I love the story of OP’s SD sending her mom to get smoked by Reddit 😂

@rayzorkidd3991

2 ай бұрын

She knew what she was doing 😂

@MegaHarvickFan29

2 ай бұрын

Bella's a real one for providing us with this entertainment.

@GoddessUmbra

2 ай бұрын

Not step daughter, youngest daughter

@cloroxflavoredbleach9362

2 ай бұрын

I swear people are overly vindictive its just unnecessary

@brianaschmidt910

2 ай бұрын

Bella is the half sister to ella. Both daughters of op

I've seen this story so many times and I still love to see OP getting ROESTED with a side of ranch by the comments. OP is the mayor of delulu land and I do hope that she realized she is the bad guy, she was the one who Burned all the bridges with her own daughter, no matter how much she denies it, she is indeed the villain in her own story.

@potatoes8414

2 ай бұрын

Oh delulu, i see you watch charlote

@boredpersonstory553

2 ай бұрын

OP is the President of Narcissist, Delusional pop. 1,000,000

You mean the SD and the ex aren't living happily ever after? I don't believe it! How could a relationship between 2 people with a history of stabbing others in the back possibly crash and burn so spectacularly!?! Oh the humanity! The mom is delusional. "She is being petty by holding on to something that happened years ago." Yeah well, the past often provides clarity on future events to com so... Everything you've done and continue to do just reinforces your favoritism and lack of support. Shouts out to Bella in all this though. We wouldn't have had this entertainment without her.

@Olimar92

2 ай бұрын

I hate that line "it happened years ago" like it means nothing. If you shot me over a parking space, I'm not going to be friends with you. 7yrs later you want to be friends again? No, you shot me over something stupid.

Story 1: W half sister for telling her own mom how badly she fucked up. Even bigger W for helping her mom post the story on reddit only to get roasted by everyone.

Story 2: The people in the comments denying male SA is crazy.. Yes, stealthing is a form of SA. It doesn’t matter if it wasn’t forced, it’s still SA due to deception. I wish this on none of you but put yourself in his shoes for a second. Would you want to take care of a child you had no real control over conceiving, especially when the situation caused you severe mental distress? I don’t think so. As much as I believe Laura deserves better, I also believe the mother is the only one to blame in this circumstance. She deserves a loving family, however, the husband doesn’t need to be that for her. Had the mom just took care of her and stopped feeding her false hope with the help of MIL, Laura wouldn’t have this expectation and could’ve lived normally. I do think that line Laura said about her mom “just wanting a family so badly” is gross and likely one of the many manipulation tactics the mom used to make her actions seem justified. It puts less blame on her by making her seem sympathetic when this is psychotic behavior. I hate to pull the gender card but if a man did this to a woman, he’d be flamed much harder here. I do worry for any future lover of hers if this is the mindset she currently has and hope she gets therapy before she follows in her mother’s footsteps.

@zackkatian3436

2 ай бұрын

What does not help that in most first world countries men cannot by the victims of struggle snuggle (Thanks RGE for that word to avoid my comment getting deleted.) Unless they are the ones being penetrated. Otherwise it is the far lesser penalty crime of SA. Heck, up until 2013 I believe the year the law was changed. Men in the United Kingdom could not be the victims at all due to the law stating that the act of struggle snuggle is a male performing the act on a female.

@juliearmfield2634

2 ай бұрын

Well if it happens to a guy it doesn't count. 🙄

@TheOMGRamen

2 ай бұрын

​@@zackkatian3436If what you are saying is even true, I wonder if it's because men can easily restrain women? Unless he is drugged, unconscious, has past traumas that cause him to panic etc etc then he can easily stop it. Whereas women on average can't defend themselves easily or even at all against men. That maybe they are classified as more vulnerable along with elderly and children so maybe it's seen as more heinous?

@jessehupp44

2 ай бұрын

This kid was never going to have anything but a troubled life given how they were conceived. The mom set her up for failure by starting her life with no father and never truly addressed it

@jonutsthedanklordpayton

Ай бұрын

The father is just as bad. instead of doing the emotionally intelligent thing and actually being there for his daughter, who is also a victim of her mother, he instead has emotionally abused her and abandoned her over something that she had no controllel.

Mum could have asked step daughter to stay with father and go to the wedding herself. She could not be bothered.

the dad, Laura. man, i feel bad for them, but in any case, Laura would probably develop resentment not only to her mom, but her dad as well, regardless of it

@loris4276

2 ай бұрын

Yep. I think all the adults are POS. And who the hell is Mark? Is he their son or nephew? Which is it? Dad shouldn't had trusted the mom to even had sex with her and nothing of this would ha e happened. He still had sex consensual sex. You don't wear a condom if you're going to abstain? I'm sorry. I do feel bad for Laura and Laura only every single has either lied to her or treated her as if she didn't exist.

"Did I do anything wrong?" 😂😂😂😂😂 Sweet-summer child, you did EVERYTHING wrong. This was a hilarious read when it was first posted. This is worse than even the one where the parents missed the son's wedding because his sister's dog was sick.

Bella is a real one. I hope her boifs are faithful and awesome.

@danacarter9147

2 ай бұрын

Same here.

Story 1 . Deluded parent who can't see further than the end of her nose. What a horrendous mother!!

@danacarter9147

2 ай бұрын

Agreed. I'm glad Ella is surrounded by good people: her bio-dad, stepmother, and her new beau, Ray. Plus, when Ella goes into labor, she should have her stepmother in the delivery room with her and her new beau Ray, as an additional birthing support partner, but not OP, the mother or Sophie, because all they'll do is stress her out; the stress the mother and stepsister will cause is dangerous for both Ella and the baby.⚠️

@GoianoAmazonia

2 күн бұрын

Same comment also goes for Story 2

1. Bella getting her mom onto reddit to get smoked is hilarious. 2. The husband and wife NTA. Laura i can kind of sympathies with as she is innocent in this but the husband has every right to not want any kind of relationship with her as shes the product of assault.

@lindah3803

2 ай бұрын

Story 2: Nope, Laura lost all claims to sympathy when she tried to play Big Girl. Telling OP that they would have to talk about division of property when OP's hubby passes.

@Twist-The-Friendly-Hunter

2 ай бұрын

@@lindah3803 oh I agree that's fucked up but I'm more referring to her as a whole.

@lindah3803

2 ай бұрын

@@Twist-The-Friendly-Hunter I was just referring to you saying that you could kinda sympathize with/for Laura.

@Twist-The-Friendly-Hunter

2 ай бұрын

@@lindah3803 I can sympathise with the whole being rejected by her dad/her mom raising her wrong. The other shit nah.

@HubiKoshi

2 ай бұрын

Nope, Laura lost all claims to innocence when she admitted she knew how she was conceived and defended her mother's actions.

Story 1: the parenting skills are so good that op "OWN BLOOD " said f**k this sh*t and had enough of her. Now when ella is enjoying her life op and her dear twin step daughter fantasy wanted to ruin a peaceful life. I want a ticket to whatever delulu magical fantasy happy family they are trying to play..

OP reminds me of my own mother. She ran off to the other side of the country with her new partner and only contacted my brother and I when she wanted something. My brother has 2 kids of his own now and she's genuinely confused as to why he doesn't want her in their lives.

Laura is legit scary. If she thinks what her mother did was "innocent" (like f*ck it is) she's definitely going to end up baby-trapping some poor fool. I personally cannot even imagine having to raise the chid of assault, or even pay child support under those circumstances. That law needs to be amended.

Heard this story before. Mother is definitely YTA. She could have gone to the wedding. It's not like the husband was clinically I'll or something

OP is for the streeets!!!

Another example of a parent putting their sex life above their child. They favour stepchildren to stay good with new spouses, usually at the cost of a relationship with their bio child.

@danacarter9147

2 ай бұрын

Amen. And then, those parents get a sad wake-up call when they miss out on important moments with their bio-child, once, their bio-child goes no contact.

If OP thinks "it's silly to hold onto things from the past" then she should give this time and let it go. Worst mother ever

If OP was actually serious about her daughter’s feelings she probably shouldn’t be using phrases like “She went on to blab that she never felt like she had my support”

No husband does not feel awful. He's fine with this.

honestly i’ve heard this storie and op is a crappy parent period she doesn’t get the right to tell her child how she feels about her parents actions and the child doesn’t owe her parents a dam thing period she desirves better and is fed up with this clueless parents idiotic behavior over this child’s home life by the sounds of it

Well I lost all sympathy for Laura the second she admitted she knew. She is no better than her mother.

You can see the frustration on the player when he accidentally made a hole . XD

YTA Delulu land haha 😂 👌 6 FEET UNDER

The delusion is really something else.

I agree with the op from the second story that her husband shouldn’t be forced to see her but the way there treating her is cruel. It feels like he’s punishing her for what her mom did and yes the daughter needs to learn what her mom did is very wrong but how was she going to learn that if she only had her mom and crazy grandma in her life. Also does there son know he has a sister? If not he should know and have the right to meet her and have a relationship with her not tainted by how his father’s feelings of his sister. Also is what the ex did really consider SA? It’s fucked up and wrong but I don’t know if that would count as SA.

@MorganMagpie

12 күн бұрын

I guess it depends on the country. A quick Google has one case in Germany where a woman was found guilty of sexual assault and handed her a six-month suspended sentence for purposefully damaging her partner’s condoms. Personally I think it's on the same line as stealthing, which is considered SA in many places. I would feel very bad for the kid, but everything at the end was bloody weird. She knows how she was conceived, that it was wrong, but it's 'fine' because her mom wanted a kid and to baby trap the guy. She got 18 years of child support, and the kid is in the will. The way she turned up, demanding more money and the house? That was oddly smug. She clearly knows why the guy is only paying child support but has been coached by her mother-in-law to get stuff out of the poor sod. I feel bad for her, but I massively feel bad for the guy. The dad has done more than many dads out there; he hasn't missed a child support payment and has te kid in the will. He just wants no contact and is clearly traumatised (and constantly being retraumatised by his mother.)

What a terrible mother. This was not the time to keep it calm! And she choose the cheater! And calling her " petty" for not just forgiving her sister after 2 little year. that is a monster of s mother. calling it silly. Her post Shows her evilness. Let her alone and be gappy without you.

I wonder how many comments were deleted for breaking a rule.

WHY, would anyone attend the wedding of a person who slept with, then, on top of that married him. what is wrong with you? I wouldn't and no one else would. and if they did. they are a much bigger person than I am

The 2nd story there has to be a loophole around that inheritance law like maybe moving all your assets to your spouses name or even better just leave the country and sell everything you own cause I would die in hell before my SA kid gets a single dollar from me

Honestly, it sounds like MIL and bio-mom was in on the baby trapping. Also, wow, Laura is no different than her mom and grandma. The fact that she thought her bio-father would support her regardless and she would get everything when her bio-father dies.

How you blind to the fax that you are a horrible mother

Idk i feel bad for laura i get the SA thing but its not her fault shes there, resenting the kid in this situation is not healrhy for the kid.

@Arkryal

2 ай бұрын

I agree, her case is very sympathetic. She has been denied a relationship with her father because of a crime that was committed before her conception. But that doesn't actually matter. All that matters is if that's what he wants. If I were in his situation, I think I would try to compromise where I could. I would still keep my distance, but I would give her a genealogy report on my side of the family and contact info to other relatives, if she wanted to pursue those relationships. Those are not things he has any right to withhold from her, and may help her find the kind of familial connection she's looking for. But I would respectfully ask to be left alone. I don't think he resents the child, but rather what she represents and what becoming more involved in her life would entail. Look at statistics. In the U.S., the average child support liability for one child is $721/month. So he's going to end up paying ~$156,000 for this kid. Basically the cost of a Porsche 911 Turbo, lol. Keep that figure in mind, lol. Imagine you are sexually violated by someone you trusted and that is leveraged to try and force you into a relationship you don't want. A child is conceived as a result of this violation. The courts demand you essentially buy your rapist a new Porsche out of your own pocket in easy installment payments that are equal to half your mortgage. Your family sides with your rapist for the baby's sake and puts relentless pressure on you, straining those relationships as well. The people who you expected to support you are now estranged. You develop some trust issues and it's a struggle to trust your new partner because you now lack faith in your own ability to see that sort of manipulation. You're paying out of pocket for therapy for years to work on that. You thankfully have a good partner and you try your best, but it's a constant struggle to trust as you know you should. Family conspires to set up a meeting with your rape baby who immediately wants to talk to you about paying for their college and their inheritance after you're dead. You're 42 at the time, in presumably good health, and they're already salivating over who gets your house when you die. This from a person you barely know anything about. The only thing you really know is they were raised by a monster. I think keeping his guard up makes a lot of sense. He's surrounded by people he can't trust. His ex, their daughter, his parents... OP seems to be the only one looking out for him. It would be nice if he could do more for her, as she was a victim too, but it is not obligatory. He's not her "Father" in a sense where he would be reasonably expected to make further sacrifices in his money, time and mental health to support her. He's being treated like a deadbeat dad, but that's not what he is. He was an unwilling, unpaid sperm-donor who was robbed of his money, his dignity, his confidence, and his family. He wasn't just a victim once upon a time, long ago... he's being actively victimized still with every child support payment, with every harassing phone call, the original crime is still in progress, it never stopped. That's why he can't get over it.

@DwarfDaddy

2 ай бұрын

She is defending her sa offender mother. She loses all sympathy for that alone

@azuredystopia3751

2 ай бұрын

If mil really cared she'd tell bio mum to get her some fucking therapy instead of stringing her along. You don't get to unilaterally decide to create a child unless you are prepared to unilaterally raise it.

@Arkryal

2 ай бұрын

​@@azuredystopia3751 That's an excellent point. The only thing I would add is that even if she was willing to raise the child alone, the method she used to get pregnant was still obviously wrong, in the extreme. One of the guys I work with for example has chosen not to have kids because he has a heritable disease, he expects to be dead by age 40 and doesn't want to pass that on. There are others whose religious faith compels them to take an active role in their children's lives. While I don't share those beliefs, I can understand the dilemma that causes, as the father's eternal soul hangs in the balance, at least as he might theoretically perceive it. Imagine the burden that adds to his decision. Even if he chooses not to be involved in the child's life, that doesn't mean there is no guilt or remorse associated with that decision. Just because he makes the right choice doesn't mean it never weighs on him. How many women have had abortions, knew it was the best choice, but still have doubts and moments of regret years later? The only difference between that scenario and this one is an aborted fetus doesn't call you up out of the blue wanting explanations, hugs, money and your house, lol.

@cherrypopscile3385

2 ай бұрын

Yeah. I'm sorry but don't treat the kid like shit afterwards. Trauma does not give you the right to treat an innocent victim in all this like dirt. Male, female, other, whatever.

I know what it's like to not be wanted by the 2 people in the world who should want you. I can't sympathize enough with Laura. The amount of manipulation, mental gymnastics & gaslighted this child has gone through by her grandma & mom, then the feelings of abandonment, worthlessness, feeling undeserved of being loved by her father would push most adults over the limit. I think the OP & husband are NTA except when they met her. She's a kid who had been lied to her whole life & they didn't have to sugarcoat their meeting but, at the very least, they could've told her the truth from their side, that could've helped her see the true situation & begin to process it. Acting like she's some criminal in all this is heartbreaking.

@thomasjoseph5876

2 ай бұрын

I almost agree but I will go one point further. The great way they treat their nephew and totally blowing Laura off is disgusting. It shows the "father" never really grew up and instead, throws a tantrum any time he hears Laura's name. He storms off like a child if she happens to be at the family function. They purposely are hiding his assets such as the house being only in the OP's name ( I bet they literally smirked at Laura when she mentioned it and they told her). While the OP and her man-child husband are totally within their rights to ignore Laura, they have to understand the consequences of their actions and they will be seen as the jerks they are. Add on to that the fact that Laura is not only being lied to and manipulated by her mother but by her grandmother (OP's MIL) as well to push a relationship with THE JERK despite them knowing he doesn't want it and she will fail trying to get him to simply acknowledge and love her. The only real victim here is Laura.

@FrostLordOni

2 ай бұрын

⁠@@thomasjoseph5876​​⁠​⁠​ Exactly. I’ve been trying to tell my sister this, because her situation is similar. She was violently SA’d by her at the time boyfriend, and our mother forced her to carry the child to term. She gave up her parental rights, and like a little baby throwing a tantrum she refuses to be a part of her child’s life. I keep telling her to stop being a baby and running away or hyperventilating when she sees her child and is “reminded of her SA” (dramatic much?), but she stubbornly wants to be a deadbeat mom. It’s so nice to have people who think like this out here, trying to get these deadbeat “SA survivors” to take responsibility for the child they were forced to have. I’m glad I can find someone like you who supports what I’m doing to my loser “SA survivors” sister.

@leahunfeigned5955

2 ай бұрын

@@FrostLordOni He wasn't forced to have s3x though. He was baby trapped, not the same. I know SA victims male and female, sorry but his situation though illegal is not the same. Laura is a victim too and how they treat her like she did something wrong is atrocious. Furthermore, some women have actually carried, raised and loved their children created through trauma. Children DO NOT choose their way of entry into this world. They ARE NEVER at fault for being born and shouldn't be treated as such.

@FrostLordOni

2 ай бұрын

@@leahunfeigned5955 she *would* be the victim here, if she weren’t harassing the OP

@leahunfeigned5955

2 ай бұрын

@@FrostLordOni She's a child lol. A CHILD.

Laura deserves better.

@peshivirginflower7

2 ай бұрын

Agreed, but it's on Her mom to step up bc she fooled around n found out. Men also have the right to walk away when they been lied deceived tricked.

@NigraeLegiones

2 ай бұрын

Seems like she turned out just like her mother.

@oonachestnut509

2 ай бұрын

​@@NigraeLegionesWell, her mom raised her of course she is. She's only heard one side all her life. How can she be like dad when they don't know each other. It's not Laura's fault. Plus with the info she got from grandma was all wrong too. They all failed that poor girl.

@thomasjoseph5876

2 ай бұрын

@@NigraeLegiones She has her mother AND grandmother (OP's MIL), lying and manipulating her into thinking she can have a relationship with her man-child father when EVERYONE knows she can't and she will fail. Laura is the ONLY victim here.

@FrostLordOni

2 ай бұрын

@@NigraeLegionesexactly. “Poor Laura” is out here excusing her mother’s assault as “just really wanting a family”. Let’s flip the script, and imagine a woman who was SA’d having the child that came from that SA tell her “You’re over exaggerating. Dad was just so excited to have a kid that he did what he had to do.” Do you think anyone would be defending that kid?

S1: i'm also fairly certain this story is fake because it is quite literally the most crystal clear case of YTA i've ever seen, most people i've sen that are that terrible just accept that their bad people and keep it pushing.

@HeoBaby24

2 ай бұрын

yah most people but there's people who can't accept that they're wrong or that they're a bad person

2

Ha i would have loved to see MIL N LAURAS face wen they found out NO INHERITANCE. MIL doesn't seem to have much to leave since op n husband was supplementing her income bc pension was not enough. 🤯 Now NO MONEY FOR EITHER LMAOOOO

Please help me understand! Why in 2nd story Laura's conceiving is considered SA??? It wasn't involuntary s*x for the biodad, so why SA? I swear, I tried googling, but I just can't find how it's relevant. Like it's obviously wrong+deceit+all, but how's that SA?

@mevan883

2 ай бұрын

I think because she poked holes in the condoms on purpose is considered SA, same as if a guy removes the condom during sex.

@yuliiastelmashenko8650

2 ай бұрын

@@mevan883 yeah, I see, I just thought maybe that should fall under some other type of criminal offense for both genders (because it's sometimes even more life altering than SA?). Anyways, thank you for the response❤️!

@legiontepes3474

2 ай бұрын

​@@yuliiastelmashenko8650it is sa because takes away consent and since men have no reproductiv3 r1ght5 it means being forced to pay and relive the sa every month.

@leahunfeigned5955

2 ай бұрын

I'm sorry but it's not assault. Laura is a trap baby not a baby of SA. SA is forced, rape, drugged, etc... Not consensual intimacy where someone poked holes in a condom.

@DJDarling

2 ай бұрын

Basically he didn’t consent to having sex essentially without protection and probably wouldn’t have engaged in sexual activity if he knew

Downvoting this video b/c ESH in Story 2 to the point I got angry.

@JuanSanchez-rv9xy

2 ай бұрын

Why dislike the video😂

@HeoBaby24

2 ай бұрын

how is it everyone sucks here?

Story 2: what if mark was the result of sa would you treat him the way you treat her? How will the girl never be your daughter when you know she is and always will be? I think you just pefer having a son is that it? You'll look back and ask yourself these 3 questions when she comes back for revenge and believe me they always do. 😈

The OP and her husband in story 2 are horrible people.

@candice7637

2 ай бұрын

no they are not 😂

@horakhtythecreator6911

2 ай бұрын

Oh look, another grape defender

@mafercasahonda

Ай бұрын

they are not at all, the dad was SA he is also a victim

@kimcreatesstuff

Ай бұрын

@@mafercasahonda and I get that but the hatred directed at the child is a bit much don’t you think? That kid has to live their entire life coming to terms with the fact they were the product of SA. The child is also a victim in this. Two people’s lives ruined by the actions of one selfish person.

Story 2. FAFO. If you dont want to have children- dont have sex with your GF. I am revolted by the treatment of an innocent child conceived through consensual sex. The holes in the condom are irrelevant - never trust a condom. Disgraceful all around. MIL is the only decent person here. YTA.

@horakhtythecreator6911

2 ай бұрын

The sex was made in deceit. He did not want children, she deceived him and DELIBERATELY sabotaged the contraceptive measures so that she would get pregnant. He did not consent to that, she VIOLATED that consent, and the MIL is a monster for supporting that violation of consent. You supporting SA makes you a monster too.

Story number 2 why do you keep calling it SAd like sexual assault it's not it she baby trapped the guy by poking holes in the condom that's not sexual assault it doesn't come under the legal definition of sexual assault so stop calling it that because it's not it's just baby trapping the guy, it should be illegal yes but it's not and it is not SAing so stop saying that you're devaluating people who have been sexually assaulted for real like rape victims you're going to say they're equivalent to somebody who baby trapped a man that's insane stop it please😮

@HeoBaby24

2 ай бұрын

poking holes in a condom is considered sa because the person didn't know or consent to it. if roles was reversed it's still the same thing it's sexual assault he consent thinking it's safe sex he didn't consent to having holes poked into the condom.

@leahunfeigned5955

2 ай бұрын

​@@HeoBaby24Sorry, still not SA.

@gambolarts9520

2 ай бұрын

It's still falls under sexual assault legally

@user-xd6ni8cr2i

2 ай бұрын

@@gambolarts9520 I've heard of thousands of cases where women put holes in condoms and I've never heard of one person getting arrested for sexual assault that's ridiculous they would throw it out of court immediately there's no proof how are you going to prove that

@HeoBaby24

2 ай бұрын

@@leahunfeigned5955 yes it is

Story2: the father is being a little b*tch. Its not his daughter's fault that his ex is a nutjob. Laura needed to be sat down a long time ago by her father. The ex and the mil are the biggest aholes for how they have manipulated Laura.

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@xxxxyyyy4106

2 ай бұрын

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@SecretVoices25

2 ай бұрын

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@SecretVoices25

2 ай бұрын

I too