Might read the Harry Potter books again now

@ChrisJohnsonChannel

3 жыл бұрын

Don’t know how you could after describing the creepy guy as one of the characters🤷‍♂️

@amberhiggins6327

3 жыл бұрын

Can anyone still enjoy Harry Potter? Watch these videos by Abigail Thorn! "Identity: A Trans Coming Out Story | Philosophy Tube ★", " Coming Out As Trans - A Little Public Statement", "Abigail Thorn on coming out as trans, philosophy, KZread stardom and optimism" If you aren't familiar with the Harry Potter controversy then try out these videos. "Breaking Down JK Rowling’s Transphobic Essay", "J.K. Rowling | ContraPoints" You Tube doesn't Allow links in the comments so just copy and past the video titles into the You Tube search to find the each of them.

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

@@amberhiggins6327 Oh I'm well aware of the JK stuff - it's awful :(. I do still own the books/want to read them again but I'm definitely not a fan of the author.

@amberhiggins6327

3 жыл бұрын

@@ErinsHoose I really don't care what books you or anyone reads! Now with that being said: What if JK Rowling made Comments and essays against black people and other non white people; how would you think people would react especially if they weren't white? I wouldn't blame any non-white person for wanting nothing to do with Harry Potter. Now she didn't make any racist comment, but many transphobic comments and even wrote a book that was claiming Trans Women are nothing more that than men that dress up as women just to attack other women. Leaving out the fact that we are the ones that get attacked and even murdered. With that being said I do have a problem with JK Rowling for the fact that she wants to cancel the existences of every Trans person off the face of the earth. I also don't see how one can separate her from her works. Just like your videos can't be separated from you. Only different is: you aren't uploading bigoted videos. From were I work is close to Universal studios Hollywood and I can see the Harry Potter castle from the upper floors of the high rise building I work in. So yeah I have to be reminded of JK Rowling's hate everyday. Also in the US Congress is a bill that would give Civil Rights protection to LGBTQIA people. When the bill went bill went thought the house of representatives the whole debate centered around Transgender issues. There was plenty of hateful comments from Republican. All that being said" it is easer for a Cisgender person to put that aside and go on with there life's, yet when a person is Transgendered one can not. So if you haven't already watched the videos by Abigail Thorn, please do. She lives in Scotland and is a Trans Women that explains how bad things are for Transgendered people living in the U.K So again: please, read whatever you want, but for us Trans people we don't have that option. Not when our very existences is at stake.

@sophieromanca

3 жыл бұрын

Omg do you have the Scots version of the first book? Would you please do a video about it if you do?🤩🤩🤩🙈

I have a neighbor who is always staring at my house, so I got a creepy mannequin and sat him in a chair looking out the upstairs window looking at the neighbors house.

@murrayscott9546

3 жыл бұрын

There was someone in my neighbourhood who had a mannequin of a corpulent, cartoonish, moustachioed chef ( holding a butcher's knife ) in their upstairs window Never think that I met the person and if I did I probably have wouldn't had the nerve to ask, "Why?". One more aside - this woman, from my past, had a shower-curtain with a silhouette of Norman Bates' "Mother" emblazoned onnit ! Brandishing a butcher's knife ! There's nought queer as folk.

Ugh... every woman I know has at least 1 or 2 stories like this. Someone wise once said, "Men are afraid women will laugh at them; women are afraid men will kill them." Co-sign that there is no legit reason on earth for a grown-ass man to be hanging around trying to chat with teenage girls.

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

100%!

@CL-vz6ch

3 жыл бұрын

Like you....

Creepy as shit. I’m 41. Not quite mid-50’s, but still... And I don’t care how “sweetly cute” ANY young teenage girl is; I can’t imagine being awkward enough to ask her to go fishing or shooting with me. And I’m the most socially awkward mfker I know.

He sounded a right freak, targeting a kid. Makes you wonder if he’s done that before. Good you had sense not go away with him anywhere.

Geezus Erin, hair goals! Gorgeous.

That is incredibly creepy and I'm glad you listened to your instincts. But also... your Snape impression 😂😂

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

I'm awaiting my Oscar

Snape 😂😂 I pictured him as Snape as u were telling your story Erin and couldn't stop laughing when you said maybe he's a vampire 😂 glad nothing happened he sounds really creepy 😂 x

I had an art teacher in grade school who kept trying to get me to go to his house after school. Guy was in his late 40s, never married, lived with his mom, and had a mustache (and wanted to hang out with kids?!), so I knew there was something wrong with him even at that age and I refused to go. Out of retaliation, he made me stay after school one time for sneezing during the Pledge of Allegiance (I had obviously bad allergies, anyway). When my mother had to pick me up and he tried to explain himself, she knew what was going on and laid into him so that he never bothered me again-I must have inherited my nose for scumbags from her. My similar-looking best friend didn't have the same instinct, as he started going over his house and his personality changed dramatically after that. Another friend went over there with him about a year later and never went back, just telling me it was creepy and uncomfortable, but no details. They later made the guy principal of the school, which figures, since it was a Catholic school.

So even if he lead with fishing or only mentioned fishing... That's not something a grown man asks a 15 year old to do alone with him. Nope. He was 100% creeping on you. I'm so glad nothing happened.

I have a similar story, I was about 12 years old and my neighbour started calling me and holding my hand, and I didn't know what to do, also he would stare at me when I arrived from school, while I was walking my dog or he would go "grocery shopping" when I went to the store, so I decided to talk to my mother and my sister and they called him to talk to us but he denied everything. He is still weird and annoying

i'm thankful to hear that you have such good common sense, unfortunately there are many young girls who fall for such bad characters and don't have anyone to teach them better. we as men need to make a world where we see other young girls as our daughters, not just a girl who's growing up. enjoyed the video as always Erin, cheers! P.S: when he asked you to go fishing or shooting, i imagined you making an excuse, and him saying (like Snape), "don't...lie..to ME."

That guy seemed like one of the stalkers from Mr Ballen stories

Hi Erin, it is a good idea to keep your webcam covered. Stay safe and get back into the hills as soon as you are allowed. I'm dying to get back to Glencoe and Glen Etive, I NEED the outdoors. Thanks for sharing your story.

Ladies, we should always pay attention to that little voice inside of us; when our gut is screaming that something isn’t right in this moment, we should be listening and reacting....too often we are dismissive when our gut was right all along. ......I’m so glad you were able to stay safe from that creepy neighbor. I’m creeped out thinking about it 🙄🤪😜😊😊

I would rather be autopsied awake than go fishing with a 15 year old girl. He had nefarious intentions, those damn Slytherin are not to be trusted.

this was very entertaining espically since its quarantine, keep up the good content

I had a neighbor who I had a HUGE argument with about his loud music ( I lived above him). Like proper insulting each other, him cursing and threatening to beat up my boyfriend and me threatening to call the cops type of argument. In the next couple of weeks after the argument he came to my door on two separate occasions and asked me out on a date 😳 He had a pregnant wife at the time.

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

Oh god :|

great story Erin hope ur keeping well

When I was a kid I used to ride my bike in the street and my creepy neighbour at the end of the road would watch me from the window. One time I caught him laying down in the front garden spying on me. Think that was the last I rode my bike.

@AM-ii8dk

3 жыл бұрын

That's so sad that you were made to feel you couldn't ever ride your bike again 😥

I've been listening to your accent for more than a year and i'm still not over how great it is😩 Also, this story is so creepy wtf

Hello from Spain 🇪🇸👋 I love this kind of creepy stories. Continue making this content. We love it.

Listen to your intuition and dogs are a good judge of people (usually).Hope you had a good weekend and didn't need to sleep with one eye open.

@murrayscott9546

3 жыл бұрын

Reminds me of something an old girlfriend told me, " Yannow that you sleep with one eye open ? " I don't know which was creepier, the fact that I slept with one eye open or that she watched me as I slept.

From the time I was 10 until I moved out at 18 my younger brother's best friend's dad (also our neighbor) used to take walks around the neighborhood at odd times (like when all the other adults were at work) we used to play in the water hose and he would make a point to come and speak specifically to me anytime I was in my swim suit. Then when I was around 15/16 he asked what kind of music I liked and then went on to ask if I'd like to go to a concert with him sometime. I was like yeah no thanks.... my mom was in the other room and just insisted he was lonely (wife and kid at home btw....) but my sister and our friends all made jokes about him being a serial killer and having bodies in his basement....

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

Oh god :/

He always gave me the creeps x

This was...interesting. Enjoyed listening to your story but...wow! What an absolute creep! Glad he moved away, hopefully far away! Glad you stayed safe too, but sorry you had to deal with that. It's horrible that stuff like this still happens. But thanks for sharing your story, Erin!

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching!

Brilliant vid again Erin, he was certainly a weirdo,luckily nothing bad happened.

Just goes to show you can't choose your neighbours. I live in a small town where just about everybody knows everybody else. I told my ex-wife a story about this man in the town and his un-natural interest in young girls and she said it that it was all absolutely true. And the man was her father's step-dad! Thought a couple of times whether I should really post this but I haven't named any names, and even my ex-wife who disagreed with me on absolutely everything would not argue with me on this one.

Ugh I'm so glad you didn't go "fishing" with that guy 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ My husband's old neighbor was an elderly man who had once kidnapped an old man. So that was interesting. Ever since learning that, I've check my area's registered sex offenders list to just be aware of who's around 😬

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

Oh god, that's terrifying!

Years ago I was just outside my house in the front garden and this guy stopped in his car to offer me a job cleaning his house. I was mid teens he was quite clearly 40+. Think the fact I asked my dad to come talk to him put him off whatever intentions he had. Then he stopped in his car a few days later to ask me if I had thought about the job! Like no I don’t know who you are and I’m not interested in your games

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

:(((

Wow, what a creep! My neighbor keyed my car and put nails under my tire, because I asked her to keep her dog off my step and out of our yard because she was eating our trees, and our little fence for our flowers - which has nails in it.

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

Woahh :/

@murrayscott9546

3 жыл бұрын

Somebody that I worked with inna a couple jobs told me about a problem neighbour he had once. He went out one night, pried the guys hub-cap off put a fish carcass in and quietly tapped it back on.

I just love your Accent 🤩

Gosh makes me think back to when a man lived in the same block of flats as me and when me and my friend would play outside he would watch us from his window, we were about 9 or 10 at the time. he was so creepy and I remember one time when he came up behind me when I was using the local library computer and just started touching my back luckily my friend came in and asked him what the hell he was doing and he slunk away but damn he was creepy.

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

Ewww

Erin, I always enjoy listening to your stories. Enjoy your day. Bill Collins

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Bill!

Damn. I'm glad you grew out of your naive phase. Always stay safe, Erin!

that was scary a 50 year old man asking a 15 year old to go shooting. thats disturbing. i once had a weird encounter with a man that goes about the town i live in with a torch and shines it everywhere. he has long hair and is quite tall and one time i was going home he shined the torch on my face from the bushes and then shouted i see u and i was like WTF

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

Aw if it's the same guy I'm thinking of (if not, we have a similar guy here) but I feel really bad for him. He definitely has problems and should be getting help.

@stevenhowie1044

3 жыл бұрын

@@ErinsHoose yeah it is the same guy but you've got to be carefull around him as he jumped on a womans car and scared the life out of her and once i was in my brother in laws car outside aldi's and he challenged my brother in law henry to a fight

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

@@stevenhowie1044 Oh man, that's so sad/scary. He was punching the air behind me once on a train and I've walked past him before but didn't give him eye contact. He's been about for so long now and I'm wondering if he gets any help or anything :(

@murrayscott9546

3 жыл бұрын

People who routinely carry torches at night (even bright moon-licht ones) don't ( or pretend to do not ) realize that pointing it at someone dazzles them and it takes perhaps 20 minutes to get your night-vision back ( any mariner will tell you tha).. I was out walking one such night and these 2 punks did such a thing. I just yelled, "Dudes ! Do you realize what your doing to me ? " On their part, they were contrite and apologized. Sometimes a quick lesson, if succinctly delivered can influence ones behaviour for the rest of ones life. Another aside : When I wassa teen-age punk (in the "80's) me and my two mates were on the bus - one summer's day - sitting on the back bench, smokin' ( you could do that, in those days ), had our feet up on the surrounding seats. Older gent gets on, sits down near and politely sez, " How would you feel if some lovely, young girls got on in their light summer dresses and sat where your scuffed-up sneakers are right now ? " Point well taken. Our feet were on the floor, might've even polished those seats, a little bit. Sometimes a few words of advice, if politely delivered can stay with you for life. Not like todays grammatically retarded neg-culture.

Love ally ur videos massive fan

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Iona!

Hi Erin, love your channel. I live in Texas now, but was born and grew up in Scotland not far from you (Rhu near Helensburgh) and there was this creepy guy in the village that did odd-jobs for everybody. He had a wife and kids my age and everyone thought he was such a nice man and so helpful, but one time he came to the house to fix a window when my mum was at work and he asked me if I wanted to go for a walk in the woods with him when he was finished because it was such a nice day! He also said I was very bonny and he'd seen me in shorts before and I was growing up to be a fine looking young lady. I was 12!!! I was so horrified and embarrassed and didn't tell my mum until months later when she mentioned she needed to get someone to fix the fence. She was shocked of course, and said she would get someone else, and told me never to talk to him again, which I didn't...but whenever he saw me outside after that he would make weird animal noises in his throat (growls) and one time when he was with a group of other men he started whistling at me and calling my name while all his friends (also married family men) stood around and laughed 😱

@Glimmerling

3 жыл бұрын

My Dad's best friend from high school lived with us for years. The way he peered at me and my friend's when I hit puberty, the remarks he made and still got to live with us... The red flags ignored... The way even some people in the comments are defending the guy shows some would rather coddle a creep than protect the vulnerable.

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

That's horrible! Just shows, you can never be too careful.

Your Boyfriend's right , the creep knows he's scaring you ,he gets a preferred high from it .Carry a stick and a whistle & tell your folks .stay safe !🤗🦋🤗

@murrayscott9546

3 жыл бұрын

I'm a man and in my town nobody can be too careful - nor anywhere, for that matter. I have taken lately to carrying a pair of scissors in my pocket. If anyone asks, I'm an itinerant barber. Sweeney Todd, anybody ? Be well ! Paranoia, sometimes, is an appreciation of reality. Sometimes, though, it CAN get a little outta control.

Hey Erin. Matey........... He was creepy/weird. His references to shooting, fishing, hunting, refer to insidious activities, that I dare not say. You should have told your folks, reported it to the police. Erin, you have to look after yourself, even now as a grown woman, and never, ever go out on your own. Safety in numbers is a true motto.

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

I know, I covered that a bit more nearer the end. A lot of times though, women have no choice but to go out on their own.

Definitely a freaky deeky story.

Ah, I remember this! Freaky.

I'm glad you're ok, Erin because yea no that is hella creepy. When I saw the title, I had a bit of a giggle. Where I used to live, there was a guy that I knew his mom from high school. He and I were outside chatting one day about the people around me in the apartments. The one right next to me, he described as a troll. He'd only seen him once or twice. He thought it was weird. I was working from home then and his tv was always up loud. I wrote a polite note and taped it to his door. He turned it down and I wrote a wee thank you note (taped it to the door again). We became pen pals via notes taped to our doors. LOL Here we are, together, 6 years later. Living in our own home. Happy and in love. And yes. I still call him a troll. :)

That guy was trying too pull you in slowly for something else then being friends.....................and perhaps that is why his girlfriend left him.

I've had crappy neighbours, one when I originally moved into my old place back in 2003 made my first year there a living hell. He stole from me, he harassed me, he attacked me often. He was finally evicted in 2004. In 2019 a pair of transphobic neighbours and their friends smashed every window in my old place over a 24 hour period and they were set on killing me for being trans. They were finally evicted a couple of months later but by then it was pretty clear that I wasn't safe in my old place and I needed to move somewhere safer, which I did last year when I moved to where I currently live. I still get harassed by an insecure transphobic prat from my old place who bangs on my doors and windows early in the morning, no idea how he found where I live but it's annoying and worrying. The police are no help with stopping whoever it is.

@Glimmerling

3 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry.

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

Wow. That is horrendous. I'm so sorry you have to deal with all of that.

@AM-ii8dk

3 жыл бұрын

That's outrageous that the police refuse to take it seriously and protect you. That makes them complicit. Scary. Stay safe!

What meat is he referring to?? 😂🤣

🙋🏽‍♀️Hello from Texas.💕

Misses Erin..... You gotta post a video of your inbetween edits. The faces you make that you edit out. Id pay to see that. And open up the UK already!!!!

Sorry this happened to you. Yea I remember you telling that story ages ago. Soooo creepy! You were 15 and that would be scary to deal with. Too bad you didn’t say “ no I don’t want to go shootin’...but my da has a shotgun.” This story reminds me of when you went to Hamburg with your pal Stef and said there were a lot of creepy guys. There’s a lot of f**cked up people in the world sorry you went through this

Beautycreep 🥺 Let me know what you think of that movie, The Blackcoat's Daughter. I'm wondering if it's based on a true story.

Blimey, Erin! I'm glad you didn't go with him. I guess your boyfriend back then had a point, cus you never know what the guy's later intentions would've been 😯 What was the name of that film again? The one you recommended us to watch? Well done, Erin, an stay safe 👍

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

Alone With Her :)

@crispyjohn

3 жыл бұрын

Cool beans 👍

It was Hans Gruber!

Keep your eyes open. Stephen McDaniels just seemed like a weird neighbor too

My neighbours got a semi 🤪

I had a neighbour must have been in his 70s to early 80s maybe. Old man, use to measure is grass... I remember I was sunbathing in my garden during one of the many Scottish heat waves and he gave me a deck chair he said “I was to low to the ground” he called my sister fat to my dad saying “offt she’s big int she?” While she went to put something in the bin. But when I started working, I started to notice that when I left for work he was at his window watching me through binoculars and when I was walking home he was watching me as well, when I moved out my mum and dads he left not long after that, don’t know why or what happened.

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

Oh god :(

@Justsomebody009

3 жыл бұрын

@@ErinsHoose don’t worry 😂 was an old man, I never felt threatened by it 😂. But it’s another story about how women constantly go through life with men creeping on them and us just saying “he’s a creepy man” without it actually sinking in that it isn’t okay....

Ok, now I'm freaked out, I'm not going to be able to sleep tonight 😟

@shlibbermacshlibber4106

3 жыл бұрын

I dreamt i was being followed by my creepy neighbour 😩 and he is genuinely a bit weird

Its propper messed up, he shouldnt be asking a school girl those things, its a country mile far from normal. Also did you actually see his partner and the dog leave?

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

I can't remember, but I know they definitely moved out

@richpurslow3283

3 жыл бұрын

@@ErinsHoose that's good then haha, just made me think it's like in the movies when someone suddenly ain't there anymore but no one can remember seeing them leave. Coupled with the rest of that creepy behaviour....

Hello from Germany🌼🌼🌼

OMG Freak alert!!!!!!!!!!

The first video was stellar just as this 1 is. Edit: Ya know. It could be me but you're looking more beautiful than ever.

Interesting 🤔..

Enough of you Erin, bring Amy and Steph back! asap

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

Dude we're in lockdown

@danieltuderici8124

3 жыл бұрын

Give them a call or something..

Wonder where he is..

Great story just hope he’s not one of your subscribers now 😳

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

HA imagine

This is a perfect example of why Scotland needs to have American style gun laws. This dude sounds like a Ted Bundy rising! Either way, he was profiling and grooming you! For the record, after I retired from the Army I was a police officer, then a federal agent for years. I have my Masters in Criminology and forensic psychology, AND I would put this guy on a "Danger Stranger" list.

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

I'm definitely glad we don't have those gun laws, I must say.

@markdemucha8848

3 жыл бұрын

@@ErinsHoose I know I know! It's apples and oranges. The US is definitely an outlier when it comes to the gun issue.

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

@@markdemucha8848 Scary stuff!

You can’t count 15+5 = 20 🙏

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

Huh? I said it was 15 years ago haha

@iainmcglynn833

3 жыл бұрын

@@ErinsHoose you in earth years 😂 I was just going by looks THEN I thought , you’re 30 and I’m 61 and I’m listening ...... Almost all girls have horrid similar stories which is disgraceful tbh so I’m glad he moved out Iain

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

@@iainmcglynn833 Oh god yeah it's so awful!

@iainmcglynn833

3 жыл бұрын

@@ErinsHoose BTW your videos are epic So funny and natural , so Scottish, I’ll get thru more Also funny your only up the road an hour 🙏

In a reverse of your situation, I was a mailman for many years in the same neighborhood and had gotten a reputation as a good listener, with positive/helpful advice to give. Most of my "friends" were the moms, but slowly their daughters began to chat me up, which I found to make me more and more uncomfortable as the subjects of their things to talk about got increasingly "personal." There was one very attractive 17 year old, who, even after she had moved away, would come to visit me on a regular basis, AND follow me all around my route for half the day! This made me nervous enough and some of the moms commented to me about it, adding to the exasperation. Dunno if she had a schoolgirl crush on me or what, but I'd had enough experience being put in the Friend Zone to navigate her on her merry way on good terms. Yikes, and yikes to your story, also!

He was gonna proposition to you but you ruined his dreams :) Wow such a gay experience you had. But my Polish neighbors are just poor slobs, they live in a tiny room, all three of them. They also have a cat that frequently shrieks at night. The house management restricted their access to the bathrooms and the kitchen because they failed to pay their utility bills, and now all the rest of the tenants have their own keys from the bathrooms and the kitchen. Still those crazy neighbors won't move out, the guy regularly takes a leak outside right under the porch, not sure about his wife and kid. The police is totally useless, they cannot evict them just for slamming the front door or shouting "kurva ebana" at night while everyone is supposed to be asleep. I hope you're ok.

Once saw a lady neighbor jump out a second story window before. She lived in a two floor brick apartment. The whole place was known for illegal drugs. We called her the crack lady because she looked like she was a druggy and there wasn’t a week were she wasn’t making some fuss out on their yard. One day we are leaving our place and we hear her screaming and of course we’re like, here she goes again. But this time its from inside the building then she comes flying out head first in some sorta white dress or nightgown. Half hits the bushes and ground. We lived maybe 2 blocks from the hospital so the paramedics were there fast. I’m not sure what ever happened to her because we never saw her again and soon after that they closed the building, years later it was demolished.

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

That is so sad :(

Sounds like he was a lonely guy that liked you. The creepy thing is that you were only 15. P.S. love it when you said, My dog just went mental!

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

Think everything about it was creepy, really

@ghostofreagan3181

3 жыл бұрын

@@ErinsHoose That's understandable.

Hi Erin, I worked with a guy who told me about this creepy 15 year old girl who kept walking past his house, looking in his window while he was watching National Geographic chanel 🙄

Here in the US, guns and creepy men go together like peanut butter and jelly, but from what I read, in Scotland a firearms purchaser must claim a valid reason. Does luring 15-year-old girls out to the countryside count?

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

:|

You need to carry concealed like they allow in the USA.

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

No thanks lol

Dear Erin, I'm not your creepy neighbour nor do I ever wish to be. Although I am a bit ovva wierdo I consider myself somewhat chivalraic ( defender of widows, orphans, etc.) This is apropos of nothing of what just happened to me the other day. I was down at Lonsdale Quay ( North Vancouver, Canad-er ) and struck up a convo witha women who said she was 5 years my junior ( I'm almost 57 ) but it lasted quite a long while and she was so engaging and up-front about herself that I impulsively leant towards her ( we were not obeying social distancing " rules" ) and pecked her on the cheek ! Some random woman sitting nearby said to me, You're not allowed to do that ! Like I'd just sexually assaulted her ! The woman I'd pecked didn't seem to mind, took it on the chin ( well, the cheek actually ) but the fact that some random felt that she had the right to impose her set of " rules " on me for what I felt came naturally quite offended me. Has this whole C-19 thing turned us all into a nation of wannabe cops, snitches, rats ? Beam me up, Scotty, there's no intelligent life on this planet !

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

If a stranger leaned over to kiss me (especially during a pandemic), I definitely wouldn't be okay with it tbf

@Glimmerling

3 жыл бұрын

You realize that if the woman you kissed did mind, you wouldn't know until after, right? Until you had already done the unwanted thing? That is why what you did was wrong.

@murrayscott9546

3 жыл бұрын

@@Glimmerling We conversed, pleasantly, for another half an hour or so. She told my a lot about her life. If she had straight-up slapped me I would've taken the hint. It was the the random ( who wasn't even part of the convo ) who tried to impose her own moral code on something that was really none of her business. Same as yer doin', now. Rat-fink wannabe.

@Glimmerling

3 жыл бұрын

@@murrayscott9546 So you would have taken a hint after already upsetting her. Meaning you care more about doing what you want than actual consent. I'm not saying you didn't have a lovely conversation, or that you're lying about the woman not minding/enjoying what you did. I'm saying that when you do that shit 'impulsively' you have no way of knowing whether it's wanted or not until after it happens. If you kissed a woman in front of me with no clear sign she wanted you to do it, you'd bet your ass I'd step in and only back off when the woman made it clear she was okay. Because: WHAT IF SHE DIDN'T WANT YOU TO? Better to know, then leave someone in danger. Other people's safety is more important than your impulses. Power to the rat finks, I guess.

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

@@Glimmerling Completely agree. Plus, I likely wouldn't slap a guy or react in an overly negative way in case the situation escalated further.

He sounds like a lonely guy looking for a friend. It’s a shame

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

:|

@Futurevenomzone

3 жыл бұрын

He most certainly does not

@Glimmerling

3 жыл бұрын

He should have found a 'friend' his own age.

@andrewmurdoch2335

3 жыл бұрын

@@ErinsHoose I think asking you to go shooting was a step too far but I thought you might be a little more understanding about what some people’s lives are like with the sort of job you do and the fact you also have a decent knowledge of mental health issues. People always seem to think the worst in the socially awkward neighbour we probably all have on our streets.

@ErinsHoose

3 жыл бұрын

@@andrewmurdoch2335Constantly watching and following someone is a step too far. It's dangerous to assume predatory behaviour = mental illness or vice versa. Sure, if he did it once/appeared a bit strange on occasion, fair enough. To follow, consistently watch and eventually ask out an underage girl isn't okay in the slightest.