So I am a white woman with a black husband. Multiple times I have told him I don't trust white women with black men advice for some black women with white men Because of this I do not trust my own people I could never see myself doing this to the man I love no matter what happened in the end. This is just beyond scary I'm always afraid white people are going to hurt my two grown sons. Because I know my people well

@raesully2615

8 ай бұрын

MOST TIMES THOSE BLACK GUYS DESERVE TO HAVE THE COPS CALLED ON THEM. I DON'T EVEN DEAL WITH BLACK GUYS.

@elcavalletti7369

8 ай бұрын

You are absolutely right I know them very well to you because most pale skin women have the mentality, of being bigots and they know that black men are with them only because the color of their skin. The truth is black men only get with white women because they're angry from what happened to black people doing slavery and their whole mindset is oh I'm going to get with a white woman could get the black white man back I'm going to get what he wants I'm going to take from him when he has that's been mentality also they're on the down low for those of you who don't know that means he's gay y'all should know the lingo by now!!! Believe you me if you are a white woman with a black man ask him to chew intent of his heart while he's with you he's not going to tell you the truth call so lie to you but the main reason he is with you is because the color of your skin and his mindset of him wanting to get back at the so-called white man who did what they did in slavery that's it!!! Along with that because they're trying to wash out their own complexion because they hate their color of their skin and along with that is the fact that they're on the down low don't be surprised come if your husband is having sex with a man and listen to me, to my parents getting white sisters let me tell you something your black husband always he may marry you for status but he will always desire and want a black woman even the ones that hate their own complexion because it's something that we have the other women don't have doesn't matter how bad our bodies look believe you me they want a black woman so you are second second to them because they were not man enough for a black woman and that's why they really went over to you!! And when it come with you they know they better have money it will not give her the money the way they will give to you because they're buying you the same way the black people ancestors were sold in Boynton slavery in the black man's mind that you're with he's buying you! But you just don't know it!!

@pareyparey7162

8 ай бұрын

I'm a black woman and this guy is lying. He's behaving like a narcissistic abuser. For instance: Talking about "children were hurt" instead of saying "my children were hurt" he's trying to dissociate himself from the situation. This tactic is usually done in by people who lack accountability or people that are avoidant of accountability. The second issue is the fact that he keeps mentioning his wife being whyte when we already know his wife is whyte. He's doing this deliberately like somehow it's going to make his testimony more believable if he keeps mentioning it over and over again.

@dallasflynn5200

8 ай бұрын

@@pareyparey7162 THANK-YOU! I couldn’t quite pinpoint WHY I just didn’t believe this guy. Your post nails it! Well done.

@jaeshasway

8 ай бұрын

@@pareyparey7162Exactly! 💯

We the Black and African congregation will sit this one out 😂😂

@HHCF713

8 ай бұрын

😂For real! I have a wreath to make and make an outline for work. 😂😂

@cecetv87

8 ай бұрын

Facts

@angelastultz8001

8 ай бұрын

Amen

@sabrinaa3478

8 ай бұрын

Right lol

@narcfreekeekee9168

8 ай бұрын

I second that 😂😂😂😂

She was white when you married her sir and she's still going to be white when the divorce has been finalized! 💁🏽‍♀

@ThePhoenix3712

8 ай бұрын

Oh well!! He's on his own just like bm do bw when we get with a non bm.

@juliatripp2010

8 ай бұрын

And she'll have a nice house and you sir may need to find a shelter or another sympathetic white woman. Theyre out there

@AandP4dummieslikeme

8 ай бұрын

Good point LOL

@cornelialoftin6224

8 ай бұрын

My white wie😂

He kept reiterating that she was white like we were supposed to galvanize on his behalf....I can guarantee that same man used the "I don't see color, I fell in love with a person"talking points. Nobody should ever lie about abuse but.... sweetheart, this is not black women's business

@docaz9453

8 ай бұрын

His children look black so he definitely had black baby mama and married Becky later in his life thinking it dream coming true, he got it coming

@MissKashira

8 ай бұрын

And with everything going on in the world, rising rents, stagnant wages, Roe v Wade being overturned, childhood poverty, police brutality, he wants us out there marching because at best he picked wrong and at worst he's suffering the consequences of actually being an abuser. I wish I would.

@jasminee1357

8 ай бұрын

@@MissKashira !!!!!!

@TheMostHighDaughter180

8 ай бұрын

@@docaz9453 Where’d you see them?

@AgingbtrthanspoiledMilk24

8 ай бұрын

No he's the black Man that hates black women talk down on us to build his white girl up. He kept saying white wife because he wanted black women to come save the day.

When he said "i would love to hear from White women" lol thats how you got in this mess😄

@DumebiLea

8 ай бұрын

🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

@kathismith2865

8 ай бұрын

Preeeeach 💯‼️

@khem127

8 ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@mariapace8095

8 ай бұрын

LMAOOOOO you are so right.😅

@iretha3197

8 ай бұрын

He is just trying to find his next white wife .

BW usually cape for BM regardless of what they do. Seeing BW say no more makes me HAPPY 🥲🤎

@Michael22352

8 ай бұрын

cape the hell you talking about, you acting as if this one sided, bro both parties go through it, Black women go through it too but you know what happens, y'all offer moral support, but for black men, its moral contempt, I'd done seen it over and over and over, Picture Kayla Nicole right, and all she had to do was to get up and chat about Black girl magic and the capes are on for y'all, stop the cap, most of y'all black women contempt is against white women, I used to cape for y'all too, until I started realizing, y'all do the exact same shit too, we pretending out here like Black women are some sort of saint, come on not everything that looks like us, is us.

@dreamcatcher3878

8 ай бұрын

Yesss makes my ❤ smile 😂

@ursula8390

8 ай бұрын

Gurl...we tired.

@cocoace7587

8 ай бұрын

Exactly. We finally got the message, although it took a few houses to fall on our heads 😅. ❤

@TheMostHighDaughter180

8 ай бұрын

Me too🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🤷🏾‍♀️👏🏿👏🏿

His speech is humbling as he try to tread softly....I am sure he would aggressively outspoken if it was a black woman!

@NovemberReigne

8 ай бұрын

Exactly! He would had fought her too

@anm9881

8 ай бұрын

Absolutly.

@TheMostHighDaughter180

8 ай бұрын

You know it!!! That ninja stupid!

@AgingbtrthanspoiledMilk24

8 ай бұрын

Absolutely he would have rode us all the way to hell and back

@feliciajenkins5041

8 ай бұрын

That part🎯

As a black older woman, it's not that he married a white woman that bothers me. It's when he emphasized "my white wife", it felt as if he were implying white women don't do this, but black women do. He refers to her skin color as if he'll receive more support from the black community.

@CathyLTate

8 ай бұрын

You’re So Right But We Still Don’t Care About His Preference. But He’s a Uncle Ruckus Who Hates Black People & Black Himself.

@queenlj12jax97

8 ай бұрын

I agree, but I think his reference of "my white wife" was a dog whistle to black folks to rally around him because he's in peril with YT folks based upon her accusation. However, he has that way about him which leads me to believe that he's probably dismissed with disdain more BW than we can count. As far as I'm concerned, he's on his own.

@letstalk1050

8 ай бұрын

@@queenlj12jax97 Exactly!

@AandP4dummieslikeme

8 ай бұрын

He thinks we are stupid.

@khalilmcclain51

6 ай бұрын

I think you’re kind of just searching and reaching for a reason to not like what he said, most reasonable people would assume he kept saying his white wife just to emphasize the power imbalance, and how dangerous it is that she’s making false police reports as a white woman against a black man knowing how that usually plays out……. had he not said his white wife most people in these comments would be in here saying “I bet I know what race the wife was” but when he acknowledges it, it’s a problem???y’all really be looking for reasons to have a problem. It’s giving I hate white people so bad that I also hate you for marrying one and now I have to justify you being mistreated by one because of my own hatred. Like truly do some critical thinking maybe he emphasized his white wife, because a white woman calling the police on a black man has completely different implications than a black woman calling the police on a black man…….

What has Tyrone gone and done to this poor woman? They are usually so cooperative and submissive. 😂

@apriljohnson7447

8 ай бұрын

😂 indeed

@CrownS-n-LessonS

8 ай бұрын

Now this right here!

@taurusscorpion6704

8 ай бұрын

He did nothing. Dick Gregory spoke of this many years ago. They must procreate with us in order to keep their lineage going. It must be with a eumelanin person. They used to kill us after child was born. Well, some still do. For the most part, once the children become old enough to ensure their health and longevity her, they simply get rid of the black person. Leaving them with very little, no excluding their black essence. Making the inept for anyone of their race. Hence why the Civil Rights movement was created. MLK found out and stated he "lead my people to slaughter ", he was murdered there after that speech. A people who refuse to know their history will get plummeted.

@TheRealKCKay

8 ай бұрын

I’m HOLLERING 💀💀💀

@kekedaboss

8 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣😂🤣😂😂😂😂😂weakkkk

He need not say women, I've know several black women myself included going or went through a divorce, and didn't do anything like this and it never crossed either of our minds. So he can keep black women out this mess.

@leobvenzen8565

8 ай бұрын

Exactly!! His behind should have known better!! Becky/Susan/Haley, etc.'s behavior is legendary!!! "I feel nothing!" Taurein Reign.

@dellamobley2570

8 ай бұрын

HalleluYAH we try and be sensible and fair

@1_star_reviews

8 ай бұрын

He’s bringing Black women into this because he still can’t see where he went wrong and want Black women to come to his defense. Nah, let him fight for himself

@deborahroberts2777

8 ай бұрын

Exactly

@deborahroberts2777

8 ай бұрын

I'm not sorry or would emphasize with this id...t.

Dont have any sympathy for this "Brother," whatsoever! And, yes, he should have seen this coming!!!

@angelawilliams9088

8 ай бұрын

NO SYMPATHY!

@kathismith2865

8 ай бұрын

Zero‼️💯

@Sarah.M98

8 ай бұрын

I agree, too bad alot of bmw/pickmeshias will still give him a lot of sympathies.

@NovemberReigne

8 ай бұрын

I don't feel sorry for him either

@power21-pd2gs

8 ай бұрын

😢😢😢😢😢😮😮😢😢😢like always black men hyprocrysy!!!!!you want us to have any pitty for you!!!!ogaaaa pack oneeee sideee and don't ever call the black women for support you our start any movement that we as one black women we had done a loooooot to always save and protect all our families and is it worthy?????go and cry the pale women to help you to get your own justice And call all the Beckisias for your legal rescueeeeee!!!!!!!!!!😮😮😮😮😮

People put too much of their personal business on social media and complain about the crictism they receive.

@reesebloom8093

8 ай бұрын

💯✅

@FashionJewelryandmoreFYI-vz1by

8 ай бұрын

This

@pree988

8 ай бұрын

😂 lol I was just thinking that

@D415h4n34

8 ай бұрын

A word right here🎯

@TheRealKCKay

8 ай бұрын

That part

Iam black African man truth to be told, I hate how our black brothers from USA talk badly about our black women from there.

😂😂😂 he’s expecting BW to come to his rescue like attack dogs 🤦🏾‍♀️.Well I believe Becky. 🤷🏾‍♀️BM are abusive. We see it online and in every day life. He looks angry and like he’s a narcissistic liar

@the_honored_one_06

8 ай бұрын

I have a question, my dad who is a black man constantly mentally and physically abuses me. but im afraid to call cops because I dont want him dead or my family to hate me. What do i do

@JazzyForever100

8 ай бұрын

​@@the_honored_one_06move out if you can.

@nikkilong7377

8 ай бұрын

​@_thegoatwitch_ get the F away from him as quickly as possible. Tell someone who can help you.

@KennNotKen

8 ай бұрын

@@the_honored_one_06Get a job if you don’t already have one, save up, MOVE OUT. It’ll only get worse.

@ReinaAfricana

8 ай бұрын

​@@the_honored_one_06you better either move or call the cops. It's not a game when it comes to certain black men. You can end up in icu. As a domestic violence survivor I'm advising you to do what you got to do. He can harm you so it's either him or you.

🎉😂😂😂…the folding chair suggestion was on point!!! 😂😂😂😂

@williesimmons-rq6gz

8 ай бұрын

Most are on the same page.

@Sunny-tc3ul

8 ай бұрын

Top tier 🤣🤣🤣

@zionstayfit920

8 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@kudjoeadkins-battle2502

8 ай бұрын

That was hilarious 😂

@getreal4real169

8 ай бұрын

I cackled at that suggestion. 😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤

Are we supposed to feel bad u made your choice sir 🤣🤣🤣 these stitches got me on the floor

@majestic8861

8 ай бұрын

Right! Not our business, Not our fight.🙃😆

@tanisha7789

8 ай бұрын

Right 😂😂

@njemilenantan5833

8 ай бұрын

I am drinking water and minding my business.

@LoXena

8 ай бұрын

She was his "preference" 🤷🏾‍♀️

@tanisha7789

8 ай бұрын

Exactly

Thats his preference and his problem 😅

Dumebi, it happens to black women who swirl all the time. When those relationships fail, black men post the vids and talk about it. They don't care either. He wanted the opinion of white women, let him get their opinion. Let him go seek solace over there. Black women are tired of their BS! When the preference isn't preferencing.

@DumebiLea

8 ай бұрын

😂😂 well, I hope our people learn soon enough

Every man that abuses his wife claims he's not abusing his wife. So saying that you aren't abusing her makes you no different than all those "innocent men" doing time in prison. That being said, false allegations are a thing, so there is a chance you are telling the truth. So in case you are, I will extend to you the same grace extended to black women when a man screws them over: You shudda picked better.

@somebodycomelistentothispo7217

8 ай бұрын

He did it

@ILoveUs_AmericanBWandGirls

8 ай бұрын

I 🤎 your comment 🥇🥇

@malaikamurray5675

8 ай бұрын

This response is top tier

@nikkilong7377

8 ай бұрын

Hello. I second this

@carrington2949

8 ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

I am yet to hear an abusive man saying “I abused my wife.” They’re all “falsely accused. ” The divorce is always “out of the blue.”

@TheRealKCKay

8 ай бұрын

“Out of the blue” is a narcissists favorite phrase 🙄

@janicet2665

7 ай бұрын

He probably telling the truth but I don't care..you step on us to get to them and when they step on you ..then you cry to us...this is the white world and who they going to believe, white woman..but that is who you desired and wanted now live it.

@tredinabrown2249

Ай бұрын

​@@janicet2665We Do Not Care At All!

He needs to call fitless and unfresh, red pill and passport bros. Surely they can give him some insight.

@nanaanan4731

8 ай бұрын

@rickiesmith413 not “fitless and up unfresh!” 😂 😂 Them and all the “bros.” I’d love to hear that conversation. Smh

@ADR-xn6dg

8 ай бұрын

He already knew black men wouldn’t ride for him. Not because he isn’t black but because they normally aren’t the start of a movement.

@rickiesmith413

8 ай бұрын

@@ADR-xn6dg I agree.

@karenwatson5732

8 ай бұрын

Hahahaha! I'm wheezing! Frfr they deserve that!

@kelliehu8749

8 ай бұрын

Not "unfresh" 😂😂😂

What F me up is after going through this he had the audacity to say he would like to hear from WW what they think about his situation 😳huh? Looks to me like this goofy has not learned his lesson😂😂

@janerecluse4344

8 ай бұрын

This white woman thinks he did it and is kidding himself he doesn't know he did it. The kind of guy who says "I barely touched you" or "it wasn't that bad". Total douche.

@1_star_reviews

8 ай бұрын

Some people never learn.

@ibabechanel

8 ай бұрын

Fishing for the next ww.

@ThePhoenix3712

8 ай бұрын

He's right to seek out ww opinions cause that's the ethnic community of women he choosing to be with. Get that through your head!! At least he's not bringing his problems to who's not responsible. Bw need to stop getting involved when it comes to bm that doesn't prefer you. Learn how to stop carrying cause of it was you, nobody would care🤷🏿‍♀️

@MaiAngelTv

8 ай бұрын

No not yet bu he is on that journey home. Smh😊

That's what he wanted, that's what he got. Good morning/evening/night to all my black sisters i would like for you all to know you are beautiful. Let's stay dust free😂❤💃🏾

@TheRealKCKay

8 ай бұрын

Dust free 💀

@HermitMeowmeow

7 ай бұрын

❤

@mariejones2669

2 ай бұрын

😂 ❤️

There are so many women out there going through real domestic violence just trying to survive and these two people are wasting the police and the internet’s time with this mess.

@Sunny-tc3ul

8 ай бұрын

Wait she didn’t do anything. She put him and his kids out for a reason.

@nanaanan4731

8 ай бұрын

Not sure I agree. There’s a reason she put him out. Most women don’t just wake up and decide to do that, unprovoked. #ijs The fact that he and his children were obviously living in HER house is a red flag.

@pinkieeasley8400

8 ай бұрын

Brother laid it out!! No sympathy here!! 😆🤣😆🤣

@Nerdificent

8 ай бұрын

That is so true!

@1_star_reviews

8 ай бұрын

@@nanaanan4731He said it was his house and she did it to get a jump on the house for the divorce proceedings. Remember that possession is 9/10ths of the law. The person that’s living in the home during the divorce proceedings is usually the one that gets the house

His preference, his problem ✌🏾

I think I'll load up my truck and go fishing tomorrow, oh and call my daughter and see how she's doing. I don't care about the mess Bro-man got himself into😎

@khem127

8 ай бұрын

I think he needs a better shave, but that gray t shirt looks kinda old, personally, I think he looks better with the shades on.

@apriljohnson7447

8 ай бұрын

I hope your daughter is well. I feel like chicken tonight 😂 I would call my daughter too. But she might think I have money for her...I don't. But, maybe a steak would be better😂😂😂 Sorry, couldn't resist. You started it😂

@MaiAngelTv

8 ай бұрын

Hi guys you are all invited to come to a barbecue this weekend at my Londond 1 bed flat...just bring a b'ggle, so we can talk and jolly about it ❤😂

@juliatripp2010

8 ай бұрын

I just love watching DWTS every Tuesday night. Nothing else important on here

@mariejones2669

2 ай бұрын

😂 👍🏽

he would turn around again and MARRY another KAREN. BOY BYE good for you😀😃😁😜 YOUR CHOSEN QUEENIE

If I had to wake up to his face in the morning, my first instinct would be to call the police too

@donnasessions1816

8 ай бұрын

😂🤣..damn

@AramintaRossPistol

8 ай бұрын

LMAO...😂😂😂😂

@nanaanan4731

8 ай бұрын

THAT PART. 😂

@TheRealKCKay

8 ай бұрын

💀

@chocol8doll

8 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

“You shouldn’t get in a relationship and always have to look for something that’s coming” Well sir, you shouldn’t have to wipe your butt after you 💩 but if you don’t, you’ll deal with the consequences of that. 👩🏾‍💻

@angelawilliams9088

8 ай бұрын

Oh! Good analogy 😂😂😂

@dallasflynn5200

8 ай бұрын

❤

@futhimatsebula2871

8 ай бұрын

He should’ve picked better.

@prettynikki73

8 ай бұрын

The emoji at the end… had me HOLLA OUT LOUD🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭

@SnapBack206

8 ай бұрын

Ohh my gawd ….every bit of this❤🤣😂

She was tired of his bum ass and his kids he brought along, he should have just left when she told him to leave, I have zero sympathy for him.

He is manipulative and did it and now trying to manipulate us.

Those responses were hilarious! I love my people. 🤣

@tanpeepfoeva

8 ай бұрын

Heck yeah😂😅😊

So… what y’all doing tonight? I’m taking myself to dinner and then going to a Haunted House

@donnasessions1816

8 ай бұрын

Making myself a nice dinner, having a glass of wine, and afterwards relaxing with a good movie in the background while working on some puzzles!! Gonna be a nice, relaxing, quiet evening in for me.. but enjoy your haunted house!! ❤🎉

@TheRealKCKay

8 ай бұрын

I’m about to go make some UberEats deliveries, I need a few extra bucks! 😂 Then I’ll probably take my sister to dinner for her birthday! A haunted house might be fun instead tho! 😁😊

Talk about finding out the hard way why we as Black Women know not to trust/turn our backs on them. What did Mama use to say...."YOU MADE YOUR BED NOW LIE IN IT" ✌️out!

@HindiOliver

8 ай бұрын

"Haaaa.....ha...hhaa......yep!

A ninja wake up call. Lol. Stay close to your kind fam. You've been warned.

@somebodycomelistentothispo7217

8 ай бұрын

Nope. They can stay where they are. Once u go white, u can stay out of BWs sight

He gets no love! He got exactly what he was asking for! He think he done found a prize and leveled up 🤣 his prize ain't even worth the prize in the cracker Jack box ‼️ Now all she has to do is take his money and I hope she does! This sentiment is coming from a black woman who supports her black king who has been married to him for 35 years! I hope she gets every dime ‼️💯

@leobvenzen8565

8 ай бұрын

Its always the same scenario.....when swerling goes wrong they always come to Us (Black Community) for protection, sympathy...you'll notice that too???

@pamelajones-meadows7627

8 ай бұрын

Not one damn drop FOH.

@mariapace8095

8 ай бұрын

She will take his money and hee will come running back to black women when he won't have nothing to offer after giving his white wife the world.

@leobvenzen8565

8 ай бұрын

@@mariapace8095 he will come running back, but we wont accept him!!!! Those days are coming to a close!! He made his bed....im not sorry now that he is laying in it...we dont need weal, compromised, traitors in our community, the work is too important and plenty for that!!

@kathismith2865

8 ай бұрын

@@mariapace8095 The TRUUUTH 💯‼️

The opening video had me 😂😂😂😂

I love it😁 you wanted KAREN you got what you asked for🙃😛😜

Why does he emphasize “WHITE” wife🤷🏾‍♀️. Thats what he wanted and thats what he got!👍🏿 These are the same Black men that strolls around in public looking all proud to be with Becky and Karen and look the other way when a Sister passes by!

@ichellexcel

8 ай бұрын

Exactly!

@Kuriouskitty-mz3qx

4 ай бұрын

@@ichellexcelbecause it hold a historical factor but yet the still seek them so I dk

Notice how softly he is speaking !

@somebodycomelistentothispo7217

8 ай бұрын

He’s lying. That’s why

@barbaragaskins7914

8 ай бұрын

DL lost simp, dusty,

@HermitMeowmeow

7 ай бұрын

Notice he is in the public court of opinion instead of getting professional help. He is doing damage limitation so friends and family see it. You can't get restraining orders willy nilly. Something happened and he is trying to gaslight his wife, family and the world with that video

Sir, and the accompanying audience who reads this, you and many other black men said that you wanted a non black woman, preferably one of European background. You said those women were an upgrade. They are not loud and attention seeking. What you fail to understand( but hopefully do now), is that with yt people comes a level of aggression that is silent and serpent like. You wanted an upgrade, and you got upgraded aggression. Yt people don’t strike until they are ten steps ahead.Black women may be “loud” but you know up front what it is. Your upgrade is just as aggressive and they fight sneaky. They are quiet because they are planning. And I’m not throwing shade on yt people for that. But that’s how they do. You wanted the upgrade so you better fight the upgrade in an upgraded way. Go get some of your upgraded friends to support you and help you. You sir, don’t need the friends, specifically the women of your race that you left behind, yo help you or support you. Black women, sit it out. Don’t help him or save him. Ima kick y’all’s a**es if I see y’all in the comments being nice lol.

@donnasessions1816

8 ай бұрын

🫡🫡

@carrington2949

8 ай бұрын

Damn 😂😂😂

@janerecluse4344

8 ай бұрын

Speaking as a person of the mayonnaise persuasion, you are SO FUCKING RIGHT.

@MaiAngelTv

8 ай бұрын

Preach 1❤

@HindiOliver

8 ай бұрын

"LOL....."WELL....

I saw this video a few months ago. I'll say what I said before; He should have chosen better 🤷

@edithart5753

8 ай бұрын

Facts

@NovemberReigne

8 ай бұрын

🎯

I feel like some black men think that when black women said "you should have chosen better" we are saying they should not date outside of their race. But that is not what we are saying when we say choose better meaning dont ignore the red flags especially when dating women who have the power to end your life with a single statement or action. I bet this man was laughing with this woman and telling her how black women are jealous of her e.t.c. i dont know if this man actually did anything to this woman but i am sure that the signs she could do this were there but he chose to ignore it.

@juliatripp2010

8 ай бұрын

Over 30 years ago I was secretly thanking these yte women for taking these witless BM off our hands

Her race is only an issue when she's done putting up with his BS. Be mindful when you support couples like this also. The issue is, he never thought that her racism would turn against him. I can bet you a penny that she presented behaviours prior to marriage. He seems messy and is looking for sympathy. Things like this don't just happen out the blue. Just because he hasn't physically abused her doesn't mean he hasn't abused her. His "whyte wife" with emphasis. Pay attention to how he is listing all the people that will speak on his behalf to prove he's a good person and never abused his wife. People like this are dangerous. He Phucked around and found out. A lot of black men like him go for "whyte wives" because they think that they're not going to speak up for themselves and will be their ride or die through the shyte storm. He knows a lot of black women wouldn't put up with the nonsense and that's why he went with his "whyte wife". The reason people aren't showing empathy towards his is how he presented his wife. He could have just said his wife is accusing him, but he chose to say his whyte wife as if that would garnish more sympathy for a poor black man. People are seeing through the BS and calling it.

@TeriT-lx7sy

8 ай бұрын

💯 agree

@TheRealKCKay

8 ай бұрын

Right! It’s giving narcissist! Having his a** thrown out might have been her only escape! 😮 I was with him at first until it got messy…You expect the proud people of today’s glorious AI internet to believe that you just woke up one day and she decided to do this out of the blue? The math ain’t mathing bruh! He’s tryna make white women look bad and turn around and make black women look bad at the same time. He was complaining about our comments of not caring and then tries to sick the white women on us! I hope 👱🏻‍♀️👩🏻‍🦳🧘🏼‍♀️🧝‍♀️ hopped in the comments and read his a** to filth too! 😂

@sophieb24

8 ай бұрын

Absolutely 💯

@mariejones2669

2 ай бұрын

BIG FACTS💯🎯

To answer your question: yes. If this had been any other race, nationality, or ethnicity of woman, the same thing could’ve happened, BUT he wouldn’t have gotten on KZread to tell us about it. Why? It happens every day. It’s part of life. But because she is a palm colored woman, he posted, making sure that he named her race thinking/hoping that BW would come out against her in DROVES. It’s a form of triangulation and emotional abuse toward his wife. It’s selfish and self-centered for him to do this, in an effort to exploit the very real history of racial injustice and police violence against BM and BW in America. (But have you noticed that there’s no commotion when BW are assaulted?) Why do I say this? For one, BM NEVER show up for BW. EVER. They never run to our defense. They only make matters worse by telling us we “deserved it,” we don’t “deserve [their] protection”; they say “what did YOU do?” After decades of us fighting by their side, we see them talking badly about us in the media, trying to degrade our image. They plot on us constantly, exploit us, and see us as their competition. Most of us didn’t see it until the Kevin Samuels era, which made hateful Red Pill philosophy and content more high profile, on the internet. Now that we see it, we can’t unsee it. We thought that we were standing by their side, so that we could elevate as a community, but no. They have worked to tear down our communities and BW. From astronomically high DV rates, crime, fatherless homes that they intentionally create, and their refusal to work … BM are proving to be more foe to the BW than friend. They’re treasonous. Soooo … no more. We will no longer come to their rescue, so they can turn around and degrade and demean us to those same WW they love to chase. We’re over it. FYI: Continental African men do the same to African women. They will talk negatively about African women to African American women to make us feel “better than.” What they’re really attempting to do is exploit our social and economic capital, same as BM with WW. It’s BS all around. So now that we see it, we’re not even bothering to get upset about it anymore. We’re more interested in what’s for lunch; how little Keisha is doing in school; or even our next promotion, than this foolishness. No more one-sided loyalties. We’re moving on.

@chidijesseeverest2414

8 ай бұрын

African men don't talk bad about their women I don't know where you heard that from because it not true.

@koyankrumah9857

8 ай бұрын

@@chidijesseeverest2414they do and I am African!

@chidijesseeverest2414

8 ай бұрын

@@koyankrumah9857 exactly what part of Africa are you from because I'm sure it is only people in your tribe that talks about their women badly

@koyankrumah9857

8 ай бұрын

@@chidijesseeverest2414 from your name, I can see you are Nigerian and I suppose a man. It’s not a tribal issues, we see them and we hear them. 😒

@psychnurse964

8 ай бұрын

1000000%

I love your objectivity! I will say that it’s probably much easier for black Americans to “laugh at his pain” because he really should have known better given their history. This “history” isn’t something that our African brothers and sisters have experienced in the way that black Americans have combined with the fact that black American men have been going out of their way to bash BW. 😊

@HindiOliver

8 ай бұрын

"Some now...not all are that kind of way?""

@queenbiancadufrene8553

8 ай бұрын

@@HindiOliver it should be obvious and go without saying that it’s not ALL yt women are like that. There are always exceptions to everything. I don’t believe I said “all”. But it should also go without saying that their own science of epigenetics shows that just like the trauma of slavery and colonialism has imprinted on us as black Americans and Africans on a cellular level, all the heinous atrocities these people have inflicted across the globe and during chattel slavery against stolen people and during Jim Crow and everything else had also shaped who they are on a cellular level.

@Apixi

8 ай бұрын

Apartheid. The hell they haven't experienced the same racism and genocide we in America have.

They always feel like someone owes them something, what did he do to her for her to want to call the police on him? Just because he's a blk man married to a yte woman doesn't mean he is innocent 🙄

@allisonjones1585

8 ай бұрын

It doesn't mean he's guilty either. Let the court decide and the truth reveal itself

@Ferrist1

8 ай бұрын

Exactly. But they probably both stirred the pot. Black men and white women are two of the most entitled demographics. Especially in believing someone owes them something or others need to work on their behalf. They're consummate victims. Those two together are always mess waiting to happen.

@Nerdificent

8 ай бұрын

I'm trying to reserve judgment on this because I have a very strong bias toward spousal abuse. Some abusers abuse their spouses verbally, emotionally, and financially in addition to physically. The excuses abusers make in order to play the victim are as out to lunch as they are appalling. I don't know if this man is an abuser or not. If he's not, I hope he gets justice, but if he is, I hope his soon to be ex-wife takes him to the cleaners. BTW, he stresses that his wife is white like he didn't notice what colour she was when he married her.

@stephan45able

8 ай бұрын

It also doesn't mean that she is not guilty.they always feel like they are owed something!

@blkvikng3593

8 ай бұрын

True, definitely doesn't mean her ass innocent either

Felt bad until he said "my white wife". Sounds like he is trying to bring about a certain response from me. I refuse to be manipulated like that.

He did what she said thinking she was gonna stand for the bs. She ain't that submissive.

The foolery of this man like when I heard my white wife I screamed like we supposed to give him an award for having a white wife no sir Next 😂🙏🏽 God bless you

Homeboy realized his wife was Whyt when the police showed up . . . . .

@AramintaRossPistol

8 ай бұрын

No, he realized that he was just another nothing azz n***a when the police showed up.

Dumebi Lea - this was the best tea Ive read in months OMG. BW are truly emerging from the dust cloud and are not to be trifled with. No wonder bros are running with their passports to whomever will have them or to Karens and Becky's. The sad part is that bros have brought our race down. There is little hope for this terrible rift to heal. I am not of childbearing age and it seems that many of us who are, are tired of raising our children on our own and then being made to feel like its all our fault when it never was. Much love to all the strong, beautiful, badass sisters. You make me proud and I stand with you ❤✊🏾

Someone tag Umar Johnson 🤣😂

Me sipping my lil 🍵 tea👀👀 - sir, you chose her!😂😂😂 These men better realize that they're in the Fuc Around & Find😮 Out phase! She's arranging her bags & is heading out! I'm way past my PickME & Mammy days, so Sorrows, Sorrows - Prayers! 😶

Are we supposed to believe this woman is lying on him just because he says so? 🤔

The lady with the black bonnet was too funny 😂.

@radioqueenbee7008

8 ай бұрын

She had me in tears LOL 😂

You're on your own on this one yo. In your case it's not a black community issue but I wish you the best in getting justice.

@ThePhoenix3712

8 ай бұрын

Who said he was right

@jayangielovely5524

8 ай бұрын

@@ThePhoenix3712 I don't believe that my comment stated whether he was right or wrong.

Something had to go wrong she put him out and his kids 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@juliatripp2010

8 ай бұрын

Dayummn thats ruthless - but predictable

You need to have a lot of “proof of abuse” to get a protection order (I know because I tried to get one against my abusive ex but didn’t have enough evidence of his abuse towards me). So if she was able to get it against this man, there was certainly enough proof of his abuse towards her.

White women who do false accusations against their black partners know what they doing. They know the power they hold. He is refusing to understand the intersectionality of an interracial relationship. He should bring awareness but understand the reasons why it is likely to happen. I've met a man who's white partner literally did the same thing, got him arrested and jailed, and stated in court that she lied because she knew that they would take her word over her black partner's word. This man understood that his partner was a problem, learned about the system, and studied African-American and Africa history.

@TooCoolforCardi

8 ай бұрын

It shouldn’t have taken to go through all of that to do what he should’ve been doing and been aware of in the FIRST place. That’s another issue.

A woman does not secretly file for divorce at the same time as a restraining order for no damn reason. PLUS in order to get a restraining order you need documented incidents of abuse and verbal threats.

@cruiseny26

8 ай бұрын

Seriously. People think it’s so easy to get a restraining order. You need proof. And it does not give you any advantage in divorce or custody.

@anitadavenport3265

8 ай бұрын

You can have proof and still be denied, so I personally believe he's guilty.

As men like to tell us over and over again: "You should've picked better." I will not judge him, but merely pray that he will find clarity from this experience.

😂 I’d never put that on the internet lmfao like man even yo mama laughing at you. Also, I’m not just taking his side tbh, “outta nowhere”?? Yeah ok.

@missapplepiealamode

8 ай бұрын

I agree, he hiding something in this story because he speaking in circles. I’m not saying he deserved what he got but this out no out the blue, signs was there bruh you chose not to see them.

@naylaw1928

8 ай бұрын

Bruh that's what stood out to me the hardest I thought I was crazy all females and males of all different ethnicities can do some heinous shit but to say it came fully planned but out of nowhere

@iseeyou2810

8 ай бұрын

​@naylaw1928 This particular problem is with white women. History has shown that white women accuse black men and genocide of whole towns people happened. Show me any other ethnic groups who did that?

Black woman here…we understand yo whyte wife…Stop trying to gaslight the world Black man…if she called the police, you have probably been a nightmare to her…Just leave man…she is done with you…

I live for the comments.

He wants to get some “Strong Legislation” to stop this atrocity!

The incredulity in his tone of voice says it all. They been doing this type of shit since the beginning of time. And we really dont care about your self inflicted drama.

My grandmother warned all her grandchildren boys & girls at a very young age, not to date outside our race, because it is dangerous, especially for the boys. She made sure they understood why. I love her for that. Warning us early so we can observe while growing up that she was right. And the Bible is right too when it says “don’t mess with the foreign woman don’t even look at her, they serve other gods. Also it was said you even have to watch your own, but it is safer to be with your own”

"You Big Dummy"!!!!

😂😂😂🤣 Those heathens will do it to you every time. Enjoy the ride!😂

BW, our names should be Bennett, we ain't in it! Let's put the folding chairs away and stay over here and live our best Bl⚫️k lives.😂😂😂

They dont realize what they've done. Theyve been pounding into our heads that these other races of women are humble, submissive, cooperative etc etc. So why SHOULDN'T i believe he and these other men are the problem...goodness grief

What does he want us to do? Were we supposed to dust our caps off & come flying to save the day. For all we know, she is telling the truth

@nanaanan4731

8 ай бұрын

She’s probably telling the truth. Do you remember how that guy (football player) threw his WW wife through the television? #IJS

We all know his first mistake was marrying preference 😅

So sad...slander, false claims, can become a death sentence.

🤣🤣🤣 He needs a passport fast and he had better get it and go before she sheds those yt tears in court. 🤣🤣🤣

Girl side note I love how neat your hair and makeup are 😍

@DumebiLea

8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much 😀

@Sa.Ka1891

8 ай бұрын

@DumebiLea sure dear keep it up

I do...especially when these same people go against their own. Good for him. They have been doing this for years. Gotten so many of our real men dead!

If she’s lying then she already broke the law by making a false report. No need to pass more overlapping laws. In domestic situations it’s hard to prove what happens regardless of the gender of the perpetrator or victim.

@docaz9453

8 ай бұрын

As if they would believe his 🖤ass over white woman tears

@somebodycomelistentothispo7217

8 ай бұрын

He did it

@Sunny-tc3ul

8 ай бұрын

@@somebodycomelistentothispo7217I just hollered 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@THE_ROYALS2019

8 ай бұрын

Right, so they just arrest the male . 😢

😊Baby, what a read! 🤔Mmmm...😏Sir, that's an experience from the life you chose to spend with the woman, you made, your wife! We don't care about her race! 🤨Unless you are giving the undertone, that, that is why you are going thru that experience, instead as of growing from that experience! 🤗Anywho, Dumibe I wish you a Wonderful Weekend Beautiful!❤

So You would love to hear from WW on their opinion, obviously he has not learned his lesson👈🏽 sir if u feel that strongly like u need validation from other nations of ppl other than yr own👈🏽💯u get what u deserve 👈🏽💯

@TheRealKCKay

8 ай бұрын

Nah, he was tryna get them into the comments to spar with the blk people making fun of him, that’s what that was 😂

Chile we are about to go to this homecoming football game. What y’all doing tonight?

@juliatripp2010

8 ай бұрын

I just finished voting for Charity Lawson on Dancing With the Stars 😃

These males always act as if they are blindsided. She been telling that male to take his 3 trash bags somewhere else for months. He is bitter.

@TheRealKCKay

8 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

But....but..... black women - we are good, just observing what we've already known.

The opening, 🤣🤣

Your hat, that you tried tossing into the ethers. Never activated. 😅😂😂

The guy in the last clip in white Tshirt, he could not have said it any better, we're just here for the Tea, I didn't say it, he said.

When anyone dates outside, they need to understand the culture, challenges and the patterns. Since he did not do his research to understand, he needs to take accountability for his behavior and lack of awareness. I don’t feel sorry for him because that was his decision and now this is the outcome. Learn your ancestors history and then you will understand and see the pattern.

DUMEBI YOU LOOK SO GORGEOUS!!!

See I was with him at first because as a white woman, she knows exactly the extent of what the consequences COULD have been by calling the cops on a black man (for ANY reason these days) and it was spiteful af….BUT in his last clip he takes the space to ask white women what THEY think about whether or not they should be put in this category because ANY woman could have done this (which if that’s true, why mention that she was white in the first place?) That part threw me because it still seems like he’s trying to race bait white women into his comments to counter the black women whose comments he is trying to make a point about. He lost me there. And to answer your question at the end, “what would happen if she was a black woman calling the cops on a black man?” Dare I say what the possibilities could be IF they even showed up? Should we ask Philando and Breonna, God rest their souls, or…..? They didn’t even get the cops called on them, yet and still, what happened? He can miss us with that BS. We know better than to do that because we could both end up in danger! 🤷🏽‍♀️ He tried it tho! 🥱

Yeah, so? That’s what you wanted, right? Stand as tall now as you did when you chose her.

He should have expected this. He had to know they were having problems. She may not be lying and if she is oh well. Deal with it. He is a problem and so is she.

Like OJ in that bronco on the highway, you found out what color you are for real. You put yourself in danger and can't afford to trust the possibility of it getting to this. This is never going to happen, is what you thought being with her. Not being racist, but you can't afford to put yourself in such danger, especially today. That's like Get Out syndrome. I know you can't help who you fall in love with, but you better help in who you decide to marry. The black man today can get in trouble with popo for any woman, but white women gone rogue undercover Karen's can get you killed.

He wasn’t saying it to reach for help from the communities of color, he was saying it as if he was shocked. He held her to a very high standard above his women.

No way these are the" peaceful women" these type men claim they want and black women could never be. Quiet doesn't mean submissive and vocal and expressive doesn't mean aggressive.

He still don’t get it or he just doesn’t want to know

Ms Bonnet though lmao

The way he stresses that his wife is White makes it seem like he didn't notice what colour she is until after he married her.

Bless his little naïve heart…..smh

My white dogs needs to go on a walk.