Is this true about women “wanting” an emotionally intelligent man? 👀

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  • @kia6955
    @kia69558 ай бұрын

    You should never ask for anything from a partner that you are unable to offer.

  • @QueenUglyDuckling

    @QueenUglyDuckling

    8 ай бұрын

    facts.

  • @0lovelybelle0

    @0lovelybelle0

    8 ай бұрын

    That’s it, that’s all.

  • @anthonymark5758

    @anthonymark5758

    7 ай бұрын

    Very well said.

  • @tmsfrequency7848

    @tmsfrequency7848

    7 ай бұрын

    And this is what it all boils down to

  • @salisfele1817

    @salisfele1817

    7 ай бұрын

    Nah, not necessarily, different people come with their own set of relationship skills, and your partner might be better at certain things or fill a job in the relationship that isn't your job to have in the relationship, and that's ok. Your job is to be thankful and acknowledge the fact that they take certain things on for the betterment of the relationship. There are certain things that I do in a relationship that I would never ask my girl to do because that's not her job, and vice versa

  • @SAMCRO21
    @SAMCRO218 ай бұрын

    God dam she’s spitting pure facts

  • @rwgino3757

    @rwgino3757

    8 ай бұрын

    She's on point. Women play ignorant, but know this truth already. We Men that are emotional intelligence are the same men women will say he soft, Mama's boy, like a brother or say he is gay. Then, later claim they have mature as women, and now want an emotional intelligent good man. Hell no! I leave these black females alone, and try my best to avoid them.

  • @473sgpm2

    @473sgpm2

    7 ай бұрын

    I like her.

  • @BlueRidgeParanormalEst

    @BlueRidgeParanormalEst

    6 ай бұрын

    and she is very easy on the eyes

  • @7thFreeSon

    @7thFreeSon

    5 ай бұрын

    She is, but be careful next time not to say the Lord's name in vain.

  • @SAMCRO21

    @SAMCRO21

    5 ай бұрын

    @@7thFreeSon I respect your opinion but your lord not mine

  • @memoir02
    @memoir028 ай бұрын

    Exactly! You betta have done the work on yourself to match the emotionally intelligent man you want!

  • @melaninmoxiellc963

    @melaninmoxiellc963

    8 ай бұрын

    Big Facts!

  • @hellothere8347

    @hellothere8347

    8 ай бұрын

    FACTSSS! You have to be the kind of person you want to attract.

  • @samuraibushido7077

    @samuraibushido7077

    7 ай бұрын

    You say that because you know what Obama said: "Are parents did not love us enuf to teaches us these things". And far tooo many of our parents did not know themselves because the educational system refused to teach it. Sadly ,this is the truth all you got to do is ask Oprah, Joyce Meyer and Minister Farakhan and they will tell you the same.

  • @spybubbble

    @spybubbble

    6 ай бұрын

    @@samuraibushido7077 You’re quoting Barack with that grammar??

  • @SHANELL032007

    @SHANELL032007

    6 ай бұрын

    Exactly!@@hellothere8347

  • @Spiritual-Gangsta
    @Spiritual-Gangsta7 ай бұрын

    That is so true. My most relationship, he was a Man with strong emotional intelligence. I realized being in that relationship that I prayed for a man that I was not ready for. He is someone who absolutely respect his peace because I believe at the stage he is in , he knows who he is and what he brings to the table and he knows what kind of woman he wants and desire. I was not ready at all and I fumbled that man so much. I learned so much from him though that for the rest of my life he will be someone I hold in high regards. There were moments when I got out of pocket and he would be like wait hold on , I didn’t like that , it was very immature and Imma need to check that but there was never once when he disrespected me or call me out of my name. Even when I got him upset , he had a level of compassion to speak to not only the little hurt girl in me but the Empress in which he wanted me to be in his life. This relationship made me take a step back and realize it’s me 😂. I’m the problem and that I need to really be in my true divinity before I asked God to align me again with a Divine masculine again. Sometimes we as women we don’t like to say ish like this because it make us look too submissive but that man was a teacher in my life and baby even though I wasn’t his brightest student 😂. I Learned some pretty valuable lesson.

  • @brianpj5860

    @brianpj5860

    7 ай бұрын

    Respects to you for eventually coming to that realization. Learning from our past mistakes is how we achieve the growth to positively move further in our finite existence. Cheers ✌🏽

  • @setapartaay925

    @setapartaay925

    6 ай бұрын

    Respect 👏🏾

  • @jeansshirt1045

    @jeansshirt1045

    6 ай бұрын

    I got so much respect for you for opening up. I hope you do realize tho that respectful people are hard to find. Could be the only one you’ll ever meet and you gonna keep looking for him in every man you meet.

  • @fstanley2.0

    @fstanley2.0

    6 ай бұрын

    Here's my question: In realizing all that you've shared with us in the comments, why didn't you stay in the relationship, submit yourself to the man, and GROW where you were planted? It sounds like The Most High placed you in good soil, and you stated that you had prayed for it. It seems that man was demonstrating LOVE and RESPECT for you in real-time so that you did not have to "fumble the bag" and learn from mistakes the hard way and after-the-fact. I'm speaking to myself when I say this: if a tree is thriving where it was planted, it should not take it upon itself to be uprooted; the next location will most likely prove harmful and/or detrimental to its growth and livelihood.

  • @Spiritual-Gangsta

    @Spiritual-Gangsta

    6 ай бұрын

    @@fstanley2.0 honestly, I have to evolve and I have to heal . It’s not fair to him to have to suffer because I don’t have my ish together. If it’s meant to be We will found our back to each other like we did before. I have to be honest and open with myself and not point the finger at anyone but myself but if it’s not meant to be by all means I wish him the very best of luck and pray he finds a woman that is the Yan to his Yin.

  • @blazeharris3326
    @blazeharris33264 ай бұрын

    In other words: If u can't match the energy, that emotionally intelligent person WILL NOT let you drain theirs

  • @Jelly-sk2ry

    @Jelly-sk2ry

    3 ай бұрын

    True and it also drains your energy because anything that's not on the same level is either draining or overwhelming.

  • @Keytheintrovert
    @Keytheintrovert7 ай бұрын

    She’s on point with this because in order to recognize the emotions of others, one must first fully understand their own.

  • @EuniceOsunde-fx6fb

    @EuniceOsunde-fx6fb

    5 ай бұрын

    Yes very true

  • @kingdre7492

    @kingdre7492

    5 ай бұрын

    Yea too bad she too masculine. Too much make up. Bad wig and overweight

  • @ruthcook8599
    @ruthcook85998 ай бұрын

    IF YOUR NOT READY FOR THAT DON'T BE ASKING FOR AN INTELLIGENT MAN 🔥🖤

  • @islandgirlxx3465
    @islandgirlxx34658 ай бұрын

    That lady is speaking facts. And she is gorgeous!

  • @kingdre7492

    @kingdre7492

    5 ай бұрын

    Nah she over masculine with a bad wig and too much make up. Real men don’t like this only women don

  • @divasamai2251
    @divasamai225116 күн бұрын

    Emotional intelligence requires accountability! Most folks don’t want that!

  • @aodhancampbell7507
    @aodhancampbell75077 ай бұрын

    A particular comment in this section said essentially that the man they're talking about sounds like a narcissist and like they'd say mean things to their partner. I have some thoughts on that, as a man in a relationship in which I have struggled with being severely emotionally neglected by my female partner. If there's zero space for me to talk about my feelings in a relationship without my partner getting uncomfortable or upset at MY discomfort or MY being upset, the problem becomes all about what SHE feels about what I feel, leaving the issue of how I actually feel to just... not be resolved. I go out of my way to comfort my partners, but if a man can't trust his partner to support him in a similar respect, where is the love in THAT? It just isn't worth the emotional labour when you bust your ass to perform to the standards of a woman and she doesn't think she should be held to the same standard. How can I trust my partner to lay out relationship rules if she doesn't think she should have to play by them? At that point, the odds are stacked against me, the game just becomes giving, and giving, and giving, and getting scraps at best of recognition and support in turn, and the game stops being worth entertaining. It isn't narcissism to leave a relationship where you're neglected, and you certainly wouldn't say that if the positions of these genders were swapped in this scenario. It'd be a chorus of "you go girl" and "dump his ass". It's really not arrogance, toxicity, or narcissism. It's knowing one's own worth and respecting oneself. We're worth being cared about, and the fact of the matter is that women who aren't capable of that don't deserve to reap the benefits of an emotionally intelligent man. As far as what you claim these men would say, just... just no. It isn't disrespect or cruelty to open up to your partner about what isn't working in the relationship. A mature and truly emotionally intelligent woman will want to know when there's a problem, even if it hurts, so that issues can be worked on, just like they expect their male partners to recognise their shortcomings so THOSE can be worked on. The appropriate response isn't to get offended and villainise men for expressing dissatisfaction with how they're treated, it's to actually talk about it the same way you'd want your feelings talked about. Respectfully. Without anger. Without judgement. My feelings aren't an insult to anyone, they're just how I feel, and it isn't automatically my fault for feeling that way. If this carries on and on, then yeah, something in me is going to snap. I'm going to stop being so gentle and calm, because I've tried desperately to talk, but there's nothing I get back from that relationship besides my words being twisted to make the problem about my having the audacity to "insult" my partner, and an adamant refusal to just... hear what I'm saying, take that shit at face value, and work with me to grow as people and a couple. Yeah, you're damn right that eventually I'll get tired of it and just get up and leave because I care about me as much as I deserve, and you don't.

  • @phantomzxro1

    @phantomzxro1

    7 ай бұрын

    Very well said. I whole wholeheartedly agree.

  • @BaseballKing44

    @BaseballKing44

    6 ай бұрын

    This point right here they arent ready for smh. So true

  • @grindhard4312

    @grindhard4312

    6 ай бұрын

    Women today are terrible. I would run if heard any woman using the narcissistic, emotional intelligence or toxic masculinity. They have no clue what any of it even means.

  • @bryangosling2238

    @bryangosling2238

    6 ай бұрын

    Preach.

  • @D_Dougie

    @D_Dougie

    5 ай бұрын

    Many people won't read your comment because of how long it is, but it truly deserves to be read in its entirety and meditated upon.

  • @steverobinson5677
    @steverobinson56778 ай бұрын

    FACTS, Make sure you know what you want before you receive it.

  • @melaninmoxiellc963

    @melaninmoxiellc963

    8 ай бұрын

    It goes beyond just knowing, you have to BE that which you want to receive in a partner.

  • @terrycrews1760

    @terrycrews1760

    7 ай бұрын

    I think you missed the point of what was said. It’s not about knowing what you want. It’s about being able to offer the same back.

  • @sav.walker
    @sav.walker6 ай бұрын

    “so if you not ready for that don’t be asking for an intelligent man” PERIODT

  • @chercher304
    @chercher3048 ай бұрын

    Protect her at all cost

  • @sueme8170

    @sueme8170

    6 ай бұрын

    🎉if you noticed the rock on her finger. I would argue that she may be more suited to speak on this then others.

  • @lawrencebolt3540
    @lawrencebolt35407 ай бұрын

    When I was younger and all over the place with my energy, women loved me. I'm relatively tall, well built and attractive. On top of this I have always been able to talk well and so women would queue up around the block to be noticed by me. But When I became this exact man in the video. My speech became calmer and unhurried. I can see a woman's spirit and mind before Ive registered her body. Because of my transformation it was like night and day in respects to female advances. Yes there were elements of me cutting off emotionally erratic women. But the vast bulk of women stay the hell away from me. I've learnt that most women realise the type of man that's Infront of them but the man they know they need is scary because he requires her to be the best version of herself.

  • @zee_lolaj7382

    @zee_lolaj7382

    7 ай бұрын

    Damn I Loveeee it💜💛 Respect.

  • @karlewen2112

    @karlewen2112

    6 ай бұрын

    LIKE

  • @DeeDe730
    @DeeDe7308 ай бұрын

    Oooooooowwwwe she broke it down At That Level, Emotionally Intelligently 🗣🎤💯💯💯💯🔥

  • @juannmorris1681
    @juannmorris16818 ай бұрын

    We already had the alternative. I want one. Sounds like ambition, integrity, godliness and the Ps are there.

  • @ProudLU
    @ProudLU3 ай бұрын

    the silence in that room speaks volumes

  • @rjtherenegade7743

    @rjtherenegade7743

    2 ай бұрын

    Facts cuz any other time they’re in their hootin & hollering.

  • @rhideflory
    @rhideflory5 ай бұрын

    This was a refreshing take coming from a woman. I agree with every word she said.

  • @nizambao4653
    @nizambao46534 ай бұрын

    She is a high value woman.

  • @ladysweetnfieryofficial
    @ladysweetnfieryofficial8 ай бұрын

    This lady keeps it real, and agree with what she said however, I feel with having emotional intelligence also means to have emotional maturity as well. There needs to be a balance. One is to hold themselves accountable, regarding how they communicate and connect using emotional intelligence due to the intellectual information/knowledge one acquires after doing the work. You have to know and understand what type of man/woman you dealing with ok, regarding how you connect, communicate and express yourself to another. To be emotionally intelligent, is to be self aware 👀 ok so, if one doesn't like the way you "communicate" and express yourself using emotional intelligence, he/she does not respond well, the connection is not there. It's about being self aware and truly listening, to hold space for another to safeguard and respect how the other feels and perceives things ok.. Anyone who does the work to become and embody what is means to be emotionally intelligent is one thing, but if there is no emotional maturity as well, then that's how you explain how men/women become emotionally manipulative, narcissistic, egoic and just overall impossible to communicate with because of a lack of understanding and inability to effectively connect.

  • @user-zq5sz4km8n

    @user-zq5sz4km8n

    8 ай бұрын

    EXACTLY! ❤❤❤❤

  • @hellothere8347

    @hellothere8347

    8 ай бұрын

    Yup facts!!! I love this comment

  • @bryangosling2238

    @bryangosling2238

    6 ай бұрын

    Fact. Emotional maturity goes hand in hand with emotional intelligence, there is no point to be emotionally intelligent, if some doesn't have the emotional maturity to apply it.

  • @JaiNanette

    @JaiNanette

    6 ай бұрын

    I think you are referring to relationship management, which is one of the pillars of developing a higher EQ. A lot of ppl can score high on an emotional intelligence test in every other area, but come in very low in that area. You can be self aware, be able to self-manage and even be socially aware and STILL not have the skills to show up for your partner in an emotionally mature relationship.

  • @amohammed5
    @amohammed58 ай бұрын

    She said nothing but the truth.

  • @HebrewsandGentilesalikei-sc9dq
    @HebrewsandGentilesalikei-sc9dq22 күн бұрын

    excellent points dear sis emotional intelligence is a taboo people avoid in some crowds instead of looking at it from both rational and emotional sides they rather be one way minded.

  • @MrCn23
    @MrCn238 ай бұрын

    they not ready

  • @apostlegeorgepaulk6732
    @apostlegeorgepaulk67325 ай бұрын

    Protect This Sister at All Cost 💯 O.G.Florida 🌴

  • @user-zq5sz4km8n
    @user-zq5sz4km8n8 ай бұрын

    I AGREE TO A CERTAIN EXTENT...THERE ARE EMOTIONALLY INTELLIGENT MEN..AND THAT'S GOOD...BUT SOME OF THE THINGS SHE SAID IS TRUE ABOUT MEN WHO ARE INSECURE AND AFRAID OF REJECTION. THEY BUILD UP A DEFENSE TO LOOK EMOTIONALLY INTELLIGENT BUT IT COULD BE EMOTIONAL INSTABILITY. YOU NEED TO BE ABLE TO DISTINGUISH BETWEEN THE TWO. I UNDERSTAND A MAN THAT DOESN'T ACCEPT BAD BEHAVIOR FROM A FEMALE... DOESN'T LIKE DRAMA AND WHO WILL DISMISS A WOMAN AT THE DROP OF A HAT! WHEN MEN TREAT WOMEN THAT WAY..TO THEM ITS WEAKNESS..THE SAME WAY WOMEN LOOK AT MEN WHO HAS BAD BEHAVIOR. IF YOU LOVE ONE ANOTHER... I'M NOT SAYING CONTINUALLY ACCEPT THEIR BEHAVIOR...BUT TRY TO UNDERSTAND AND COMMUNICATE WITH EACH OTHER AND WORK THINGS OUT!

  • @TheVoidFound

    @TheVoidFound

    8 ай бұрын

    100% spot on.

  • @anthonymark5758

    @anthonymark5758

    7 ай бұрын

    Point added. 😘

  • @quantouch

    @quantouch

    7 ай бұрын

    Not everything has to do with insecurity. Most of the time, men just don't agree with you, period!!! Many women just can't cope with that cause they are used to choose men who tell them what they want to hear instead of being authentic. Wanting to know everything out of control in of a willing to understand each other better, is one of the issues. So Balance comes when you get it right about what's even happening in a men in a 1st place ...🤷‍♀🤷‍♀..!! Women are the ones craving security; men don't crave that! But they are wiling to make you feel that way but can't read your mind about it ... clear communication is key vs. this "He has to figure it out BS".

  • @user-zq5sz4km8n

    @user-zq5sz4km8n

    7 ай бұрын

    @@quantouch SIR ..ANYTIME A GROWN MAN CANNOT OR WON'T AGREE WITH SOMETHING... IT'S BECAUSE HE'S INSECURE... THAT'S ME PERSONALLY...A SUPPOSED TO BE ADULT MAN IS SUPPOSED TO BE MATURE ENOUGH AND SECURE ENOUGH TO COMMUNICATE WITH HIS PARTNER AT ANYTIME. MEN HAVE ALWAYS WANTED TO PLAY THE BLAME GAME MAKING IT LOOK AS IF THE WOMAN IS AT FAULT FOR EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENS IN A RELATIONSHIP. I'M NOT SAYING THAT WOMEN AREN'T GUILTY OF SOME THINGS BUT THE BIGGEST MAJORITY OF THE TIME A MAN EITHER DOESN'T WANT TO FACE THE TRUTH ABOUT HIMSELF OR SOMETHING IN HIS LIFE SO HE THROWS TEMPER TANTRUMS AND WANTS HIS WAY AND THEY FEEL AS IF WE WOMEN ARE SUPPOSED TO DEAL WITH THIS CRAP ! NOT! IF A MAN ISN'T MAN ENOUGH TO SAY WHAT HE MEANS AND MEAN WHAT HE SAYS OR KNOW HOW TO MAINTAIN A GROWN UP RELATIONSHIP HE DOESN'T NEED A WIFE OR SIGNIFICANT OTHER...HE NEEDS TO BE AT HOME WITH HIS DAMN MOM SO SHE CAN BABY HIM! IF A MAN IS LOVING ...MATURE.. SERIOUS...SECURE...AND WILLING TO COMMUNICATE WITH ME IN THE RELATIONSHIP I'LL BE GLAD TO SUBMIT TO HIM BUT IF YOU CAN'T TREAT ME LIKE YOU TREAT .... I'M NOT WASTING MY TIME! PERIOD! AND THAT'S ME PERSONALLY!

  • @NPRYRS
    @NPRYRS8 ай бұрын

    Naw, they call him NARCISSIST, CONTROLLING & TOXIC 💯❗‼️🙎🏾🔥

  • @melaninmoxiellc963

    @melaninmoxiellc963

    8 ай бұрын

    No, they don't. Some toxic people are simply in DENIAL about being emotionally intelligent while other toxic people who aren't accountable and haven't experienced emotionally intelligent people confuse them for being too boring and judgmental.

  • @NPRYRS

    @NPRYRS

    7 ай бұрын

    @@melaninmoxiellc963 🤯WHAT❓ THAT'S A BUNCH OF WORD SALAD & ACTUALLY TOXIC, GASLIGHTING 🤣😅😂😭🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾 RIGHT OVER ALL 5 OF Y'ALL'S HEADS🙎🏾🙎🏽‍♀️

  • @ElevenAce
    @ElevenAce8 ай бұрын

    Glad to see some defence on part of Emotional Intelligent men. If a guy says it it wouldn't have gotten the message across!

  • @Mebeshe

    @Mebeshe

    7 ай бұрын

    From reading some of these comments, it appears some didn't take it from her either. Some people sadly will never hear this message regardless of who is delivering it😢

  • @darnelldaniels4109
    @darnelldaniels41095 ай бұрын

    She spoke that very clearly 🙌🏾🙏🏾💪🏾💯

  • @williamhood7548
    @williamhood7548Ай бұрын

    Every man on camera; "Wait... We can do that?"

  • @marlineolifant9722
    @marlineolifant97228 ай бұрын

    💯❤️ Sis❤️💯 spitting FACTS!!

  • @MrExtraFINESSEtrial
    @MrExtraFINESSEtrial7 ай бұрын

    They say there's POWER in words or the tongue which could set a forest ABLAZE 🔥🔥🔥 Thank you to her lvl of teaching!! reinforced My Defense👏

  • @MegaMickey72
    @MegaMickey726 ай бұрын

    I 1st discovered this video on Instagram. I can not get enough of this 💖 Well said 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @taneekawilder2141
    @taneekawilder21418 ай бұрын

    YES!!! Well said!!!!

  • @Tinablackberryrose
    @Tinablackberryrose8 ай бұрын

    🗣️ Straight Facts 💯

  • @rasheeddavis296
    @rasheeddavis2965 ай бұрын

    Well said Sister Thank you And SOOO BEAUTIFUL and smooth with it Thank you 🌹🌹🌹

  • @samanthastark858
    @samanthastark8588 ай бұрын

    Love it.. and love her well spoken telling it how it is and not how they want it to be ❤❤

  • @livingtribunal2275
    @livingtribunal22757 ай бұрын

    They say they want it but when they get it they can’t handle it

  • @nimo4335
    @nimo43358 ай бұрын

    Yes, I do!! ❤️❤️ She's right!

  • @user-zq8to3zr5y
    @user-zq8to3zr5y5 ай бұрын

    Thank you my sistah!! Teach these women what time it is! Teach em!

  • @elliotselmon7581
    @elliotselmon75818 ай бұрын

    TRUTH!! DEPTH!! 💕❤️💕

  • @prophetess_cb5941
    @prophetess_cb5941Ай бұрын

    🔥🔥🔥🔥…. I’m gonna leave it right there

  • @Jolie-gm1bw
    @Jolie-gm1bwАй бұрын

    Beautifully said, and I’d like to add a clarification for abusive personalities. The five pillars of emotional intelligence are self-awareness, self-regulation, self-motivation, empathy, and social skills ( I like to say social grace). Emotional intelligence calls for men/women to be able to navigate their own emotions and express their needs from a place of respect. Often, we see extremely abusive personalities claiming they are emotionally intelligent, but they seek to destroy and manipulate with their words. Ideas incongruent with their beliefs leads to aggression, demoralization, and bullying (all of which are responses of a weak mind). An emotionally intelligent person consistently works on his or her mind. They are not highly reactive, they are controlled, they have fortified within themselves the ability to regulate their own emotions and thus, their reactions.

  • @basromd
    @basromd2 ай бұрын

    This is amazing. Not as much as what to expect but moreso for what I need to change in me.

  • @evolvingishtv
    @evolvingishtv8 ай бұрын

    Sheeeeeeesh, a word Sis, a word.

  • @Raj-cl7he
    @Raj-cl7he8 ай бұрын

    Yupp once i started how much value my peace of mine was it became easier to protect myself.learning your value doesnt come in a blink of an eye it comes with trials and tribulation and getting to know yourself on a deeper level . You cant protect yourself if you dont know yourself. Even SUN TZU said know yourself and your enemy the one who doesnt know bith loses years of battles .

  • @rhemyharris2709
    @rhemyharris27097 ай бұрын

    Don't ask for something today & you are'nt Equipped To Handle it Tomorrow. You Nailed That One!!!

  • @ap2582
    @ap25828 ай бұрын

    🗣️don't ask. ..I say don't ask ....I say 🎵 DONT AAAAAAAASK🎶

  • @rodski85

    @rodski85

    7 ай бұрын

    😂😂 Nigga bring the collection plate around the side

  • @Hubcity-eo3qf

    @Hubcity-eo3qf

    5 ай бұрын

    Don't be a menace funny as fuck 🤣

  • @mbtotall
    @mbtotall7 ай бұрын

    And that's the truth, The whole truth, and nothing but the truth. Very well said.

  • @djfeelings
    @djfeelings2 ай бұрын

    I needed to hear this. I’ve dated several people who would collapse into tears or rage when triggered and throw their emotions at me. It was my job to take it and empathize with them, but I was shoving my own emotions down in doing so. It became my role to always be the one who takes it and empathizes. I love your post and everyone’s comments because it shows me that I’m not alone and thinking that those folks who I dated weren’t ready for me to fully show up, because when I did, they would start crying or start lashing out. I had worked my ass off to not do that myself and it would result in me exploding in a huge torrent of rage further down the line. No more of that. From now on, I’m making my own space and not folding over.

  • @landrat3481
    @landrat34816 ай бұрын

    Well said ❤

  • @trenastewart2599
    @trenastewart25997 ай бұрын

    She is the realist, with everything being very well said.. very intelligent and speaks with great confidence. I love it, much love and respect .

  • @jackma77
    @jackma776 ай бұрын

    I’m leaving exactly on the account of that. No disrespect will fly under my watch, only we know what we want and only we can fight for it!

  • @FlavorChefYani
    @FlavorChefYani3 ай бұрын

    Telling the whole truth!!❤️

  • @cortezconquistador
    @cortezconquistador7 ай бұрын

    Damn she spoke truth.

  • @ViralClips762
    @ViralClips7626 ай бұрын

    Those types of women don't wanna hear this😂😅😂😅😂😅

  • @storororo216
    @storororo2168 ай бұрын

    She just nailed it!

  • @mauriceborton5151
    @mauriceborton51518 ай бұрын

    Facts, Mike Drop.

  • @libraking3260
    @libraking32606 ай бұрын

    DAMN!!! SHE SPOKE SOME REAL TALK!!! KUDOS MA'AM 👏🏾

  • @donaldchesser157
    @donaldchesser1575 ай бұрын

    Young men don't waste a single moment in your life in conversation with women about what women want

  • @MrK010
    @MrK0106 ай бұрын

    The Americans refer to the ordinary man as an emotionally intelligent man!!

  • @tam6011

    @tam6011

    6 ай бұрын

    Facts. I am like isn’t that a regular man or regular person

  • @conradsealy9603
    @conradsealy96036 ай бұрын

    To put it short. Women,if you cant keep up,dont step up.

  • @rdntknight
    @rdntknight3 ай бұрын

    Found her! KITTY ROSE!!!!

  • @BolitaDeKetica
    @BolitaDeKetica8 ай бұрын

    Same as women demanding a “traditional men.” You ain’t traditional, but rather “traditionaLIST.” As in wanting traditional outcomes, while clinging to this current “BossBabe/I really don’t need you” bullshit.

  • @janeotieno6378

    @janeotieno6378

    8 ай бұрын

    How do you mean?Please elaborate further

  • @BolitaDeKetica

    @BolitaDeKetica

    8 ай бұрын

    @@janeotieno6378 Read again.

  • @asdfdc1946

    @asdfdc1946

    8 ай бұрын

    @@janeotieno6378 he explained it thoroughly the first time... modern western/american women (ie: the majority of women in this comments section) they want a traditional man who doesn't go 50/50 & pays all the bills & holds him to traditional standards, he has to be the handy man do all the hard manual labor around the house, move furniture, fix car engines etc... but the women doesn't want to be soft, feminine, submissive & wants to be a feminist, boss diva that constantly screams to him that she's independent, she makes her own money & because of that she constantly reminds him that she doesn't need him, as if the only thing he's good for is money... which is not a traditional woman. a traditional woman is one who cooks, cleans, stays at home, takes care of the kids, has sex with him when he wants, rubs his back, is quiet, doesn't argue with him & gives him peace in his home when he comes back from work... modern american/western women want traditional men without being traditional themselves. modern women demand a lot from the men while not bringing much to the table themselves. they say, I bring this career & these degrees to the table, but men don't care, because men are expected to be the providers, so men don't care about women's money or degrees. so women who think their degrees make them valuable in dating bring nothing to the table that men want.

  • @grindhard4312

    @grindhard4312

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@@BolitaDeKeticaExactly😂😂😂 Read it again

  • @bryangosling2238

    @bryangosling2238

    6 ай бұрын

    ​​@@asdfdc1946 Also, I would like to add, most modern woman don't want to date down, while the traditional men they are seeking is automatically obliged to "date down" because in a moderns womans eyes, the "man", particularly, The "Traditional, Emotional Intelligent, Mature, High Value Men", that alot of these woman speak of, are the ones "above all else", the "1%" of man, the "one" etc. Etc. But the problem is, many of these woman aren't the "1%" themselves and are "the common folk" "the usual" and actually, what's even more "frightening" is that some these woman are the ones that are the "toxic, negative, BS, headaches, heartaches" etc. Etc. That is pretty much the monster of woman that most, if not, all men try to avoid and don't want to be around, but these kinds of woman expect the "1%" men to take them? Then, exepect the other 99% of other men to be like the 1% too? Highly highly unrealistic and the expectations do not meet the requirements of the 1% man anyways, then they go off and say that because of that 1 or few guys is, that means all guys are the same, that's where the problem lies and the delusions and issues with manipulation, disagreements, lack of communication and understanding, violence, verbal abuse, uncontrolled chaos, immaturity, wedlocks, kids dilemma, financial crisis or simply financial unsatisfactory where the money is decent, but simply not agreeable on both sides and goes into that whole "ride or die" type woman some men want, but usually get disappointed cause some aren't like that and would walk on the back of that guy, for another guy for power or "something better", which is glorified and how we end up with woman with high body counts and promiscuity and encouraged.

  • @grindhard4312
    @grindhard43126 ай бұрын

    Thank you sister! For breaking this down. I've been seeing goofy ahss women all over the Internet talking about men being emotional intelligent lol. Always some goofy ish. Knowing daggone well she couldn't deal or stomach an emotional intelligent man with their chaotic mindset

  • @angieangel8571
    @angieangel8571Ай бұрын

    PREACH IT Kitty

  • @lghtnsweet1431
    @lghtnsweet14318 ай бұрын

    Pure FACTZZZ

  • @Present4
    @Present4Ай бұрын

    Preach Sister

  • @domoniquejewel4759
    @domoniquejewel47597 ай бұрын

    Every clip I done seen of her!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @ericscott1701
    @ericscott17015 ай бұрын

    Smart and beautiful. Loved this

  • @EricFortuneJr.
    @EricFortuneJr.7 ай бұрын

    She’s not lying.

  • @aishalipham2855
    @aishalipham28555 ай бұрын

    Emotionally intelligent men are a force to be reckoned with and not for the everyday person. Not only for all those above reasons but they can see the holes in you and will make you see it and fix it yourself. Most women could not handle an emotionally intelligent man. It’s a whole new ball game lol. But I love these guys, they have taught me more than I ever thought I could learn but the lessons are really really HARD! They are irreplaceable once you meet one but they are rare.

  • @hunteruhuruazrael
    @hunteruhuruazrael6 ай бұрын

    That was beautifully said

  • @eliot011
    @eliot0118 ай бұрын

    Where can I watch this whole episode?

  • @CrystalNelson-xb6oh
    @CrystalNelson-xb6oh7 ай бұрын

    True...... Absolutely that's a two-way street but when a person play and don't come with it they'll get the cutoff game real quick for and I just don't have time absolutely..... Some of it is common sense and a lot of people don't usually use a lot of common sense with that so that's to be expected but then when you do it back to them but they need to do they need to understand you know the same exact thing but then at the end of the day it's how you handle your yourself in the situation at the same time you can't always build up by yourself up or going to a frenzy when your partner is trying to sit back and say something to you absolutely...... This is why I said everything is not for everyone and that girl hit the nail on the head with a hammer 🔨.....

  • @Lord123
    @Lord1236 ай бұрын

    Speaking truth.

  • @mattmayers3012
    @mattmayers30128 ай бұрын

    FACTS!!

  • @mesha0314
    @mesha03148 ай бұрын

    Yes maaam...Preach...That's that masculine man...where he at??

  • @shevaray
    @shevaray6 ай бұрын

    She is so right!!

  • @bp1194
    @bp11945 ай бұрын

    May the womb that carried you be blessed my sister.

  • @davidjordan2968
    @davidjordan29687 ай бұрын

    She's right! I just walked out of my chick's spot last night and went home 😂

  • @GQ-jv9uw
    @GQ-jv9uwАй бұрын

    She made good points

  • @sadiefrazier9314
    @sadiefrazier93148 ай бұрын

    Amen so true

  • @lindamccloud3434
    @lindamccloud34344 ай бұрын

    I agree with her. Thats Facts!!

  • @shanattasmith9593
    @shanattasmith95938 ай бұрын

    Facts!!!! ❤❤

  • @JCBaptista_
    @JCBaptista_5 ай бұрын

    Dam this queen been spittin

  • @omegawicked1
    @omegawicked16 ай бұрын

    Oh a man who can spot a MALFUNCTION

  • @ikandi4ya
    @ikandi4ya8 ай бұрын

    Preach!

  • @neromax100
    @neromax1006 ай бұрын

    It’s a fool’s world. It seems, the world only starts caring, when you stop.

  • @In73ll3c7u5
    @In73ll3c7u58 ай бұрын

    YEESSSSSSSSSSSSS🙋🏾‍♂️🙋🏾‍♂️🙋🏾‍♂️🙋🏾‍♂️,Glory beeeeeeeee

  • @Ironaddicts137
    @Ironaddicts1376 ай бұрын

    Factssss baby 🤌🏻

  • @gareydrummond7254
    @gareydrummond72547 ай бұрын

    10000000% Preach Black Queen Preach!

  • @altheahoyt3795
    @altheahoyt37958 ай бұрын

    WEEEEELLLLL,.... If she didn't hit THAT nail on it's head‼️😜. It's like the old saying: Be careful of WHATTTTTT YOUUU WISH/PRAY FOR ‼️ CUZ YOU JUST MIGHT GET IT ‼️.... That's why you must be precise in all areas and prayers and in your mind and in your life...#JUSTMY2CENT

  • @mattphillips6667
    @mattphillips6667Ай бұрын

    This is brilliant

  • @alexkajuba7891
    @alexkajuba78915 ай бұрын

    Wisdom to the nth degree. Nothing but respect and admiration for a queen worthy of her 👑

  • @herudevinci2861
    @herudevinci28616 ай бұрын

    I heard this playing in the background and had to check it out she was saying some real talk

  • @emmebee1168
    @emmebee11687 ай бұрын

    Preach!! Omggggggooodness.

  • @scorpion.blue2000
    @scorpion.blue20006 ай бұрын

    Hope I develop to be a man of this perspective. It takes time, mistakes, and humility to reflect, that shapes this maturity and intelligence. Some find it quickly some find it slowly. I feel like I am of the slow kind. Lol but it's progress not perfection.

  • @josephcallahan4444
    @josephcallahan44445 ай бұрын

    Whatever groupchat her and trip got, I need an invite because lord have mercy 🔥

  • @ritchiebarbier729
    @ritchiebarbier729Ай бұрын

    Facts!

  • @gornjvn1
    @gornjvn15 ай бұрын

    Yo, she speakin facts!

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