Is it appropriate for a man to walk his girls bestie to the car at night?

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  • @curtis75black
    @curtis75black6 ай бұрын

    If your homegirl is single and she parked down the block and it’s night time…..why wouldn’t you want your man to make sure she’s safe and walk her to the car ? Is it because she looks good and your insecurities might pop ? That’s a huge negative trait to have. You not only don’t trust your man you don’t trust your friend.

  • @jaelenrandolph2030

    @jaelenrandolph2030

    6 ай бұрын

    I’ve never seen a woman actually treat another woman’s man with respect when they are by themselves. I’d trust my man a little more than a “friend” but then again, what is a friend? I really don’t know.

  • @MsTwiththeTea1980

    @MsTwiththeTea1980

    6 ай бұрын

    @@jaelenrandolph2030me either

  • @DiverseDalliance786

    @DiverseDalliance786

    6 ай бұрын

    I think we’ve been showing 1 million and one times why folks on both sides hesitate. You act as if you’re the most upstanding citizens.

  • @rrai-

    @rrai-

    6 ай бұрын

    Cuz girls are snakes its bot about she look good.. she just dont trust her friend and most likely she shoudlnt😂

  • @mogulme6190

    @mogulme6190

    6 ай бұрын

    How about y’all walk her to the car? Everything ain’t an insecurity….I’ve had women’s friends and sisters say or insinuate inappropriate things to me when alone with them. Therefore I’d rather us both walk her to her car. That way she’s safe and there no confusion later

  • @JulindaLeDee
    @JulindaLeDee6 ай бұрын

    A real gentleman will want all of us to be safe.

  • @jesuscaberea3202

    @jesuscaberea3202

    6 ай бұрын

    Sorry but a real gentleman, Doesn't protect women that don't give a damn about him. Only his wife, mother, daughter, or sister. Please get better informed sista

  • @MsTwiththeTea1980

    @MsTwiththeTea1980

    6 ай бұрын

    Exactly

  • @elliotselmon7581

    @elliotselmon7581

    6 ай бұрын

    EXACTLY!!

  • @jesuscaberea3202

    @jesuscaberea3202

    6 ай бұрын

    @@elliotselmon7581 Bull, and more BS !!!!!! How many men have died protecting the wrong rachid, no good, disrespectful females 😒 GTFOH

  • @Mr.Oct___

    @Mr.Oct___

    6 ай бұрын

    I'd be curious to know your stance on how a "real" lady thinks and acts...

  • @MDAce150
    @MDAce1506 ай бұрын

    If your man walking your homegirl to her car at night makes you uncomfortable, then one of them gotta go. I’m a very skilled tradesman and I’ve gone to my wife’s friend’s homes alone to make repairs or assist them. Usually if I go, I’ll bring my wife if she’s available, but if not, I’ve gone alone. But my wife FOR SURE knows I’m going. At the end of the day, my wife’s close friends are like her sisters. We’re either family or we’re not. If they can’t be trusted around me, why are they even friends?

  • @Mary-cg1sl

    @Mary-cg1sl

    6 ай бұрын

    NO, not one of them has to go. That's a HER problem. She's so insecure that she can't handle her man being a kind, considerate gentleman to someone else. That says more about her than it does about either of them.

  • @MDAce150

    @MDAce150

    6 ай бұрын

    @@Mary-cg1sl We’re saying the same thing different ways… I’m saying she needs to remove one of them from her life to appease her insecurities… The inverse of that is her removing herself from one of their lives. Same outcome.

  • @Dezwrr

    @Dezwrr

    6 ай бұрын

    drop the mic🎙 💯 real talk

  • @tramainebass3371

    @tramainebass3371

    6 ай бұрын

    This topic should be a conversation about boundaries. If you’re not having these conversations upfront, and when it’s appropriate to do so, you should expect conflict in this area.

  • @scherryblakely7213

    @scherryblakely7213

    6 ай бұрын

    🎯 Absolutely

  • @augustv3ryown446
    @augustv3ryown4466 ай бұрын

    If you truly trust your man and you trust your best friend, there's nothing to be worried about. If you can't even trust your man to walk your bestie to the car in the middle of the night, you don't need a relationship or you need better friends you can trust. Social Media is really normalizing cheating and people are starting to get more and more paranoid about simple, polite gestures.

  • @TheRealThrivalist
    @TheRealThrivalist6 ай бұрын

    You know what’s crazy, these types of conversations wouldn’t even been happening 40 years ago.

  • @amenahking7863

    @amenahking7863

    6 ай бұрын

    Thanks to Maury, Jerry Springer, etc. it's at the top of alot of people's minds.

  • @RaffineDebauche

    @RaffineDebauche

    6 ай бұрын

    40 years ago this type of stuff went without saying.

  • @halfmanhalfamazing2152

    @halfmanhalfamazing2152

    6 ай бұрын

    40 years ago I don't believe most women would be over a friend's house that late. I was only 9 that far back but I do believe my memory serves me right. So I think that can become an entirely different conversation in itself.

  • @RaffineDebauche

    @RaffineDebauche

    6 ай бұрын

    @@halfmanhalfamazing2152 It wouldn’t be a regular thing (just like I don’t think it is now), but people definitely stayed over each other’s houses late for birthdays, card games, when HBO first came out and people used to go to the house of whomever had HBO, etc. At least that’s what it was like where I grew up.

  • @xavierwilliams2228

    @xavierwilliams2228

    6 ай бұрын

    @@RaffineDebauchedamn u took it back😂😂 I was born in 89 and I remember being 3 and 4 and having friends and cousins stay over late to watch def comedy jam on hbo because we was the only ones that had cable.

  • @chocolatebunnygs
    @chocolatebunnygs6 ай бұрын

    I was so surprised how many people said he'll no. Who has hurt y'all don't you want your bestie to make it home safe

  • @megandaniels3875

    @megandaniels3875

    6 ай бұрын

    Always have to beware. Blood or water will do you wrong ❤

  • @EsiriE

    @EsiriE

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@@megandaniels3875imagine living in fear lol my friends/a womans safety is more important than a fake scenario created in your head which is rooted in insecurity.

  • @laurencameron3150

    @laurencameron3150

    6 ай бұрын

    @@EsiriEExactly!

  • @Andtherewaslight427

    @Andtherewaslight427

    6 ай бұрын

    It's so disgusting. And I mean it's common sense and decency. They're so broken. They're not even supposed to be in relationships.

  • @mzmindurbusiness4489

    @mzmindurbusiness4489

    6 ай бұрын

    Of course! However, the care you show to people can be thrown in your face. Then you blame your self for not seeing it. Because you trusted people. So 🤷‍♀️. Yes I been there done that a couple times. Now I just protect my heart. And it's a no for me. Until further notice

  • @ShanecaRene
    @ShanecaRene6 ай бұрын

    My son is like this..always trying to make sure everybody is good..even a stranger

  • @cjohnson_

    @cjohnson_

    6 ай бұрын

    GOOD JOB MOM! This broad is pitiful tbh and your son is well on his way to being a stand up man!!!!

  • @ShanecaRene

    @ShanecaRene

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@@cjohnson_thank you so much..I really appreciate the kind words 💛

  • @yolandawilson6619

    @yolandawilson6619

    6 ай бұрын

    Too many lives lost behind that concept.

  • @cjohnson_

    @cjohnson_

    6 ай бұрын

    @@yolandawilson6619 🙄🙄🙄

  • @yolandawilson6619

    @yolandawilson6619

    6 ай бұрын

    @@cjohnson_ Am I lying?

  • @nerdbamarich2063
    @nerdbamarich20636 ай бұрын

    He's always dropping gems. It's sad because you had some women in the crowd yelling "no" SMH..

  • @thatsme2260

    @thatsme2260

    6 ай бұрын

    Those were the messy women who can't be trusted around their friends men

  • @laurencameron3150

    @laurencameron3150

    6 ай бұрын

    @@thatsme2260Or women that have been done wrong before. Not every woman is suspicious due to what she’s done. Sometimes she’s suspicious due to what’s been done to her or what she’s seen

  • @nerdbamarich2063

    @nerdbamarich2063

    6 ай бұрын

    @@laurencameron3150 and not every man is going to do what the other men did to them either. He shouldn't be held accountable for her insecurities to the point where it stops him from being the gentleman that he was raised to be.

  • @nerdbamarich2063

    @nerdbamarich2063

    6 ай бұрын

    @@thatsme2260 agreed!!

  • @bihsaidwhatnow2392

    @bihsaidwhatnow2392

    6 ай бұрын

    My granny just said this: "Something has crept into the hearts and minds of our community until we take on an "everyman/woman/child for himself" mentality and it's leading us to self-destruction!"

  • @devantiajordan1343
    @devantiajordan13436 ай бұрын

    The world has messed with a lot of folks' minds if people out here thinking that this behavior is wrong. It's not healthy to see every behavior as suspicious or disloyal, especially when the action is supposed to help you and your people.

  • @cjohnson_

    @cjohnson_

    6 ай бұрын

    🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

  • @mogulme6190

    @mogulme6190

    6 ай бұрын

    The world hasn’t messed with peoples minds. People have messed with peoples minds. After suffering betrayals and watching others suffer betrayal most people are on the watch for it. Everybody talks about how being aware and on guard is unhealthy but we’re ignoring that people be out here doing sneaky things daily. Let’s stop pretending for a minute….how many of us work with married people? How many of us also see ALOT of those married people flirting at work? How many times does it come out that two married people are messing with each other? How many times have some of us been that person ourselves? My point is that ultimately people ain’t shit….it’s unfortunate but it’s true, and it continues to get worse. Nobody is happy with one person anymore. Everybody has their eye on the next best option or even worse the next best experience

  • @cjohnson_

    @cjohnson_

    6 ай бұрын

    @@mogulme6190 😂😂😂 y'all need to stop using these comments as therapy n go get some irl...if you're willing to sacrifice a friend's safety bc of your insecurities that's quite ill as is even being attracted to the kind of man that doesn't gaf about your people...no essay is gonna change that

  • @brandontrammel4581

    @brandontrammel4581

    6 ай бұрын

    Facts

  • @terrenceholmes813

    @terrenceholmes813

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@@cjohnson_clearly went over your head 🙄

  • @dugnice
    @dugnice6 ай бұрын

    I agree with Tripp on this, it shouldn't even be a question. It's just proper etiquette to make sure a guest is as safe and comfortable (within reason) as the hosts can make the person until that person has left.

  • @cool_cat007smoove3

    @cool_cat007smoove3

    6 ай бұрын

    Indeed 👍

  • @busy_b22
    @busy_b226 ай бұрын

    I think that's just about the character of the man. If you are attracted to the fact that he is a gentleman/protector, would you be less attracted to him if he refused to walk her to the car? I think it would cause you to question his character....Am I wrong?

  • @EsiriE

    @EsiriE

    6 ай бұрын

    You're right lol

  • @EsiriE
    @EsiriE6 ай бұрын

    I would 100% expect my man to look out for my girls and just women in general. A man of character, respects and protects women as a whole. Not just you (his girl). This type of man is sooo attractive 😍 Anyone who has an issue with this needs to do inner work.

  • @jesuscaberea3202

    @jesuscaberea3202

    6 ай бұрын

    That's the problem, You're going to get your man killed over a random female. Please get better informed. You only protect, who's your woman, mother, daughter, sister

  • @PRena-ki1uy

    @PRena-ki1uy

    6 ай бұрын

    Damsel in distressed, then crying asking forgiveness because it just happened. Right

  • @astonprice-lockhart7261
    @astonprice-lockhart72616 ай бұрын

    The people who tend to have a balanced mindset about these kinds of topics have realized the truths behind insecurities. One, you can't control what happens. Two, playing warden is disrespectful to you and your significant other. Too much time and energy wasted. Finally, three, eventually the truth always comes out.

  • @shaolinqueen3684

    @shaolinqueen3684

    6 ай бұрын

    Women playing warden is because men fvck anything that moves.

  • @AmiMakingSense
    @AmiMakingSense6 ай бұрын

    Yes, please walk my friend to the car. I want to make sure she’s good too smh.

  • @robertjackson7568

    @robertjackson7568

    6 ай бұрын

    You right and the car should be on the back or front of the house or somewhere I can see you

  • @JessicaWhite-oe9ti
    @JessicaWhite-oe9ti6 ай бұрын

    That one woman’s eye squinted in the audience when he said if she have a problem she’d feel comfortable picking up the phone and asking me for help did anyone else see that 😅

  • @puresexxii
    @puresexxii6 ай бұрын

    I swear I wish I could have THIS man. His emotional intelligence and his individuality is sexy asf!

  • @WhoDatGee
    @WhoDatGee6 ай бұрын

    I don’t think bro understand how much I want his mindset, He’s coming from a place of maturity and as a man who hasn’t always been the best in certain situations I aspire to be like this

  • @SparkleKEP1912
    @SparkleKEP19126 ай бұрын

    It's simple manners for him to do so, especially in the world we live in now. I have to ask, if trust is missing in your relationship with your man, or with your friend, why are you in that relationship? One thing I will not subject myself to is paranoia through mistrust under any circumstances.

  • @L0ngstrip
    @L0ngstrip6 ай бұрын

    This guy is one of the most rationally consistent on these panels. Pay attention…he is saying that he is who himself always. And with respect. Who you’re dealing with shouldn’t change who you are.

  • @vs1399
    @vs13996 ай бұрын

    Gentleman and protector go hand in hand, if he's a real one. ❤❤❤

  • @ladyt6742
    @ladyt67426 ай бұрын

    This is kind of a touchy subject. Normally I would say it's all about knowing your home girl or family members. Is it ok for your hospitable woman to make sure your homeboy is well fed and his needs are met? I was married to a man from Belize. My family members old and young would put their hands on his knee (rubbing) comment on his body, run to show him pictures of them when they were young, hug him etc. He complained that one of my cousins with big breast was always trying to press into him when doing a greeting hug. He wanted me to check them. I did not, because I told him I did not allow their men to get that close to me. I eventually mentioned it to them and they denied it. Women today are worst and act very desperate.

  • @adoreivette7373

    @adoreivette7373

    6 ай бұрын

    As a big bust woman I can't hide I have big breast nor can I shift them out the way so he could have read to much into it. But I try not to hug men. Very few I would because of this, I find men usually try to push up o. The breast so to avoid that I give side hugs. I find that women who are voluptuous or curvy always seem to get placed in a different category than anyone else. It's a problem with what we wear, how we move, even to what we say.im usually the standard of fish type and 1x I said I. Foing to be nice my gf new man tried to tell her I was too friendly with him. She laughed and stood 10btoew down for me and headed him becaus3 she knew damn well that wasn't the way I move. That right there made me stick to not being friendly with males because I always seem to find they think your kindness means you want them or signal to touch. So they barely get a smile from me 😂

  • @antoniocolston8836

    @antoniocolston8836

    6 ай бұрын

    as long as her hospitality is limited to food & drinks, while we're entertaining company, then sure it's no problem at all

  • @PRena-ki1uy

    @PRena-ki1uy

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@@adoreivette7373 You are not the only curvy voluptuous female in this thread. However, I have never been accused of being to friendly because I was raised right. I know how to hug men and people in general. I am a respectable lady and I carry myself in that way.

  • @SinaAla

    @SinaAla

    6 ай бұрын

    It doesn’t make sense to extrapolate about women in general because of the problematic women in your family

  • @piersonnewton
    @piersonnewton6 ай бұрын

    If you don't trust your man to simply walk your home girl to the car... you probably need to be single for a minute and find out why your insecurities are the way they are and fix them.

  • @natashathomas8354

    @natashathomas8354

    6 ай бұрын

    Much agreed she dont trust him because I hope she not calling her, her bestie and she dibr trust her. What is this really about

  • @christiankenyanjui1860
    @christiankenyanjui18606 ай бұрын

    Hell no there should be a boundary we need to set up boundaries to maintain healthy relationships my boyfriend don't gotta walk my homegirl to her car I can do that. Shit can happen we human no one wants to admit it because they wanna sound cool but we've all seen shit go down because of this. My man has no obligation to look out for my girls I'm the one to do that I can call him up if I need his assistance and that's it.

  • @tanyagivens4338

    @tanyagivens4338

    6 ай бұрын

    If your man is a protector, then he would be the one to walk you and your friend to the car. It would not make sense for him to walk you for your protection, but then send you out alone to protect your friend. If you truly feel that way about your friend, then you cut your man's role as a protector.

  • @brandonb3262

    @brandonb3262

    6 ай бұрын

    I disagree. This sounds like a boundary to maintain an unhealthy relationship.

  • @shaolinqueen3684

    @shaolinqueen3684

    6 ай бұрын

    This. A lot of men lost their lives to women who are not worth any attention a lot of women put themselves into these sketchy situations.

  • @ohdamnman

    @ohdamnman

    6 ай бұрын

    So essentially you're saying if homegirl needs to walk to the car then she's going to have to do that on her own and if she gets jumped by somebody out there in the dark that's on her. And this also goes to the conversation about the protection of Black women.

  • @danieces.7262
    @danieces.72626 ай бұрын

    I'm definitely shocked this was even a question because.... but, okay. The response is 100% something I'd expect. I'm glad he said it aloud.

  • @brandonmontgomery7461
    @brandonmontgomery74616 ай бұрын

    You all can go together. Beyond that, there's no problem with a man looking out for your people. If that is a problem, it's time for introspection

  • @CoCo-Applebum
    @CoCo-Applebum5 ай бұрын

    I see these podcast topics and I’m blessed honestly.. I never experienced these issues y’all be having.. I like my men a lil mean I’m realizing.. we walking her, I’m walking her and he watching me or lastly we both stand on the porch and watch her.. She safe relationship cool..😎

  • @cthia45
    @cthia456 ай бұрын

    I totally respect his perspective 💞

  • @brittanyhorne4954
    @brittanyhorne49546 ай бұрын

    I love to see my man looking out for women. Being a gentleman. Yes bae, make sure these beautiful women are safe!

  • @g30rg3gp0rg
    @g30rg3gp0rg6 ай бұрын

    I love this guy. He's some insightful & respectful

  • @hisforevereva
    @hisforevereva6 ай бұрын

    If I cant have people around me that have integrity, then I dont want them. I used to have this bizarre mindset until i realized i was the problem (as in problematic and attracting problematic ppl to me). Once I figured that out, I did the necessary work. Now I cant stand in the same rooms I used to- both literally and figuratively. Thank god for growth.

  • @Flashphotography15
    @Flashphotography156 ай бұрын

    Nahhh Tripp, really don't miss. Like he said, if your man is a stand-up guy, and ya homegirl hanging out with y'all, yea, he should make sure she got to her car safe or got in her cab safe.

  • @LaymansLawVault
    @LaymansLawVault6 ай бұрын

    The fact that it’s a questions says alot.

  • @nandort5901
    @nandort59016 ай бұрын

    She should walk her home girl to the car with the guy walking behind or in front of the ladies.

  • @belizegal29

    @belizegal29

    6 ай бұрын

    I agree.

  • @gwennettevernon6548

    @gwennettevernon6548

    6 ай бұрын

    Best answer

  • @cjohnson_

    @cjohnson_

    6 ай бұрын

    Wtf 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Upwardlygoing

    @Upwardlygoing

    6 ай бұрын

    That clearly show that you don't fully trust your man

  • @cjohnson_

    @cjohnson_

    6 ай бұрын

    @@Upwardlygoing exactly...that sounded so goofy

  • @megandaniels3875
    @megandaniels38756 ай бұрын

    The times we're in. I see why she asked that question ⁉️. Not even the times. You always have to keep your good eye 👀. On every one. Yeah I wouldn't mind my guy walking her out to her car or walk with her and if she if it's dark but you definitely have to be aware though we are doing well I don't care if it's family best friend or whoever all will do you wrong ❤

  • @shadinadeguzman9497
    @shadinadeguzman94976 ай бұрын

    I love this brothers viewpoint on these topics.

  • @karenraines1738
    @karenraines17386 ай бұрын

    That’s how you were brought up! 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @titus39212
    @titus392126 ай бұрын

    I swear this brother doesn’t miss!!

  • @janairjohnson1280
    @janairjohnson12805 ай бұрын

    🗣️ Talk to 'em, Tripp‼️‼️‼️

  • @krisC1984
    @krisC19846 ай бұрын

    It's a must. He even walks my clients to their cars after dark.

  • @shaneejoseph6074
    @shaneejoseph60746 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much Tripp..... people behave like looking out for or protecting a woman is wrong just because it's a man doing a woman a favour..... nothing wrong in looking out for a person just out of human concern ....🙏♥️

  • @ebonibethea8037
    @ebonibethea80376 ай бұрын

    This mas has his EnTire head on his shoulders, his lady is blessed to have him. I personally don't even know any men that are this grounded & well adjusted.

  • @dariusbeckford8697
    @dariusbeckford86976 ай бұрын

    Funny how a lot of women said no and then after he explained the tune changed

  • @rahmellcaldwell4159
    @rahmellcaldwell41596 ай бұрын

    She described a basic act of a man being Gentleman with such confusion, it only proves to me that she has absolutely No Idea what it's like to have a Real/Quality Man in her life on any level.

  • @LoveAlways1002
    @LoveAlways10026 ай бұрын

    Yes ❤❤❤❤ It's dark and I want her to be safe!!! We are going to walk her to her car together so she has company to the car and he has company coming back to the house!!!!!!

  • @MMehAndy
    @MMehAndy6 ай бұрын

    This guy is always so thoughtful.

  • @nocapcappinton12th18
    @nocapcappinton12th186 ай бұрын

    This shit be comedy… a lot of those women initial reactions was no but when he said something about protecting women I felt an “aw yeah we do be saying that” energy creep in 🤣🤣

  • @tramainebass3371
    @tramainebass33716 ай бұрын

    Everyone is one sided in their response. How I was raised is once someone says they’re leaving everyone walked them to their car. Mom’s friend is leaving, mom and dad walks them to the car. If the homegirl had kids, the whole family walked to the car. No you don’t allow your man or woman walk someone out by themselves especially if the homie is single. It’s not about trust, it’s about prevention. Also, insecurities are not by itself a bad thing. All it’s saying is that you do not feel secure in the relationship. Why? Have they done something and were unrepentant? Lack of established boundaries? Don’t trust your friend? Or is this a past issue that you have not healed from. Before reacting address why you’re feeling that way.

  • @SinaAla

    @SinaAla

    6 ай бұрын

    My parents are from Nigeria and it is customary to walk all guests to their vehicles, like in your family 😊

  • @kickrocks93
    @kickrocks936 ай бұрын

    A real man would make sure my bestie is good. I love her. Please protect her ❤

  • @gotrescuedauto3584
    @gotrescuedauto35846 ай бұрын

    THIS DUDE IS TIED TO ME ON MATURE MAN SSSHHHIIIFFFTTT FOR DOING THINGS IN EXCELLENCE AND 🙌 SHO-NUFF QUALITY JACK

  • @wickedbunny2020
    @wickedbunny20206 ай бұрын

    My late husband would walk coworkers, strangers, whoever to thier car etc. Never once did I worry. I married him because he was like that. He was my big strong teddy bear 🐻 I miss him 😢

  • @peacefreedom4930
    @peacefreedom49306 ай бұрын

    Some of these questions and concerns are crazy. We don’t own anyone. People should be free to do whatever they choose. You should not micromanage your man or your friends. Of course I’d want my man to walk my friend to her car to make sure she’s safe. I’m not going to worry about whether they do something I wouldn’t like. I shouldn’t have to and everything done in the dark comes to the light. If it happens and I find out I’ll be hurt, lose my man and my friend. But I won’t die. Life goes on. Micromanaging ain’t gon stop anything. Let people be themselves and then you do what’s best for you.

  • @ajc1233
    @ajc12336 ай бұрын

    Yes. If you want a giving man. It should be understood and loved that he is not JUST giving to you but other womena and people around him.

  • @India-bz6yg
    @India-bz6yg4 ай бұрын

    As long as we all walking to the car... they not going alone.

  • @yolandaperry86

    @yolandaperry86

    Ай бұрын

    Exactly!

  • @ThatsWhat_She_Ced
    @ThatsWhat_She_Ced6 ай бұрын

    Funny how the crowds attitude changed from the time the question was asked to when it was answered.

  • @chrissalazar7388
    @chrissalazar73886 ай бұрын

    He right, you can’t want a good respectful guy then expect him to stop doing those things now. There’s a line in everything that can’t be crossed

  • @jahbates2532
    @jahbates25326 ай бұрын

    That was real shit certain women only what you to treat them like that. And not allow you to express it to the world who you are.

  • @majorkelly4642
    @majorkelly46426 ай бұрын

    They really did a number on us as a race. We are so separated from each other and don't even realize it. I love my people, we need to come together.🤷🏽‍♂️🙏🏽

  • @CJM7373
    @CJM73736 ай бұрын

    The fact that this is even a question is frightening and quite shocking to me. So your sister, momma, aunties, 1st/2nd/3rd cousins should be kept safe.... but we have soooo zero trust in our men and best friends- that we should let our besties get jumped. Wow! Thank God for this man's answer. A trustworthy man with a moral compass 💫

  • @jesuscaberea3202

    @jesuscaberea3202

    6 ай бұрын

    You can't go around protecting random females, It's not safe, and very dangerous for any man nowadays. Too many men are in jail, or 6 feet under protecting these females 🤔

  • @shaolinqueen3684

    @shaolinqueen3684

    6 ай бұрын

    Sisters, momma, aunties need to have their own man to rescue them. Don't come for mine.

  • @charleesummertv6109
    @charleesummertv61096 ай бұрын

    This is crazy. Some dudes are gentleman. If I walk you're girl to the car to make sure shes safe, if you're that Insecure, walk with me then. We're definitely gonna have a talk after. Because you're looking at me or your girl as trash and I should probably reconsider this relationship

  • @busindlovu2767
    @busindlovu27674 ай бұрын

    That's a gentleman's behaviour now that I am healed and aware of people I surround myself with. In the past, I was with shady guys and friends whom you wouldn't trust around each other alone 😂 glad I chose to be single so I don't have to deal with these situations 🎉

  • @henrylouisjean7793
    @henrylouisjean77936 ай бұрын

    They wasn’t feeling him when he said if his lady people gotta problem to call him for it. 😂

  • @Flashphotography15

    @Flashphotography15

    6 ай бұрын

    I will say that was a reach, tho. Lol, if my girl homegirl got herself into some mess, it's not my responsibility to fix that, lol. Now, if we are all hanging out, that's different. But don't call my phone lol

  • @henrylouisjean7793

    @henrylouisjean7793

    6 ай бұрын

    @@Flashphotography15 facts lol

  • @richardkelly9971
    @richardkelly99716 ай бұрын

    “Man…. Can’t even help family out with the groceries nomo… smh” 😏 Yeah.

  • @christophermayberry1298
    @christophermayberry12986 ай бұрын

    All these women said hell no though 😂🤣🤣😂

  • @Kim-gg3xz
    @Kim-gg3xz6 ай бұрын

    I loved that my husband was such a Gentleman walking my female friends to the door with/without their packages or to their car to make sure they were safe.

  • @beej-3
    @beej-36 ай бұрын

    Protect- men are responsible for not only the ones in their circle, but also the ones in their proximity (family, friends)

  • @fefegalore
    @fefegalore6 ай бұрын

    I have lady friends that come hang out here and there or a group of us might go out. Whenever that situation has arised my husband definitely has walked them out. I love that it's in him to naturally do things like that.

  • @DestinyWorthy
    @DestinyWorthy6 ай бұрын

    I am so happy he spoke on that!!! Yes yes well said king!!!

  • @shandranewell2837
    @shandranewell28376 ай бұрын

    I was in the pouring rain with my 5 year old daughter. I called my best friend man and said ik ive never called you but im in the pouring rain..he showed up 5 mins later drove me 4 mins and I was so grateful..FF..she and my ex man have a 12 year old. She thought I was her!

  • @giveli101
    @giveli1016 ай бұрын

    I'm glad he said it, i didn't even understand the question. It's about integrity

  • @JackieS812
    @JackieS8126 ай бұрын

    Trip always give good advice!

  • @richardlafleur2511
    @richardlafleur25116 ай бұрын

    Facts. Why question his Morals

  • @lightlox
    @lightlox6 ай бұрын

    The fact that he had to explain that kills me. You upset about "No Protection" but upset when he protects. He not trying to smash everything.

  • @KelahCash
    @KelahCash2 ай бұрын

    If your homegirl is TRULY your homegirl....yes, it's okay, lol. Like, why would you want to let your friends just be out here without the kind of protection & consideration you would want? I would hope my friend's man would be considerate enough to not feel like, "That ain't my girl. Whatever happens to her happens." And I wouldn't want my man to be like that either. I don't want those kind of men in our lives. That question says more about the lack of trust someone has in who they call friends. I'd never be concerned about a man I trusted enough to be in a relationship with walking my homegirl to her car. As a matter of fact, I'm the kind of girl who's going WITH him cause that's MY homegirl. Imma walk her, hug her, make sure she gets off safe & then have my man's back as we go back to our car, the function, wherever we came from. No offense at all to this woman who asked, but wow. I'm completely blown away at the question.

  • @sweetrain50
    @sweetrain506 ай бұрын

    I'm with him....WHY IS THIS A QUESTION!! These young folks really, REALLY need to get a grip and stop being so picky about everything!!

  • @Stressedantihero
    @Stressedantihero6 ай бұрын

    💯 legit break down

  • @mjunior1413
    @mjunior14136 ай бұрын

    His answer was appropriate but not the response she was looking for😂

  • @SpiritualLifeCoach43
    @SpiritualLifeCoach436 ай бұрын

    Ask you woman if she is okay with it and if so then cool. I would definitely want my bestfriends protected as much as possible. Just as long as good intentions are there because the people close to you are family, especially real friends.

  • @rebaduncan5986
    @rebaduncan59866 ай бұрын

    This MAN speaks

  • @LaurenMunroe
    @LaurenMunroe6 ай бұрын

    I agree with him. She shouldn't be so insecure about her man walking her friend to her car. Especially if the friend doesn't feel comfortable or the area is bad. And if you feel like you can't trust your man, why are you in a relationship with him? If you can't trust your friend, why are they your friend?

  • @yolandaperry86
    @yolandaperry86Ай бұрын

    WE can do that together! HE can't do that ALONE!

  • @MsCortneySoHollywood
    @MsCortneySoHollywood6 ай бұрын

    I'm the single friend & my bestie is recently married. Her husband has also become a good friend to me over the years & he looks out for me just like she does. He'd absolutely make sure I was safe & give me the "u better txt her when u get home" 😅

  • @shariffbrown4444
    @shariffbrown44446 ай бұрын

    Real talk about it facts some ladys don't understand bout being a real man

  • @msmekab.4625
    @msmekab.46256 ай бұрын

    If you don't have reason to be distrustful then this would be an honorable gesture. A woman knows what type of man they have and you also know your friend. So the fact she is even asking means she has concerns and or insecurities. Sis, ... bof'y'all get ya coats and watch n wave from the porch 😁😁😄😄 prollem solved. 💅🏾

  • @brenyelldelk6932
    @brenyelldelk69326 ай бұрын

    Everytime me and ex was out not only did he open doors and hold them for me, but if we were going in stores or shopping where a lot of women were, I always told him no matter what hold the door for them too. I live in Georgia so it’s beautiful women everywhere being in a relationship here, is only for the strong, I would love the fact that he did walk her to her car, most women their friends ain’t shit so they be knowing how they get down, but if you know that why bring that energy around your man. Real women don’t make you feel some type of way, when she’s a real friend, hell I be mad if he didn’t walk her to the car. I’m just saying make it make sense it’s real women out here that got good hearts.

  • @Brigsby
    @Brigsby6 ай бұрын

    If you are associated with my Clan, you fall under direct protection. If ya not, we still keep eyes to make sure folks are safe. Even if she sprints to her car, she aint thinking she got it if someone tries to walk off with her.

  • @whoistoyre4814
    @whoistoyre48146 ай бұрын

    She has trust issues with her man or knows the character of her homegirl. But the issue is deeper than walking somebody to the car.

  • @BRYANREDDICK
    @BRYANREDDICK6 ай бұрын

    Heck yeah! We gotta make sure all women are safe. And we show by example

  • @chrishenry5665
    @chrishenry56656 ай бұрын

    1. The homegirl should be married so the tasks acting on her husband's behalf would be less risk of infidelity. 2. If the homegirl isn't married she doesn't need to have you as homegirl, she should be at home with her sisters and other family members. Women need to align themselves with others on the same path. Having a homegirl is immature and energy-wise can be draining or negative. People need to stop indulging in complex relationships like friendship and focus and build on on family and expanding family ties.

  • @Itsalwaysbeenaboutme1844

    @Itsalwaysbeenaboutme1844

    6 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂 🤡🤡🤡

  • @nervalouis7307
    @nervalouis73076 ай бұрын

    The reason the woman is asking that question is because many Black women WILL have a problem with her man walking her to the car out of jealousy. I’ve seen women mad if another woman fixes him a plate. The level of insecurities, pain and abuse our people suffer has messed us up!

  • @kamillejohnson3293
    @kamillejohnson32936 ай бұрын

    I agree 💯...if that's a issue...you have bigger problems!!!

  • @AnonAnonUK2024
    @AnonAnonUK20246 ай бұрын

    He can walk her but I'm going too.😂

  • @edwinvicks7426
    @edwinvicks74266 ай бұрын

    That's common courtesy and manners, unless you don't trust your girl. Shouldn't be a question.

  • @bigloumoney1000
    @bigloumoney10006 ай бұрын

    My wife and I have 31 years together. I grew up in Philly. I do it with everyone. Not always alone but as a man, in a community, who's showing daughters what should be expected, and instructing my son......yeah. ALL THE TIME. Her friends, her mom, my girls when they come see mom & dad, my female neighbors to an extent. There's less men to go around so there's more ground we need to cover. Plus the kind of character you have and energy you put out to your significant other will afford trust. And if she can't trust her girlfriend then that's not a real friend. Sometimes we both make sure they are good but I make sure it gets done.

  • @thepr3tty116
    @thepr3tty1166 ай бұрын

    AND YOU REALLY ASKED THAT DUMB QUESTION?? MY MAN IS A MAN TO ALLLL WOMEN! COLORED, RED, WHITE OR GREEN! #DETROIT

  • @tsunami2447
    @tsunami24474 ай бұрын

    That woman's man needs to leave her. That question comes from deep insecurity.

  • @nikieria
    @nikieria6 ай бұрын

    The way all the women immediately said “hell nah” …….

  • @jeremycathey6513
    @jeremycathey65136 ай бұрын

    1. She don't trust her man. 2. She don't trust her friend

  • @sheilazimmerman3905
    @sheilazimmerman39056 ай бұрын

    I just love this man. Can we clone him? Please! Thank you for being a gentleman. 🌸

  • @FullSpectrumDoula
    @FullSpectrumDoula6 ай бұрын

    I totally agree with what he said!!!

  • @sindisiwemoyo9742
    @sindisiwemoyo9742Ай бұрын

    'We' are walking her to the car

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