When She Leaves You (From A Psychologist)
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This video talks about why your girlfriend/wife might leave you from a psychological perspective, using my insight as a psychologist on how to get her back.
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I wish my heart wouldn't get so attached to a person that would just walk out on me
@Luis21gameboy
4 жыл бұрын
I feel you same here
@360undead
4 жыл бұрын
Same. I guess what we need to do is stop investing so much and make them chase and invest in us. Also abundance mindset
@motivationlectures7078
4 жыл бұрын
Yes dear bro! Same.
@ashwindhakshin9528
4 жыл бұрын
Same here :/
@MultiWeen
4 жыл бұрын
You need to stay busy and have an active life that you love, and gives you meaning without her. What ends up hurting the most is when she took up most of your free time and now you have this open hole of time where your just there with your thoughts and feelings. She ends up not only being your romantic interest but also your hobby and gives you direction in your life. You need to have those other things on lock down so she is only and romantic interest. So if you lose her for whatever reason that's all you lose not your hobby, not your direction which you should still be pursuing. Not only that but when you follow this more females start weaseling their way into your life so as she's gone there is another there if you want it.
If she leaves you to date other people you don’t need them back plain and simple.
@abikinebi6235
3 жыл бұрын
....yea.
@istvanbartha7985
2 жыл бұрын
amen to that
@pleasebiteme9823
2 жыл бұрын
Iron heart
@viniciusreboucas6099
2 жыл бұрын
Preach
@aeolismons4236
2 жыл бұрын
Why you here then?
Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on
@savastian_saul
5 жыл бұрын
👏🏿👏🏿🙌🏿💯💯😤👊🏿
@deputybluevein93
5 жыл бұрын
In 30 seconds flat when you feel the heat around the corner
@Kevin93m3
5 жыл бұрын
+Michael Billones Nice. I was waiting for that Heat reference lol
@deputybluevein93
5 жыл бұрын
@Patrick You mean one of greatest line ever produced from one of the greatest film produce, said by one of the greatest actor of all time. Yeah, it's mediocre.
@colintheodore8657
5 жыл бұрын
Movie name please i watched it but forgot the name ...
Hurt is for months..But regret is for lifetime ..Guys remember this..All the best ❤️
@cipryan96
3 жыл бұрын
Regret about what?
@randomnameindeed
3 жыл бұрын
@@cipryan96 Probably her regretting she broke up with you.
@boytino2646
3 жыл бұрын
We need to improve so that they will regret
@Mermaider
3 жыл бұрын
That's her fucking nickname. Meme! Meme, I swear I'll take you back if you don't spit on my face again and slap me again. Fine, wear what you want in front of you cousins. Just don't marry him without knowing him just to piss me off.
@dnegel9546
2 жыл бұрын
Months..?? Me: hurting for years.. still. 😒
Boys, take this from me, never get too attached to someone where you both don't see a future with. It's not worth it, leave before you fall for them and if she starts testing, run, it's just an endless downward spiral that never ends, it just gets worse.
@fazalhashmii
2 жыл бұрын
Best comment !
@aeolismons4236
2 жыл бұрын
Why u here?
@gojuryu3
Жыл бұрын
A woman who’s shit testing you while you both are IN a relationship, is not ready for a relationship. Leave her.
@lust4life791
Жыл бұрын
True.. Lol She started testing and I stayed and now it has gotten worsen. I should've pulled away earlier.
@loner_boy1423
9 ай бұрын
She said our relationship can't be fix 💔
Not emotionally strong? Go up to 100 random women. Then go up to 500. You won't be weak for long.
@ClassicCartoonsNL
4 жыл бұрын
I like this one haha
@honestfella836
4 жыл бұрын
Yess Thomas.
@blockheads5872
3 жыл бұрын
😂 thanx bro I'll try
@southwestxnorthwest
3 жыл бұрын
Good one 🤙
@Amctothemoon
2 жыл бұрын
Knock on enough doors one will open
tried this. tried being a man and sitting her down and talking and telling her where I went wrong, apologised, tried to tell her what I didn't like when she does certain things. it blew up in my face. women are pure emotional and you can appeal with reason or logic. essentially they are immature children when it comes to matters of the heart and you cant reason. best thing I ever did was pack up and leave while she was gone. so many times I tried fighting a losing battle. its not worth the degradation of yourself. you need to stand tall and stand up for yourself and end it!
@kierangardner990
5 жыл бұрын
i literately am going through this right now! :(
@VoiceOfThe
5 жыл бұрын
I’ve just been through it, women are a bloody nightmare!!
@VoiceOfThe
5 жыл бұрын
She broke 13 days of no contact on Saturday, ringing late at night, I missed the call in a panic, picked up a Messenger message straight after that literally floored me...
@miscool
5 жыл бұрын
can you help me? whats your details/history wiwth your ex how long etc @@VoiceOfThe
@VoiceOfThe
5 жыл бұрын
MW12 Hi, what’s your story?
If you let one come back you give her a license to run all over you. When they leave make them stay gone. The man is the prize that has to be won not the woman.
@ssmyth1835
6 жыл бұрын
mark burrell, that I why you are alone
@tagabulodchastityobedience7292
5 жыл бұрын
mark burrell IDIOT 😂🤣😂
@LU2013Aziz
5 жыл бұрын
mark burrell Church !
@LU2013Aziz
5 жыл бұрын
tagabicolini pinay feminist alert
@markburrell2778
5 жыл бұрын
@@tagabulodchastityobedience7292 Idiot with a pocket full of money. No bitching, no moaning, no complaining, no fooling around on me, life is good. The only man that does not have woman problems is a man who has no woman. All a man is to a woman is a paycheck.
Rule #1 "Never go back to your Ex" period.
@7amodie
4 жыл бұрын
Ur fucking right
@Aquientrenos_oficial
4 жыл бұрын
Travis scott song! \o/
@raytube4569
3 жыл бұрын
Going back to an ex is like stuffing a turd back up your arse. Never never never. Life is lived in forward not reverse.
@GS-cg3yn
4 ай бұрын
“Pride goeth before the fall.”
She left me completly from her life by step by step. Its hard to believe I don't know why still I'm hoping. I'm trying to control myself still i can't. Never love too much you will hurt so much.
@Hitman-mn9qg
4 жыл бұрын
Same bro. My girlfriend left me and I am trying to move on. My heart still want her, so its hard for me to forget her.
@dhrubapatgiri3986
4 жыл бұрын
Albert Davis same here bro today 1week i nvr thought
@wizGreat
4 жыл бұрын
BLaZeSTuDioS same here brotha haha be strong and move on
@shredhed572
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, that step by step stuff is crazy! It's like she was running away in slow motion.
@juliosoccerhiguera5425
4 жыл бұрын
Hope you guys all stay strong amd reading your replies really helped. Exact same thing am going threw and its killing my lil heart idk what to do but pray for the best and just keep working hard and working on our goals. Be strong men you guys were all great ppl. 🙏👍💪💎❤👨💼
I love the advice of "Walk away", "No contact" etc. While it has never worked for me (they never did end up coming back), it's the only viable course of action to preserve self-respect and move on. There is no other way to act. But maybe don't make viewers so hopeful about re-attracting her by using "no contact" and walking away.
She will get her Karma for what she has put me through. Then if or when she calls me, I will ignore her not trough out of vengeance, but out of self-respect. I am not her doormat. I am better than that. I deserve better than that. I am going to replace her with someone better. But first, I must become the man to whom that person will want to be with.
@blair5475
Жыл бұрын
update?
@micahrutland9021
6 ай бұрын
I'm with that statement all the way
1st every men out there need to know that women are hypergamies. No matter wat if she is with you because your the highest value man in her life at that time.(it is just your turn until bbd(bigger better deal comes along on her life). 2nd your a man your masculine keep ur standards, you want a women but you dont need her , you need water and food . 3rd if she go one time ,no matter wat , use that opportunity to grow your self/your work/project( may be your life goal in general speacialy the goals you couldnt achieve while you were with her.) 4th, your woman was one chance in billions other women out there, go and have good time to meet and get to know other new women , your life is your responsibility if you dont take care of your self no one will. So last , dont treat women as the prize ,your life comes always 1st . Hope that helped someone not getting depressed over a women .
@schnitzelich3880
2 жыл бұрын
Some Red pull dude out here
I don’t know why they do it. I’ve had it a few times where they test and pull away so I pull away then boom she’s gone with the guy who she had on the bench waiting. Then a couple of months in to that she realises that the same problems are still there because she’s the problem, then they try and come back! That’s the best part cos you’ve done the work and grown and she’s just tried to fill the void with another man who’s needy as fuck. Then you tell her bye bye
@exploringaround9193
3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely true and they will never learn because they never take the time to process the loss and understand their role in the failed relationship. They will continue in an endless cycle of new relationships that end because their are the problem.
@edgar_3686
3 жыл бұрын
Facts💯
she left me and came back as fast as i showed strength. now i just wonder if i even want somebody that leaves
@cipryan96
3 жыл бұрын
You don't. She was pumped and dumped
@zapphireqvq8954
3 жыл бұрын
How you showed strength?
@hardremer33
3 жыл бұрын
@@zapphireqvq8954 by basically not caring that she dumped me
@zapphireqvq8954
3 жыл бұрын
@@hardremer33 did you ignore her messages or sent short replies? My ex said to be friends and I am friends with her but only she msgs first.. How should i act to get her chasing for relationship again?
@hardremer33
3 жыл бұрын
@@zapphireqvq8954 i did not accept to be friends with her, i dont want a friendship so i rather have nothing. the best advice i can give is to walk away without any anger our frustration. simply focus on your life and if she comes back it is a bonus. girls don't want to be your everything, they simply want to be beside you and support you while you focus on your life. short texts can be seen as immature and passive agressive so i would just be real without being needy.
She pull away from me. Months later she said she still love me when I already move on
@Rohit_Dhobe
3 жыл бұрын
She leave me 1 hour ago, I am crying from 1 hour my tears not stop Is she now ur again gf?
@EngkuFaiz1999
2 жыл бұрын
@@Rohit_Dhobe update bro?
@Rohit_Dhobe
2 жыл бұрын
@@EngkuFaiz1999 what a coincidence she come back after 2 day but today 5 hour ago again she leave me 😭😞
@EngkuFaiz1999
2 жыл бұрын
@@Rohit_Dhobe i think no matter what the reason is we shouldn’t go back to our ex lol
@Rohit_Dhobe
2 жыл бұрын
@@EngkuFaiz1999 yes it's truth
I don't want to show that I'm bothered by anything she does but I'm also not overly concerned with trying to attract a girl who gave up on me.
@PermanentHigh
3 жыл бұрын
Delete all her contact info and delete her from social media
Never go back always foward
The bottom line is DON'T BE A MEAT PUPPET! If you are in a quality relationship then it will NOT be based on emotional control or manipulation over the other partner. After all is said and done, none of us has total control over how the other person feels about us. Relationships, like life, are a gamble. After three marriages, all to american women, I simply choose not to play any more. A single life can be good if approached with a healthy attitude. Cheers, Steve
@narrationsbydaniel917
5 жыл бұрын
Read The Rational Male mate
@stn7172
2 жыл бұрын
Are you English?
@yahyashaikhworld
2 жыл бұрын
Marry with Asians then
Remember gentlemen don't give second chances because she'll leave again and above all don't beg her to stay , it's hard for all of us but it's the right thing to do Stay strong 💪🏼
I love how red piled the comment section is
Leaving means that she / he is gone. Being stable and showing strength is only an act of trying to win her back and not a way to deal with whats left.
@xdxd525
3 жыл бұрын
Work from understanding point of view not faking these things
@BushidoVXX
2 жыл бұрын
Until you can internalize the lessons, then it’s no longer an act.
@kesavdarshan
Жыл бұрын
Winning is the only way to deal
I like the way you talk Chris .So Calm , really like listening to you
I’m tired of chasing someone who continues to choose silence and backing away instead of talking
if she/he cheats and breaks up with u how can u make that cheater to enter into ur life again it will be toxic u will be ruining ur life . never make them to do that.
i really love your videos they're really works...and I've like your videos as much as i watch them thanks Chris..😊
Thank you for this, just what I needed to hear at the moment. More power! :)
Of all the relationship coaches on KZread, you are the BEST!!! And I mean it..keep on keeping on
I thought I found my soul mate girl.. It's hard for me to forget about her since I loved her the most.
@christiancarr8566
5 жыл бұрын
Tell me about it
@Don-pk2uy
4 жыл бұрын
No such thing as a soul mate bro. You'll get on with lots of different women
@hakimi1854
4 жыл бұрын
any girl can be your.soul mate if you know how to mould her to become the women u.like..
@sirjacko79
4 жыл бұрын
Whenever I hear soul mate or whirlwind romance, I think narcissist. If it's too good to be true...
@emarr300
3 жыл бұрын
she brock up with me today im fighting my depression
when she leaves you for no reason, dump her. she's not worth it. youre worth more than that
@gryeden
4 жыл бұрын
It's never because of "no reason" , she will justify it any way she can.
@jahalo2038
4 жыл бұрын
gryeden do you know u belong in the book of wisdom
Once a female brings the relationship to this stage, they should be moved to the "side chick" roster. I'll never see the justice in someone thinking they can just come and go, unless they are just a 'side' of coarse.
@portgibsonminidrags5503
5 жыл бұрын
True
@jahalo2038
4 жыл бұрын
U drop this 👑
Love this guys advice. Thanks mate
I agree with the logic and practice of this, but, as a man currently going through this..... I don't want her back. I just want to get over her.
@gryeden
4 жыл бұрын
To get over her , get over someone else.
@MimMdance
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah! Many times during the relationship I even wished it was me who left but I didn't have the guts. Now I miss her of course, it hasn't been long, but also wish I could find someone better and easier to live with ... but there is this feeling at the same time that I want her to value what she had with me so bad and just crawl back someday with a better attitude, and then I'll see if it is worth it or if I am in a better place. People say just walk away but the memories and the habits ... that stays with you 😟
@Tailionis
4 жыл бұрын
@@MimMdance I wanted to break up for over a year but I didn't want to make a mistake. She manipulated me and made me think I would regret it. Well after rejecting her one request for money after just giving her money and her threatening break up. I am ready for it. I just don't have the strength to do it myself :(
@Jleed989
4 жыл бұрын
Chi Fox I hear you! Same situation
@Tailionis
4 жыл бұрын
@@Jleed989 we are still together lol. I wont let her go ever
When they pull away, there is always another man in the picture. Don't kid yourselves. The only way to win is to leave her. These are cold facts.
@exploringaround9193
3 жыл бұрын
From personal experience I would say that there is always another guy she wants to try be with. This could be a new guy she met during the breakup or if she moved on fast it could have been a reserve guy she was stringing along for quite sometime while she was still with you
@ioeuropaganymedkallisto7204
3 жыл бұрын
Yeaah... No. Personal issues, fading interest, and avoidant attachment style tactics are common reasons as well. It does not have to be another guy and it is an oversimplification of break ups to assume just that every woman who breajs up with you found another guy.
@flamesurfer
3 жыл бұрын
@@ioeuropaganymedkallisto7204 this is true. In my case she was constantly messaging a guy on instagram messenger. Sneaky tactic because it doesn't show you as online etc.
@ioeuropaganymedkallisto7204
3 жыл бұрын
@@flamesurfer I am not denying the validity of your reason. However, in my case several ex girlfriends wanted just to be alone and not with another guy. And with alone I really mean shutting down and not spending time with anyone in their social circle for several months. Have you ever dated a girl with Asperger syndrome or avoidant attachment style? Such individuals are not pursuing contact for the most time and do break up because they feel smothered or have a childhood trauma were too much intimacy is associated with losing control over oneself. Such people do not break up because they crave someone else. They just want to be alone again where they can feel save and not vulnerable. So one cannot generalize from just personal experiences to an overall rule where women break up just because of another guy. Life is more complicated and has many more aspects. That's all I wanted to say.
@exploringaround9193
3 жыл бұрын
@@ioeuropaganymedkallisto7204 It can happen too, but in the vast majority of cases there are always other guys. Most girls will do anything to avoid the pain of a breakup and will find a new guy to ensure the breakup is not very painful, if at all, for them
False hope. This is how you get a restraining order. Move on and live your best life. Either they leave you or they come back.
The good news is when you find the right person, she won't pull away unless you change. You will have an emotionally stable relationship so you'll be happy and won't need validation and she'll be happy and love you for who you are.
@jondough3339
2 жыл бұрын
Wrong. All women are gonna pull away at some point. It’s female nature to be indecisive and unsure. It’s the mans job to be the rock that they can always come back to and be a reference point for reassurance and confidence.
@marvinwenz1209
Жыл бұрын
indeed man, but it's hard finding someone like this
Loving someone is just to risky bc when it ends it really scars you for a long time and maybe forever
@blair5475
Жыл бұрын
update?
The best way to get over break ups is to never be emotionally attached. If you never surrender your heart, you won't feel pain. It works for me 🤷♂️
@hillarymcmahon7856
3 жыл бұрын
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@thetarotcottage7262
2 жыл бұрын
*i pray for the universe grant your heart desire I know of a great man 🇺🇸 that can help you manifest your ex back without any delay. he just help me restore my relationship of 2 years back with law of attraction manifestation last week*
@thetarotcottage7262
2 жыл бұрын
*➕2349159558749⏯*??????????
@AntwhaleNearfar
Жыл бұрын
That’s chicken 💩
Well I've had a break up and she left me and it was very hard for me I cried a lot and I found it really hard to have that experience... it happened tonight😭😭
@microjenni8560
5 жыл бұрын
Same happen wit me 😭but she didn't block me we still talks sometimes, I still miss her. I cried many times N I'm forgetting her by time👌
@abhinandanchakravarti
5 жыл бұрын
how do u feel now..after 9 months?
@atifrana5470
5 жыл бұрын
Sorry for that bro be strong and move on in life everything will be normal for you soon :)
@ioeuropaganymedkallisto7204
4 жыл бұрын
How are you now @Teenchy? Some years have past since your break up.
Stay Strong 💪🏿 Stay Stoic Strength 💪🏿 🙏🏿 SELF-RESPECT Self-worth SELF-CONTROL Self-worth Self-esteem
Notice the common theme as you watch these videos trying to figure out why your woman is ruining your life. They are disloyal pains in the ass. They are unmanageable. Tom Brady’s supermodel wife gave him an ultimatum basically telling him he wasn’t fulfilling her expectations in the marriage. It doesn’t matter who you are you can’t ever keep her happy for long
@7amodie
4 жыл бұрын
Ur fucking right
She left me cause I was pushing her away slowly with my jealousy and unsolved abandonment issues, being suspicious of her all the time. Luckily we ended in good terms but I need to work on myself and overcome those trust issues. I feel really bad for putting her in that uncomfortable position.
@marcus3672
2 жыл бұрын
Or she lied and convinced you that you had insecurities and jealousy. Did she ever accused you with that anytime you confronted her with suspicions. Or you genuinely felt it was your fault?
she laid in bed with me and told me she'd love me till her dying breath, six months later she's married to another guy, WTF kind of love is that? And why do I keep attracting psycho ladies who behave like that?
Amazing content! Keep up with the great work, thanks coach!
I wasn't a casa nova by any means but when my ex left me for another and I got through my grieving period , I got a real I don't give a fuck attitude and got laid more in 6 months than 6 years before her... I read this somewhere and it rings true "In a relationship , the one who cares least holds the most power."
She WANTS to try diffrent type D.
@kking2733
5 жыл бұрын
Mohamed Abucar no cap
Thanks for the advice. Was helpful. I'll practice what you have taught us
Makes a lot of sense and this is extremely true
I wish I saw this video sooner.... I begged and pleaded with her. Think she's gone forever now😑😑😑 feel so lost and empty.
@SocramZue
4 жыл бұрын
Same I did the same exact shit. Was my first ever relationship too. 9 years and a daughter. I'm trying to work on myself but after I see her it's like i relapsed. Need mentally prepare myself
@SocramZue
4 жыл бұрын
@Niko Okin thanks man. Yea I did all the donts from these coaching videos. But the comments gave me better advice. To better myself as a man and achieve self happiness. I'm just holding on to the feeling of needing her, but that may be it. Say she did give me a second chance, we'd be back in the same place because we're incompatible. But we'll never know what life throws at us. Now I'm just trying to salvage the friendship so that she won't get mad and put me on child support or keep our kid away from me.
@aaronk3788
4 жыл бұрын
quit being a little needy beta bitch.. I do not mean to be offensive, I was the same way. Figure out why you have your codependent ways and then grow that back bone and start living life.
@oliverallen5324
4 жыл бұрын
Fill your life with new skills, with weightlifting, with travel. Fill the hole in your heart with success.
@adrianshaw4639
4 жыл бұрын
Women love seeing men miserable without them. Just because of that they know they won. Get your balls back fellas and keep your heads up life ain't over
It's been 2 years now after my ex dumped me. I am single I am not going back to her. I wanna move on. But I haven't find any good girl yet. So I given up idea of dating. Its on destiny Now. I won't chase after any bitch anymore. Because every single day is a blessing of god.
@ouattaradouyeribessaleli3037
3 жыл бұрын
You dont have to find any other good girl... enjoy your lonely tie and learn from your past relationship
@emarr300
3 жыл бұрын
she brock up with me today im fighting my depression
Thank you so much!! Very big help!! Everytime i hear from you, I am enlightened! More wisdom please
Thank you so much plz upload more I wann to ask u a few questions
Women want a guy with money, it is the most important thing to them. Gold diggers are on the rise fellas, it's a sad reality.
@Tailionis
4 жыл бұрын
Its these God damn pop songs. Influencing gold diggers. I just realized my gf was a gold digger after testing her. But she always manipulates me and makes me out to be selfish. Well this time she was unable to. I am fucking done with women.
@martincolton32
2 жыл бұрын
Very true
@ericwachira5494
2 жыл бұрын
Well you're the one who gat the most realistic point...money first
The real question is, why would I want to take her back?
@Ace.0.0.0.
2 жыл бұрын
Ah, grasshopper. Now you are ready to leave.
nice video buddy
This is hard work.
If someone can walk out of your life easily, let them go! Do not pursue them, definitely dont beg them to stay. You will find someone else who will he more beautiful, inside and out. Use this newfound time to work on yourself and become the best version of yourself!!!
@hillarymcmahon7856
3 жыл бұрын
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@d.a.b2374
2 жыл бұрын
Not easy
yea what if i leave her first. how to get her back?
Best coach ever...
It hurts but i’ll follow your advise
Some women leave and just don't care and your left rummanating in your mind and no matter what you do it doesn't work you can be the best boyfriend or husband they see a nicer sweet in the sweet shop they will take that feelings emotions don't come into it after a while you never existed and your still thinking of them.
@stevenkrupka3670
3 ай бұрын
Speak english!
So if you don't care for a girl she falls in love with you and if you make her feel special she is repulsed ... Fuck this world man! Seriously. Fuck It! What if I have already overreacted and shown my weakness for her? Not only at this moment but during the relationship. My only hope (aside from applying this technique) is that I didn't only show weakness but also huge kindness and appreciation for her like no one or few others did, and that she might remember and value that.
@blair5475
Жыл бұрын
update?
Dude! You're the best!
Your vedios have given me new life
@enormerschwanz
5 жыл бұрын
Lol You stooge...
This is so helpful, but where was this video before I did all that calling n begging.!! Lol 😀😔😭💪🤗
I absolutely enjoyed your show i learned a lot from watching your program . more videos on this topic pls ! moreover my sister was recently talking about herbal aphrodisiacs spanish fly and i wanted to try it from fun and i must say great results
I dont know why they dont it but what you said is 100% true. They just pull away for absolutely no reason at all. Its crazy.
When you all had a house together and financial responsibilities those things don’t wait for her to come back around.
One more point you missed is she has found someone else with more bank balance !
@tagabulodchastityobedience7292
5 жыл бұрын
Zero Miles if she truly loves you she’s willing to live with you in the cave money has nothing to do with love
@happychampion3096
5 жыл бұрын
Hahaha ...what an advantage it would be for her..
@chicagoboy279
5 жыл бұрын
@@tagabulodchastityobedience7292 lies
@zeroimpetuous
3 жыл бұрын
@@tagabulodchastityobedience7292 that's exactly what women usually say at the beginning, but end up finding someone else with money.
@tagabulodchastityobedience7292
3 жыл бұрын
@@zeroimpetuous money do become an issue when you’re the only one working paying all the bills ( that’s number one ) - ( but number 2 ) Or both of you working but you have a huge house you’re the only one keeping the house clean cooking and serving and he expect you to look like a supermodel while doing all that ( Also while keeping full time job - my case is number two) So I let him go 😂🤣😂 I rather be alone with my animals who actually truly loves me ( even if I look like shit sometimes)
everyone believe me! move on! do not contact her drunk high or sober work get money fix urself do shit u didnt have the time to do cuz the time was all focused on her! eithre she will come back and u have the upperhand or you will find somone better than her
U r d best relationship coach 😘
you are indeed an expert
If i leave her and be strong and confidence man than she will not come to me because she want to leave me totally.... What can i do🙏😓 now
Indifference is key guys.
What happens if the girl back away because he doesn't want to commit after a year long "non-dating, situationship". How does the guy think at the moment or even after.
Sometimes She leaves you and falls in love with another guy. At that point, She will never come back, doesn't matter what u do.
@stevenkrupka3670
10 ай бұрын
Can i buy a crystal ball like yours?
I don’t agree with what you say completely. Women get disinterested because they get bored of men easily, when she pulls away she start searching for options. If she misses you, she comes back, but this time you have to deal with the another person whom she had been chatting with in your absence. And if the next time you make a small mistake, boom she’s again gone back into the arms of another man.
@thickseed
11 ай бұрын
Bingo.
For majority of guys...you shouldn't be worried about getting her back. You should have the abundance mindset and spin your plates.
But what if you're not acting weak but still she loses interest,and actually dates someone else and starts getting serious with that person?
Thank you sooooooooo much...🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
What about people females with anxious fearful avoidant attachment style
Or she cheated on you and started see a new guy the same day you broke.
@superflashshazam1896
4 жыл бұрын
Look like my story
@Don-pk2uy
4 жыл бұрын
Never met a loyal woman...other than my mother and even then I'm not sure 🤣
@WhiteGhost21
4 жыл бұрын
she was already seeing him
Hey.. I love your vids... Short and better than others... Know me I'm Solomon King
If she leaves dont look back she doesnt deserve you
I just broke down when my girlfriend left me
Learn to only put one foot into a relationship.... It took me 42 years to learn this.... best life lesson ever. 😜😇
I don’t know what to do anymore.
Interesting that my marriage counselor says to continue to message via text to let her know that i care. I guess it's not a perfect science
Anything she does, does not effect me anymore ..
What if she says it's over, I just don't see u as boyfriend but brother, it's been a month now. She said lets not talk now but within 4 months we can talk again, we see each other at school everyday and she would ignore me? Why
@truthseeker5886
5 жыл бұрын
This tells me she's being honest with you. Something is just off with you. And she needs the space to figure out her feelings for you. Do what she says.dont talk to her. Go about your own life. Focus on improving yourself. It's highly likely that it is something to do with how you show up and you turned her off over time to a point where she couldn't feel anything for you. Use this space to work on yourself.dont focus on her. Otherwise she'll end up friendzoning you if you don't do what I say. Be glad she's pushing you away and not asking to be friends with you...she wants to miss you, she wants to wonder about you that's the only shot she can give to try build attraction towards you
He's right I've made these mistakes due to me feeling this way
Not showing feelings is not strength, its weakness
she brock up with me today im fighting my depression thank you
@brunomoreira1706
3 жыл бұрын
I Hope you're feeling better by now. Stay strong. Ask for help.
@Phoenix1664
3 жыл бұрын
Listen to Bruno, and good luck.
@emarr300
3 жыл бұрын
@@brunomoreira1706 thanx bro i'm 99% over it right now. but still not ready yet to get into a new relationship. My feelings are still devastated
@emarr300
3 жыл бұрын
@@Phoenix1664 thanks bro!
@Phoenix1664
3 жыл бұрын
@@emarr300 I've been there mate. Dumped by a Spanish girl over 2 years ago. Over it, but do still think about her. I know the feeling. We'll get there.
MGTOW to be brief..... Reminds me of what I heard many years ago about handling failure,defeat and disappointment by a coach..."Gentlemen,we've got to be very strong about what happened here tonight and MOVE ON !!!!".
it was really good
Plzz I need your help... I broke up cos she was pulling away cos she wasn’t showing the feelings anymore....then my bday came she reached me ...plz Can I reach her during her upcoming birthday?
Wow, thus is truly 100% accurate after watching this video putting it to practice, my partner has actually said to me that she is sooo surprise how calm I am..
@themachine7557
5 жыл бұрын
Just yesterday and she doesn't want to see me or reply. That's OK. After watching this video I will practice and see what will happen
@themachine7557
5 жыл бұрын
And thank you too
@betrustedandhonest7462
5 жыл бұрын
Just don't stand in her way, let her know either way the relationship goes your fine with that.
@coreyholland2944
5 жыл бұрын
if you want to be trusted then be honest p
@jahalo2038
4 жыл бұрын
THE MACHINE now that it’s been a year ...how it go ??
Is it worth having a relationship if it's this complicated?
@jeremiahpitts6663
3 жыл бұрын
My girl left me after a few years and turned bi. Its the last heart break i will ever have. Out of all my life she was the best person to me and now she is a jerk to me
understood thanks
Its been 2 years i cant take it any more