If I could give my 25 year old self advice it would be to stop being a doormat and start standing up for myself. Stop people pleasing and be assertive. I just turned 40 and I’m learning how to do these things now. ❤

@garyspencer1141

Жыл бұрын

Hello🥺

@chrisevans9688

Жыл бұрын

Chris Evans best day now that you can do that little one is good news people can do the morning the guy you can be back like that so now you feel like you can do that now from my best good luck with the best news

@Kryptdegen

11 ай бұрын

The 6 pillars of self esteem talks about self assertiveness

@lischa

2 ай бұрын

Never is to late for being the best version of yourself keeping focus on your goals and you will be able to nailed

@user-tb2zn1re9s

Ай бұрын

I stopped being a doormat at 19. I am 25 now.

I’m a grown man struggling with self doubt and this was still helpful.

@rosaj4970

Жыл бұрын

U got this bro 💪

@l_r8671

Жыл бұрын

Good for you. Big mike always got your back

@fluffles9591

Жыл бұрын

Grow a pair or put on $10 thousand dollar jewelry like she did lol

@Ruth72166

Жыл бұрын

Well you have alot in common with mike!

@joanekaur3071

Жыл бұрын

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"You knew who you were when you were in high school. And you let go of some of that for lots of reasons. People. College. Situations. People around you. And once you relearn to re-be the girl you were in high school you will grow into the full woman you will be." This. I needed to hear this. I'm going to keep coming back to it every time I need motivation. Also, "We all knew who we were when we were little. We knew our power then. It was just second-guessed. Follow that instinct. Pay attention to that flame in you. Because it is REAL. Keep it fueled. And don't let anyone try to blow it out because you're going to need that." Thank you. 🌸

@kharakessler1390

Жыл бұрын

Thank you because i was already burned out in high school. Its when i was 4 or 5 that i knew who i was. That time is hard to remember, but dammit i wasnt (and am not) afraid of doing whatever i wanted to do. I wasnt afraid. I wasnt AFRAID period. I was bright, loud, didnt need anybody, and wasnt afraid to be on my own.

@dare2live981

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for writing Down this 🙏

@vickvinegar6720

Жыл бұрын

why are you listening to this mans advice for girls?

@scheenafarmer3979

Жыл бұрын

It doesn't take a life time to turn it around or come in to a lovable person who respects the way you live in the world.

@melodyal3357

Жыл бұрын

Omg exactly these lines hit hard, same here. Such a powerful and truthful words. Thank you for this! I really needed to heart it. Thank you.🍀🙏

It’s nice to hear things like this every once in a while, especially as a 25 year old woman. We put so much pressure on ourselves, but it’s important to look back and see just how far we’ve come

@garyspencer1141

Жыл бұрын

Hello🥺

@MsSavannahBull

Жыл бұрын

Also, it helps the future! A peaceful place for our children! ☺️

@lw1zfog

6 ай бұрын

the patriarchy will put you right everytime, even if it has to wear a dress to do so 😂

@marrelmetaffe-rb9zt

Ай бұрын

Really true. I agree your idea🎉

I’m a full grown person and I could watch this over and over again 😭 thank you, amazing women, for being open with your self-doubt

@evgeniam685

Жыл бұрын

But she talks about outside world. When self doubt is your inner world. It's like treating disease with painkiller. We need to figure out what's behind that self doubt, mostly it's fear. Because everything in our life based on either the fear or love. Fear is ego, love is heart. Once you ask yourself why am I fearing and break it down point by point you will realise this is just your own mind games. Illusion that comes from ego. Because heart loves and accepts everything. We are wonderful as we are from the birth, because God (Source) created us like that. But system that was created by elites ( including her) in our world wants to keep humanity in control, because when you constantly reminded of self doubt and fear, you gonna think about it. Whatever your attention goes, energy flows.

@hollynamjoon1083

Жыл бұрын

She is an amazing woman.

@l_r8671

Жыл бұрын

@@hollynamjoon1083 man*

@Curious.JenJen

Жыл бұрын

@@l_r8671 thank you😂 somebody said it

@Curious.JenJen

Жыл бұрын

@@evgeniam685 she can't relate becuz she's never been a young girl

If I could give my 25yr old self advice? I’d tell her to do it all for YOU, and not for someone else.

@myman8336

Жыл бұрын

That's a Popular lifestyle for most young people that always seems to lead to major regrets and depression in their 30s.. A better one is to Choose better friends.. You can try to help people but never let them drag you down along with them..

@mayohsetsuna

Жыл бұрын

@@myman8336 I hear what you are saying, but I’m tailoring the advice to me specifically. A few times in my life I made decisions in order to not hurt others, but it hurt myself instead. As for your words! Haha yup, we are the company we keep. 🙃

Michelle Obama is certainly passing the light on to the women and girls in the world. It's her virtue and compassion that radiates and has a lasting effect. So much love and best wishes to her and her family. Thank you for being so open and true.

@luminatrixfanfiction

Жыл бұрын

Don't take advice from a trans man. He has no idea what it's like being a woman. His name is Michael and he fooled the world along with Obama.

@PanAfricanist

Жыл бұрын

Passing light while making money

@joeshmoe7317

Жыл бұрын

She is a he.

@PanAfricanist

Жыл бұрын

@@joeshmoe7317 FU....you wish you could get what is between her legs

@gunitkjkp470

Жыл бұрын

Passing light and making millions!

I needed to hear all of this so bad. We are so much more powerful than we realize and our intuition keeps us safe and empowered.

@garyspencer1141

Жыл бұрын

Hello🥺

I am a 42-year old man battling with self-doubt - and I just gave a good lecture at my country's leading university.

@gobbluth6617

Жыл бұрын

Sorry, only women can go through self doubt. And we don't even know what women are

@Grappapappa

Жыл бұрын

@@gobbluth6617 Yes, I apologize from the bottom of my heart!!!! I should realized my priviledge! I am really sorry about hurt I have caused. I just want love for everyone!!!

@2morrow789

Жыл бұрын

It’s not just young girls that battle self doubt, older women do too.

@thehatefull1761

Жыл бұрын

@@Grappapappa nice cok bro

@deebee4575

Жыл бұрын

@@2morrow789 nobody cares.

I believe that there are no coincidences in life. This video wasn't one either. Michelle and Melinda's words really struck a chord with me as a soon to be 24 year old. I'm realizing how much I gave up because of self-doubt and selfish people around me, who merely looked at me as a tool to fulfill their needs and wants first, without me having the proper chance or ability to recognize my own, in the midst of emotional blackmail and over-scrutinization and judgements of my actions. I now realize, I am free and I am worthy. Alhamdulilah.

@madebyjoliene8070

Жыл бұрын

This is the one… thank you for this. May your life journey be full of blissful joy and happiness. May all your wants be fulfilled!

@komalafzal8004

Жыл бұрын

@@madebyjoliene8070 Thank you for the lovely wish, I wish you the same and more! ❤️

@komalar4622

Жыл бұрын

I relate to you 🤗

@Ruth72166

Жыл бұрын

Mike and Mel. Both have penises sorry but tall need to wake up NOW! BAPHOMITS

@mberryfr

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for posting. Just know you are not alone. I have come to experience a similar situation, and by what I have been seeing, this has been happening to many others. The important part is that you speak up and do not let it unnoticed.. Also, once you find people who believe in you, you should not let go of them and invest in them.

I am 33 year olds this year, I am still struggling with my self-doubt event situation but this speech has inspired me a lot. Thank you

Seeing our own Wanjiru Wahome 🇰🇪 share the platform with these powerful women wow we are so proud of her

@trezanjeri3810

Жыл бұрын

🇰🇪 🇰🇪 🇰🇪

@faithjepkurui8219

Жыл бұрын

🇰🇪🇰🇪🔥

“There is power in what we do everyday” - that is profound to me 💕

@TheRusselmuscle

Жыл бұрын

Doesn't make sense though. A trany telling girls how to be? WTF? Go back to Man's Country bath house Michael.

@January.

Жыл бұрын

*every day

@maisiemurdock8607

Жыл бұрын

@@January. love mrsobama

@bngr_bngr

Жыл бұрын

Her husband was President.

@donothingMTIAMG

Жыл бұрын

@@bngr_bngr Half black President Obama? Really? 😳

I don't know anyone who hasn't been a victim of self-doubt. Even those who grew up in supportive and encouraging environments can fall prey to self-doubt because with the encouragement and acknowledgment, comes the tacit (and sometimes overt) high expectation from your environment. And when you're constantly being depended on and viewed as responsible, capable, or whatever other positive labels were given to you, the self-doubt comes from the feeling of being able to live up to those expectations.

@lovejt4494

Жыл бұрын

So true💕

@nocando89

Жыл бұрын

Hit the nail on the head.

She is the woman I always look upto in my life. ❣️

@aleablue

Жыл бұрын

Same!

@shreel8880

Жыл бұрын

If only she were a woman, for starters 🙄

@electricred91

Жыл бұрын

Yes 🤎

@marcuselvard5922

17 күн бұрын

I love him for that. This woman always had class in everything she did. Nobody comes close to it. She's a goddess. Every real man who wants to achieve great things in life needs such a woman by his side. May God continue to bless her.

@1.5s709

5 күн бұрын

Thats not a woman thats big mike

I'm going to listen to this every day. When Melinda and Michelle said you knew who you were you knew your power and it was second-guessed, I felt that. I was the third highest-ranking student in my class and always met with crude remarks like why do you study so much are you working on a PhD along the way I internalized it. Now it's time for me to step in my full power and potential for me, the woman of the future generations and the one that has gone before making sacrifices and paving the way for us.

The positivity and encouragement is always felt genuinely by her. A real woman that inspires and lead by example! 💙

@shreel8880

Жыл бұрын

If only she were a woman, for starters 🙄

@shelitarowe1532

Жыл бұрын

@@shreel8880 I don't do the negative hating on my posts I need you to catch the nearest train to hatersville.

@shreel8880

Жыл бұрын

@@shelitarowe1532 Someone who pretends to be what he or she is not, isn't the least bit inspiring! It's pitiable that one hides one's identity for public consumption whilst living a double life. No hate meant, it's the plain Truth

@mansisrivastava4886

10 ай бұрын

@@shreel8880 yeah how close are you to know her 'real' personality? Might as well take her words real or fake and get a job than hating people who are already successful and now contributing to lifting others

@shreel8880

10 ай бұрын

@@mansisrivastava4886 'Success' ,' lifting others' can be ascribed to one who upholds morals, principles and ethics. Here's just one of the examples of her(or his)evil intentions- “Amy, an 11-year-old girl, joins a group of dancers named “the cuties” at school, and rapidly grows aware of her burgeoning femininity - upsetting her mother and her values in the process.” This is an overview of the show on Netflix called 'Cuties' promoted by her(or him). Nobody in their right mind would've promoted child porn

How does Amal end up stuck in the last round of q's, and still answer in such a way she comes out on top on the issues? I'm impressed every time I hear her speak.

"In order to break the cycles of negativity, you got to get up every day and do the work right before you." Thank you for this wisdom Michelle O'Bama. Women's work is often denigrated, even if it is what is holding things together at a deep and subtle level. Here is an excerpt from the writings of Marshall Vian Summers about work and the value of it, not whether it is considered great or small by the world. "My mission is great. Therefore, I am free to do small things. It is only your grandiose ideas, which are a cover for fear, anxiety and despair, that you would avoid the small things that are required for you to do in the world. Again, do not confuse the greatness of your mission with the smallness of your duties. Greatness expresses itself in the smallest thing, in the tiniest action, in the most fleeting thought, in the simplest gesture and in the most mundane circumstances... Therefore, be content doing small things in the world. Be simple and humble in the world so that greatness may flow through you without obstruction." (MVS, Steps to Knowledge)

@johnchapman5125

Жыл бұрын

Thanks!

@reejamaryjaison99vev

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much

@melissafung8446

Ай бұрын

i too am grateful to have read this ~

Every woman on this panel is just absolutely incredible. Real life superheroes ❤️

@ioidt

Жыл бұрын

Most woman are unsang superheroes!

@bobsilver3983

5 ай бұрын

every woman?

This is so inspiring for a new mama, not just young girls. You are enough and you are the best mama for your kids.

This is such a wonderful discussion. Is there a link to the full interview?

She is amazing, she broke down the simple truth!

As someone who's been struggling with this a lot in my middle 20s now too and especially as life changing decisions come up, it's also the idea that to be taken seriously, I need to hide my Feminine side and be always in the masculine/aggressive energy because of authority or male figures that have been invasive, aggressive and/or disrespectful and I have had to constantly be on alert or defend myself, because those I come across often take advantage of my more gentle side so I'm always on defense mode... like, you can not be taken seriously unless you look or act more masculine or be extra serious. Ms. Michelle's words have helped me through very dark, difficult periods and thoughts of self-doubt, seclusion, feeling misunderstood. In addition to that, Ms. Michelle herself is an inspiration and showcasing how those in important positions are human, too and have self-doubts which are, as she says pushed onto us by society on purpose.

@suzieeheng4666

Жыл бұрын

Embrace femininity 💜

@LinYouToo

Жыл бұрын

Same here. I grew up and worked in a very male-dominated industry, and felt like I had to lose my feminine side to fit in and be taken seriously. I’ll be 60 in February. Oh, how I wish I had done things differently through the years. But it’s never too late to become the women we were always meant to be. Wishing you the best.

@themysticwarriorgal9465

11 ай бұрын

What is ur feminine side how do u define it

I can relate this too as a guy who's always been shy and grew up in a socially inept environment

@georgehenry76

Жыл бұрын

Find yourself a man who’s gonna be president one day, like Michelle did. It’s really easy.

@Featherless1

Жыл бұрын

"Everybody knows she's a man" RIP Joan Rivers

@gobbluth6617

Жыл бұрын

Sorry, only women can through it. Whatever a woman is

@lrrrruleroftheplanetomicro6881

Жыл бұрын

As a white man without a shred power, I promise that I will not keep you down at all.

@lrrrruleroftheplanetomicro6881

Жыл бұрын

@@gobbluth6617 Honey, first we have to what a sentence is.

All of these women are amazing. WE are amazing women. It is only us who sabotage ourselves sometimes. Great interview. Love from Spain 💕🌷

@al2954

Жыл бұрын

Michelle was once a Michael you know right?

@Prof.SeverusSnape

Ай бұрын

​@al2954 and you are viewed as a disappointment in your community, you know that?

Define failure as not trying! That's 🔥. Thank you

Much needed... Such an amazing woman ✨ so inspiring she is. Wish I have someone in my life to motivate me & tell me it's okay to have flaws & believe in me.

@shreel8880

Жыл бұрын

If only she were a woman, for starters 🙄

Amal Clooney is amazing. All of these wonderful women are influencing an entire generation! I hope young girls listen carefully to identify talents of what they can do

@michelleobama3007

Жыл бұрын

Congratulations!!!!! This is to informed you that >>>>Michelle obama

@aheroforhire9550

Жыл бұрын

God I hope not.

@jolenek283

Жыл бұрын

There’s no such thing as women

@ioidt

Жыл бұрын

One of these women sat up there because of her husband's political position. That teaches girl to find the right man to marry, and the world will admire them.

Thank you....to everyone whose effort made this video and this conversation happen.

@mommybreakdown

Жыл бұрын

Agreed. Such a powerful, necessary conversation ❤

@thehatefull1761

Жыл бұрын

@@mommybreakdown victim hood at its finest

@nedsantos1415

Жыл бұрын

@@thehatefull1761 Would you be able to live without hate? I doubt that.

these are the women that should influence young girls and young women's lives, not those "influenshers" and "tiktokers" of those are even job descriptions

@shreel8880

Жыл бұрын

If only she were a woman, for starters 🙄

Wow... I love this!!! I needed this. I respect this so much. "Not trying at all is the real failure" Amal

Michelle thankyou for your insight 👍

This is such powerful message from Michelle Obama. Grateful for the reinforcement on “there is power in what we do everyday”, “I am worthy”, “I have value”! Yes, the process takes a lifetime.

@Cornpop-was-an-orange-dude103

Жыл бұрын

I like how she has a penis and talks about women empowerment while asking herself, what is a women's sport?

I’d say to my 25 year old self that “the future ahead is beautiful and you didn’t need to worry a second.” I came to the United States as an international student but I am now living the American Dream. I created this channel to inspire and share tips with others who are aspiring to be on or struggling on a similar path.

Just what i needed to hear from Michelle. I needed it rn. Also that line from Melinda to her 25 year old self, indeed. Iv been in the process of realising it. Thanks for this ❤

@masonwilliamsmw6068

Жыл бұрын

Hello 👋👋👋👋

Small steps everyday will lead to one big leap one day. Just believe in what you do and you will get there.

I needed this today. I probably need it every day,

@michelleobama3007

Жыл бұрын

Congratulations!!!!! This is to informed you that >>>>Michelle obama

Wow 👏 Michelle's message is just wow

Woah I'm in awe with how the way Mrs. Michelle Obama explained it with such a well spoken words

@Ruth72166

Жыл бұрын

Mr. She is a man. Wake up!!!

Every person has self-doubt and insecurities. Whether you are male or female. The trick is, how do you use that to either inspire you or subdue you..

@8675-__

Жыл бұрын

Exactly!

@thehatefull1761

Жыл бұрын

I got a phat cok when I'm down I look at my phat cok and feel better

@yangene

Ай бұрын

will we be miserable and die unhappy if we do things that diverge from the so considered 'original' path

Great interview amazing work all of these women do. How inspiring thankyou❤🤗👍

This came up at the very moment I needed to hear it - amazing!

I love your story it's something I can sit down and listen and read over and over....I love your honesty ❤️❤️❤️

Thanks for helping lift us and each other up ladies. 💪💪😊

There’s power in what we do everyday 👏🏽

@masonwilliamsmw6068

Жыл бұрын

Hello 👋👋👋👋

I've just never heard her speak negative of anyone, that's an appreciated woman. I'm never afraid she'll say something that'll purposely hurt another woman's feeling. I know noone is perfect, everyone rants and raves, but through her offsprings you can tell what type of person she really is!

Self-doubt is real in executing dreams and dampens our spirits when intensified by other people's opinions. Thank you, all great ladies, for wonderful insights and lessons learnt.

what a panel !! Some of my fav women reunited together 🙏🏻

@January.

Жыл бұрын

*women

@mattie22011

Жыл бұрын

We should purge the hogs feed them to the starving kids in Ethiopia

@jetmirmetaliaj8521

Жыл бұрын

Big Mike

@camillac.s.279

Жыл бұрын

@@January. tks 👍🏻!

@darlenejackson8679

Жыл бұрын

@@jetmirmetaliaj8521 you can’t relate… this is for those who are educated

Each one of these women not only talk the talk but they walk the walk. God bless each of them. 🙏

@donothingMTIAMG

Жыл бұрын

🤭 uh huh.

@fakewarfakewar

Жыл бұрын

You do realize it's a dude? His name is Big Mike. He has a sausage in his pants, it's been proven 100 times.

@thehatefull1761

Жыл бұрын

What did they do

@genabrianna7267

Жыл бұрын

@@thehatefull1761 research

@thehatefull1761

Жыл бұрын

@@genabrianna7267 you do it

Wowwwwww that was such a great answer! I believe I knew who I was in high school and shape shifted but I’m finding myself come back to that person. Wow this is excellent! Thank you lovely ladies ❤

Wow wow wow!!! Thank you ladies one and all! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼

What an intelligent and graceful woman. I believe everyone battles self-doubt with the exclusion of narcissists. I do every single day but I have to hide it.

@DumbAssSpeakingWithMansVoice

Жыл бұрын

You are a very weak man to share such thoughts and to take advice from Big Mike.

@titteryenot4524

Жыл бұрын

@@DumbAssSpeakingWithMansVoice Triggered, much?🤓

@DumbAssSpeakingWithMansVoice

Жыл бұрын

@@titteryenot4524 Just keeping it real.

@dhruvakumar7187

Жыл бұрын

​@@DumbAssSpeakingWithMansVoice you're among the few men who have reached the level of cowardice no man has ever imagined of, attacking women on the internet!. If you're offended by the fact that she looks more manly, there is something wrong with your manliness maybe you should get checked and change your gender, that might sought things in your life

@chibi_rabbit

Жыл бұрын

@@DumbAssSpeakingWithMansVoice he's most likely gay. What do you expect? Lol

I love Sara. I met her and got a picture with her when she was in Seattle. What a great panel and very inspiring. :)

Knowledge is key… I so agree with that!

So powerful. Thank you, ladies

@donothingMTIAMG

Жыл бұрын

Victimhood unite! 🤣

Michele is spot on

@DumbAssSpeakingWithMansVoice

Жыл бұрын

You mean Big Mike.

@b.t.2795

Жыл бұрын

@@DumbAssSpeakingWithMansVoice Still uncertain about your sexuality grandma? No "ganging out" at Dairy Queen tonight?

@zhaowei3025

Жыл бұрын

Or join Barrack and Clinton on Epstein island

@damienhaydon2703

Жыл бұрын

Don't you mean Michael Levon Robinson?

@donothingMTIAMG

Жыл бұрын

@@b.t.2795 👈grandma goon bot. 🙄

Where can I see the full talk? So inspiring.

This is so powerful. Thank you, Michelle, and the other women, for standing up for something that is bigger than all of us.

@masonwilliamsmw6068

Жыл бұрын

Hello 👋👋👋👋

Great advice!! ❤❤

Thank you for the wonderful message. That inspires me to keep going and just believe in myself.

@masonwilliamsmw6068

Жыл бұрын

Hello 👋👋👋👋

Awesome!! Thanks Ladies!!

Wow! These women on this stage are amazing. They can literally afford to drop all this and go shoe shopping, but they choose this work 👏

✊✊🙌 Keep up the good work ladies!!!👏👏👏👏 Hi First Lady🖐️ Looking absolutely gorgeous as always! A.Cloony!! What can l say!! The world owes you sooo much for fighting for the defenceless,poor and trapped!!!💯💖 God richly bless you all for your genuine concern for OTHERS!!!!!!!

@615GuitarSlinger

Жыл бұрын

You do realize that she's a man don't ya

We all battle self doubt. We look in the mirror and we look at the proportions of our body. Battling a self doubt it’s a part of growing up.

@thehatefull1761

Жыл бұрын

I look in the mirror at my phat cok and feel great

Unreal! That bit about we knew who we were when we were kids is sooooooo true...it was surreal to hear this here, cause this is exactly what i have been repeating for last few weeks

An actual role model. ❤I have no idea what the last 2 first ladies even contributed to society while she's still giving back.

Thank you Amal for raising Iran women's current issue and situation. Pls keep helping all women as you have been so far

@liberalshaveitallbackwards4667

Жыл бұрын

What is a woman?

Love Michelle Obama!!! 💕💕

@darlenejackson8679

Жыл бұрын

@Gill Munchen absolutely ❤her

@Alwaysgrim

Жыл бұрын

@Gill Munchenyou prove republicans are the party of Hate please continue commenting 🙂

@Featherless1

Жыл бұрын

Ok BOT!

@jim007

Жыл бұрын

@@phantomoftheoprah5773 Is that your mom's nickname " Big Mike?"

@jim007

Жыл бұрын

@@phantomoftheoprah5773 are you jealous because you Don't have broad shoulders? 😂 😂. Get to the gym, and work out something other than your mouth. 😆 😂

My mom was the Vice President of her company… one day I called her crying and I asked “do you ever feel like a little fish in a big pond…” or something like that… and she said “Tiff.. everyday!” So, I KNOW I can do this. I sing to myself “just keep swimming, just keep swimming, just keep swimming swimming… what do we do? We swim! Swim!” It helps.. I have these dreams that just seem so far beyond me… but I came this far from sleeping outside with nothing and people just dogging me! I know I’m one of God’s favorites! I gotta be! I should be dead right with the things I have been through! I’m supposed to be dead.. And now.. I’m going to school for Aerospace. Don’t give up…

@ioidt

Жыл бұрын

how large was her company? how many employees does her company had?

@MamiTT237

Жыл бұрын

@@ioidt I don’t know, I know it was a well known insurance company… this was so long ago I can’t remember. She doesn’t work anymore now, she got sick and now she lives with me

Amal's answer (about self doubt) is such a non-answer lol. Especially right after Michelle's beautiful, authentic and very uplifting advice

@RapidObsessor

Жыл бұрын

I mean I think it's hard to follow something like that especially when Michelle's answer was so complete.

@emmarose9466

Жыл бұрын

I agree! Not relatable! I don't mind the mum talk but it's much cooler when a speaker take a look at the audience and try to connect w them versus going with the just me/selfish type of answer.

@everythingpal

Жыл бұрын

Yes it's a downer

@choux7746

Жыл бұрын

It also makes sense. A lot of people like to shoulder everything or afraid to talk about their doubts and fears. Aftaid of being judged or showing weakness. So it is also important to surround yourself with that positivity and yes people who are there for you in times when you're in a dark space that you can’t even convince yourself because self love is limiting. I grew up not having a lot of confidence and all my self esteem was crushed by my very own mother. After moving and living with people who reassure me I started to gain the strength and confidence to see that my mothers does not define me. And that’s when I started to learn how to look at myself. So yes it is also important to seek support when you need it. Yes education is important so that you are confident for example in your career but if you have self doubt because people envy you and talk badly about you or feel isolated. That's when we always need to reinforce our mindset and surround ourselves in positivity wherever that maybe. People can still crush your spirit no matter who you are and even if you accomplished a lot. So it's important also to see yourself for you and not just based on how much money you have, education, or superficial things like beauty etc. That’s also how we can get the ahead of ourselves whether if we think we lack or we are better than others.

Anyone can have self doubt. But historically, women, who were always viewed by society in a secondary role have additional challenges that make it a daily practice to nurture awareness, self care and self love to offset the slings and arrows of the outside world. It is required to carve out that time at the end of the day. It is a practice. ✨🌞✨

@thatdude4571

Жыл бұрын

Every one is a Victim, we care for people based on Victimhood now I guess.

@thehatefull1761

Жыл бұрын

No it dont you are a protected class with more rights then men you don't have to do nothing and will still get a job based on your sex and not your skill or find a simp that will take care of you. Women in America are put on a pedestal while men are treated like expendable trash

@thehatefull1761

Жыл бұрын

Victim hood at its finest

This is an incredibly valuable conversation. I love these women, for sharing all their experiences, and as someone who grew up in a less than perfect world, I truly believe in when Melinda gates said "you knew who you were" back in high school. It's society that tries to break women down, to become compliant.

@bobsilver3983

5 ай бұрын

She also said the next ones really going to get their attention this time....they are going to release another virus.

It's a process and it takes a life time ❤️......I've read your book *Becoming* and it inspires me Greatly. I am a Cameroonian and I teach the lessons I learnt from your book to other girls everytime.Thank you Again❤️

I needed this desperately 😩

Captivity is a mentality, it's a thing you carry with you!

Thank you for being a voice for Iranian women. 🙏

Dear all great mam very super discussion programme. Thank you very much.

Very well said 🥰🙏🏾👍🏾💯

Some powerful and intelligent women there 👍🇪🇺

@thehatefull1761

Жыл бұрын

Lmfao

Break the wall of impossibility. Very empowering and that we, those who are coming from a different backgrounds should be enough. We are worthy and we are of value.

@masonwilliamsmw6068

Жыл бұрын

Hello 👋👋👋👋

Right timing for me. I love it. Ready to do.

This is amazing! ❤🙌👏👏👏

@garyspencer1141

Жыл бұрын

Hello🥺

Michelle Obama is very inspiring.

Whatever age you are in. Self-doubt can always happen. It’s not just young girls …!

So timely and on point!

🥰 motivation and spirit.

@garyspencer1141

Жыл бұрын

Hello🥺

Good moms ( and dads!) create kids who feel good about themselves.

Thank you 🙏

I am 25 year-old and I had struggled with people pleasing most of my life after high school. If I was to give myself advice to look back on when I am 30, I would say just silent the whisper of self-doubt, and focus on what and who really matters, most importantly, there is so little youth to waste on people who are undeserving and wants us to feel powerless. Find your own people, and spend the most quality time with them. If you have not met them yet, then keep working hard until you do. And be calm, stop forcing everything and stop convincing your brain of something that isn't real. To summarise, believe in yourself, work hard, have fun and live life to its fullest!

I watched this special last night on CNN - quality TV. Michelle is another blessing from our President. Thanks, Obama!

Excellent insight from Melinda Gates - that you knew in high school the girl you were but you let something go for other people or whatever. And when you relearn to be who you were! Amazing!!!!

@garyspencer1141

Жыл бұрын

Hello🥺

Gosh, I was almost cry..

Keep up the great work you ladies are doing.

Having a degree of self-doubt can also be healthy in the sense that it pushes us to improve, to learn, to instrospect, to be humble and be open to the possibility that we may be wrong sometimes. I know some people who felt so confident about their abilities that they thought they could put down others or criticize them for not knowing enough. That behaviour is nauseating and without fail I later saw how wrong they were about their own capabilities and the fact that they did not have any self-doubt meant that they will stay a fool. As long as self-doubt does not stop you from doing something and you hold on to the fact that you can gather enough knowledge and skills to do anything, then it is perfectly healthy in my opinion. It should not cripple you. It should act as a fuel to learn and eventually grow. Looking back, there was lots of times I felt self-doubt, but now that I have grown, I realise with a laugh how silly those self doubt were.

@jenniferthompson6280

Жыл бұрын

perfectly stated

@eulaliaschultz6074

Жыл бұрын

*self doubts

@amanjotsingh6351

Жыл бұрын

Typical Indian mentality seeing confidence as ego and promoting self doubt

@MissNandita

Жыл бұрын

@@amanjotsingh6351 thanks for your thought, but I think you missed the point...Also why would you associate one person's view on a subject with "Indian" mentality. Do you know for a fact that all Indians think like that? Are you saying that you know all Indians then? That's a bit self-flaterring...You also have an Indian origin name yourself...why would you put down Indians?

@amanjotsingh6351

Жыл бұрын

@@MissNandita Because most Indians indeed have that mentality where they see self esteem and self confidence as ego or pride or assume other person is full of self or thinks too much of self. They see low self esteem and no confidence as some sign of humility. No wonder they remained slaves for centuries and still get ruled and fooled by corrupt politicians. Cannot handle truth or being shown the mirror hence cry wolf and say how can you generalise or accuse other of self flattering. LOL! Knowing mentality of Indians at large makes me self flattering? 🤣 As usual when own ego is attacked then accuse others of self flattering or whatnot.

Michelle is an inspiration to all people!

@johnward43

Жыл бұрын

The Jihadists love her.

@markwarren5644

Жыл бұрын

Not so much!

@mhall801

Жыл бұрын

Ewwwwoooouuuuu

@darlenejackson8679

Жыл бұрын

@@mhall801 school

@mhall801

Жыл бұрын

@@darlenejackson8679 👈. College

Plagued by self doubt & second guessing my Choices, this video was not a coincidence, I truly loved how each women articulated the same point in a different way ❤️🌟thanks God for this ✨

Great interview !! 🤘🤘

A once in a lifetime icon ❤️ beautiful inside and out

@donothingMTIAMG

Жыл бұрын

Big Mike is touching. 🥰

@chibi_rabbit

Жыл бұрын

🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

@denniscarsner

Жыл бұрын

False

@SaccharinSweet123

Жыл бұрын

I will not accept critique or commentary, because every comment will come from incels who's entire experience with women is threatening to kill them.

@williamroyer4669

Жыл бұрын

Best first Lady ever.

What a beautiful lovely woman she is and my favorite first lady!

@donothingMTIAMG

Жыл бұрын

100% MAN! 💥

@darlenejackson8679

Жыл бұрын

@@donothingMTIAMG do you even have a man hood ?

@mhall801

Жыл бұрын

Kim. Define woman?🤔