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9 ай бұрын

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Being yourself can be a revolutionary act.

@rkarlsson6460

6 жыл бұрын

However being yourself too much is not good.

@hudaalenezi5638

6 жыл бұрын

Amen!

@TheMarvelousBeautyChannel1

6 жыл бұрын

So sovery true!!

@ash-xs4cb

5 жыл бұрын

R Karlsson wow trueeeee

@shikhasaxena4611

5 жыл бұрын

@@rkarlsson6460 why ?

"In a world that wants us to whisper, I choose to yell!" What a beautifully simplistic manifesto.

@nuhaanjum4774

3 жыл бұрын

bad guy billie eilish

@phole1100

2 жыл бұрын

sounds kinda obnoxious

@cxa011500

2 жыл бұрын

Seems like going around yelling would just make you an a-hole. 🧐

@seethetruth7427

2 жыл бұрын

@@cxa011500 not yall missing the point, it is a metaphor

@seethetruth7427

2 жыл бұрын

@@phole1100 say that to men who yell or act violently when they lose a game

"When it's time to say these hard things: 1. Did you mean it? 2. Can you defend it? 3. Did you say it with love?"

@melkiway

2 жыл бұрын

This part is important. Thx for highlighting it.

@elizalaw1517

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah totally important

@stlla1000

Жыл бұрын

Dope, love this.

@DavidRhyne

Жыл бұрын

The best part of the talk! Otherwise I felt the talk was a bit fluffy/derivative. Her delivery was nice though.

@icbullock90

Жыл бұрын

Yes but I think we need to put a little less pressure on how people say things, because even if you say something perfectly with love it still can be misinterpreted and taken negatively. It's just as important for people to work on how they receive things and not just place the burden on the other person.

I’m reading her book Professional Trouble Maker now and she mentions how she tried to talk herself out of this TedTalk but did it anyway. So proud of her!

@rasa1116

Жыл бұрын

Guess it is beautiful, I'm planning to read it now after hearing this talk

@crystaltharrell

Жыл бұрын

I needed this.

@sakshiguptaz

Жыл бұрын

It’s crazy how everytime we are about to step up there will be a demon inside luring you into how your comfort zone is nice and how it would be a lot of work and why we shouldn’t go for it

@sakshiguptaz

Жыл бұрын

Important to talk back and be like “just shut up no one cares” to the voice in your head

@ms.fortune2957

Жыл бұрын

Oh wonderful. Thanks for sharing that! I am definitely supporting her, as we have so much in common character wise. lol

“Bridges that aren’t based on truth will collapse.” I love it👑

@tammy3141

5 жыл бұрын

The Electric Leaf

@prensesavera3038

5 жыл бұрын

The Electric Leaf i read that “ fridges that aren’t .............

@Watotowamama2023

4 жыл бұрын

Love you !

@ladiesroomlive990

4 жыл бұрын

Facts!!! Reminds me of "what's done in the dark will come to light."

@delailama736

3 жыл бұрын

So Social Justice is screwed.

I love how she conducted this session. Perfect amount of humor, references and inspiration. The topic has been spoken about often, but her delivery of the topic was rather convincing and was very relatable.

@Rilows

6 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Neither did she go out of topic like many TED talks

@mvfs

6 жыл бұрын

Most writers are excellent presenters. They understand the need for charisma and energy, and of course all of that is backed up by a solid well written and naturally spoken script

@madisonnesbit5081

2 жыл бұрын

L

@makaso8563

2 жыл бұрын

L@@mvfs

@droreo4485

7 ай бұрын

Yap yap yap

“In a world that wants us to whisper, I choose to yell”. This sentence hits different 💛 feeling knowledgeable by watching these amazing TED talks during quarantine 💛

@userman44

2 жыл бұрын

Did you speak out against quarantines?

@seethetruth7427

2 жыл бұрын

@@userman44 why did u assume she's against quarantine

WHO ELSE IS WATCHING THIS IN 2020? This is so timely

@888michelle_

3 жыл бұрын

For school and this is helping with life damn.

@debbiethompson14

3 жыл бұрын

Me tooooooo! I am always changing.

@WINA.photo.971

3 жыл бұрын

I do watching this @michofalltrades.

@threequotesthursday5657

3 жыл бұрын

Actually found this after searching for my latest video to see where it was in search! Awesome find and great message in this video. Very inspiring.

@ninnikins4768

3 жыл бұрын

YES

1. Do you mean it 2. Can you defend it 3. Did you say it with love 3 questions to always keep in mind when speaking up about something.

@kathrynjoslyn1835

6 жыл бұрын

Jenny Saint You saint yaaasss! Wonderful comment ❤

@pippasandhu5988

6 жыл бұрын

Jenny Saint #lovelovelove

@lauravelasquez5397

6 жыл бұрын

Preach

@alexaj21

6 жыл бұрын

Jenny Saint fear is not winning

@josmis1234

6 жыл бұрын

Jenny Saint God bless You.

My mother always said "A closed mouth don't get fed"😁

@ninnikins4768

3 жыл бұрын

DANGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG

@zehrabek5323

3 жыл бұрын

Well said!

@aperture0

3 жыл бұрын

Well said! 🔥🔥

@theradiatorisonfire7768

3 жыл бұрын

Fine mother I will starve my self to death does that seem better for you?

@itsthesaint

3 жыл бұрын

the squeaky wheel gets the oil

"When the world expects us to be silent, we choose to yell because getting uncomfortable can only guarantee our comfort." I'm truly inspired, thanks Jones.

@chinemeremnnadi9585

9 ай бұрын

❤

The outfit, the SHOES, the message, the story, simply AMAZING. Luvvie, you are rocking it!

-Fight or flight. -Get comfortable w/being uncomfortable. I hear these all the time dealing w/social anxiety. 2018 will be my year. Conquering my fear. "The only thing we have to fear is fear itself."

@MuadDib1402

6 жыл бұрын

I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain. :D

@billhicks8

6 жыл бұрын

BOO!

@MuadDib1402

6 жыл бұрын

I always wanted to be the cowboy hero. That lone voice in the wilderness, fighting corruption and evil wherever I found it, and standing for freedom, truth and justice. And in my heart of hearts I still track the remnants of that dream wherever I go, on my never-ending ride into the setting sun. :D

@hollyannaracena1873

6 жыл бұрын

You got this cam 👌🏽

@diandrastithe3186

6 жыл бұрын

I struggle with social anxiety myself, I thought I would never get over it. But after pushing myself out of my comfort zone again and again, I am breaking down that wall and have accomplished social things I thought I never could. I believe in you! Push yourself out of that comfort zone and you’ll be amazed at the person you really are capable of being.

I​ love how she talks. Eloquent and fluent and funny and laced with gold. Bless

"People and systems count on our silence to keep us exactly where we are"

This woman is very powerful. She conducts herself in a manner of which many people couldn’t imagine themselves doing. I really love it when she said that she chooses to yell in a world that wants us to whisper. Motivation at its finest. Thank you

Yoooo why is she TALKING TO ME?! 😩😩😩 She is beautiful btw 😍🙏🏽

@loveyoubetrue111

6 жыл бұрын

ME 2 SIS..

@jaymcee88

6 жыл бұрын

Hellooo!! She is talking to me as well! and yes she and those cheek bones are everything!!!

@CGABOR

6 жыл бұрын

SlowClass Kai ISN'T SHE?! I FELL OUT. I FELL OUT. 😂😂😂😂❤️❤️😍😍😍

@slmay3484

6 жыл бұрын

Yes she is! (to both your question and your statement) Do what you gotta do queen!

@Olasumbo888

6 жыл бұрын

Beautiful dark skin sister with a powerful mind.

"And for some reason I was wearing business casual." LOLOLOL! So funny and motivational. Strong ladies put your hands up! 👏👏👏👏

@WouldntULikeToKnow.

3 жыл бұрын

@Yang Xiao business casual is clothing you wear to an office with a slightly casual atmosphere. Think button down shirts and khaki trousers. It's not very good for outdoor activities!

When she said "comfort is overrated" felt that wholeheartedly ❤️

"Being yourself is a revolutionary act" wow that truly got me.

“Fear has a very concrete power of keeping us from doing and saying the things that are our purpose”

She had me at "Professional Troublemaker"

@jimmiejackson4366

3 жыл бұрын

Me to loving it a😍♥️🙏 Professional Troublemaker

wow, this talk is one of the greatest one that I clicked on KZread. Her message seems obvious but somehow it hits me deeply because in the past I was kind of speaking the truth even it hurt me terribly. The checkpoint that she mentioned is also very important before we speak out loud 1. Did you really mean it? 2. Can you defend it? 3. Did you say it with love? This can help us to say truthfully without offending others.

Her speech is so encouraging that I start to try to define myself to the fear.

I wish I could hit thumbs up a lot more than just once. I needed this. I'm quiet and shy. Not any more. Thank-YOU!

@LuckyLucky-xp2sz

5 жыл бұрын

Bless you. I hope you become stronger.

@LuckyLucky-xp2sz

5 жыл бұрын

I can tell you are a good person already.

@mg-cx5tv

5 жыл бұрын

I also need it really because of the same reasons but i thought its only me like this

@DFreshastar08

5 жыл бұрын

JBL Creations amen. God bless you

@dianawinda4061

5 жыл бұрын

just got destroyed by a mock paper, and came home and saw this. It put a lot in perspective for me, and inspired me to look towards the bigger picture

6:05 -> "I believe in Shea butter as a core value." This statement alone deserves a 👍🏾 Congrats Luvvie👏🏿👏🏿

@codegirl2069

3 жыл бұрын

She is brilliant. 😀😁

“My silence serves no one.”

As someone who's always concerned what other people think, her words were really empowering, I aspire to be her. To be like her is like a paradox, give zero fqs to opinions, but care so much on other's needs

I got chills during the whole speech. Her energy is overwhelming - and i mean that in the best way. Wow.

This exact video is What slowly brought me out of my depression and allowed me to be myself . Love her for sharing this

‘’People and systems count on our silence to keep us exactly where we are.’’ Love it!

To anyone who is reading this, I pray that whatever is hurting you or whatever you're constantly stressing about gets better.May the dark thoughts, the overthinking, and doubt exit your mind right now. Clarity replace confusion. May peace and calmness fill your life!In Jesus Precious Name,Amen

@myelreynolds8225

Жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤

@feliciaogunnowo

11 ай бұрын

Amen in Jesus name! Bless you! 🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️

@micah4853

10 ай бұрын

❤

@michaelmedeiros2089

9 ай бұрын

Thank you for kindness.

Her energy radiates the entire conference and of course through my phone screen. Powerful.

I needed this today! "Comfort is over-rated."

“People in systems count on our silence to keep us exactly where we are” #powerful

“In a world that wants us to whisper I choose to yell” ❤️

I met her several times! We hung out at a conference or two. She is a cool person! This was a great Ted Talk on Fear! Good to see her on this platform!

@firesign4297

5 жыл бұрын

😊😊😊

Best Ted Talk Ever! Today onwards, be the domino! be the change!

@rkarlsson6460

6 жыл бұрын

Yeah, better than expected but hardly the "best" one ever!

@samanthapazymino8131

6 жыл бұрын

ted

@kiyahforrest3703

6 жыл бұрын

Ever?

@teemutaponen9239

5 жыл бұрын

EVER!

@TeKeyaKrystal

5 жыл бұрын

that's quite the hyperbole

I cried hearing this. I get so much backlash for my words cuz I speak out. This encourages me to know that just cuz there is backlash, doesn't make what I did wrong.

I so appreciate this vid and Luvvie Ajayi Jones. I've often found myself being the one person speaking out. It can be exhausting and very unnerving being the first domino. Speaking of which, wow does the description beneath this vid get it wrong! It says that Jones " isn't afraid to speak her mind or to be the one dissenting voice in a crowd, and neither should you." In her Ted Talk she literally says precisely the opposite--that she is often afraid, but does it anyway. She never says "you shouldn't be afraid to speak out." She says it's hard and scary but try to do it anyway (which is the definition of courage, BTW--Jones is courageous, and inspires this particular middle-aged white guy! 🙂).

This is a great talk, and I encourage everyone to 'be the domino' as she puts it. I would however also encourage everyone reading this to investigate yourselves. It is very easy for those in a privileged position to not investigate our own beliefs and values, what we advocate, believing we already know it all. I know this from my own experience. I held racist beliefs, yet I didn't see them as racist. I held sexist beliefs, and I did not see these as sexist either. It is difficult to confront your own bigotry, it isn't something immediately clear because it is covered by a veil of "That's just how it is". What ripped me out of this mindset was listening to others. Women, black people, trans people speaking up about the various harmful power dynamics they face.

@Kaminegg

6 жыл бұрын

Hakasedess All of our beliefs are difficult to purge. They make us do all kinds of things we don't want, skipping work or cheating on diets. Racist or sexist non-sequitirs need not be placed in a special category. Instead, the more that we see ourselves as believing any unnecessary nonsense and purging those beliefs, the more we can purge them all.

@Hakasedess

6 жыл бұрын

Indeed. Bigoted views are in a particular spot because the overwhelming majority of us do not want to admit we hold them to begin with. Most racist views are not regarded as such by the people holding them. It's important to be open to the idea that one could be racist, but unaware.

@Kaminegg

6 жыл бұрын

Hakasedess It is useful, even necessary, but need not be the first domino! Just knowing that what we know is probably wrong... As Lao Tsu said, "Darkness within darkness, the gateway to all wisdom." Socrates also said to assume that you know less than you believe you do.

@goddessintriptych7046

6 жыл бұрын

I disagree. I've always been right about everything, so why should I bother seeking out others' opinions? Seems like a waste of time if you ask me.

@Nimuel

5 жыл бұрын

Spoken like a bigot, I'm sorry to say. Someone being honest and true with themselves would, had they truly been enlightened, come from a place of understanding, not condemnation. A truthseeker seeks understanding first, the brave will speak with this understanding to test it. Truth sets you free, not conformity.

what a smart, witty and funny woman! Thanks for giving me some inspo

Her energy is beautiful

I feel her on everything that she says...I am a silent Libra and I keep my ideas, resolutions, everything silent to just me and my thoughts alone. After this, I will slowly start to come out of my shell and will become more verbal with my ideas and opinions.

She just articulated everything I feel! I’m a Capricorn too! Although when she jumped out of the plane my heart went into my stomach. I’m not there yet.

@2003mandiman

4 жыл бұрын

Your stand out word being "yet"!! 😏

@katielarsen2630

2 жыл бұрын

I'm less scared of jumping out of a plane than I am of confrontation 😅

@ntshembomacevele5912

2 жыл бұрын

I wanna try it but I'm scared

Silence keeps us where we are.

@adamjobs

3 ай бұрын

Fenekedés

"And bridges that aren't based on truth will collapse." This sounds to me like a statement where a lot of us can find common ground.

This is so encouraging! I'm going through a situation where I've had to speak up for myself and make my rights respected. It's been uncomfortable all the way, but I'm not afraid of the consequences!

@ikpaul9524

Жыл бұрын

👍

"People and systems count on our silence to keep us exactly were we are."💯 "...being yourself can be a revolutionary act."💯

Why did it take me soooo long to watch this? ❤️❤️❤️ Yes to all she said!! She’s gorgeous! 😍

@ovo5491

5 жыл бұрын

I wondered the same today

@bravenuworld9215

5 жыл бұрын

She's phenomenally strong ♡♡♡

@madeinaotearoanz

5 жыл бұрын

She's beautiful in every sense of the word!!

@kinkykoils6176

4 жыл бұрын

Right..🤣🤣 This has been recommended to me so many times but i guess i was ready to listen today.

@secondopinion53

4 жыл бұрын

Yes!

Brilliant.. you go girl… her entire speech can turn into bunch of t shirt quotes that the world needs tomorrow ❤️❤️❤️

ok, now I need to buy this book. She is just so amazing!

I just had a dream about people that I went to school with who are doing great things in the world, and a Ted Talk with Luvie pops up on my phone. I'm so proud of Luvie...my fellow Illini.

That was good, I also like her style

5years ago speech and it hit me as if she just said it now 😱. I gonna face my fears. No looking back

I mean this is about one of the most powerful talk I have ever listened to here on KZread and I am glad I did. It takes a lot to be Nigerian and take a stand in a public place. And yes, capricons rock! That thing of always wanting our feet on the ground? So true! Thank you for the inspiration, sis.

"Being yourself can be a revolutionary act." Love. It.

damn, she dropped so many "damn" moments. This is why I love ted talks​.

I pray for my daughters to love themselves and be so comfortable to speak up about what they are passionate about, and making a difference. This is a message I will not hesitate to share with my girls. You could not have said it any better. This video was inspiring, encouraging, challenging, and helpful. Thank you for not keeping quite, shutting out fear and choosing to make a difference. Blessings to you. - Jovanna Heaston

She is incredibly BEAUTIFUL!!!

I get uncomfortable if I'm TOO comfortable for TOO long haha. Great talk!! In unrelated news, your outfit is killer

@mwinyimwenyi

5 жыл бұрын

WOW! Me too.

An amazing woman indeed . The thing is when people are too quiet ,and the rest too loud , there's no room for unterstanding . I am often both . Those 3 questions I will start use them too ,such a great way to start 2018 . I am so sorry for the racism and discrimination ...beautiful hearts &mind have no color ☺

I’m glad I watched this instead of the regular “ I AM..” affirmations video. 6:56

"Fear has a very concrete power from making us do our purpose" --well isnt this the truth lol. Thank you! I left my job and decided to plunge into an unpaid internship doing something I think I want. I know it will take some time for me to get back to my level of income now but I want to do it. No regrets!

@ChristianaSenibo

2 жыл бұрын

Fantastic. We'll done 👏🏾

@oneof7billion627

Жыл бұрын

Can you give us an update? I love this!

2019 listeners hit the like button She has really blessed me

@lillian4729

4 жыл бұрын

Hahah.. 2020

"My silences had not protected me. Your silence will not protect you. But for every real word spoken, for every attempt I had ever made to speak those truths for which I am still seeking, I had made contact with other women while we examined the words to fit a world in which we all believed, bridging our differences." - Audre Lorde

Just stumbled on this in 2024...very timely and fresh 1/04/24

I don't know about you but for me, watching this in 2021 is soooooo timely for me.

“Being yourself can be a revolutionary act.” 💯😍💯

got me feeling like I was in CHURCH!!! YESSSSS!!!! SPEAK LIFE INTO ME!!

The synchronicities that parallel my own life listed in this video are amazing. Chemistry was the first class in my whole life where I failed an exam. It is also the reason I switched from a pre-med degree. I am terrified of taking a vacation by myself, putting my writing out there for others to judge, and public speaking. I love sky diving and dolphins! I am also a Capricorn. My take away- the universe wants me to start doing the things that make me uncomfortable! Thank you for this amazing video!

This woman is me, and I am her. Same experiences, and she has done something that I have wanted to do, yet I put it off for 4 year's. I have since decided that this is the year. I love it! Congrats sister! Keep up the phenomenal work! I salute you!

@legrandcardinal4909

3 жыл бұрын

Was it the year?

This is my favorite TED talk

"In a world that wants us to whisper, I choose to yell." Girl power!

“People and systems count on our silence to keep us exactly where we are...” 🤯Preach!

this is the best ted talk I have ever watched and I'm a college student that gets TED talks thrown at them twice a day

She's beautiful... 😮😮😮

@nadine7327

5 жыл бұрын

Very much.

@zaneta7980

5 жыл бұрын

She is. That short cut looks so good on her.

@Aris-gf9rq

4 жыл бұрын

her eyes!

@KlizmaTime

4 жыл бұрын

She is GORGEOUS!

@smendes2004

4 жыл бұрын

What about commenting on what she said??

I'm a Professional Trouble Maker. Everybody's Well Being Is Community Business. Being Yourself Could Be A Revolutionary Act.

I like the natural atmosphere she created while discussing the fear of becoming the trailblazer-the domino-and why most people would not want to be in that position. In a world where everyone expects you to follow the rules and play your part, sometimes that role isn't well suited for that person, and the rules must be changed not just for you, but also for the benefit of the other players.

Capricorn Here❤️ Very Relatable Thank You

the BEST TED ever, thank you very much for this ... 1- did you mean it 2- can you defend it 3- did you say it with love. "Perfect" ...

At 72, I've given up being the "silent" revolutionary. When I was younger, I voiced support for a newly graduated black female with a degree in health care administration. I was a manager under her at the time, but her position was desired by the staff pharmacist. He lied about my position. No one ever bothered to ask me about it, including the young lady. I lost my job over it and eventually so did she. A couple of years later, she stopped my husband on the street to apologise. The polnt is that we must commit ourselves to listen to each other, every day and in our courts, truthfully without the bias of racism or sexism. I spent most of my life thinking that I was protecting myself and my family, but many people will do anything for a buck. They won't care when the result is murder, destroyed health and financial stability of a family or anything else. They're own personal goal (s) is the only one that matters. Getting the dominoes to fall correctly takes concentration, education and timing.

@sharmishthadasgupta3552

6 жыл бұрын

Kathryn Shaw wow.

@litghost5427

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks for this. I had a similar circumstance as you.

@queenestherc-squared802

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing 🙏🏾

There’s a whole another “me too” movement going on, and this is a revolutionary act.

Almost 3 years later from when I first discovered this TED talk & I am still moved by Miss Jones. You are so inspiring and I truly admire your honesty and grace. This is so great! 💗💐

Love this talk...silence is too dangerous... be the first domino

I needed this on this day at this moment so thanks

This is definitely one of my favourite TED talks! She has such a presence I stopped doing what I was doing and immediately gave all my attention to this video. It even made me cry a little. Amazing.

I learned that when speaking your truth, speak it with love not out of fear because you need help or support. Understand your own intentions and where you’re operating from (what emotion led you) when you deliver it.

Wow! she is Amusing, About positive people, good moral fun, psychological comfort Happiness from the heart of dignity Personality, and interactions with people towards positive

@Srishhdutt

5 жыл бұрын

Also you can look up to some amazing talks on TED here its like I would recommend these too yourdailywire.com/11-most-inspiring-ted-talks-youtube-videos/

"In a world that wants us to whisper, I choose to yell." Powerful

“In a world that wants us to whisper, I choose to yell”.❤ This hits hard ... A talk that always resonates.

I watched this like 2 years ago, but it is only now that I definitely understand the full meaning behind her words. I will not stay silent anymore.

I’m a professional trouble maker, too. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾 absolutely loved this message. So relatable “All comfort has done has maintained the status quo.”

In a world that says we should whisper, I choose to yell! she's so amazing

As an Indigenous (Blackfoot) woman who is programmed to keep my voice quiet, This inspired me on so many levels. Thank you so much Luvvie, I needed this on so many different levels.

Absolutely loved her confidence

Enough said, her charisma had me with no words before I played the video. I can't believe I actually had good multiple laughs while watching a TED Talk video. I will try my best to keep coming back to this 'lecture' (if you will) to lighten up my mood as it's lightened up now to avoid too much anxiety, fears and preoccupations in my last year at school. Thank you very much!

I feel like she took the words right out of my mouth. It's awesome how when you feel something and meditate on it people and circumstances fall right in place like a path. She is inspirational and I am motivated to continue to be me because of beautiful souls like her.

I saw myself in some of her speech: what others are thinking in their heads, I'm saying it out loud. I used to be afraid of that but now, I feel great about being my authentic self. Thank you for the strength!