Imagine not having custody of your children for a period of their lives and when they die say “everything they own belongs to me”

@nikkibrown644

2 жыл бұрын

It makes you wonder if she cares more for the material possessions than her sons, smh

@valhumphries2704

2 жыл бұрын

@@nikkibrown644 exactly

@gtsound12

2 жыл бұрын

@@nikkibrown644 no need to wonder.. I think it is pretty obvious sadly

@nikkibrown644

2 жыл бұрын

@@gtsound12 you’re absolutely right.

@Bklynborn23

2 жыл бұрын

Didn't matter the law is the law and she's is his next if kin PERIOD. Not to mention it's just a raggedy old car from 22 yrs ago

I know he’s trying so hard to be respectful to her but she’s a piece of work smh

@shannonbrice8012

2 жыл бұрын

That is a man who was raised well (just not by the mother). I suspect the aunt raised him not to speak ill of his mother.

@ANGELSURS

2 жыл бұрын

I think she meant to say pieces of shut

@drearperry8727

2 жыл бұрын

@@shannonbrice8012 being a brainwashed coward doesn't mean you were raised well.

@christinagordon7041

2 жыл бұрын

@@drearperry8727 Who Dis?!?! His momma? 🤣

@fintyeli3

2 жыл бұрын

@@ANGELSURS 🤣

Calls him "a big ol' liar" for saying he was in foster care. Then proceeds to explain why he was in foster care.

@divinedom

2 жыл бұрын

That part.

@vorpal22

2 жыл бұрын

I wonder if she is a sociopath because she doesn't seem the least bit affected by what she has put her children through or the fact that her son was killed.

@drearperry8727

2 жыл бұрын

@@vorpal22 most breeder women are sick.

@kotorisama3080

2 жыл бұрын

@@divinedom 🤣 I haven’t gotten there yet but dang 😂 reminds me of dave Chapelle skit where rick james was like “Im not gon go in someone house and stomp my dirty dirty boots on their couch.” (2 seconds later) “Yeaaaaahhh i went in his house with my dirty boots and stomp on his couch” Probably paraphrasing but you get the idea 😂

@crystalshaw8744

2 жыл бұрын

@@kotorisama3080 😆😆

She fails to accept the effect that she negatively affected the lives of her kids. 2 years in foster care...even 2 days in foster care, she has no idea what was done to her children and its because of her addiction. Sure, getting it together is great but when they act like the kids have no right to complain because they fixed themselves eventually its truly sad and disgusting.

@spirogiannaki

Жыл бұрын

But she wants the money.

She’s trifling you didn’t even raise your kids and you got nerve to want a car smh 🤦🏾‍♀️ she’s still smoking crack smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

This should’ve been on judge Mathis he would’ve set the mom straight real fast

@franj1444

2 жыл бұрын

Ikr he would have put her in her place.

@vorpal22

2 жыл бұрын

Am I the only one who doesn't like Judge Mathis? The show feels so flaky and informal and the judgments seem to have no real basis in law.

@Nevaeh1

2 жыл бұрын

@@vorpal22 that’s because the show pays them if they “win” the case

@vorpal22

2 жыл бұрын

@@Nevaeh1 That I did know from the disclaimer often shown at the end about an amount of money put to the side to pay an appearance fee to the litigants, with it being distributed unequally to compensate the winning litigant. Does Judge Mathis not have the same thing? I find the people on his show are a little... trashy... to put it politely. (Not always, but frequently.) On the other hand, Judge Judy makes me actively uncomfortable because of her aggressive and confrontational nature... And hence, Judge Milian clearly comes out on top for me. I love her quirky personality.

@marvolom787

2 жыл бұрын

Or he would berrate the son. Hate his "I was beaten every single day as kid and turned out okay' as a way to say youngster should suck it up and get over abuse.

I feel for the son. I’m glad he has his auntie.

For what the son has been through he seems like he turned out to be a good person .

@vorpal22

2 жыл бұрын

Despite the fact that he's driving a car without a license and thus without insurance, he at least seems like a sincere guy who has made it through some really turbulent times and probably is the one who cares most about his brother.

@getin3949

2 жыл бұрын

If in fact what he's telling the judge is ALL factual. There is always 2 sides to everything.

@astridross4664

2 жыл бұрын

If he’s such a good person, he should give his mother the car since it is technically rightfully hers

@vorpal22

2 жыл бұрын

@@astridross4664 No, it isn't. It was never her son's car in the first place. This family is dysfunctional and should not be allowed to have cars.

@TMS-pj7fp

2 жыл бұрын

@@astridross4664 why does she deserve it over the brother. I'm just curious not trying to be rude

Your son is murdered and your immediate thought is to get his car? I’m so lost. This is so sad. Mom should be ashamed of herself. Please please mom let this go and please let your son keep the car.

I love how recovering addicts like to spin things. If the son is saying they were in and out of the system I believe him. I suspect family members raised him. Suing the only son for a car that cannot be registered, has no plates or insurance, the mother doesn't have a license all for a car probably worth 2 grand.

@charkitahood2532

2 жыл бұрын

Judge Mathis would have told her about herself.

@ralexandra1058

2 жыл бұрын

She cares more about that car than the fact that her son was murdered. The fact that she was hellbent on getting it the same day he was shot speaks volumes.

‘Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child’. Reuben deserved so much better. Straight out the gate she said 'I need that car so I don't have to carry my laundry anymore'. I hope Reuben cuts ties and lives a great life.

@vorpal22

2 жыл бұрын

She is definitely toxic and he would be much better off as far away from her as possible. From the sounds of it, he already knows that.

@clifffischer4409

2 жыл бұрын

See how she is licking her lips every 10 seconds. Sign of a liar

@spirogiannaki

Жыл бұрын

@@vorpal22 She is not only toxic. Erase this word. She is non mother. As a mother who had my baby of 28 yrs now I fought. And those mothers abandoned their children . Shame.

@itshrg2480

Жыл бұрын

🤷🏾‍♀️

@MrsMeeker0328

10 ай бұрын

​@@clifffischer4409sign of a crackhead lbvvvs

I can’t imagine 2 days in foster care let alone 2 years and mom acts like it’s nothing cuz she brought him a bday cake

@stephanie5249

2 жыл бұрын

Ya that cake part hit me in my soul. ‘It was only two years and I brought them cake on their birthdays.’ I know that stuff happens and drugs cause bad problems for good people, but she is not good people. She has absolutely zero remorse. 💔 A mother in name only.

@franj1444

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah she down played that

@DavidKen878

2 жыл бұрын

@@franj1444 And when her son said it, she kept calling him a liar as if it wasn't true.

@vorpal22

2 жыл бұрын

@@DavidKen878 She was calling him a liar before he even finished saying what he was trying to say.

@DavidKen878

2 жыл бұрын

@@vorpal22 Exactly!

I feel sorry for anyone who grew up like this. The blind in one eye "mother" with no license wants the car to do laundry and the brother wants it to be a show car...this is ridiculous

@brucecoleman7412

2 жыл бұрын

Neither one even has a driver’s license! A 2000 Nissan Maxima? At 22 years old it will probably cost considerably more to make it street legal in California than it will ever be worth. Either one of them will have to spend money to go through Probate Court to get it, then getting the proper paperwork will be a pain if even possible. That car will eventually be impounded and scrapped because it will never be street legal again.

@dennissmith7214

2 жыл бұрын

@@brucecoleman7412 Yup and the fact that it’s not being driven means it’s already on its way to being worthless! 😑🤷🏽‍♂️

@jenerin905

2 жыл бұрын

I can understand the brother wanting the car. It's a 20-something priority, but the mother? She puts her wants and needs above those of her son's. She would rather fight this senseless battle for a useless vehicle than emotionally connect with her grieving son. My heart breaks for them, but I hope the son gets the maternal relationship he needs from his aunt, cause his mother seems too self involved.

@brucecoleman7412

2 жыл бұрын

@@jenerin905 The son has other cars and doesn’t really need it. The mother actually needs it. The likelihood of either one of them actually getting a driver’s license, insurance, and making the car legal in California is beyond slim. It will result in another unlicensed, uninsured motorist driving an unregistered vehicle putting innocent lives in danger. The son wanting to make the car a show car? There are only so many ways you can polish a turd, but it’s still a turd.

@kimberlyadorno280

2 жыл бұрын

@@brucecoleman7412 I could be wrong but I interpreted "show car" in a more commemorative way. Like having some type of gathering where loved ones could be around the car while celebrating him? Personally I wouldn't, because as you stated, there are costs to storing the vehicle. But some people have a difficult time thinking logically during the grieving process and it sounds like there some resentment towards the mom for not being very present or nurturing.

I cannot stand women like the plaintiff. They choose men, drugs, and the street life OVER their children then want to act all offended and hurt when the kids grow older to resent them and call them out on it. I believe every word her son said about the childhood he was subjected to because of her choices and behavior.

@OmegaSeraphim

2 жыл бұрын

she chose a man or men that were a reflection of herself. women choose who they allow in. the children are who suffer when women choose to be baby mommas. i knew as soon as son began talking that mom made bad decisions.

@Childfree334

2 жыл бұрын

I disagree on one point. Being a "baby mama" has nothing to do with it. There are millions of kids from 2 parent homes with married parents that are just as fked up. I am a pediatric RN and can tell you some stories, especially about many men committing murder/suicides of their wives right in front of their kids or fathers who moles* their own kids with the wifes full knowledge. Happens way more than you think.

@OmegaSeraphim

2 жыл бұрын

@@Childfree334 but on average that's not the norm. for example, you can't say most drivers get into car accidents because a small minority of drunk drivers cause the accidents. children from broken baby momma homes on average have poorer outcomes thank two parent homes.

@Childfree334

2 жыл бұрын

@@OmegaSeraphim I'm telling you, it IS the norm. It is just not talked about or publicized like the media does with single parent homes because it does not fit the narrative they want to portray. Do you know how many pregnant teenage girls are from 2 parent homes? Get a job in the Healthcare industry hands on with patients and you will see just how much of a lie statistics really are.

@OmegaSeraphim

2 жыл бұрын

@@Childfree334 the us population is over 300 million. out of that 300 million, what percentage are you speaking of? don't answer based on what you feel it is.

I love how he wore an In Memory of shirt 💜💜the mother should be ashamed of herself

@vorpal22

2 жыл бұрын

She probably would have worn one too but she just couldn't make that seventh trip to the laundromat to wash it. 😂

@thinkdifferenttv

2 жыл бұрын

I think she was wearing a button

@africanviolet2469

2 жыл бұрын

@@thinkdifferenttv she is

I grew up in foster care with a selfish mother, the best thing I did was cut contact with her and stopped her from wrecking my life. I hope Rubin does the same. This "mothers" mentality reminds me so much of my own. I love his auntie I want her in my life lol!

She’s beyond selfish!!! Why is she not more worried about the fact that she just lost her son and that her other son doesn’t even like her !!!! Despicable.

The fact that the mom only want the car for her own selfish personal reasons instead of her wanting it for sentimental value really bothers me! Your Son died for God sake your son died less than a year ago and you are more concerned about the car than finding out who killed him and why. This is so sad on so many levels 😔💔

@DavidKen878

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. She can't see properly, has no license, but wants it so other people can drive her around in it. 😳

@marilynwillett804

2 жыл бұрын

True but let her have it. I'd say mom I'm not getting it, you do whatever you want.

@beautyishername503

2 жыл бұрын

@@marilynwillett804 I would give her that car and that would be the last time she would ever see me

@vorpal22

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. You'd think she'd be heartbroken over the fact that her son is dead at 27 and she has no idea who killed him, but all she can think is, "CAR. CAR. CAR," and she doesn't even care what this does to any chance she might have had at any harmony with her sister and her surviving son.

@vorpal22

2 жыл бұрын

@@DavidKen878 I'm sure that that's the plan. It seems like nobody in this family has a license (and thus also no insurance for that matter) and nobody in this family should be operating or in possession of a car.

The auntie blew this case wide open. If the deceased (RIP) didn’t register the car, then the car doesn’t belong to either party. I pray they all get the healing they need because this is so sad.

Crazy how all she care about is the car for herself 💯❗️

Ive always said this, you’ll see someone’s true colors after there is a death! This is just sad 😢

@beautyishername503

2 жыл бұрын

So true! The things people fight over are unbelievable

@ANGELSURS

2 жыл бұрын

Well said sweetness

@yahdygirl

2 жыл бұрын

You are 100% right

@badgurl5758

2 жыл бұрын

@@yahdygirl Its sad tbh.. My mother’s son didnt go to her wake or funeral cuz he didnt get her car. Guess what, she passed on his birthday. Karma is REAL 🌟

@jacquelynclark3782

2 жыл бұрын

Amen to that !!!!

Reuben is Beautiful 😍 I hope he stays away from his toxic mother and has a wonderful life.

Unbelievable! Shame on that so called mom

Nothing (and I mean NOTHING) could cause me to take my child to court over material possessions. What a horrendous woman

@ralexandra1058

2 жыл бұрын

I hope this woman reads the comments on this video and feels immense embarrassment and shame.

@shirleywiese5230

2 жыл бұрын

So true. She is a horrible person

I don’t want to believe that the mother feels like she just came up on a car after her son’s death.

The mother is not in her right mind to sue her son that is only left on this planet…🤦🏽‍♀️just sad. To run some errands🤦🏽‍♀️

The mother doesn't care about her children she just wants his car so sad

@jacquelynclark3782

2 жыл бұрын

You’d be surprised how true and how often these situations exist . Motherly love? Sadly this mother has plenty of company, meaning she’s not the only selfish mother

Being a former foster child and child of a recovering addict & alcoholic, I totally resonate with the defendant. The fact this mother cares more about this vehicle than grieving the loss of her child is so damn sad. I truly encourage everyone above the age of 18 to set up any type of Will possible. Even if you don't have many assets, as you see here, simply leaving a car behind can cause a rift between loved ones(so damn sad but greed really takes over so many folks). Be very specific and if your family dynamic allows it, speak openly or have family meetings about your wishes if anything were to ever happen. This can possibly avoid conflicts or just plain messiness should something unexpectedly ever happen😢

@jenerin905

2 жыл бұрын

That's an extremely hard childhood you had, with a lot of complex emotions. Your words are gold!

@kimberlyadorno280

2 жыл бұрын

@@jenerin905 Thanks hun!❤️So many things I wish I was taught growing up. Society (parents specifically) needs to do better educating our youth on important life skills.

My brother died a few years ago. Our family got together and decided who wanted his things and would remember him through them. No fighting, he had multiple cars and they went to loved ones

@stephanie5249

2 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️ I hope that your heart finds peace. Excellent job honouring his memory by not shattering a family over material possessions. If only all families could operate like this

@feyfantome

2 жыл бұрын

That very unusual: unfortunately, the strong emotions bring out the worst in most people, especially their regret, anger, and anguish. So most people experience a lot of conflict when it comes to anything dealing with the deceased-their final arrangements, their estate, even their memorial markers.

@YoungHaveNot

2 жыл бұрын

Did he have kids? If so everything should have went to them. It shouldn't be a free for all

@meekthegreek1623

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry for your loss. Glad the family was amicable to each other during this time of loss and grief.

Some ‘mom’ who picks drugs over her kids. And acts like it’s no big deal that they spent time in foster care & off on relatives. She doesn’t deserve anything of his brother’s things. Her attitude stinks. If you don’t want to make 5 trips for laundry, but your own car.

@REDMr97

2 жыл бұрын

And then she has the AUDACITY to be mad at her sister who STEPPED UP to be a mom to him because she was an addict. She’s mad at EVERYONE but herself!

@RileyCullen1

2 жыл бұрын

@@REDMr97~ Exactly!

Wow!!! “I even bought them a birFday cake”!!! Wow, why didn’t you say so? You definitely should get everything including a mother of the year award! soooo freaking sad!!

@susanbowman6652

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, and pronounced car as ‘core’ about two dozen times.

The judge is right, without a wife or children, parents are next in line to inherit the estate. Give her the car and let her deal with the issues that go along with it. Such a shame these kinds of things are so common.

It's going to cost more to get it registered and road worthy than what the car's worth. It's 22 yrs old!

@alyssahamlett

2 жыл бұрын

Girl what the hell are you talking about 22 years old doesn't mean a car is not worth shit, I've had a 2007 an older car for the last 5 years the one car that I had that was a 2010 and cost $13000 the transmission went out 4 months later.... You're only doing yourself a disservice thinking cars that old are junk

@queenstixxzz

2 жыл бұрын

It isn't about the car....he was only 27 years old and it sounds like he had very little assets to keep hold of. The brother wants it because while the mom was "having troubles" they had each other...so he wants to keep it. I don't blame him...he doesn't want her to have it because she would drive it unregistered, non licensed...and uninsured...it would get towed away and left in an impound lot until crushed at a junk yard. He wants to make a memorial out of it... I can only hope that the mom gets something of her sons and that his brother can keep the car and someday make it legally his own.

Maybe you should be more concerned with your son than a car. My heart breaks for the defendant.

This case hits very close to home for me. I understand and empathize with the defendant. If I was him I’d give the car to his mother and walk away from her. I learned a long time ago as a child that the people who claim to love you unconditionally can be the most toxic people in your life. Even now with a son dead and only one left living she’s choosing her needs over his. The defendant seems like such a good soul and I’m so sorry for his loss. I wish him all the best in life. As for the plaintiff, I have no pity for someone who is more bothered by ending up with a car than trying to heal a relationship with her only son.

@NellieKAdaba

2 жыл бұрын

👍🏿

This was an unnecessary case. All this drama and the car isn't even available to them.

The mother cares about no one but herself so sad. I’m sorry he didn’t have a loving mother growing up.

Nobody bothered to research anything before coming to court. Technically, the car wasn't even registered or titled in the dead son's name. It still belongs to the previous owner. Each state may differ, but in most states the seller and purchaser fill out the form on the back of the title, in front of a notary public, so that the new owner can get it titled in their name. Some may be more lax and all you need is a notarized bill of sale. Without any of that, they're fighting over a car that technically wasn't the dead son's.

@Seasidecc95437

2 жыл бұрын

Nobody needs a notary.

@jpharleyd9325

2 жыл бұрын

@@Seasidecc95437 What universe do you live in. Every title transfer needs to be notarized.

@elvickRULES

Жыл бұрын

@@jpharleyd9325 no it doesn’t. I just looked up one state and it didn’t mention it at all. It might in your state but it doesn’t where I live or where I used to live either.

@jpharleyd9325

Жыл бұрын

If anyone is buying or selling a vehicle, that title should be transferred to the purchaser before they even take posession. The seller shouldn't let the buyer drive off with their plate on the car. If the buyer gets parking tickets or is in an accident before the title's transferred, that will all fall on the seller. The buyer can play dumb and after an accident say that they just borrowed the car. They're not going to insure that car until it's in their name, so you'll be on the hook.

She has no right to down play how he feels about his childhood. I can't believe she just kept going on about how hard she tried and how much she was in their life well in foster care. Obviously it wasn't enough and your making it worse lady. I feel bad for this man.

Just give her the car and the stuff and separate yourself from her for a while. It’s really not worth this constant pain.

The greed that comes out when someone dies is hideous!

I hope Rueben is able to fight for the car and keep it. SMH the plaintiff is heartless. She’s already lost one son due to death now she’s about to lose another one due to him not being in her life.

@franj1444

2 жыл бұрын

If I was him I would junk it and get what I could from it just so she don't get it, but most likely she won't have the time of money to go to probate court

@inukoko2012

2 жыл бұрын

@@franj1444 I think he wants the memory of his brother more than the money. But I understand what you’re saying.

Like most addicts and non-present parents, she’s minimizing the situation. She thinks that just because she sent birthday cakes and stopped by to see him that she was present, when in actuality, she wasn’t. The aunt seems to have been present in his life more than her too, which is why he views her more as a mother than his own mom. That said, the mother does have a legal right to the car, simply because that’s the law. However, since it appears the son has a closer relationship with his brother than she did, he has more of an emotional right. I understand that he wants to save, preserve, and rebuild the car instead of having it be used for driving which will only break the already old car down more. Worse, the brother didn’t have it registered, so even the legal right the mother has may be complex to enforce. Just sad all around. I’d say maybe her son or her sister can give her rides, but it seems those relationships are broken down so deeply. Sad.

So they fighting over a car that the deceased son didn’t even own 🤦🏾‍♀️ nobody did any research before wasting time to go to court

this goes DEEPER! than what ANY! Court can handle, plaintiff sounds broke (financially); son is hurt (emotionally) & sister/aunt (?); if plaintiff thinks getting the car will make her whole?, i'd let her have it, sever ties with her & move on with my life! SOME! family has to be loved from afar, this seems the situation here, they will just continue to hurt each other emotionally if this continues, Sadly.

@DavidKen878

2 жыл бұрын

But she doesn't think it will make her whole. She just wants it because she doesn't have one. Her son is the one who wants to fix it up and keep it.

Well, at least they agree on the make and model of the car.

Hey TPC crew. Happy Thursday from Miami FL. We are enjoying tuna salad sandwiches and chips today for lunch. Y'all be blessed. 😁

@chef1088

2 жыл бұрын

Who cares? Why must you post what you are eating on EVERY PC video? It’s annoying.

@Marthitaandsunflowers

2 жыл бұрын

Going to my Tia's for crispy tacos today!!! Enjoy your day!!

@Childfree334

2 жыл бұрын

@@chef1088 This is a public forum and I can post WTF I want. If it's so annoying to you, how about you ignore my comments and keep scrolling past. Problem solved dude. 🖕🏾

@looknbakatu

2 жыл бұрын

LOVE! tuna salad sandwiches, sounds DELICIOUS!, ENJOY! 😀😃😄

@looknbakatu

2 жыл бұрын

@chef1088, you SOUND! VERY jealous; guess you can't come up with anything appetizing to post, don't like it, too bad!

I can very much tell that she's a recovering addict and it appears to have affected her personality and her brain function, unfortunately. If I had to guess, the aunt may have had a larger part in raising him, which is why he isn't as "ghetto" as the 'mom'. She can't even keep her mouth shut while he's talking. He's more respectful than she is. Neither should get the car. Any mom who would sue over something like this is ridiculous. Though the other son shouldn't get the car either if it wasn't even registered to the brother that died.

@samantham8696

Жыл бұрын

I don’t think she is in recovery. I think she is an addict to this day. She may have stayed clean for a bit, but this is not how someone behaves once clean.

It's so sad that some families become petty after a death☠️😢. I've seen it in my family 😞. When my grandparents passed my maternal side sat down and worked everything out completely civilly 🙏. Unfortunately it was the complete opposite on my father's side. Terrible to witness and seeing the pettiness of people who "love" each other?! It's difficult to look at so many of them the same. BTW the people in my father's family live very comfortably and are in no need of money 🤷🤦. So once again proving the point MONEY can't/doesn't buy you love. Love comes from within YOUR own heart 💗🙏

Very impressed with Ruben (defendant) You see people in court telling their family's business in a nasty way. He spoke his truth and was kind. Wish you and your family well. Sorry to hear about your loss.Wait, did she just say "while they were in foster care they always got a birthday card..." Are you kidding me. 😐

Actually once your child is an adult...it does not belong to you

@granitemoss1451

2 жыл бұрын

Edited as she addressed my question further in the case. Can't tell you how pleased I am that it's not even registered to to the deceased so she's likely to be unable to get her greedy paws on it.

@elvickRULES

Жыл бұрын

@@granitemoss1451 I hope whoever sold it saw this episode and does something because the son was clearly driving it unregistered. So the mom probably will too. And if she’s partially blind… and if it’s unregistered that means no insurance. The person who sold it is in trouble.

When I pass I'm going to make sure I don't have anything for my children to fight over. How about remembering the person for whom he was? How about donating the possessions to charity?

@franj1444

2 жыл бұрын

People need to start writing down and getting their wish notarized. You don't have to have a will. Keep it in a safe place or your bank. And you can give a copy to the person you trust to handle things right.

LADY YOU ARE BLIND IN ONE EYE, DON'T HAVE THE FUNDS TO MAINTAIN THE CAR, AND HAVE NO DRIVER'S LICENSE...I can see why he was like ain't no way you're getting this car.

Oh my God. The son's flesh is still attached to his bones and they are scrambling over his property? What a shame

@labradoriteatheart

2 жыл бұрын

Only the mother is; the brother wants the car because he and his brother were close.

Fun Fact: in some countries mother would be never able to drive that car legally due to being half blind

@samantham8696

Жыл бұрын

She can’t drive it in the US. She is half blind and she has no drivers license.

To get your sons belongings you take them to court. BUT your son didn’t own the car. Good luck with that.

This lady seems more concerned about getting the car on the SAME day her son was killed than the fact that he was murdered.

This is a really sad case. It's unfortunate that people fight over money or material things that never belonged to them in the 1st place. I must say that however this turns out, I hope they keep the deceased in mind and his memory is kept alive in the most positive and loving way.

The fact that this woman asks for the car the same DAY her son died is very telling. She’s awful.

After losing my grandmother in 2018 I've realized that it's not the material things she had, given or owned..it's all about the love we shared.. that can never be found in material things .. its still standing strong in my heart. I pray in time this mother learns that lesson. God bless them all.

Sad when death ☠️ tears a family apart over money 💰

@rhondaadams230

2 жыл бұрын

This family was tore apart years ago when she thought drugs was more important then her sons.

I understand that the mother wants something tangible of her son's for his memory, but I don't see how (especially since she cannot drive) she wouldn't be happy knowing that her other son feels closer to his brother. As a mother, you think about your children and their grief before your own.

Material objects will unfortunately break a family apart. I'm sorry, but if I were the mom I would gladly let him have the car for the simple fact he was in foster care. That's the least she could do. If I were the son I'd at least offer to take her to appts to help her out.

I feel for the surviving son. I understand the sentimental value. Whoever the mother should get the car🤦🏾‍♀️ they all need to get registration, license and insurance on order. It's not fair to other drivers having to assume the financial cost when you get in accidents with people like this. If you can afford registration, plates, license, and insurance take the bus🙄

Smh lost one son and suing the other. Makes you feel so bad for that family

This case is tragic 💔

Seems like this young man is lucky to have a nice aunt to take over the “mother” role in his life. Poor man seems like he took his brothers loss extremely hard💔

This is the saddest case I've ever seen being it that I had the best relationship with my mother until she passed. So this is completely unimaginable to see this mother/son here in court over a dead relatives vehicle. My mother was the best thing to ever happen to me in every way possible. I'd give anything to have her back now. What an embarrassment.

@gooddeeds3773

2 жыл бұрын

Yes I totally agree my mom was my lifeline and blessing! Very sad my you feel her presence every day 🤍

@Lady.B0420

2 жыл бұрын

Well doll, we aren't all as blessed as you. My mother is just as bad, if not worse than this lady. I actually believe, good mom's are NOT the norm.

@TopherGrant

2 жыл бұрын

This is why I cannot understand how you can be so hard on other people's mothers, sisters, wives. They have importance to other little boys and deserve a certain amount of respect.

@adrianprince7266

2 жыл бұрын

Because my mother never acted like any of these women. Quite simple TG

The car is sentimental to the brother. He's not ready to let go of it, especially to a mother that doesn't have the ways and means to maintain it, nor even has a driver's license to begin with. She is not a good parent, and he wants to keep what is left of his brother's memory. I get it.

One sad story after another for this family. Need I say more?

Aunt saying what's going on. That's crazy 😧 I'm glad she explained

A birthday cake while in foster care does not mean you took care of your kids.

Lady please. She is not automatically entitled. She comes across as very selfish, wanting to benefit from a child she produced but never raised. I’m glad the defendant stood strong.

This is heartbreaking. This women didn't raise her kids. She has some kinda nerve. She should have never had kids triffling

Sorry for your loss. To the brother- keep your head up, You have your aunty! Hold onto her, she’s your mom as your mother said to her. I do believe your maternal mother is only out for the car. To ask for it Before the burial even. She was just trying to snag up a free Car. It’s not about the memories for her. But for you it is, god work in mysterious ways, which is why your mother didn’t win this case. Even though you didn’t win either, you are left with the opportunity to continue forward. You deserve it. Good luck

They are in California. Before either one of them can register the car, they must have the proper paperwork and the car must pass inspection, a smog test, and be insured. My guess is that none of that will ever take place from either party. More than likely, a 2000 Nissan will require expensive repairs that Mom can’t afford to be legal. If she gets the car with no drivers license, no registration, and no insurance, she could take a lot of Uber rides for less than the heap of trouble she is heading for.

@ANGELSURS

2 жыл бұрын

Pick up parts

Thank GOD he does have a good female figure in his life to help him because his mom is terrible

Mother sues sons over other deceased sons car 🤦🏽‍♀️ omg I watched and watched this over and over cuz I can completely relate if I passed and my sister knows everything goes to her my mom not having a car would sue my sister over my car my pride and 🤩 There’s only 2 types of parents 1 the loving parents that would do absolutely everything and anything. Giving all the love they can give to a child 2 then there’s the parents that pretend to be the 1st parent that actually cares more about themselves than there own child, I completely understand what this man going threw

So she can run errands LOL UNBELIEVABLE!

Very well spoken young man. So sad that it's this bad over very little money. Sounds like you didn't raise your kids fully but now u want something of theirs 4 its monetary value.

Mom does not understand (refuses) to understand that the car does not belong to anyone but the person in Arizona. I await the day when mom does a come back on the show suing the person from Arizona. Lol

No talky from the judges at the end?!! Sad case & a sad end to the episode! That’s my favourite part

Such a sad story, but the judge is right, the car is still in the previous owner's name, so nobody really owns it, including the deceased.

This woman is lame and sad. She’s mad at EVERYONE ELSE but herself. How is she mad at her sister for being a better mother figure to him? The sister isn’t why he was in foster care. The sister wasn’t a drug addict who couldn’t take care of her kids. THE PLAINTIFF WAS. That’s her problem.

You can hear the hurt in this man's voice. Luckily, he has an aunt that seems to care about him.

It was funny how she kept repeating “not really no” 😂 , rip though 🥺!

I was thinking at the beginning of the case the same thing that MM said at the end. … you lose one son and then you sue the one still living?? Pathetic

When my Mom passed away I bought my Dad a handmade blanket made by a Navajo tribe out west-it was gorgeous-Queen sized royal blue with a wolf on it baying at the moon. My elder sister shipped him off to one of my brother’s who he was supposed to live with(I knew nothing about it)-within 3 days my brother and his wife(they have no kids), dumped him into a SNIF unit(skilled nursing facility-meant for Alzheimer’s patients-and he had his full capacities), when I found out,I immediately flew up there to get him out and take him to my home-I noticed he had none of his belongings and he was cold-I asked him where the blanket I got him was, he said “D#####(name redacted-my evil sister-in-law) said I wouldn’t need it where I was going so she said she’d just keep it”…I was pissed!!! I paid $400 for that blanket and had it made special for my Dad! When I asked the B about it, she completely ignored me-I haven’t spoken to them in over 15 years…absolutely zero loss to me! How dare she!!! Since then, on a routine doctors visit, they discovered that she was in complete renal failure and immediately put her on dialysis 4 times a week…she has extensive liver damage & blood cancer….I’ve had a kidney and adrenal gland removed, but my creatinine levels have been steady for over 4 years(God willing they continue to be so I won’t need dialysis-time will tell)-I will not get on a transplant list, because I am 64 and I consider myself too old-I do not want to take a kidney from a young person who could be on the list behind me. She, on the other hand, stated to a family member “it should’ve been ‘her’(meaning me)” whose kidneys completely shut down & got the blood cancer. She has also gotten herself on the kidney transplant list, even though the blood cancer will most likely attack the transplant-she said she’ll just keep getting more transplants-as many as it takes(zero thought as to how many young Moms and Dads there are out there who desperately need a kidney to survive to raise their young families)! And she is my age! Well…that’s my vent for the day….

Momma must still be on drugs! Shame on her in so so many ways!

Judge Mathis would’ve ate her up 😂😂 but on a serious note, the son seems to be very respectful and a nice guy! Wish him all of the best !!

Well, to avoid five trips to laundry, wash more often, one load, not try to do five a day! Same amount of money per load! 🤔👵🇺🇸

As a mother of a 29 year old son & 22 year old son, if one passed, I'd want the other to take what memorabilia he wanted & keep the rest unless they willed it to be otherwise. This woman is a disgrace to women & mothers around the world!

Can’t hide that Cali nobody say car like them 😂

True, but he didn't rightfully own the car!! So, you have to fix that problem first!!

@NellieKAdaba

2 жыл бұрын

👍🏿

Running around for a broke car, which nobody can drive. This mother was anything but a mother all her life.

Rest in peace to the son, wishing the best for the remaining son. Mother needs to rethink her values.

You lost one son and now you're throwing the other away... Lord help you, ma'am.

No matter what he's gone through, if that car is just sitting there collecting dust, there is no good reason his mom shouldn't be able to use it. What kind of "show car" would that fiberglass peace of junk make? This is a sad situation. The son seems to be punishing his mom for the decisions she made while raising them.

Arguing over a 1,200 car at the most. Fix it up, dude if you dont give yo mom that car.

Car doesn't belong to the mom or son. It belongs to the one who holds the pink slip. Do these guys not know the lawful way to own a vehicle? 🙄

@NellieKAdaba

2 жыл бұрын

🤔👍🏿 Right