Is this true about people who choose “toxic” relationships over healthy ones? 👀
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@bjnaves11925 ай бұрын
Her and Tripp are probably the most reasonable hosts on this platform in my opinion. They just seem to get to the root of these questions without all the BS
@henrynobleiii3237
5 ай бұрын
You said something then!!!
@vaclinciapounds8859
5 ай бұрын
Exactly!!
@jbogle531
5 ай бұрын
Word. Those 2 got it.
@kristalliiite6408
5 ай бұрын
Yeah they are the only ones, the other two I think are just their for entertainment
@arthurphillips1455
5 ай бұрын
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 U HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD 👌🏿💥✊🏿‼️
@Mrnmayse5 ай бұрын
I wanna say it again and let's say it always. I love this woman. She brings common sense to the whole problem.
@dasugo
Ай бұрын
i see her face. I click and listen. she is good.
@clytchan5 ай бұрын
Some of us are raised in dysfunctional households, and consider that normal. That’s why toxicity is so attractive to some people, they’re addicted to drama. If they ever get with someone who’s decent and well adjusted, more often than not, it won’t last. Because the dysfunctional person will feel something’s missing; chaos. It’s sad, but true.
@codyp2808
5 ай бұрын
It’s not a permanent personality trait. They can work to accept and find love how it is actually shown. Fighting isn’t love. It’s just an emotional drug
@SL1133DZ
5 ай бұрын
Per facts! Exactly what happened to me. It was too peaceful and not enough drama going on, so they✌🏾🤭.
@WomanWithHISPlan-un4rp
5 ай бұрын
YEP SO TRUE! THIS is exactly why I broke up with someone last year. He was so used to people talking down to him his whole life, had a toxic ex wife who put others before him, he was used to having to lead with his money, etc. I told him it’s like you hate me for actually being the one to care. He couldn’t BELIEVE how calm and peaceful I was (even though he said that’s what attracted him to me in the first place 🤦🏽♀️) because he was so used to chaos. The first time/day I argued with him is the same day I broke up with him. If I can’t be my feminine, peaceful, encouraging, happy, extremely loving self with you then I can NOT be with you! Those types of people don’t understand that you have to become a totally different type of person in order to be with them and it’s NOT worth your peace!!! ❤️
@clytchan
5 ай бұрын
@@SL1133DZSame here. 😣
@bsp5689
5 күн бұрын
@@codyp2808but that’s the thing you have to do the WORK!!!!!If you were raised on fast food and not exercising but hope to get a 6 pack later in life you can’t just sit on your butt and hope you get one one day…you have to put in the HARDWORK….ppl don’t do that these days especially black ppl….we’re the group least likely to go to therapy smh
@Peacealways2474 ай бұрын
Many times toxic people are seeking peaceful people because they feel that the person will provide the peace they need but if they don't have it within themselves, they will destroy that peaceful person by being jealous and envious. We must have discernment.
@tousainthart-yc1tr5 ай бұрын
Somebody other than Tripp speaking the Gospel on stage, she always brings her A Game, also the toxicity addiction goes both ways
@JackieS8125 ай бұрын
Ms. Kittie, always bring it and guess what, she don’t have to use profanity to make her point! Love you Ms. Kittie!
@joeblackston3884
3 ай бұрын
😒😒😒😒
@davidMRherobetts5 ай бұрын
There needs to be a dual panel with just Kitty and Trip. All the others just say what they want to get the most hype and crowd cheers. But these two speak with for real wisdom.
@joeblackston3884
3 ай бұрын
Faxxxxxxology👊🏾
@FaithandPurpose828
12 күн бұрын
Was Kitty the woman who spoke? If so, I agree.
@onebree4u5 ай бұрын
Breaking them generational cursed and behavioral issues will attract the right people to you.
@aubriellemorgan
4 ай бұрын
Amen
@victoriasegall3404
4 ай бұрын
😊👌
@Aaron.M88
4 ай бұрын
That's it right there. Guarantee you, there's a sermon in there somewhere.
@coachkeith6435 ай бұрын
Once again the only woman on this panel who makes sense and she's the only one who's married. What a shocker.
@gelliewelly4894
5 ай бұрын
Kita is married as well.
@coachkeith643
4 ай бұрын
@@gelliewelly4894 which one is she? Is she on this video?
@gelliewelly4894
4 ай бұрын
@@coachkeith643 yes, she’s sitting right next to this young lady.
@ShyTee21
4 ай бұрын
She is very intelligent and mature, level headed
@claymorekwaramba69375 ай бұрын
She's not over him yet . It's an addiction to dysfunction
@mr.israel6564
5 ай бұрын
Right, I'm like is this question about a dude who's not there..instead of her
@bbounce8035 ай бұрын
They be speaking to our soul on this joint lol
@PhilomenaAletheia5 ай бұрын
PREACH💯💯💯& say it LOUD FOR THE GALS IN THE BACK 👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️ I’ve had this concept on my mind for over a year… but couldn’t put the phenomenon into words. So, Thank you for explaining this- TO TRUE PERFECTION.
@rochellethundercloud3465 ай бұрын
Valid. If you only know dysfunction,chaos,abuse, toxicity, that becomes normal for you. Anything that deviates from that is anxiety inducing. You don't know how to handle a healthy relationship,so you,more often than not, will destroy it.
@MT-hk9cp
5 ай бұрын
Had an ex destroy our realationship and he realized it years later that he doesn't identify with normalcy. Married a woman who was a nut and now going through a divorce. We are friends now and I'm so glad he broke up with me😂
@ICEMAN-fm4dx5 ай бұрын
Her and Tripp are ALWAYS on Point
@vaclinciapounds88595 ай бұрын
I love Ms Kiitie!! She always brings a lot of insight into the panel with every conversation!! Keep dropping those gems!! 💎 ✨️ 🙏🏽
@michaelhawkins54105 ай бұрын
💯💯💯💯 it goes both ways. We don’t like toxicity either
@Wyndamn
5 ай бұрын
Nobody likes Toxicity, male or female.
@calvinmack71245 ай бұрын
I honestly don't understand people who want to come home to toxicity and chaos in their own home. I deal with that all day outside my home... Peace is what my woman provides and what I enjoy coming home to.
@victoriasegall3404
4 ай бұрын
Bravo! I am of the same mindset. I absolutely CAN'T STAND chaos! I stay well back from those who live In, and continually attract, toxicity, and I no longer let it come to my place! Wishing you and your girlfriend much happiness! 😊👌
@calvinmack7124
4 ай бұрын
@@victoriasegall3404 I don't have time for the nonsense... especially the older I get....Appreciate it! Be safe out here.
@user-de1wg5sn3o3 ай бұрын
Ms. Kitty needs her own podcast ❤️ God please make it happen for this Queen❤️
@shymybabes5 ай бұрын
I always wondered why my sister deliberately went after men who were toxic and would pass up men who tried to love her.... this explanation makes so much sense. We didn't have the best upbrining. It's almost like she's recreating our childhood environment.
@Lisa_Lisa312
5 ай бұрын
I'm proud you can make the connection. The foundation laid down in our childhood will repeat, unless we INTENTIONALLY break and pour new foundation.
@victoriasegall3404
4 ай бұрын
@@Lisa_Lisa312 Wise words, indeed!😊👌
@isaiahallen2445 ай бұрын
If he is attracted to toxic women, and you're with him!? And vice-versa. My wife says, when you point your finger, three fingers are pointing back at you.
@bryangosling2238
5 ай бұрын
Your wife had some bars words! Respect. I Like that comment: "When you point your finger somewhere, 3 fingers are pointed back!" lol I never really looked at it like that till I realize, wait, my thumb is down my index finger is pointed forward, but then my middle, pinky, ring finger are actually pointed back to me! I'm going to keep that line...lol thanks
@LOVEJONES335 ай бұрын
Whewwww a word !!! It’s a mental thing
@darnelldaniels41094 ай бұрын
My God .....she spoke that very well 💯
@Mrs.DanielsIRL4 ай бұрын
Yes she is right. I dodged a lot of bullets when I was single by honoring myself and not becoming something Im not.
@ltaylor55392 ай бұрын
I explained this to my ex husband almost three years ago. I've watched him date and cultivate relationships during and after we ended, he consistently brings confusion into each relationship he is in. I explained to him you like confusion because you create it in every relationship you're in.
@tinyking115 ай бұрын
😮💨🔥💯 Ms. Kittie not lying, my ex bf told me upfront he preferred toxic women bc the sex was better. Also he would always try to find a problem so we could argue and he would get mad when I wouldn’t argue back with him bc I’m not toxic nor argumentative. That relationship was so draining. I’m glad I got out. I need a non-toxic man as well. It seem like most men out here love chaos and drama. I don’t. I grew up with parents that argued 24/7, dysfunction and domestic violence. I want the total opposite of that.
@joeblackston3884
3 ай бұрын
Most men love chaos and drama😲😲😲
@altheahoyt37955 ай бұрын
I JUST LOOOVVVVEEE to hear her speak the truth and the facts of the matter of the problem at hand. No BS just straight to IT ‼️‼️‼️
@leovypanes79622 ай бұрын
Those attracted to chaos find a person with inner peace boring and emotionless.
@alexatkins95153 ай бұрын
I agree with everything she said except for the attracting part because you can attract any & everything I would have instead said entertain. What part about you wants to entertain this toxicity not attract. That’s the part that needs to be acknowledged & resolved. I believe it’s the part of her that is emotionally unavailable.
@trenastewart25994 ай бұрын
Love you, Kiddie. You are a great speaker
@hennessytheblackrose65195 ай бұрын
FACTS BIG FACTS Unfortunately some people are born into toxicity and don’t even realize it it is their normal self love is so important thank you
@cspring32215 ай бұрын
She gives the best advice!! Love her
@ruthcook85995 ай бұрын
#KITTY TELL THAT TRUTH GIRL 🖤🎯🔥💯
@christielove28775 ай бұрын
No truer words spoken
@angelaholloway532119 күн бұрын
Right on point!
@grayw.hemphilliii20023 ай бұрын
FACTS, straight from the top rope on to a suplex!
@jeto.97875 ай бұрын
Kitty never fucking misses man. Trip and Kitty stay getting it.
@stephenfoster125719 күн бұрын
Don’t be grateful for what someone else has,be grateful for the chaos that you missed.
@jenniferrowland30785 ай бұрын
I hope all the people in the back heard her lol. Straight up TRUTH!!!!
@JulindaLeDee4 ай бұрын
I found this to be true in my last relationship. He couldn't handle peace.
@01Mariah104 ай бұрын
Ayee this is the truth here! It's not that you're not good enough he likes what he's been attuned to like. He doesn't see it an issue
@craigarandolph5 ай бұрын
Love her mentality on relationships 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️
@nataliesmith86573 ай бұрын
I appreciate this side of Kitty❤
@tinaj96214 ай бұрын
Love this. Its unfortunate that the odds are against us. I feel many of us unfortunately may have a bit of damage 💔 but some of of won't crush the souls of other with abuse or betrayal, cheating, etc. Like we know that's horrible and wrong. We at least know to avoid that. But others, hell they will continue in this, never truly grow in the core. So it just seems the odds are kinda high that you'll meet someone like. This but they'll quickly show you the real deal. So when u notice, don't fight for the relationship. Get the hell on.
@sandragilchrist36025 ай бұрын
This got me wanting to play Darts 😂😂😂
@bellawilde21694 ай бұрын
I love this lady
@SyndicateTheLonelyGun4 ай бұрын
She really do got bars.
@mjunior1413Ай бұрын
Facts💯
@br0wnsug4535 ай бұрын
She's so pretty
@naebae94685 ай бұрын
My mama always told me that people are a reflection of their household and their up bringing. You cant chanhr someone whos been brought up in a toxic environment no matter what age really because they can only do what theyve been taught and what's instilled in them from birth.
@w_s-235 ай бұрын
Her Tripp get it off like no other, but they are all good, but i do agree these two seem to know how to put the words in place
@Rua007Ай бұрын
It always comes back to self... These women will never understand that.
@belevhersboutique47274 ай бұрын
She always has a great perspective
@YelloLibra835 ай бұрын
Every person you meet will always be a lesson. Watch those Red and Green flags.
@Yall2funee85 ай бұрын
AMEN PERIOD. BORING IS THE NEW SEXY AND HEALTHY🎉😊
@nicoleblake27005 ай бұрын
I love this
@HeadUpWingsOut4 ай бұрын
I agreed until the final statement..it's unfounded that there is something inside of a person that attracts toxic people. Toxic people are manipulative.
@victoriasegall3404
4 ай бұрын
Exactly! My father was a toxic person, and was manipulative with my mother. My first boyfriend was likewise. What Mother (1930-2013) and I had in us was genuine goodness. These toxic people see it, no doubt, but don't know what to do with it.
@glynnisharper7216
3 ай бұрын
@@victoriasegall3404oh, they know what to do with it, alright. And that is to abuse ur kindness and control u for their gain. One of my exes wasn't physically abusive, but boy did he play on my heartstrings.
@notyobestie42205 ай бұрын
PREACHHHH!!!!!!!!
@sheysheycho5 ай бұрын
God danm mama you deep, spitting fire
@johnmoore47142 ай бұрын
Kitty 😺 preach sista
@robertrath39844 ай бұрын
This is exactly what I went through with my ex-girlfriend😢
@joeblackston3884
3 ай бұрын
Did you say ex-girlfriend, b/c some women in the comments. Only think men are toxic🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
@KeisiaLashawn234 ай бұрын
Where’s the full episode?
@TheRazorTongue5 ай бұрын
Telling the truth.
@cherylnisbett59595 ай бұрын
So darn true
@denisereese76145 ай бұрын
Amen.
@renee71135 ай бұрын
I love her examples. She is very emotionally intelligent.
@larissamartin97325 ай бұрын
Owww weee 🔥💯🥰
@lindaojeda4935 ай бұрын
Yes ma'am
@Yvng_Zy5 ай бұрын
Facts
@lovenskydemorcy49335 ай бұрын
Nothing but facts
@thisloverofgod6584 ай бұрын
I disagree with that last part on the flip side toxic people are also attracted to great people. It’s a power trip to be able to dominate that. Demons are attracted to light. They know they’ll ever be light 💡 so they feed off it.
@EricWheeler-rz5cy5 ай бұрын
Naaw naawww nawww , that good person in your heart nonsense needs to manifest itself at some point! And allow your significant other determine if that's love or not according to their understanding!
@vmrogers725 ай бұрын
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@ataye1Ай бұрын
I didn't even know that I liked toxic women. That's all I was use to.
@franciestyles71815 ай бұрын
This is deep
@obinnaochiagha10975 ай бұрын
The adage - 'a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush', can be a stupid notion sometimes especially when it comes to relationships.
@sandragilchrist36025 ай бұрын
🎯
@teer70444 ай бұрын
Exactly...move on. I didn't know those kind of men actually exist...sooo glad...I don't do toxic or drama
@Foeforever312 күн бұрын
😮😮😮😮😮 so true
@Jai-Barnes5 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤
@lydiachagga69463 ай бұрын
Oooh yes 😅😅
@ka92025 ай бұрын
Sometimes having a "type" ain't a good thing.
@cjohnson_5 ай бұрын
This is like 90% of most people. Men and Women 😢
@JoeManeTv5 ай бұрын
True
@JM-ey6fe20 күн бұрын
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
@carlettethomas52525 ай бұрын
❤❤
@nellam.5 ай бұрын
Who's this woman because wow 👌
@akstylez_ak50375 ай бұрын
I’d really like to ask what is toxic behavior and when is a person considered as toxic 🤷🏽♀️. I think people use that word just the wrong way
@TruMizzou3145 ай бұрын
That's not 100% true i come from a broken house drug dealing &using abuse all of kinds of chaos. I dislike anything that unsettling i find comfort in peace and women with goals that's working towards them and more... My dad was never around & my mom was never a mother I learned by watching & listening.. at how not to treat someone..its a mindset your environment molds you but it never dictate who you are or what u can become 🤷
@dwighty8255 ай бұрын
Good words my Sister. **One thing - ditch the wigs and let your beauty show - PLEASE❣️❣️❣️
@deborahbrown85704 ай бұрын
He will be a nuisance..🏃♂️
@wenipreye21643 ай бұрын
Who's this woman??? ❤❤❤
@lobecosc5 ай бұрын
Interesting
@crazycriz50005 ай бұрын
She has a point, but men aren’t really like that. If a man grew up in that he will most likely go away from it in his adult years. Trauma shapes and sculpts men more often than not. It also may depend on if he’s a really young man or if he’s approaching his 30s.
@w_s-235 ай бұрын
Simple Common sense
@gabriellehanks68504 ай бұрын
She was wrong about one thing. The whole "you attract who you are" shtick is an overused and untrue cliché statement that just sounds good. You will attract all types of people if you're attractive or have certain attractive qualities. You don't have any control over who finds you attractive. That said, you have total control over who and what you TOLERATE..💯
@TheMisssunshine19732 ай бұрын
Ok
@melgood85 ай бұрын
Please stop saying if you keep attracting toxic people look into yourself ….. the only thing I can think of is a person wanting to be needed. Or try to fix everything ( enabler)
@KinseeingRed5 ай бұрын
She just described a woman not a man
@dreski833 ай бұрын
Jesus Approved!
@professorhawk7774 ай бұрын
Man, if you really pay attention...she equated a toxic man to have to similar logic and reasoning to that of an emotionally damaged woman. A man who thinks like that is dangerous to himself and others. A man shouldn't be ruled by his emotions...and a woman who is attracted to an emotional man isn't healthy either...
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Her and Tripp are probably the most reasonable hosts on this platform in my opinion. They just seem to get to the root of these questions without all the BS
@henrynobleiii3237
5 ай бұрын
You said something then!!!
@vaclinciapounds8859
5 ай бұрын
Exactly!!
@jbogle531
5 ай бұрын
Word. Those 2 got it.
@kristalliiite6408
5 ай бұрын
Yeah they are the only ones, the other two I think are just their for entertainment
@arthurphillips1455
5 ай бұрын
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 U HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD 👌🏿💥✊🏿‼️
I wanna say it again and let's say it always. I love this woman. She brings common sense to the whole problem.
@dasugo
Ай бұрын
i see her face. I click and listen. she is good.
Some of us are raised in dysfunctional households, and consider that normal. That’s why toxicity is so attractive to some people, they’re addicted to drama. If they ever get with someone who’s decent and well adjusted, more often than not, it won’t last. Because the dysfunctional person will feel something’s missing; chaos. It’s sad, but true.
@codyp2808
5 ай бұрын
It’s not a permanent personality trait. They can work to accept and find love how it is actually shown. Fighting isn’t love. It’s just an emotional drug
@SL1133DZ
5 ай бұрын
Per facts! Exactly what happened to me. It was too peaceful and not enough drama going on, so they✌🏾🤭.
@WomanWithHISPlan-un4rp
5 ай бұрын
YEP SO TRUE! THIS is exactly why I broke up with someone last year. He was so used to people talking down to him his whole life, had a toxic ex wife who put others before him, he was used to having to lead with his money, etc. I told him it’s like you hate me for actually being the one to care. He couldn’t BELIEVE how calm and peaceful I was (even though he said that’s what attracted him to me in the first place 🤦🏽♀️) because he was so used to chaos. The first time/day I argued with him is the same day I broke up with him. If I can’t be my feminine, peaceful, encouraging, happy, extremely loving self with you then I can NOT be with you! Those types of people don’t understand that you have to become a totally different type of person in order to be with them and it’s NOT worth your peace!!! ❤️
@clytchan
5 ай бұрын
@@SL1133DZSame here. 😣
@bsp5689
5 күн бұрын
@@codyp2808but that’s the thing you have to do the WORK!!!!!If you were raised on fast food and not exercising but hope to get a 6 pack later in life you can’t just sit on your butt and hope you get one one day…you have to put in the HARDWORK….ppl don’t do that these days especially black ppl….we’re the group least likely to go to therapy smh
Many times toxic people are seeking peaceful people because they feel that the person will provide the peace they need but if they don't have it within themselves, they will destroy that peaceful person by being jealous and envious. We must have discernment.
Somebody other than Tripp speaking the Gospel on stage, she always brings her A Game, also the toxicity addiction goes both ways
Ms. Kittie, always bring it and guess what, she don’t have to use profanity to make her point! Love you Ms. Kittie!
@joeblackston3884
3 ай бұрын
😒😒😒😒
There needs to be a dual panel with just Kitty and Trip. All the others just say what they want to get the most hype and crowd cheers. But these two speak with for real wisdom.
@joeblackston3884
3 ай бұрын
Faxxxxxxology👊🏾
@FaithandPurpose828
12 күн бұрын
Was Kitty the woman who spoke? If so, I agree.
Breaking them generational cursed and behavioral issues will attract the right people to you.
@aubriellemorgan
4 ай бұрын
Amen
@victoriasegall3404
4 ай бұрын
😊👌
@Aaron.M88
4 ай бұрын
That's it right there. Guarantee you, there's a sermon in there somewhere.
Once again the only woman on this panel who makes sense and she's the only one who's married. What a shocker.
@gelliewelly4894
5 ай бұрын
Kita is married as well.
@coachkeith643
4 ай бұрын
@@gelliewelly4894 which one is she? Is she on this video?
@gelliewelly4894
4 ай бұрын
@@coachkeith643 yes, she’s sitting right next to this young lady.
@ShyTee21
4 ай бұрын
She is very intelligent and mature, level headed
She's not over him yet . It's an addiction to dysfunction
@mr.israel6564
5 ай бұрын
Right, I'm like is this question about a dude who's not there..instead of her
They be speaking to our soul on this joint lol
PREACH💯💯💯& say it LOUD FOR THE GALS IN THE BACK 👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️ I’ve had this concept on my mind for over a year… but couldn’t put the phenomenon into words. So, Thank you for explaining this- TO TRUE PERFECTION.
Valid. If you only know dysfunction,chaos,abuse, toxicity, that becomes normal for you. Anything that deviates from that is anxiety inducing. You don't know how to handle a healthy relationship,so you,more often than not, will destroy it.
@MT-hk9cp
5 ай бұрын
Had an ex destroy our realationship and he realized it years later that he doesn't identify with normalcy. Married a woman who was a nut and now going through a divorce. We are friends now and I'm so glad he broke up with me😂
Her and Tripp are ALWAYS on Point
I love Ms Kiitie!! She always brings a lot of insight into the panel with every conversation!! Keep dropping those gems!! 💎 ✨️ 🙏🏽
💯💯💯💯 it goes both ways. We don’t like toxicity either
@Wyndamn
5 ай бұрын
Nobody likes Toxicity, male or female.
I honestly don't understand people who want to come home to toxicity and chaos in their own home. I deal with that all day outside my home... Peace is what my woman provides and what I enjoy coming home to.
@victoriasegall3404
4 ай бұрын
Bravo! I am of the same mindset. I absolutely CAN'T STAND chaos! I stay well back from those who live In, and continually attract, toxicity, and I no longer let it come to my place! Wishing you and your girlfriend much happiness! 😊👌
@calvinmack7124
4 ай бұрын
@@victoriasegall3404 I don't have time for the nonsense... especially the older I get....Appreciate it! Be safe out here.
Ms. Kitty needs her own podcast ❤️ God please make it happen for this Queen❤️
I always wondered why my sister deliberately went after men who were toxic and would pass up men who tried to love her.... this explanation makes so much sense. We didn't have the best upbrining. It's almost like she's recreating our childhood environment.
@Lisa_Lisa312
5 ай бұрын
I'm proud you can make the connection. The foundation laid down in our childhood will repeat, unless we INTENTIONALLY break and pour new foundation.
@victoriasegall3404
4 ай бұрын
@@Lisa_Lisa312 Wise words, indeed!😊👌
If he is attracted to toxic women, and you're with him!? And vice-versa. My wife says, when you point your finger, three fingers are pointing back at you.
@bryangosling2238
5 ай бұрын
Your wife had some bars words! Respect. I Like that comment: "When you point your finger somewhere, 3 fingers are pointed back!" lol I never really looked at it like that till I realize, wait, my thumb is down my index finger is pointed forward, but then my middle, pinky, ring finger are actually pointed back to me! I'm going to keep that line...lol thanks
Whewwww a word !!! It’s a mental thing
My God .....she spoke that very well 💯
Yes she is right. I dodged a lot of bullets when I was single by honoring myself and not becoming something Im not.
I explained this to my ex husband almost three years ago. I've watched him date and cultivate relationships during and after we ended, he consistently brings confusion into each relationship he is in. I explained to him you like confusion because you create it in every relationship you're in.
😮💨🔥💯 Ms. Kittie not lying, my ex bf told me upfront he preferred toxic women bc the sex was better. Also he would always try to find a problem so we could argue and he would get mad when I wouldn’t argue back with him bc I’m not toxic nor argumentative. That relationship was so draining. I’m glad I got out. I need a non-toxic man as well. It seem like most men out here love chaos and drama. I don’t. I grew up with parents that argued 24/7, dysfunction and domestic violence. I want the total opposite of that.
@joeblackston3884
3 ай бұрын
Most men love chaos and drama😲😲😲
I JUST LOOOVVVVEEE to hear her speak the truth and the facts of the matter of the problem at hand. No BS just straight to IT ‼️‼️‼️
Those attracted to chaos find a person with inner peace boring and emotionless.
I agree with everything she said except for the attracting part because you can attract any & everything I would have instead said entertain. What part about you wants to entertain this toxicity not attract. That’s the part that needs to be acknowledged & resolved. I believe it’s the part of her that is emotionally unavailable.
Love you, Kiddie. You are a great speaker
FACTS BIG FACTS Unfortunately some people are born into toxicity and don’t even realize it it is their normal self love is so important thank you
She gives the best advice!! Love her
#KITTY TELL THAT TRUTH GIRL 🖤🎯🔥💯
No truer words spoken
Right on point!
FACTS, straight from the top rope on to a suplex!
Kitty never fucking misses man. Trip and Kitty stay getting it.
Don’t be grateful for what someone else has,be grateful for the chaos that you missed.
I hope all the people in the back heard her lol. Straight up TRUTH!!!!
I found this to be true in my last relationship. He couldn't handle peace.
Ayee this is the truth here! It's not that you're not good enough he likes what he's been attuned to like. He doesn't see it an issue
Love her mentality on relationships 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️
I appreciate this side of Kitty❤
Love this. Its unfortunate that the odds are against us. I feel many of us unfortunately may have a bit of damage 💔 but some of of won't crush the souls of other with abuse or betrayal, cheating, etc. Like we know that's horrible and wrong. We at least know to avoid that. But others, hell they will continue in this, never truly grow in the core. So it just seems the odds are kinda high that you'll meet someone like. This but they'll quickly show you the real deal. So when u notice, don't fight for the relationship. Get the hell on.
This got me wanting to play Darts 😂😂😂
I love this lady
She really do got bars.
Facts💯
She's so pretty
My mama always told me that people are a reflection of their household and their up bringing. You cant chanhr someone whos been brought up in a toxic environment no matter what age really because they can only do what theyve been taught and what's instilled in them from birth.
Her Tripp get it off like no other, but they are all good, but i do agree these two seem to know how to put the words in place
It always comes back to self... These women will never understand that.
She always has a great perspective
Every person you meet will always be a lesson. Watch those Red and Green flags.
AMEN PERIOD. BORING IS THE NEW SEXY AND HEALTHY🎉😊
I love this
I agreed until the final statement..it's unfounded that there is something inside of a person that attracts toxic people. Toxic people are manipulative.
@victoriasegall3404
4 ай бұрын
Exactly! My father was a toxic person, and was manipulative with my mother. My first boyfriend was likewise. What Mother (1930-2013) and I had in us was genuine goodness. These toxic people see it, no doubt, but don't know what to do with it.
@glynnisharper7216
3 ай бұрын
@@victoriasegall3404oh, they know what to do with it, alright. And that is to abuse ur kindness and control u for their gain. One of my exes wasn't physically abusive, but boy did he play on my heartstrings.
PREACHHHH!!!!!!!!
God danm mama you deep, spitting fire
Kitty 😺 preach sista
This is exactly what I went through with my ex-girlfriend😢
@joeblackston3884
3 ай бұрын
Did you say ex-girlfriend, b/c some women in the comments. Only think men are toxic🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
Where’s the full episode?
Telling the truth.
So darn true
Amen.
I love her examples. She is very emotionally intelligent.
Owww weee 🔥💯🥰
Yes ma'am
Facts
Nothing but facts
I disagree with that last part on the flip side toxic people are also attracted to great people. It’s a power trip to be able to dominate that. Demons are attracted to light. They know they’ll ever be light 💡 so they feed off it.
Naaw naawww nawww , that good person in your heart nonsense needs to manifest itself at some point! And allow your significant other determine if that's love or not according to their understanding!
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I didn't even know that I liked toxic women. That's all I was use to.
This is deep
The adage - 'a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush', can be a stupid notion sometimes especially when it comes to relationships.
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Exactly...move on. I didn't know those kind of men actually exist...sooo glad...I don't do toxic or drama
😮😮😮😮😮 so true
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Oooh yes 😅😅
Sometimes having a "type" ain't a good thing.
This is like 90% of most people. Men and Women 😢
True
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Who's this woman because wow 👌
I’d really like to ask what is toxic behavior and when is a person considered as toxic 🤷🏽♀️. I think people use that word just the wrong way
That's not 100% true i come from a broken house drug dealing &using abuse all of kinds of chaos. I dislike anything that unsettling i find comfort in peace and women with goals that's working towards them and more... My dad was never around & my mom was never a mother I learned by watching & listening.. at how not to treat someone..its a mindset your environment molds you but it never dictate who you are or what u can become 🤷
Good words my Sister. **One thing - ditch the wigs and let your beauty show - PLEASE❣️❣️❣️
He will be a nuisance..🏃♂️
Who's this woman??? ❤❤❤
Interesting
She has a point, but men aren’t really like that. If a man grew up in that he will most likely go away from it in his adult years. Trauma shapes and sculpts men more often than not. It also may depend on if he’s a really young man or if he’s approaching his 30s.
Simple Common sense
She was wrong about one thing. The whole "you attract who you are" shtick is an overused and untrue cliché statement that just sounds good. You will attract all types of people if you're attractive or have certain attractive qualities. You don't have any control over who finds you attractive. That said, you have total control over who and what you TOLERATE..💯
Ok
Please stop saying if you keep attracting toxic people look into yourself ….. the only thing I can think of is a person wanting to be needed. Or try to fix everything ( enabler)
She just described a woman not a man
Jesus Approved!
Man, if you really pay attention...she equated a toxic man to have to similar logic and reasoning to that of an emotionally damaged woman. A man who thinks like that is dangerous to himself and others. A man shouldn't be ruled by his emotions...and a woman who is attracted to an emotional man isn't healthy either...