Motivate Change in Your Clients with the 'Curiosity Gap'
This week's video was inspired by two things. First, by a research study I read on how gettingpeople curious can help them replace unhealthy behaviours with healthy ones, and second, by my long experience of personally using curiosity as a therapeutic tool.
We don't really see therapy or coaching workshops on the art of curiosity-building in clients. But I hope after reading this week's blog you'll agree that perhaps these ideas should be taught more.
When we help our clients become overwhelmingly curious about changes they need to make, they are already making them.
Here's to curiosity, the great human progress tool!
The research mentioned above and other references can be found on the original article:
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Video highlights:
00:00 Introduction
00:38 When a client becomes curious, we have powerful therapeutic motivation
02:13 Why and how we can recruit the power of curiosity to facilitate change
05:18 Creating a curiosity gap can drive people to make behavioural changes
05:50 Research on the curiosity gap
07:31 Tip one: Express your curiosity
10:25 Tip two: 'How will it be?'
11:53 Tip three: Notice something unexpected
14:08 Tip four: Use curiosity-building words and phrases
16:48 Tip five: Evoke a general sense of curiosity
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Great info; love the stories.
So helpful for my perspective on inspiring questioning and curiosity in young people in schools. Thanks as always Mark. The way you interweave your fun anecdotal story through all the keypoints is so well done. I wish I could do it every time I speak ; )
Keep going Mark!🙏 invaluable substance channel, that is way underviewed!👍✨
MARK IS A G 🔥
Excellent.
Interesting - using curiosity to shift to a different outcome dependence, one in which you are in control. A lonely man wanting "her" to be the one. Happens a lot. But curious to get to know more? Now, I dictate my worth, it is not in the hands of another. Whatever happens I have my answer and can move on in my life stronger for the action I undertook.
I think it would be more interesting to invite curiosity about how she might speak, her voice, and what her name might be, all from a friendly neutral point of view.
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So helpful for my perspective on inspiring questioning and curiosity in young people in schools. Thanks as always Mark. The way you interweave your fun anecdotal story through all the keypoints is so well done. I wish I could do it every time I speak ; )