things you think about determine the quality of your mind.” ― Marcus Aurelius, Meditations

I truly do believe that you have to let go of all of it (companionship, happiness etc) in order to receive it, as contradictory as that sounds. I focus now on eliminating the "want" for things. I tell myself, "I want nothing, I have nothing and I am nothing". That may sound negative to most people, but I assure you it's not.

" Live as if you were to die tomorrow, and die as if you were to live." - Marcus Aurelius.

@TheBestOfLisaRenee

6 ай бұрын

This is what Christ Jesus said. Many Stoics adopted their belief system from The Word. The Lord touched many lives and did a great many healings. I’m happy people are quoting him without knowing it.

@StoicMaster.

6 ай бұрын

@@TheBestOfLisaRenee Great

It’s absolutely true, never chase it, you should however make it known that you are attracted/interested in whoever, but be careful how

I never chases love ,the lady's track me like a magnet. I love my freedom ,and being without drama or stress ,and one thing more? Not being used as a fool.

@alymshep

6 ай бұрын

You sound like a real catch 😏

@Melinda8162

6 ай бұрын

🤣@@alymshep

@Melinda8162

6 ай бұрын

YeH, I know what you mean....guys just breaking my door down !!!! 😁

I needed this today because, yesterday, I just let go of a situationship that was causing a lot of pain. I know I must begin my journey towards self love,and ending that situation was the first step. I felt like your words were talking to me and I needed to hear them. Thank you.

@ArmoredWisdom

6 ай бұрын

Good luck on this journey of wisdom!

@deedeegurl

6 ай бұрын

Same here. Best of luck to both of us. I believe we are doing the right thing.

@verliharlina7775

6 ай бұрын

Hey, we have the same experience. I just got rid situationship yesterday because of who made me feel unwanted. Stay on our way without begging, because they don't deserve us

@genedayawon6524

6 ай бұрын

same here

@genedayawon6524

6 ай бұрын

same here. i will let go of this love

The Art of Loving is knowing how to Love Oneself first before Loving someone else! ❤

@ArmoredWisdom

6 ай бұрын

Great reflection! Thanks for the comment!

@TheBestOfLisaRenee

6 ай бұрын

The Word of God through Scripture says to love your neighbor as yourself.

Expressing gratitude is instrumental in maintaining a healthy relationship, romantic or otherwise.

Receiving a no is a sign of incompatibility that you may not perceive at the moment but will come to understand 💯💯💯💯💯 thats shits so comforting. I always obsess with the reason why i was rejected to try and find something im doing wrong and it drives me insane.

I'm truly amazed by the divine. I don't know the full path the lord has for me, all I can do is follow what he puts in front of me and this video was meant for me to see. If you are in a relationship, cherish it with all you're heart, don't let insecurity and doubt ruin or trivialize something truly special.

"It's not because things are difficult that we dare not venture. It's because we dare not venture that they are difficult." - Seneca

This is the answer I have been seeking to free myself, accept that it's over and be on the journey on self love and let go. Thank you so much👏

This helped me in leaving a relationship that's not serving me anymore, thank you I have peace

This is a must subscribe.. you have saved my heart from breaking and desperacy

Without realizing it ive tended to my relationships in a very stoic manner. I love the comparisons to the garden. Its been my personal experience that love is a very intentional act. Something i have worked to cultivate in the people around me and i can honesty say it has bore the most beautiful fruit. To see them uplifted and living as full as they are brings me so much joy i can't even begin to properly describe it. I hope the rest of you know this joy in your own lives and become beacons of love and strength in your communities.

❤I am sure that once you just become whole feel good happy and enjoy your presence here once your thoughts are kind towards yourself you will attract right people 😊🎉❤

@ArmoredWisdom

6 ай бұрын

Great reflection! Thanks for the comment!

I learnt that love can be painful if you want to give someone love and that person isn't ready to receive or rejects your love. Remembering that moment where you believed that it will lead to something more only to then come back to reality and see all the signs of the end coming soon. It all starts with your values and their values. Of course, we want to find someone who wants us and we want to be needed. However, we must keep our eyes open to what's infront of us and not what's in our minds eyes. 💯

you can't change others...u can only change yourself. well said❤

Its like getting advice from your dad or grandpa. This video is also comforting

This helped me so much. Simple words to get me through. My father died, I broke up with my boyfriend, I was in the middle of moving all at once. I expected the boyfriend to be there during my time. To help move, to support me through my grief of losing my father. He wasn’t. I felt so alone and kind of chased him hoping he would reciprocate as I would if he was going through what I was going through. He didn’t. Even trying to remain a friend, I allowed him to drain me with what he needed help with in his life. It was pathetic, I was pathetic. I’m still working on the grief of it all. It hurt so bad that when I wasn’t there for me. We broke up the day my father died. Leading up to my father’s death I realized he wasn’t there for me. I spoke to him about it and instead of trying to do better he decided to use that moment to escape. Good for him I guess. Good for me I guess too. There has to be a beautiful thing in one door closing for another to open. Another door hasn’t open yet but I’m sure it will. Take care everyone. I hope we all find the person who is on our vibration and reciprocates your feelings and emotions.

@lmfaook.7971

3 ай бұрын

I feel i may be going through the same with my current partner. We've got roughly 8.5 years in it. And I've lost both my grandparents during it. She was kinda there. But also not. And certain decisions and actions showed she did not, and probably does not care. He lately I've been feeling like she does NOT want, or love me anymore. I tried brining it up, it made no difference. If anything it probably made it worse. But I'm sorry you had to go through all that. We all deserve to be truly loved. It's hard for me cause my son. I want him in my life regardless. But I can't bring myself to making it just Saturdays amd Sundays. (As I work far from home. So during the week I wouldn't be able to see him) as of now. We are still living together. But tbh she feels more like a roommate now, more then ever. I hope your story gets better sweetie. And if you could, please keep me in your thoughts and prayers as well. Sending light and love to all. And may your father RIP!

@OyAtheGoddesS562

3 ай бұрын

@@lmfaook.7971 oh definitely you’ll be In my prayers and positive thoughts. Thank you for your kind words. I try until I can’t anymore and my mental is exhausted. I can only suggest you fall into yourself. You have to set boundaries to not exhaust yourself. I refuse to be drained and if love isn’t reciprocated I have to make the hard decision and walk away. It hurt more to stay. Also, I wholeheartedly understand bringing it up seems to make it worse. Hey, if they don’t want to talk then so be it. We can’t force people to be or treat us how we want. Definitely can’t force them to love us. We can only control us, hell sometimes we fall short doing that. As for your child, definitely work on figuring that out. Our Time with them is important for them. Figure out a good balance of you can. ❤️‍🩹💕

I got reccommended this exactly when I needed it, maybe even a bit late, I had been chasing someone who did not reciprocate my feelings and I finally got shut down enough to understand that its time to move on. I knew before that to move on is the correct thing to do, i just couldnt bring myself to do it, so what I learned from both that experience and this video is that when you get a No you need to move on without thinking about it too much

@ArmoredWisdom

6 ай бұрын

Great reflection!

This is for sure one of the best channels out there for self improvement. And i can't get enough of it. Just discovered it today; 20th November, 2023 but, I've gone through half of the videos in the channel already. Me: seriously asking myself why i did not discover this channel all these years.🤔 But yeah, the feed came in quite handy and i don't regret. Now is still the best time to get things WORKING in my life. A billion thanks to the brain behind this❤❤ You're a genius🥰❤ You're saving thousands of lives here. And I'm here for all the 'CHANGE'.💯

@ArmoredWisdom

7 ай бұрын

Great reflection! Thanks for the comment!

@Trippyink901

6 ай бұрын

Pineapple biscuits

I realized i gave more than what i was received because i just thought getting a "Thanks" was enough of reciprication, it gave me a dopamine effect because it made me happy, while i also do realize i am a people pleaser i never try to go out of my way for everyone but for one person i know i over did it, but that person never reciprocated...

Peace and Love (AW), and thank you for this much needed knowledge and Wisdom. It is so appreciated.

Me and my wife have been close to divorce the last few months after 23 happy years together. We are now through it and on a new level, but this video was instrumental in helping us, thank you.

Thank you so much for this valuable information! It came in handy. ❤

You cannot use logic to connect with a woman when a woman is wired to connect with us emotionally & energetically. We can use logic to strategize how we lead them, but if you use logic to find the partner you're gonna find another man Not a woman.

@Didi-fr5ic

6 ай бұрын

Damn marry me 😂

@Rajab25161

6 ай бұрын

Yes Only emotions can connect us with women

@Nocturnal_Lorena

6 ай бұрын

Logic is for initial stages to assess if the person is toxic or not. It’s better to be safe than sorry.

@TheBestOfLisaRenee

6 ай бұрын

I agree! Women connect emotionally.

@dredaylarue

6 ай бұрын

​@@Nocturnal_LorenaIf you don't use logic and even simple logic. You allow emotion to take control. You will overlook the red flags that she has been showing you

I’ve been into self development for like an year now and the most important things that I learned during this journey is somewhat listed here 🖤

So beautifully said. Love these listens so much! It makes me believe I do have a normal train of thought.. Much love all ❤️ stay strong 💪

@ArmoredWisdom

6 ай бұрын

Thanks for the comment!

Really needed that . Thank you. So true.

"Settle on the type of person you want to be, and stick to it." Who we are is a choice that we make through what we do. We both have good and bad within us. Which one grows in our hearts are what we choose to feed our minds with, as thoughts lead to feelings and in turn give birth to action, and that's why it's so crucial we guard our minds from feeding on the wrong things, because if we don't, then that's the person we are liable to become. As an old Proverb says: "As a man thinks in his heart, so is he."

@ArmoredWisdom

6 ай бұрын

Great reflection! Thanks for the comment!

@TheBestOfLisaRenee

6 ай бұрын

Many Stoics quoted The Word. The Word of GOD is powerful!! God is so good.

@thecowboy9698

6 ай бұрын

@@TheBestOfLisaRenee - I have a feeling that many of the ancient Stoics studied in the Hebrew scriptures, gleaned many of the principles that are found in like the Proverbs, for example, and then either incorporated them into their teachings, or put their own spin on what they read, and presented it as their own. As to the type of person we are, well at the end of the day talk is cheap, unless it's followed up by corresponding action. Words are just that, words, unless our actions are in harmony with them, and it's our actions that reveal both our true character, as well as our intentions. "Even children show what they are by what they do; you can tell if they are honest and good." - Proverbs 20:11. And no doubt the disciple James had that Proverb in mind, when he wrote the following: "What good is it, dear brothers and sisters, if you say you have faith but don’t show it by your actions? Can that kind of faith save anyone? Suppose you see a brother or sister who has no food or clothing, and you say, “Good-bye and have a good day; stay warm and eat well”-but then you don’t give that person any food or clothing. What good does that do? So you see, faith by itself isn’t enough. Unless it produces good deeds, it is dead and useless. Now someone may argue, “Some people have faith; others have good deeds.” But I say, “How can you show me your faith if you don’t have good deeds? I will show you my faith by my good deeds.”.... So you see, we are shown to be right with God by what we do, not by faith alone." James 2:14-18,24.

It would be great to have all the videos as Spotify audio/podcast for during walks. Thank you for the content!

Thank you...very much appreciated! True Love is the Art, so it is true for everything else! Know yourself!!!The most loving, intimate, caring, understandig and free relation is with yourself...that´s the big bang 😉😄🥰

You said everything that is in my mind sometimes you think maybe you ask for to much but its true and you are fine bcause you know your worth.👑

@ArmoredWisdom

6 ай бұрын

Great reflection! Thanks for the comment!

I will be the person who does not seek love and who creates my own happiness 😇

I needed this right now! Armored Wisdom 🛡️

You are much greater than your fleeting feelings and emotions.

I love this channel so much that I just thumbs up before even watching 😂

@ArmoredWisdom

7 ай бұрын

Thanks a lot!

Your video found me at the perfect moment! Thanks a million for the wonderful content..keep growing 👏

I'll listen to this video everyday as a daily reminder. It's greatly appreciated.

@TheBestOfLisaRenee

6 ай бұрын

It’s a good message. Stoics quote The Bible a lot!!

Iam in love with this man's adorable voice . ❤from India

Gaining inner wisdom from experience, is to utilise discernment to embody it. I've always lived by my intuition as my inner compass. And it has provided me what has brought me what is in my essence. Although in this complexities society's adages, one is compelled to apply Stoism principles. It is a tenet or tool that can enable objectivism towards humanity's survival. Thank you for this overview. ✨️

@ArmoredWisdom

6 ай бұрын

Thanks for the comment!

I really need to listen this as sometimes life becomes some messy and physical and emotionally draining that we forget who we are. The most important message in this video is that without self-love and self esteem we loose our own self... Also everything is a CHOICE.

@beatrizmoreira4036

6 ай бұрын

Thank you.

Thank you very much for the subtitle, I really apreciate it, because besides the knowledges, it help me to learn new words.

Man, i really enjoyed the information. Thanks 😮

I needed to hear this. Thank you.

Wow❤thank you!! For doing this!

This is the best one ever!

Thank you for this video. I think I know now that I need to cut off a friendship that has become toxic for both of us. Maybe sometime in the future we could rekindle it but I need to step away for now

Thanks boss.... I now get it....I shall learn to respect myself first before giving respect.

Love is deeper than a four letter word ❤

So blessed to hear this video today

held hands with a girl for about 2 seconds(felt like eternity). Lightly brushed her hand with my thumb. She smiled and for the rest of the evening she was giving me looks and I was happy. 3 days later she says I wasn't holding hands with her.

Very informative. Thank you very much.

Forever greatful that I found this channel.

@ArmoredWisdom

6 ай бұрын

Thanks for the comment!

I'm so grateful that this amazing content has reached me!! Thanks a lot for this valuable knowledge!

@ArmoredWisdom

6 ай бұрын

Thanks you too!

Truth is : never beg for love. The other person never appreciates much your love, regardless how much you give. Somehow people always believe they have to sacrifice a lot for the worthwhile things.

Loved the part that says each no makes it closer to the real yes

Loveddd it!!!

Suggestion for one of the next videos: tackle the topic of ego. Not only in the direction of thinking about oneself more than one is, but also focus on the way one communicates and the hidden ways ego can get inside your system

@ArmoredWisdom

6 ай бұрын

Thanks for the sugestion

@TheBestOfLisaRenee

6 ай бұрын

❤

Thank you for this great video. I did not know about Faustina. I am reading his Meditations over at this time.

@ArmoredWisdom

7 ай бұрын

Thanks for the comment!

This video is a masterpiece ❤

Thanks for your videos

Ur voice triggers with so much and needed energy!! U give so much wisdom 🔥

@ArmoredWisdom

7 ай бұрын

Thanks for the comment!

@AgathePeng

6 ай бұрын

its an AI voice

@PositiveFeeling1

6 ай бұрын

@@AgathePengthe name of this voice please

@PositiveFeeling1

6 ай бұрын

It’s in Elevenlbas ?

Excellent analysis

Thank you I appreciate you for the message that I'm taking for granted. ❤

A beautiful reaffirming message

Thanks for the video

I Will listen to the videos as podcasts... Extraordinary!

I’ve never been logical only emotional and my relationships really unbalanced and very painful. I pray I can be stoic like my father.

Love is much more a choice than a feeling. People choose not to love you, you have to choose to love yourself.

Be aware that one major variable can change some of these pricipals. Or rather, the approach to them. If someone is emotionally unavailable due to a recent pain, it isn't you they're rejecting. You can choose to be patient and endure if they've given you true confirmation that they have sincere attraction to you, but it is a very fine line you'd be walking on because you simply do not know what may make them withdraw at any moment.

Never ever chase love !

@FC-ku4ez

6 ай бұрын

Whatever you chase runs away.

@Melinda8162

6 ай бұрын

I know, learned 'the hard way'.

@JOEYDEEZ369

6 ай бұрын

@@Melinda8162 Hey there Melinda thanks for your reply hun… I’m sorry to hear you learnt the hard way on this - just remember this little ditty next time…. It’s a mans job to do ALL the work to pursue but if he doesn’t want to or just plain can’t be bothered to then he clearly is NOT the one for you… Wishing you a great evening ! Bye for now;)

@Melinda8162

6 ай бұрын

@@JOEYDEEZ369 Thank you so much. You're so sweet. That's why I hardly slept last night, thinking of him. He's never coming back, that I know. I just have to try and be brave ..I used to keep begging! Ugh, so sick I did that. Thanks for replying! 💞

ireally need this

Very good, thanks

Exactly i need right now this video bcz universe send me....

Such great words!! Agreed to all

@ArmoredWisdom

6 ай бұрын

Thanks for the comment!

Very true ❤

Difficult, but strengthening.

The channel and the content is so underrarted

Excellent video. Well done.

@ArmoredWisdom

6 ай бұрын

Thanks for the comment!

Excellent video !!!!!!!!!!

Wow! Thanks ❤

@ArmoredWisdom

6 ай бұрын

Thanks you too!

"Look well into thyself; there is a source of strength which will always spring up if thou wilt always look." - Marcus Aurelius

Am blessed above all am healed 🙏🙏🤝

I want to be in a relationship with someone. But before getting into a relationship with her this video helps me how to increase my self esteem and not to exclusively focus on one person. And will the person I want to be in a relationship is she respect me? And whether she will stand by me in my time of trouble.

This is wonderful advice.👍🥰

@ArmoredWisdom

6 ай бұрын

Thanks for the comment!

Thank you so much❤

@ArmoredWisdom

6 ай бұрын

Thanks you too!

I absolutely agree but it’s still hard when you are in love with someone but you know they choose you for these reasons and don’t love you back.

@Grayfox354

6 ай бұрын

Believe me I understand. It's painful, but the only control you have is over yourself. Demand clarity and honesty from them, and if they truly cannot feel the same way you must make peace with this and move on. One will find you deserving, it will come, do not let those who reject you determine your worth.