I am so glad that a man finally won for SA in court.

@walkz007

2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂you lot love these victim narratives on the gender wars!

@cyndirankin

2 ай бұрын

@@walkz007 drama llama here. Lll

@Skyler-yw3od

2 ай бұрын

​@@walkz007 It's not a gender war. That's a *very* immature way to look at it. It's a fact that many men who experience SA are not taken seriously, and thus the offenders/abusers do not receive consequences. Story 1 is one of the few times I've heard of a male victim getting some justice.

@ibabcock89

2 ай бұрын

​@walkz007 You do realize in SEVERAL countries it's considered impossible for a man to be a victim of SA at the hands of a woman? This is a victory for progress.

@ChrissaTodd

2 ай бұрын

​@@walkz007it's not about being the victim in other cases like this, the man doesn't win. Stop pretending they do

Forget sexual assault, the sister was attempting full on rape. Glad to see the court system didn't fuck up and actually take a male SA case seriously.

@amberblyledge7859

Ай бұрын

Definitely. Wish she got more time though.

@superphantom100

22 күн бұрын

And you know damn well she would have flipped it on him if she had succeeded.

Kick-ass supportive girlfriend, love to see it! *Edit:* wrote this before the premiere, I did not know OP was a man.

@drakehaggard3583

2 ай бұрын

Not just the gf, her family too. He's lucky to have them

@toriladybird511

2 ай бұрын

​@@drakehaggard3583 just unfortunate his Sil was a monster.

@ragingdid

2 ай бұрын

I think at the end it says Mark was gay so OP might be a man but ya, it was pretty bad ass Edit: Y’all I think the original commenter knows atp give em a break💀

@Lastandfinalunicorn

2 ай бұрын

Pretty sure OP is a boyfriend...

@legiontepes3474

2 ай бұрын

Op is a man, tho.

Story 1: I completely missed that OP was a guy & the disgust I felt towards the sister doubled at the end. Wtf

@septicsoldier1324

2 ай бұрын

That makes so much more sense, I was confused why a girl was dating a gay man....they weren't a girl 😅

WHAT TF is wrong with OP's sister?!!!! She literally could have sent him into shock. She couldn't read the room! He obviously didn't want her to touch him but she persisted no matter how scared and uncomfortable he was! That is completely sick and she needs to be locked away more than 60 days and getting 200 community hours. Her believing she can change his mind from being gay to straight is about as dumb as a platypus believing it's a bear! See it doesn't make sense 😕!

@tolkienblack

2 ай бұрын

The most fucked up part is that she’s knows the history and still did it

@tawanaellsworth8534

2 ай бұрын

@@tolkienblack exactly!

@captainsawbones

2 ай бұрын

Ego. i've met people like this before who are convinced they're so perfect and hot and amazing that they literally cannot handle rejection and find the idea of someone being gay or just not attracted to them to be the most offensive thing in all of existence and it makes them go nuts and do some really wild, toxic stuff

@duh6599

Ай бұрын

SA MY ASS, THAT WAS A FULLY ON GRAPE ATTEMPT- she's a freaking psycho

@SnowyWolborg

13 күн бұрын

@@tolkienblack She might have known his history, but that does not mean she acknowledges it as valid. In her imagination, the sister probably believe that she could "fix" him.

2nd Story NO IS no. The little girl needs to learn consent. If someone says you cannot have that then tough. If an adult enables it by taki g personal items after being told not to its theft in my book.

@dokuganryu1565

2 ай бұрын

1st story is also a no is no.

@gelusvenn5063

2 ай бұрын

It's also theft legally.

@plaguepug2091

Ай бұрын

@@gelusvenn5063fr i was gonna say it’s also theft in THE book lmao

Story 1: Dang.... OP the savage. I really hope he and his BF are alright after this, and the sister gets all the bad things in life..

Story 3: Bro, there are literally several pills that are *_readily available_* for this exact problem.

Using "adultery" as a code word for "pron" to avoid net censorship is unnecessarily obfuscation when theres far easier and clearer euphemisms.

@alannajones330

2 ай бұрын

Yep. It would be better to use the word images.

@cototototorra7106

2 ай бұрын

adultery is a funnier word tho

Story 1: great gf. And only 60 days for SA? Men get years, even for false rape accusations

@brandinicole1372

2 ай бұрын

From what is boyfriend went through you can’t blame OP for crashing out.

@falconanddragons2214

2 ай бұрын

OP is a man

@yakuultforthewin

2 ай бұрын

not trying to be rude just letting you know but it’d be great bf, op is a male. The bf is afraid of the woman body and stuff!!

@lunawiggins8251

2 ай бұрын

No they don't you can look it up, they both ' female and male ' offenders get very little time.

@falconanddragons2214

2 ай бұрын

@@lunawiggins8251 That's untrue

Last story, sex should never be such a chore.

Story 2 The kid is a brat and her father is an AH no means no time for the kid to learn that

Story 1: I believe that 60 days is not enough, and they should made it at least 365 days, and she should not be removed from the registered sex offenders list for 20 years and any appeal should be thrown out, due to the gravity of the offense (knowing that OP's boyfriend has PTSD from childhood abuse and it can kick in at any instant). Feminine advantage at its finest.

@i10i60

2 ай бұрын

Feel free to look into the charges male offenders receive for similar crimes against women, minors and even animals. It is equally abysmal. Remember the national outrage over Brock Turner? He was found guilty of three felony counts: assault with intent to commit rape of an intoxicated or unconscious person, penetration of an intoxicated person and penetration of an unconscious person. The prosecution had argued for a 6-year sentence. He got a 6-month sentence and was released after only 3 months in prison. Though he is permanently on the sex offenders list. That's "feminine advantage" for ya lol.

@brandinicole1372

2 ай бұрын

To be fair I’ve seen men also get a slap on the wrist too. SA victims get the short end of the stick no matter the gender.

@EsLokina

2 ай бұрын

First, you do know 2 years is the average jail time spent for full-on rape right? Which this wasn't. Hell countless cases of convicted rapist not even getting jail time. Just probation and others getting less than 6 months. Rapist rarely get truly punished and have always been that way. Second sexual offender list has tiers and what is explained in this. Is just tier one. Which is a maximum of 15 years but only given maximum if you a repeat offenders. 10 years is the normal amount for first-time offenders.

@cototototorra7106

2 ай бұрын

@@EsLokina i mean if rapist did get harder sentences then imaginate how many celebrities and politicians would be behind bars rn

Story 1: I remember this story (Edit: BTW the jerk of a sister did the assault because "I hoped I could change his mind about the female body")

@dokuganryu1565

2 ай бұрын

She honestly thought "I can fix him" and went at it in the worst possible way.

@jamesplayzreviews

2 ай бұрын

@@dokuganryu1565 Yeah and the worst part is for a while some members of the family sided with her

@cototototorra7106

2 ай бұрын

@@jamesplayzreviews she tried to make her own brother's boyfriend to cheat on him, and then SA'd him in the process?? they are just straight up homophobic

THANK FUCK THE OP'S BF WAS TAKEN SERIOUSLY IN COURT AND BY THE FAMILY. Far too many cases of SA where the victim is male are treated like a joke.

Just a reminder in story 1 op is a man he said his bf is gay

3rd Story he needs to see a Dr theres a reason behind it. But his SELFISHNESS and blaming the OP was vile. His need to get his Big O then blaming OP is his wish to not deal with his issue cause hes afraid of the answer. He Absolutely needs a Dr. He is demanding more and more from OP and thst he dumped her says the issue was always him not OP.

@miragedown

2 ай бұрын

That or he's gay? Or straight? Idk what gender the so is but maybe it's not his type

@AraAra6367

2 ай бұрын

Yeah definitely this. There’s no blame on his part for having low testosterone but his resolution of having more intimacy and telling OP what she does wrong throws the entire blame on him. A diagnosis alone isn’t enough. They needed medication and sex therapy on top of it. Oh well..

@maximkusanagi

2 ай бұрын

He is gay living a false life and hurting everyone involved.

@stirrednotshaken4837

2 ай бұрын

No online doctor is going to tell a man he has low testosterone without doing blood work and tests!

@HollyGaming994

2 ай бұрын

If it's not a medical reason it could be that he's not actually straight. He's blaming OP for something she can't control...he has to realise this isn't normal behaviour. He needs medical help if there's something a Dr can help with and therapy to get him passed this behaviour

Story 2: anyone remember Charlie and the Chocolate Factory? Remember Varuca Salt? She's exactly like the niece in this story. A total brat that's given everything she wants. Only difference is, in the MOVIE Varuca's father gets finished with her shenanigans and actually grows as a parent.

@VictoriouslyRandom

2 ай бұрын

It's pretty easy to see why EC is divorced. Yikes.

@zackkatian3436

2 ай бұрын

And also her father was not violent.

2nd story sounds similar to story when OP's cousin from an entitled aunt that resulted in OP's collector figurine being destroyed by said cousin. Long story short, OP and their family sued the aunt resulting in the aunt losing everything including custody of the child

@LadyBern

Ай бұрын

There's the true story of a man in Japan who's young cousin destroyed his Gundam collection and computer causing 10s of thousands of dollars/millions of yen in damages. I think the boy was forbidden from having a birthday at first then sent off to stay with his paternal grandparents for a while.

Lol, just from the title, this gonna be epic.

W Girlfriend, she's a queen.

story 2: why the hell would you let these people inside your house? especially since they show up without warning and if this behavior has been happening since day 1 i wouldn't let them in, family or not they show little to no respect. so if they want to hang out and visit go to a public park or nothing.

That title is WILD 🤣

Story 3: bro is secretly gay. Ain't no way.

Where tf does op live where a woman has a chance of going to prison for SAing a man? Absolutely unheard of. I wish i lived there. Shout out to OP for doing what my partner barely restrained themselves from doing. My r*pist should live in fear of the day they (my partner) gets a car, tbh. She has no idea how lucky she is that she's still alive tbh.

PIED is a killer of relationships fr.. tell bro to drink more water lol

These titles are so clickbaity lately, I hate when a story says “and the police came” but the actual story just mentions they think they saw police in the morning unrelated

@SecretVoices25

2 ай бұрын

I'm sorry if my titles come across like that, but I don't think this title is clickbait. I used this line from the first story: 'She said that she was trying on the sweatshirt when he walked in on her, freaked out, and went into an episode. However, Mark, through his tears, said she tried to touch him. I asked my sister if it was true, and she said no, but Mark again said she tried to touch him.' I think she tried to frame him, right? And everything happened according to the story, like beating, sending to the hospital, and the sexual offense. The potential clickbait part I think happened was I didn't mention the intentions of the boyfriend walking in triggering his trauma, but my title might come across as the boyfriend actually trying to abuse the sister. If that's the case, I'm sorry. I'm not saying this to argue but just out of curiosity, and please provide me with some insights. I genuinely try to include what happened in the story in the thumbnail itself so my audience knows what they are about to watch. Please let me know how to improve.

LE dolls are not cheap. They do not stay in stock long. The resale market is usually x2/x3+ the original sale price

Story 3: soooooo are we sure he's straight?

@jackiecolon2898

2 ай бұрын

That was my first thought.

Closet gay

Story 1: Well that was a reproductive roller coaster... Nah, I can do better than that Well that was a procreative roller coaster No.. I can still do better than that

@markarca6360

2 ай бұрын

Nope. OP's sister is promiscuous.

Good ending

story 3: omg I never heard about such awful s-x 😨 and then he is mad at OP? this is sad. He needs to go to a doctor. Hell no .... Girl RUN! If a men has problems its ine thing but the way he acts about is a BIG no go! 20:11 is this a JOKE?! giving op the villain?! Im mad at that AH! Cant fuck but wants wants wants?! Such a loser :o no woman wold stay 2 years😨

Did she the money?? Story 2

As a lady I feel like that sentence was too light in the 1st story.

You hear this so many times from women with gay men; "I can *fix* you."

In the third story the second OP said STOP that became R*PE! Yes you can get r*ped by your partner and YES YOU CAN get them arrested. IF THIS IS GOING ON IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP LEAVE!! IMMEDIATELY JUST LEAVE!! DON'T STICK IT OUT FOR A YEAR

Story 2, the second be stopped talking for a few days is the few days I'd have a lawyer and start the proceedings for the court case. I gave you two options, and not talking about it wasn't one of them, pay me my money or we go to court, try to ghost me, and we going to court.

S3. As a man with anxiety related issues when it comes to sex i can say this. Crying and making a big deal about it will only make it worse. My ex did that shit, going on and on about how it has to be because i dont find her attractive etc. It got to the point i lost any desire to sleep with her as she would just end up crying at the end. She also did the whole accuse me of watching porn and being gay too. I made sure she enjoyed every time yet shed make a huge deal about me not finishing. Once she stopped that non sense it made my issues easier to deal with and reduced the stress i felt at the moment. Dude needed to see a dr and get his shit sorted but the gf for sure wasnt helping matters at all with how she reacted. Personal experience has taught me that women generally don't care though and will either react with tears or anger when you cant perform immediately to their expectations. Men are expected to me loving and understanding when it comes to women's issues however they are also expected to never receive the same in return for their own issues.

@junglebunny7061

2 ай бұрын

Like she said if he can’t do anything about staying hard she can’t do anything about being emotional about it. Especially after she explained that she wants to stop after awhile and he makes her just sit there uncomfortable while he tries to get hard just to go for 2 more minutes and do it all over again. It’s completely understandable that this would cause her to cry it’s damn near torture. He also blamed her for his issue. Your experience is different to theirs.

Wait…I thought OP from the first story was a woman. Oops.

So mark is 100 percent gay... but has a girlfriend?

@RylieRiddle

Ай бұрын

OP of that story is a man.

for story 3 it's obvious they're in a vicious cycle. The dude cant get hard for his girl, the girl makes a big deal about it, causing the dude to have performance anxiety the next time, causing the girl to get upset about it, causing the dude to get performance anxiety, causing the girl...etc etc etc. Both of these people are terrible for each other. The dude is manipulative, and the girl is horrifyingly egotistical

@lunawiggins8251

2 ай бұрын

This

@JoeJoe0o

2 ай бұрын

Pork induced ED is a thing and to think all his problems are coming from her being upset about it is a bit of a wild reach lol

@captainsawbones

2 ай бұрын

@@JoeJoe0o well dang, today i learned

@JoeJoe0o

2 ай бұрын

@@captainsawbones lol I can't see what I commented but happy to spread knowledge where I can

story 3: sounds for me like he is circumcised and barely functional with that. i'm so sorry for him. most cicumcisions work out okisch but some just stop working. known issue with removing the most important part with the most nerveendings from a genital.

@shells500tutubo

2 ай бұрын

The skin removed in a circumcision does not have those sensory nerve endings.

@SteffenF

2 ай бұрын

@@shells500tutubo wtf? the foreskin is the most sensitive part with above 20k nerveendings. the glanse has only 4 to 6 k nerve endings. please look it up. the glanse generates a protective layer that reduces the sensitivitie starting at 60% 4 weeks after the cut and degrading over time.

@SteffenF

2 ай бұрын

you are forgetting that the foreskin has 20k+ nerve endings, the glans only 4to6k and she degrades really fast, loosing 60% of sensitivitie in the first 4 weeks. then degrading slowly over time.

Maybe he asked for it

@ibabcock89

2 ай бұрын

What 💀

@purplekitty8187

2 ай бұрын

@@ibabcock89 men say it to women all the time. Maybe his shirt was a little too short or his pants were a little too tight, who knows

@ibabcock89

2 ай бұрын

@purplekitty8187 Ah yes, fighting sexism with sexism.

@purplekitty8187

2 ай бұрын

@@ibabcock89 the usual male response ." Two wrongs dont make a right."And yet yall still do it

@purplekitty8187

2 ай бұрын

The usual male answer. " Two wrongs dont make a right. " And yet yall still do it.

This is so wrong . The sister needed to be sued of course, but OP beating her is another horrific thing . OP should also get a prison sentence . You’are never right when you assault someone who didn’t touch you physically. Talk about a terrible family . Disgusting people , both of them .

@zzzahnia

2 ай бұрын

shut the hell up

@markarca6360

2 ай бұрын

OP just defended her boyfriend. What's wrong about that?

@horakhtythecreator6911

2 ай бұрын

The sister SAed the boyfriend, tried to r-word him. The boyfriend who SHE KNEW had past SA trauma and that he was gay, and attacked him to “change his mind”. She’s a disgusting POS I have no sympathy for. OP protected his boyfriend. End of story.

@horakhtythecreator6911

2 ай бұрын

The sister SAed the boyfriend. The boyfriend who SHE KNEW had past SA trauma and that he was gay, and attacked him to “change his mind”. She’s a disgusting POS I have no sympathy for. OP protected his boyfriend. End of story.

@brandinicole1372

2 ай бұрын

@@markarca6360the boyfriend was having a panic attack due to being SA as a child. You can’t tell me OP wasn’t justified in crashing out his boyfriend was AGAIN a victim of SA.

I heard the first story somewhere else but instead of the mom being the one who caused the trauma it was the OP's boyfriends uncle instead. and some of the details in the story were different. They weren't in the kitchen they were in OP's sisters room instead. Also OP was a woman and OP's bf was straight

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