Uncommon Sense: Moving from a Problem-Focused to Solution-Focused Mindset | Mel Gill | TEDxVarna
In Mel Gill's inspirational talk there are self-experience stories, giving you the chance to change your mindset, your point of view about the problems in your life and focus on taking action and responsibility for your mind, happiness and life.
Legendary Psychotherapist Dr Mel Gill is one of the world's leading experts in Personal Development and a Mentor to countless other Speakers and Trainers around the world. He is an internationally-recognized Training Consultant and is also Corporate Advisor to CEOs of Fortune 500 Companies.
He has been recognized by the Business Times and The Sentinel as one of the Top Asian American Motivational Speakers. He was invited by the Napoleon Hill Foundation to speak as one of the Top 17 Speakers in the World in their Inaugural World Convention.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx
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''Possibility thinking means never accepting failure as your final destination. Failure is a means to success.''
I really enjoyed this talk! I hope to see you all again soon!
@surveenc6265
4 жыл бұрын
Dr Mel Gill maybe a year too late but great talk!
@mannmadantilak489
4 жыл бұрын
Dr Mel Gill, Your inspiring talks will surely bring out many Rain Makers from their old tribes & dense forests to explore new possible deserts, where their dance will succeed to bring much needed rains. Many Thanks to You for being there to motivate us with your single-handed Enthusiasm. Be Always Happy Be Blessed Lots LoVE
@kurthao3011
2 жыл бұрын
Dr. Mel Gill, i enjoyed your talk alot. 🇵🇭💓💓
@dericflairmultiverse4952
2 жыл бұрын
I couldn't HANDle your jokes but thank you for the inspiring talk
@ngqabuthomafu8559
Жыл бұрын
That was a good talk you are gifted sir!
I am actually from Jamaica, 🇯🇲, perfect description, we have no problem ❤
@haaste_mies
Жыл бұрын
No problem, no woman, no cry🇯🇲
@adulis73
Жыл бұрын
No problem man!
"He keeps dancing until it rains!" I am laughing and crying at the same time. From one who has given up on himself way too many times...thank you for this inspiring message.
@nellymorales1635
Жыл бұрын
Me too...same emotion
@aju3842
Жыл бұрын
Hahaha hahahaha dance until it rains hahaha
@jonathandenis5249
Жыл бұрын
Keep trying bro
@stevec404
Жыл бұрын
@@jonathandenis5249 - Absolutely! Thanks, J.D.
@dianamuringo3998
Жыл бұрын
👏👏 This guy is amazing
What a sense of humor combined with serious ideas!!!
@pretinha718
Жыл бұрын
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@pretinha718
Жыл бұрын
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@pretinha718
Жыл бұрын
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@pretinha718
Жыл бұрын
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You CANNOT solve the problem if you are still fighting against it. If you are still struggling with the issue that dejected you or the problem that stuck in your life, let it go. Do not fight against it. Sometimes accepting and letting go can give you the highest peace. Isn’t? Some problems are not solvable by our power; they are out of our control. Fighting against them destroys our mindset and energy level. Let it go and take a breath
@jcjlove
Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
Watching this in September 2022 and it’s such a breathe of fresh air. I love this guy! He’s funny 😆 “no problem mon, you have a situation mon” 💯
The “nobody makes it out of this life alive” bit and the “he keeps dancing until it rains” part really spoke to me.
I don't usually have much time to watch anything more than 3 or 4 minutes, 6 maximum. This man is inspirational and 22 minutes wasn't long enough.
He was full of energy and that made the talk really enjoyable. 🥰
@ABC-du6yz
4 ай бұрын
how beautiful you look ma'am. amazing.
Ironically, I lived a life that centered on the feelings of others. Instead of expressing my feelings frankly, I thought I had to live a happy life that would require suppressing my feelings to avoid making problems. At the same time, I firmly believed that my inner anxiety or nervousness should not be revealed. I tried to think positively or forced a smile on my face, hiding my unease and pretending not to know. Some feelings discomforted me, which I knew I should not be feeling, yet whenever those feelings arose, I would deny myself and suffer. I thought this was the right way, but reality told me the contrary. I became more vulnerable. I started to use the "Intended mindfulness playlist' and got much better. It really works 🙂
He's got a very strong mind to loose his hand and still say boldly and with a smile as well.... "I did everything Single-handedly"
Massive failure lead to massive success. Love this !
‘Because he keep dancing until it rains’ Such a beautiful and motivated ending.
Absolutely LOVED this TedX talk! Love the positivity he gave out and how he made people laugh throughout! An absolute gem! 👏🏼
@fayeburke7732
Жыл бұрын
We need more laughter in this world today love this talk
@pammiesingkho1786
Жыл бұрын
Oyeee!!! 💞💞💞💞💞😃😃😃
As a solution focused psychotherapist i really enjoyed this.
dynamic speaker...full of life. 🤣🤣♥️♥️
CRAZY SPEAKER. What a guy filled with bright ideas! Thank you, Doc Mel!!
If all english speakers talk so clear like this then i think learning it is enjoyable and easy. Love his accent..
Such a wonderful character! Such an amazing personality! So much laugh, so much life, so much energy in him. Such inspiring talk, thank you!
@mikeytobago
6 жыл бұрын
i must put a like to your insanity lol
@DrMelGill
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
"Tomorrow never dark" Absolutely love your speach. Long life!
Can’t thank you enough for the magic you did with just few words. You have restored my confidence that i lost after few consecutive failures. I was sooo depressed and then i came up with this video. I feel like this 20 mins session that i have listened is the most useful thing i have ever done in my life with my mobile phone😂 Thank you again!
@kaksbaby
Жыл бұрын
Not the most useful thing you’ve done on a mobile phone 😂😂😂😂
@camillac.s.279
Жыл бұрын
🙏🏻❤️🙌🏻
@DJ-sv7xf
Жыл бұрын
If you learned something from your failures then it wasn't a waste of time - it was an expensive lesson. They taught us in college that the person who fails and stops trying is the only failure. Look for the lesson and change your angle of attack.
@sbkalatage1042
Жыл бұрын
My salutes sir
BRILLIANT! BRILLIANT ! BRILLIANT🦜
This was brilliant. Light hearted truth. Made me laugh. A good way to learn with laugher
Fabulous talk. Love that we have situations! We should definitely all keep dancing until it rains. Thanks for the wisdom Dr Gill.
Amazing! How the things that appear as shortcomings could become our badge of honor. Just like the great apostle Paul, said three times have I asked the Lord to remove this infirmity but he said my Grace is sufficient for you.
Beautiful, love his energy
Wow! - Such a delivery that I didn't even notice his left side until he spoke about it! "Great talk, Man!"
Thank for the hope and inspiration. Now I will find my next solution to my procrastination and fears ♥🙏🏽
@ganbatte1260
10 ай бұрын
How is it? Im in it now :(
I'm so glad I got to watch this talk just before new year. So inspiring! Let's all keep dancing until it rains!
This just made my day.... I'm glad I watched this
Dancing until it rains is very powerful ..Need such a confidence and conviction..👏👏👏👏👏Enjoyed with great message 👍👍👍
I watch at least 2 Ted Talks every day & this one is by far the best !!! Thank you for sharing your story
Gosh, his way of speaking is so magnetic
So if you just take a inventory of where you are right now understand where you are what resources you have how much money you have what education level you have what connections you have and then think about where it is you want to go what is it you want to be don't think five years think two years just two years something that's within vision and then notice what it will take for you to get from here to there what is the path between here and there and if you don't know the path find someone who has taken that path find someone who has already done it and if you cannot meet them directly find it out in books you've got the internet you've got all of these resources and this is the step that no one takes. Love it.
Perspective is Everything.
this guy always give the commentary at the end of “Incredible Tales” episodes . Legend siol
Added to my Fav Ted Talks ❤️ A Good Start of my Day 2 Feb 2023
He keeps dancing till it rains. Love it
He is amazing speaker and yes definitely inspiring. Yes I read your book. BaRnna is lucky to have you living with them. Amen
@quatran3401
Жыл бұрын
Each. truyen Viet Audial
Omg😂😂😂..,the best Ted talk i watched till now......he made me so laugh 🤓🤓🤣 thank you 😘..........he has only 1 hand😥 and he is so energetic and happy..... and we are complaining about life...... i got new perspective about problems in life by you sir...... thank you so much for sharing.... take care sir ❤️....salute you 🙏💗💗
This guy is on point!
Talking about this is extremely important! Schizophrenia and Bipolar disorders are not understood very well by doctors, much less the general public. I congratulate you for having the confidence and determination to inform people of these disorders and the fact that you are functional. Keep it up, and good luck!
So much fun to listen, laughed out loud a few times, and underpinned by really solid, encouraging ideas.
One of the best Talks ever.
Massive success is the end product of some failures. Great talk.
Yes! Wow~ You got it right all through the talk! Thank you so much for sharing! We need many more talks like this!
Dope, I learned that changing your mindset on how you look at problems can help change that stigma. The word "problem " gets such a bad rap that nobody knows how to get out of it. Take inventory of where you are? where you want to go? and how your gonna get there, finally take the first step and try it. Lastly FAIL there is no success if you don't try. Here we go.
Lord that was the shortest 22 minutes of my life!!! This talk was really great!!
Possibility thinking, Situation for solution, keep on trying are essence of this speech
Thank you for this all inspiring talks Mel....wish I had someone like you to help my son who is diagnosed with bipolar disorder. Some even confused called it Schizophrenia 😕 Hope you're doing well wherever you may be. God bless you and yours🙏
SHORT OF WORDS, Never been so touched in my life, dance until it rains. Listened twice & would love❤ to listen again and again.😂
This is pure greatness. I love his energy
Dr Mel Gill, Your inspiring talks will surely bring out many Rain Makers from their old tribes & dense forests to explore new possible deserts, where their dance will succeed to bring much needed rains. Many Thanks to You for being there to motivate us with your single-handed Enthusiasm. Be Always Happy Be Blessed Lots LoVE
wow, I found his speech so interestingggg, rather than considering them as problems, just turn into situations and then you deal with
Your talk is so engaging, I didn't notice you don't have your left arm till you mentioned.
Absolutely my favorite Ted Talk, such a beautiful inspiring person! 🙌🏼
Watched this two times in a row, Great presentation.
Keep dancing until it rains!!! What an inspiration
Mel is awesome!
Excellent TedXTalk! I would dare to say that is the best I´ve watched!!
Thoroughly enjoyed the talk!! 👍💞
He gets a big Hand from Wolverhampton England 🌹🙏🏆💥
Love this talk....
He saved your life.Give it to him love him.
Amazing speech! Thank you!
This talk is really comes for me when I am totally depressed and lost my self, really get a great 22 minutes of great talk, thank you for your great talk.
@ChristianTheMontana
Жыл бұрын
Find peace in your purpose, even if you can’t always see it. Don’t be afraid to dream but back those dreams with belief and action. Much love and peace to you
@Zenigma217
Жыл бұрын
@@ChristianTheMontana Only God The Exalted and Mighty can help us. No oneelse can. So supplicate to Him , The Exalted, not His creation, or messenger, Jesus, son of Mary , Gods Peace be upon both.
Just fond of his speech❤❤❤
Great presenter great presentation. Thank you so kindly for sharing.
Wow so Much simplicity and profound ideas
And thats a TED TALK❤️
Love this talk!
Excellently put 👊🏽
I felt this speech great presenter excellent message.
Hi Brian, thank you for this. My current journey is to improve my problem solving skills and communication. Thus, thus was very helpful.
Thank you so much for this sir it’s exactly what I needed to hear right now!
You have a new fan today Sir🙌
Thank you so much Mel, you're words are exactly what I needed 🙂🙂
Thank you for this TedX talk. How wonderful in inspiring.
I love this guy!
Thank you Dr Mel.
Had so much fun listening and learned so much from it. Brilliant speaker!😊
Thank You MEL… Absolutely stunning 🤗
Loved this talk. Please keep it coming🙏
Damnn Much Love To this Channel.
I really love you. Funny and full of wisdom 🥰
this is one of the best ted talks i ever watched. Thank you!!!
Brilliant in its simplicity 👌👏👏
What a wonderful speech
you have done a wonderful job 👏. thank you for sharing your passion with us. wow really amazed to see your collection. 🙏
Very good, man. Inspiring and realistic. Peace out.
He is a dynamic speaker. I watched it twice!
marvelous
This is the best 22 minutes and 6 seconds of my life. Thank you Mel Gill. I will follow you on social media from Australia.
You make us think in a new way n act accordingly , n that too in a hilarious manner Thank you Mel.....
One of the best speeches I have ever heard....funny too.
I enjoyed this so much.. Such a great delivery & so informative, I’m defs Implementing all of which you speak on, Thankyou ❤
Thankful for this one ☝️
Really inspiring what a great personality
Marvellous talk sir👌