When Your Girlfriend Doesn't Respond & Acts Distant

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Пікірлер: 713

  • @kevinpelawi8890
    @kevinpelawi88904 жыл бұрын

    she makes me feel like i’m dead inside.

  • @eggyolkeo6422

    @eggyolkeo6422

    4 жыл бұрын

    She made me feel worthless, and I couldn't express how I felt, cuz she would say I was fighting, smh.

  • @matteogalli9881

    @matteogalli9881

    4 жыл бұрын

    Don’t be simp

  • @Giovanni-01

    @Giovanni-01

    4 жыл бұрын

    Don't let her get to you. Ignore her if she's not trying to interact, she will especially text you again if she knows the last msg she sent didn't warrant a response

  • @Luissss03

    @Luissss03

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @benjinieto750

    @benjinieto750

    4 жыл бұрын

    I swear man I'm going through that rn

  • @numba1jebac
    @numba1jebac5 жыл бұрын

    Gotcha. So the solution is if u want a happy relationship u have to accept that u have 0 control when it comes to anything with her

  • @ifheavenwashuman

    @ifheavenwashuman

    3 жыл бұрын

    Basically, yes. Let her be free. (Now, it's time for me to take my own advice).

  • @squanching

    @squanching

    3 жыл бұрын

    yup

  • @damiandamienov4733

    @damiandamienov4733

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ifheavenwashuman LOL

  • @ifonlyhappinesscouldlast4882

    @ifonlyhappinesscouldlast4882

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ifheavenwashuman yeah

  • @daddilo2847

    @daddilo2847

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes!!! You've got it.

  • @prateekmajhee5706
    @prateekmajhee57063 жыл бұрын

    Guys just keep it simple !! You're the boss..nobody messes up with you. She's running away..screw her. (I know that might bother you) but that's cool..keep your self esteem high..she's not worth it. You're the badass boss. You're the one. Just remember this. Have a good one

  • @scarecrow9474

    @scarecrow9474

    3 жыл бұрын

    Finally a good comment, king

  • @bestbigbros1102

    @bestbigbros1102

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Prateek

  • @444aeus

    @444aeus

    2 жыл бұрын

    🔥🤘🏾facts

  • @jonathanmasamu9695

    @jonathanmasamu9695

    2 жыл бұрын

    facts

  • @kermitthecrog7262

    @kermitthecrog7262

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks mate❤️👍

  • @Amiruny
    @Amiruny3 жыл бұрын

    its sad that we're all here...and she doesn't even think about our feelings edit: alright guys all these time she was doing an experiment on me with her friends to make sure i dont cheat🤣...its been like 7 months now she love me like am her husband 🥺🥺🥺

  • @nazriabu1070

    @nazriabu1070

    3 жыл бұрын

    Im back here again for the 79th time.. its time to do no contact and she will be back 😂😂😂

  • @stockvideoforearth2569

    @stockvideoforearth2569

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@nazriabu1070 what happens if she left on read 4 times. How does no contact work then? (She is GF or... ex? I dont know she never answered clearly when I asked if we were still together or not) and shes not the type to message people first, shes got social anxiety even online

  • @overlordxab3365

    @overlordxab3365

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's why don't give your all to a woman. Make yourself priority first then let her respect you.

  • @kemalfajar3468

    @kemalfajar3468

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@nazriabu1070 hahaha im not the only one

  • @larx4703

    @larx4703

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yea

  • @HAPPYPANDA53
    @HAPPYPANDA534 жыл бұрын

    Unless the guy has low self-esteem and/or low self worth, acting bitchy, distant and disinterested is not going to work to attract/keep a man. It may work in the short term but if she keeps doing it, it will cause any high value man to give up on her and move on.

  • @OlegGolubev_yolo

    @OlegGolubev_yolo

    3 жыл бұрын

    freaking sad, but true

  • @bestbigbros1102

    @bestbigbros1102

    2 жыл бұрын

    @mr fantastic hey how's that going for you now?

  • @johnnyg7899

    @johnnyg7899

    2 жыл бұрын

    I was trying to make plans to move close to my girl who lives in another state. Instead of her getting excited or getting me enthusiastic about this life change she discourages me and routinely shuts her phone off or ignores me when I am feeling down. Yet when she feels down or needs to reach me any time of day, I have been there for her. If I found someone worthy close to me I would drop her instantly.

  • @ikechukwunjoku5107

    @ikechukwunjoku5107

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@johnnyg7899 she’s must cheating or something. That’s insane. I wouldn’t move. If she doesn’t want to take you that serious, then I wouldn’t break your back for her.

  • @BG-mn6di

    @BG-mn6di

    2 жыл бұрын

    💯

  • @shawnh2651
    @shawnh26514 жыл бұрын

    This guy is right. Pay attention guys, this is how it really is. It's how you handle yourself when it all falls apart. If they want to go, let them go.

  • @rambojohnj.6117
    @rambojohnj.6117 Жыл бұрын

    When she wants space, I make her feel like Neil Armstrong.

  • @souravjaipuria3881

    @souravjaipuria3881

    Жыл бұрын

    🎃

  • @muhammadhuzaifa5156

    @muhammadhuzaifa5156

    Жыл бұрын

    Good one hahaha

  • @Milan_Sewa
    @Milan_Sewa2 жыл бұрын

    You watching this video tells me you must be really going through some tough times related to your girl. Hang in there brothers. Put yourself first in life and focus on making yourself happy

  • @mikerossdonohoe

    @mikerossdonohoe

    3 ай бұрын

    Good comment man I needed that

  • @831farmeros2
    @831farmeros26 жыл бұрын

    This guy is good... all guys out there listen closely to this guy... 🤨🤔👍

  • @sonmaldon4992

    @sonmaldon4992

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ur right ☝️👍👍

  • @ifonlyhappinesscouldlast4882

    @ifonlyhappinesscouldlast4882

    3 жыл бұрын

    👏👏👏

  • @Troyster94806
    @Troyster948067 жыл бұрын

    And if she happens to be a sadistic covert narcissist, if you take her back, she'll punish you more and more each time.

  • @bencrosbie

    @bencrosbie

    6 жыл бұрын

    Yup dump the bitch haha

  • @eldierock4823

    @eldierock4823

    5 жыл бұрын

    You are super right

  • @adarshchowdhary5025

    @adarshchowdhary5025

    5 жыл бұрын

    That's 100% true

  • @supersaiyanbuda

    @supersaiyanbuda

    5 жыл бұрын

    They’re man eating snakes to the poor sensitive good guys in relationship lol. No regrets just swinging cock to cock, figuring out who’s better than who.

  • @kristopherhasenbuhler5393

    @kristopherhasenbuhler5393

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes sir

  • @AlejandroW90
    @AlejandroW904 жыл бұрын

    This video was a true love saver man. My girlfriend went cold on me for the second time and I’ve done everything you’ve said, instantly notice results and she wants me back as soon as she notices I’m cold on her back. God bless you for your miracle work 🙏

  • @valentineterni1697

    @valentineterni1697

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yup 👌

  • @JMully57

    @JMully57

    3 жыл бұрын

    I can confirm. This shit works! Makes me feel so much better. I’m done feeling sorry and regret for things I didn’t do:)

  • @xdriz

    @xdriz

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@JMully57 bro im going through the same thing, it always feels like ur in the wrong when in reality ur not. Causing anxious attachment and all that other shit. Fuck that bro, don’t leave but don’t let it every get to u. Let it get to her and now ur in control of leaving or not.

  • @sergioperez4898

    @sergioperez4898

    2 жыл бұрын

    How long did it take to get her back?

  • @Amiruny

    @Amiruny

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sergioperez4898 if she takes more than 3 weeks...then shes a bitch...leave her that a big red flag

  • @sciarico
    @sciarico5 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, my gf is doing this right now. Its getting old. I give it a week. If she is still acting like this next week I'm going to pitch her and reach for fruit higher up the tree.

  • @PieterFret

    @PieterFret

    5 жыл бұрын

    How did it turn out? I'm in the same situation right now, and getting sick of it...

  • @g11_seeker37

    @g11_seeker37

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@PieterFret yea same, but with me it is that she does it so random but then is doing all kinds of stuff with literally everybody else, i think ill let it be for max a week. How did it turn put for you?

  • @PieterFret

    @PieterFret

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@g11_seeker37 Things got better... I kinda had enough of her sh*t, but I decided to just act confident and fun around her instead of letting it drag me down, because someone had to turn this negative spiral into a positive one and it wasn't going to be her. This works with a couple of days delay, but it definitely works! At first, she starts testing (is he for real? is it just an act?) by giving you even more sh*t, ignoring you, making provocative remarks... But when she notices she can't rock your boat, that's when things suddenly start to improve. Now she contacts me more, we have way more sex than before, and she actually started getting jealous of other girls in my life (before, I was the jealous one). She even gave ME shit for not sending her enough texts! (women love double standards, but the point is: the situation got completely reversed) In the end, it all comes down to confidence and emotional self control: whatever you do, don't let her rock your boat. Just take it like a man, with humor and perspective. Be fun. And ALWAYS remember there is more fish in the sea, that'll help you maintain the right attitude. Good luck, bro! Let us know how it evolves!

  • @g11_seeker37

    @g11_seeker37

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@PieterFret Damn that was a story, well I had P.E yesterday. I came to here but she was acting a little bit weird you know. Well I wasn't gonna give her any attention since it looked like she didn't really care. Well today is the same, wasn't giving her any attention. Now I just got home and a friend of mine (her kind of bestfriend) sends me a snap with ".....(her name) asked me if you are mad at her and if she did anything wrong). I just opened it and just said: huhh why. But I was thinking ilke why are you asking your bf after I leave. I self find it actually even more annoying if its going via via than telling it to me personally when I am at "school" and not if i'm home and doing all that text nonsense since I preffer talk over text. Now I just texted her back and am waiting for a reply. At the end i'm just gonna act as usual and don't be someone who would get mad because your girlfriend is acting weird.

  • @Frostiz97

    @Frostiz97

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@PieterFret Thanks man, this made me feel better.

  • @philipvazsonyi2228
    @philipvazsonyi22284 жыл бұрын

    I’m beyond grateful for finding this video. It also helps more than words to see that I’m not alone. I’m starting immediately

  • @stevenwilliams4841
    @stevenwilliams48415 жыл бұрын

    This man is a legend, it really does work 😂 I've dated many women, they act like this after a few months.. Power play.. Don't be weak

  • @johnbar4126

    @johnbar4126

    4 жыл бұрын

    Steven Williams advice??

  • @newaccount3970

    @newaccount3970

    3 жыл бұрын

    John Bar If they keep being distant and ignore you, just hang out with some other girls, take pics and put them somewhere so she can see you don't care about her, that's how i got my ex girl back i left her again anyway 😂

  • @valentineterni1697

    @valentineterni1697

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@newaccount3970 yup ✊

  • @CanalDoFilipe_
    @CanalDoFilipe_6 жыл бұрын

    Just mimic her behaviour!

  • @ramborajkumar298

    @ramborajkumar298

    3 жыл бұрын

    Girl I've been talking with for a few months, who previously had been texting me all day, now has started to text only at the end of the day, that too with low interest. How should I respond when she texts at the end of the day ? Should I reply with my usual enthusiasm or should I show low interest and respond late ?

  • @CanalDoFilipe_

    @CanalDoFilipe_

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ramborajkumar298 think you should treat with the enthusiasm she treats you. Good luck.

  • @ramborajkumar298

    @ramborajkumar298

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@CanalDoFilipe_ thanks

  • @ShAdeZXIM

    @ShAdeZXIM

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ramborajkumar298 howd that go?

  • @vishveshtadsare3160
    @vishveshtadsare31606 жыл бұрын

    Your channel is the most genuine on attraction. You should have a lot more subscribers.

  • @rmendola759
    @rmendola7593 жыл бұрын

    You are by far the best one out there on this topic! Your videos are direct and straight to the point!! Other coaches make long video that just drag 💀. Thank you to keep it real! Sort and sweet 👍👍 best out there. Make more please

  • @Tiger-gs9lg
    @Tiger-gs9lg Жыл бұрын

    If she is ignoring you, do the same,Don’t chase,be strong,don’t write single word or call,get busy yourself in work or work out or traveling. If you chase women in broken relationship,thing will be going bad instead of getting close to each other. She will go far away from u. Big world and more chance n fast with social network these days to get women. Don’t maker women as your first priority in life to live with. Be strong,avoid her, go party and flirt with other girls. Good luck ❤

  • @williamwambua315
    @williamwambua3155 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much. You really make me strong and stand for myself

  • @959pilot4
    @959pilot43 жыл бұрын

    I like this. Like he saying, dont be so quick as to loose your temper with her. And explaining how we should approach and deal with the situation.

  • @oppahadventures114
    @oppahadventures1144 жыл бұрын

    Your the best guru in the planet. You deserve five million subscribers. Thanks a lot Chris. Love from the Philippines

  • @mikekoz6063
    @mikekoz60635 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Chris for all of your amazing advice.

  • @theworldstreetfood
    @theworldstreetfood2 жыл бұрын

    You explain so calmly and peaceful forget about girlfriends stress listening to your knowledge is so soothing and necessary things.

  • @thebrownnomad9162
    @thebrownnomad91626 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much, I was having a slight tough time today with my girlfriend acting distant from me. This helped.

  • @maheshgangula3912

    @maheshgangula3912

    4 ай бұрын

    I think you get married ?

  • @michor10
    @michor103 жыл бұрын

    It also doesn’t hurt to not give away your commitment too quickly or easily no matter how much you want to. Just keep cool, be kind and allow yourself to enjoy their company for what it is. Get to know them and give yourself space to pull back or even break off if you feel uneasy. Easier said than done, but it works.

  • @justinvallejos7378
    @justinvallejos73787 жыл бұрын

    That's makes me feel better. The reason why she did it because I was going to go to the navy. But I'm just not gonna text her at all

  • @sciarico

    @sciarico

    5 жыл бұрын

    Dude I was in the Navy during Desert Storm. If you can't handle a gf going cold on you how the fuck you think you are going to get through boot camp let alone the rest of your tour?

  • @JMully57

    @JMully57

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Max Dexter faxs

  • @eddieambrose1757
    @eddieambrose17576 жыл бұрын

    You are my hero Chris.

  • @rxrestgaming6582
    @rxrestgaming65826 жыл бұрын

    This gave me a whole new perspective.

  • @nihalmohandas8788
    @nihalmohandas87885 жыл бұрын

    Excellent video. Do not over pursue. It just does not work.

  • @iliachakarov7285
    @iliachakarov72854 жыл бұрын

    So true my friend. Quality stuff here!!!

  • @joshuagreen4796
    @joshuagreen47966 жыл бұрын

    Thankyou so much man i appreaciate you for making this content because if you didnt i would be confused about a lot of things.

  • @davispopo3963

    @davispopo3963

    5 жыл бұрын

    Joshua Green so nice

  • @hernstv
    @hernstv5 жыл бұрын

    This video comes in perfect timing!

  • @bestbigbros1102
    @bestbigbros11022 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this video man... you have no idea how helpful this video was

  • @kkinon7666
    @kkinon7666 Жыл бұрын

    Really needed to hear this. Thank you brotha 🙏

  • @josephercastor8026
    @josephercastor80262 жыл бұрын

    It's hard to text n act normal when you're cheating. Takes a deeper level of deceit and many are too weak to be that hardcore, so they ignore their phone/guilt

  • @rafcamora8674

    @rafcamora8674

    Жыл бұрын

    👌🏻

  • @hakkimchheng2971
    @hakkimchheng29715 жыл бұрын

    This video is in my real situation. I hope it can help me! Thank you so much!

  • @car1it05WAY
    @car1it05WAY6 жыл бұрын

    Time to find a new gf if she goes distant. This is so high school if she acts distant. Just means she with another guy

  • @createyourlifejk4359

    @createyourlifejk4359

    6 жыл бұрын

    The way to be more distant with your girl is keeping busy and have other girls then they complain that men are bad ... who understand them ...

  • @justbilic2770

    @justbilic2770

    6 жыл бұрын

    car1it0sWAY no, just have ur own hobbys and ur own friends. Pulling away means u guys are too needy and sometimes we just need some space and have alone time :)

  • @showoff123yt9

    @showoff123yt9

    6 жыл бұрын

    car1it0sWAY what about if ur girl says shes this but thn a week later u see she acts way different with u not letting her kiss u around people even though u guys are dating

  • @khrisbmusic6091

    @khrisbmusic6091

    5 жыл бұрын

    car1it0sWAY pretty much

  • @kristopherhasenbuhler5393

    @kristopherhasenbuhler5393

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ya think?

  • @joeb5578
    @joeb55785 жыл бұрын

    This is really good advice. I'm going through the very exact thing he's talking about. I've been seeing someone for 4 months now and have completely backed away, cutting off all contact and have heard nothing from her side. It's giving me time to think about what I really want out of this relationship. I'm actually doing okay but am sometimes overly sensitive, confused and moody because of of all the confusion that's generated. It still hurts. :) Thanks

  • @mrkains3669

    @mrkains3669

    4 жыл бұрын

    Word! How did it go?

  • @ayejackson884
    @ayejackson8845 жыл бұрын

    My girl has been lagging to respond she used to always want me to see her , every time I wanna see her or something she blames it on her not cleaning or doing chores,..she acts very sarcastic in a bad way towards me, I dont wanna break up because I love her too much but damn..

  • @TEJASMB

    @TEJASMB

    3 жыл бұрын

    How is it going now bro

  • @ayejackson884

    @ayejackson884

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@TEJASMB oh damn,I pulled the plug like a month after I typed that 😭💀 damn near 3 years now 😭💀

  • @mythoughtsandactions6853

    @mythoughtsandactions6853

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thats cool to hear man, comments like these are always helping people that go through this. Its just nice to hear that other guys have very similar situations, and none of us are alone with these feelings

  • @TEJASMB

    @TEJASMB

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ayejackson884 heyyy don't feel bad brother, you did what was necessary, so keep your chin up🤙🏻 btw how did u manage to not go back to her man?

  • @ayejackson884

    @ayejackson884

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@TEJASMB I mean it was hard tbh, but to all you gentlemen , where do you see yourself in a year 💯 use that as motivation to grind

  • @lifeafterkings6315
    @lifeafterkings63153 жыл бұрын

    Agree with what u saying man, every time try to hold a conversation with her or try to get a her attention she just bails out on me, "always" something to do or brings up excuses. And sometimes before going to bed short breif text like " gn going to sleep now" when we usually say " love u sleep well" and a kiss emjoi in the end. But now it's not happening. She is acting a bit distant. Yes and you're vidoes my freind are amazing! Thanks this heaviness is lift off my chest now!

  • @RyanSteve

    @RyanSteve

    3 жыл бұрын

    It used to be "thanks babe/thanks boo😘" "thanks". I understand you man!

  • @idkname3576

    @idkname3576

    Жыл бұрын

    How is it going

  • @GoldskyEdits
    @GoldskyEdits Жыл бұрын

    Most of the people watching this are Male.. but I am watching this video. I am a female and I have an amazing Girlfriend. I miss her so much and I love calling her and FaceTiming her. This past week I have been really worried about her because she hasn’t been responding to my messages.. I really hope she’s okay and she’s just spending some good time with her family. Just remember all of you men, your amazing and you will always be loved in some kind of way. Have a great evening/day :)

  • @prateekmajhee5706
    @prateekmajhee57063 жыл бұрын

    You're the man !! I love you brother. Thanks a ton. No shit can define my happiness.

  • @walterm5298
    @walterm52983 жыл бұрын

    If she wants space, she can have it permanently. You walk out on me once don't ever come back.

  • @a.j.taylor132
    @a.j.taylor132 Жыл бұрын

    My girlfriend hasn't spoken or contacted me in 3 days. I texted her goodmorning 3 days ago and got nothing. I've sent some other messages, she read them and still no response. She's upset about something but just won't talk. I hate when she does this, because I my mind is running circles. I stopped contacting her, but my mind is still running circles I don't wanna blow her phone up but man....3 days and nothing from her?? That Hurts 😕

  • @souravjaipuria3881

    @souravjaipuria3881

    Жыл бұрын

    You good now brother?

  • @mohammadfadel1427

    @mohammadfadel1427

    Жыл бұрын

    stay strong bro

  • @watchtolearn3668

    @watchtolearn3668

    Жыл бұрын

    I am crying man 😭😭😭😭😭 same situation

  • @cryptomaniac9435
    @cryptomaniac94353 жыл бұрын

    I started mirroring her actions and she went FUCKING NUTS 😂

  • @lukeArmstrong524

    @lukeArmstrong524

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yep, im on day 1 no contact from her, i will mirror her behaviour, when she calls or texts i will wait and mirror her actions.

  • @mysterybox8837
    @mysterybox8837 Жыл бұрын

    You’re the man dude ! Thank you for the guidance

  • @Silent0666
    @Silent06663 жыл бұрын

    no relationship is the best relationship.

  • @alihaidersultan671
    @alihaidersultan6714 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for helping me and making me a strong man♥️

  • @dandexterloyola1196
    @dandexterloyola1196 Жыл бұрын

    love your advice bro! keep it up..

  • @cyruspersia3436
    @cyruspersia34363 жыл бұрын

    A very wise teacher, thank you.

  • @3nd33
    @3nd333 жыл бұрын

    Bruh this is too complicated she said sorry for not hugging me and all I said was “It’s okay you don’t have to hug me every time you see me right?” Then I said “I don’t want you feeling like you gotta hug me even though you don’t want to” and she just started ignoring me

  • @johnmathewrosario4625

    @johnmathewrosario4625

    3 жыл бұрын

    Bro I'm in the same exact situtation right now 😂😭

  • @3nd33

    @3nd33

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@johnmathewrosario4625 LMAO 😂 well good luck on your lady bro

  • @lazarusofnazareth7115

    @lazarusofnazareth7115

    3 жыл бұрын

    I have ldr but yah she acts cold idk what happened

  • @Bhebe40
    @Bhebe403 жыл бұрын

    Just ignore them too, it works, we did this way before books were written about it or before social media even existed

  • @jonathanmasamu9695

    @jonathanmasamu9695

    2 жыл бұрын

    facts

  • @ladyinredseductive9319
    @ladyinredseductive93196 жыл бұрын

    Hello I met her online we talking almost 4 MONTHS and she planning to visit me this coming Oct. But everything changed. She change a lots and told me not coming to visit becoz of money prblem but iam not convinced.. What should I do.? Do I need to continue with her. I told her we better stop she replied becoz I can't come to visit to want us to stop.. Please help what should I do?

  • @davidrivas6412
    @davidrivas64122 жыл бұрын

    Yes amen!!! Find your happiness, joy and peace in the lord and not in a woman

  • @uzumakiclan7957
    @uzumakiclan79573 жыл бұрын

    She makes me happy for who I am

  • @utvwerxoffroadfabdesign4172
    @utvwerxoffroadfabdesign41726 жыл бұрын

    If you mirror a woman's actions by pulling away like she does, in my opinion, one of two things will happen. 1, she will, as stated in the video, think of you in a positive way and come back in a stronger manner. Or 2, she will already have found someone else to begin "talking" too and your goose my lonely and uncertain friend is surely and wholefully cooked. The hard part is being careful to ensure one happens and one does not.

  • @DevelopAttraction

    @DevelopAttraction

    6 жыл бұрын

    UTV WERX Offroad Fab & Design you can’t control it. If she finds someone else who fkn cares. You’re better off without her.

  • @sietes123

    @sietes123

    6 жыл бұрын

    What if she’s pregnant, how do I give her space. Should I still text her Goodmornings, have a good day at work, and goodnight?

  • @DevelopAttraction

    @DevelopAttraction

    6 жыл бұрын

    StrengthWisdom&Beauty mirror her emotions, even if she’s pregnant.

  • @sietes123

    @sietes123

    6 жыл бұрын

    Develop Attraction it’s going to be 3 days tomorrow man I’m I’m so eager to text her. My friends say to text her since she’s pregnant with my kid.

  • @alfredojampitii130

    @alfredojampitii130

    Жыл бұрын

    What makes you think of #2 and is there any sign if there is someone else?

  • @coopsnz1
    @coopsnz13 жыл бұрын

    She text 5 days ago , I'm ignoring her

  • @lukeArmstrong524

    @lukeArmstrong524

    2 жыл бұрын

    Great job.

  • @lucas.stimes
    @lucas.stimes4 жыл бұрын

    The first minute couldn’t be any more truthful

  • @100rabhish
    @100rabhish3 жыл бұрын

    Super best advice.. Thank you so much..

  • @thefletchlife7837
    @thefletchlife78373 жыл бұрын

    My current girlfriend has residual issues from a previous 22 year marriage. I feel there is a disproportionate response when she deals with current situations. I have addressed it (with love, compassion and empathy needles to say), she is now not responding to me (admitted my feelings had validity). I have sent a cpl of messages. One to let her know I loved her, to reiterate my views where not aimed to make her feel less. Another to say good night. Then one this morn9ng to say hello and share my plans. I asked what she had planned, to prompt a response. Nothing. I will now leave it be. I think I am comfortable with that choice based on my attempts so far. As in if I have made the wrong assumption, it is fair to suggest it was due to her treatment, not my interpretation of it. Good luck men...

  • @voetbalzone6328

    @voetbalzone6328

    Жыл бұрын

    What happened in the end?

  • @davidwabanhu1210
    @davidwabanhu12104 жыл бұрын

    Man you have really helped me a lot thank you

  • @marthinmarbun9551
    @marthinmarbun95515 жыл бұрын

    I'm watching this to be prepared for incoming LDR

  • @balloonsyrup9823
    @balloonsyrup98235 жыл бұрын

    For some reason she left me on read and we were having an amazing conversation I don’t get it

  • @nana-fq6rr

    @nana-fq6rr

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @giantcafe7040

    @giantcafe7040

    3 жыл бұрын

    Fuck that bitch

  • @andrewmanden266

    @andrewmanden266

    3 жыл бұрын

    She keeps doing it

  • @daddilo2847

    @daddilo2847

    3 жыл бұрын

    Maybe she got bored

  • @daniels.3990

    @daniels.3990

    3 жыл бұрын

    for the future, you thought you had an amazing conversation, it wasnt the case.

  • @sherminator7108
    @sherminator7108 Жыл бұрын

    This is so hard to do sometimes but I guess is just part of a relationship. My girlfriend has been super stressed and overwhelmed with work etc and we’re long distance rn so I always look forward to talking to her cause we don’t get to be together physically and she’s been so distant but assured me that everything is just fine and that she’s just very stressed but man it is not a good feeling ;(

  • @biglegend2051

    @biglegend2051

    Жыл бұрын

    Hey I'm in almost the same situation. How did it go for you, any advice?

  • @biglegend2051

    @biglegend2051

    Жыл бұрын

    Hey I'm in almost the same situation. How did it go for you, any advice?

  • @robertmoore294
    @robertmoore2943 жыл бұрын

    That's what my girl is doing to me, she's acting cold on me I can't believe I'm one of them.

  • @mr.fettesq.7705
    @mr.fettesq.77053 жыл бұрын

    My girl is doing this for the second time within the last 3 weeks. Got mad one night because I mentioned "those are fake" referencing a womans breasts on a show. And she got mad! Then got quiet and distant and it's been like this for the past couple days. I did NOTHING wrong!!!! And I refuse to either appologize or admit to any wrong doing. I even reached out a few times and I get nothing really. Now I'm just pissed off. I'm pretty sure she thinks il be my usually forgiving accepting self. But not this time. I'm done. I kinda hope she just leaves. Because things are great when shit like this dont happen. It's not worth it. I know she really likes me. So its gonna be a slap in the face when I tell her to kick fuckjng rocks.

  • @dannywholuv

    @dannywholuv

    2 жыл бұрын

    Any update? I feel the same way. I can clearly tell somethings up by her distant personal / not bothering much with conversation. This is just a waste of my time

  • @carpediem5290
    @carpediem52902 жыл бұрын

    Long distance is soo fucked up..u end up having so many trivial fights that u no longer know whether he/she is acting distant or not

  • @justmonrie4995

    @justmonrie4995

    Жыл бұрын

    And u don't know if she's cheating on u Or not 💀

  • @saleem12333
    @saleem123333 жыл бұрын

    He is exactly right 100 %

  • @fuurson
    @fuurson3 жыл бұрын

    ok but what to do with a toxic girflriend? My gf always blames me for everything bad in her life, always recalls the time we was yelling at eachother, that i left her alone in night at the city etc which those situatiuons hapenned when we were drunk and it was maybe 3 times where she was the one that started it. She doesnt reach out to me for over a month now (only waiting for me till i reach out to her) - we talked and saw eachother 3 times in period of 30 days and all of the meetings we had came from me.

  • @thegladiator1019
    @thegladiator10196 жыл бұрын

    Love this dude

  • @ramifaour4230
    @ramifaour42304 жыл бұрын

    Me too, my girlfriend is not responding for 3 days but I will try what you said, thank you I feel better now and less nervous and I hope this will work

  • @Christian-tf6ol

    @Christian-tf6ol

    2 жыл бұрын

    Bro this might be a bit late. I am on the same scenario right now. How things work on you after you initiate the pullback? Thanks

  • @lukeArmstrong524

    @lukeArmstrong524

    2 жыл бұрын

    1st day for me. I plan on ignoring her for 1 day or as many days she does it to me. Her mother called me asking me if i had heard from her.

  • @Questioneverythingx
    @Questioneverythingx3 жыл бұрын

    Oh shit. This is actually good. Bravo

  • @kicksalot9943
    @kicksalot99433 жыл бұрын

    What if this is the second time in a year she’s pulled this “space” shit? She just told me “you deserve better” she’s very insecure. She I just break up with her and walk away. She’s kinda making me feel like shit.

  • @brennanjulesacar7119

    @brennanjulesacar7119

    3 жыл бұрын

    good move bro

  • @verynice6685
    @verynice66856 жыл бұрын

    *please don’t leave me*

  • @yogeshwarsingh3507
    @yogeshwarsingh3507 Жыл бұрын

    I'm in love with someone.. We've been together for one year in a long distance relationship. At first she used to give me a lot of time , her focus, her attention. I could see her efforts. But now everything has just changed . She stays busy all the day and at night she is like I'm tired i wanna sleep. I know she loves me but i also know sometimes she ignores me . We got only Saturday and Sunday where we get some time to chat with each other, Spend some time together but today the same has happened again, I asked her to stay online so that we can chat and again she said I'm tired and wanna sleep. I really don't know what to do .

  • @kebbikgock8193
    @kebbikgock81932 жыл бұрын

    I love you bro I needed to hear this

  • @sbstories6559
    @sbstories65592 жыл бұрын

    Same thing happening with me,.....at some days she is very much interested... saying that she wants to spend night with me...keep on sending me msgs..and after some days suddenly stops messaging...not even replying....same cycle goes on

  • @jameseiter8043

    @jameseiter8043

    2 жыл бұрын

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    @jameseiter8043

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @ryandodges5823
    @ryandodges58235 ай бұрын

    i 100% agree with you thanks for the vid!

  • @BhupendraSingh-mz2hn
    @BhupendraSingh-mz2hn6 жыл бұрын

    My girlfriend said she needs some time alone but I texted her 1-2 texts each day for 10 days only asking how she was not being needy or Angry but she doesn't respond. I've stopped texting her from 3 days. I know she have some personal issues. What could be done?

  • @ABsirur

    @ABsirur

    6 жыл бұрын

    Leave her alone. The fact that you text her that many times is a sign of neediness. Just let her be.

  • @kemalfajar3468
    @kemalfajar34682 жыл бұрын

    Guys: it reall does works!!!! This man right here chris is a legend

  • @iloveyourvisuals878
    @iloveyourvisuals8783 жыл бұрын

    I love this page

  • @glennvanbellegem7664
    @glennvanbellegem76642 жыл бұрын

    Fantastic advice 🙏🏼

  • @JMully57
    @JMully573 жыл бұрын

    Okay doc but tell me why she needs to feel distant? Why does she have to feel the need to run away every time we fight? Like I want to talk it out be she just runs away. 🤦🏻‍♂️ then in like a week shits gonna be normal again.

  • @user-zx8xv8el7s
    @user-zx8xv8el7s10 ай бұрын

    That is good advice. I am also going through the same situation. Sometimes she pulls, and sometimes she comes back. It is so frustrating that it has started to affect my mental health. In the past, I've caught her giving her number to other guys and going out on dates. At this point, I doubt she thinks of me as her boyfriend anymore. I am on vacation at the moment, and she suddenly stopped responding to me one night; I can see that she is online. Chances are she went on a date and afraid to face/answer any of my question. It is too much for me now. I am going to end this untrustworthy relationship with her.

  • @ddesi411
    @ddesi4116 жыл бұрын

    This depends on the girl, I personally notice I tend to get like this when I'm insecure in the relationship because of broken trust. It's important to maintain proper communication with your S/O and always build on trust. At least in my experience.

  • @Xmotivation8

    @Xmotivation8

    5 жыл бұрын

    Mam how this help you maintain trust. Can you explain

  • @geralkay3012

    @geralkay3012

    5 жыл бұрын

    how can you built trust if you act distant suddenly without doing nothing wrong lol..

  • @shellkannation22

    @shellkannation22

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@geralkay3012 point 👌👌

  • @fouinylantigua5701

    @fouinylantigua5701

    4 жыл бұрын

    Loll she fucked up I swear

  • @warrenbeetar2258

    @warrenbeetar2258

    3 жыл бұрын

    Women talk about communication being important in relationships. Yet, my gf refuses to talk to me about serious issues, usually texts me only. Only want to talk on the phone or in person, when things are good

  • @joeybouwmeester6465
    @joeybouwmeester64653 жыл бұрын

    So she keeps on leaving me on delivered :/ this really makes me overthink even if ik she's doing something. Any tips?,

  • @FreedomNation
    @FreedomNation4 жыл бұрын

    My ex broke up with me cause she didnt want to be intimate (including nonsexual) and to much time would pass between her reaching out to me. She also said she felt guilty about even kissing. GTFO. She just wanted married and babies. Not me.

  • @seeda5545
    @seeda5545 Жыл бұрын

    Okay can I ask about how to do the mirror technique? cause when I do it to her she start to text a lot with where are you?? or with this “?” and I don’t know if I’m going about it the right way, or am I just setting myself for a breakup for doing these actions, what do you guys think?

  • @fredericjulien5543
    @fredericjulien55433 жыл бұрын

    I have a unique situation with my girlfriend of 2years, my girlfriend was always the one to call or text me first. But ever since she became pregnant her behaviour and her attitude completely reversed. What should I do because it's really getting to me.

  • @j249

    @j249

    3 жыл бұрын

    When a woman becomes pregnant, her hormones go crazy and this often affects how they act and interact with others. As well as this, she is now coming to terms with the fact that neither herself or you are the most important person in her life anymore, the baby is. Often men becomes jealous and needy when a baby is born because all the women's attention falls on to the baby, however you must remember this is normal. The best thing you can do in this situation is remain in your masculine and not suffocate the woman. Go about your day and allow there to be space between you two, do not try to close the space yourself. Fall back a bit and let her want to get close to you, do not allow your emotions to nock you off you centre. All will be good, just be the man your supposed to be

  • @jjmcnamara5236
    @jjmcnamara52363 жыл бұрын

    My girlfriend is doing this now, but she said she has important exams coming up. But still, she only texts a few times a day and this will last for at least another month. And when she actually does respond her messages aren't very long and doesn't seem like she's making any effort.. should I still do the same?

  • @vapenation2896
    @vapenation28962 жыл бұрын

    I’m having this problem at the moment but I’m not sure if it’s because of me or because of the fact that we’re sitting a level exams now. For now, I’m going to assume it’s me as she didn’t have a problem with it earlier. But, we don’t really get to see each other as we live quite far away and the only times we do is when we will be at college and we can’t do this anymore as we have left. I have tried many times to get her to sleep round my house but she always gives excuses. When we do meet up, it’s always with other friends too and it’s not just me and her. Most of these times she doesn’t even acknowledge that I’m there. She cares more about impressing her friends than me. This started after I told her that I loved her on her birthday. I posted a snap chat saying happy birthday today and that I loved her (I am aware that this may have been a bad time to say it but we’re going out I was going to say it at some point). She ignored the messaged and didn’t say it back. Then she started getting all distant. I am asking for advice on what I should do and if the advice the guy has said actually works because I’m not sure. Thank you.

  • @ramborajkumar298
    @ramborajkumar2983 жыл бұрын

    Girl I've been talking with for a few months, who previously had been texting me all day, now has started to text only at the end of the day, that too with low interest. How should I respond when she texts at the end of the day ? Should I reply with my usual enthusiasm or should I show low interest and respond late ?

  • @lukeArmstrong524

    @lukeArmstrong524

    2 жыл бұрын

    Mirror her actions.

  • @getclappedtm8138
    @getclappedtm81382 жыл бұрын

    This off topic but I have a question. So my girl recently saw a message my ex texted me and I woke up to it and she was stating how she felt and stuff and I said ok and I said I just been sick and we will talk about it tomorrow. But I was never really gonna call because I have a girlfriend that wouldn’t make any sense. Anyways I’m literally been with my girl for a month and a few days and this was the first mistake I made but she considers that cheating. Keep an mind I didn’t ask to link fuck or nun. Is that considered cheating.

  • @dylankeller5932
    @dylankeller5932 Жыл бұрын

    It’s painful, I’ve been talking to her for 4 Months, she’s been madly in love with me the whole time and suddenly unresponsive, doesn’t give me much time of day, still will text me after a few days and acts like everything’s normal, I don’t want to do it but I’m going to walk away if it doesn’t change, and I will tell her Over the phone or in person, if she doesn’t comply that’s a bye bye situation, which I really don’t want and will hurt but I can’t forget my worth, just gotta roll with the punches

  • @souravjaipuria3881

    @souravjaipuria3881

    Жыл бұрын

    So.... what happened?

  • @hernstv
    @hernstv5 жыл бұрын

    Perfect advice.

  • @taimoorkiyani6650
    @taimoorkiyani66502 жыл бұрын

    After pulling away giving her space then after some days or weeks girl shows Same behaviour like act distant doesn't give time in that case what should I have to do any working advice ?

  • @Agriculturingabetterworld
    @Agriculturingabetterworld5 жыл бұрын

    yes..we must counter attack theit method

  • @developer7035
    @developer70352 жыл бұрын

    This 4 minute video just saved my life!

  • @demxnbxyxo_9994
    @demxnbxyxo_99943 жыл бұрын

    So should I text her if she texts me? Or wait a little bit

  • @relaxmarg4074
    @relaxmarg40745 жыл бұрын

    your vedios have given me new life

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