What gets under my skin is when jealous people hate on you for having what you possess but refuse to do what you did to get there.

@Island_empress_340

Ай бұрын

Exactly!

@thatgirlbrinna7927

Ай бұрын

This!

@estherbelleza7125

Ай бұрын

Omg yes!

@butterflystardust3143

Ай бұрын

Very true!

@clincpb8903

Ай бұрын

Lazy people.

Very sad how women can be very jealous and dislike you for no reason!!! I have lived thru it my entire life. No matter how caring and friendly, I can be!!! Oh well, less toxic friendship is better for our soul. Greetings from Arizona ladies!!!

@BecomingaQueen

2 ай бұрын

Yes unfortunatelly 😢 we need so much detachment, management and in general, being on constant watchout 🥲

@saturdaysun10

2 ай бұрын

It isn't for no reason. It is evolutionary.

@ashleyg1882

2 ай бұрын

@@saturdaysun10 They may feel jealous but doesn't mean they need to act on it like an animal, we are humans we can rise above feelings.

@limfenyuykinyuy4861

2 ай бұрын

Indeed. Less toxic relationships is the best

@nanimm8673

2 ай бұрын

You’re not alone. I just stay away from them because I can’t trust drinking water from their house.

What’s the worst is jealous women who are FAMILY 😭

@sophial.2438

2 ай бұрын

And the worst of the worst is a jealous mother who is now, due to her jealousy, unwilling to unconditional love and support her daughter. A daughter who will be confused, depressed, frustrated, and neglected for decades until she figures this horrible truth out. A daughter who then realizes her mother never loved her and has to come to terms with that. Not only that, but a daughter who will have experienced a smear campaign, backstabbing campaign, and leaving-out campaign thanks to the one woman in the world who was supposed to unconditionally love her. Those of you who identify with this, know that the scapegoat in the family is the one who resembles Christ the most! Be proud of that, leave the gossiping bunch behind and build your own family, including supportive friends and unconditionally loving pets!

@cherylpiorkowski

2 ай бұрын

@@sophial.2438 As the daughter of a jealous mother, your comment made me feel better even though it is a heartbreaking situation to be in. I can deal with acquaintances, coworkers or neighbors who are jealous of me, because they don't owe me anything after all. They don't even have to like me. But a family member is supposed to love you, and your mother is supposed to love you the most because she's the one who chose to bring you into this world. Unfortunately some mothers are unable or unwilling to give love to their children. As you said, the best thing you can do in these circumstances is to build your own family.

@AnnAndNala

2 ай бұрын

I agree 100%. I grew up the scapegoat, with my “mother’s” world revolving around jealousy of me, tearing me down, bullying me and even calling several of my employers in my past trying to get me fired. I’ve finally gone no-contact with her, and am seeing a therapist for c-ptsd for a lifetime of hell from a jealous, cruel and vindictive “mother”. Godspeed ladies, we are so much better than that, and deserve to be treated with kindness and respect. ❤

@riasb

2 ай бұрын

It’s hell :(

@Meetjesusatthewell

2 ай бұрын

I totally agree! So heart breaking

I have learned not to reveal to much to certain women. Bc of the jealously. It makes life more peaceful for me. It’s sad though.

@s.a.4358

2 ай бұрын

I agree with this, especially in a work context. It’s also a good way to know who is really a friend, as friends will be happy for your success and hype you up, not be malicious or not think you should have what you have.

@user-kg5ij5ic6b

2 ай бұрын

Hi my sister and my friends were always jealous of me and it bother me alot it got me sick now i am 65 years and they are still this way it got me sick i let it bother me now ido not speak to them anymore and i feel much better i am not rich i live alone i live a very simple life they are just so mean the only woman that lived me and cared for me was my mother i miss her so much she passed away many years ago but i learned in life if people around you that are mean and jealous stay away and be happy any way you can life is short love yourself and stay away from people that have bad intentions and that are toxic god bless i wish all the kind woman and good woman the best !

@user-kg5ij5ic6b

2 ай бұрын

I only trusted my mother in this life she loved me and cared for me ! 11:11

@shaybaeevolve119

Ай бұрын

This🔥

@axanaf4901

Ай бұрын

No it doesn't make it sad, all it really means is that YOU are a very smart woman!!!

As a successful woman in a male dominant field, jealous men like to laugh at my ideas while stealing and presenting them as theirs, they also love to talk about my appearance (how old and "off market" I am for being single and over 40s) while spreading lies about me being involved with them, even the married ones! Same behaviour as jealous women towards my appearance, my money and my independency from my also successful partners. So, I honestly think it's a matter of character, not gender. We all should accept jealousy as a normal human trait and canalize energy towards improving ourselves and not downplaying others to feel better. It's so ugly.

@Iguocho

2 ай бұрын

thank you for saying this 🙌🏾

@nzingahoney

2 ай бұрын

Mite effeminate and catty innit

@redpillqueen8888

2 ай бұрын

So accurate

@seabreeze4559

2 ай бұрын

That's why you tell them stupid ideas that will ruin them as sabotage, ideally if you know how to fix it and look better for fixing their stupid mess.

@dedalins1810

2 ай бұрын

@@seabreeze4559 Usually I present my ideas on brainstorming meetings and they ignore it or make funny noises in front of everybody, and repeat exactly what I said. Just like that. The other men accept better, almost immediately when coming from a man, not woman. But it's really funny to see them struggling to elaborate more details about the approach, since they don't fully thought through it. Once a guy stole a woman's colleague files from her pc and built his project on top of her basis. Outrageous, I know. But plot twist, he forgot to review some mistakes she hadn't have time to fix yet. Her presentation was faultless and she ended up leading him on this specific project. Other thing they love to do is to have secret "informal meetings" without women and say it's just coffee time, hide documents and data from us to delay our outcomes, or not engage on project lead by us. And all of this just for jealousy.

I’m the type of person that’s gets inspired not jealous. Thank you Anna I like your content!

@kimvilleneuve2543

2 ай бұрын

I feel the same. I don’t get jealous.

@laaprincesse8216

2 ай бұрын

this!!!

@alissanelson1156

2 ай бұрын

Every mentally healthy person gets jealous at some point. How you handle and deal with your jealousy is what makes you better than jealousy.

@glorious6779

2 ай бұрын

Me to. I admire and get inspired.

@user-xu7ri4iu3y

Ай бұрын

I feel self absorbed please are more ego driven and they want to be the central of attention. And they want to be admired. That is why older women are jealous than younger women. People who are egotistical like to be in the superior position. And they hate that people are better than them.

It is scary when toxicity can reach the extremes of criminal activity. There was the story in another forum of a lady who was almost poisoned by her "friends"; she had graduated with honours, got a high paying job, things were falling into place for her. Her friends decided to take her out for drinks; when she went to the bathroom, one of her "friends" slipped something into her drink. One of the waitresses saw it, waited outside the bathroom and warned this lady about it, told her not to drink her cocktail. The lady comes back to the table, her "friends" are egging her on to celebrate and drink up her cocktail. She pushed it to one of them and asked them to drink it for her, and that is when their true colours came out and a heated argument about how this lady got everything she wanted in life and they didn't, that she thought she was too good for them. Long story short, they are no longer friends, the lady reported them to the police and had them arrested. Sad that they did not choose to celebrate her; the good you put out into the world will always come back to you if you choose it, no matter what emotions you are battling with at first.

@dineshalove2902

2 ай бұрын

Moral of this story, be an introvert like ME 😢. Be nice from a distance.

@gratzia

2 ай бұрын

I nearly got dux of the school until someone put cannabis in my food and made me unwell for many years. I had everything, a nice house, love from the popular boys and good grades then they plummetted and I got depression. Unable to work because I get exhausted too easily as well.

@BIBLE-a-s-m-r

2 ай бұрын

That's disgusting. I'm so happy for the waitress, clearly God was looking out for her using that waitress like that. What the hell. That's a good sign though, maybe those "Women" will reap what they sow.

@ah5721

2 ай бұрын

oh my goodness ! how horrible !

@limfenyuykinyuy4861

2 ай бұрын

Sad. It's a reality

I don’t jealous women, but women are jealous of me just because I am me. I compliment women I don’t even know on their …clothes…shoes…style…perfume and the like. I love me and know who I am. I’ve never cared about who have what or how anyone looks.

@Lisa_M_V

Ай бұрын

When you are self loving you spread love! Insecure people who hate themselves hate judge others. Shame. But they only are creating disease in their own bodies 😐😅

@michaela6550

Ай бұрын

I relate to your comment

Jealousy is a real problem when someone tries to sabotage you at work or socially. Sometimes you need to shut people down but most of the time i ignore them and the truth comes out about their lies

Jealousy = immaturity

@laurawhitaker1797

Ай бұрын

Jealousy also equals insecurity.

@jhalak831

Ай бұрын

​@@laurawhitaker1797 also equals not being grateful for what you have, lack of ambition and lack of self worth.

@TheMinistryofLove

15 күн бұрын

@@jhalak831💯

My only competition is who I was yesterday.

@melymel36

Ай бұрын

Yes! 👏

I have lost many female “friends” due to jealousy. As a beautiful woman I’m often viewed as a competitor not a friend.

@signatureblonde5956

Ай бұрын

Oh please.... Maybe you are projecting jealousy on other women hysterically that's why other women give you the answer you are looking for...

@wintermatherne2524

Ай бұрын

Nope, I’ve been ugly and pretty and women are just childish.

@DivineGoddess333

Ай бұрын

Someone at the gym started something with me for literally no reason. She looked like my daughter. It made me sad.

@_rhea.b_1305

Ай бұрын

Sorry but you’re not pretty enough to have women being jealous, sorry but it’s true

@MaffyTaffyHaffy

Ай бұрын

I hate to break it to youre not that beautiful LMAO probably a 6.5/10. maybe people don’t wanna be around someone who is conceded

Jealousy is a clear sign that you want what someone else has - use that knowledge as inspiration rather than tearing other people down. People who try to diminish others only make themselves look bad. If you ever find yourself feeling jealous, ask yourself what it is you want that they have. Then use that as inspiration and go get it! ❤

@maddyharvey7414

2 ай бұрын

Exactly, and the reason it turns toxic is that many people see that someone else has something, and then because of low self esteem, or trauma or whatever reason, they assume they can’t have that same thing. That’s where it gets ugly- because now the person they envy becomes someone who has almost ‘taken away’ their dreams (even though we know that isn’t true). And it’s sad because it’s often directed at people who they’re quite similar to in terms of abilities/status in life (that’s where I’ve seen envy get the worst) so they likely can achieve it.

@britjj5126

2 ай бұрын

I want to add that it’s about being content with yourself, probably what we have someone else wishes they had. More importantly not comparing yourself to someone else. There is a saying “comparison is the killer of joy”. Each of us is on our own journey in life with our own unique gifts and experiences.

@jasmintorino6129

2 ай бұрын

True 💯. Surface level jealousy is a waste of time and energy. Be inspired rather than jealous of the people you meet

@laurawhitaker1797

Ай бұрын

Sometimes others have a quality, such as physical beauty, that you can’t have. Being minimally attractive, I accept this is the case and try to improve myself while recognizing my limitations. No sense in lashing out at others for whatever qualities they were gifted or developed.

@britjj5126

Ай бұрын

@laurawhitaker1797 Okay, I see what you're trying to say, but physical beauty is a trait. It's not a quality. Physical can go away with age, disfigurement, etc. A quality you can work at to improve and it's inside of you, you demonstrate the quality.

Jealousy is low class and not very classy.its a form of low-level mental illness, and personally, I feel sad for unhappy people. They are at war with themselves and could benefit from therapy.

@renreads7211

2 ай бұрын

I agree. I don’t know why some try to normalise it.

@AnnAndNala

2 ай бұрын

100%

@marthaanderson2967

2 ай бұрын

Beautifully put ! be happy with yourself , work towards a cause to benefit others and feel good from within is the way to be Happiness comes from gratitude & giving back . Avoid the jealous resentful ones , a negative energy .

@mentalhealthadvocate8467

2 ай бұрын

you nailed it guurrll.

@jhalak831

Ай бұрын

Yes, but that's harmful to other they try to destroy happy people because they can't see them happy.

I have dealt with jealous women my whole life. It is very complicated and difficult to deal with.these women create so much damage in other people's lives, whether they act knowingly or not

"Thou shalt not covet." Jealously is a terrible sin!

@riasb

2 ай бұрын

Yes, bc we dismiss our Abundant Lord.

@707tich

23 күн бұрын

I was just about to write that

Social media is playing a huge negative role in people's perceptions of themselves.. unfortunately

@maddscientist3170

2 ай бұрын

EXACTLY

@oncode7735

2 ай бұрын

I noticed that

@zaravr

Ай бұрын

they were jealous before that...keeping up with the joneses

“I can validate my own self.” Amen. So many people need to hear and internalize this and then apply it to so many situations their lives. Thank you for using your platform for such good!

“This is my life, and 98% of the women around me. I didn’t do anything to deserve the hate, jealousy, and competitiveness I get from them. It’s always the same with all the women I meet. I’m someone who’s very content with my life and with what I have, and I have zero jealousy towards people because I believe they work hard to get there. I just block them and move away from them because I can’t trust people with this attitude.”

@Belisa416

2 ай бұрын

You were shining to bright! And you didn’t know it 😌

@bumblebee4280

2 ай бұрын

Everybody needs a friend, but the time people spend with a bad friend could be invested in a better friend who would actually help them if they ever needed it.

@nanimm8673

2 ай бұрын

@@bumblebee4280 not really and I don’t think good female still exists.

@Samicro-zs2uz

2 ай бұрын

I agree , this is also the story of my life . Everytime the same scheme. I am still single and I even have the jaleousy of tall the married women with kids. I do not even envy them but there is something in me that make them feel jaleous.

@carlsenlifeafter60carlsen11

2 ай бұрын

I’m the youngest in my whole family two brothers and two sisters are insanely jealous because I was very close to my parents and they weren’t. It’s something that I tried to understand as a young child. My mother told me that jealousy is just a sickness ,she tried to tell me just to be myself and ignore it. It’s very hard to ignore, but I just went on with my life. I still deal with it today.

You will never find haters who are doing better than you 😉 Btw I love that the timing of the video is 11:11 and there are right now 11 comments 🥰🤩

@AsNatureIntended13

2 ай бұрын

"you will never find haters who are doing better than you" o.O this. thank you.

@AsNatureIntended13

2 ай бұрын

ps. I also noticed the time 11:11 and smiled to myself :)

@tereza5211

2 ай бұрын

@@AsNatureIntended13 🌻

@izzyash2031

2 ай бұрын

I thought envy was the fear of not attaining something you desire and jealously was fear of losing something you have.

@diatribe5

Ай бұрын

So true. If I pass by those who have it together, they mind their own business and don’t get rude to me.

I’ve started surrounding myself with women who are only positive about themselves because they don’t need to criticise me to feel good about themselves❤ I love seeing women who look fantastic because I take inspiration from what they are wearing or how they did their makeup or hair etc 🙏

I had an art classmate who finished my joy in the class - she saw the teacher really liked me & my work, so she acts sweet but would interrupt every time i spoke to the teacher (& doesn't to anyone else). Also, pushes me off the benches by setting her stuff up near mine, takes my equipment...& finally when she realised i stay last & have nice teacher time, she brought in work to show the teacher at class end. They also talked about me in a different language & she got the teacher to speak in that for her one on one advice, so i couldn't listen in & learn too. I was always the one who looked bad, since I would raise my voice when: she pushed me off, interrupted, & took my stuff- so it always looked like i was the one being unpleasant instead of her! Luckily, because I've had so many problems with people being jealous, this time I saw it right from the start, so i didn't waste much emotional energy on feeling hurt, sad and angry. And luckily i reached a point of wanting to pursue other goals and could just leave permanently.

I needed this I need to detached from a friend who is always looking for topics to disagree about and making subtle comments actually mocking me …

@ah5721

2 ай бұрын

that's not a real friend.

Feeling jealousy for another woman can be turned into a positive. I have asked myself why am I jealous of this woman? What is it that I am jealous of? The next question is, what can I do to level up and achieve the thing I am jealous about. Do I need to take more time and effort when planning outfits? Do I need to read a book so I can understand what she was talking about so that I can join in next time? And so on. It’s an emotion that if used properly can make you level up and become your better self.

@ah5721

2 ай бұрын

I know a singaporean lady who is very kind and invites me to networking events. She has impeccable taste. I'm jealous of outfits- they aren't my style but she always looks so polished. I'm doing the work to upgrade my wardrobe and put together better looks on a budget. I think to myself.. how would she style it? how can I style it on myself ? I use jealousy as fuel to improve myself instead of being wistfully and self defeating jealous .

@suzannehall5200

2 ай бұрын

Good for you! Best wishes on your leveling up journey!

@silversilver0

Ай бұрын

You're on the right path and that's emotionally mature but also, it's not an external issue. It's an internal issue. The insecurity doesn't just disappear because you made someone change on the outside. It's being comfortable in your own skin, realizing that everyone brings something different to the table and no one is above the other.

I think the jealousy out there, along with insecurities, has escalated to making navigating the social world like an all out daily war. If some women have talent, beauty, feminine gentleness, feminine kindness, critical thinking abilities, anything people see as "high quality." Instead of enjoying this in a person they make reputation sabotaging comments. This is why women dim their light and hide their benefits. Men really must search to find these hidden gems.

"The best thing you can do is to let go, practicing letting go is a very difficult art but it's going to help you in the long run."

@DiscipleEssi1996

2 ай бұрын

Absolutely, I realized this last week alone. It's NOT my battle to fight, I just keep living my life and not own this Negative energy they try to put on me. Just keep loving. Love repels evil.

We’ve strayed farther and farther from being the communal creatures that we are & have adapted very masculine tendencies-competitiveness is one of them.

@rosyapplekitchen635

2 ай бұрын

Absolutely, the me me me culture and greed

@evolvingishpod

2 ай бұрын

@@rosyapplekitchen635 Absolutely 💯

That’s exactly right you can only control yourself.

@realme-pw2lc

2 ай бұрын

Until they act on that feeling and make it difficult for you at work, etc.

As much as I love social media, it is playing a big role in mental health issues IMHO. Many lies and liars around making people feel insecure and less privileged, to say the least. Everyone is “rich and pretty”. Perhaps if we try to be honest when we put ourselves out there, we would be able to help to make a better world. Great video Anna. Sending love.

Jealousy is just a fact of life - people will be jealous of me, and i'll be jealous of other people. i look at it like any other emotion: harmless if fleeting, and very damaging if left unchecked. it's up to every person how they handle their jealousy - i try not to fixate and change momentary jealousy into something more motivational: "She has such gorgeous hair/skin/style/whatever, I wish i had that...what do i have to do, to gain it for myself?"

@Lexis001

2 ай бұрын

A healthy attitude:)

@UnicornPizza

2 ай бұрын

Your momentary jealousy turned into envy - which is something way better than nasty jealousy, I love your comment!

@Jessie12N

2 ай бұрын

Ur the only person in this comments section who is being honest, everyone else is like “people are jealous of me and I can’t stand it and I never get jealous”😂 like these people don’t know that we know they are human

@silversilver0

Ай бұрын

Very emotionally mature, I think everyone here needs to be honest with themselves. Jealousy is a normal emotion and everyone experiences it from all different walks of life and backgrounds.

I had lots of girls and even teachers in school who were jealous but I never allowed that to pull me down. My feminine and calm mature manner was what got me through just being myself. Also my long hair since I've always had long luscious hair, my hair gets tons of compliments when I'm out. It's rare to find someone especially where I live to have the length of hair that I have.

@aylaa5842

2 ай бұрын

I don't know why but they're specially jealous about long, voluminous and precious hair

@KaysFantasy

2 ай бұрын

@aylaa5842 It's rare escape where I live that anyone has the length of hair that I have. I can't go anywhere without getting stopped by someone about how long it is lol

Finally 🎉 I am constantly punished by others’ insecurities.

Just from the title I'm liking this video. You are doing the Lord's work.

@Lja77613

2 ай бұрын

😂

I didn’t have a problem with people being envious or jealous of me until they started putting in the action by setting me up to embarrass me etc then i stayed away.

It’s called Tall Poppy syndrome. It was discussed recently when UK journalist Louise Perry interviewed top Canadian female sports coach. Many experiments were carried out where a group of girls and women were exposed to a beautiful and successful athlete that entered the room dressed in a provocative outfit. Gossiping, tearing down talk, side glances and even bursting with laughter were all captured on film by the researchers.

@beautifulextraterrestrial

2 ай бұрын

I've been experiencing this all my life and I don't even have to wear a provocative outfit.

@theyluvv.me787

2 ай бұрын

This experiment is ridiculous. Of course people aren’t going to like when someone is dressed provocatively, they are looking for a safe friend to share a life with, which includes access to there significant other. I absolutely refuse to allow an immodest woman around my daughters or husband. It’s a basic protective instinct.

@seabreeze4559

2 ай бұрын

@@theyluvv.me787 there are no immodest outfits, they're jealous of a natural hourglass figure. I can't help the body I've had since I was TWELVE.

@theyluvv.me787

2 ай бұрын

@@seabreeze4559 I have the same body type plus 550 cc breast implants. Before Jesus saved me I was really into plastic surgery. I dress modestly. I don’t wear skin tight clothing, I don’t wear super short dresses or crazy small slivers of clothing. Try that argument with someone else.

@seabreeze4559

2 ай бұрын

@@theyluvv.me787 What argument? Also Jesus saves your soul as a possibility, you are not guaranteed to be saved. That's pride. He says many will claim to know him and he will say He never knew them. So check your conceit and as someone with a naturally superior figure, I had no say-so in being objectified at the age of 12 by creeps. It didn't matter what I was wearing. I tried everything. Nothing worked. So gaslight someone else.

Anna, fantastic. This topic must be analyzed more. It ruins lives everyday. Im glad to work from home these days and be away from certain jealous ladies. Its sad we cannot support each other 100%.

Your video came in right time, my neighbour is really mean to me for no reason.

I had a horrible issue about a year and a half ago when someone (family) got struck by jealousy towards me. I was once the solution person and then I ended up being the problem. I’ve learned a lot from that and I’m so much stronger in mind, and so much happier one year later. Thank you for this video.

I’m rarely feel jealous of fabulous woman, I’m more admiring than jealous, sure there’s a hint of envy but for the main I love the spectacle of a woman at her finestI

I think compassion towards others is very important. Jealousy is a very painful mind, they are suffering. No need to be angry or look down on jealous people. And we also have jealousy sometimes. We need to learn how to deal with it in our own mind when it arises for us❤

I believe jealousy and envy are slightly different in that as a married woman, if another woman flirts with my husband, it is natural for me to have a certain feeling about that situation “ I would feel jealous.” On the other hand if I for example love handbags and I am a collector and maybe Anna has a nice rare handbag that I would love to get and I can’t obtain that bag, and I begin to have some negative emotions because I want something that belongs to someone else, then that is Envy and it’s quite dangerous.”

@britjj5126

2 ай бұрын

This! There is a proper jealousy. Best believe if someone is shamelessly flirting with my man I’m not telling myself to get over it 😂

@ottie1954

2 ай бұрын

Exactly, I see in English the word jaelousy is much used with the meaning of "envy". Envy is always a mean feeling. Jaelousy can also be the innocent attempt to protect one's beloved from being "stolen" by someone else...

Turn the focus on yourself instead of being jealous❤

This video is so well-timed for me... Apparently, some friend cannot deal with the fact that I met someone who makes me the happiest and have just to cut off the relationship without a word face to face! And you're right, who cares who's judging :)

@historiqueafricaine

2 ай бұрын

Prioritize you❤ you'll build your life with your spouse not those jealous friends

I understand that there will always be jealousy unfortunately as I’ve lived it frequently; but what I fail to understand is all of the advise says “focus on yourself” and/or “limit contact,” well that’s what I do and have always done…. But when these jealous women engage in what Anna mentions earlier: “smear campaign”, “sabotage”, etc and you are obviously being negatively affected despite best efforts (and maybe also forced to be around these people..) WHAT ARE YOU TO DO THEN?!!

People wonder why some females’ friends are nearly entirely male, forgetting that no matter how nice a girl is, others often are malevolent toward her and cannot be trusted. Not everyone has the luck/circumstances to be near ethical peaceful females. Some women have even stalked other women and started defamation campaigns against them. Trust is something that should be earned and not easily given. Better safe than sorry.

@ZeCahli

2 ай бұрын

💯 👏 Thank you for posting this. So very true!!

I enjoyed this very much and sometimes women are their worst enemy in the work force.

Ive been watching you since 2022 & stopped in 2023. I am back watching you again in 2024. I want to say that you have truly level up in term of contents cause at some point they were very repetitive. I am truly amazed by your perseverance & dedication. Good luck

@m.a.p.g.

2 ай бұрын

Exactly my story.

My mantra is other's people insecurity isn't my problem. I usually just smile, nod, and leave the situation 😊

I think jealousy is the reason behind everything negative in a relationship…if you’re in the shits with someone, it’s core will be jealousy….if someone is mean to you-jealousy…if someone won’t talk to you-jealousy…someone spreads rumours-jealousy…..

No one is jealous of me... but I've definitely learned to get rid of it in my own life and I am glad for that.

If you find you are jealous of someone or envious of them, you can use it as a teaching tool for yourself. Ask yourself honestly what it is you are jealous about and use that to work out what you need to work on in yourself. Use that person as a positive inspiration and a way to guide you to your own path of transformation. You're obviously admiring something about that person where you feel you are lacking so it can be a practical illustration of where you want to head and an example of what you might need to do to achieve it for yourself. Some people see someone they are jealous of and try to tear that person down to their level so they feel comfortable again without having to do any work of their own (lazy and insecure in their own abilities and fearing failure so why bother, if that person gets dragged down, no-one is special and you can kid yourself that they "weren't that special to begin with anyway" - this is often what people do), but I think it's much better to use that person as an inspiration to bring yourself up to their level instead. Speaking personally, I'm always inspired by successful people and try to use it as an example of what I can have for myself too.

This is the best color I have seen on you. You look so beautiful and it makes your features stand out. You're probably a light summer

Anna I love the fact that you are talking about things women need to deal with, it just shows you are not a snowflake, a woman without depth, instead you are woman that is beautiful with brains, a deep thinker. Thank you for delving into deeper topics.

I don’t have jealousy problems because I’m secure, healthy and happy. I have my 👑 and everything I need.

My KZread account heard what I said to my therapist tonight and delivered this to me. I got a big glow up in the last few years and I get the WEIRDEST comments and cold shoulders from other women. Some of them are almost comical. On one hand I want to respond and be like “Jennifer, what the hell?” But eyes on the prize (and God knows I still have goals yet to be reached and projects yet to be finished) is the way. Perfect content!

Jealousy is one of the lowest vibration emotions that people commonly experience. To me the best way to cope with jealousy is to transform it into joy & motivation An unbalanced Solar plexus chakra leads to jealousy & possessiveness ❤

Anna, Im very curious to know how to go grocery shopping as an elegant woman. Some do’s and dont’s would be helpful, such as some other insights on this daily moments! Love your content Anna, always very on point 🫶🏼

@ah5721

2 ай бұрын

1.Don't block the isle, be aware of your surroundings wait for people to go past , say excuse me if you need to squeeze by in a narrow aisle, 2.Only grab what you want. some people are weird about buying things people have already just touched. 3 Be polite to the cashier, if you bring your own bags for groceries give them to the cashier bagger first so that its not a big deal for them to pull things out already bagged and firmly and gently say "please use these instead " 4.Dress nice casual in comfortable but classy shoes - do yourself up with a slicked back ponytail and natural looking makeup if your feeling a bit lazy and don't want to do full face. think "clean girl aesthetic" You never know if you could find a potential: client/ new job / spouse/ friend or run into an ex while shopping ! I will never forget how mortified I was when I saw a lady I met at my work I was hoping to catch as client shopping the same big buy store as me while looking for deals on dvds but I was dressed in my weekend grungy gardening clothes and she looked put together ! I didn't expect to see her there and it's a completely different style of neighborhood in which I work. I felt embarrassed and dowdy. You don't have to be dressed to the 9's just neat and and have your clothes in good repair , not faded and not pilly. Take it from me , nothing ruins your credibility more than looking worn out and shabby on your day off ! Best wishes in your level up endeavors 🥰

@blurp2615

2 ай бұрын

@@ah5721 I feel very honored by your helpful suggestions! I will definitely have them in consideration the next time I do grocery shopping. Wonderful your gentleness. Thank you so much! 💛

I think a healthy dose of jealously is good. I grow up low middle class and I was jealous of the high-class girls in my private high-school. I tried to study them and I still do on their instagrams. What they wore, the way they moved in society, the network that they had. I decided to get inspired and not mad and that helped me a lot in life.

@badgalirri

Ай бұрын

Sameee omg i used to be so jealous of this one instagram model’s body and seductive charm in her videos but instead of hating her I also studied her and started hitting the gym and now 7 years later I have also bodyodyody and those video skills and now girls are jealous of ME 💀💀🤣 I dont use tiktok and I remember for ex one night a girl i know asked me to do a tiktok w her and I outshined her a lot in that video. Her chin was dropping and she didnt even post it bc of that in the end 💀💀 She thought bc i dont use tiktok idk how to make those videos but nah gurl ive been practicing since before tiktok was even a thing 🤪🤪 no shade to her though at all, I was just super proud of myself in that moment bc I spent so much time on this 💀 and I realize now how much effort the influencer girl mustve put aswell.

YES! 100% Jealousy is a feeling caused by our bodies subconscioulsly when we feel threatened. As women, we percieve other women as competition. We want to be the most beautiful, most popular, get the best man....etc to get ahead in life. IT IS BIOLOGY. But there's healthy jealousy and there's toxic jealousy: healthy is being jealous of a more successful woman which will give us a push to become more successful ourselves. Then there's toxic jealousy, which is being jealous of a beautiful woman who happens to be younger than you such as cousin, coworker, even daughter (if you are a narcissistic mother). This younger woman happens to look younger and has less wrinkles, more beautiful even, and you cant be younger again so this jealousy might make you treat her like crap. We should be aware of this type of toxic jealousy and try to ignore it because it makes us bitter. It is a feeling subconscioulsy generated by our body/ biology that is in this case useless and detrimental for us older women. As women we should support other women regardless of age.

Greed and Envy go hand in hand and perfection doesnt exist.

Sometimes you can neither cut off more confront jealous people. They're a bunch of people in your family and of course you won't leave your entire family just because of a few jealous people. This is where you gotta intimidate these people to bring out their jealousy so everybody can see that a jealous person is trying to harm you. This way, the jealous people would not have the room to run smear campaign onto you because they'll become too busy protecting their image. And who knows it might push them to deal with their jealousy.

Oh, Snap!! I needed this video because my husband's step-sister seems jealous of me because she's 3xs bigger than me. Sucks because we are family at the end of the day

Jealousy hurts people. It causes people to be hurtful, emotionally and/or physically. It’s so critical to. let it go and implement a positive coping skill, such as working towards the goal you want, exercising to get endorphins up etc. ❤wishing others well beings blessing to you and everyone around you.

Dats why i dont upload my holiday pics on insta , fb or even watsapp display pic. No one knows dat i went. No one knows wat i eat or wear or the wonderful places i go.. its safe and good dat way. People were even jealous of my honeymoon and dats wen i realsied they dont be having access to my world. Not even my mom and certain relatives.

@historiqueafricaine

2 ай бұрын

You're wise💯

@minoozolala

2 ай бұрын

Dat?

@americanhomes4310

Ай бұрын

She means, that? I assume….

Loving this new content you are creating 💕

@nzingahoney

2 ай бұрын

Me too. Elegance of the mind and heart ❤❤❤❤

Thank you Anna for talking about this topic! I ve been struggling with jealousy my whole life and affected by the negative comments of other people who wanted to bring me down. As you said, the key is accepting that this kind of people will always be around and focus our energy and time on something that matters m!

Anna, the way I RAN to this video. I am so so glad you touched on this. I've absolutely noticed women acting really really funny with me and doing certain sabatoging things when I was simply minding my own business and did nothing to them. This especially happens to women in job interviews. I've been told that I should try toning down my makeup or how I dress (elevated) because it may intimidate other people and if the interviewers are women, I most likely will not get hired.

@pinkaddiction13

2 ай бұрын

One thing though, I CAN'T STAND when people automatically call women jealous when we don't like something or don't agree with something another woman does. I don't think that's fair. The other stuff like sabotaging another woman's job or social life is totally different.

I do think that there is a difference between jealousy and envy

@Camy211

Ай бұрын

Jealousy is an emotion ( animal, human) and envy is a king of obsession where the envious person puts down or spread lies to feel better about themself .

I don't get jealous , I get inspired. That's the way to handle feelings of insecurity we all get at times. I don't care how other women look - weather they prefer being "plain" or that " over the top" look because I do my best to live by the motto each to their own , without judgement of how other people want to be of look. Sometimes I wish other women would extend that curiosity to me. I have had jealous women all my life who try to compete with me. I've never understood it.

This message is right on time. Thank you!❤

This is why I mind my own business

@laurawhitaker1797

Ай бұрын

This is why I stay away from women, especially groups of them.

I wear the pendant 🧿 on myself at all times for protection! It’s very difficult to not take it personally when it’s a family member. Divine love return to bad energy to those sending hate. 🙏

Thanks for talking about this uncomfortable topic. I have been jealous due to my own insecurities and feelings of inadequacy. But, even though I used to feel like the underdog, lots of women have been extremely jealous of me. It is not a matter of self perception: Even when self perception is not adequate other people can envy certain things about you. I started been aware of external jealousy back in College. Some people even tried to harm me with character assassination and more extreme behaviors. To be in that situation is terrible, where you can't trust no one. As my self confidence grew, as I found my true self, my fear of them lessened to the level of not caring about their shortcomings. It took me years to build a strong personality, but now as an adult I live my life with a true sense of personal validation and appreciation.

I receive hate in my workplace all the time, and my so called friends are starting to ignore me now too. I always feel agitated and angry because I dont know what made them that way. I wish they would tell me instead. But now, I wanna handle it with class and I wanna learn to start ignoring them too. I dont need negativities in life. I dont need "friends" if they are backstabbers and childish. Id rather be alone than be with fake, miserable people

Thanks for this video Anna. This is a great conversation to have. I didn’t realize how common this was for so many people.

Hi Anna, i don't usually leave comments but i wanted to tell you that i watch all your videos, you are doing an Amazing job and i admire how passionated and devoted your are. Thank you for being yourself and sharing so much with us 🥰❤

Profound topic. Well articulated. Great content ❤

Thank you for speaking on this topic! I have been reflecting on this lately on how women can be jealous of me for no reason and wen I tell pple dat it seems like I'm crazy

I loved that video and I really needed that type of guidance, I usually try to ignore them but it’s very important to avoid those people they really drain your soul

I absolutely love valuable content that you make for us. Digging deeper into the topic is what really makes your channel special Anna! About jealousy - people tend to be jealous because... I'm likable person. I always talk to myself that happy and fullfilled people are not jealous in a toxic way and and feel sorry for that person. It was hard work with psychotherapist to be in that moment, but trust me, it is all worth it! ❤

I love this, you’re describing stoicism. I’ve been researching this for a while now and wow, it’s helped me with a jealous friend. Great advice, thank you!

Very important message -- thank you for this vid! A jealous person has to want to become a better person. I know people (women) who have seen multiple therapists over many years and they still give into destructive jealous feelings. The best we can do is keep our distance from someone who shows this behavior.

Men do that too nowadays!

@lostintheseventies7969

2 ай бұрын

YES-AND MEN TEND TO BE MORE INTENSE,WHEN JEALOUS

@juliehernandez80

2 ай бұрын

And towards women!!!

@nzingahoney

2 ай бұрын

Estrogens in the food

@thewizard555

2 ай бұрын

@@nzingahoney are you dumb ? jealousy is not due to hormones . its due to immaturity insecurity and evilness of oneself . men have always had that jealousy thing . brothers kill each other for the sake of property and money . they start wars due to jealousy envy and hate for other's kingdom . jealousy has always existed since the beginning of humans . its not a woman trait . its a human trait

@seabreeze4559

2 ай бұрын

They always did.

Your words are powerful Anna, ❤I try to focus on my leveling journey too. Stay away from these bullying people online.

I have a friend/co-worker who is jealous of me because I am working part time somewhere else so I can eventually leave the job I work at with her. I was surprised that she wasn't at all happy for me and instead started giving me the cold shoulder and making under the breath comments. Some friend. Love the advice Anna, you are an inspiration and so wise!❤

Yes girl! We are all uniques, there’s no one like you! Don’t compare!

Thank you so much for all your wisely words!❤

I am jealous and envious, but I believe I have worked up to control these feelings and thoughts. Self-care and focusing on "me" are some answers that helped me. And following Anna's teaching definitely contributed to this improvement ❤️

Anna, your makeup looks so beautiful in all your latest videos! Could you do an updated makeup routine?

I never understood this until I became more aware. It takes an insane amount of healing to understand why we do the things that we do. And yet I don't puty or envy jealous women because I understand that they're wounded souls. Projection is real when you understand it from that perspective

I have never experienced jealously or envy. I think the reason is that I have never compared myself to others. I am too busy trying to be a better version of me each and every day. I feel sorry for people who experience these emotions - it must be awful. I have worked in a career that was male dominated and believe me, it was not easy. Working with large groups of women was no cake walk either.

Anna I love your contents. I took your class last year and it changed me❤️you look amazing always. Always learning a lot from you❤❤❤

I really appreciate this kind of content, it has more depth and I feel like I learned something 🙌

Incredibly insightful, one of your best videos of all time.

I feel like the most difficult thing for me is to figure out how to react to people being jealous of me because sometimes they make weird comments and I know that their intention is to bring me down slightly (and it's very subtle but very predictable because I see the pattern repeat itself over and over again with these people) and I know they do it to make themselves feel better and not inadequate in that moment but it affects me unfortunately.

Anna, thank you so much for covering this topic. Your explanations are on point as always❤Send you lots of love❤

Your video length was 11:11 it is a Guardian Angel number.

Points for the onscreen caption for people who need accessibility assistance Anna. If that's a feature in the editing software you use, or a new feature in your preferred editing software and you know you had it enabled huge points for the in video caption. If you didn't know you had that feature enabled and, you didn't know about the feature in the first place, you unknowingly did a phenomenal job with this particular video.

Thank you Anna, this video has been enlightening 🎉

Thank you so much, dear Anna!! You are a true inspiration ! 💯 agree with what you are saying - we need to be aware of our own emotions and try to focus on our own goals