Mormon Stories Interviews That Shook Me The Hardest

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I can't say thank you enough to John Dehlin and his commitment to providing a space for Mormons and ExMormons the space to share their stories. Here's a list of the episodes that have stuck with me long after my time as co-host.
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Survivor of Sexual Abuse and Mormon Church Cover-up - 1509
• Survivor of Sexual Abu...
A Bishop’s Family Questions Mormonism - Kelly and Kayla Mikesell - Mormon Stories 1438
• A Bishop’s Family Ques...
A Mexican Mormon Story - Gerardo Pt. 2 - Mormon Stories 1440
• A Mexican Mormon Story...
Native American Mormon Women and the Lamanite Myth - Mormon Stories 1456
• Native American Mormon...
Growing Up Gay in a Mormon Military Family - Britton and Mason Laing Pt. 2 - Mormon Stories 1467
• Growing Up Gay in a Mo...
Ep 1468: Recognizing Your Two Gay Sons Aren’t Broken in a Mormon Military Family - Laing Pt 3
• Two Gay Sons in a Morm...
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  • @cellistmike
    @cellistmike Жыл бұрын

    No wonder it's rare to be asked about the reasons for leaving. Actually hearing people's stories destroys the bullshit "sinner" dismissals.

  • @jamesgastaldo4710
    @jamesgastaldo4710 Жыл бұрын

    I'm an xjw, and have listened to thousands of stories. Not just jws, but Mormons and Muslims and Christians ! It makes my heart glad to see everyone waking up to religion in general ! Its all created by man for power and control ! Keep up the great work !!

  • @dadsarepeopletoo3785

    @dadsarepeopletoo3785

    8 ай бұрын

    Yess! And to keep us divided.

  • @nicolewade160

    @nicolewade160

    4 ай бұрын

    May I ask how long you were JW? That’s Jehovahs Witness right? Are you completely out of all religions now?

  • @shadowmomma

    @shadowmomma

    22 күн бұрын

    I am also xjw and find the Mormon stories really helpful in seeing I am not alone. Many many people have been fooled by these cults

  • @fran4636
    @fran4636 Жыл бұрын

    When you said that people are upset about lgbt+ people demanding their rights because it reveals that their religion isn't true, that really hit home for me. Thank you for the important work you do Carah!

  • @VirginiaGeorge
    @VirginiaGeorge Жыл бұрын

    It’s wild to me that they don’t do background checks. We do background checks on everyone who works with minors.

  • @mattskustomkreations

    @mattskustomkreations

    2 күн бұрын

    Well, the members don’t do a background on Joe Smith, so why should they check anyone else?

  • @2022Coopersmom
    @2022Coopersmom Жыл бұрын

    At 55 years old I had a full blown panic attack in my disciplinary council. I told my bishop in advance that at 16 years old I was raped, and I grew up with an addicted violent mom, violent dad, I have CPTSD, and I would suffer mentally and physically if I had to talk about the consensual sex I had with my man-friend, my 60 year old boyfriend. Why did he proceed to invite the ward clerk and the ward secretary, who was in his freaking 20s, to hear my confession? Five men. They just sat, watched, and waiting during my panic attack as I sat with my head lowered between my knees breathing into the paper bag I brought for the occasion. I know HF was proud of them for helping me repent of the sin next to murder. How in the world did this beautiful girl get through going to the bishop? 😢

  • @mads597

    @mads597

    Жыл бұрын

    I am deeply angered and disturbed on your behalf, and so very sorry to hear about such a profound betrayal of your humanity.

  • @kirielbranson4843

    @kirielbranson4843

    10 ай бұрын

    I am so sorry you had to go through this. It is criminal and beyond cruel that this is not only allowed but the rule.

  • @Untamedshrew83

    @Untamedshrew83

    7 ай бұрын

    I had a similar experience at age 16 when I was forced to confess “heavy petting” that happened on a date. The bishop didn’t invite others but was relentless when demanding details.

  • @psychick48

    @psychick48

    4 ай бұрын

    It is terrible that you had to go through this!

  • @peggygarcia6125

    @peggygarcia6125

    4 ай бұрын

    Emotional rape. So so sorry. My whole being hurts for you.

  • @jessicamasonsonneborn4864
    @jessicamasonsonneborn4864 Жыл бұрын

    Cara I want you to know something- first I’m transgender woman who has had two of thee surgeries.ex Mormon- high priest group leader, temple leader and trainer,soI’ve been there. I’ve survived because of your work and inspiration. Thanks so much for your help. The last 10 years have been a hell to live. ❤❤

  • @CarahBurrell

    @CarahBurrell

    Жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️ Ahhhh I’m so sorry to hear its been hell.

  • @jeannemarie5908

    @jeannemarie5908

    8 ай бұрын

    Hi ❤ I just want to say .. I acknowledge you. You are valuable and please .. do you, be you .. what ever that is each day. I know I wouldn’t recognize you in the crowd .. hey, you won’t recognize me either, soOo, just know I could be any one or ALL of those strangers! Love❤ 2 U ❤

  • @bongodave13

    @bongodave13

    7 ай бұрын

    It's New Year's Eve right now. I wish you a much happier 2024. Everyone deserves to live as they wish, in peace and safety.

  • @rachelmure
    @rachelmure Жыл бұрын

    Mormon Stories and other exmo creators like you are so, so needed and important! ❤

  • @LazyEyePolitics
    @LazyEyePolitics Жыл бұрын

    Ill never forget the moment my dad sat me down in his bedroom on his bed. Man this sounds creepy, especially when you hear where this goes.... he pulls out the book of Mormon and sets it on the bed. He rests his hand on it. Then begins talking very seriously and solemnly about the evils of homosexuality and masterbation. I have NEVER bounced back from that. 😂 i put a laugh emoji but we all know how icky it really is

  • @macrograms
    @macrograms Жыл бұрын

    I wonder if anyone had an experience like I did that made it impossible to be a part of the church of its policies? There once was a man who worked at an elementary school who was caught (let's just say) perpetrating inappropriate actions (and leave it at that) against children. The school gave him an ultimatum resign and promise never to take positions giving access to children and we won't prosecute. He quit. Then he became a Boy Scout troop leader. An we all know how they got sued for covering up acts from people just like him until they ran out of money to fight court cases. He did the same. They covered it up. While he continued to do those things to over 75 children, he also chaperoned children to the temple to be baptised for the dead where he --- as you have probably already surmised -- did the same things to more children. The church covered it up, denied, and ignored it. Then the Boy Scouts finally handed the documentation to a lawyer because they were forced to and the creep went to prison (convicted for crimes against over 50 children). He is not a unique case. -=-. The LDS church is the perfect example of an organization that predators will gravitate to and work in because they have access to the thing they want. I cannot imagine anything the church could actually do to convince me they gave a crap about anyone or anything except money and protecting their own name. Are there good people in churches? Sure. Are they often gullible or even naiive to the point of neglect and criminal ignorance? There is no amount of money that would make me join (again/as adult/by choice) that church or any other frankly. It's just not worth it. It's ironic as you say they cover up for creeps but promote bigotry [againts PoC, LGBT, etc). No amount of money is worth playing along with that game. -=- The above is a true story and the newspaper articles and documents are available as one of over 3,000 abusers from the Boy Scouts [often also LDS] The church never excommunicated the particular example I'm personally aware of which is why this story is something I'll keep telling until I'm old or the church stops being awful. My bet is that I'll die of old age peacefully in bed before they change but I'd love to be wrong.

  • @kellyreilly-robinson2130

    @kellyreilly-robinson2130

    Жыл бұрын

    Former HD Catholic, Priests were allowed free rain with children. Then as we all know moved around. I feel you on this comment ♥️

  • @bongodave13

    @bongodave13

    7 ай бұрын

    @@kellyreilly-robinson2130 rein

  • @sykemannon8651
    @sykemannon8651 Жыл бұрын

    I don’t know how long, exactly, I’ve been following you and JD@MSP but it’s been at least four years. I’m a Never-Mo but was exposed to HD religion JW thru my mom at the start of puberty. You guys cement my gratitude in my rejecting such culty behavior at that young age. I got lucky and I am aware of that. If you accomplish nothing else in your young life, the fact that you are not bestowing this bullshit on your kids is itself a true blessing. Keep up the “real good” work.

  • @keile513

    @keile513

    Жыл бұрын

    When I read comments like yours, it’s incredibly uplifting to know that we’re really an army, from many different backgrounds, that have been hurt and find ourselves tangled up in life long memories of trauma and fear. I’m so glad you’re here. It’s really comforting.❤

  • @stellablue4153
    @stellablue4153 Жыл бұрын

    I appreciate what you do and the way you shed light on the corrupt mo church. I have grown up in Utah and was baptized in Southern Utah at the age of 12 just so I could have friends. I am ashamed that I preformed baptisms for the dead and apologize deeply to those souls and assure them it meant nothing!!! My co-workers are mostly mormon and I really wish they would watch you and Mormon Stories podcast and wake the" HECK" up! Sadly they are deeply indoctrinated and fear truth, logic and human decency for all!

  • @BebbaDubbs
    @BebbaDubbs Жыл бұрын

    I introduced my teenage neices/nephews to your channel w/their parents blessing and under my supervision. They have close friends with are deep into the church structure but still go to public school. These amazingly preceptive teenagers have recently realized that their Mormon friends have been trying to covertly convert them for extra Jesus upvotes. Thanks for your work!

  • @iamjustsaying1
    @iamjustsaying1 Жыл бұрын

    This is the best presentation I've seen from you. I like the seriousness and empathy you convey, the video snippets that should tug at the heartstrings of every listener, and the cadence of your delivery. Even a TBM should be moved by this. Perfect!

  • @jameswalberg3265
    @jameswalberg3265 Жыл бұрын

    Great Podcast. Those watching should know that Cara's contribution to Mormon Stories was key to its' rapid growth. Also her co-hosting on Mormon Stories with John Larsen should not be missed.

  • @shannonigans_
    @shannonigans_ Жыл бұрын

    Omg please do a funny MS moments because that clip of you and John giggling in Gerardo’s interview was SO FUNNY

  • @Will0wFire
    @Will0wFire Жыл бұрын

    I loved you on Mormon Stories, and I love you here. Keep it up. ❤

  • @erstwhile3793
    @erstwhile3793 Жыл бұрын

    Appreciate your unflagging determination to do what you’re doing. It cannot be easy. I imagine it must be exhausting more often than not. The rest of us can simply walk away from it all, when we’ve gotten what we need and are ready to move on (as much as that’s possible). You could too. But you haven’t yet, and I salute you!

  • @kellyreilly-robinson2130

    @kellyreilly-robinson2130

    Жыл бұрын

    I've suffered subconsciously for the entirety of my life in shame and self hatred even after leaving my HD Religion. The ex Mormons are healing my mind and I'm finding happiness at 50!

  • @ane-louisestampe7939
    @ane-louisestampe793911 ай бұрын

    Not teaching your children to say NO - and expect to be respected - is grooming them for abuse.

  • @maegand1791
    @maegand1791 Жыл бұрын

    I want to hug Britton and Mason. "I'm not waiting for some resurrection to fix me" 🤗

  • @cheryloja9073
    @cheryloja9073 Жыл бұрын

    I staked my reputation and my testimony on the restoration of the church. I've had questions and concerns for a few years now, the confirmation is heartbreaking 💔 not sure what to do now. God help us all 😢

  • @bongodave13

    @bongodave13

    7 ай бұрын

    I left the church decades ago. Trust me, it gets better. It felt like I escaped from a prison, and I was free for the first time. I won't pretend it was painless, but I have no regrets. Mormonism scars you. It takes time to heal.

  • @ritamariekelley4077
    @ritamariekelley40779 ай бұрын

    Another beautiful, heartfelt, compassion-filled show--thanks.

  • @greg-op2jh
    @greg-op2jh2 ай бұрын

    This was so powerful. Thank you for sharing this with us. Power To Survivors!

  • @juliekidd9750
    @juliekidd9750 Жыл бұрын

    I was shamed multiple times for my dress choices. I was denied my church dance card for wearing dresses that were appropriate but the bishopric said I was putting dirty thoughts into the minds of men 😳

  • @susang4507
    @susang450710 ай бұрын

    This was a great episode! I was wondering where you went from Mormon Stories. I hope your on Mormon Stories sometimes - but I think it’s good for you to have your own platform too. You have so much to express and create.💖

  • @sharondunstall709
    @sharondunstall709 Жыл бұрын

    I look at you and see a beautiful, brave, intelligent woman. Your compassion, empathy, and kindness shine through so brilliantly as you share your thoughts and feelings about the shameful treatment and judgment that these poor, former guests have received. Podcasts such as yours provide an important forum for people to have a voice, to share their stories (finally sometimes) and enlighten the rest of us to the injustice that is present, and continues to thrive when truth is silenced and when Christlike love is not applied. ❤

  • @reneenolan3163
    @reneenolan3163 Жыл бұрын

    Of all your contributions to media this has been the best ever!

  • @kellylaing7650
    @kellylaing7650 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Carah!!!! You were so gracious to us this day and we have so appreciated your continued fight to help all of us in our transitions to a new and better life. -Kelly

  • @tonihoban8350

    @tonihoban8350

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing your story! So very powerful.

  • @CarahBurrell
    @CarahBurrell Жыл бұрын

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  • @Tina06019
    @Tina06019 Жыл бұрын

    1:15:09 For some reason, I expected the Native American women who were mentally abused by Mormon theology about “Lamanites” to be old women. As in, older than me, not clearly quite a bit younger than I am. It’s stunning how long this crap has been promulgated. 1:46:50 “Alright, Hell it is.” That made me laugh.

  • @Vibeagain

    @Vibeagain

    Жыл бұрын

    Mentally abused? Do people bandie the word about that loosely now

  • @freudianslip000

    @freudianslip000

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@VibeagainStick around and listen, you might learn something important.

  • @sarak6860

    @sarak6860

    Жыл бұрын

    I can't believe I once believed that Lamanite-Native Americans- blood of Israel crap. The science was always against it, long before DNA.

  • @smilingjacks83
    @smilingjacks83 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks Carrah, such a neccessary video ☺️ I'm a nevermo but watch MSP and other exmo creators. I've been a person of faith since the age of nine. In some ways it's high demand. In recovery from some aspects of specific Christian denominations... specifically Purity Culture, Shame, being LGBTQIA+ just as examples. This is why I find your content so helpful and empathise with the parts of your experience that you generously share. Peace ✌️ and ❤️

  • @loiscassels8966
    @loiscassels8966 Жыл бұрын

    Great show, Carah! Thanks. Take care of your mental health. Br gentle with yourself. ❤️🇨🇦

  • @2022Coopersmom
    @2022Coopersmom Жыл бұрын

    Mormon stories are long. I spent about 15 hours a week going to church and “amplifying my callings” so long stories do work for me!😊

  • @Leelz247
    @Leelz247 Жыл бұрын

    I love your funny videos, but this is the most important video I feel that you've made. I'm not Mormon, didn't grow up in a high demand religion, but still brought up to feel shame about sexuality. Its so pervasive and damaging.

  • @smilingjacks83

    @smilingjacks83

    Жыл бұрын

    Gentle hug ❤ from me to you if you would like one ❤

  • @janemclean7032
    @janemclean70329 ай бұрын

    Thanks for all you do to help others! I love your channel and think you’re just gorgeous❤

  • @zappa-happy
    @zappa-happy Жыл бұрын

    Sending Love & Support to ALL, from The UK!💙💙❤️❤️🌞🌞

  • @rockytreadway
    @rockytreadway Жыл бұрын

    Great episode!! 1:00:27 Door dash Carah is beautiful ❤ I'd love a second and third part to this series!

  • @bethknight4436
    @bethknight4436 Жыл бұрын

    Interestingly enough the World Council of Churches does not categorize the LDS church as Christian. It’s categorized as “Other”.

  • @Geoplanetjane

    @Geoplanetjane

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s because the LDS most definitely is NOT Christian

  • @bethknight4436

    @bethknight4436

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Geoplanetjane I think in order for a religion to be categorized as “Christian” it has to follow the Christian Bible. Jehovah’s Witnesses are not categorized as Christian, either

  • @kneesandtoes44

    @kneesandtoes44

    9 ай бұрын

    It's definitely under the Christianity umbrella and they used the psychology behind the oppression to model their own system with. Money power control- the true trinity

  • @gerber4054
    @gerber4054 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for promoting these incredible and heart wrenching stories. Love your perspective ❤️

  • @Blue-Mondays
    @Blue-Mondays9 ай бұрын

    Thank you Carrah for everything ❤

  • @TheMormonAtheist
    @TheMormonAtheist5 ай бұрын

    Love these podcasts.

  • @shannonigans_
    @shannonigans_ Жыл бұрын

    i hope you do more of these. Mattie Easton’s interview just broke me too

  • @lynnjohns4650

    @lynnjohns4650

    Жыл бұрын

    Love the comment Easton made- that he lives rent free in Holland’s head, for yrs. Spot on!! Q15 hypocrites, who pretend to teach love, know their words are dangerous & destructive! Shame on Q15 Mormon Cult CONs!

  • @totonow6955
    @totonow6955 Жыл бұрын

    Carah had the table flipping image 23:23. I know of another special story of needing to flip the table in anger.

  • @amazinmaven
    @amazinmaven Жыл бұрын

    Great clips! They really show the depth of harm

  • @keile513
    @keile513 Жыл бұрын

    I’m so grateful you’re here. 💞

  • @dsoule4902
    @dsoule490210 ай бұрын

    39min. A very sad thing "I didn't know I could say 'no'." 😪

  • @happix-mo4441
    @happix-mo44416 ай бұрын

    😂 I just noticed the "HAT," clever. Thank you for deconstructing with us. It helps to have a new tribe, I feel seen.

  • @apxsports5904
    @apxsports59044 ай бұрын

    As an evangelical Christian, your channel has been insightful... especially since I've recently met some young mormon missionary women. I feel bad as they told me how strict their schedule is, and how they are monitored everywhere they go, in every phone call and text message. To them this is normal. Most of the meetups are brief and involve reading the book of Mormon, and whenever I challenge them with questions the meeting ends and presumably they go off to speak with their president. It doesn't seem like there's a single second of their day that isn't controlled and scheduled. Feels so weird.

  • @evanmabry895
    @evanmabry895 Жыл бұрын

    My comment, for the sake of the algorithm. 😉 Lemme just say, your opening statement of how delving back into these episodes had gotten you a bit emotional or even agitated... pretty much, I went through a solid decade of feeling absolute rage toward the church any time I spent any amount of time thinking or talking about it. Feeling so discarded by a community that I had invested literally all my spiritual energy into for decades, feeling that I had remained true to my principles, but that my closest friends, and even my family had removed me from their world simply because I couldn't continue my spiritual journey within the confines of mormonism... I tried listening to Mormon Stories, but I was overwhelmed enough with my own story, and those of my friends and family. Not that I didn't relate, but because I related too much. I went on the offenive. My social media became a constant decrying of the fraud that is the mormon church. I was told "...leave it, but leave it alone!" etc. But I felt in my conscience that I had to speak out. My connections to the church were being severed one-by-one, but I continued to speak out, almost inviting their rejection of me as fuel to my raging fire of proof that the church was in the business of brainwashing and indoctrination. I was citing its own sources, and people still couldnt look at it. I took on the role of the outcast/pariah with a certain level of pride, because I was so resolved to speak the truths I had learned about church history... But, once my entire family was out (after 10+ years,) and I had reduced my list of friends to those who were able to hear my reasons, and still show me love and acceptance, I finally cooled my jets. I got my people out, and those who stayed made it clear to me that I was not one of 'their people.' I still feel that I had to denounce the church *at least* as much as I had previously praised it and held it up, before I could arrive at a place of peace. If I had remained indifferent, I would still be tryin to maintain relationships (people-pleasing) those who would have felt compelled to 'fellowship' me, hoping I would 'return to the fold...' My relationship with friends and family is stronger now than I ever imagined it could have been within the church. Thanks for speaking out in your own way!

  • @marilynadams349
    @marilynadams3494 ай бұрын

    Thank you very much

  • @MC-tw1jg
    @MC-tw1jg Жыл бұрын

    Great work, Carah! I know you won’t say it but I am dying to know what was going though your head when Haleigh did her Mormon story. She’s such an intense person - I am glad you and John gave her the space to tell her story how she wanted to tell it …but, boy howdy, a penny for your thoughts.

  • @CarahBurrell

    @CarahBurrell

    Жыл бұрын

    🥰🥰🥰

  • @M_elliote34
    @M_elliote348 ай бұрын

    I went through the exact same experience with my dad who is now passed away. You can’t truly understand what it’s like unless you experience sexual abuse yourself. I had to keep it a secret most my life , It nearly destroyed me, and it still affects me as a 34 year old adult in ways that you can’t imagine. It just sucks

  • @MonieeMorales
    @MonieeMorales Жыл бұрын

    Woooow, what a powerful video! So many powerful and deeply felt stories. 🤯 Explained perfectly how I grew up as a hispanic exmo! And how many of us have grown up in this horrible church. That just gave us traumas and fears. It makes me feel so heard and seen when other exmos talk about there stories. I guess I feel less crazy. 😂 We have gone through so much shit! Idk why ppl don't see how fucking hard this is. Because it sucks and it breaks you to your core! Shutting off emotions, fucks you up bad. These are the hard conversations, that some members are just not carrying for. They like to pretend like this doesn't happen inside the church. Or that it's a normal thing that happens and we just need to endure. Because life is not easy, and we knew that when we decided to follow Jesus's plan. So keep going and stop being too "emotional" about it. As I was told my entire life the church! Just try harder, it's because your are not trying hard enough. As a mom, I just couldn't let my babies grow up in this shit show! The shit show, that broke me and now I go to therapy for. My babies deserve to know that life is beautiful and not everything needs to be that hard and always double questions everything you do. Thank you for making us be seen and heard!

  • @meripwallace
    @meripwallace11 ай бұрын

    "Your shelf breaks" - I've figured out what that phrase means from context but where did it come from, I've never heard it talked about that way

  • @chlyri

    @chlyri

    8 ай бұрын

    if i remember correctly, it was a leader telling people to put their doubts and questions on a shelf to be ignored instead of seeking answers.

  • @merricat3025
    @merricat3025 Жыл бұрын

    His dad didnt marry the therapist. He was engaged to her but married some other woman pretty soon after his mom died. I remember because I found the whole thing so wrong.

  • @17...20
    @17...20 Жыл бұрын

    Ooo cool topic! Watching now 🥰

  • @markgoodman9689
    @markgoodman9689 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @CarahBurrell

    @CarahBurrell

    Жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @reneenolan3163
    @reneenolan3163 Жыл бұрын

    Nemo and some Britvengers are still members, working for change from within. I really wish the leadership would listen to the people they are not paying!

  • @erstwhile3793
    @erstwhile3793 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks!

  • @CarahBurrell

    @CarahBurrell

    Жыл бұрын

    🎉😘

  • @erinhuang1563
    @erinhuang15634 ай бұрын

    WHAT???? Isn’t it LEGALLY REQUIRED that Rachel’s therapist report her abuser to the authorities?

  • @user-es7ml1gb3k
    @user-es7ml1gb3k10 ай бұрын

    Literally lost my whole family for speaking up and seeking resolution instead of ignoring all the abuse in the family. Being the black sheep apostate is cool, but it has it’s difficulties for sure

  • @faborwick5887
    @faborwick5887 Жыл бұрын

    The mythvision podcast is a good tool for learning where the stories originated and really dissects the Bible making connections from ancient Greece and mythology to the translations from original papyrus and texts that put into perspective just how much it's merely a man created and even man orchestrated ideology. Educational lessons from archeologists and professors

  • @edbutzwiggle4227
    @edbutzwiggle4227 Жыл бұрын

    Remember… compassion only works one way, everybody is perfect, group people using wide brush strokes and value feelings over facts

  • @FrenZagrea
    @FrenZagrea Жыл бұрын

    I'm a jack mormon.. (grew up in it all my life). I wish I could share my story. My mother lost her mind to dementia last Feb as I battled cancer. It was horrible. Feel free to reach out. I'd love to speak with you.

  • @FrenZagrea

    @FrenZagrea

    Жыл бұрын

    I would like to add, my father beat us children most of his life, until we all left the roost. My mother was an adamant servant, Relief Society president for years. My brother tried to end himself on his mission. I wish I could break my silence about this nightmare I've lived.

  • @caseyjude5472
    @caseyjude5472 Жыл бұрын

    I liked it!

  • @emilyf.matthews5658
    @emilyf.matthews56586 ай бұрын

    I don’t know if anybody else has had this experience but I converted to Mormonism in 2011 late 2011. Needless to say it was very short-lived. They saw me out by name number one and I don’t have any ancestors that are Mormons. They told me I was special because of my blood type and that also I was prone to demon possession because of my blood type, and then I was also possessed by demons. They told me to cut contact with my biological family. etc. etc. etc. but I just didn’t know if anybody had the blood type story in their story if so I would like to know more about it. I’ve been curious about it for years but the last thing I would do is reach out to the missionaries or the church because of the constant berating and harassment that you get from them by reaching out thinking that you’re interested in coming back and what not but yeah, I needless to say I had a full-blown bout with psychosis for your afterwards because they pretty much made me think I was the antichrist. Talk about a total mindfuck.

  • @SantaRPG

    @SantaRPG

    2 ай бұрын

    May I ask what area of the world this was? Ive noticed churches are wildly different depending on the area

  • @marilynadams349
    @marilynadams3494 ай бұрын

    Here 8 months late : hard times in that girls whole life.

  • @chronicallyme2657
    @chronicallyme2657 Жыл бұрын

    Are there links to the interviews these clips are from.

  • @CarahBurrell

    @CarahBurrell

    Жыл бұрын

    Yup! In the description too. Survivor of Sexual Abuse and Mormon Church Cover-up - 1509 kzread.info/dash/bejne/eq2aqLKCnca3maQ.html A Bishop’s Family Questions Mormonism - Kelly and Kayla Mikesell - Mormon Stories 1438 kzread.info/dash/bejne/iqWp1cGelpngYpM.html A Mexican Mormon Story - Gerardo Pt. 2 - Mormon Stories 1440 kzread.info/dash/bejne/oo2Bt7quqLyyqaQ.html Native American Mormon Women and the Lamanite Myth - Mormon Stories 1456 kzread.info/dash/bejne/q4toxq2fn9aoqsY.html Growing Up Gay in a Mormon Military Family - Britton and Mason Laing Pt. 2 - Mormon Stories 1467 kzread.info/dash/bejne/Zpd7m8F9mM3FpNo.html Ep 1468: Recognizing Your Two Gay Sons Aren’t Broken in a Mormon Military Family - Laing Pt 3 kzread.info/dash/bejne/oZOKxbWvg8KuYMY.html

  • @marilynadams349
    @marilynadams3494 ай бұрын

    Thank you Herodo for cameras

  • @ChrisSmith-ci1lr
    @ChrisSmith-ci1lr5 ай бұрын

    💖💖💖

  • @vocalysemusicworks
    @vocalysemusicworks Жыл бұрын

    Rod Meldrum. That one was hard to swallow, and left a lot of puke in its wake.

  • @vocalysemusicworks

    @vocalysemusicworks

    Жыл бұрын

    Also, RE: your comments about your looks - Don't take this in a wrong way, but you are pretty. I have to say this cautiously because I don't want it to be misunderstood, like I'm trying to hit on you. I hate it when inappropriate comments are made here and elsewhere. Not my intent here, period.

  • @jordanjones9645
    @jordanjones96452 ай бұрын

    Background checks for youth leaders should be a minimum. My father was a pedophile that slipped through the cracks and was never reported by his victims. I had repressed memories and in my first year of college started to remember some of the worst things you could imagine. If you knew my dad you would have no way of knowing what he was capable of behind closed doors because he knew how to be charming and charismatic. I knew he was active and was holding some sort of calling(I wasn't talking to him anymore and had cut him out of my life by this point) I tried reporting it to the church and was told that unless he was convicted, there was nothing the church could do. I didn't want to pursue legal action because of the drama I had already caused in my family for coming forward about this to them, and I was completely unaware that there were other victims as well. My goal was to keep him out of specific types of callings. The church did absolutely nothing. Fast forward a few years later and he has passed away in a sudden motorcycle accident. I found a journal of his in his belongings where I realize he made his way into the bishopric and he was taking notes on peoples confessions. This fact will always haunt me. So background checks....yes absolutely, but more importantly the church needs to not ignore people that come out as victims and actually look into these stories or even maybe report them to the police. There were mountains of evidence in my dads belongings after he passed away. He was 1 search warrant away from going away for a long time

  • @Green-Fairy
    @Green-Fairy11 ай бұрын

    ❤️

  • @lenbones7940
    @lenbones7940 Жыл бұрын

    u should Holla at Jimmy and the line they could use a female ex Mormon once Inna while...plus it's a good way to grow ur audience thru ur target demo

  • @ryant1064

    @ryant1064

    Жыл бұрын

    I second this!

  • @peggygarcia6125
    @peggygarcia61254 ай бұрын

    Confession to a bishop for a female sounds like getting an obscene phone call in person. Very creepy.

  • @sethkinle2254
    @sethkinle2254 Жыл бұрын

    Dude. You should read Bare Faced Messiah by Russell Miller

  • @generobbins8714
    @generobbins8714 Жыл бұрын

    1:53:41 what concrete reasons of the mills ions make Mormonism not true?

  • @moorishking1492
    @moorishking14926 ай бұрын

    i have mormon missionaries trying to convert me. lol

  • @zacharyscruz
    @zacharyscruz Жыл бұрын

    GET IT GIRL, ❤u

  • @russellsellers1409
    @russellsellers140911 ай бұрын

    In my wildest dreams as an ex mormon for Jesus of the 80's could i have imagined the incredible bravery, and truly God given talent used to expose the under belly of an organization that presents itself in such a proponent of family...i was ex-communicated for speaking Truth, believe it or not...my family, specifically my bro who served a two yr mission, had his life, and that of his family utterly crushed to pieces by the supposed leadership of the church who created a wedge of seperation, and favoritism between my bro, and his wife...my bro had no great issues worthy of the treatment he was given... Their is no doubt in my mind, once you get passed the white washed surface, their are wicked spiritual forces that function to deceive, confuse, and divide those who seek truth, and freedom from the cult that is mormonism...

  • @dsoule4902
    @dsoule490210 ай бұрын

    26:25 it's not what went on "between Rachel and her dad".... it's what the evil POS did to her.

  • @mistichristensen7088
    @mistichristensen7088 Жыл бұрын

    I want to throw my arms around the 2 brothers. I am such an LGBTQ 🏳️‍🌈 ally.

  • @WeldonDearing-gk7mw
    @WeldonDearing-gk7mw Жыл бұрын

    How are you today

  • @lenbones7940
    @lenbones7940 Жыл бұрын

    nothing about the book of Mormon is ancient lol i remember being 5 or 6 and asking if me and my sister ever got baptized and finding out my parents have never gone to or been a part of any church actually made me so proud... i always looked at all scripture as fairy tales and knowing i was technically the second generation of people that never played there little gsme just felt good deep down.. i dont think parents think about how there beliefs can make there children unable to respect them... i know if my parents believed the garbage written in all scriptures i would pity them... and also know they lack the intelligence nessasary for critical thinking.. that would really suck

  • @francinesanchez5402

    @francinesanchez5402

    Жыл бұрын

    This isn’t a very kind comment.

  • @kneesandtoes44

    @kneesandtoes44

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@francinesanchez5402the truth isn't always kind

  • @RoughStoneRollingLapidary
    @RoughStoneRollingLapidary6 ай бұрын

    Would it not be possible to just have it be part of the calling to go through some just basic training for counseling and then be held to abide by the 3 exceptions. -signs of hurting yourself, others, child abuse and elder abuse. I think i got them all. You hear that when you speak to ANYONE that deals with people on the smallest level. Mandated Reporter! I couldn’t think of that term.

  • @elizabethdavis8594
    @elizabethdavis85949 ай бұрын

    Really we all have our own reasons to leave the church. I don't see why we have to explain them to others especially to the outside world. There could be many personal or historical or whatever reasons. It's up to us if we want to bring it out.

  • @faith.reason
    @faith.reason Жыл бұрын

    I hope you don't take this as disrespect, but since you mentioned being open-minded, I would like to ask if you could consider looking into the truth claims of the Roman Catholic and Orthodox faiths. I understand that they have their own issues, particularly regarding s****** abuses, but I personally find their history and teachings compelling, especially those of the Roman Catholic Church. I'm still a Mormon, although I no longer consider myself a believer. I'm in the process of finding the one true church of the Bible so early church history and patristic writings are very helpful. I would like to express my thanks to all ex-Mormon creators for their contributions to my deconversion process. And Carah, I want to thank you for giving us a good laugh with your creativity and humor in your KZread shorts. I find your short videos extremely entertaining. May God bless you and your family!

  • @freudianslip000

    @freudianslip000

    Жыл бұрын

    I would very seriously caution you against investing your belief/support in any organization that causes such incredible damage, and has for literal centuries. I don't think both, "I know they've hurt a lot of people, especially children, and that they continue to actively cover that up and enable further harm" and "I think they are the legitimate arbitrators of divine and immortal truth on Earth" can both apply to the same entities, you know? It's so easy to get pulled from one false, corrupt belief system into another. Please take care, and allow yourself the space to heal and learn as much as possible about any potential new belief system you may be interested in.

  • @sammygphotography

    @sammygphotography

    Жыл бұрын

    Remember that the Bible has been translated by man and every religion. I'm not saying the stories are not true, but you can't believe everything (such as a true church). Religion causes separation and hate. Christ does not want this. We are all one in this world. Go within. You are God. Love is everything. You are on an awaking journey, and I hope you find the truth within yourself.

  • @kneesandtoes44

    @kneesandtoes44

    9 ай бұрын

    When I went through deconstruction- I came to realize that whatever is it that's out there is bigger than we're intended to understand. We have a connection to something much larger than we are that helps guide and create. I don't think it can be found in any book- but there are some pretty horrible people who decided to use whatever that amazing thing is- to control, oppress, gain power and the means to satiate their greed. The entire construct is pretty awful. The point is- you don't have to lean into anything. You can learn to trust yourself, open your mind, and find your own way free from shame and guilt. It's incredibly liberating once your eyes are truly open

  • @titabutoauru-qm7ev
    @titabutoauru-qm7ev Жыл бұрын

    You have to listern to david alexandrite and cuold know everything

  • @dayceem
    @dayceem Жыл бұрын

    Ahhhh. So it's Mormonism to 'Mournmonism'. Nice.

  • @bryceburgart8544
    @bryceburgart8544 Жыл бұрын

    I didn’t want to click like because there were 666 likes. How cool is that. But wait… we’re not here for Satan. Alas, your likes are no longer a Satanist number of the beast. It is now 667!! I see a problem. I fix it.

  • @dsoule4902
    @dsoule490210 ай бұрын

    26:50 not "what had happened". It's what that creep DID to Rachel. The language we use has meaning.... Rachel did nothing here... her "father" assaulted her.

  • @debolsen3294
    @debolsen3294 Жыл бұрын

    He should have been in jail who cares about his blasted job!

  • @titabutoauru-qm7ev
    @titabutoauru-qm7ev Жыл бұрын

    Very very sorry for this you are not afrai

  • @Palindrome78
    @Palindrome78 Жыл бұрын

    Have you ever watched Latter Days? It is a movie about LDS and a young gay man amd it sounds eerily similar to some of the content in this video. And the fact hateful, ignorant people think anyone would "choose" to be so hated shows how truly stupid bigots are. If it was a choice, people would not struggle with it or be suicidal... Religion causes more death and the religious commit, and coverup, more sexual abuse/rape of children than any other groups. I was raised Catholic and we all know that priests have a history of child rape/sexual abuse (and sexual assaults against nuns) but, as channels like yours show, it is not just Catholic priests who prey on the young. This is why religious organizations blame the LGBTQ+ community. We should chalenge all religions to prove the queer community are the predators, with irrefutable evidence, and compare it to the number of reports against priests, bishops, and other "men of the cloth." There are about 33 states that have laws that religious organizations do NOT have to report suspected child abuse...says a lot about who the actual pedophiles are and explains why the religious target others, accusing them of the actions they, themselves, are actually doing. Bigots also are saying their god is wrong... according to their myth, we are all "God's children" so they are saying 'he" is wrong for making diverse people. Rumor is "he" also gave us free will so, if it WAS a choice, the "religious" are saying "he" is wrong for giving us the freedom to live the lives that are right for us. The bigoted right seems more blasphemous than "christian."

  • @libertycan6959
    @libertycan695910 ай бұрын

    Controlled opposition

  • @marilynadams349
    @marilynadams3494 ай бұрын

    This all very sad

  • @user-gt9tv9ie4b
    @user-gt9tv9ie4b4 ай бұрын

    The mantle of authority unearned perfect definition people need proper training and education not the will of God.

  • @moorishking1492
    @moorishking14926 ай бұрын

    they are so brain washed

  • @agnesrobakiewicz5639
    @agnesrobakiewicz56396 ай бұрын

    You were a WOMAN in the Mormon church. The last thing you need to do is list off all the ways that you are "privileged". This is what some people mean when they point out that people have gone too far in the other direction of the Left/Right divide, "so open minded that their brain fell out"

  • @sweetsanddandy8639

    @sweetsanddandy8639

    2 ай бұрын

    She is white and heterosexual. She hasn't experienced discrimination for her race and/or orientation-and that is a privilege.

  • @PrincessOPD_Utah
    @PrincessOPD_Utah Жыл бұрын

    meow😸

  • @jonathanwobesky9507
    @jonathanwobesky9507 Жыл бұрын

    the word is Important. not Impor-ent. other wise carry on carry on...BRAVO!

  • @freudianslip000

    @freudianslip000

    Жыл бұрын

    I think it's so interesting to hear different people's dialects and pronunciations of the same words. American English in particular, with all its variations in accent, slang, etc., is fascinating.

  • @margaretworley1116

    @margaretworley1116

    Жыл бұрын

    My dude, go outside, feel some sunshine. No need to criticize her at all. Did it really make that big of a negative impact on your content consumption?

  • @jonathanwobesky9507

    @jonathanwobesky9507

    Жыл бұрын

    @@margaretworley1116 I appreciate what you are saying but right now the dew point is 71 (miserable) while it's 90 deg and the sun is orange with haze. It's not really sun Shine.

  • @margaretworley1116

    @margaretworley1116

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jonathanwobesky9507 That is fair. It is probably prudent to not be broiled alive.

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