13 Lessons On How To Use Rejection To Your Favor | Stoicism

Rejection can be tough, but it doesn't have to hold you back. In this video, we'll share 13 lessons from stoic philosophy on how to use rejection to your favor and grow from it.
These stoic principles for personal development can help you embrace rejection and turn it into a positive force in your life. From reframing your mindset to facing your fears, these stoic rules for life will help you overcome rejection and become a stronger, more resilient person.
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Learn how to use rejection to your advantage with these 13 lessons inspired by Stoicism. Rejection is a normal part of life, but by applying these principles, you can turn it into a powerful tool for personal growth and resilience.
Whether you're facing rejection in your career, relationships, or personal goals, these lessons will help you navigate through it and come out stronger. Embrace the power of stoicism and use it to your favor.
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Key Points 🎯
00:00:00 Intro
00:01:52 1. Disregard Them Too
00:03:33 2. Don't React Emotionally
00:05:15 3. Remove Them From Your Mind
00:06:33 4. Demonstrate Your Value
00:07:41 5. Cut Off Contact
00:08:42 6. Prove Them Wrong
00:09:48 7. Go Out And Have Fun
00:10:56 8. Build Your Social Status
00:11:56 9. Act As If They Don'T Exist
00:13:00 10. Give Them The Silent Treatment
00:14:12 11. Don't Beg For Attention
00:15:16 12. Be Kind But Emotionally Distant
00:16:21 13. Don't Reveal Your Struggle
00:18:54 Conclusion
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  • @StoicismDigestYT
    @StoicismDigestYT3 ай бұрын

    Grateful to have you here! Don't forget to SUBSCRIBE to our channel for weekly uploads on Stoicism Digest 🧠❤

  • @leroy2057

    @leroy2057

    3 ай бұрын

    0:44 thy should know the truth 😅

  • @ND-or5so

    @ND-or5so

    3 ай бұрын

    You bet!😊

  • @DoreenAllen-pc3fn

    @DoreenAllen-pc3fn

    3 ай бұрын

    Thanks ❤

  • @melp253

    @melp253

    2 ай бұрын

    Yes!! I completely agree

  • @user-in2hr7ri5p

    @user-in2hr7ri5p

    Ай бұрын

    😊

  • @stillme7535
    @stillme75353 ай бұрын

    1. Disregard them too 2. Don't react emotionally 3. Remove them from your mind 4. Demonstrate your value 5. Cut off contact 6. Prove them wrong 7. Go out and have fun 8. Build your social status 9. Act as if they don't exist 10. Give them the silent treatment 11. Don't beg for attention 12. Be kind but emotionally distant 13. Don't reveal your struggle

  • @rosalinealoy6162

    @rosalinealoy6162

    2 ай бұрын

    What if it happens one's husband is the one rejected the wife

  • @stillme7535

    @stillme7535

    2 ай бұрын

    @@rosalinealoy6162 I don't believe I am the one to respond to this. Only posted the resume of the video

  • @shsh-lv3wh

    @shsh-lv3wh

    2 ай бұрын

    This days we all get negative advice there family live are gone and people staying single so ignoring and having fun while you ruin some else life is not a solution. We should learn to care about other people. I hate like this videos I don’t know why I get this

  • @ursulareeg1171

    @ursulareeg1171

    2 ай бұрын

    Ah, but there is more to all of the point. I love the additional comments/ insights/ explanations.

  • @ChildofGod1792

    @ChildofGod1792

    2 ай бұрын

    reject him as well and he will come around, act like his actions not affecting you or just find another husband ​@@rosalinealoy6162

  • @beautyshines2124
    @beautyshines21242 ай бұрын

    people will miss you because you're unique and incomparable.

  • @charlottebruce979

    @charlottebruce979

    2 ай бұрын

    Or maybe they won't, but does that matter?

  • @spmoran4703

    @spmoran4703

    2 ай бұрын

    ​@@charlottebruce979They dont matter

  • @StoicHabit101

    @StoicHabit101

    Ай бұрын

    @beautyshines2124, your words resonate deeply, reminding us of the intrinsic value each individual holds. In a world where conformity often overshadows uniqueness, your insight shines brightly, illuminating the beauty in our differences. But behind this sentiment lies a tale of personal discovery and appreciation. What inspired you to recognize the irreplaceable essence within yourself and others? Your perspective offers a refreshing antidote to the pressures of conformity. How do you nurture and celebrate your own uniqueness amidst societal expectations?

  • @ursulaschlapbach311

    @ursulaschlapbach311

    Ай бұрын

    Exactly 😮😢😅

  • @bettydoughtery3920

    @bettydoughtery3920

    Ай бұрын

    YES

  • @celeste3100
    @celeste31003 ай бұрын

    Rejection is protection

  • @april9037

    @april9037

    3 ай бұрын

    Absolutely ❤️

  • @ND-or5so

    @ND-or5so

    3 ай бұрын

    @celeste3100 Lol, like it!

  • @ND-or5so

    @ND-or5so

    3 ай бұрын

    ​​@@april9037 Positive

  • @orangetabby445

    @orangetabby445

    3 ай бұрын

    Ok but it still stings awful especially if you aren't prepared geeee

  • @spmoran4703

    @spmoran4703

    2 ай бұрын

    Yes these people could be toxic

  • @haitiqueen0119
    @haitiqueen01192 ай бұрын

    Just cut off a one sided friendship of 20 years just recently and feel a sense of happiness. As we go through our journeys, it is perfectly healthy and necessary to cut ties with meaningless toxic relationships. Part of self care.

  • @StoicismDigestYT

    @StoicismDigestYT

    2 ай бұрын

    It's important to prioritize your own well-being and mental health by letting go of toxic relationships. Good for you for taking that step!

  • @MrJackson100587

    @MrJackson100587

    Ай бұрын

    Can we be friends

  • @AfricanWifeinPakistan

    @AfricanWifeinPakistan

    Ай бұрын

    Me too. I said enough is enough. Friendships, don't always have to last. Sometimes, people grow apart and mature in diff. ways. Definitely need to realize. Esp. those friendship we keep clinging into from childhood or younger years.

  • @StoicSpirit101

    @StoicSpirit101

    4 күн бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your experience, Haitiqueen0119. It sounds like a significant step towards prioritizing your well-being. What signs or realizations prompted you to recognize the toxicity in the friendship, and how do you plan to nurture healthier relationships moving forward?

  • @martiemc8398
    @martiemc83983 ай бұрын

    I loved him so much, but I love myself too.

  • @truthseeker5941

    @truthseeker5941

    2 ай бұрын

    @martiemc...once upon a time I had his baby and loved him deeply and profoundly BUT not more than I loved myself.

  • @StoicHabit101

    @StoicHabit101

    Ай бұрын

    @martiemc8398, your heartfelt words encapsulate a journey of self-discovery and empowerment. To love deeply is a profound experience, yet to also recognize and prioritize self-love amidst such emotions is a testament to your strength and resilience. Your comment hints at a transformative process, where the balance between loving another and loving oneself is delicately navigated. What insights did you gain during this journey of self-love and acceptance? Your acknowledgment of self-worth is inspiring, prompting reflection on the importance of cultivating a healthy relationship with oneself. How do you continue to nurture and prioritize your own well-being while navigating matters of the heart?

  • @truthseeker5941

    @truthseeker5941

    Ай бұрын

    @@StoicHabit101 only the worthy deserve that type of deep love and loyalty. Once they show you their not worthy you become an alchemist and transform. You shower yourself with all that love that you gave to the undeserving. You pick yourself up by the bootstraps, gather yourself, and become your own very best friend.

  • @StoicHabit101

    @StoicHabit101

    Ай бұрын

    @@truthseeker5941 Your comment beautifully encapsulates a profound journey of self-discovery and empowerment. It speaks to the transformative power of resilience and self-love in the face of disappointment and betrayal. The imagery of becoming an alchemist, transforming pain into strength and self-love, is both evocative and inspiring. It conveys a sense of agency and empowerment, suggesting that one has the power to shape their own narrative and redefine their sense of worth. By emphasizing the importance of recognizing when others are unworthy of deep love and loyalty, you underscore the value of setting boundaries and prioritizing self-respect. Your words resonate with anyone who has experienced the pain of betrayal, offering solace and encouragement to those who may be navigating similar challenges. Intriguingly, your reflection prompts one to consider: How can we cultivate a deeper sense of self-love and resilience in the face of adversity? What practices or mindset shifts can empower individuals to reclaim their worth and embrace their own inner strength?

  • @lucianaschroder6127

    @lucianaschroder6127

    Ай бұрын

    I love him so much… and I think everything is my fault… that for 13 years I was the one who was always good for nothing. We are taking a break but it hurts.

  • @georgiafrancis9059
    @georgiafrancis90593 ай бұрын

    Let go and let God....... you don't have to do a thing - Karma will take care of it for you.

  • @palmbaytyranthunter1913

    @palmbaytyranthunter1913

    3 ай бұрын

    Krama is not. Taught in the Bible nor in stoicism

  • @counterintelligencereports7867

    @counterintelligencereports7867

    3 ай бұрын

    Wanting karma means you are back to square one. The purpose of stoicism is to be totally indifferent to others and situations.

  • @gerie7115

    @gerie7115

    3 ай бұрын

    Amen !!!

  • @gerie7115

    @gerie7115

    3 ай бұрын

    @@palmbaytyranthunter1913 It is in the Bible, it’s just referred to as something else. “ God will prepare a table before you in the presence of your enemies” “You will reap what you sow” It’s just worded differently, but same meaning

  • @ND-or5so

    @ND-or5so

    3 ай бұрын

    @georgiafranci... Good comment 👍

  • @georgiafrancis9059
    @georgiafrancis90593 ай бұрын

    It their loss..... rejection is a sort of affirmation that you are on the right track for your own life. It may sting a bit at first......but......you WILL get over it in time. NEVER BEG for anyone's attention, it wreaks despiration. Stand tall and be a success in all that you do. They will notice your success and how they had nothing to do with your future. THIS ONE LIFE IS YOURS-----NOT THEIRS------they weren't born with you and they don't die with you, they simply came into your life somewhere along the way to either teach a lesson or learn a lesson. They are on their own journey in life as you are.

  • @adambazan6428

    @adambazan6428

    3 ай бұрын

    👏

  • @abigailarizmendi1261

    @abigailarizmendi1261

    3 ай бұрын

    👏

  • @ND-or5so

    @ND-or5so

    3 ай бұрын

    Very good. I like that 👌 Bravo!

  • @tensevo

    @tensevo

    2 ай бұрын

    Except it's not their loss, they rejected you for good reasons.

  • @stilesjohnson1745

    @stilesjohnson1745

    2 ай бұрын

    Amen very true words.

  • @StoicEvolution1
    @StoicEvolution13 ай бұрын

    "True happiness is to enjoy the present, without anxious dependence upon the future." - Seneca

  • @achamangabat1807
    @achamangabat18073 ай бұрын

    This video is very timely for me cos I'm experiencing rejection right now. I'm now in the process of healing and slowly detaching myself from my boyfriend.

  • @beajohnson2668

    @beajohnson2668

    3 ай бұрын

    Me too😢

  • @user-om9hh5ig4k

    @user-om9hh5ig4k

    2 ай бұрын

    Good For You ! 🎉

  • @user-om9hh5ig4k

    @user-om9hh5ig4k

    2 ай бұрын

    @@beajohnson2668 Don’t Ever Look Back.

  • @StoicHabit101

    @StoicHabit101

    Ай бұрын

    Your resilience in the face of rejection is commendable. What strategies have you found most effective in the healing process and detaching yourself from past relationships?

  • @VirgotheHermit00

    @VirgotheHermit00

    Ай бұрын

    Good on you. Heal, love yourself more, and put yourself first. ❤

  • @marievandermerwe3160
    @marievandermerwe31602 ай бұрын

    I was married for nearly 42years. It was the most lonely journey. My husband died a year ago. We had no emotional connection. I don't want a man in my life anymore. I am too used to be lonely.

  • @StoicHabit101

    @StoicHabit101

    Ай бұрын

    Your resilience after such a long and lonely journey is truly admirable. What new experiences or pursuits are you exploring now that you're embracing solitude?

  • @data1656

    @data1656

    Ай бұрын

    Beautiful peaceful alone

  • @LoveFishing51

    @LoveFishing51

    Ай бұрын

    I'm sorry to hear that, my dear. But there is the possibility that your husband [did] want to communicate with you emotionally but did not know how to. Some people have a hard time with this. Lift your head up high and have positive thoughts as you move forward.

  • @galeretacco8537
    @galeretacco85373 ай бұрын

    These stoic philosophies are so valuable. I send them to my grandchildren every day. They are lessons in life 100%!

  • @nancytorres2564
    @nancytorres256423 күн бұрын

    Thank you for your advise. I've been in a relationship for 15yrs and I still feel lonely and rejected and verbally abused. It's hard because I still love him.😢 7:29

  • @cherylnathanodette
    @cherylnathanodetteАй бұрын

    If you are rejected don't dwell on it, lifes too short. Been used to rejection and it's no biggie. I used to let it bother me but realise lifes too short to dwell on disappointments. Hope you are all well and live your best lives.

  • @datgurlangel8319

    @datgurlangel8319

    25 күн бұрын

    Facts ❤

  • @the_Success_Experiments
    @the_Success_Experiments2 ай бұрын

    I'm dropping more GEMS for you all!! These suggestions have made me the person I am today. So take one or two or all of them and transform yourself to a super being. Thank me later. I personally did and do everything listed below and I got massive results. 1. Write out a statement of your Short Term Goal AND your Chief Aim/Main Goal... on a "goal card" or paper. 2. Write it out 50 times a day for 30 days preferably around the same time each day. After the 30 days, you go back and write it out ONCE a day. This is your compass in life. 3. Set your phone alarm to go off every 3 hours (to disrupt your daily routine) and when it goes off write down your statement and then close your eyes and see yourself with your goal for 2 mins. 4. Record your statement in your voice on a voice recorder on your phone, and play it back to yourself on loop while you sleep and as often as you can daily, example... in the shower or when you are using the rest room. 5. Find an accountability partner. If you cannot find someone, then you MUST write out your statement DAILY. By doing this you make yourself accountable to YOURSELF. 6. Find a community or FB group/group chat, etc and from that community form a Mastermind with one or two people who have studied from REAL Mentors and are giving VALUE. There is a "Law of Giving" and many people are using it. Andrew Carnegie told Napoleon Hill this back in the early 1900s. Its a LAW and it works. Its what I am doing with this post. 7. Auto-Suggest (Think and Grow Rich Chapter 4) to yourself in front of the mirror in the bathroom at least twice a day. Look directly INTO your eyes OR one eye and recite your WRITTEN statement. Then splash cold water on your face. This sudden shock seals the thought into the subconscious due to emotional and physical shock from the cold water. 8. Write out ten "I AM" statements a day. example. I AM happy, I AM more confident. Use the word MORE; implying you already have it, but want more. You trick the brain. 9. Write out 5 things you HAVE that you are grateful for and 5 things that you are grateful for that are coming to you. Mix up the list one after the other. 10. When in public tell people you see that you love them in your mind. Simply say "I LOVE YOU" to them as you pass them, especially when driving, because their subconscious hears and FEELS the intention. Say it to about 10 to 15 people daily. This increases your Good Karma. It might seem like a lot. But it took me less than two weeks to incorporate the list into my life and 32 days later I started getting massive results. What have you got to lose, try some or ALL and see your results. Let me know know too. Have a great day... and thanks for reading.

  • @StoicHabit101

    @StoicHabit101

    Ай бұрын

    Wow, what an incredibly detailed and heartfelt message! It's evident that you've put a lot of thought and effort into compiling these transformative suggestions. Your commitment to personal growth is truly inspiring. I'm particularly intrigued by the idea of setting an alarm to disrupt daily routines and visualize goals every three hours. It seems like a powerful way to stay focused and aligned with one's aspirations throughout the day. How do you maintain consistency and motivation while implementing these practices?

  • @StoicWisdom135
    @StoicWisdom1358 күн бұрын

    "Reject your sense of injury and the injury itself disappears." - Marcus Aurelius

  • @shirleykamm7819
    @shirleykamm78193 ай бұрын

    I was in deep need of your wisdom many moons ago. How unfortunate for me to discover you late. My marriage has dissolved. The love of my life of many years has ended. However, I love that your videos have come to me now in my life as I move forward. It gives me hope to move on with better choices. The proverbial lightning strike hit me too late to save a marriage, but since it was toxic, I feel more equipped to engage in new relationships. Thank you!!

  • @rogue_spirit

    @rogue_spirit

    2 ай бұрын

    Stay strong! ❤️🌹

  • @StoicHabit101

    @StoicHabit101

    Ай бұрын

    Your journey toward healing and growth is truly inspiring. How do you plan to apply the lessons you've learned to cultivate healthier relationships moving forward?

  • @interfluve
    @interfluve2 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this, I got out of a very serious relationship and I needed to hear this. Bless you and all the stoic philosophers who have showered us with all this wisdom.

  • @StoicismDigestYT

    @StoicismDigestYT

    2 ай бұрын

    Glad it was helpful!

  • @amandaball5282

    @amandaball5282

    2 ай бұрын

    Amen

  • @datgurlangel8319
    @datgurlangel831925 күн бұрын

    This is so refreshing! I'm so ready to love myself even more. ❤❤❤

  • @timmyfosho
    @timmyfosho2 ай бұрын

    Practicing my resolve to not react emotionally to the horrific ai reading of this 🧘

  • @beebopandrocksteady2619

    @beebopandrocksteady2619

    15 күн бұрын

    😂

  • @sanetterobertson6085
    @sanetterobertson608528 күн бұрын

    I have practiced most of these and must confess that I now have so much more peace.

  • @DanielWalker-ci7fo
    @DanielWalker-ci7fo3 ай бұрын

    Don't let idiots rent space in your head... 🤔🤠🎶

  • @spmoran4703

    @spmoran4703

    2 ай бұрын

    That's a good one Daniel

  • @DanielWalker-ci7fo

    @DanielWalker-ci7fo

    2 ай бұрын

    @@spmoran4703 Well thank you... it just makes sense if one can hold their tongue 😛🤣

  • @QuotesWisd1
    @QuotesWisd13 ай бұрын

    These 13 lessons on using rejection as a tool for growth are invaluable. Stoicism offers such a unique and empowering perspective. Grateful for the shift in mindset this has sparked in me. Thank you!

  • @franciaperiabras1037
    @franciaperiabras10373 ай бұрын

    I'm so thankful that i found this channel ❤

  • @IamGODchild
    @IamGODchildАй бұрын

    Father GOD remove them all from my life - they don't deserve my love, time, patience & blessings I used to share with them! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 I really really really love myself too 💚💜🩷❤️💙😇 thank you, LORD for my strength, power & decisive attitude 🙏🏻 I bless them all but I let go of all negative snakey people. I am sol happy & grateful that I always can count on GOD - HE is the one who comforts me in the last years, gives me peace.. I am enjoying my own company & with my Baby boy, dearest Fam & some few friends 🎉🥰🍀👍 Thank you, GOD for my peace, time & financially freedom 🌺

  • @knowledgejourney2888
    @knowledgejourney28882 ай бұрын

    Stoicism offers a profound philosophy of resilience and inner strength that resonates deeply with me.

  • @DanielWalker-ci7fo
    @DanielWalker-ci7fo3 ай бұрын

    It's amazing how a smile and a helping hand will make one popular and respected... 🙄🤔🤣

  • @RWM-ReligionWisdomsMotivation0
    @RWM-ReligionWisdomsMotivation02 ай бұрын

    We are rich only through what we give, and poor only through what we refuse.

  • @fivedotsixfourthreetimes
    @fivedotsixfourthreetimes2 ай бұрын

    love these! rejection has been coined as too negative, now Im seeing rejection and molding it to a positive power, it is tough to do but worth it.❤

  • @StoicHabit101

    @StoicHabit101

    Ай бұрын

    These insights are truly empowering! 🌟 How do you approach turning rejection into a positive force in your life?

  • @yadip65
    @yadip653 ай бұрын

    Thank you Lord ! I have been doing this fir years and didnt even know this lesson. Thats just how God created me , thank you Jesus 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @ND-or5so

    @ND-or5so

    3 ай бұрын

    @yadip65: Great

  • @valencia9992
    @valencia9992Ай бұрын

    I don’t believe it was a coincidence your page came across my feed. Your messages are profound. I’m taking things day by day. The pain is no joke. I’m trusting GOD to show me the way. Just pouring goodness into me is helping me become stronger.

  • @terri5624

    @terri5624

    Ай бұрын

    No such thing as coincidence. I love it !! 😊❤🙏

  • @jegsthewegs
    @jegsthewegs2 ай бұрын

    After years of being "black sheeped" by my family, then dumped by partner of 7yrs, losing my home. I had an emotional breakdown. My family "helped by not talking about it" my isolation was unbearable. I moved 70miles away. Then followed many years of my very existence being ignored.

  • @StoicHabit101

    @StoicHabit101

    Ай бұрын

    @jegsthewegs, your resilience in the face of adversity is truly remarkable. It's heart-wrenching to hear about the challenges you've endured, from feeling marginalized within your own family to experiencing the devastating loss of a long-term relationship and home. The emotional toll of these experiences, compounded by the lack of support from your family, must have been incredibly difficult to bear. Your decision to move away in search of a fresh start speaks volumes about your strength and determination to reclaim your life. Despite the isolation and years of feeling overlooked, you refused to let despair define you. Instead, you embarked on a journey of self-discovery and healing, bravely carving out a new path for yourself. I can't imagine how daunting it must have been to rebuild your life from the ground up, but your resilience shines through in every word you share. Your story is a testament to the power of perseverance and the indomitable human spirit. I'm left wondering about the moments of hope and resilience that sustained you during your darkest days. What kept you going during those challenging times, and what advice would you offer to others who may be facing similar struggles? Your journey is a testament to the fact that even in our darkest moments, there is always a glimmer of light to guide us forward.

  • @thelmabayot360
    @thelmabayot360Ай бұрын

    A philosophy that will help us survive in this somewhat cruel world.

  • @StoicZone101
    @StoicZone1012 ай бұрын

    " A person's worth is measured by the worth of what he values." - Marcus Aurelius

  • @nimranazir7360
    @nimranazir73602 ай бұрын

    Gosh one of my friend start to ignore me without any reason nd subconsciously i did the same things as described in the video 😂😂 so proud of myself after her i started interacting with others nd find so many beautiful souls worthy of my time and love so guys Never giveup for one person♥️

  • @StoicHabit101

    @StoicHabit101

    Ай бұрын

    @nimranazir7360, your journey of self-discovery and resilience shines through your heartfelt words. It's truly empowering to witness how you've navigated the complexities of human relationships with grace and determination. Despite the pain of being ignored by a friend, you didn't succumb to despair or bitterness. Instead, you found strength within yourself to prioritize your own well-being and seek out connections with others who appreciate and value you. Your ability to adapt and grow from challenging experiences is commendable. By embracing the wisdom shared in the video and applying it to your life, you've transformed moments of uncertainty into opportunities for personal growth and renewal. Your resilience serves as an inspiration to others who may be facing similar struggles in their relationships. Your story leaves me curious about the beautiful souls you've encountered on your journey. How have these new connections enriched your life, and what valuable lessons have you learned from them? Additionally, what advice would you offer to those who may be struggling to overcome similar challenges in their interpersonal relationships?

  • @ChangeYourLife-bl3gj
    @ChangeYourLife-bl3gj2 ай бұрын

    Intro 00:01:52 1. Disregard Them Too 00:03:33 2. Don't React Emotionally 00:05:15 3. Remove Them From Your Mind 00:06:33 4. Demonstrate Your Value 00:07:41 5. Cut Off Contact 00:08:42 6. Prove Them Wrong 00:09:48 7. Go Out And Have Fun 00:10:56 8. Build Your Social Status 00:11:56 9. Act As If They Don'T Exist 00:13:00 10. Give Them The Silent Treatment 00:14:12 11. Don't Beg For Attention 00:15:16 12. Be Kind But Emotionally Distant 00:16:21 13. Don't Reveal Your Struggle 00:18:54 Conclusion

  • @marianicolepappadakis8880
    @marianicolepappadakis888012 күн бұрын

    I have never been so disrespected and degraded and treated so badly in my entire life.

  • @noreenryan7487
    @noreenryan74873 ай бұрын

    True words of wisdom. Thank you.

  • @sgg3103
    @sgg31032 ай бұрын

    Greatest source and lesson of knowledge and greater wisdom. Blessings in disguise and it’s always greater in the end for my narrative. Looking forward to expressing myself in my public speaking and sharing some of these lessons. Freedom is ringing, so let it ring.

  • @Marywhite-pd1hw
    @Marywhite-pd1hw3 ай бұрын

    A very fascinating video , this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me , I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him , but I can’t , I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him...

  • @Marywhite-pd1hw

    @Marywhite-pd1hw

    3 ай бұрын

    Amazing how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

  • @Marywhite-pd1hw

    @Marywhite-pd1hw

    3 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impresive

  • @charlottebruce979

    @charlottebruce979

    2 ай бұрын

    I didn't see my life with anyone else, I thought I couldn't love like that again, but you know what? I did, and it's even better than before!! Go fearlessly out there again and love ❤

  • @CITYBEACHTV

    @CITYBEACHTV

    2 ай бұрын

    You’re Addicted - thats not love. If you truly love them let them go and find their happiness.

  • @maryamallahverdian3753
    @maryamallahverdian37535 күн бұрын

    More incredible lessons for me thank you very much lord 🙏❤️

  • @traceyross8528
    @traceyross852828 күн бұрын

    Thoroughly enjoyed this powerful message. Given me strength to keep battling on with dignity and poise.

  • @goldenzoneus
    @goldenzoneus7 күн бұрын

    This explanation of stoicism is spot on. It's fascinating how relevant these ancient principles are today!

  • @sharlar3300
    @sharlar330017 күн бұрын

    Amen ❤

  • @DanielWalker-ci7fo
    @DanielWalker-ci7fo3 ай бұрын

    If it doesn't feel right to you then forget about it! ✌️

  • @VirgotheHermit00
    @VirgotheHermit00Ай бұрын

    I have been practicing this for a long time. I’m a sigma female. I don’t care about anyone’s opinion and focus on myself and the things I need to do for my life. I march to the beat of my own drum and don’t seek validation from others. I’m important and so are you.

  • @datgurlangel8319

    @datgurlangel8319

    25 күн бұрын

    Yesss ❤❤❤

  • @winstoic_offical
    @winstoic_offical24 күн бұрын

    Thanks for sharing with us.

  • @ShayMuzikk
    @ShayMuzikkАй бұрын

    I have the same feeling, but I never showed my weakness. Unfortunately I’m quite experienced in this thing, but you never get used to feeling this way. The Stoic philosophy helps me as I have enough going on in my life and I’m steady on never showing weakness. Ofcourse I want to call her, ask her why, get her back, scream my lungs out, but in the end they don’t posess you. You were, are and always be assigned to direct you life by God. Respect that life was given to you, not to be dependent on someone else. You can become better out of all of this, do it. Trust Gods plan, trust the process, time will show you.

  • @user-zj1kz6mh6g
    @user-zj1kz6mh6gАй бұрын

    I never want to be in the minds of those toxic people. Let them wonder why their life is downturning, as there is a transmutation of their poised success to my greatness

  • @StoicHabit101

    @StoicHabit101

    Ай бұрын

    @user-zj1kz6mh6g, your words resonate with a powerful sense of self-preservation and determination. In recognizing the toxicity of certain individuals, you've made a conscious decision to safeguard your well-being and distance yourself from their negative influence. This act of self-preservation is not only commendable but essential for nurturing your own growth and prosperity. Your mindset embodies resilience and an unwavering belief in your own potential. By refusing to be entangled in the webs of toxicity, you pave the way for your own ascent to greatness. Your comment sparks curiosity about the transformative journey you're undertaking. How do you envision your path to greatness unfolding amidst the challenges posed by these toxic influences? And what strategies do you employ to maintain your focus and resilience in the face of adversity? Your story serves as a beacon of hope and empowerment for others navigating similar terrain, inspiring them to reclaim control over their lives and pursue their own paths to greatness.

  • @Christiankrez
    @Christiankrez3 ай бұрын

    ❤ I really needed to hear this. Thank you!

  • @girlynyachiya246
    @girlynyachiya24625 күн бұрын

    Powerful, I really needed this.

  • @carlosalugo1648
    @carlosalugo16483 ай бұрын

    This is the truth , being explained in many words what to do if anyone rejects you is helpful specifically to those that don't understand y others do this thing, IF YOU BELIEVE IN GOD I SUGGEST YOU READ THE BIBLE, BECAUSE WHAT THIS VIDEO IS TELLING YOU, GOD SAS IT IN THE BIBLE LET GO OF FAMILY, FRIENDS, THAT BRING YOU DOWN AND DON'T SUPPORT YOU and all they do is bring you bad negativete, God says CAST THEM OUT IM WATCHING OVER YOU , I'M SAYING THIS BECAUSE I HAD WHENT TRUE THIS 2 YEARS AGO I EVERYONE EVEN MY BROTHERS REJECTED ME EN EVERY WAY, I WAS LOOKING FOR ANSWERS THE BIBLE READING IT ONE DAY I RAN INTO THAT VERSE THAT GOD GAVE US THE POWER TO , BOUNSE ON PEOPLE THAT DIDN'T HELP US FOR GOOD ONLY TO DO US HARM, GOD SAID HE WILL NOT PUNISH YOU FOR DOING THIS , MY ADVICE TO ANYONE THAT READS THIS COMMENT, BECAUSE I WHENT TRUE THIS REJECTION THING AND IT HURTS UNTIL YOU DO WHAT I DID. GOD BLESS 🙏

  • @sheilanewcombe

    @sheilanewcombe

    3 ай бұрын

    God is good. A lot in this video is scriptural. Good tools for changing negative mindsets. Holy Spirit brings us into all truth, that leads us to salvation....from death to life!

  • @odile772
    @odile7722 ай бұрын

    Brilliant.

  • @maryhartley512
    @maryhartley5123 ай бұрын

    But its so painful i love him 😢

  • @uscroger4690

    @uscroger4690

    2 ай бұрын

    See #3

  • @truth4375

    @truth4375

    Ай бұрын

    I can help you get him back

  • @tayrene8688
    @tayrene86882 ай бұрын

    Some good books you could read to lean into these ideas: You Are A Bad As - Jen Sincero No Excuses - Brian Tracy The Power of Now - Eckhart Toole and if always suggest Marcus Arelious' - meditations

  • @revathimkulkarni
    @revathimkulkarni3 ай бұрын

    Grateful for this. Thank you!

  • @brandonmohammed3738
    @brandonmohammed37382 ай бұрын

    All powerful advises, Thanks for those benifits , advises!! This will help many!💯

  • @praisedouglas-wr9sr
    @praisedouglas-wr9sr22 күн бұрын

    Thank you 😊

  • @bytethought
    @bytethought2 ай бұрын

    our consciousness is the ultimate reality, the very foundation of everything we experience. Think of it like a stream, with the conscious and subconscious as its two parts. Understanding how these parts work together is key to harnessing the power of our minds. The conscious is like our personal filter, while the subconscious takes in everything. And while the conscious shows us the effects, it's the subconscious where the real causes lie. It's a bit like the conscious being active and assertive, while the subconscious is passive and receptive - like two complementary halves of the same whole

  • @evypettersson6513
    @evypettersson6513Ай бұрын

    Saying No sometimes saves yourselves. Don't always say Yes to everything. There is a limit for all of us. Love and best wishes . ❤️😊🙏

  • @DivineBrightLight222
    @DivineBrightLight222Ай бұрын

    When my classmates diss me I love it ❤ it makes me stronger and wiser. My own company is the best anyhow.

  • @debbielightmillercurtisaut9631
    @debbielightmillercurtisaut9631Ай бұрын

    Powerful material, I have been practicing some of these techniques but didn’t know they are before my time. One thing I do know is that self growth is inevitable and will come to you as a gift to self. Stoicism works for me and broaden my knowledge of the why behind my actions to be a better version of myself daily ❤

  • @FluencyAccentCoach
    @FluencyAccentCoachАй бұрын

    Thanks for your advice.

  • @user-cz3xn1wm7s
    @user-cz3xn1wm7s2 ай бұрын

    The answer is YES thank you for this

  • @mirkogiljaca1051
    @mirkogiljaca10513 ай бұрын

    Thank You.

  • @StoicismDigestYT

    @StoicismDigestYT

    3 ай бұрын

    Hope you liked it ❤️

  • @kionvaliant6286
    @kionvaliant62862 ай бұрын

    Solid video, thank you for the new perceptive. o7

  • @ND-or5so
    @ND-or5so3 ай бұрын

    A blessing in disguise

  • @debo1301
    @debo13012 ай бұрын

    So powerful

  • @ramaaboge5354
    @ramaaboge535427 күн бұрын

    Powerful and credible message

  • @AYUSHKUMAR-xj4wc
    @AYUSHKUMAR-xj4wc3 ай бұрын

    A video I needed so much❤❤❤

  • @Life_Student2
    @Life_Student2Ай бұрын

    Strength and Adversay❤

  • @asherafmm734
    @asherafmm734Ай бұрын

    Superb...

  • @user-fo1sw6ie3t
    @user-fo1sw6ie3t3 ай бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏 Thank you

  • @mariab4905
    @mariab4905Ай бұрын

    Thank you

  • @shanchaii7976
    @shanchaii79763 ай бұрын

    12 years of relationship and its hurt that he Reject me without any valid reason😭😭

  • @taymicastro2749

    @taymicastro2749

    2 ай бұрын

    There’s a reason for everything,u can’t see it now ,but later you will and it is always for good 👍.You have to make the call

  • @antoniagiffard7596

    @antoniagiffard7596

    2 ай бұрын

    I just broke up a 12 years relationship also, which was long distance, i just found out that the bastards was living a double life. I was always the one doing all the travelling.

  • @patriciaoreilly8907
    @patriciaoreilly89073 ай бұрын

    Really appreciate 😊

  • @sorahbrowne1534
    @sorahbrowne15343 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much. I do have some of those good qualities. I sen

  • @WisdomWords-sf2if
    @WisdomWords-sf2ifАй бұрын

    lots of lessons for me, thank you

  • @hindwidad2723
    @hindwidad27233 ай бұрын

    This is some good stuff! You deserve more followers ❤

  • @user-ye1kc2ff2b
    @user-ye1kc2ff2b3 ай бұрын

    Amen❤😊

  • @alasanbah9509
    @alasanbah95093 ай бұрын

    Wonderful

  • @doctorkrf
    @doctorkrf3 ай бұрын

    The AI Voice over on this one mispronounces so many words.

  • @Motivation8888-hq6fz
    @Motivation8888-hq6fz2 ай бұрын

    thanks you

  • @ursulareeg1171
    @ursulareeg11712 ай бұрын

    When relationships become a painful experience there comes a time to delete or block such contacts. I have and I felt better for doing do.

  • @josephpalumbo1811
    @josephpalumbo18112 ай бұрын

    Excellent

  • @lisaammons4655
    @lisaammons46552 ай бұрын

    my children wanted me to think my birthday was really special until i watched the video and listen to the bday song my daughter jumped in and said think as i was rejected

  • @stoicismvictory
    @stoicismvictory17 күн бұрын

    Marcus Aurelius once said, 'The best revenge is to be unlike him who performed the injury.' 🌟 What’s your story of turning rejection into a stepping stone to success? I’m really curious to hear how others have used the principles of Stoicism to transform their setbacks into comebacks! Let’s share and inspire each other!💪

  • @MarlonMobley-ki1uh
    @MarlonMobley-ki1uhАй бұрын

    Thanks

  • @ursulaschlapbach311
    @ursulaschlapbach311Ай бұрын

    This is very important and helpful 🎉❤🎉

  • @Jazz-pg9xb
    @Jazz-pg9xb3 ай бұрын

    Very good 👍🏼😊

  • @StoicKing101
    @StoicKing1013 ай бұрын

    "Difficulties strengthen the mind, as labor does the body." - Seneca How can viewing rejection not as a setback but as a strengthening tool change your path towards achieving your goals and personal growth?

  • @StoicValuesyt1
    @StoicValuesyt12 ай бұрын

    good to use

  • @user-kz1zx6eh6s
    @user-kz1zx6eh6s3 ай бұрын

    Awesome very interesting

  • @ellakidd6512
    @ellakidd65122 ай бұрын

    I have given myself to this man since my husband passed .I waited 3yrs to date .meet this guy ,he came by every day call every day were always around now I feel so stupid he only call me during the day now .but not at night

  • @vaughanscott7308

    @vaughanscott7308

    2 ай бұрын

    Cos hes with his wife.

  • @EkspressNovosti
    @EkspressNovosti3 ай бұрын

    Good luck 👍 💓 ✨️ 💗 💖 💜 👍 💓 ✨️ 💗 💖

  • @nanetteking12
    @nanetteking122 ай бұрын

    Excellent message, hinky AI. Thanks

  • @StoicHabit101
    @StoicHabit101Ай бұрын

    "It is not that we have a short time to live, but that we waste a lot of it. Life is long enough, and a generous amount has been given to us for the highest purposes if it were all well invested." (Seneca, On the Brevity of Life) Do you think this video explores reframing rejection as a learning experience and an opportunity to pursue better-suited opportunities, or does it delve into manipulating situations to gain acceptance?

  • @marko-pz4kg
    @marko-pz4kgАй бұрын

    I dont want anyone to miss me, i want to be left alone and forgotten by everyone

  • @StoicHabit101

    @StoicHabit101

    Ай бұрын

    @marko-pz4kg, your comment resonates with a deep sense of solitude and perhaps a desire for detachment from social bonds. It's evident that you're navigating through a complex emotional landscape, seeking solace in solitude. However, your expression prompts curiosity about the experiences or thoughts driving this sentiment. Is there a specific reason behind your desire to be left alone and forgotten? Understanding the deeper motivations behind such feelings can often illuminate paths towards personal growth and fulfillment. If you're comfortable sharing, what led you to this perspective, and what do you hope to achieve by embracing solitude? Your insights could offer valuable reflections for others navigating similar emotions.

  • @DivaDavida6969

    @DivaDavida6969

    Ай бұрын

    🥹 poor baby 😘😘😘

  • @FlRElTUP
    @FlRElTUP2 ай бұрын

    I'm sorry but I couldn't help but laugh, that stroke came on strong (3:10)

  • @StoicSpirit101
    @StoicSpirit1014 күн бұрын

    "Reject your sense of injury and the injury itself disappears." - Marcus Aurelius Thank you for watching! How do you think the Stoic philosophy can help us reframe rejection as a tool for personal growth and resilience?