Adults can’t deal with these people but somehow as kids we’re expected to do so. Thanks a lot. It’s pure luck some of us survived.

@flossa1960

Жыл бұрын

literally! her husband said it is so difficult for him, how difficult do you think it is for your children!

@HeyCutie90

Жыл бұрын

Well said.

@Taiette

Жыл бұрын

For real. Sometimes I can't believe I made it out.

@coryjenkins2256

Жыл бұрын

​@@Taiette me too!

@coryjenkins2256

Жыл бұрын

I've said the same thing. It took most of my youth to stabilize after the toll that was taken.

When a child wants to be sent to boarding school, you know something is wrong.

@justlooking4771

11 ай бұрын

Or is GOING to be wrong…

@Bettinasisrg

9 ай бұрын

Ha! Yes I would've loved to go to Boarding school, preferably in another country!

@katet8622

8 ай бұрын

Or they just watched Harry Potter and thought hogwarts was real...

@littledrummerboy2503

8 ай бұрын

I went to boarding school in Scotland best years ever. My family lived in Florida for two years when I was in 7th and 8th grade. My parents asked me if I wanted to go back to boarding school as my dad had another overseas contract. I said yes please I hate school here. So I went back to Scotland and my friends.

@FC-hj9ub

5 ай бұрын

Not true. For a lot of kids it's an opportunity to live away from their parents ("no rules," or so they think) and have everyday sleepovers with their peers. Depends on the school

Rest gently, Calyx and Beau. Can't imagine how terrified and confused Beau must've been. Breaks my heart and boggles my mind

A friend of mine refused to seek treatment for his bipolar disorder and depression for decades. His argument was that treatment would fundamentally change who he was. My argument was that he was a miserable c*** who nobody liked because of his issues, and that fundamentally changing who he was would be a GOOD thing. It didn't work and we haven't talked for years, but he DID seek treatment on his own a year ago, and from everything I've heard he's now an enjoyable person to be around.

@hillarybillary21

Жыл бұрын

This woman has a big of psychopathy mixed in. A little different story

@rehab5355

Жыл бұрын

He heard you loud & clear...he also understood you were protecting the world from "'him"' running around causing havoc...The Truth was all you could do for him...kudos...You did well! Doesn't mean you have to go back there...either...

@kathduncan9618

Жыл бұрын

Well done. And good for you.

@thekickingwolf5115

11 ай бұрын

Yikes. Id stay away from that one

@psychicrenegade

11 ай бұрын

😂🤣😂

I think the general fatigue of depression is the worst! I can deal with whatever depression throws at me but being tired is something that seriously uproots my life.

@tinawindham6958

Жыл бұрын

Agree…my life has piled up bc I don’t have the energy to make decisions such as having hip surgery and getting moved. It’s a monster.

@cd4497

Жыл бұрын

I hope you get what u need to help ur energy!! A med increase helped me. Being tired all the time w depression is so frustrating

@Back-handedLuck-ul7ms

Жыл бұрын

M.c cheddar box -I agree. The fatigue is the worst. It renders you nonfunctional, which no one who hasn't experienced it understands. A day where you can actually make yourself take a shower is a good day

@kathleenchaffin2591

Жыл бұрын

Same! Gah

@Bufekana

Жыл бұрын

im takin' iron pills and it helped me with my lack of energy👍.

You have to love the way these people have a plan to kill others & then themselves, yet so many times they end up surviving.

@faefee

Жыл бұрын

they say that to make the hom¡c¡de part easier (sorry YT kept taking it down unless i censored it)

@Liy798

Жыл бұрын

Makes me so mad!! Even the ones that do go through w it ughh just do it to yourself and save us all the sadness of the victims 😢

@aimbetternotperfect

Жыл бұрын

That’s why if these are your thoughts - you always start with yourself ;)

@jamimoor7311

Жыл бұрын

Exactly 💯

@KimKramer-ot7op

Жыл бұрын

​@@faefee pi

This is one of many cases where Mental Health cannot be used as an excuse for one's actions. There are many people who have mental health issues who wouldn't harm a fly but this woman meticulously planned out the execution of her children and then cried "mental health caused me to do this". I'm tired of mental health being used as an excuse for nearly every criminal because they're too scared to go to prison and too self absorbed and ignorant to take accountability for their actions. R.I.P Beau & Calyx.

@mjanny6330

Жыл бұрын

Unfortunately, "mental health" has become the go to excuse for terrible behavior in the 21st century.

@mitziokeeffe7653

Жыл бұрын

not to mention making it almost impossible for those ACTUALLY experiencing genuine issues to get help. I've seen a couple courtcases where I'd swear those on trial needed institutionalizing and went to prison instead. What a twisted up world we live in. Sooner they let truth serums in court the better.

@NewscasterNews4

Жыл бұрын

Her behavior described throughout the documentary as a whole just made her seem like an attention seeking child who never grew up desperate to be noticed. I’m sure her children had mental health issues too (likely caused by her) that they had to deal with on their own because their mother was a train wreck and father was absent. Sad they had to deal with all this throughout their short lives

@spencerkleiman5035

Жыл бұрын

​@Kkbunns🐰 yes but there are people who truly do have severe mental health issues, and they aren't treated with respect or taken seriously because of all the people who DO use "mental health" as just a scapegoat/excuse. If you don't think mental health can affect a person's behavior you're the one off your rocker. As a recovering addict it took me many trys in detoxes and rehabs to get clean, and I've probably got more firsthand experience and knowledge than legitimate psychiatrists. (I also have a college education on the subject). I have seen people make phone calls every night, arguing with their husband slamming the phone for weeks on end. Having in depth conversations with this person on the phone, only to find out by watching this person wasn't dialing the correct amount of numbers to even get it to ring. They were batshit crazy talking to nobody. And their "hair" was a wig because she would pull it out. That's just one example of the ridiculous behavior people with mental issues partake in. In Julie's case it does NOT justify her actions, but then again how mentally sick do you have to be to shoot your son in the head?? People are sick

@BrenMurphy1

Жыл бұрын

Your answers are so callous and cruel. Your utter lack of empathy is horrifying. No wonder the USA has so much gun violence and overflowing prisons and streets full of people wandering about like unkept homeless zombies instead of being treated in mental health units. Thankfully I live in a country with universal healthcare, a ban on guns, and an understanding of mental health.

Mental illness is no excuse to murder your own Children. She's just a heartless nutjob. My heart goes out to Parker and the family. RIP Sweet Kids.🙏🕊🙏🕊🙏🕊🙏🕊🙏🕊🙏🕊🙏🕊🙏🕊🙏🕊🙏🕊🙏🕊🙏🕊🙏🕊🙏🕊🙏

@tabsg0015

9 ай бұрын

you dont know what mental illness is or does clearly. she didnt get help for her illness because people like you make people suffering feel weak and “nutjob” ish so they bottle it up until they explode.

@tabsg0015

9 ай бұрын

people with mental illness literally cant think clearly, things are out of their control, thats why involuntary hospitalization is a thing. its okay to mourn and say “this is an awful tragedy” but not to contribute to the problem of stigma or be ignorant about it

@stephaniewolfe4170

9 ай бұрын

Except she planned this. It was premeditated which means she DID have control over her actions. She wrote about it. She bought the gun specifically for it. She waited patiently three days for the gun, she said she killed them because they were too mouthy and had abused them for years. She then hid it consciously by lying to people saying they would be gone. Most mentally I’ll people aren’t violent. She wasn’t psychopathic. She was an abuser. Period. And she is at fault for refusing help for her Illness period. She deserves what she gets.

@systemdude1100

9 ай бұрын

@@tabsg0015if you choose to stop your meds when your mind is clear, it is your fault.

@LadyLsound

8 ай бұрын

My Ex had Bipolar and crazy ride with him but ...no, not a killer at all! There are no tendencies to be a murderer because of that. What she did was another level.

Seeing you on camera was such an unexpected delight! Thanks for all that you do and your amazing coverage Jiles!

@loulouedmo

Жыл бұрын

Agreed - I’ve listened to your exceptional voice for years. Welcome to your kind face!

@hunterduhwayne

Жыл бұрын

definitely

@Flutistno3

Жыл бұрын

He's a sexy red-bearded human specimen. XD I wanna touch that beard SO BADLY!

@gregstevens7520

Жыл бұрын

Same - so nice to put the face to the voice!

@BobJones-pq4th

Жыл бұрын

Jiles is the man. "This is monsters" is an absolute masterpiece.

My mother suffers from severe mental health issues, which for years went untreated due to a psychosis which caused a mistrust in medicine. It went from odd beliefs, to her almost starving herself to death, to her not speaking or taking care of herself for a year and a half before we could finally get a Form done on her (in Ontario it's basically an involuntary psych hold that has to be approved by a judge). We went through hell, but she eventually found the mixture of meds that worked for her, and she's back to her old self again. She is aware of what she went through, and we, her loved ones, are aware of the signs. When people who are worrying you start to look at alternate literature, like The Secret, or any kind of metaphysical thing that seems out there, it means things are gonna go downhill soon.

@pinkpugginz

Жыл бұрын

I heard a similar story from a beautiful woman who grew up in a cult on an interview channel here on youtube. she almost died by trying to throw herself into traffic.

@TomTheOwl68

Жыл бұрын

I've become estranged from my daughter because of these same reasons. Not only very bad mental health but also years of recreational drugs on top. I have become the most evil person alive in her eyes and I have had to deal with accusations that have been awful and disgusting. She refuses to get support and right now it's because she is 'stable' which is not really the reality and even if so, it's not permanent without support. I just don't see it ever ending. The destruction caused by mental health is huge and people generally don't understand or realise that. It's true that they are more at risk themselves but psychosis and delusions are potentially very dangerous. There needs to be more awareness because people do not understand most mental health. There's a huge difference between someone lying and someone believing something is true due to psychosis. The latter is frightening and can be used as justification for seriously bad outcomes.

@moblank5620

Жыл бұрын

same thing here. except the doctors didnothing but take her money. they discarded her after the insurance ran out. it took decades, and she trusted them. maybe if she hadnt been so indoctrinated by society, she wud have trusted the love of her family. you should be prepared for the worst.

@JM06261996

Жыл бұрын

@@moblank5620 I am so sorry it went that way. I consider myself extremely lucky to still have my mother after that, not everyone makes it out and there is nothing nore painful

@JM06261996

Жыл бұрын

@@TomTheOwl68 I am sending all the best vibes in the world, and I am hoping things come out better on the other side. As a person who has struggled with drugs, I hated my family too for a long time. I thought they didn't want me to be happy, that they were trying to control me. Make sure your daughter knows that you're always going to be here for her if she decides she's had enough of the life she is currently living. She needs to know someone's in her corner even if she hates you

OHMYGOSH!! I'm not sure what I expected him to look like, but it was super cool to put a face to the voice!!! You have an awesome speaking voice!! Thank you for all the amazing videos! They are tragic and heartbreaking, but you tell their stories with so much respect!!

@rehab5355

Жыл бұрын

A commanding Voice is a Creative Gift.....You've chosen an Admirable venue for it...🤩

@brendadoyle1436

Жыл бұрын

agree his voice is awesome

@cherylgudde580

4 ай бұрын

I also love the bit of snarky sarcasm his voice has especially when criminals are just plain stupid!! Great calming and soothing "radio" voice!!😊

The real problem is that unless a mentally I’ll person is institutionalized, there’s really no way to guarantee they’re taking their meds. Parker leaving was definitely the spark that led to this incident, but he had to go for his job, so they needed live in help for her that would make sure she stayed medicated and supervised. And honestly, the amount of harm she was doing to her kids in their formative years, institutionalizing her should have been on the table from the beginning. She needed more help than he was able give when he was home.

@RogerLewis-ey2tt

10 ай бұрын

Thank you. Truth.

@blondbraid7986

10 ай бұрын

It's also why I think the idea of being a housewife is an anathema to mental health. If you have a job, you have a reason to go outside every day, you have other adults to hold you accountable. I find it a huge red flag that her husband thought being a housewife was going to improve her mental health when she suffered from severe depression, leaving somebody like that home alone is the opposite of what they need.

I have bipolar one, and have been a military wife (it’s not easy raising kids while your partner is gone for who knows how long). Neither is easy. I appreciate how you don’t look down on mental illness, especially harder ones. This whole case is so sad :(

@JM06261996

Жыл бұрын

Sending good vibes. People who live with bipolar are WARRIORS and don’t let anyone tell you different. I’d like to see them overcome it.

@therealdachshunddjangosmom

Жыл бұрын

It’s actually impressive to raise kids well while suffering from mental illness and the other parent being absent for deployment! Absolutely nothing to look down on! 🎉 Much ❤ from Austria 🇦🇹

@torymack4566

Жыл бұрын

From a battle to another we thank you for all you do for us when we are gone. It means a lot to us, more than we give you guys credit for. I must add we tend not to show you guys the appreciation you deserve when we come home. The military is a sacrifice that our wives tend to bear more than they should. My wife has bipolar also, what helped us was The Most High and praying together. Try it will will bring alot of peace to you both. G is a good person and no he does not. The fact he always promotes speaking out for mental health is amazing he has stayed true to this from the beginning.

@ridleycobain2468

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing ❤

@bluedragonfly8139

Жыл бұрын

Sad for those poor kids and the husband.

Wow. It takes a special kind of ‘disturbed’ to contort a victim’s face in order to torment one’s own spouse.

@lonerebeI

Жыл бұрын

Or just straight up EVIL

@faefee

Жыл бұрын

@@lonerebeIdisturbed ≠ evil

@unrhu

Жыл бұрын

I know, right. That's why I don't buy the mental disorder claim. She was jealous of her husband and his military career and wanted to cause him anguish and make him suffer. She clearly didn't want to kill herself that attempt was fake and staged or she would have shot herself like she did her children. She wanted to live to see her husband's torment. She is the a true p o s.

@coreydetres

Жыл бұрын

Your own child at that

@RevengeOfTheNetherrealm

Жыл бұрын

​@@unrhu She clearly had a mental disfunction. However, IMHO that's NEVER an excuse, whatsoever, to murder anyone, let alone your own children.

It's insane to hear how Julie started out as someone who was really admired and ended up in a downward spiral that turned her into the opposite and ended her children's life. It always sad when someone's life is taken but even more if the victims are children who had their whole life ahead of them :(

@cdes1776

Жыл бұрын

It's shocking to me. Here one second, gone the next. I find it terrifying.

@yolandascholten2012

Жыл бұрын

It shows in her face too….she looked deranged at the end.

@powerboatguy2308

10 ай бұрын

She's schizophrenic and a bad dose of that can be very terrifying as they are not connected to reality. Her kids may not have been saying anything bad to her, but she can imagine it. When people hear voices in their head....

I’m so glad to see the person behind one of my fave True Crime channels. Especially when you said the iconic line, “This Is Monsters”, I felt so thrilled! Kudos to you Jiles and team!

She had no intention of killing herself. What, she ran out of bullets? My heart goes out to Parker and the family.

@toneloke7489

Жыл бұрын

You're right, she should have asked for the death penalty if she really wanted to die.

@cdes1776

Жыл бұрын

I agree. As soon as I heard her intention, I knew it wouldn't happen.

@maddielu5286

Жыл бұрын

A true lunatic. She was in her right mind too

@Starae336

Жыл бұрын

@@cdes1776 well no shit the court pics of her alive at the start probably gave u a clue!

@cdes1776

Жыл бұрын

@@Starae336 I made a comment. Get over it.

It's so crazy how fast time goes by it feels like jiles put out a new video everyday even tho he only post on Monday mornings but it really feels like daily.. Thank you jiles

@kimberH1005

Жыл бұрын

Twice a week usually. Thursday from what it seems to me but shorter ones.

@cindyreinhart9552

Жыл бұрын

sam Sammy I too have noticed time has sped up. Even my daughter who hardly ever looks up from her smart phone noticed! Right there tells me that it is legit.

You have a super soothing voice and make the stories so much more interesting with your spin and personality..... Even if I've seen the case on 5 different channels I will rewatch it here bc you put so much effort into all the stories you cover and you are awesome 🎉🎉

Teenagers are trying but you have to stick with it and keep being supportive. My daughter started rebellion at 13, she's 19 now and finally turning around. It takes time and patience. Moms and daughters are like oil and water most of the time. Love is the cure ❤. I love how you advocate for mental illness and abuse! Keep up the good work! God bless!

Out of all the channels I follow, this is probably my favorite crime coverage channel. I wish the system would realize that abusive parents usually relapse into abusing their kids. Some parents are given too many chances while others are given none. And people don't realize how blind they were to things until someone is hurt or dead. One day I hope that the system can be reformed, so it actually protect children.

@tundrawomansays694

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely. I finally walked away completely from my abusive birth monster after she repeatedly refused to seek professional help. We begged. We pleaded. She was a combo platter of Cluster B Personality Disorders and absolutely *could* control her behavior if she wanted to impress others. She destroyed the family completely and by the time of her physical death the trail of wrecked and destroyed lives she left in her wake was stunning in both chronicity and severity. We are all profoundly relieved she’s dead now-that includes the community. She was an Equal Opportunity Destroyer. Despicable woman.

@deniseflick6556

Жыл бұрын

I too was pleasantly surprised to see your face. I absolutely love all that you do for us fans of your channel. Keep up the good work my friend!!❤❤❤

@macmacdonald2189

Жыл бұрын

I didn't abuse my children... And I was beaten and tortured at least weekly.. if your brain or your psyche is not damaged not twisted then the beast doesn't have to be passed on

@FinkDaMushyCat

Жыл бұрын

@@macmacdonald2189 You must not understand mental illness and it shows.

@buckkw5108

Жыл бұрын

This is Monsters..some of his videos scare me so bad I can't sleep...

It’s cool to finally see who narrates these terribly interesting stories. Keep up the great work. You definitely help my work day.

@ekbanks

Жыл бұрын

You think he's white, blk or mixed?

@mjanny6330

Жыл бұрын

@Ek Banks absolutely irrelevant.

@ekbanks

Жыл бұрын

@@mjanny6330 This was a blk person to blk person question, WE know why things like this are relevant lol... Not a big secret you know.

Hi Jiles! I sincerely enjoy your storytelling, your voice, your sarcasm and wit, coupled with your captivating videos! Thank you SO MUCH for all the effort you put into informing and entertaining us! I wish you and yours health and happiness always. Love you, brother! ❤❤

This is an awful tragedy. On a happier note, you have a great voice! Thanks for the great channel!

Strange how when he hear only a narrator, we visualize what they may look like.Thanks for solving that for us. :-) Nice to see you.

@tessaducek5601

Жыл бұрын

I always envisioned Seth Rogan.

I hope you know how grateful I am for you telling the story of this family so respectfully. And if anyone out there feels like there is no way out of the hell you're in. Please know there is help. Being embarrassed asking for help is way easier to handle than living in pain everyday. You can do it, and you are NOT alone!

@lonerebeI

Жыл бұрын

As this case proves, plenty of psychotic people don't want help or don't seek it even though they have the funds for it

@pennyp7382

Жыл бұрын

I've asked for help over and over and over...many decades of begging for help. NOT THAT EASY.

@pennyp7382

Жыл бұрын

​@@lonerebeI No. It's that "they" them hospital staff laugh and make light of it constantly. It's terrible the way they treat us.

@pennyp7382

Жыл бұрын

​@K N I spent ALL DAY trying to get my antipsychotic rx refilled. You're just naive. You have NO idea what it's like so just shut the fuck up about it. Have you ever been psychotic begging for help? No ok. Have you escaped sex and labor trafficking? No ok. Stfu.

@pennyp7382

Жыл бұрын

​@@lonerebeI This case doesn't "prove" shit.

It’s so crazy to hear this story from such a different perspective and as an adult. My original being a classmate and close friend of Beau. #BlueForBeau Thanks you for telling their story. Thank you for telling all of these victims stories. I can speak from personal experience that the “sass” wasn’t as it was made out to be. I can speak from my heart in saying that even as a child… even as children… I could see how sensitive they were to their mothers mental health. It’s such a sad story. I wish I could post the yearbook tribute to them. It was beautiful. 🥹❤️💔

@RogerLewis-ey2tt

10 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing.

There is no way that she did not first plan and then carry out the premeditated double first degree murder of her own children. Jiles you are the perfect spokesman for such delicately heartbreaking cases like this one. You make ALL the difference in the world 🌎

@bluedragonfly8139

5 ай бұрын

The fact that she shot Calyx *in the mouth* after she was already dead is what stitched it up for me. Like, WTF??

Hoping you will do an episode covering Leticia Stauch. That case haunted me from day one. After watching the trial -I'm even more haunted. I will never understand what made her do what she did.

@tracyd693

Жыл бұрын

I didn't follow that case too closely but know some about it. Was there a reason or motive given for the evil she did? What was her absurd excuse?

@123cutieputtie

Жыл бұрын

@@tracyd693 she tried to say her alter personality "Maria" got scared and thought Gannon was a "threat" and killed him.

@missconstruct6968

Жыл бұрын

@@123cutieputtie oh for fuck sake 🙄

@lindaarrington9397

Жыл бұрын

It's called selfish and mean and evil. Take your pic

@mmcmann9539

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, we will likely never know the real reason, because I don't think she will ever tell the truth. Maybe when people stop paying attention to her and she is all out of options. At first I thought that the candle accident burned him and she didn't get help and the longer it went on, the more she realized she could get in trouble for not getting him to the dr. So she decided that him disappearing would be better than dealing with those consequences. She thought of herself as perfect and better than his mom and that would be questioned. After watching a lot of the trial, I think she may have started the fire (if there was a fire, I'm still confused about that) to try to get rid of him or at least preplanned a lot of it. I The judge seems to think she snapped because he backtalked or loved his mom more. There may be some truth in all of those.

No matter how many people have covered a case & how many times I’ve watched vids about a case, I still learn so much more when watching your coverage of the same case!! It amazes me the amount of info & details u report to us that know ones reported on is awesome. You’re so good at researching obviously, can’t Thanku enough for all the time & effort u must put into researching then making these vids for us all. Cheers from Australia 👍

@queezlemacnamara9801

Жыл бұрын

Yes, Jiles; we love you down here 🇭🇲

@jenniferthomas5926

Жыл бұрын

I have never ever heard this story. One of my favorite things about this channel is the coverage of stories that don't get covered. What a great way to honor victims and raise awareness. Great to know the vast reach this channel has.

@ChrissyGreen

Жыл бұрын

Another listener from down under. Western Australia 🇦🇺

Wow! We finally get to see you and what a joy it is. Thanks for always being so detailed and thorough in your narration and for including some education on a topic that's relevent to the case. I don't watch true crime just for entertainment but to learn as well. Thanks for all you do Jiles. Rock on and "stay safe!"

Jiles as de stressing as these cases are your voice is so soothing. And seeing you pop up is a well deserved treat! Love this format!

I love seeing him in the videos, it sort of humanizes the voice behind it. It's nice to think of him as a person instead of some disembodied voice.

They're ALWAYS going to kill the kids and then themselves, except they NEVER seem to get around to killing themselves!! Selfish! Just blow YOUR head off and leave the innocent kids alone! She did this to punish her husband! She was an abusive narcissist, imo.

@donnablack6280

Жыл бұрын

Well said. I totally agree she likely has Narcissistic Personality Disorder. They're more unpleasant than psychos imho.

@tundrawomansays694

Жыл бұрын

This is the most self preserving cohort I’ve ever encountered.

@pattimaeda6097

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@moi_la_desi1365

Жыл бұрын

Please be careful with statements like that. It's been stated, that she'd been diagnosed with depression and borderline personality. Her thoughts and actions were clearly not rational. I'm not saying she's not responsible for what she did; but given the situation, it's also questionable, if the constant moving and beeing left alone with the children was a responsible decision.

@makeupgirl6383

Жыл бұрын

She has a mental disorder and was able to premeditate a murder, she left a note for the carpool and she took a small does of pills and send an email just in time to get save. She is POS. Same as other killers with metal illness. She deserves to spend life in prison.

You are 100% correct about discussing mental health openly

Thank you for giving all the victims justice by showing their cases ❤❤

Although this story is incredibly sad, thank you for highlighting the issue of mental illness. Too many times people try to hide the condition or the family tries to pretend it isn't happening, people are damaged. We need to be honest and open about the topic. Perhaps if it didn't have such a horrible stigma, people would realize it is an illness and can be treated without shame.

her daughter was beautiful and her son was a handsome young man. this is horrible.

It always amazes me how someone can be so cruel. My son is my world and the most precious treasure to me.

It’s really nice to see you. I appreciate the serious and respectful way you approach these stories.

Seriously, absolutely loving the new format! Thanks for all of the hard work, time, research, and passion you put into these videos. It shines through and we notice! Also you're keeping these cases alive and that's important! #StayEpic #NeverStøp

Beautiful work..thank you for giving victims the respect they deserve ❤

I loved seeing the face behind the voice! Keep telling the stories for us...please! We love it!

As a veteran, I have to wonder...If her husband was so worried about her mental health and being able to take care of their kids, as an officer, he has the ability to resign his commission and leave the military at any time. He made it to Colonel and would likely get a pension well enough for the family to live off of and he would have been there to make sure his children were safe. Not that he has any blame in what she did, but he knew she was off her rocker.

@johannas.l.brushane2518

Жыл бұрын

I was also thinking that the idea that she would improve by leaving her job and having kids while being a military wife, who often are alone for periods and also likely to move often. It seemed very naive that whatever chemichal imbalance that goes with mental illness would miracoulusly be healed by pregnant and the hormonal effects (which on the contrary often carries a stress enough to have women ave their first encounter with mental illness). Sure she may not have been able to carry out her previous job but perhaps something requiring slightly less but still hade her in a regular social kontext with other grown up co-workers. But of course, in hindsight the questionable decisions are often more noticable.

@j3611

Жыл бұрын

@@johannas.l.brushane2518 Exactly! She had a busy thriving career, leaving it for the isolation of being a stay at home parent while her husband was away for long periods of time,it was never going to end well. He or someone else should have been the primary carer while she was having intense therapy sessions, a type A was never going to be happy with a boring life at home with the kids, then with the depression/mental illness & toxic r/ship with Calyx added to the mix she was a powder keg, while her spouse was away with his active lifestyle that never had to change. Not that she should be excused for killing her children, I'm all for life with no parole.

@bobcat4100

Жыл бұрын

He was talking about divorce at one stage. That would have given him the opportunity to apply for custody of the children, to remove them from any harm being caused by their mothers illness. He said he was tired of her outbursts and if he was sick of it, l imagine the children were too. He should have followed through, or at least hired a nanny/ bodyguard, passing her off as a live-in housekeeper to his wife, to ease any stress on the domestic side of her life. This case is so sad.

@jr7845

Жыл бұрын

Off her rocker!no wonder many people are ashamed of having negative mental health issues. We dnt all go on to hurt or kill others.

@lisao6928

11 ай бұрын

If the husband knew how nuts she was, and that the children were not safe, it was very irresponsible of him and he should have had some type of charge. At the very least, he should got her some help and got her help with the children. The children might still be alive.

Hey Jiles, ThankYou for all your hard work into everything you do to be able to upload the stories you tell, I’m a big fan, you do a fantastic job and I enjoy your accent too as I’m from down under 😊 it’s just that when it comes to stories that involve hurting babies and children and teens I can’t handle the heartache that comes with it so I’m going to have to sit this one out although I’m still leaving you this comment and a like👍🏽✌🏽❤

@claudiarocks8844

Жыл бұрын

me too 😞

@VixenElixir

Жыл бұрын

@@claudiarocks8844 these types of true crime stories always leave me in tears too💔😭

@phillip2763

Жыл бұрын

Agree 100% except I was too dumb to not watch and I'm still cutting onions. This one hurts a lot.

@c_me_now

Жыл бұрын

I make myself watch or listen in order to honor what the victims went through. I understand why others can't though.

Your recent dipping-of-toes into facecam has been recognized and appreciated.

It’s so awesome to see the face to the voice!!! Thank you for all you do!

I absolutely love the way you completely cover the entire story.

Yahoooooooo! Hey Jiles! Have a great week everyone! ❤

@Unapologeticallymee

Жыл бұрын

❤❤❤right back at ya!

My maternal grandmother had paranoid schizophrenia. My Great Aunt (grandmothers sister) pretty much raised my mom and her brother. She got pregnant at an older age and had a baby a year before I was born. She had her baby (my aunt) in horrible situations and almost killed her. My aunt grew up to be a phenomenal person and mother. My Grandmothers life was so sad full of drugs, shock treatments, and being in psych hospitals on and off. It was just a sad life.

@lindaarrington9397

Жыл бұрын

My brother also I spent most of my life taking care of him to keep him out of jail and me tal wards. At times I thought i was losing it. He was a Nam vet and it triggered it. I loved him and miss him so much . He was a genius and it was like having to stay 5 steps ahead of a mad scientist.

I love how you spoke of Julie's bewitching the boys then BOOM a photo of her mug in court. 😆

Anytime I hear someone go off their meds I cringe so hard because I know how important they are since my sister have schizoid personality disorder and suffer from repeated psychotic episodes and I have BPD and bipolar disorder 😢

Love your channel. The work you put in is amazing. This is first video that I've ever seen you! Fabulous work!

This entire video was harrowing, but the moment that nearly brought me to tears as a man was the revelation that Parker wasn't even aware of what happened to his family until he was able to get back from Qatar... what a nightmare it must be to be wracked with concern over your wife and kids but be so far away that there's no way you can do anything to stop the worst from occurring. Then one day it actually does happen... depressing.

@flossa1960

Жыл бұрын

he should not have left them with her she literally drove under the influence and put herself in hospital and Calyx had documented issues with her mother, to the point where many other people were aware. You shouldn’t put your career over your children, they have no one else to rely on in this life but you.

@faefee

Жыл бұрын

@@flossa1960that last part yes!!!!

@missp78

Жыл бұрын

@flossa19 I absolutely agree.

@NewscasterNews4

Жыл бұрын

⁠@@flossa1960 💯💯💯 he has culpability in this too

Thank you for all you do, Jules!! I love your channels. I listen to all of your videos and hearing your encouragement in seeking help with mental health convinced me to call just now for my own struggles. Your constant encouragement just helped save me

Excellent work as always. I enjoyed seeing you as well. What a heartbreaking case. I can’t imagine what the children’s father has gone through and will continue to endure. My sympathy to him and rest of the kid’s loved ones.

every court photo shown of her is seriously chilling

Ty for starting with such a priceless introduction! Best channel yet for true crime and attempting to see the signs. Please be kind. You never know what someone is going through. As a survivor of a bipolar mother, (she was terrible and we were abused in EVERY way) never, ever, ever leave your children with an unstable caretaker. Two of my siblings are dead, as a direct result of her abuse. It was horrific and she’d really put on a show of being a good mom, when my Dad would come home. He was military too. He finally wised up and kicked her out. I do blame Parker, like I blame my Father. Like my Father, he believed the spouse and in turn lost two children; just like my Dad lost two. AND, family knew and no one stepped in and helped us. Do NOT leave kids ever with someone suffering from severe mental illness. Not only could they be killed, but suffer the atrocious acts of abuse from a mentally unstable parent. It will keep happening, unless we get tough and protect not just children, but the sufferers. Sure we want family together. However, heart hurt is never a reason to leave kids with someone who is ill period. It is better to break up a family through removal, then to watch a family be annihilated by mental illness. Over and over, kids are left with someone suffering and everyone seems so surprised when that person murders their kids. We allow it to happen every single day

@sharongrigg5336

Жыл бұрын

My god I'm so sorry you went through this. So many failed these 2 children especially their dad & family members. Like you knowing how ill their mother was but just left them alone with her is just inconceivable to me. Breaking up a family is never an easy option but compared to what the children are already living through daily, surely it's the best option. It took such bravery to share your horrendous story but you did it so eloquently & compassionately. Thank you. I wish you & your family nothing but peace & love ❤️

@tundrawomansays694

Жыл бұрын

Yep. We talk the talk about caring for kids but we sure don’t walk the walk. Mine was an enraged cluster b personality disordered individual who refused to get help despite us begging her to do so. Her rage never abated, it was fission fueled. I despise the pass we give to these crazy ass “mothers.”

Yayyy! Finally we get to see and hear your amazing voice! You’re research is incredible, thank you

Your voice is perfect for this type of content. It’s soothing in a menacing, ominous kind of way lol. I have followed for a while now and started with your first season with the child killers and I’m so glad you decided to do more of them this season. These cases are oddly fascinating.

I have PTSD and bipolar. When I was homeless a school friend who was in the navy gave me a truck to live in, he tried pushing ekkert toll on me and it upset me greatly. The idea that my pain was a choice, when I was feeling so much of it every day and this man was condescending, "nobody's trying to take your pain away, it's yours and you can choose to stop feeling it" I cried over the idea that my own friend believed my struggles where my choice. I told him how much these ideas hurt me and he just kept pushing it, nearly every time we spoke he'd mention toll or mindfulness. I wrote a book about my Iife, he refused to read it. I asked him to study PTSD, he had the option, in the navy he could study whatever he wanted, I thought if he understood PTSD he might stop telling me my pain was a choice. He refused to take those classes, didn't want to know what it was, just wanted me to get over it. At one point he tried getting me to enlist in the navy, telling me to lie about my bipolar. Anything so I'd have a job. I haven't spoke to him since he took his truck back when I received my section 8.

@lindaarrington9397

Жыл бұрын

I'm sorry honey If they haven't been through it, often others feel this way

@mjanny6330

Жыл бұрын

@Linda Arrington I see them all the time telling wild stories everywhere. They're some kind of pity farmer.

@daisyb4614

Жыл бұрын

What’s the title of your book?

@scheezy

Жыл бұрын

Someone needs attention.

@janielow8719

Жыл бұрын

Stay strong ❤

I'm glad your giving more facetime , by doing so you bring a more personable quality to it.

So glad I found this channel. Will be doing some binge watching to catch up. It's awesome. Excellently done. Thank you.

Loved seeing you! Great job. Your sensitivity on these topics is appreciated

Cedar Falls, IA (home of her university) is my hometown. I also have relatives in Muskatine. I know this case well. What a tragedy. Thank you for all your hard work shining a light onto cases like this, and the Monsters that orbit them.

@nodaysoff2358

Жыл бұрын

Right! You have “relatives” in MUSCATINE !

@MidgieTheCat

Жыл бұрын

@@nodaysoff2358 ...huh?

You’re amazing Jiles Such a talent. Thank you for all the hard work you put into your videos. ❤

Good to see you, bud. Always well written and a fantastic voice for spoken word. Thanks for helping me get through these long night shifts.

I work for P.E.T (Positive Engagement Team) for behavior health services, its a stigma reduction program, to educate the public about mental health, and to give a positive perspective on receiving mental health care, we use therapy dogs to work with both clients, and the public, programs like these are needed now more than ever.

Good to see you. Lots of love. Les from South Africa 🇿🇦 ❤

I enjoy your content..I'm still amazed at these cases you find, it's quite scary knowing there are real Monsters out there. I will never understand how these people can be so evil.

@hillarybillary21

Жыл бұрын

It’s pretty easy to understand psychopathy. All you have to do is Google it

Just want to say I love listening to your videos. When I just want to relax and be told a story I come to your channel. Always on point and insightful. ❤

I love your channel and am so surprised you don’t have a million or more subscribers!!! I look forward to your videos and love hearing “ This is monsters”!!! Keep doing what you’re doing…we all appreciate you!

I just had an episode last night. I have GAD and MDD. Medication has helped me for the past 6 years but now things are going downhill. I used to have crippling panic attacks in my late teens/early 20’s and eventually got everything under control but the anxiety is back and I had a severe attack last night in a food lion parking lot. I could not drive or move for 4 hours. It felt like an out of body experience. I was dizzy, my finger tips were numb and my heart was skipping beats. I rode it out. On my own. I have a fiancé that I love dearly but he does not understand mental illness. He can’t wrap his mind around it. That and addiction. I struggle on my own. I don’t know why the anxiety has come back full force. I’m 38 now. I thought I had beat it. I need to be healthy for my child. I’m sorry for rambling but the first part of this video made me cry. Thanks for listening, folks.

@mgreen1206

Жыл бұрын

I no it’s hard as a mental health nurse sometimes I see patients who have been going really well go downhill for no major reason or sometimes it’s just a chemical imbalance. I don’t no we’re your living but I’m assuming US but i could be wrong? It’s a pity you are not were I am as we have pretty good free healthcare..and over my 25yrs working in US, UK and Australia 🇦🇺 I can say that one thing Australia does brilliantly is support for family members of people with a mental illness., I work in a rural inpatient mental health unit and every Monday and Thursday nights carers can attend free support sessions without unwell family member for 1st half of meeting.. it’s all confidential..hope you are feeling better soon, remember just like say diabetes having a mental illness is just that an illness of the brain which much is still not known about.. don’t let anyone ever tell you, you are not worthy.. love and respect from Australia 🇦🇺 also it still is crazy that US still allows unwell people to get guns..how can you lose your licence due to bad driving but it’s ok to buy a gun..WTF..it’s unfortunate but the 1996 massacre in Australia probably saved so many lives as gun laws were changed within 3mths..

@digigalbytes2445

Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear you're struggling lately. I battle different issues but they've afflicted me on & off for decades & seem equally intractable at times... Just remember that it's natural to experience peaks & troughs, and as such the good times WILL return. In the meantime, reach out to your support network. Given your fiance can't help, do you have friends/family/medics who can? Best wishes from an internet stranger.

@whosaidthat9265

Жыл бұрын

I hope you get the help you need. I’m no doctor but it is concerning you briefly mentioning addiction. I’m not sure what you are addicted to but being that you already are on medication for your conditions, adding brain altering substances definitely can have an impact. I don’t know if it’s your fiancé’s task to ‘understand’ addiction. Definitely recommend going to whatever rehab is required to be rid of that addiction.

@rrsiiipineal

Жыл бұрын

Stay strong...I also have gad and ptsd. It has gotten better over the years. Don't give up and know that you aren't alone!

@TheN00bmonster

Жыл бұрын

Sarah I hope you are feeling better today than yesterday! It’s good that medication was helping but it is worth mentioning to your psychiatrist that things are not working now and that you need additional help. Best of luck, Sarah. I know these things are very difficult to navigate. Best bet is to be honest and up front with your partner and your health care provider that you are not in a position to do what you expect of yourself for your family and I think anyone who cares about you would see that and offer assistance.

Andrea Yates, remember her. She killed her five kids while experiencing post partum psychosis. Her sentence was adjusted when her therapists and dr testified about how her husband wouldn’t let her get treatment and how he would provoke her into an episode. She’s the first person with a mental illness the courts agreed to talk to. And the Aurora Shooter. It took them two years to get that guy to a point where he could help with his own defense

@TawnyC_

Жыл бұрын

Andrea Yates' husband was told by her doctor to never leave her alone with the children. He did.

@bbe3034

Жыл бұрын

Yes, and the doctor told her and her husband to not have anymore children! 😢😢.

@donnablack6280

Жыл бұрын

Diane, this is a lonnng way past the postpartum depression stage. The kids were teens.

@poeethics9331

Жыл бұрын

There is no one I have less sympathy for then a parent who hurts their children.

@laurenhayes564

Жыл бұрын

@@poeethics9331 then you need to look at the ethics in your username a bit more, if this is the response you have to this particular comment and the ones below it.

Thank you for this episode. You always do a super job. Cheers

I don't think she was being altruistic. She's narcissitic on top of her other conditions. Shooting her daughter in the mouth after the head shot was like she was shutting up that smart mouthed teenager once & for all.

@tundrawomansays694

Жыл бұрын

Agreed. There isn’t an ounce of altruism in this woman’s body. Her motive was revenge and I have zero empathy for her.

I've been a subscriber of yours since the beginning. I really like that we can see you saying "This is Monsters" now. I absolutely love your channel, Jiles!

You are excellent on how you describe these people on who they truly are”monsters”and bring to the forefront issues that definitely need to be addressed by our local,state and federal governments…..thank you

Thank you for sharing this and I will share this video to Facebook thank you such a great speaker 👍

I don't know what makes me happier. Seeing Jile's face or finding out he's an Op Ivy fan.

The husband is a moron. Tells the family they have no idea what it’s like to be stuck with her, then leaves his children stuck with her. Yea. Good call.

Jiles, I love your videos, but in reading the description page here, I so appreciate you listing the contacts for help for the many mental health issues & self & others harm & discrimination issues that people may be dealing with. Thank you for doing that, it shows your goodness & God’s love in your ❤. 🤗❤️❤️

Love the t shirt! Cool to see you on camera! Love your channel! Been binging it for a few weeks!!

Hello fellow monster fans thanks for all you do jiles love your vids highlight of my week respect from Australia 🇦🇺

@digigalbytes2445

Жыл бұрын

@aussiewonder Aussie Monster Squad Member reporting in for education & entertainment from (currently rainy) Qld. 🙋

@autopilotlevel7296

Жыл бұрын

Melbourne fan . Been here from the early days. I haven’t missed an episode. Awesome to know Aussie fans are checking in

@lindaarrington9397

Жыл бұрын

Hey there Hope all is well with you

@lindaarrington9397

Жыл бұрын

From Va. Usa

Thank you for the amazing content Jiles! Always nice to see you too :D Have a great week!

Hello Jiles! Good to put a face to the voice I have listened to for so long! Thank you for your great work.

I just want to thank you for your very helpful subtitles. Much better than KZread's default system. Thank you.

@ann-mariepaliukenas19

Жыл бұрын

I agree! I have partial hearing issues,but i can luckily follow him mainly without subtitles ❤

As someone who suffers from severe depression, BPD & anxiety/panic disorder, I want to thank you for speaking out about mental illness. The fact that you make a point to highlight the issues.. It means so much to me!

@conniehenry1718

Жыл бұрын

Being mental is not an excuse to hurt another human being. If so? Are you going to go adopt a child and abuse them? No I didn't think so.

@tooldog5062

Жыл бұрын

anxiety/panic disorder, a good reason to kill and get away with it, yet if this was Iraq/Iran she wouldve been within her legal rights to kill her children! and no consequences! here the difference with our corrupt justice system is murders walk Prison justice if Biblical, now heres a daddy biden story that took place, a divorced woman had her 2 daughters Daddy worked in the government has powers like biden, the daughters 17/5 were with the mother as i said, now 17 year old had a bf that mom caught him stealing from her she told her daughter he was no longer welcome and if he came back she would have him arrested, daughter grabs a butcher knife hands it to the bf and says kill her, and as the bf is killing her mom she takes another butcher knife and kills her little sister, now like i sad daddy did the same thing biden did for his rapist embezzling son made all law enforcement/prosecutors/ judges vanish this girl didnt even get finger printed as she lives freely even today, oh the bf he got 16-20 which = the death penalty, prison justice says you ruthlessly kill a woman / child you dont deserve to live, with in a month he was in the morgue, as for the murdering daughter i figure shes married today and that part of her past is just an old memory,

Omg! It's nice to see you😊 such an unexpected suprise!! & thanks for all you do!!

Parker should either have quit the military or divorced her and taken custody of the children. Being fully aware of her mental health issues and still opting to leave her alone with the children for months on end makes him partially responsible for what happened.

@1PrayerWarrior4

Жыл бұрын

I absolutely agree with you. Couldn't have said it better.

Hi Jiles, just wanted to say how much I enjoy your content and your delivery of it... It's very well put across and your voice is perfect for this work 😊👍 thanks

Exelint reporting as always. These atrocity are happening more and more every day but hearing about them never gets easier thank you for giving them the respect they deserve...

Jiles You have the dopest channel when it comes to true crime on YT, I’m always looking forward to the next video. Just wanted to say thank you from Chicago! 🤘

The fact that this "mother" PASSED a background check for purchasing a gun is utterly terrifying. There are so many others with a history of mental disorders that have done the same and gone on to commit horrendous crimes. It is way past time for new regulations and reforms regarding owning a gun. I'm all for the 2nd amendment, but I think as a nation, we need to update this right to fit what is happening in the US. I do hope that this woman gets the help she so clearly needs while serving her sentence.

@lotuspocus76312

Жыл бұрын

🥁✅️❣️ Owning a gun doesnt make you a murderer, but many people who are able to murder own a gun indeed.

@nancymoon-rush2888

Жыл бұрын

@@lotuspocus76312 I agree

@queenkamie1743

Жыл бұрын

Spot on !

@tooldog5062

Жыл бұрын

his voice doesn't match his looks, i pictured a skinny scrawny guy

@mjanny6330

Жыл бұрын

Same with knives...bats and vehicles.

It’s the catch 22 that every person with a diagnosed mental health issue is you find the right med and you start getting better, your holding a job, taking care of yourself, eating well. But then you convince yourself that maybe you don’t need the meds so often. Like missing every other day but still feeling better until you hit the spiral. So now you have the idea that the med doesn’t work anymore, so why bother to take it. And then it creeps up and bites you in the butt. I’m bipolar and I behave myself because I have a small dog and he’s my world and I’m his. I have to bite my tongue because I have to get back home to my dog What ever works to motivate you to take your meds every day

@cezra833

Жыл бұрын

I have my cats for the same reason. I have to get up so that I can feed them and look after them. They are my complete world. Everyone thinks I'm nuts, and I am, just not for the reasons they think. I had a severely mentally ill mother, it sucks. It doesn't matter how much you know that what she is saying or doing is because of the illness, it still hurts. Though I can't hold it against her, because she just wasn't in her right mind. This woman was so ill- not evil, but very, very ill. When she is more stable she will never be able to forgive herself for what she has done. She has to be punished, obviously, but I also hope that she gets the treatment she so desperately needs.

@pickledragonrebel

Жыл бұрын

I can so relate to this. I'm also bipolar and recently lost my dear fur friend. It took months to decide whether to adopt another dog bc my mental health is in decline as well as chronic pain. When I finally decided to get one, I told my mom that this decision was more than adopting a dog, it was a decision to not take my life in the foreseeable future (at least however long my new friends life will be) sorry to be so frank, it's just literally how things are. We all cope the best we can, at least we're trying..... Wishing you peace and contentment for you. ✌️ ☮️ hang in there.

@dawnmccarthy8679

Жыл бұрын

@@pickledragonrebel Continue being as brave as this post shows you are. I’m sure your family and friends are very proud of you.

@PFMediaServices

Жыл бұрын

When I was diagnosed at 17 my mom described it as being like a diabetic - the meds are correcting for my body's chemicals, and even though I feel better I'll need to keep that correction balanced. Thinking this way, it's never occurred to me to stop taking them; I'm well aware I'm well BECAUSE I keep taking them. I feel sad for those who don't get this, and send how that they'll figure it out. ✌️🍍

Love your show, it is by far my favourite KZread Channel. Awesome shirt by the way, " sound system going to bring me back up yeah, one thing that I can depend on"

Already loved this channel but, the Op Ivy shirt sent it over the top. Love the work, my guy. Keep it up 👍

Great annunciation and eloquence. Cheers mate

Jiles! I love so so much that you're on camera throughout now ❤❤ You are the one that makes this channel what it is. I now have your saying, "get the f*ck outta here," said in your voice in my head everytime I hear something ridiculous ❤❤

I have been listening to you for 3 years now, yours is my favorite true crime podcast! It’s awesome to finally put a face to the infamous voice!