A woman that accepts responsibility and admits she made a mistake. Impressive

@t.mcduffie9853

6 жыл бұрын

SnookDaddy772 very. I love her

@stanleydinkins5112

6 жыл бұрын

SnookDaddy772.....Big ups to her👌👌

@keyroncampbell

5 жыл бұрын

Rare

@BreezeeGreenz

5 жыл бұрын

Right. It never happens.

@Flossin-Mine

5 жыл бұрын

@@BreezeeGreenz very shocking

I've NEVER heard/seen a woman actually humble enough to admit this.. #SALUTE!!

@missctolbertvoh

7 жыл бұрын

Zaye Nelson 😊

@waynelewis9514

6 жыл бұрын

Respect sister

@waynelewis9514

6 жыл бұрын

Respect sis

@calvinpeake1088

6 жыл бұрын

Da Truth

@stanleydinkins5112

4 жыл бұрын

That's church bruh!

I love how she included herself... Most women would not admitt there faults...

@setapartaay925

4 жыл бұрын

It takes a strong woman. I know I've DEFINITELY been this way. My husband and I have been together for 12 years and married for 10 and a half. I took me Oct of 2019 to apologize and correct my ways. It wasn't easy but it's neccessary for the success of our marriage ☺️

@stanleydinkins5112

4 жыл бұрын

Ur correct pls dude! Sum would rather die n go 2 hell b 4 they admit things. It's a shame but it's TRUE!

@bigrelly2001

3 жыл бұрын

Facts

@AZ10644

3 жыл бұрын

Why can’t all women be as honest as the lady in this video. 🤷🏾‍♂️

@tl3233

3 жыл бұрын

@@AZ10644 because they are all victims

This is the realest shit I’ve ever heard from a woman. Mad respect.

I guarantee every thumbs down was angry women who manipulate men lbvs! If a woman knows she is not a manipulator they would respect and understand the video.

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

***** thank you very much. I'm happy you enjoyed the video.

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

***** awwwe that's so nice of you. I'll definitely keep the videos up. God has anointed me to do this.

@jamescobrien

8 жыл бұрын

thanks

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

***** no problem honey!

@myname604

8 жыл бұрын

It is so wonderful to see good women. You are a beautiful lady! Faith, hope, love! Thank you!

These are the kind of woman we need in our today’s society, not all these useless feminists women that don’t have respect for a man, U are one in a million, hun

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Jeffrey Williams I appreciate you.

@latashaalexander4019

3 жыл бұрын

You cant change ppl , they who they are! If she degrading you more than likely she don't respect you.. she view you as weak!! Just my opinion 🤷

Yes these narcissistic women torpedo through relationships. Then they cry out to god, but only the devil responds!

@iamabsolution95

6 жыл бұрын

Cuz they're SUPER FREAKS, YOW! Funny, but for Most Women, TERRIBLY TRUE .

@Shortana

6 жыл бұрын

ImRIckJames if they only cried out to God! They cry out to their devilish female friends who give them harmful advice.

@michaeljackson7732

5 жыл бұрын

Real talk 👊👊👊

@1stresurrection834

3 жыл бұрын

😶??🤯🤪🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@istayanonymous9070

3 жыл бұрын

Award winning comment. 🏆

That only happens when the Man itself has put his woman on a pedestal, any man who has dreams and focusing on those dreams will simply ignore her comments and move on from the relationship, so fellas get clear goal on your life cause at the end it is what you accomplished that matter not whom you were with. And thank you lady

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Omar Saad you're so welcome sweetie!

You have restored my faith in women. You have a beautiful soul. Many blessings to you

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

Richy Rich thank you so much. All praises to God for working on me each day. Much love to you!!

@antonio72331

6 жыл бұрын

missctolbertvoh Thats good to know your Christian God bless you.

@SegaSavageMusic

6 жыл бұрын

Richard Richardson I agree wish more women would level like this instead of playing the blame game thank you sister

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Antonio Hall bless you as well!

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

DJ SAVAGE the women hated me for this video. They got real disrespectful.

A self reflecting woman? Whaat? Well that's a first.

@humanasthma8106

8 жыл бұрын

+Vasya Pupkin no doubt

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

+human asthma I found out that self reflection is a sign of maturity.

@GivinStatic

8 жыл бұрын

+missctolbertvoh Definitely agree with you on that one. Moreover, that's a feature that's hard to come by these days, especially in women, imo.

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

Vasya Pupkin I definitely agree with you on that one. Can you imagine how different the world would be if everyone had that feature?

@SegaSavageMusic

6 жыл бұрын

Vasya Pupkin I am so happy I watch this please keep it would like to hear more from you

It is imasculating when a man is compared to another man that is "better" than him. My father in law makes an insane amount of money and my wife and I got into an argument and she threatened to go home to her dad. In which I replied..."Then get out...go. But this house is in my name and those cars are in my name so you can take the ring and clothes but leave the rest. And don't think you can come back once you walk out because I'm too grown for those games." She never disrespected again.

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

marc777danielle ha!!!! I love it!!!!

@suave_d

5 жыл бұрын

Now THAT'S how you lay down the law. You've got to stand up to these women, and let them know that misbehavior will not be tolerated, and they can easily get replaced.

Yes! Women with common sense are finally speaking out. I salute you sister. Time to shine the light on the poison what many women won't admit.

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Ms. Cayenne that's right. I had to speak on something that happens in many relationships and marriages. Only mature women agree and understand.

You can find someone better than me? Go find one. Bye.

@missctolbertvoh

7 жыл бұрын

Ramiro Leiva, I'm in agreement. This goes both ways for men and women. Whenever someone tries to threaten you and make you feel like they can get someone better they need to be kicked to the curb.

@jacobladder5556

7 жыл бұрын

You can find someone better than me? I'm sorry to be holding you back. Bye.

@missctolbertvoh

7 жыл бұрын

+Jacob Ladder, that's it. That's all. 👋👋

@mikeandmars2345

6 жыл бұрын

Ramiro Leiva that's 💯💯💯

@BornToBeFamed

6 жыл бұрын

Ramiro Leiva 100! Be gone then

You are a REAL woman. So many women say such venomous and evil things to men, women don't respect men anymore and it's partly our fault by allowing this bad behavior to manifest and grow, it has become normal now and that is unacceptable. Women have to understand that there is a social contract, women have a role, our culture and society had changed a lot but the old rules are the best rules and the old rules still apply. Always show respect for your man or you will regret it because he will leave you quicker than you can say alimony.

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Depl0rabl3 American Prepper I couldn't agree with you more! I wish all these silly and immature women would just admit we're not always right in a relationship or marriage! There are so many haughty, arrogant, puffed up and prideful women to the point they truly believe they're above doing or saying anything wrong. I hated how they came up here trying to speak on a video that's not even for them!!

@Adam-qf2ub

6 жыл бұрын

Rick u

@andrewgohring7625

6 жыл бұрын

The difference between a REAL woman and second rate, is- foresight vs hindsight. This woman speaks from hindsight.

@myrickcarl

6 жыл бұрын

Rick facts bro facts

@werightnow

6 жыл бұрын

Rick its the meat and milk diet causing both men and women to act abnormal in society

It's very refreshing to hear a woman be so frank and candid about real issues like this. Thank you.

@missctolbertvoh

2 жыл бұрын

You're so welcome!!

Great message!! Well said!! Men have lost their self confidence and respect in this generation. It does break a man down having to fight battles at work then fighting battles at home. A good woman will build a man up and not seek to destroy him and his manhood. Again this is a great message!!

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

James Floyd thank you so much!

@jamesfloyd8487

6 жыл бұрын

missctolbertvoh It we who should be thanking you. Keep doing what you’re doing. This generation needs to hear this.

@jasminepearls1047

6 жыл бұрын

James Floyd Have reasons to give respect after a certain age things in your life should be in order. Too many men allow themselves to be taken care of or partied most of their 20's then look at their life and want to get mad when they dont feel like a king.

This is what a great women is...respect.

@missctolbertvoh

9 жыл бұрын

Ryan Negri thank you so much sir!! I did the video from the heart. Women need to learn to respect men. PERIOD.

u have earned my utmost respect.

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

Elom Essamaa-Ayi wow thank you sir. I appreciate you.

@stonecoldfan3167

6 жыл бұрын

True dat !!

I love how honest you are. It is 100 percent true. Being a sister to two brothers, a daughter to a wonderful dad, a wife and a mother to two boys, this is 100% true. Men should be respected and women should be loved , it is reciprocal.

As a Black Muslim; I’ve never allowed a woman to talk down at me regardless of colleagues or partners. Something that was pass down to me was guard your honour and dignity.

finally, a black woman that makes sense

@BladeTrinity99

6 жыл бұрын

james mc not just a black woman, but a woman period that makes good sense. This woman will find happiness again if she already hasn’t. Their is something magnetizing about a woman who knows her value as well as a man’s value.

@milesfamilybiz

6 жыл бұрын

Why finally a black woman? This is a stupid statement. I get tired of people trying to ride out on black women

@treespeakerintermediaartis9715

6 жыл бұрын

james mc this video is not about race it's about gender why do u der every KZread video the comments end up about race one couldn't she be a women who finally makes sense why is her race being highlighted??

@7days6nights93

6 жыл бұрын

+Miles Junk Removal Fuck boy you a Beta male

@milesfamilybiz

6 жыл бұрын

Fuck boy? You are a cyber bullying. Beta male? You are a joke. Get a set and some damn sense. I have no idea what your problem is but you need to check yourself.

Ladies, I need to make myself very clear because as usual many of you are being real ignorant, immature AND defensive when it's no point! This video is NOT FOR YOU!!!! AGAIN, if you're not the type of woman I described in the video then why are you mad? Please don't try and come for me because your husband or boyfriend sent you the link to this video. I don't have anything to do with your man wanting you to watch this video. Be mad at him not me because I'm not trying to get the women to watch it. I brought awareness to the men on the above topic. If you don't like it thats fine. Keep it moving. Make sure before you try to cyber battle with me you have all your ducks in a row and have listened carefully to the ENTIRE video and examples I gave. Don't come up here telling me how men manipulate women! Anybody with half a brain knows manipulation can be done by both genders, however, this video was ONLY speaking of how SOME women will manipulate a man. The anger, rage, disrespect and condescending remarks shows how immature, unstable, rude, uncouth, ghetto, arrogant, and guilty many of you are once you open your mouth. Make no mistake, my channel is for everybody not one gender! Try looking at over 100 videos I have altogether. I'm a cheerleader for the youth, women, men and kingdom people. Before forming conjectures about me get to know who I am and what I stand for. No I'm not a feminist. Yes I back up women. Yes I back up men. I back up right from wrong whether it's for men or women. That's it. That's all. In a matter of 15 seconds as quick as comments come in I delete, report or block you if you're getting out of hand or off the topic. The extremely long comments from you angry women I dismiss and don't read in it's entirety because it's pointless. I don't care how well put together or educated we are as women there are times when we need to be corrected by the man in our life. If you're so high and mighty and feel like you do no wrong in a marriage or relationship you have not yet hit a higher level of maturity. I'm not here to argue with people I don't know. I'm here to uplift, inspire, motivate, teach, bring awareness, change to the masses, different ages, races, cultures, and backgrounds so they can be better. We're all in need of improvement in various things. Get in tune. God bless. I love you all.

@jsand521

6 жыл бұрын

I and others positive black men greatly appreciate your message. It's a shame that you are rare breed. Most women (especially black women) refuse to admit being wrong about anything or about mistakes they made. Your understanding makes you even more gorgeous. I hope you that special person he'll be grateful blessed to a person like you. Much Love

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

jsand521 thanks for your love. These women are annoying as hell! The video isn't even for them but they came up here jaw jabbing and trying to argue. One lady got mad at me cause her husband sent her this video. What did I have to do with him sending it?! I talked about how SOME women can be. If it doesn't apply to them they can keep moving.

@jsand521

6 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Those who are bitching can't stomach facing themselves and the truth. Therefore, they will never grow, let alone understand Beautiful. So don't let them stress you (like you said in one of your videos to kept still and be quiet) and let them vent and become unchanged. Sometimes ignorant and blinded people can't see when someone is tryings to help them. That's why I said earlier you are rare because as you can see those women can't get pass being wrong to help make things better. Everyone falls short in life but it's up to us to admit our short coming to find ways grow pass them (like you you did so gracefully to the whole world Gorgeous that why I love so much). The first thing that woman should have done, instead of getting defensive and attacking you, was to take a honest look at herself and ask the question am I really that person. If not, keep it moving. But if I am I need to work on it to become a better person not for him but for herself. Once again, my brothers and I thank you very very much. Love Gorgeous.

@jsand521

6 жыл бұрын

Sorry meant to say Love you Gorgeous. Lol

@kaisersozshye2525

6 жыл бұрын

missctolbertvoh Thank you! it is so very rare to hear a woman speak on this topic. usually it is an issue discussed amongst us men, but to hear it from a woman, especially a woman from the Black community shows honesty, integrity and character. Please don't let the haters and trolls get to you. You're doing a wonderful service. Any mature minded male would be fortunate to have you. As an older, seasoned man i offer you this quote, "In a time of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act." -George Orwell's "1984" Keep riding and spreading your message, Paula Revere.😊

I feel You, All a Man ever want is respect. Not even Love. If you respect a man, the after effect is Love. Thanks for sharing

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

James Kelechi you're welcome!

She is speaking the absolute Truth 💯💯👍🏾🫵🏾🫵🏾🔥🔥Finally a woman who understands us

Good girl, too many women wont admit this.

@stonecoldfan3167

6 жыл бұрын

Mr T-O-P I have such respect for this lady and that's what this is a true lady!!

@stonecoldfan3167

6 жыл бұрын

If my wife were like this I'd bend over backwards to make her so happy nothing in the world could stop that.🙂

@theterranceharvey

6 жыл бұрын

Love this video. Much respect to you and success.

much respect to a real woman who is strong enough to admit and learn from her mistakes. We all make mistakes but it takes a real adult to be able to admit it, learn from it, and move forward and live a better life. Thanks for the video and valuable life lessons.

As a married, educated black man myself, this was a powerful video! You are definitely in your calling!!!!! Before I got married I dated single educated black women and the first thing they would want to say to me dealt with their education, money, job, etc. Problem was they tended to quiet down when I explained to them that I basically had what they had as well. Then for some reason they weren't much interested. Another woman told me it was because they couldn't control me. May or may not be true....

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Aaron Gray LOL you intimidated those women after they realized they met their match!

@andersonarmstrong2650

4 жыл бұрын

Absolutely agree,when I was married, my ex took the baton from my mother in trying to break my confidence..It got to when I achieved my Masters degree,she was rubbishing my work.Later,when she needed a portfolio, she's telling me not to draw 'too good' because her she's realised something of my true level.That's right,she tried to destroy my confidence because she felt insecure about not being able to draw.. Now I know the signs I didn't know then..thanks for adding to my understanding.

My brother went through that. This is good to tell your sons. My brother almost lost his life because of what his woman said.

The world needs more good hearted honest women like you.

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Michael McClelland I appreciate you. Thanks!

You are so right, a man just wants is a woman who respects him, and a woman just wants a man to respect.

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Thorlorn most definitely

Appreciate a woman who realize how she can hurt a man and tries to change and take responsibility for their actions. 💯💯💯

Most definitely... a lot of women act like they can do no wrong. No side is perfect. Everyone has their flaws. Its all about balance in a relationship

@hebaaltimimi926

2 жыл бұрын

No women is wrong though

If any woman would have ever said that crap to me, I would have told them to take your ass on right now! Get the hell out! Women trip me out, talking about education etc... I have always made more money than my wife or any woman I have ever met and I am not educated, but I do work my ass off! Good video.

@missctolbertvoh

7 жыл бұрын

PastorDowell, I've never understood why some women throw their education and accomplishments in a man's face. If your attitude, mouth and behavior sucks it sucks. I feel like when a woman starts telling her man how other men want her then she needs to just leave. A big form of manipulation is when someone says that in a relationship. Men and women do it. I understand where you're coming from! Happy you enjoyed the video.

@kingkameri4132

6 жыл бұрын

PastorDowell money or no money they should respect men as head period!!

@johnellpierce887

6 жыл бұрын

PastorDowell

@dieshawilliams3893

6 жыл бұрын

a man can treat a woman just as fucked up or even worse my thing is yall black men and woman need to just respect one another. and spread love and positivity towards eachother and stop putting up these videos negatively about each other most of us is smarter than to put up with nonsense .

@praveensharma3456

6 жыл бұрын

PastorDowell I think you are educated but not academically qualified..good mentality though..thats how I am too!!

The fact that you can acknowledge your flaws & not point fingers black Excellence

You are speaking so much truth sister. Went through a lot of this with my ex-wife. May God bless you

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

topdogfresh you're so welcome sweetie!

Oml thank you, this is the definition of a real woman we need people like this leading the future generations

@missctolbertvoh

5 жыл бұрын

You're so welcome sweetie. Glad you enjoyed this video.

I wish I seen your video 10 years ago, great video thanks for you honestly

@missctolbertvoh

7 жыл бұрын

martin Stevenson​, you're more than welcome!

True commentary. Women love to deflect when comes tto the real issues

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Luvelle Cummings, III immature women love to deflect. A mature woman will take the constructive criticism from her man and improve instead of being combative.

Man I cannot believe what I am hearing,thank you love.

Thank you miss. I’m 20 I just got out of my first relationship with a girl my age. My mom was independent and raised me by herself this girl was from a bad part of the city where I’m from but she had good things in here I tried to help her grow into a better person but she’d take everything so bad to the heart. She manipulated me into changing to listening to her she made me change so much about me but when I thought there was something I hated that she did she’d never listen and ignore me. It lasted a year and when I put my foot down finally she acted like I was crazy. I’m so heartbroken after this breakup because she she disproved everything I did for her and she’s taken my advice and is using it with the next man. It frustrates me so much bc this girl had 4-5 past boyfriends. I thought she had the experience to know I’m a good man with no experience but she abused that and drove me crazy.....

I'm gladI found this video, a woman (sistah) who is objective, rational, and fair minded.Peace and love to you. :)

@missctolbertvoh

7 жыл бұрын

William Brown, thanks so much sweetie! I appreciate your love.

Miss, if you do these things you're saying and sharing with us in your next relationship/marriage, you bet you will have a long happy relationship. A man needs only four things: respect, friendship, food and plenty sex.

this is a very lovely video my dear. I speak for all us men when I say THANK YOU VERY MUCH! It's much appreciated

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Trevon Mcphaul you're welcome!

Omgosh thank you and bless your soul . You may be the only women I've come across who has a good level headed perspective on this matter . Thank you

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Buddha Art Sprech3r you're so welcome sweetie!!

OMG, my wife tell me what inadequate provider I am. Mean while she spends without a budget, Thanks for the advice. I means lot :)

@missctolbertvoh

7 жыл бұрын

Mark Hoffman​ you're more than welcome! But what would she have to say if you didn't provide at all?! She has to appreciate that you do. I know numerous dead beat husbands and fathers out here. A woman is blessed if a man is providing for her and his children.

@PetrodollarDealEndedSoWakeUp

6 жыл бұрын

Means nothing if you allowed her to still be your wife. Not that life is always so simple. Yet at times it is.

@alvesthegreat

6 жыл бұрын

Mark Hoffman do yourself a favour and leave

@roesims3429

6 жыл бұрын

Mark Hoffman this is coming from a woman, if you are working and she is spending like crazy that bat has zero respect for you. A woman who truly respects her man will help make his load lighter, not add to it. For example, if I go grocery shopping I keep his pockets in mind. I make a list, only get those things on that list and won't go over a certain amount. I don't buy new clothes or shoes unless it's really needed(me, that's once or twice a year). Tell your woman what you need from her, if she doesn't change, give her tough love and withhold that wallet of yours.

This shit was so real that my girl walked out

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

TheJimmyIrvin 😂🤣 bless her heart!! I guess it cut her. This video was for the men but women tuned in and got pissed. Guess it's a reflection of what and who many of them are.

@PetrodollarDealEndedSoWakeUp

6 жыл бұрын

Means nothing if you allowed her back in.

@vinobeans9542

6 жыл бұрын

Lmao that's real but funny as hell bruh

Thank You so much for posting this video this means alot to me (I know I'm not going to let anyone including women walk all over me and disrespect me again) and Please keep on doing the wonderful works and God Bless You always Miss C!!!

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Jamaal Carmack you're more than welcome! I won't stop doing what I do! 😊❤

Means alot coming from a woman.. RESPECT

I wish more black woman listen to this wow

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Eric CMB they can't handle it. I've had to correct several of them for trying to come for me because of this video. I kept telling them it wasn't for them. If they view it they should be mature enough to know it's pure truth. Most of them started talking crazy, bragging about what they do for their man, and trying to flip it around talking about how men manipulate women. I just made a public post addressing all women concerning this video last night.

@ericcmb7568

6 жыл бұрын

RIGHT MY SISTER

Girl you are RIGHT ON here. You spoke FACTS. It's such an attractive quality you don't even know. I know I'm not the only man wanting to get to know you after watching this vid! Woman keep learning stay teachable it is EXTREMELY attractive!

@missctolbertvoh

7 жыл бұрын

Paul K.​, thanks so much. I appreciate you. I wanted to be honest and really try to help the men.

*Subscribed.* You never hear a woman admitting to fault. It just doesn't happen. It's good to hear a really _mature_ woman who can be _honest_ and _reasonable._ And everything you said is the truth.

Women: ''Marriage Gives Me Security''. Men: ''Marriage Takes My Security Away''

Thank you. I'm going through this right now. I'm being strong and it feels great to see the different response. It's empowering. Thanks for the post Queen

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Marquis Blakeney you're more than welcome! Keep being strong!!

@protegewill1

6 жыл бұрын

Check Out: Alpha Male Strategies

My girl told me this talking about she can get another nigga. I told her f*** them other niggas...they can have u. Long story short she still here lol. So I guess I won that conversation

@therealflamelit

6 жыл бұрын

Derrick J my woman tried that and I quickly told her you're not doing anything special that I couldn't replace in 5 seconds besides donating DNA to my children shut her right up.. also told her Plenty women would be ready to take her place

@ishmael802

6 жыл бұрын

She is fucking behind your back sport.

@ishmael802

6 жыл бұрын

Its me.

@sunsetvest5624

6 жыл бұрын

Ishmael Carrillo facts

@camden9589

6 жыл бұрын

Lol. Went through that... You still need to leave. People don't change

Women these days are arrogant and spoiled rotten, but they're not the only ones responsible for their behavior. The other part of the problem is how society and other people baby and side with them enabling their childish behavior even if the woman is in the wrong and they know the woman is in the wrong. People need to stop babying them and force them to grow up.

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

blackien5 I agree!!! I see people allowing the type of women I described to act the way they do.

@blackien5

6 жыл бұрын

Agreed and just as sad is women who actually are mature, hard working and good at heart aren't taken seriously and get treated like crap. Society promotes spoiled brat women over good women.

@ThurstMETV

6 жыл бұрын

blackien5 You just described judge Mathis to a T if you ever watch his show.

@blackien5

6 жыл бұрын

@ThurstMETV lol I have. Interesting show.

@ThurstMETV

6 жыл бұрын

blackien5 lol i watch it on dvr daily. Even though i hate how he treats black men and panders to black women.

I read something you wrote but I just watched your video so refreshing to hear a woman speak truth... real truth unbiased and real.But your right only a real mature woman could accept and watch this rather than have what I like to call a woman vs man mentality..

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Boxing's M.V.P I still can't understand why so many women hated this video. Even though it wasn't for them they're acting like I told lies in what I discussed.

I totally agree with you!

@missctolbertvoh

7 жыл бұрын

Naimah's World I appreciate you queen!! I really don't understand why so many women got angry at this video. I've observed women manipulating and disrespecting men since I was a child. It was times I disrespected my ex. Even though he was a cheater and extremely abusive I truly believe the situation would have been better had I held my peace. When I left and divorced him I looked back on so many things I could have done differently. I appreciate you for being very mature and understanding the point of my video. It wasn't to go against women it was just to bring awareness to what I know to be true.

@bakcort

6 жыл бұрын

Naimah's World Hey my Beautiful QUEEN, how are you L9VE❤❤💖💖💗💗🌹🌹🌷🌷😘😘🌸🌸🍁🍁💚💚💜💜💙💙💛💛💘💘💓💓💞💞💐💐😙😙😚😚😗😗

Wow... you are a breath of fresh air! I thought my ears were deceiving me for a second, but everything (and I mean EVERYTHING) you just said was the absolute truth. I'll be the first to admit that men are not always perfect, but a lot of problems can be resolved quickly if a woman is willing to hear our side too. I'm married to a beautiful queen who I absolutely love and respect, and it's easy to because she is such a lady like yourself. Thank you!

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

Ricko AK I appreciate you for the lovely compliment sir. I love how you love and adore your wife! That's so beautiful and admirable. This video is so pure and honest. Once a woman just listens and spends less time trying to be right, there is nothing a man wouldn't do for her. Godbless you sir. Much love too you.

@rickoworldwide

8 жыл бұрын

So true & likewise as well!

Thank you for speaking this truth. Many of us have experinced this, and it's the women you describe that is exactly why MGTOW exists.

God bless you my sister!! It takes a lot of courage to post such a powerful message!!! Many don't want to hear your message because they are controlled by the word, and it's said that even Preachers will not teach the women what the Bible truly says about How a woman should be taught to love her husband.... women are natural born builders, most of all Black woman are strongest builder, therefore strongest and tearing down.... Look at any church as it stands tall and strong... but the hands of many woman help to build it... Now flip that and do the same for your very own home...... I love you my sister... keep on keeping On!!!

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

HoraceJ Brock thank you so much for your love and encouragement. I greatly appreciate it!!! 😊❤

OMG!!! This is so on point sister! I love u for this! I went thru a toxic marriage such as you described. I was in it for 5 years when I said enough is enough. Im out of it now and still in the process of rebuilding my confidence back up. I really appreciate your point of view as a woman that has been delivered from that. God Bless sis!!!

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

jarvis phipps God bless you also!! Thanks for viewing.

Lost Unknown, thank you for viewing my video. I wanted to be honest with all the men. Never allow any woman to manipulate you. I don't care how sexy, fine, or beautiful she is. It doesn't matter what she is doing for you either. Manipulation is bad and being controlled by a woman keeps you back as a man.

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

***** whoa!! Don't you think that's unfair to categorize all women? There are actually many caring, sweet, compassionate, loyal and respectful women out here. You have to get the one that's right for you.

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

***** oh thank Goodness honey!!!! Lol you scared me for a minute sir. 😂😃😄

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

***** I appreciate you. Hope you're feeling better now. Never let any woman manipulate you! Get a woman that will respect you.

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

***** I couldn't agree with you more. I'm definitely not in the business of tearing ppl down.

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

***** yes sir that's so true!

I have been surrounded by manipulative/gaslighting women all my life (specifically my mother and sisters) and It has taken a huge toll on my mental health that I am still unable to fully recover from. My experience has made me think negatively of women in general, but after watching this video, this showed me that there are still women like you out there and this gives me a little bit of hope. Thank you for sharing this! Your future husband/boyfriend should feel so lucky!

@missctolbertvoh

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much. I'm so happy this video changed your mind about how you view women. I pray that your mental health is restored fully! Be encouraged honey!!

It lifted my spirit to hear this msg, thank you empress. A real man wants nothing but the best for his women thru real honest loving communication.

Straight from GOD sistah.. I love you for this 💯

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Adrian Flowers thanks I appreciate you.

@Adrian_El_Amin

6 жыл бұрын

missctolbertvoh not to be up in your business but are you from Chicago?

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Adrian Flowers yes I am!

@Adrian_El_Amin

6 жыл бұрын

missctolbertvoh aw well ur truly valid 💯💯💯

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Adrian Flowers I appreciate you!

This Mexican American Man agrees with you hundred percent. I’m in that situation rite now! Real Talk

Thank you for bringing this out some women treat hard working men like real trash ,

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Yah Love you're so welcome sweetie!!!! Men are waking up!!

I respect the fact that you can admit when you're wrong and don't glorify the fact that you wrong. A lot of times I see you women glorifying and cheering things that they do wrong. Kudos to you sister

Very nice video sister...on point!

@missctolbertvoh

7 жыл бұрын

Immortal Mindz, thanks brother! I'm happy you enjoyed it. I never knew this video would do as well as it has.

@ImmortalMindz

6 жыл бұрын

missctolbertvoh The truth has the ability to spread like wildfire

You’re very wise. In my relationship that’s what’s the most important to me. I’ll gladly do all I can for my girlfriend but if the respect isn’t there it’s a struggle. Thanks for this video it really shows how well you know men and I commend you for trying to improve on your attitude. Keep being a leader for women. They need you now more than ever.

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Nelson, thanks so much for your lovely comment honey! I appreciate your love. As long as God gives me breath in my body I will continue on the path of uplifting, inspiring, and teaching the masses, especially women.

Women should respect their man, and men should love their woman!

Glad I saw this. These exact reason are why my 6yr marriage is ending. When I'd check/put my wife in her place/feedback her behavior, she'd do the "but you, but you" not taking responsibility for her actions, and would manipulate it to me being "mentally" and "verbally abusive", and she'd cry victim and I would shut down and not participate in the childish behavior. After 6 years of it, the manipulation and immaturity drove me to the point of anger and punched a wall, and she left, and still refuses to own up to her actions that continuously piss me off. Sucks

I am currently in a relationship with a woman that talk so rude and nasty to me sometimes. she has numerous times disrespected me, embarrassed me, and just tried to make me feel less of a man. You give me hope that son women are still kind hearted, self evaluating, and mature minded really starting to think my girl isn't for me anymore.

@missctolbertvoh

7 жыл бұрын

Joachim Nance there is hope. Many women are mature, respectful, and open to change. How the woman in your life is treating you lets you know how she feels about you. If she's not willing to change you should reconsider the relationship.

@therealest1332

6 жыл бұрын

Joachim Nance why would you still with a woman like that? Grow a pair and kick her to the curb.

@TheFaithfulAtheist

6 жыл бұрын

You need to spray her with a can of BITCH-B-GON

@joachimnance6749

6 жыл бұрын

We have a beautiful child together so it isn't that easy, and I have no issue getting women trust me i just always wanted my own family

@TheFaithfulAtheist

6 жыл бұрын

Joachim Nance trust me, you want it with someone who respects you. Do you want to live your life getting shit on? Or watch your kid grow up to be as disrespectful to you as your wife? Fuck that, man. Dump her and fight for custody.

Thank you for this, I came across it by accident and you're saying everything I've been trying to tell my woman. At this point though I'm going to use your encouragement and tell her the truth. I used to love her but her attitude and her temper just makes here become a person I don't need in my life. Thank you. Thank you.

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Carlton Brown you're more than welcome. I hope she doesn't get upset when you show her. So many women got angry once they saw it. It wasn't an attack on them it was just to bring awareness to the men of what I've observed.

@carltonbrown4065

6 жыл бұрын

missctolbertvoh thank you, she's throwing a temper tantrum right now. I had to tell her the truth. She said the most hurtful things to me this evening over my license plate. Can you believe that?? I can't take it anymore.. Really don't need her in my life. Now she wants to get me in trouble, wouldn't be surprised if she called the cops and make up some story.

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Carlton Brown get out that toxic relationship. Don't stay connected to somebody with drama.

This is a real woman 👏🏽

@henrythomas9080

4 жыл бұрын

Amen

I've just stumbled upon your channel and so pleased i have. You speak very wise words. My mum treated her husband (my stepfather) like this . He passed away suddenly two months ago following a very aggressive illness and she's now living with extreme shame and regret.

@missctolbertvoh

9 ай бұрын

Oh no! RIP to him

I had women emasculate me on jobs who don't even know me for no reason. They do it because they can. I would never associate with a person like that.

@missctolbertvoh

7 жыл бұрын

QuadrantBottomHalf, avoid negative people period.

Beautiful thing to see a sister educating good men that go thru these things.. Last woman that uplifted a man was Angie stone black brother.. I receive this love thanks

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

John Doe you're more than welcome!

@JohnDoe-gl2mr

6 жыл бұрын

Truly amazing to hear...thanks for responding... I support woman and manhood.... Blessing on your journey... Keep educating and I will follow you.... Your Inspirational and beautiful jewel wink...

U just nailed it! U r becoming men's outlet to the women that want to change their attitude and thank u for that. I would appreciate if u add a video, "what men should do to change women that behave like this?"

Wow she has learned her lesson accountability is the key to change. Mad respect

@missctolbertvoh

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! ❤

Wow I'm amazed that there's a woman humble enough to see things from a man's perspective, great message!

Wow this is one of the best videos I’ve come across on KZread, well said sis, most women don’t know how to handle men and it’s sad, thanks so much for the video!!

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

charles egbunike you're so welcome!

@jaidee6294

6 жыл бұрын

Thx Sista. I Appreciate this vid.

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Jai Dee you're welcome!

That's real talk. My woman is a full time student and I work in the oilfield paying all the bills. Its just us two in a 2300sf home and she is constantly yelling, not talking, but literally yelling about me watching a game, or being in chill mode on my days off.. I get the 3rd degree if I have a drink at the house because she would rather go out and drink with friends instead of us spending quality time at home doing a movie or having some wine.

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

ArmChair GM it's so sad things have to be that way. That type of behavior doesn't do anything but push you further away. A raging woman isn't a good thing.

@socalman9028

4 жыл бұрын

Kick her to the curb. She’s a user.

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿more women and men need to watch this.

true putting your man in check when he is dead wrong is one thing but talking to your man crazy all the time is not OK and vice versa!

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

conniecakes06 you're so right queen!!!! I agree with you 100%! Thank you so much for not attacking me but understanding where I was coming from in this video. I appreciate you so much!!

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

conniecakes06 I appreciate your maturity and input.

@jerannejeranne8410

6 жыл бұрын

Do y’all think 🤔 the government helps the blacks woman destroy there men in many ways ?

@issaclove4957

6 жыл бұрын

conniecakes06

Half of them can't even put a good meal on the stove these days. Ridiculous!

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Yaawdie Se7en 😂🤣

Your realization is appreciated.

Thanks for the vid. Just got out of a 4 year relationship. She did not want ke anymore, because she claims im boring and this and that. She used to really verbally abuse me and i would fight back with words. She would also say things in a sly manner and try to use me. I wanted to make her hapoy but couldn't. This video brings light to the way i feel because i will admit, im feeling better than yesterday but im pretty down.

I respect the hell out of you and you are a true queen a true example of growth and development any man would be blessed to have you much respect black queen stay on the righteous path us black men need women like you in our lives love

@missctolbertvoh

7 жыл бұрын

Joshua Clay, thank you very much. I appreciate you!

I need to check myself.

@missctolbertvoh

7 жыл бұрын

Marquesha Martin don't trip queen! I think most women need to do a self examination of themselves. We've all been guilty of a bad attitude or manipulating at some point of our lives. The key is to recognize, admit, and change it. Glad you saw where I was coming from in this message and didn't get defensive.

@ga9100

6 жыл бұрын

Marquesha Martin cool u can admit that

@raymondtendau2749

6 жыл бұрын

@Marquesha...U sound so matured...Other women will respond so offended...i dont really see women from the outside beauty currently...i come across women i get to love them due to their attitude and not their beauty...Women with good attitude...i love every bit of u.

@remimarkable4834

6 жыл бұрын

Before you riggidy wreck yourself

@MarqueshaMartin

5 жыл бұрын

@@ga9100 So much love too you King. It's a process for me. I believe there is always room for change.

Thank you for this I am recently divorced because we did not see eye-to-eye and I did not get the respect as a husband I deserve. I did everything for her children I took care of them and I took care of her butt in my hard time she left me high and dry. I am praying for a Godly woman to come into my life... but I am going to wait on God and let him take care of that. Thank you for this message I hope women start understanding what they have before it's too late. I'm a good guy and I hope someone realizes that he respects me in the future.

@missctolbertvoh

2 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry you had to go through what you did but it made you stronger. Glad you're healing and going to God for his guidance and telling him what you desire. Your ex wife missed out! She will have to live with that.

Thanks so much for this video. I sincerely appreciate! 👍

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Sam AGBASIMELO you're so welcome sweetie!

A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands. - Proverbs 14:1

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

Darnell Smith great scripture! That's very true. A wise woman will know how to build her home, be respectful, and play her role as the helpmate for her husband. Marriage is ministry! When you know better you do better. Godbless you and thanks for sharing that word.

@alpaphoenix3252

8 жыл бұрын

Your welcome. I enjoy watching your videos.

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

Darnell Smith I'm happy you enjoy them. Thank you!

If I'm everything she says that I am, then why the hell is she with me? Gotta call her out on that bs.

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Kenn Tollens yep. You should.

Thank you for sharing the truth!! I see your growth and maturity! Keep sharing your experiences with younger women so they will learn how to treat and nurture a REAL man. Blessings to you my sista!

God bless the man who finds you. Men are so sad today over this. I attend men's meetings and this topic is always mentioned with confusion and sadness, yet with very little resolve. All we want is a simple and caring life with the woman we love and so many women destroy that dream. Thank you for caring for us men who are looking for women like you that we can care for and respect. This proves that you are really out there and care.

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

servant2u don't get discouraged. There are so many beautiful, mature and respectful women out here.

Men how your woman treats you is a reflection of yourself! If your girlfriend starts spouting about how she can do better then tell her sorry ass it's over. She only says shit like this because she knows you won't walk away no matter how she treats you. If you kick her to the curb she will come crawling back with way more respect and treat you so much better. If she doesn't come back then she didn't care about you and was probably cheating anyways.

Thank you miss, you kept it real here

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Uncle Damon you're more than welcome!

*you were exactly right about the emasculation - that’s what it is emasculation; disrespecting him in public; belittling him - call a spade a spade*

@missctolbertvoh

3 жыл бұрын

I see women disrespecting men in public all the time. It's sad.

@GoaWay4Sanity

3 жыл бұрын

@@missctolbertvoh *he accepts it and he allows it so he gets just what he deserves! she gets away with whatever he allows..*

Good job sista for doing this. So many people in relationship don't understand the power of your words. What you say and how you say it even during arguments can make or break a person's self confidence adoration and love for the relationship.

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Not No But Hell No!!! That's the truth!