Living Interracial: Paul and Jessica Vallet

Paul and Jessica Vallet were married on July 3, 2010. Paul is 29 years older than Jessica, but says that he has been waiting on her all of his life.

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  • @mrmoe110
    @mrmoe1108 жыл бұрын

    Wow the look of disappointment and disgust on the faces of some of the women in the background of the wedding picture is so real smh

  • @spiritandtruth194

    @spiritandtruth194

    4 жыл бұрын

    Could be because of the age gap

  • @rorschach162
    @rorschach1628 жыл бұрын

    This can work even with age difference. She loves him. He loves her. Some women love older, wise and mature men.

  • @gratitude5740

    @gratitude5740

    6 жыл бұрын

    rorschach162 Some younger men want to benefit from expertise of an older then them woman avoid drama, game playing , insecurities etc🤜🏻🤛🏾

  • @OBIANUJUAKU

    @OBIANUJUAKU

    5 жыл бұрын

    I am one of those women

  • @OBIANUJUAKU

    @OBIANUJUAKU

    5 жыл бұрын

    I prefare older men.

  • @ms.bubs4fun506

    @ms.bubs4fun506

    5 жыл бұрын

    @WusPopN Mane? And? White women and biracial women use rich black males for money all the time. Why is it okay for other women to want a man that's a provider but when black women do it then it's bad???? FOH

  • @somerealshit
    @somerealshit10 жыл бұрын

    I cried watching this video. Because this reminds me of my husband and I.. I love my husband so much..My husband is the same age and I will be 25 next year.What a beautiful couple. This truly inspired me, Im in love with my husband alll over again. I wish you all the best!

  • @gratitude5740

    @gratitude5740

    6 жыл бұрын

    Klove xoxo oh Gosh! You too?! I thought I’m a softy ...LoL It is beautiful!

  • @Sergio-fu7mv

    @Sergio-fu7mv

    4 жыл бұрын

    Don’t worry! Love is love. We’re all of the human race. That’s it.

  • @angel29616
    @angel296165 жыл бұрын

    He said he had been waiting on her all his life...WOW!!😭💖

  • @rosettajones1161

    @rosettajones1161

    6 ай бұрын

    That is absolutely wonderful!

  • @lisbeth6911

    @lisbeth6911

    2 ай бұрын

    Now, that’s love…😍❤️

  • @MsTemptation
    @MsTemptation10 жыл бұрын

    Your wife has an old soul. I am so happy for both of you.

  • @rosettajones1161

    @rosettajones1161

    6 ай бұрын

    Yes she does gmhave an old soul and was so drawn to her. Congratulations on your marriage!

  • @mariefrazier9920
    @mariefrazier99205 жыл бұрын

    Have to say, I’ve watched many of these interracial relationship videos, this is the most fascinating one because of the lessons about overcoming resistance from family and friends.

  • @antunesiaharris32
    @antunesiaharris325 жыл бұрын

    Every person deserves to have their happiness. Thanks Sis! Blessings to you both.

  • @HOUSEOFHONL
    @HOUSEOFHONL3 жыл бұрын

    This is pretty much our story so I can relate: interracial age gap marriage. God bless you two.

  • @leolaanifowoshe3024
    @leolaanifowoshe30245 жыл бұрын

    People are haters. Shes a grown woman..she knows what she wants. He clearly adores her. That's all that matters.

  • @glenbutler9611
    @glenbutler96116 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful Love Story!! "Persistence overcomes resistance" That's a classic phrase that needs to be patented somehow.. May God continue to bless their lives, love, and their families..

  • @gratitude5740

    @gratitude5740

    6 жыл бұрын

    Glen Butler I love the quote as well . The other one is “ you don’t marry you want to be with but you marry someone you can’t be without “ 🤟🏽

  • @reshemaewerse4022
    @reshemaewerse40228 жыл бұрын

    I am still in love with my husband after 9 years.We are best friends in every sense of the word.Even if we fight it never lasts long because we can't avoid that we are "besties".Guess what? he is 54 and I'm 33 and I can't keep up with him.Age says nnnnnnnnnnnoooooting!...only love respect and happiness!

  • @gratitude5740

    @gratitude5740

    6 жыл бұрын

    Reshema Ewerse You have made me cry laugh and encouraged me to keep staying on the course of my love to my African love . He is younger but I’m the burst of energy and flash of light . He is the calm after the storm, the desert after a meal chocolate warm and mellow . Yum 😋! Best of love to your relationship !

  • @amiiwhite8602
    @amiiwhite86028 жыл бұрын

    After ALL is said and done, I BELIEVE IN LOVE! Thanks this concludes all things for me!

  • @paulkendal1
    @paulkendal18 жыл бұрын

    really beautiful couple- so happy for them. I wish them the best of luck !

  • @mrmoe110
    @mrmoe1108 жыл бұрын

    People let things like age and skin color block them from connecting with people who can bring so much positivity into their lives. A black or white person could meet someone who shares the same interests as them but because the person isn't the same race or a certain age they'll think it won't work. That's bull.

  • @brendacarter4389

    @brendacarter4389

    3 жыл бұрын

    If u find true love, go for it, chase it. Opportunity knocks once, don't let race stop you. See future happiness and not color.

  • @cdropable
    @cdropable6 жыл бұрын

    Great story. Paul, you express yourself very well.

  • @mrmagniffy
    @mrmagniffy4 жыл бұрын

    It is Good to see what King said for the content of character rather than the color of skin very nice!

  • @nyag1764
    @nyag17646 ай бұрын

    He thought she was going to steal his phone. I'm done.

  • @ceili540
    @ceili54010 жыл бұрын

    I Love It, and I give Paul credit for being persistent, she's Beautiful and she has a beautiful smile.

  • @Sankines
    @Sankines9 жыл бұрын

    Wow! Brought tears to my eyes. How can anyone fault their love? This world :/

  • @valeriegrimes8337
    @valeriegrimes833710 жыл бұрын

    You guys said exactly what is in my heart. Thank you.

  • @rishona123456789
    @rishona12345678911 жыл бұрын

    I love the fact, that you said, you have been waiting on her, all your life. You are a beautiful couple, regardless of the age difference. Love does not have an age, nor does it knows, the color of your skin. You both said, some positive things, and I like the idea, that you love each other, no matter what, others might think. May you have many more happy times together, being as one.

  • @sarahharper21
    @sarahharper2110 жыл бұрын

    Wow what an amazing relationship despite all those against you guys. Love is stronger than anything. You guys look beautiful together!

  • @trice1456
    @trice14565 жыл бұрын

    I really like these videos they show the reality of interracial relationships/marriages it give hope and provide truth these couples truth

  • @jurrisaddler8427
    @jurrisaddler84274 жыл бұрын

    thanks for sharing your story inspirational.

  • @AT.inbetween
    @AT.inbetween5 жыл бұрын

    I love your story!

  • @polasal0088
    @polasal00887 жыл бұрын

    Love is we need. Age is just a number. Jessica mentioned that her family already predicted that she would marry a white man who is perhaps older than her. So for both of them to be together, it's already predestined . May God your family.

  • @neonelishuax1962
    @neonelishuax19628 жыл бұрын

    Well this was pretty coo. I wish this handsome couple the best.

  • @FX3user
    @FX3user11 жыл бұрын

    Simply incredible. I wish happiness for both of you.

  • @ismailmusa5598
    @ismailmusa55984 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful family, I'm happy for you guys, lots of love from Nigeria

  • @kayzon7
    @kayzon710 жыл бұрын

    May the universal love continue to teach us valuable lessons of life, through the experience of those who love with their whole heart, mind and soul.

  • @eleanorgreen9780
    @eleanorgreen97804 ай бұрын

    Saw this years ago and fell in love with them. Now 2024 the story still touches my heart.

  • @wilmababygirl5629
    @wilmababygirl56294 жыл бұрын

    This world is soooo SAD I wish them nothing but the best People need to stop hating and love 1 another god love all his children REAL TALK 2020💖💖💕

  • @MrTubarr
    @MrTubarr10 жыл бұрын

    I think more people could find love if they wouldn't focus so much on little things such as race...

  • @rawlawgirl
    @rawlawgirl8 жыл бұрын

    the age difference is more concerning than the race difference, but in the end, the heart loves who it loves. i cannot help but think of Monsters Ball.

  • @tecumsheaholmes9064
    @tecumsheaholmes90643 жыл бұрын

    You are right, you can’t live without the woman you truly love.

  • @dewalt7669
    @dewalt76698 жыл бұрын

    AWESOME COUPLE. SWEET

  • @MSNOLLY1
    @MSNOLLY16 жыл бұрын

    Love is love . Age as long as it’s legal shouldn’t matter .

  • @royroberts1475
    @royroberts14754 жыл бұрын

    LOVE IT!!!

  • @jappiemutezo4377
    @jappiemutezo4377 Жыл бұрын

    Love this

  • @sonyahferris5510
    @sonyahferris551010 жыл бұрын

    How beautiful!!!

  • @gratitude5740
    @gratitude57406 жыл бұрын

    You just made me cryyyy......damn! Your story is full of love courage humour wisdom, sadness the whole emotional shining ! I am dating a man who is Tanzanian and loves there . I am Caucasian living in Canada . His family accepted me from the day he said he has a girlfriend in Canada . His parents wanted to see me on Skype the very weekend . I must add that I am 19 years older than him. His partners may hafe a little stirred up feelings about my age. Perhaps they want their son to marry someone younger and I understand them. Africans want big families and we won’t have our own children. I have a son and he has his . If we get married and remain stable we can adopt if he wishes to do so . I trickled the information to my family that I have a romantic feelings to a black man across the word in Africa. My sister was shocked , my nieces cautioned me that he wants to come and get his status in Canada then leave me . My son seems to be ok but he is the kind of man that holds his emotions within. He speaks to him from time to time briefly. I know that I may get some resistance from family and friends but I feel I need to do this for myself and follow my feelings . I love him . I decided to trust him and God . We date with a purpose to marry not to just kill time we don’t have . We date constructively discussing serious matters and creating scenarios. I am getting information from marriage counsellors, pastors and psychologists. I want to do this right . If we go the way we are, this older white woman may marry the younger black man . ( I can’t say I’ve ever dreamt about this as al little girl . I had never seen a dark colour skin person till I came to Canada as a grown up )

  • @jessicaaudate
    @jessicaaudate6 жыл бұрын

    That was one of the sweetest man I will never meet.

  • @cheybroad106
    @cheybroad1063 жыл бұрын

    That's so special. Happy Life💖

  • @theleslieirving
    @theleslieirving5 жыл бұрын

    What a loving story.

  • @mounbakko5871
    @mounbakko58715 жыл бұрын

    ... the spirit of the LOVINGS visibly resides in you...

  • @Nerobella2006
    @Nerobella200610 жыл бұрын

    Powerful

  • @TheNiloticEmpress
    @TheNiloticEmpress8 жыл бұрын

    I am 35 he is 49 :)

  • @hanankuehnle8857
    @hanankuehnle885710 жыл бұрын

    Wow!!!It's not so much a race issue for me here but the age difference is like....29 years!!!I'm in love with a young woman who is 26 years old and I am 45 so I guess it can work can it?You guys give me hope indeed!!!...

  • @lucyavarda1742

    @lucyavarda1742

    9 жыл бұрын

    Dating really young women is weird. You should probably try to find someone who is at least 30

  • @strongwoman2575

    @strongwoman2575

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hanan Kuehnle sure you can

  • @ltalib6436

    @ltalib6436

    3 жыл бұрын

    My grandfather was 32 years older than my grandmother, they were happily married and had 8 children. Wishing you both many years of happiness.

  • @ltalib6436

    @ltalib6436

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oh and they were interracial 🙂

  • @Yemms
    @Yemms10 жыл бұрын

    Wow!! Amazing,...

  • @H.R.H-Amina_Bin_Shafiq-SHAKTI
    @H.R.H-Amina_Bin_Shafiq-SHAKTI6 ай бұрын

    He was STALKING Her and thats NOT NORMAL

  • @bhathornbarnes
    @bhathornbarnes4 ай бұрын

    Persistence overcomes resistance

  • @lilymax1297
    @lilymax12975 жыл бұрын

    The main challenge for them is not race but age difference. He could be her father.

  • @Rishonable
    @Rishonable5 ай бұрын

    Can we have an update on this lovely couple ?

  • @mrswilliamstoyou3325
    @mrswilliamstoyou332511 ай бұрын

    That is so sweet.

  • @sbeach1971
    @sbeach19715 жыл бұрын

    Their was a girl in the gym that had a crush on me. She was 22 years younger than me. I said young pretty but way too young for me. I'm glad she got the hint and kept it movin. No one will every accuse me of being some dirty old man like this dude.

  • @PARALEECulbert-kz6qv
    @PARALEECulbert-kz6qv6 ай бұрын

    Hello I'm late on this video but what it comes down to is the next best thing in life to you'll is Peace of mind and if you have that nothing can stop you❤.

  • @Yasmine1962
    @Yasmine196210 жыл бұрын

    Sweet!

  • @dumilegugushe7523
    @dumilegugushe75236 жыл бұрын

    Love is amazing.

  • @giftmathebula4275
    @giftmathebula4275 Жыл бұрын

    God bless you too 👏

  • @Kiki-837
    @Kiki-8375 жыл бұрын

    There is no problem with age, what profit does it have to be with a young man and full of problems. If she is happy thats what matters

  • @TheBrownIsland
    @TheBrownIsland10 жыл бұрын

    This is so Cute.

  • @user-ep4jo1ev3j
    @user-ep4jo1ev3j9 жыл бұрын

    Not so sure about the age gap though

  • @imankamara2766
    @imankamara27662 жыл бұрын

    increase your sound please i can't hear anything.

  • @scarvega5189
    @scarvega51895 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful.

  • @sandiwalker8007
    @sandiwalker8007 Жыл бұрын

    God bless you both.

  • @maddiec7888
    @maddiec78887 жыл бұрын

    love works out everything, doesn't it.

  • @dalegrays8053
    @dalegrays80536 ай бұрын

    That's So Beautiful 🎉🎉🎉😅😅😊😊😊i!Thats genuine LOve You're Both Beautiful Couple from the Love of because GOD is Love and he wants All Creation to b Happy!! Again Congratulations Be Blessed

  • @ColRusSer
    @ColRusSer5 жыл бұрын

    Sooo sweeeet!💓

  • @marianserra8371
    @marianserra83714 жыл бұрын

    So sweet.

  • @babyzorilla
    @babyzorilla6 жыл бұрын

    Best of luck to them

  • @cind8347
    @cind83476 ай бұрын

    I bet he IS happy. He’s 29 years older! Too old. And stalking is NOT normal and should never be acceptable

  • @justinanthenge619
    @justinanthenge619Ай бұрын

    I love this couple

  • @GWENgb3B
    @GWENgb3B10 жыл бұрын

    beautiful

  • @kendramarco9357
    @kendramarco935711 жыл бұрын

    DAMN! That is a huge age difference!!!! Race is the least of your worries. I guess age ain't nothing but a number. Good luck to guys:)

  • @mahletadanech
    @mahletadanech9 жыл бұрын

    I'm 31 and the Other Brother i'm seeing just turned 60. Other Brothers are where it's at...

  • @frankieclayton9303
    @frankieclayton93032 жыл бұрын

    A beautiful couple 💑

  • @ruthsrants8308
    @ruthsrants83087 жыл бұрын

    i like them

  • @rablair1966
    @rablair19665 жыл бұрын

    Listing to this man, I hear wisdom. Ijs

  • @Aboish1981nj
    @Aboish1981nj10 жыл бұрын

    at 0:24, no one looks happy at all in that pic...

  • @lucyavarda1742

    @lucyavarda1742

    9 жыл бұрын

    Lol didn't notice that!

  • @Aboish1981nj

    @Aboish1981nj

    9 жыл бұрын

    lol.. They are terrible people!

  • @buddhamedia7306

    @buddhamedia7306

    9 жыл бұрын

    umm thinknot probably not, who's gonna be happy for a 54 yr old and a 25 yr old getting married

  • @zeezees.183

    @zeezees.183

    9 жыл бұрын

    umm thinknot LMAO! They sure don't.

  • @mahletadanech

    @mahletadanech

    9 жыл бұрын

    umm thinknot Oh no! Our White Brother preferred Other Sisters (non-white women) ALL along! NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! ROTF

  • @Sergio-fu7mv
    @Sergio-fu7mv4 жыл бұрын

    His dad is the real MVP.

  • @fallindowndrunk
    @fallindowndrunk4 жыл бұрын

    Man that story was awesome, it’s always beautiful to see a white person that gets it, I wish you both the best!

  • @rawlawgirl
    @rawlawgirl8 жыл бұрын

    he should his ancestral tree. he seems to have quite a bit of mmmm...

  • @animes399
    @animes399 Жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @lucyavarda1742
    @lucyavarda17429 жыл бұрын

    To me it looks as if he has some black in his ancestry. He looks very much like my close friend, she looks white but there's more to her history.

  • @rawlawgirl

    @rawlawgirl

    8 жыл бұрын

    i thought EXACTLY the same about him.

  • @lucyavarda1742

    @lucyavarda1742

    8 жыл бұрын

    Raw LawGirl yeah he's defo got some black blood there

  • @esperanzagonzalez5440
    @esperanzagonzalez54403 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤👌👌👌💖💖💖

  • @NarnianLady
    @NarnianLady2 жыл бұрын

    Intense approach is fine! as long as the guy is honorable, he can approach me :)

  • @trent031991
    @trent0319918 жыл бұрын

    OH MUH GOD

  • @eloiseramsey9276
    @eloiseramsey92763 жыл бұрын

    Interracial relationships is becoming more widespread these days. Hopefully as this trend continues, racism will end. I think, personally, that's the purpose.

  • @lthomas8515
    @lthomas85158 жыл бұрын

    the age gap tho??

  • @1JokerOne

    @1JokerOne

    8 жыл бұрын

    +lolly Parkside Probably has a whole lot of money! Lmao

  • @gratitude5740

    @gratitude5740

    6 жыл бұрын

    Me and mine are 19 years age difference and I’m in debts after divorce. It is he who went after me! He know s everything about me and that including my debts . It took me to get used to the idea that he would desire me as he does . And it is not sex either as we decided to remain celibate till marriage.

  • @jayjones8856
    @jayjones88567 жыл бұрын

    Lol, Yo...He must be loaded.

  • @katerinagiannioudi401
    @katerinagiannioudi4016 ай бұрын

    I live in a country with very few black people. My parents would have freaked out if I dated or married a black guy!

  • @Phoenix-yh6ec
    @Phoenix-yh6ec5 жыл бұрын

    I like this channel and the perspective it brings but maybe let the black spouse speak more. This is the first I’ve watched with a white husband so initially I thought it was a wife thing. But let both sides speak equally and tell their stories equally.

  • @sbeach1971
    @sbeach19715 жыл бұрын

    He's way too old for her.

  • @HippieMosquitoQuatro
    @HippieMosquitoQuatro7 жыл бұрын

    hmmmh...i think this is less of a race-issue and more of a stockholm syndrome issue...

  • @9lemonlime
    @9lemonlime9 жыл бұрын

    I no issue with their race but I'm not sure that I could be with someone that much older than I am.

  • @vanessajones7087

    @vanessajones7087

    7 жыл бұрын

    9lemonlime It's not the age that count,it's the love.

  • @gratitude5740

    @gratitude5740

    6 жыл бұрын

    If you are with someone for looks ( lust) don’t expect your relationship or marriage to last! Tall skinny or old , the emotional connection that counts . You cal that love . Die for yourself to live for your partner .

  • @Smithjgwhs3
    @Smithjgwhs312 жыл бұрын

    fornication means to not touch a woman outside of marriage for it is better to marry than to burn..book of matthew..also the book of genesis..for this cause a man shall leave his father and mother to have a wife. Not so called same race wife..

  • @brineted1010
    @brineted10109 жыл бұрын

    age doesn't matter

  • @AlchemistOfNirnroot

    @AlchemistOfNirnroot

    9 жыл бұрын

    +Brian Ted Every Paedo's motto...

  • @brineted1010

    @brineted1010

    9 жыл бұрын

    AlchemistOfNirnroot sut the fuck up. you trashy bigot

  • @AlchemistOfNirnroot

    @AlchemistOfNirnroot

    9 жыл бұрын

    Brian Ted You call me a bigot yet you can't even spell? K.

  • @rannellmarshall6492

    @rannellmarshall6492

    5 жыл бұрын

    He is security blanket,.

  • @marleneschultz4773
    @marleneschultz47736 жыл бұрын

    That's a big age difference.

  • @gratitude5740

    @gratitude5740

    6 жыл бұрын

    Marlene Schultz Sooooo?????

  • @user-tm4my4jb6d
    @user-tm4my4jb6d8 жыл бұрын

    HAHAH Do you know how many relationships started from the man not giving up. haha Myself included.

  • @gratitude5740

    @gratitude5740

    6 жыл бұрын

    Samantha Taylor my guy is like that . If it was for him only we would be married already ....hahaha

  • @donaldtrump1008
    @donaldtrump10085 жыл бұрын

    😊