"MY DAD BLAMED me for being sexually abused as a CHILD"

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Monica Walker's father blamed her for being sexually abused by her uncle, and then sided with her abuser and either denied it ever happened or said she needed to forgive and forget.
In this compelling short documentary, Monica Walker has opened up about being raped at age 7. Walker's sick father told her that she was "asking for it".
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  • @RealWomenRealStories
    @RealWomenRealStories8 ай бұрын

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  • @shandell279

    @shandell279

    8 ай бұрын

    I'm so sick (to my stomach, of course) of these stories. Meaning it's too many, and it's like every other child is experiencing this. It needs to stop. I'm doing my part to help as many people as possible. I'm just tired of so many children being hurt by disgusting adults. Peace siater, and thanks for bringing these horrible stories to the front. Smh.

  • @o.h.w.6638
    @o.h.w.66388 ай бұрын

    At 10, My mom found my step dad with my panties he took from my bag on a camping trip. She got so mad at me for “leaving them out so he could find them”, and asked me if I was trying to seduce him. I was 10. At 16, I left and haven’t seen her for the past 30years. She the worst person I’ve ever met and leaving was the best decision I’ve ever made.

  • @marietgagliardi

    @marietgagliardi

    8 ай бұрын

    A friend of mine was telling me that her 16 year old daughter was seducing her boyfriend. The friend was married but having an affair and jealous of her daughter because her BF was hitting on her. I'm like, you are total moron. You are going to lose your daughter over some dumb Romeo? That was the end of that friendship. I'm so glad I told her off. Mothers like that don't deserve to be mothers.

  • @estellewadsworth4187

    @estellewadsworth4187

    8 ай бұрын

    Sorry honey you get some sick mothers. You deserve better. Be strong and not let the past ruin the present and the future

  • @lorigraff9656
    @lorigraff96568 ай бұрын

    This resonated with me. My brother SA me at 8. My mother blamed me and it changed who I became…

  • @angelaholmes8888

    @angelaholmes8888

    8 ай бұрын

    I'm so sorry that happened to you it was never your fault your mother was wrong to blame you

  • @lorigraff9656

    @lorigraff9656

    8 ай бұрын

    @@angelaholmes8888 thank you so much. That’s more compassion than I ever got from her.

  • @BriannaLifeCoach

    @BriannaLifeCoach

    8 ай бұрын

    I went through similar things with my family. Praying for your healing in Jesus name❤

  • @lorigraff9656

    @lorigraff9656

    8 ай бұрын

    @angelaholmes8888 thank you.

  • @ddz1375
    @ddz13758 ай бұрын

    I was sa by my foster parent who was also my mothers lover, she was in on it to. It started when i was two. Both of them molested me until i was ten and then a neighbor started it too. I was sexualized early and have a memory of my 4th grade teacher Mrs. Toy always calling me a brazen hussy. I didnt know what it ment until i looked up the words in a dictionary as a young adult. The 80s and 90s were filled with hook ups and one night stands of either sex as well as alcohol and drug use. Im still healing and finding my worth, it's been a long battle.

  • @lauriesmith3443

    @lauriesmith3443

    8 ай бұрын

    I am so sorry you had to endure that. Praying for true healing and peace through Jesus Christ. He is the only way. ❤

  • @johnpaulwirchnianski

    @johnpaulwirchnianski

    8 ай бұрын

    Thnx for sharing...

  • @katiehensley290

    @katiehensley290

    8 ай бұрын

    I'm glad you're finding your worth. You should be very proud of that. You're amazing for surviving and being able to speak out about it. These people are the lowest form of scum and your teacher was evil to say that to you.

  • @shandell279

    @shandell279

    8 ай бұрын

    omg, bless your beautiful heart. I'm so sorry, words can't describe how disgusted I was reading what you went through. I'm so glad you're trying to heal and I pray you find nothing but happiness from now on. And I MEAN THAT WITH ALL MY HEART.

  • @tleemf6923

    @tleemf6923

    8 ай бұрын

    💫🤲💖🌹💖🌹💖🤲💫

  • @heidimedel
    @heidimedel7 ай бұрын

    Horrible. When I told my incubator what her brother did to me (it happened when I was 5 years old and I told her when I was 12/13 years old); she called me a whore and said she thought she might have been molested too. 😑 Fast forward and my own teenage daughter tells me someone did that to her and I had the SOB indicted immediately. We need to stand up and fight for our children and grandchildren. The days of "taboo" are dead and gone. We're not keeping your disgusting shameful secrets anymore. It's not our shame to carry. I agree. The rate of SA is speeding up/not slowing down.

  • @mabeaute8963
    @mabeaute89638 ай бұрын

    🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️ prayers to you sis for your healing!

  • @carlacastillo3110
    @carlacastillo31108 ай бұрын

    Poor woman, she did not have the guilt of being abused.

  • @joycarter8479
    @joycarter84798 ай бұрын

    I come from an violent, alcoholic family. My dad was my rock, but when my parents split, my mom took me with her, so my dad would have to pay support. I was molested as a child, by my grandfather ( on my mothers side ) and a neighbour, at 14 my step father tried to crawl into bed with me. I was pregnant and married just before my 17th bday. I married a good hard working man, raised 3 boys. Was married over 26 yrs…I went on to foster over 18 aboriginal girls. And I alway told them, I was abused, and that nothing they wanted to tell, would shock me or, make me feel any differently about them, that they had nothing to blame themselves for. One of my girls was raped at 4 yrs old, by a cousin. One was raped at 8, by her great grandfather and uncle. They all had horror stories. I trained as a nurses aid in 1993 …in conversation out of 10 of us, 7 had been molested or raped.

  • @adelemartin1528

    @adelemartin1528

    8 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing. I was abused, I'm now trying to get my life together. I won't be having my own children, but I would also like to foster one day. So it's reassuring to hear of others achieving this goal ❤

  • @sr2291
    @sr22918 ай бұрын

    My dad would have blamed me, too. Old school thinking. He was almost 40 when I was born.

  • @jodykurt9935

    @jodykurt9935

    7 ай бұрын

    Not really old school, my father, long passed, ended a chomo. That's really old school

  • @shandell279
    @shandell2798 ай бұрын

    This is so disgusting. It's ridiculous that's these stories are becoming the norm. It's always an uncle, their dad, or my male cousins who are molesting children within the family (for any trolls, I'm not turning a blind eye on women who molest and especially, abuse children, but its mostly males that are doing this; when its a woman involved, i believe they deserve a harsher punishment; we are supposed to be the protectors). And then the victim blaming or the keep it the family horror stories, and my favorite where the parents who are supposed to protect the babies are turning their back on the kids. Smh, I'm so sick of disgusting 🤡 getting away with this. The father, How can a child ASK to be molested? Shout out to all who have experienced trauma and are able to overcome it. To those who don't know where to go or are afraid to get help, please keep your head up and find someone you can trust in the healing process. Don't give up. Peace to everyone.

  • @rebeccaharris3374

    @rebeccaharris3374

    8 ай бұрын

    Q

  • @katiehensley290

    @katiehensley290

    8 ай бұрын

    Totally agree! Except you saying women are supposed to be the protectors and should get harsher punishment. I don't think the level of punishment should be based on your gender. I also think that men can and should be protectors. Society expects too little of men. They are capable. They should be held to the same standard. Just my thoughts, no disrespect meant to you at all ❤

  • @amandam4023

    @amandam4023

    8 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤ peace to you keep the positivity be the beacon of light and hope others that's how we help the world make change don't sweep it under the rug don't be silent silence is complacency with the abuse that standing next to the abuser

  • @TawnyC_

    @TawnyC_

    8 ай бұрын

    Why are only women supposed to be protectors? Both men and women should protect children.

  • @trinleywangmo

    @trinleywangmo

    8 ай бұрын

    That's the point. To NORMALIZE IT! So the sick f-s have free reign ... can pick and choose who they violate with no impediments, and no punishment... while the rest of us look away in horror.

  • @user-zx5xw4yw2e
    @user-zx5xw4yw2e7 ай бұрын

    "What Ive done" no! You didnt do anything, something was done to you. You were wronged and taken advantage of. *YOU* didn't do anything.

  • @belfryluna1087

    @belfryluna1087

    5 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @user-zx5xw4yw2e

    @user-zx5xw4yw2e

    5 ай бұрын

    @@belfryluna1087 Whats funny?

  • @BriannaLifeCoach
    @BriannaLifeCoach8 ай бұрын

    Prayers for healing for this woman. I’ve been through a lot of sexual abuse and molestation as well. And as a rape survivor, it takes a while to heal. But Jesus can heal us all Amen❤

  • @swtflower1967

    @swtflower1967

    7 ай бұрын

    Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen!!!!

  • @marietgagliardi
    @marietgagliardi8 ай бұрын

    I think what your dad did was more damaging. That is horrible. I'm sorry

  • @angelaholmes8888

    @angelaholmes8888

    8 ай бұрын

    You are right what he did Is truly horrible

  • @minervan2878
    @minervan28788 ай бұрын

    NON-STOP PRAYER'S 🌻☮️🏳️🕊️✝️

  • @amandam4023

    @amandam4023

    8 ай бұрын

    Yesss!!!

  • @amandam4023
    @amandam40238 ай бұрын

    I'm going through this right now with my under ten-year-old daughter she came out a few months ago saying she's been sexually abused at her father's house he doesn't believe her he said it was just a ploy for her to come live with me he got our other sons to call her a liar and loser then I try to put a restraining order on the person that's abusing her because her father didn't believe her so much that he insist on having this person live with them now we're in court over if the restraining order stands or doesn't stand in our custody agreement plus when the police officers contacted my ex about the abuse allegations he simply stated sometimes things happened to girls now my daughter's been back with her father for about 2 months and he's instilling in her that she's a liar she came yesterday and said I know I'm a liar I know I'm a liar he's going around telling her school she's a liar he's also trying to get me on the bandwagon but I do not agree with his attempts to get people calling her a liar all I can do is pray for her pray peace and protection on her because she is stuck in a really bad situation

  • @jackzerr2548

    @jackzerr2548

    8 ай бұрын

    Keep fighting for her, she lives with evil. I'm so sorry. Please keep fighting for her.

  • @jackzerr2548

    @jackzerr2548

    8 ай бұрын

    Action is the only thing that will save her, she sounds broken in, you need to charge toward her with the fury of a mother bear. Fuck what a human would do, society is sick and fails children left and right.

  • @jackzerr2548

    @jackzerr2548

    8 ай бұрын

    You are a good mom. Know this. Your son's call your daughter who's been raped a loser. I grieve for both of you.

  • @joycarter8479

    @joycarter8479

    8 ай бұрын

    Get her examined by a female Dr.

  • @amandam4023

    @amandam4023

    8 ай бұрын

    @@jackzerr2548 all five of my children are under 10 years old they're all fighting for a safe place I'm fighting for a safe place for them I want them to know their secure in their safe they're loved and they're wanted the whole situation is so unfortunate I left their father a year-and-a-half ago because he assaulted me in front of the children he was my high-school sweetheart I had been with him for ten years we were friends for 10 years I've known him more in my life than out of it and we have five children together unfortunately after I left him kinds of things turned upside and now I'm just fighting for all of our survival thank you so much for your kind words two person that felt alone in this they mean so much to me

  • @YogawithLauraB
    @YogawithLauraB8 ай бұрын

    I have watched a few of Tim being interviewed… they are all great but this is one of the best:)) ❤❤❤ thanks for doing what u both do and the generous donations to this movement :)) 😊😊

  • @Auroras30
    @Auroras307 ай бұрын

    Omg 😢 your story is heartbreaking. I hope you heal ❤

  • @brandygerard1785
    @brandygerard17857 ай бұрын

    My mom knew I was molested at 3 by a female cousin happened til 4th grade and my mom blamed me til I finally stood up for myself at 38

  • @Auroras30
    @Auroras307 ай бұрын

    I agree. We need to raised mature responsible man.

  • @Robert-yn9xg
    @Robert-yn9xg8 ай бұрын

    I'm a man who was sa ,as a child ❤

  • @malookalbaloushi.5099

    @malookalbaloushi.5099

    7 ай бұрын

    Praying good things come your way ❤

  • @estellewadsworth4187
    @estellewadsworth41878 ай бұрын

    Monica you are beautiful and strong. I hope your father and uncle rot in hell. I am a human rights activist too. ❤i am an animal rights activist for 35 years. Both roles. Be strong you are so loved❤

  • @dottiesunshine8339

    @dottiesunshine8339

    5 ай бұрын

    her smile is so gracious 💖

  • @IGIT2011
    @IGIT20118 ай бұрын

    Deliver us oh Lord.

  • @amandam4023

    @amandam4023

    8 ай бұрын

    Amen

  • @sr2291

    @sr2291

    8 ай бұрын

    Stop.

  • @krhea7347
    @krhea73478 ай бұрын

    I do t know how to talk about it

  • @swtflower1967

    @swtflower1967

    7 ай бұрын

    Pray and ask God to help you. It's never too late to start getting help. I'll be praying for you. ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @kforest2745
    @kforest27458 ай бұрын

    That’s because he felt guilt and shame he was a coward he wasn’t man enough to face your uncle. Guilt means he had something to do with it.

  • @donnah5378
    @donnah53788 ай бұрын

    Sad 😞

  • @cindzz47
    @cindzz478 ай бұрын

    🙏❤️

  • @Cool12_782
    @Cool12_7827 ай бұрын

    It's rather unfortunate the Father and uncle are irresponsible and be strip naked under the sun as a deterrent, they are evil

  • @jackilynpyzocha662
    @jackilynpyzocha6623 ай бұрын

    It is disgusting, never her fault!

  • @uzmaata4117
    @uzmaata41178 ай бұрын

    Where was mother? 😢

  • @user-nc2ek8do8w
    @user-nc2ek8do8w8 ай бұрын

    No doubt if they don't want to be converted, they will rot in Hell. They keep blaming their children so as not to be punished for negligence as a parent

  • @KathyJensen-vh2yk
    @KathyJensen-vh2yk5 ай бұрын

    Human Trafficking headquarters is in Tucson Arizona 6584 N Oracle Rd, it's a spa. Sheriff Chris Nanos and wife Charlene Nanos operate it. Law enforcement and system are trafficking. Research -Myths and Facts about women and children sex trafficking . This is happening in every state community and neighborhood. Be safe

  • @williebrinson4699
    @williebrinson46994 күн бұрын

    Tell on all of them, I'm a man and I told everyone my brother and sister molested me. Then guess what happened? Come to find out all 8 of us have been molested, now everybody's telling. I'm the youngest of 5 males and 3 females. I taught my daughter and son to tell tell everything, and before the cops get here the offender will have 2 black eyes.

  • @judgementravi480
    @judgementravi4808 ай бұрын

    Has not ashamed to tell the doubtful story like untold which database googled collecting stupidly 👞🏃

  • @CHOICEBETWEENFEARANDLOVE

    @CHOICEBETWEENFEARANDLOVE

    8 ай бұрын

    ?

  • @trinleywangmo

    @trinleywangmo

    8 ай бұрын

    It's probably some deranged AI bot! LOL! @@CHOICEBETWEENFEARANDLOVE

  • @Legittoquit1
    @Legittoquit18 ай бұрын

    No one believes your right wi ng avenue

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