I did exactly that! In my situation I did attempt discussions and compromise, but as soon as I realized that no attempt was made to meet me in the middle, I dropped her just as fast as if I was holding a hot coal. This wasn't to punish her, she can replace me in a second, it was to save my sanity.

"You fool me once shame on you. You fool me twice shame on me" That's an excellent quote.

Just don't play their game....They'll move on to someone who surely will...Case closed...

@Jhihmoac

8 жыл бұрын

+tames joney - All that male guilt and chivalry is too much trouble, when just a "Fuck Off, Bitch!" works wonders!

@Jhihmoac

8 жыл бұрын

+tames joney - All that male guilt and chivalry is too much trouble, when just a "Fuck Off, Bitch!" works wonders!

@girisaman

8 жыл бұрын

+tames joney // Sadly not just in America.

@girisaman

8 жыл бұрын

***** // You have to go to a place like Afganistan or Algeria or the poorer areas of Africa and South America to find women like that. Still don't bring them in the "developed" world cause they will soon catch up with the disease. Alternatively find a good christian woman. Women are nice only after force or faith hehe just made that up but sounds right.

@girisaman

8 жыл бұрын

***** // Haha true after the first 3-6 punches they would reconsider how they "expressed their feelings". Imean don't get me wrong I don't hate them or want them to be slaves or anything like that, but damn!

This talk is what political correctness is about: the pussification of men. Not against taking responsibility, but taking *full responsibility* is also giving the middle finger when women are nasty at you, so you let them know when they screw up.

@paulripple5734

3 жыл бұрын

I disagree with the reply. Taking responsibility is 100% man. If you let a woman take you for what you have ultimately it is your fault. If you stayed it's because you like drama or have low self esteem issues. If you saw red flags and was like oh but she never met me so things will change that is YOUR fault. These woman only exist because males allow them to exist. I've been in that situation several times and thought I could be the healer but in fact.....nope your just the idiot. Bail when you see the signs. Pussy is not God's gift to man. A real man would never ask a girl to give up things nor would a real women ask a man to give her things. You do it because you want to not because its expected.

dude they are so many.... how many women are you supposed to fly through to find ONE with integrity? I can't even count how many i've gone out with

This was a good video. Maybe one of the best videos I've seen in years. It's honest. I've found that, yes, you will encounter people, men and women, who, for whatever reason, will intentionally try to hurt you. As soon as you discover their intentions, just IMMEDIATELY drop them without even a single word and cut off all contact and remove all memories. And move on. Yes it's that simple. Such a great video. I wish I had seen it years ago. People never change. I have friends who are like "do you think she still loves me bro?" And I say, no, and she never did. Move on. Boom. Done.

I'm not a man but I'm learning a lot about how to treat men right from his videos. Showed me a perspective that I'll never be able to see by myself.

my left ear didn't know how to feel about this.

@simonandrews3466

6 жыл бұрын

Beenmajor 🤣🤣🤣

@ICET100

3 жыл бұрын

AHHH SHUTUP ABOUT YOUR LEFT EAR

Wow, you are so mature. It's great to hear your attitude of respect towards women, I highly appreciate it. Your message of positivity and insights of integrity are highly needed, how men should be men. I love hearing your channel, also the teachings for women especially!! Keep up the good work Jad. We need it

@Jay-Jones

2 жыл бұрын

Of course you appreciate it. You (and only you) benefit from it.

Why should men have to take FULL responsibility for wrongs done to them? Do you also think women should take FULL responsibility also?

@militarynewsradio

7 жыл бұрын

ContrarianExpatriate as a woman, I'm embarrassed how some women treat men.

@tavisbanks4781

5 жыл бұрын

That's the problem most women don't like being corrected it bothers them

@rohanlevy8521

5 жыл бұрын

@@tavisbanks4781 100% factual

@hirozzayz8164

4 жыл бұрын

@@tavisbanks4781 literally just honked at a woman for cutting myy turn on the intersection, she would have hit us if ii wasn't paying attention. She literally starting freaking out acting violent and honking back.

@bellabear653

4 жыл бұрын

@@militarynewsradio thanks for that comment it is nice to see a woman own terrible womans actions. But you dont need to but i get why you feel like that because you think if to many woman are like this then it makes you think all guys will think you are like that. We don't but there is a double standard that sucks and very little help for men with abusive female partners men stay as well for kids or caring reasons about the other person. But we rarely get credit.

Jad, I am very pleased to see a video that is not the usual PUA bullshit about hurting and hating women. It's refreshing to see an informational clip that is about personal responsibility and personal integrity as a means to navigate problematic people. Thank you for this.

If your an emotional man it's tough to finish the relationship, she will play on your sympathies and guilt, women are able to put us into an emotional trap but once you realise it you gotta break free.

They all are. It’s in their nature, it’s they’re weapon just like a mans strength

What a great video. I wish I had seen and handled it well like this. I kept going back to her.

This video is not about dealing, it is about ignoring and leaving.

Really great speak!

Very smart! It's not just about women, it's about life in general.

Great video man, this goes not only for women, but for all kinds of people in your life - your colleagues, your neighbors, your relatives, your friends etc. Thank you for uploading this :)

you are a great leader jad

Your comments on blaming reminded me of something: according to psychologists, blame is contagious! If taking responsibility for one's life is the goal, it makes sense, then, not only to avoid manipulative people but to avoid those who habitually blame and scapegoat.

Great video 👍

I was also through this hell. It's good you recognize what happened. There are now two wars. One in your head, the most important: if you have feelings for her, you should remove them (if you can't be indifferent, at least hate her). The second is an emotional war with her. For the sake of G-d, do not be responsive to her in ANY way. It will be difficult. Block her from Facebook and Skype, remove her from your address book, try not to establish eye contact with her, try to go to another school

Thanks a lot for this video, JAD!

Great video Jad. Learned a lot again from you. Thank you!

Wow, amazing advice! Thanks for posting.

Awesome video...very helpful....thanks Jad!!

A real man doesn't apologize for what he wants to say.

Love this video bro keep it up

my man go hitted with this subject....I feel you bro.

Awesome video

Thanks Jad you've given me alot of clarity for my current situation

thanks man for such a great video .

Very good video! !! Thnx for the info and tips. Its is very kind of you :)

Thank you. From a different perspective you helped to put things in perspective. Thank you. Thank you for helping.

Needed to hear this... thanks

thanks man very informative and helpful. peace.

Brother you have hit the nail on the head

that's good advice man, simple and direct, thx

This video is perfect yo' like Real Talk. Thanks !

Jad u are best and the way u explain stuff so coolly makes u best.

Awesome disclaimer in the intro.

A bro great advice man. I hear you loud and clear.

Thanks jad, this really help me alot

Dude, I love your outlook and the way you deal with people. You're a great role model in my opinion, keep sharing your great ideas!

you r so right. i bought popcorn at the movies with a large drink for us to share. eventually she remembered me and handed me two large cups. one with kernels, the other with ice cubes. i let her continue to show her selfish side throughout the evening, drove her home and said seeya. a week later she called asking "why haven't you called?". and to explain what she did wrong. i told her, "it's not my position to teach you CONTINUED

Dude,Great video

To the maker of this video: "Thank you! You gave a lot of stuff to think about. And I genuinely appreciate you taking the time to make this." I love how you said to not try to change anyone, but to accept that certain people just are a certain way, but to also not allow their bad behavior to change you. I also like how you said: "When a man blames other people, he is not taking full responsibility for what happens in his life. Boys blame! Men take responsibility."

@jadtjones

4 жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

Jad T Jones for president!

Thanks Jad!

"Remember to breath", You rock! 💛

Thank you sir, learned great deal.

That was very good piece of advice.

good lecture man. i learned.

My hat is off to you sir , I thank you, knowledge is power

Hi, Jad T Jones, thanks very much. I like your features they are helpful.

Sound advice. Thanks for the response :)

thanks jad, your video is amazing...

I am soo going to show this video to my son(s). It's better to have them prepared for the worst and keep looking for the best! Thanks brother!

Jad man, I respect you!

Nice Haircut!

Thanks for your video its been really helpful i found myself in a toxic relationship a total disaster !

u r so positive bruh, i cant help but 2 like ur videos.. bless u man..

Well said

Jad its fantastic I respect u bro

The best one is "there are alot of boys who want me. I could jump off you and get someone else". So manipulative you should watch out for that one and not care at all.

Thank you jad. you the man, you're always on point and you open my mind n help me become a better person

Breathe... yes man thanks for sharing that

I am in this situation and youve helped me! thanks man

Last two minutes are great

thank u for sharing this..god bless

My right ear really enjoyed this.

Great advice....thanks

One of my best guys friends is in a relationship with a manipulative women and I was looking for a video to send him. I really appreciate the fact that you didn't hate on women because not ALL women are manipulative. This video is awesome. It all comes down to the fact that we have to respect each other and love ourselves enough to walk away. Thanks for making this video. Keep on Keepin' on.

@BlackSaintNiks

9 жыл бұрын

Virstyne YES NOT ALL especially in the eastern world. But Western women MOST are VERY manipulative.

@MrTrexPrehistoric

8 жыл бұрын

Since you are a woman yourself I bet you decode her behavior and tell him exactly what she is doing.

THAT IS AMAZINGLY AMAZING!

@miriamstrauss1251

9 жыл бұрын

:)

@SiddhantSinghscience

9 жыл бұрын

Miriam Strauss

@miriamstrauss1251

9 жыл бұрын

Siddhant Singh Brother , love you!!!!!!

@SiddhantSinghscience

9 жыл бұрын

Miriam Strauss Love you too Sister. Miss you.

Treated my girlfriend like an absolute goddess for the last 3 years. I'm a goddamned fool.. I'm as close to being a walking talking door matt as a man can get.. Don't make the same mistakes as me guys !!! Even if she loves you like crazy in the beginning, if you treat her TOO WELL, then you WILL end up like me. Well, only 100% of the time that is.. In all seriousness though, it hurts A LOT and makes your life about as miserable as you could ever imagine.. I'm not saying treat her like shit, or to not give her love and affection. I'm just warning you not to give her your life on a silver platter or else they WILL think that you are desperate or that you don't deserve them. It's sad and wrong of them, but they will actually think that you owe them all of this adoration just because they are with you. They'll think they are *allowing* you to be with them, when the reality is that love is a two-way street. I'm having the hardest time of my life right now (because of many other things as well) but not having her love and support makes everything 10x harder than it already is. Especially knowing that I haven't done anything wrong, other than being too good to someone.. Good luck guys. If you're going through the same things and can relate to this comment, then I AM SORRY. Because God knows she isn't. 💔

@JaySantanaofficial

4 жыл бұрын

I was u for 5 years ..

perfect video ...not on manipulative women but on the character of humans ... congrats

WaaaaaaaaaW Bro you are so right, everything that you said is totally right i appreciate you so much

that's true, sometimes pinning down a manipulative person would be like nailing jello to wall, usually you can get close but you can't quite get it done, they can just deny it. Just understand that things are like a mind game, you just have to think like the other person, and then maybe you can get their playbook.

Walking away without a word of truth just for sake of you being smarter is not the right way.Person will do it again and again.You should ackowledge that person that you know you were being manipulated in nice intelligent way and lastly you turn on the heel and you leave.Never look down when you know that you are right.Woman will know that you won.

Great video educational enough

I stumbled onto your page. Good job. Your video was very instructive in explaining that people do not have the power to change other people. Good comment about people being who they are. You are very good at teaching, I hope you have continued success and can expand into other topics than just for men. Maybe you could have a channel helping woman be their best and spotting honorable men such as yourself. Take care

The cup of water was awkward af hahaa

you are my hero

Thanks for not editing and saying naturally what you felt like saying now I feel connected to the message man 👍🏻haha and yes breathing! Nr 1 when being around woman in general!

Hey Jad, ust out of curiosity do you read any self help books? The part where you exlain about blame taking away your power, I have heard and seen that in self help before.

awsome dude

my girlfriend never ever pays for everything. I know her salary is lower than mine but she won't even buy me a cup of coffee .

Thank you Jad u are the true person, also the think is that I know where she is live, but I do not wanna sound needy or clingy, should I go to her place or wait?

I know you say you're not wise, but you are!! I don't know if you know this, but everytime i hear you talk, is like you're basically reciting the phylosofical foundations of modern liberalism; every time i hear you say: "Take full responsability for your acts" "Do not blame" "Do not try to change people" "Do not use force" "Respect the individuality of others"; everytime i hear you say any of this i think of liberlism, so you are amazingly wise!! Greetings man!

Hmm never thought of it like that.. Interesting stuff :)

hahaha.. loved the "breath"thing .. beautiful video thanks alot.. can i have some videos abt women dealing with manipulative women?

Thx u, u gave a great advises for the minpulative girls.

Boy did I change ;) Thanks for a good vid mate!

That bit where you scream at the coal is a great illustration! :)

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Jad watched a lot of your videos and you really are a great coach and give awesome advice. I have a question though: Do you think it is possible to change yourself from an Introvert (You don't really like talking to people), to an Extrovert (You love talking to people all the time). Thanks. :)

I agree about dropping but I wonder if it would have been helpful before that to just be open and ask (i.e., communicate) why she hasn't offered to pay? I always want to and offer to pay mine or all of the bill, but I wonder if there is potential for misunderstanding if we just "drop people" without talking and figuring out what the other is thinking?

Dude yes preach!!

thanks for the video dude, it gave me some usefull tips... too bad that Ive gone too far away with "this manipulative" person dude... and theres "no turning your back" on it... its too late, but sfill you gave me some tips on howto deal with those awkward situations... thanks dude

You could have a conversation with them about where they are wrong, and then drop them if you judge that their response doesn't suffice, or just drop them anyway. Voicing your opinion to them may lead them to changing themselves. If blaming is whining then indeed there's no point. But blaming the right people (including yourself) for the right things can just be part of being honest. One can still respond differently(to last time) when the person at fault would otherwise bother oneself.