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  • @BakersfieldGuru
    @BakersfieldGuruАй бұрын

    Diagnosed with prostate cancer last week. Please pray for me. Thank you.

  • @sheringbernhardsgruetter8276

    @sheringbernhardsgruetter8276

    Ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @Shawn-pk4hc

    @Shawn-pk4hc

    Ай бұрын

    🙏I pray you find help and inner peace brother

  • @PunishedKenny

    @PunishedKenny

    Ай бұрын

    Sending healing vibes to your prostate brother, no homo.

  • @pikethree

    @pikethree

    Ай бұрын

    Avoid if you can any chemo or radiation. Look into intravenous bicarbonate of soda and oxygen. Neither of these are allowed in western medicine. Nor is intravenous Vit C for any ANY disease that causes hospitalization. The doctors will fight tooth and nail to stop it incl court cases. Good luck

  • @patrickmelson4745

    @patrickmelson4745

    Ай бұрын

    🙏

  • @warrenking4586
    @warrenking458626 күн бұрын

    No one has given up. They've woken up.

  • @LucyKelly-of6cu

    @LucyKelly-of6cu

    21 күн бұрын

    No. They are dumb. They need Christianity. They need to stop having sex outside of marriage, and to get married. Then things will be the way they want them to be.

  • @odoylerules4503

    @odoylerules4503

    18 күн бұрын

    it'll take time before most realize this

  • @aab350z

    @aab350z

    14 күн бұрын

    @@odoylerules4503 It'll never happen in my opinion. Too many desperate simp-letons. "While the women may be bat-$hit crazy, the men are just straight up stupid."

  • @Tboy439

    @Tboy439

    14 күн бұрын

    @@odoylerules4503 ...Usually not until their 3rd or forth marraige

  • @SOC675

    @SOC675

    9 күн бұрын

    @@Tboy439 loll

  • @robertmaccreight4910
    @robertmaccreight4910Ай бұрын

    Just because I live in this world, doesn't mean I have to participate in the madness.

  • @jaydengt5637

    @jaydengt5637

    Ай бұрын

    thats how i feel man, ill do my own thing over here, everyone else can go nuts over there.

  • @JackMason-oq8lf

    @JackMason-oq8lf

    Ай бұрын

    Use the same criteria for marriage as do women: there is no need for marriage unless you want a child.

  • @curiosi-tea6914

    @curiosi-tea6914

    28 күн бұрын

    Life is madness, it's just a matter of how much madness you want to be involved in.

  • @marblox9300

    @marblox9300

    17 күн бұрын

    @@JackMason-oq8lf Even if you want a child I wouldn't get married. It is just a gain for the woman and a negative for the man. You can still be a dad without the contract that can and will be used against you.

  • @burnhard8431

    @burnhard8431

    12 күн бұрын

    It is not a sign of mental health to adapt to a sick society

  • @FlorinG.
    @FlorinG.Ай бұрын

    The game is rigged against us. The less you play, the more you win, you get to keep your house, your money, your health, your peace, your independence and your sanity. Sounds like a win to me, i speak from experience, and i’m 48.

  • @stretch4666

    @stretch4666

    Ай бұрын

    Very true!

  • @mrpropre6144

    @mrpropre6144

    Ай бұрын

    well said

  • @cerberus8666

    @cerberus8666

    Ай бұрын

    But you lose your country.

  • @Ljosi

    @Ljosi

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@cerberus8666 true, no breeding, no population maintenance, others come in w 10 kids per woman.. it's over

  • @cerberus8666

    @cerberus8666

    Ай бұрын

    @@Ljosi A people losing its vitality will do this, the human race is hungry for land. A people must carry momentum.

  • @mr.dccomics9018
    @mr.dccomics9018Ай бұрын

    Men simply dont want to be stepdads.

  • @PokrPro21

    @PokrPro21

    Ай бұрын

    💯

  • @ruthlessmofo

    @ruthlessmofo

    Ай бұрын

    Yeah man. I just can't be a step dad. Too proud to do that nonsense

  • @retrogamer82

    @retrogamer82

    Ай бұрын

    It’s wrong on so many levels

  • @TrainMaster5097

    @TrainMaster5097

    Ай бұрын

    Right on! We don’t want another man’s kids.

  • @dappster

    @dappster

    Ай бұрын

    Step-dads suck. I had several. None of them ever loved me

  • @bradleyperrine1736
    @bradleyperrine1736Ай бұрын

    I gave up.. I don’t trust women anymore

  • @brandonharris9160

    @brandonharris9160

    Ай бұрын

    I don't trust humanity anymore

  • @fowchiiiliedpuppiesdied

    @fowchiiiliedpuppiesdied

    Ай бұрын

    Oh grow up. Stop the pity party. Women are as unique and distinctive as an human being, individually, just like men. Stop applying a generalized statement to each and every person who happens to be a woman. It is an excuse for a lack of an accountability, on our part, for our own choices. We can’t keep blaming women for our own weakness and lack of conviction. If we can hope to have any resilience and genuine character, as men, we must stop feeling sorry for ourselves and looking for anyone else to blame, other than ourselves. That is cowardly. This dude is insecure as hell.

  • @briansmith5391

    @briansmith5391

    Ай бұрын

    I have to say.......I'm right there with ya.

  • @ethanpalma7267

    @ethanpalma7267

    Ай бұрын

    Stay strong. ​@brandonharris9160

  • @tracym6652

    @tracym6652

    Ай бұрын

    I don't blame you

  • @thelionsden7834
    @thelionsden7834Ай бұрын

    I am 24 years old, am a loner,, and have not socially talked to a girl outside work place or family in 4 years.. Most would probably think it is sad but I have never been happier. I have lost 45 pounds, fully gave myself to god, got a career job, and get to travel and spend time with family peacefully. I encourage every guy to try to stop socializing with women and see how much peace comes into your life when you do. EDIT: glad i am not only one...stay humble and peace be with all you men

  • @stevo6891

    @stevo6891

    Ай бұрын

    What I did!! After being ghosted and rejected a lot I ignore them and enjoy my hobbies

  • @thelionsden7834

    @thelionsden7834

    Ай бұрын

    @@stevo6891 yay!!! it is crazy how much peace came into my life once i just stopped

  • @HCforLife1

    @HCforLife1

    Ай бұрын

    My advice - your 26-32 are your prime years contrary to what redpill says. If you still want to find a QLALITY woman - find you in your prime. In your mid 30's - mid 40's all dating market is a dumpster fire

  • @thelionsden7834

    @thelionsden7834

    Ай бұрын

    @@HCforLife1 god has blessed me with so much peace and happiness that i have not felt the need really to find a woman....i cant explain the peace i have within my self

  • @maxlatour7912

    @maxlatour7912

    Ай бұрын

    You are happy being a loner at 24…lets revisit if you still want to be a loner at 44

  • @ozzycortes
    @ozzycortesАй бұрын

    The only way to win now is not to play.

  • @karlhans6678

    @karlhans6678

    Ай бұрын

    sit back with a beer and watch the world burn

  • @user-xd7rc6eo8n

    @user-xd7rc6eo8n

    Ай бұрын

    @@karlhans6678 Just bought a tiny homestead in the country. I will watch it all fkin burn from there.

  • @user-bl4fj7qp8r

    @user-bl4fj7qp8r

    22 күн бұрын

    It’s like the movie War Games. 😂

  • @ozzycortes

    @ozzycortes

    22 күн бұрын

    @@user-bl4fj7qp8r Exactly! 😂

  • @deannadrake2040

    @deannadrake2040

    10 күн бұрын

    @@user-bl4fj7qp8r I thought the exact same thing when I saw his comment, lol! Great movie.

  • @IbHustln
    @IbHustlnАй бұрын

    I'm not giving up I'm just not putting up with any bs anymore...

  • @stretch273

    @stretch273

    Ай бұрын

    Smart man

  • @monk4ever

    @monk4ever

    Ай бұрын

    Exactly. Avoiding the rotten poon is not giving up.

  • @mikegee8345

    @mikegee8345

    Ай бұрын

    💯

  • @kschrop

    @kschrop

    Ай бұрын

    Facts!

  • @rogerward3390

    @rogerward3390

    Ай бұрын

    So you're done!!

  • @stevearnold8265
    @stevearnold8265Ай бұрын

    I’ve given up on women but not myself.

  • @rasenganshimada208

    @rasenganshimada208

    Ай бұрын

    Yeah giving up as well still here trying for myself.

  • @b4zz3d59

    @b4zz3d59

    Ай бұрын

    Watch The Post-Feminism Man by Barbarossa fellas 💪 🙏

  • @sole__doubt

    @sole__doubt

    Ай бұрын

    Not putting yourself first is ironically where most mens trouble with women begins.

  • @fancynin12

    @fancynin12

    Ай бұрын

    You're killing it!

  • @danielvargas3066

    @danielvargas3066

    Ай бұрын

    That means you are smarter than most good for you man 🤜🏽🤛🏻

  • @SongSwan
    @SongSwanАй бұрын

    At 63 my game is up,i just enjoy peace and quiet.The world was here and in a mess when i got here and it will be here and in a bigger mess when i leave.

  • @rumarey2

    @rumarey2

    Ай бұрын

    I relate to that bro , I live up on the mountains(of Pakistan) in a small house totally off grid with my wife and no one else, we are visited by lot of birds, few dogs, goats and cows, its peaceful.

  • @upyorkstate5541

    @upyorkstate5541

    Ай бұрын

    I'll be 61 next month. Had two wives (10 years each) and had to sue both for divorce. I've mostly lived alone for the last 20 years, and have enjoyed the same GF for 17 years. I have my own place and she has hers. Works out great. No drama. We were blessed to be born and grow up prior to the internet age. I had an ideal childhood growing up on the farm. I mostly worry for my two daughters and my grandchildren going forward. I've found peace in my church and gave my second sermon in March. It's my mission to bring as many people back to the Lord as I can, and especially younger folks. It's the best way to build a better nation!

  • @Fillup82

    @Fillup82

    Ай бұрын

    @@rumarey2 You're living the dream sir.

  • @rumarey2

    @rumarey2

    Ай бұрын

    @@Fillup82 Thank you Fillup if you ever visit be my guest😊

  • @wingandhog

    @wingandhog

    25 күн бұрын

    Turning 64 in a few short months. I got lucky when I married my wife 43 years ago. I was 21, she was 19. Can’t imagine starting over with another woman. I don’t think I would or could.

  • @michaela4427
    @michaela4427Ай бұрын

    The biggest lie...Hard work will pay off. Like he said, kissing ass and backstabbing gets you ahead. I'm done.

  • @iceonthesun8880

    @iceonthesun8880

    20 күн бұрын

    Well, I don't butt kiss or backstab.....I'm screwed. Guess I'll get comfy at the bottom

  • @awakenwithoutcoffee

    @awakenwithoutcoffee

    10 күн бұрын

    Hard work DOES pay off but it is NO guarantee you will get what you want. Instead you get what you deserve which can be hard to accept

  • @weirdtemple1217

    @weirdtemple1217

    5 күн бұрын

    @@awakenwithoutcoffee In some cases it pays off, not all the time. There's even people who are lazy and can make way more money by sitting on their couch than say a construction worker who brakes his back everyday building infrastructure.

  • @maxzomick8733

    @maxzomick8733

    2 күн бұрын

    Even if you kiss butt or backstab - the owners nephew still has top priority

  • @ryno1808

    @ryno1808

    5 сағат бұрын

    Dude this comment hit hard. Its correct especially in the workplace. Ive experienced it myself first hand its the people who do suck ass get somewere. And the guys who work there asses off end up getting backstabbied sacked or a injury like myself Its sad dude really is sad thing is that 15 years ago it was never this way...

  • @jk22222sd
    @jk22222sdАй бұрын

    People as a whole need to overwhelmingly get off of social media/dating apps altogether. It isn't a shock that our society completely went sour somewhere between 2009-2010 and on. It's all tied back to socializing being replaced by social media.

  • @ddontyy

    @ddontyy

    Ай бұрын

    It's not just social media, but it does play a big role. People are also very fed up with the government to the point they just do not care to do better. Working a job to just get by in life is the norm for a lot of people (Always has been) but now it seems to be a reality for most, because why try harder for marginal returns? I guess you could argue the internet has shined light on this. Dating, well lets cut the fluff, women are a big problem in that area to for men... 1/3 men are sexless, women its 1/6. Women get more what they want than men do in the dating sphere. They have options, the average men doesn't, at all...

  • @charliedallachie3539

    @charliedallachie3539

    Ай бұрын

    @@ddontyyfacts

  • @johnc2802

    @johnc2802

    Ай бұрын

    Cutting back on internet usage and avoiding sites like Instagram completely is very helpful I've found. You have to go against the current in a lot of respects these days.

  • @charliedallachie3539

    @charliedallachie3539

    Ай бұрын

    @@johnc2802 yep, never even used instagram… never saw the need for it….for me it’s mostly KZread and I’ll check facebook a few times a week

  • @mindsetmotivation9124

    @mindsetmotivation9124

    Ай бұрын

    I'm a firm believer dating apps lose people's self esteem, people used to just meet chick's naturally, store, mall, etc now there are so many fascets to how it works.

  • @BrianWaller-qe7gr
    @BrianWaller-qe7grАй бұрын

    I gave up dating. The constant rejection, being ignored, and ghosted, used for foodie calls, not being good enough no matter how low you set your standards. It’s all bull crap. My last straw was being treated like dog crap by a church girl that supposedly centers her life around Christ.

  • @TrainMaster5097

    @TrainMaster5097

    Ай бұрын

    I went through something similar. After that, I was done.

  • @TirianOfNarnia

    @TirianOfNarnia

    Ай бұрын

    Hey I know dating sucks and I'm not trying to make it sound like a fun experience. But I've noticed that, when I lowered my standards, it always got worse. It's only when I say "Forget these mediocre hoes, I'm only gonna give these women the time of day if they're quality." And women can sense that I have higher standards, and respect me more for it. But, I've never had a great long-term relationship, so I'm no expert. But I also know that's cause of my choldhood trauma lol

  • @BrianWaller-qe7gr

    @BrianWaller-qe7gr

    Ай бұрын

    @@TirianOfNarnia problem is I went for church chicks and they are just as delusional as secular ones.

  • @Sayed-du9px

    @Sayed-du9px

    Ай бұрын

    Sorry to hear that man

  • @colinquinn7516

    @colinquinn7516

    Ай бұрын

    Thy're the worst. Christian women have the highest standards, and always need someone to be on their level 'spiritually'. Bullshit

  • @PedroGomez-xf3be
    @PedroGomez-xf3beАй бұрын

    It's Called the American Dream Because You Have To Be Asleep to Believe It" - George Carlin.🇺🇲

  • @stumac869
    @stumac869Ай бұрын

    If the game is rigged against you there's no point playing. Men are walking away to find a different game that's equal chance.

  • @ReleaseProductions-yw2kj
    @ReleaseProductions-yw2kjАй бұрын

    Guys you need money with or without women, and without them you have way more money.

  • @Clintsessentials

    @Clintsessentials

    Ай бұрын

    💯

  • @79masshole

    @79masshole

    Ай бұрын

    Money equals freedom

  • @richardj9016

    @richardj9016

    Ай бұрын

    But society collapses as a result

  • @konstantinrebrov675

    @konstantinrebrov675

    Ай бұрын

    What then do you spend your money on? If you don't have a wife? What then is the purpose of your existence? Just accumulating material posessions? You're of use to no one in this world. I don't have any motivation to make money if I don't have a wife and kids. I don't need much for myself. Then why go on working long hours? I need to live for some higher purpose, not just living for money or for things. When you die, where will your money go? Will it be confiscated by the government, if you don't have any family? Why you were working all those years? One thing that the pandemic taught me is that anyone can die at any time suddenly, so life is short. I've accepted that my life may not be so long. So I want to have a family of my own, someone to live for, while I'm still on this planet dedicate my life to someone. I don't need "women", I don't need prostitutes, I just need a loyal and loving wife, one who is worthy enough for me to dedicate my life to her.

  • @lloydeelloyd

    @lloydeelloyd

    Ай бұрын

    Exactly keep and enjoy your money

  • @number9434
    @number9434Ай бұрын

    "It's no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society." -J. Krishnamurti

  • @davidrhodes7655

    @davidrhodes7655

    Ай бұрын

    That is so true bro

  • @ominousbiscuit

    @ominousbiscuit

    Ай бұрын

    All time favorite quote that I remind myself of constantly

  • @JituRaul-ou1bm

    @JituRaul-ou1bm

    Ай бұрын

    J krishnamurti was ahead of us he know will collapsed

  • @Str8OuttaFrayser919

    @Str8OuttaFrayser919

    Ай бұрын

    Namaste

  • @number9434

    @number9434

    Ай бұрын

    @@ominousbiscuit Me as well. My other favorite is "A cup that remains full ceases to be useful."

  • @awakeningaquarius8753
    @awakeningaquarius87537 күн бұрын

    Not just young men, I'm 37 and have giving up on all you mentioned..... I haven't given up going to the gym Daily, nor gave up my healthy eating habits nor my sobriety.

  • @theskyizblue2day431
    @theskyizblue2day431Ай бұрын

    I’m 5’6 and make less than 60k a year. I give up. It’s only a matter of time before I lose the fight. God speed, bros.

  • @Cary2693

    @Cary2693

    Ай бұрын

    Pay for box cheapskate 🎉

  • @Easyone-px7sm

    @Easyone-px7sm

    Ай бұрын

    Do not give up of yourself!

  • @stevo6891

    @stevo6891

    Ай бұрын

    Same here man feel the same as you

  • @clydefrogct9a

    @clydefrogct9a

    Ай бұрын

    Don’t give up , I’m 5,8 single for 10 years and I don’t have a 4 year college degree. But I work for the railroad and I make 76k + ( if i decide to do overtime) I’m by no way bragging by any means I just want you to know there’s losers like me who are getting by . Look into the transportation industries. I will also give you a warning that the state I live in $75k isn’t a lot but it’s something. Take care bud !

  • @latasha9898

    @latasha9898

    28 күн бұрын

    by British standards thats a good salary plus thats a common height for a man here.

  • @brianbachmeier34
    @brianbachmeier34Ай бұрын

    “It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable.” - Socrates

  • @dr.vonslifeinvesting6485

    @dr.vonslifeinvesting6485

    Ай бұрын

    Drago was right after all “ I don’t fight for you I fight for me”. When women get their head out of the clouds the retaingang will be here.

  • @trickywily2823

    @trickywily2823

    Ай бұрын

    Na we still working out solo

  • @tonybellick7841

    @tonybellick7841

    Ай бұрын

    @@trickywily2823that’s exactly what the quote is saying homie

  • @brianmeen2158

    @brianmeen2158

    Ай бұрын

    Guys need to work out more. It’s horrible out there as I see so Many out of shape guys and girls. It is rare to see someone that looks to be in decent shape

  • @Snowmanzz

    @Snowmanzz

    Ай бұрын

    K

  • @kingbizzle1357
    @kingbizzle1357Ай бұрын

    As a 39 year old who is childless and never been married, I struggle each day to find my true purpose. I occasionally ask myself why am I still here and for what reason.

  • @nealmccoy5727

    @nealmccoy5727

    Ай бұрын

    Get your passport sir.

  • @nomadundercover3018

    @nomadundercover3018

    Ай бұрын

    If you don't try to have kids, everything you do is for nothing. Kids are the legacy.

  • @scalegunreplicas2487

    @scalegunreplicas2487

    Ай бұрын

    45 same place

  • @brando7266

    @brando7266

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@nomadundercover3018not if the kids r a disappointment

  • @Atlas_Steorra

    @Atlas_Steorra

    Ай бұрын

    Exact same place as you and I will be 40 this year.

  • @TheDoomWizard
    @TheDoomWizardАй бұрын

    Moving off grid next month! This society is in free fall and we have no future.

  • @user-xd7rc6eo8n

    @user-xd7rc6eo8n

    Ай бұрын

    Same here. Putting my house on the market next week and have my small homestead already bought.

  • @mrsherwood2599

    @mrsherwood2599

    23 күн бұрын

    ​@@user-xd7rc6eo8nVerizon and Monsanto are VERY VERY angry with you!😅😅

  • @BigGainer98

    @BigGainer98

    23 күн бұрын

    What should one do when going off grid?

  • @mrsherwood2599

    @mrsherwood2599

    22 күн бұрын

    @@BigGainer98 burn your 700 dollar electric bill.

  • @thedisgruntledgrunt2239
    @thedisgruntledgrunt2239Ай бұрын

    It's a spirit of Nihilism in us men now. Yes we've figured out that high school never ends and being principled and having good character doesn't exactly go far in todays work environment. We also finally figured out how the game works in the dating world because most of us went into it completely blind with no male guidance from the men who came before us and so most of us have gotten burnt and now we're angry for being discarded and for being mistreated by women. We're angry that nobody prioritized our development as kids and that nobody really gave us a clear picture of what to expect in the real world. The game in all areas of life is rigged against us and I think its deliberate. I'm personally done caring about women and whatever the hell they want and I'll never kiss anyone's ass at any job because I want to remain a genuine person with his soul and sanity still in tact. The game is rigged I refuse to play it.

  • @shadow50HD

    @shadow50HD

    26 күн бұрын

    “Whatever the hell they want.” Felt that in my soul.

  • @qwertyqwertyqwerty4324

    @qwertyqwertyqwerty4324

    20 күн бұрын

    Why did you just describe exactly what I’ve gone through and how I feel? It’s bone chilling how accurate of a picture you’ve painted of ME.

  • @vaderkurt7848

    @vaderkurt7848

    18 күн бұрын

    agenda 2030 very deliberate.

  • @RusskiCommieBot
    @RusskiCommieBotАй бұрын

    Society is collapsing on all levels. The good times are over. I hope everyone in our community is preparing for the hyperinflation.

  • @-lord1754

    @-lord1754

    Ай бұрын

    You are right but i really wish you werent

  • @josephang9927

    @josephang9927

    Ай бұрын

    Even when empires fell, some people found ways to thrive.

  • @brianmeen2158

    @brianmeen2158

    Ай бұрын

    But society isn’t collapsing on all levels. Stop watching doomer content

  • @Sneak248

    @Sneak248

    Ай бұрын

    @@brianmeen2158Yeah , Noah. Don’t build that Boat.

  • @getsugaallen6612

    @getsugaallen6612

    Ай бұрын

    🤔

  • @KONGDADDY69
    @KONGDADDY69Ай бұрын

    As a police officer, you are 100% correct about the bullshit

  • @Ljosi

    @Ljosi

    Ай бұрын

    Yes, the west gave too many freedoms to people and is now suffering the consequences. Too much of anything is bad, balance is key

  • @bumponlog

    @bumponlog

    Ай бұрын

    Be careful, policing is very stressful (because of all the bullshit) and most end up divorced and alone.

  • @user-xd7rc6eo8n

    @user-xd7rc6eo8n

    Ай бұрын

    @@Ljosi Could be the stupidest thing I have read all week.

  • @Ljosi

    @Ljosi

    Ай бұрын

    @@user-xd7rc6eo8n ad hominem makes YOU look stupid tho, if you want to be taken seriously either try to logically refute my point or don't reply to it

  • @MEMEMEME-fm7ep

    @MEMEMEME-fm7ep

    29 күн бұрын

    @@user-xd7rc6eo8n Agreed

  • @PaulElmont-fd1xc
    @PaulElmont-fd1xcАй бұрын

    This really sums up how I feel. Like you say, it's not just women that I am avoiding now. This society is perverse and evil. I want nothing to do with any of it. Reminds me of a saying; It's hard to swim in a world so shallow. I'm out!

  • @stevo6891

    @stevo6891

    Ай бұрын

    Same here, I use to have a lot of friends they disappeared I got no one really.. People are so shallow don’t like being bothered I’m lost for words..

  • @marblox9300

    @marblox9300

    Ай бұрын

    @@stevo6891 When I was a kid I knew a TON of people. Mostly from sports - Now that I am older I just do my own thing. Works for me - been doing it my way for decades. 65 now .

  • @geoeconomics5629

    @geoeconomics5629

    Ай бұрын

    Planners idea is: The worse the better

  • @stevo6891

    @stevo6891

    Ай бұрын

    @@marblox9300 Good for you but no offense I’m younger and still want to do things like joining a sports club or something.. It does get pretty boring just doing nothing on my own..

  • @Y.0o0

    @Y.0o0

    Ай бұрын

    If the pool of the world becomes shallow, 🛹 the pool!

  • @ulixen
    @ulixenАй бұрын

    This is the best video for someone like me that started working years ago and now it's realising that being morally good only serves yourself but the world doesn't care

  • @michaeldavid6832

    @michaeldavid6832

    Ай бұрын

    Virtue doesn't exist to help the world, it exists to prevent you from destroying yourself. But it's also no virtue to return virtue when your virtue is used as a weapon to force you to live up to a standard which your enemies don't possess. The lack or morality on the part of others doesn't obligate you to treating them morally... though you must pick your battles and for the long run. If I must work with those without virtue, there are ways of boxing them out or keeping them out of your domain -- as long as your domain is sufficiently removed that your silence prevents their machinaitons. When you find other men of real virtue -- and that's as rare as the Bible says it is -- you vet them until they prove themselves when the chips are down... or when they think they're down. When men of virtue and drive find common cause, like as not, they get way further in life than those who act alone. Still, it's impossible to make an old friend. Sometimes it takes years to reveal someone's bad character but you get better at seeing the red flags over time.

  • @hrvojemilicevic3309
    @hrvojemilicevic3309Ай бұрын

    It's ok to give up on woman, but it's not ok to give up on yourself. I'm a married man and i was happier when i was alone. It is good to be single guys. Don't rush into relationships or marriage.

  • @benserkowski4663

    @benserkowski4663

    Ай бұрын

    Wise words

  • @CorinMio

    @CorinMio

    Ай бұрын

    Marriedcel

  • @matrixInvader

    @matrixInvader

    Ай бұрын

    fuck thats terrible

  • @DiFinni

    @DiFinni

    Ай бұрын

    Don't rush into marriage, I agree on that one. No rush guys, and no pressure to marry. If there is pressure, then imo it will end in a divorce. Good luck to all.

  • @dab7805

    @dab7805

    Ай бұрын

    why do you say staying single is good?

  • @ENARMtips
    @ENARMtipsАй бұрын

    Bro, I watched you since 2019, when I was an underdog and struggling, my mom had died, my dog died, my girlfriend dumped me all at the same time. Fast forward, I became a medical doctor with a specialty and a masters, I have a beautiful girlfriend and life shines for me. I sticked to Gospel, and a few of your advices. You were the friend I needed at that time, you saved me brother. My best wishes to you. (Pardon my english)

  • @mindsetmotivation9124

    @mindsetmotivation9124

    Ай бұрын

    Good for you man, props

  • @mikee5718

    @mikee5718

    Ай бұрын

    Great job, big man! Keep it going and stay strong!

  • @Big_talks.

    @Big_talks.

    Ай бұрын

    🎉🙌🏾

  • @waseatenbyagrue

    @waseatenbyagrue

    Ай бұрын

    How did you finish all that education in 5 years?

  • @SeFu2006

    @SeFu2006

    Ай бұрын

    @@waseatenbyagruemaybe he was already doing it

  • @DKTUBS
    @DKTUBSАй бұрын

    Without morals the world will become hell. I just sit with my popcorn and money and watch, i wont play along.

  • @hipreference

    @hipreference

    Ай бұрын

    Yeah turns out completely rampant sociopathy is bad for the community and the human soul

  • @dickflinghammer2985

    @dickflinghammer2985

    Ай бұрын

    The lower a society descends from morality the less free they become helping prove stupidity is indeed a moral failing.

  • @hyperteleXii

    @hyperteleXii

    Ай бұрын

    "*Will* become"? Don't think it's there yet, huh?

  • @pliskenx51mm83

    @pliskenx51mm83

    29 күн бұрын

    @@hyperteleXii Were still typing on the internet? The air conditioning still works. Tell me are their cannibals pecking on your window? or raving gangs of looters burning your neighborhood down? Believe me it can get ALOT worse.

  • @iceonthesun8880

    @iceonthesun8880

    20 күн бұрын

    If you watch with popcorn in hand, you ARE part of the morally bankrupt as why would you enjoy watching others suffer and be devoured by the dredges?

  • @quantumprocess5954
    @quantumprocess5954Ай бұрын

    Self preservation is NOT a crime !

  • @charliedallachie3539
    @charliedallachie3539Ай бұрын

    Economy also isn’t the same… lots of people are struggling financially..why even bother with dating if you’re just trying to get food on the table. Finances should come before women

  • @GigaChad_169

    @GigaChad_169

    Ай бұрын

    Lots of people are struggling financially, I agree...yet restaurants are still packed and people are running off to vacation in large numbers (I live in a vacation destination area). Doesn't make sense to me. People are struggling yet they seem to find the money when they want to do something fun. These same people can't come up with the cash to cover a $1,000 emergency statistically also...make it make sense?

  • @brianmeen2158

    @brianmeen2158

    Ай бұрын

    Well if you are lonely and unhappy you better try to go out and date.

  • @RusskiCommieBot

    @RusskiCommieBot

    Ай бұрын

    @@GigaChad_169 How are we 35 trillion dollars in debt with hundreds of trillions in unfunded liabilities? Simple. We are borrowing from our own future to finance the our extravagant standard of living. This won't last much longer before there is a loss of confidence in the dollar.

  • @brianmeen2158

    @brianmeen2158

    Ай бұрын

    @@GigaChad_169yes, people don’t sit home obsessing with how bad everything is.. they are out living and maxing out credit cards .. they don’t want to sit home and dwell on this shit and I don’t blame them

  • @dbased1915

    @dbased1915

    Ай бұрын

    @@GigaChad_169 Bcuz Working class, versus investors and or old money. Basically People doing well pre-pandemic who hold assets got richer, the working class who only earn paychecks and had no assets got poorer. I know people on both sides of this and i am in between.

  • @bmelvin1234
    @bmelvin1234Ай бұрын

    I stopped drinking three years ago, and as a result stopped going out. I I spent many years going out on weekends, buying drinks courting women trying to find a spouse. And frankly, didn’t even come close. It’s all good though. My brother is going through a divorce and it’s nothing I would wish on anyone.

  • @stevearnold8265

    @stevearnold8265

    Ай бұрын

    They don’t want relationships anymore brother. It’s nothing to do with you. They act like men aren’t good enough so they can be a lifelong slut and blame men. it’s disgusting.

  • @theoneandonlykyle9800

    @theoneandonlykyle9800

    Ай бұрын

    I stopped drinking and smoking since last August.

  • @user-qt8ch4bj3t

    @user-qt8ch4bj3t

    Ай бұрын

    @@theoneandonlykyle9800how’s life been

  • @theoneandonlykyle9800

    @theoneandonlykyle9800

    Ай бұрын

    @@user-qt8ch4bj3t life has been great

  • @marblox9300
    @marblox9300Ай бұрын

    My experience - if a woman is somewhat attractive - she will date you UNTIL someone with more money comes along.

  • @moonbear5061

    @moonbear5061

    Ай бұрын

    Yep. Every single time

  • @Vito-oo4my

    @Vito-oo4my

    Ай бұрын

    Always 100 percent correct then she has a problem with that guy cause he doesn't give her enough attention

  • @ChrisPTY507

    @ChrisPTY507

    29 күн бұрын

    That's hypergamy. It is ingrained in their biology, it is why humanity has evolved. If they werent like that, bums and losers would procreate far easier than they already do, and their crap genes would be even more widespread. Not saying its right, its just for you to know the biology behind it because there is the other side of the coin that you really are competent but they just keep chasing the imaginary unicorn.

  • @_Brutal_

    @_Brutal_

    25 күн бұрын

    False, they only care about looks

  • @marblox9300

    @marblox9300

    25 күн бұрын

    @@_Brutal_ Young - looks, Older - money.

  • @louwvalue
    @louwvalueАй бұрын

    Men are sick and tired. Being sick and tired used to be a motivator for playing the game but now it's like what's the point. The efforts for the so called rewards can no longer be justified.

  • @BrandonWombacher-cp7uh

    @BrandonWombacher-cp7uh

    Ай бұрын

    The cost/benefit analysis is so piss poor that it's not worth playing.

  • @maxdolluz
    @maxdolluzАй бұрын

    work force got me jaded asf

  • @danieldigiuseppe7912

    @danieldigiuseppe7912

    Ай бұрын

    Fucking workforce.

  • @slightsight5257

    @slightsight5257

    Ай бұрын

    So Fucking Jaded! The “Game” is not what I signed up for.. it’s disgusting, Humans have some real issues,ya’ll need JESUS

  • @maxdolluz

    @maxdolluz

    Ай бұрын

    @adriftadrift3467 i would phrase it like we need men to put the country back together because we're already apart

  • @johnnycray4427

    @johnnycray4427

    Ай бұрын

    Become a trucker. I did, best move I ever made just me , the truck, and the road

  • @maxdolluz

    @maxdolluz

    Ай бұрын

    @@johnnycray4427 i've definitely considered it

  • @AndrewTheVikings
    @AndrewTheVikings9 күн бұрын

    The American dream is dead.

  • @benjaminfranklin2064
    @benjaminfranklin2064Ай бұрын

    I would rather be a man who is moral, hard working, and die alone, than someone who debases himself, tries to get around doing the hard things in life, and lives in terror of not finding a woman. I know I'll sleep sounder at night. From this day, till my last.

  • @UltimateMoralizer

    @UltimateMoralizer

    Ай бұрын

    I salute you, bro!

  • @tanura5830

    @tanura5830

    9 күн бұрын

    That's good but why would we be alone while chad is sleeping with multiple women? Why accept this situation

  • @michaelmiller4777
    @michaelmiller4777Ай бұрын

    Men didn’t want to play any kinda game to begin with we want loyalty respect .

  • @Alazar654

    @Alazar654

    Ай бұрын

    Its a strange game. The only winning move is not to play.

  • @kenofken9458

    @kenofken9458

    Ай бұрын

    Loyalty and respect though are not birthrights that you get just for having a d*ck though. They have to be earned.

  • @GabrielXDrums

    @GabrielXDrums

    Ай бұрын

    Lol

  • @Joyeusecolombe

    @Joyeusecolombe

    28 күн бұрын

    Men getting loyalty and respect be cheating on their girls all over the place though. We get real confused overtime

  • @michaelmiller4777

    @michaelmiller4777

    28 күн бұрын

    @@Joyeusecolombe that’s BS

  • @byroncummings2952
    @byroncummings2952Ай бұрын

    Never wanted a wife and kids even in high school. I seen the shit my dad went through when he and mom were in a divorce. Holding me from seeing him to hurt dad. I knew then and there I wanted no part in marriage. Remember she's not yours it's just your turn.

  • @blockaderunner

    @blockaderunner

    Ай бұрын

    You have to look abroad byroncommings. My dad and my brother (my older brother has been married for 35+ years but they were Jehovah's Witnesses) went through 2 divorces Each. I didn't find the right one until I took a loooooooong plane trip Far FAR away from these THINGS that are called "women" in our western countries.

  • @brianmeen2158

    @brianmeen2158

    Ай бұрын

    Yes but it’s unwise to judge all women based on what you saw with your mother. We don’t like when feminists do it so we shouldn’t

  • @tjhookit

    @tjhookit

    Ай бұрын

    Same

  • @Thatdude64317

    @Thatdude64317

    Ай бұрын

    Yeah, the whole marriage and kids thing never appealed to me lol. Seems like a lot of risk and work for minimal reward.

  • @edheldude

    @edheldude

    Ай бұрын

    You based your whole worldview on one (bad) example.

  • @Damien_Bathory
    @Damien_Bathory3 күн бұрын

    I gave up, because at every turn you are screwed, gonna try to go back to surviving in the wild alone

  • @AnotherEarthling666
    @AnotherEarthling666Ай бұрын

    Life sucks. All I wanted was to build a family because I never had one. I studied hard, keeping my body well trained and my mind sharp while being educated with good manners and values. Now in my early 40’s I spend the evening staring at walls, empty house, never been able to find a good woman to love. Loneliness is eating me alive by the day and nothing can feel the void left. I am pretty sure many men are in the same situation. Then I see violent men in debts, with problem as gambling, heavy drug use or drunk 24/7 being considered as gods on earth by so many women. That’s not fair to us and to society. Truth is that life sucks for many of us cut out from women, if we can still call what we live as “life”.

  • @grindmode4781

    @grindmode4781

    Ай бұрын

    Same I’m only 18 I feel the same

  • @stevo6891

    @stevo6891

    Ай бұрын

    Same here, nothing but let downs I got

  • @greatbooksformen

    @greatbooksformen

    Ай бұрын

    Had a friend of mine that met a woman from Thailand working in the US....they ended up leaving the US and now live in Thailand. They are now married and have a child. That girl from thailand? Her family owns a rubber plantation. My friend was working as a police officer and now doesn't need to work anymore. So, try to expand your options outside of the US. Plenty of women in Asia, South America, and elsewhere looking for a man.

  • @stevo6891

    @stevo6891

    Ай бұрын

    @@greatbooksformen I actually thought about it.. So tired of American women nothing but let downs and rejection from them like you are not good enough or something

  • @greatbooksformen

    @greatbooksformen

    Ай бұрын

    @@stevo6891 There is a site called Christian Fillipina that is pretty good and other sites out there to talk with foreign girls. IF anything, you can at least talk to women from other countries who are much nicer and easier going.

  • @hvdiv17
    @hvdiv17Ай бұрын

    i wouldnt say we are giving up we are getting wiser and see what the modern western woman for what she is.

  • @dab7805

    @dab7805

    Ай бұрын

    not just western women, women all around the world are doing the same, thanks to social media and internet

  • @jononioo2857

    @jononioo2857

    Ай бұрын

    A lot of these women are good for nothing. Just liabilities

  • @bangbang2070

    @bangbang2070

    Ай бұрын

    You’re late in the game buddy, you’re only one foot in the door.

  • @steellegion1490

    @steellegion1490

    Ай бұрын

    Pump and dump

  • @JasonJayJJ1

    @JasonJayJJ1

    Ай бұрын

    Since feminism is mainstream now, the system from above can only allow one side to be the winner and it's not men.

  • @Mamala2024
    @Mamala2024Ай бұрын

    I was hoping my 30s would be better as I am now 30. It doesn’t seem like it unfortunately. I’ve just honestly been working on my relationship with God.

  • @Babygirlly555

    @Babygirlly555

    Ай бұрын

    That's the best relationship there is.

  • @Ja50nkAt

    @Ja50nkAt

    Ай бұрын

    30s mean you have a decade to improve, get your money right and body right and women will notice, having those two things gives you the confidence that women notice.

  • @nealmccoy5727

    @nealmccoy5727

    Ай бұрын

    @@Ja50nkAt Most women won't notice 90% of men no matter how much they improve. The 3rd leading scorer on the Orlando Magic will not become Luka Doncic or Lebron James no matter how much he practices. And that is what western women demand--that you are a top 5% player. They will accept nothing less. On top of that, you have the problem of western women not being worth it even if you do squeeze into the top 5%

  • @blockaderunner

    @blockaderunner

    Ай бұрын

    I wasn't until my mid-40s that my stock started rising (but I had to take actions of course even still). I kept my nose down the whole way through my 20s, 30s, 40s. It's never too late to start a family For A Man.

  • @brianmeen2158

    @brianmeen2158

    Ай бұрын

    Your life is largely what you make of it though.. are you exercising every day? Do you have positive hobbies and relationships in your life?

  • @armandoweckmann5699
    @armandoweckmann56997 күн бұрын

    I quit my 6-figure job to start my own business. 23 years working for a handful of companies. I planned my exit. Paid off my mortgage and all my other debts. Saved a few years emergency fund. I feel amazing now that I'm my own boss 😎 🙌 💪

  • @allynflinchbaugh4570
    @allynflinchbaugh4570Ай бұрын

    "A time is coming when men will go mad, and when they see someone who is not mad, they will attack him saying, 'You are mad, you are not like us.'" - St Anthony the Great.

  • @light_year6964

    @light_year6964

    Ай бұрын

    I've experienced this recently. Freakin' mind boggling when you actually experience it first hand.

  • @pliskenx51mm83

    @pliskenx51mm83

    29 күн бұрын

    Were already there with politics. If you tell them (either side) that you are apolitical. You will soon witness an unhinged mental apparatus spew indoctrination as if you swung a knife cleaved an artery!

  • @nonjaninja4904
    @nonjaninja4904Ай бұрын

    You know it's over when you can't even afford to drop out of society.

  • @youlooklikeagoodjoeyoulooklone

    @youlooklikeagoodjoeyoulooklone

    Ай бұрын

    Depends on what you mean by "drop out". 💀

  • @rasenganshimada208

    @rasenganshimada208

    Ай бұрын

    Fuck this society it’s over

  • @shank170

    @shank170

    Ай бұрын

    It's illegal to be homeless in some places now. A crime to be broke. What a time!

  • @hyperteleXii

    @hyperteleXii

    Ай бұрын

    When could a social animal ever drop out? A lone wolf starves. We humans like to glorify the concept of a lone wolf, but if you actually observe wolves, they hunt in packs. They've evolved to hunt in packs because the ones that didn't died of extinction.

  • @so.calmotoadventurerides3135

    @so.calmotoadventurerides3135

    22 күн бұрын

    Get a van and go live by a river. = happiness

  • @visionarybrushstroker7694
    @visionarybrushstroker7694Ай бұрын

    I’m just done playing games period.

  • @SapiensIndica
    @SapiensIndicaАй бұрын

    Your statement about PhDs, wow real truth. Being a recent Post Doctorate, the sciences and academics are a load of political crunch more than science. Not made for a free thinking person. Too much bullying and hierarchy.

  • @sjelliott6660
    @sjelliott66605 күн бұрын

    Younger guys don't know how fun the game was. I can't imagine entering adulthood in this climate. I've had my decades of fun.

  • @wastedpenguin1095
    @wastedpenguin1095Ай бұрын

    I gave up on women and workforce simply because nothing is worth the effort anymore. I enjoy at home playing video games and going 3-4 times a week to the gym. I have enough money saved up to not work for 3 years atleast,so yeah,i do not care about this world.

  • @tarikpierce

    @tarikpierce

    Ай бұрын

    You can make money recording your gaming and uploading to KZread and twitch. Turn your passion into income. Always stack your Bitcoin and don't just waste your days on earth.

  • @wastedpenguin1095

    @wastedpenguin1095

    Ай бұрын

    @@tarikpierce yeah i did thought about streaming,will have to try. To me a day wasted is a day that you did absolutely nothing and i always have something to do.

  • @Fawn91193

    @Fawn91193

    Ай бұрын

    Enjoy!🎉

  • @TheMarcuslindberg

    @TheMarcuslindberg

    Ай бұрын

    Your money would go much further abroad

  • @hyperteleXii

    @hyperteleXii

    Ай бұрын

    The real life XP of traveling certainly trumps whatever virtual XP you grind in a game.@@TheMarcuslindberg

  • @rehakmate
    @rehakmateАй бұрын

    People are giving up at everything because they don'r see a good chance that they will have a good women, kids, raise them well, pass down our values and have them do the same.

  • @pedro.pe916

    @pedro.pe916

    Ай бұрын

    550.000 men commit suicide every year. One every minute. There must be a connection with this "giving up" attitude.

  • @photographyenthusiast9941

    @photographyenthusiast9941

    Ай бұрын

    @@pedro.pe916 There absolutely is, and men need to learn perseverance. Nothing ever truly worth having comes without much effort.

  • @Trisof88

    @Trisof88

    Ай бұрын

    ​@photographyenthusiast9941 I quickly learned nothing here is worth having AT ALL. Nothing outside of good, supportive parents and if you are spritual, God. Everything else is fleeting, illusory, and temporary. When you realize nothing here satisfies because of brutal evolution and nature always happening, there comes the mental drought

  • @photographyenthusiast9941

    @photographyenthusiast9941

    Ай бұрын

    @@Trisof88 Nothing is meant to satisfy outside of God. He is our one constant. God first and everything else falls into place!! "Heaven and Earth will pass away but my words will never pass away." ~Matthew 24: 35

  • @auemmjee

    @auemmjee

    24 күн бұрын

    There's more to life than procreating. Parents are generally miserable and bored.

  • @1SmokingLizard
    @1SmokingLizardАй бұрын

    Men don't give up (But I get the inferred point). Rather, Men remove themselves from bullshit that does not add value. Stay strong Kings

  • @DispholidusTypus
    @DispholidusTypusАй бұрын

    It's over! That world 🌎 of good woman in the USA 🇺🇲 will never ever happen!!! Avoid western women 🇺🇲 go overseas!

  • @kerry5972

    @kerry5972

    Ай бұрын

    Not always true. I know a guy who bought someone from Thailand here. She took off with another guy, it cost him 50 grand to get her here. It is what is in the heart of a person, no matter where they are from.

  • @greengator3575
    @greengator3575Ай бұрын

    Young women get barraged with likes on every platform and hit on at work, the streets, the clubs, the gym, the store…they can be super picky and allowed to act entitled because men will literally like every post and hit on anything

  • @bumponlog

    @bumponlog

    Ай бұрын

    There seems to be a gender ratio imbalance at play today that I think was not seen in prior generations. If you take a look at the data, there are many more single young men than single young women. And it seems there are just more young men overall by sheer numbers. Anecdotally, I see many more young men than young women in public and even more old people than either. It's a strange demographic in the USA right now. Probably will only get worse.

  • @thelofipimp

    @thelofipimp

    Ай бұрын

    we are equal to blame because simps are supporting this behavior

  • @michaeldavid6832

    @michaeldavid6832

    Ай бұрын

    @@bumponlog No. It's hookup culture. When men don't need to marry get get segx, it keeps them on the market for the hundreds of XXs who are chasing them. Such men never marry because that's a huge pay cut. Those Chads can go through thousands in a lifetime. Access to such men was once restricted by vvomen who secured that man by holding out for the one who actually loved her. What did this do? It made Chad jaded because now every XX doesn't see any single man as more important than any other -- they think they can hedonistically sport-f**k their fertility away and secure some dupe rich Chad or rich Brad in their late 20s. Young Chads almost always began as loving boyfriends in their youth. It only takes one bad GF to convert a young idealistic Chad into the most rabid f**kboi. Once a guy sees a pattern of treatment that makes him feel disposable, he hardens his heart and returns the favor. And so Chad never commits because the love was beat out of him by his early GFs and he can at least gratify his segxual needs and put his problems on hold while bustin' it down. The XXs who are "ready to settle down" think that Chad is an option -- but Chad's love died a long time ago at the hands of someone just like she used to be -- hopping from bed to bed or the backseat of a car. It's not that Chad wouldn't have loved to find love, but he saw the red pill from the other side and it made him see a reality he can't forget. He knows he's not loved for who he is but for his appearance or status or both. As for all these XXs, the young Chads they betrayed in their youth become the f**kboys who never commit when that same reformed 304 wants to settle. They poisoned the well and don't seem to understand why they can no longer safely drink the water. Some of those young Chads just decide to bow out entirely because they were so disillusioned that they saw no point in pursuing sport-f**king. Either that, or they made the mistake of marrying one of these damaged creatures. The only Chads left on the field, are the f**kboys. Everyone else took the lesson and planned accordingly.

  • @user-xd7rc6eo8n

    @user-xd7rc6eo8n

    Ай бұрын

    I was a chef and all the time I went out drinking with the girls after work. Sometimes it would be me or just two of us cooks and like 5 - 7 women. You would be horrified to see what they had to deal with everytime we were out. Every single time we were out at one point in the night some creep would come by with his dumbass schpiel. Was creepy as fuck.

  • @TheBigdog868

    @TheBigdog868

    27 күн бұрын

    Everyone wants you because of a trait, but no one knows or cares to see you for what you are. Beautiful people have a lonely life.

  • @ryancentnarowicz
    @ryancentnarowiczАй бұрын

    I already have given up been single all my life. My life’s half over no friends no girlfriends just going to do things that benefit me from now on. As people never give me the time of day why should I do the same to anyone?

  • @stevo6891

    @stevo6891

    Ай бұрын

    Same here, I got no friends or girlfriends.. Always was left out or felt like I was a nuisance

  • @marblox9300

    @marblox9300

    Ай бұрын

    @@stevo6891 When I was young - I had a TON of friends. Hockey, friends from school . Baseball. Even non- sports friends. After about 30 they slowly all disappeared. Now I can be considered a complete loner. And frankly - I am totally OK with it. I do whatever I want at 65. Just take care of your health - in the end that's all that matters.

  • @stevo6891

    @stevo6891

    Ай бұрын

    @@marblox9300 thanks 🙏

  • @StopMarxism

    @StopMarxism

    6 күн бұрын

    ​@@stevo6891 Sounds like me bro

  • @anthonymontes7454
    @anthonymontes7454Ай бұрын

    I have absolutely no desire to participate in the "rat race", but I also obviously don't want to be poor, homeless, and all alone either... No clue what to do, I just feel numb and stuck.

  • @Katurdayz420

    @Katurdayz420

    Ай бұрын

    You dont get anything from working anyways. Ive been working for about 10 years, nothing to show for it. Im not doing thqt another 30 years

  • @anthonytorres3618
    @anthonytorres3618Ай бұрын

    34 here, no kids, just enjoying life as it comes. A little worried about my future but focusing on myself now. Gym 4 days a week, no alcohol, no clubbing, I don’t chase women anymore, realizing the BS for what it is. Had one I wanted to marry but she left me when I pushed for it. Just not seeing anything worthwhile in women, music, movies, entertainment anymore. Am I rotting 😅

  • @mikebones4428
    @mikebones4428Ай бұрын

    Most guys don’t have a chance anymore. Most good looking girls won’t even look there way no matter how much self improvement they do. Why work your but off just to maybe get a below average snobby women. It’s better just to stay single and take your money and enjoy you freedom and life.

  • @youlooklikeagoodjoeyoulooklone

    @youlooklikeagoodjoeyoulooklone

    Ай бұрын

    Yeah. Still so sad... All this work just to come home to an empty apartment.

  • @mikebones4428

    @mikebones4428

    Ай бұрын

    @@youlooklikeagoodjoeyoulooklone yes it’s sad but better than settling for a fat snobby ugly women nagging at you Plus you can travel and enjoy life and depending on where you are paying for it is legal.

  • @MoAdan28

    @MoAdan28

    Ай бұрын

    Or go abroad and find some comfort somewhere.

  • @Tonymanero1960

    @Tonymanero1960

    Ай бұрын

    @@youlooklikeagoodjoeyoulooklone Try coming home to an apartment with a wife or girlfriend who is a total bitch.

  • @tonydiesel3444

    @tonydiesel3444

    Ай бұрын

    Yep 10000%

  • @nick111655
    @nick111655Ай бұрын

    Yep, I cannot argue with what you said. The average guy the odds are stacked up against him. I used to hear the old slogan " Honesty is the best Policy" not if you want to be successful, it usually comes back and bites you in the ass. Best is the relax, and not stress yourself out trying to keep up with the Jones or what society expects you should be. Be you, and if nobody likes that who cares! Dance to the beat of your own drum, and forget the rest of the world.

  • @GigaChad_169

    @GigaChad_169

    Ай бұрын

    Good points. I think the worst thing people can do right now is going broke trying to look rich. Sadly too many people do it.

  • @stefanegstrup3145

    @stefanegstrup3145

    Ай бұрын

    Absolutely. Spot on.

  • @BobB-pn2ip
    @BobB-pn2ip7 күн бұрын

    I gave up in 2008. I don't trust anybody anymore.

  • @thelastofhiskind1936
    @thelastofhiskind1936Ай бұрын

    *A prettier nicer girl came along for you because you're tall and handsome. For the rest of us short ugly guys, luck doesn't seem to manifest like that for some mysterious reason*

  • @dquinn8344

    @dquinn8344

    26 күн бұрын

    Looks have less to do with it than you think...They F with tall good looking guys as well...

  • @spookrockcity
    @spookrockcityАй бұрын

    Tired of playing a rigged game and restarting after the rug gets pulled out over and over

  • @ShaferScott
    @ShaferScottАй бұрын

    I left the corporate world ten years ago. Best decision ever. It’s all bullshit and I had no interest in doing that for the next 40 years of my life. The internet makes it possible for anyone to leave that shit and do their own thing. More people need to wake up and realize that.

  • @Carolina480

    @Carolina480

    Ай бұрын

    The corporate world it’s a hell adults acting like high schoolers this world it’s very difficult to be a good decent human being people will use yuo and pretend to care

  • @lloydeelloyd

    @lloydeelloyd

    Ай бұрын

    Yeah screw 9 to 5

  • @user-xd7rc6eo8n

    @user-xd7rc6eo8n

    Ай бұрын

    What to do you to make money on the internet?

  • @Galactic_EmperorRetard9000

    @Galactic_EmperorRetard9000

    28 күн бұрын

    How?

  • @tanura5830

    @tanura5830

    9 күн бұрын

    Bro but internet thing is so difficult and takes a lot of time to build up before you make any money. Also most people can't make it

  • @lioncolombo
    @lioncolomboАй бұрын

    Thank you LFA, i had an awful day today & this video was just hitting on every point that I have been feeling lately. Keep up the videos man! love to see them

  • @flame-sky7148
    @flame-sky7148Ай бұрын

    Love this channel, straight to the point, and down to earth.

  • @maccy5031
    @maccy5031Ай бұрын

    Its the soft guy era for men. Dont settle because YOU are the prize. She must meet YOUR criteria not the other way around. Also yea leave social media behind and look for women who also dont use social media. If she doesnt exist then so be it, its better to be at peace than constantly chasing some moralless 304.

  • @hyperteleXii

    @hyperteleXii

    Ай бұрын

    A chase is in pursuit of something valuable. No point chasing the worthless.

  • @Vmarigold
    @VmarigoldАй бұрын

    Society has intentionally messed up the roles of men and women unfortunately. But you be you, do your thing and don’t settle.👍

  • @mohammada.settar4441

    @mohammada.settar4441

    Ай бұрын

    This is a great advice to stick in

  • @pololikikuju

    @pololikikuju

    Ай бұрын

    It wasn't society that did that, it was the scheming of the small hats 🎩

  • @user-xd7rc6eo8n

    @user-xd7rc6eo8n

    Ай бұрын

    Straight out of the Communist Manifesto.

  • @rcmains4237

    @rcmains4237

    29 күн бұрын

    @@pololikikuju 💯

  • @StopMarxism

    @StopMarxism

    6 күн бұрын

    ​@@pololikikujuexactly, that's who mentally screwed over Black People

  • @SuperQdaddy
    @SuperQdaddyАй бұрын

    If she brings nothing to the table..whats the point ? Supposed to be a team

  • @hyperteleXii

    @hyperteleXii

    Ай бұрын

    Not only she brings nothing, she takes your table with her when she leaves.

  • @verocimil
    @verocimil12 күн бұрын

    Thank you for this message!

  • @DaniCharney
    @DaniCharneyАй бұрын

    Making a living is becoming more challenging, and it's difficult for me to save enough to enjoy quality time with my loved ones.

  • @SherrillHouser1

    @SherrillHouser1

    Ай бұрын

    I totally agree with you Holding onto investments can be beneficial, but it's even better to invest with a professional who understands the market. They can help you avoid potential losses and make informed decisions. It's always wise to seek guidance from experts in the field.

  • @ChrisBallard687

    @ChrisBallard687

    Ай бұрын

    You're absolutely right Investing with a professional who understands the market can be a wise decision. They have the knowledge and expertise to guide you and help minimize the risk of losing money. They can provide valuable insights and strategies tailored to your financial goals. It's important to find a trusted financial advisor or investment professional who can assist you along the way.

  • @DaniCharney

    @DaniCharney

    Ай бұрын

    Which advisor do you trade with? Can you recommend one that you have had a positive experience with?

  • @ChrisBallard687

    @ChrisBallard687

    Ай бұрын

    Brenda Leigh Van

  • @ChrisBallard687

    @ChrisBallard687

    Ай бұрын

    Instagram

  • @DavidW-ng5zv
    @DavidW-ng5zvАй бұрын

    We used to mock the guy at my gym who wore a bra. Nobody laughs at him now.

  • @leeolie3728

    @leeolie3728

    Ай бұрын

    Um 😮wtf

  • @DylanM333

    @DylanM333

    Ай бұрын

    @@leeolie3728 😂😂

  • @MS-nj9le

    @MS-nj9le

    27 күн бұрын

    You've seen Peaches! He's out of prison?

  • @bobbassett-nr8ro
    @bobbassett-nr8roАй бұрын

    Right you are my brother. Keep your eyes open and keep leaning forward Thanks man

  • @modernman8967
    @modernman8967Ай бұрын

    Thanks for the video man.

  • @RobinTheMetaGod
    @RobinTheMetaGod8 күн бұрын

    The men havd not given up. They are just smart enough to know having a relationship is overrated.

  • @vince-n
    @vince-nАй бұрын

    the majority of women are damaged these days unfortunately

  • @ryancentnarowicz

    @ryancentnarowicz

    Ай бұрын

    Very true been seeing more and more single mothers I wonder why?

  • @persephonemaeve2704

    @persephonemaeve2704

    Ай бұрын

    By men.

  • @hankson5002

    @hankson5002

    Ай бұрын

    By themselfes - women are in choosing position and most of the time make poor dicisions. Take accountability girl

  • @geekiepooh808

    @geekiepooh808

    Ай бұрын

    ​@hankson5002 This woman I know in her late 30. I think she is in her 40s by now. She has several kids from several different guys. It's surprising how none of her relationships lasted. Her reasoning for checking out those men was because the guy(s) was hot.

  • @hankson5002

    @hankson5002

    Ай бұрын

    @@geekiepooh808 exactly. man do the same mistake to be fair, but it´s not nearly that destructive to society, because they dont have even 10% of the options as woman do. easy choices - hard life - hard choices - easy life

  • @sageywavey
    @sageywaveyАй бұрын

    Life isn’t worth living. I’m gonna hang out for another decade or so, wack off and play video games, and then skedaddle

  • @Materva-hv6sz

    @Materva-hv6sz

    Ай бұрын

    I turn 50 this year. If I make it to 55 I've failed

  • @DiFinni

    @DiFinni

    Ай бұрын

    Sure it is. Just do what you like doing and live life like you want. If a gal comes in your life, great, if not, great. Just enjoy, our time is short on earth. I don't believe every guy needs a woman either.

  • @sageywavey

    @sageywavey

    Ай бұрын

    @@DiFinni Yours might be, but mine isn’t

  • @paigesta

    @paigesta

    Ай бұрын

    @sagetwavey please hang on to hope friend! Do you have a community around you? There’s a group of people that hang out on the LFA live streams you can chat with, including myself :) “Remember that hope is a good thing… maybe the best of things”

  • @iphonelogistics8424

    @iphonelogistics8424

    Ай бұрын

    Quit fapping

  • @rubencervantes4799
    @rubencervantes479940 минут бұрын

    Straight truth. Wish somebody told me this when I was 19 yrs old. I'm 53 now and still a loser with no kids, never been married and renting a room struggling making minimum wage in CA. Even though I earned a diploma never been to prison, working hard being honest and fair gets you no where.

  • @steveduranko4911
    @steveduranko4911Ай бұрын

    I’ll never give up on my mission but dating I’m 100% done with. I’ve put way too much effort into going out on dates (after working of course) but I just keep finding the same chicks over and over again no matter what age or demographic they are. The juice isn’t worth the squeeze.

  • @stevo6891

    @stevo6891

    Ай бұрын

    Same here, nothing but BS I got out of looking for a woman

  • @Ducati007
    @Ducati007Ай бұрын

    U r right about cut throat, back stabbers ect: out here in the dating world, I get approch all the time by married woman. Talk about a dirty game!!

  • @blockaderunner

    @blockaderunner

    Ай бұрын

    I get hard-flirted with by Single women Who Know I'm married.

  • @stevearnold8265

    @stevearnold8265

    Ай бұрын

    You’re attempting to “put yourself in a higher position”. If something is considered a high position you attempt to put yourself into it and tell details about how you’re in that higher position.

  • @SlaveToTheSystem
    @SlaveToTheSystemАй бұрын

    I didn't give up, I just chose to be single and unavailable after many bad break ups and failed pursuits. The chase just wasn't fun anymore. This happened for me 11-12 years ago, it was hard at first, but you actually get used to being alone. There is more value to me as an individual person other than what I bring to the table financially. And there it is, the reminder why I chose to go my own all those years ago and why I still hold the same decision to this day.

  • @tanura5830

    @tanura5830

    9 күн бұрын

    We need to take action and change things. We can't just be alone while chad is sleeping with multiple women and having fun

  • @lawrencejohnson81
    @lawrencejohnson81Ай бұрын

    I was just having this same conversation with some guys the other day. Damn! This dude got some good content, and extremely relevant in today's time.

  • @teresaokonji9201
    @teresaokonji920116 күн бұрын

    Real talk. You are one in a million. Genuine, honest. Be blessed!!

  • @JonJon-pj9ly
    @JonJon-pj9lyАй бұрын

    35 yr old single male here, Ive never been an Alpha out there in dating game, and Ive always kind of blamed myself for it, opportunities were presented, but I hardly "pulled the trigger", yes, mostly for don't seeing a point, for moral restrains. This video makes me feel a little better about it. As for men quitting the dating game, I think they are all kind of watching from the distance, in sobriety, women drown themselves in this craziness that is the world for them nowadays. They are in complete state of delusion, and vanity is one of the worst enemies for them in the long run. Some smart and down to earth women are not buying this sh*t and honestly they are the ones that are gonna carry society into the future, for the other part, the majority, things are not gonna end well.

  • @brianmeen2158

    @brianmeen2158

    Ай бұрын

    What I find tragic is most of the guys on here have completely talked themselves into giving up .. they don’t even want to put in any effort and risk feeling discomfort - I never thought I’d see the day when men gave up on having sex with women

  • @brianmeen2158

    @brianmeen2158

    Ай бұрын

    @protoknightsmusicarchives3232 your comment is hysteria. You live in a different reality than I do. It’s truly absurd to think that all women you meet will insult you or accuse you of harassment - if that is happening then you are doing something very wrong. You are just trying to justify not even trying

  • @Mattie_Ice

    @Mattie_Ice

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@brianmeen2158You're 100% correct, Brian. It really is sad to see. I see women as the answer.

  • @radekradek8509

    @radekradek8509

    Ай бұрын

    @@brianmeen2158 agree with you, choosing either extreme shouldn't be an option nowadays. Having said that I understand that majority of average man, average income and average looks consider giving up - the odds are stacked against them. The pool of not damaged women is relatively small, I've dated many over last 5 years and sometime I want to eject from the date after 10 minutes after seeing how dumb and entitled most women are these days.

  • @waifreviews

    @waifreviews

    Ай бұрын

    @@brianmeen2158 tbh it speaks to how sad in many ways and tragic the situation is, and the fact that this debauched sex-crazed culture is a big part of the problem to begin with. Passport bros are a thing because men were messing around and being man-whores the same as women and the end result is you can't trust many of these women, (or men) so they go overseas then act surprised "what, you don't want to hook up and be degenerate with women, huh?????"

  • @Ja50nkAt
    @Ja50nkAtАй бұрын

    Dudes need to look long term, rent a room, live frugally for a few years and get your money straight if that's what it takes, not for women, for you. Women don't care about losers who complain and give excuses.

  • @Moriningland

    @Moriningland

    Ай бұрын

    So true bro, but so many are not willing to put in the work/sacrafice. I’m a nurse and, through covid, there’s been plentiful overtime with insane pay bonuses. I was able to almost triple my pay by simply being willing to work 60-70hour work weeks. Everyone looked at me like I was crazy, but I was paying off all my debt and now I’m investing over 2000 a month and getting secure. I also decided to continue living with my former spouse since we have such a low mortgage and low interest rate on our home. People look at me cross eyed for that, but I’m only paying 650/mn for my house and I’m banking money. Setting myself up for the future but doing what I need to do now. My spouse, who is a close friend now, complains about money but she drives an expensive car, eats out five times a week and doesn’t want to work extra. You can’t complain if you’re not willing to put in the work

  • @selfish2.0

    @selfish2.0

    Ай бұрын

    Who cares what women care or don't care abt.

  • @brando7266

    @brando7266

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@selfish2.0the simps, and there alot out there, they spoil women for the real men,

  • @Mattie_Ice

    @Mattie_Ice

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@selfish2.0You should seek family. What's the alternative? Cheetos, video games, and what? What is the alternative?

  • @Stoigniew666

    @Stoigniew666

    Ай бұрын

    True, but on the other hand - dudes don't need gold diggers who only want to accompany you on the finish line.

  • @5D_Ski
    @5D_SkiАй бұрын

    Real talk💫 keep spreading the message 🙏

  • @HERESJOHNNY-ek4wk
    @HERESJOHNNY-ek4wk8 күн бұрын

    I’m at a point in my life where I just work & make enough to pay my rent, groceries, bills, don’t care about having a gf, or having tons of debt, my hope is one day to live in the country, have a big garden, maybe some animals, a simple life is what I want now.

  • @user-xs1yv3kj4b
    @user-xs1yv3kj4bАй бұрын

    I’ve tried so hard. So many times. I’m 24m, former marine, been to college. I work an 30 an hour job but I still live in my car. I’ve never had my first kiss or anything. It’s getting so difficult just to get up everyday man

  • @grindmode4781

    @grindmode4781

    Ай бұрын

    I’m miserable

  • @gkauto1959

    @gkauto1959

    Ай бұрын

    If you are a former Marine, remember back to hell week?? you did that right? now get back on the horse, fight for YOU now, its the best cause to battle for and will pay later, if you maintain your frame, which is constant small incremental small steps forward culminating in you taking back your pride, your drive and building your life back. Get another job, pay for a room in a house, get out of that car. Give yourself the mission of small constant improvement, and eventually enough positive change will emerge into your mindset to where you will begin Rostand out, get noticed and become the quality man you were meant to be. About the women, they now are for entertainment only, never EVER TRUST them, they will be jealous of you discipline so post up and keep an eye out for that. The key with them is making them feel good overall. They can be alot of fun but stay true to yourself always. hope this helps!

  • @ShutterSpeedGaming

    @ShutterSpeedGaming

    Ай бұрын

    Hay, make sure you file your VA claims for disability compensation marine. Navy veteran here. Hope things get better for you.

  • @stevo6891

    @stevo6891

    Ай бұрын

    Same here man!! And thank you for your service mad respect ✊

  • @dondon98

    @dondon98

    Ай бұрын

    You KEEP ON KEEPING ON... AND I WILL TOO... BE GLAD THAT YOU AND I HAVE PRINCIPLES & ARE WILLING TO DIE FOR THEM... WHAT WOULD THE WORLD BE LIKE WITHOUT ME AND YOU... IT WOULD BE SO SOOOO MUCH MORE E V I L BE PROUD YOU MADE A DIFFERENCE. I DONT NEED PEOPLE TO KNOW I DID... JUST THE FACT THAT WE DO IS ENOUGH FOR ME

  • @rusty6314
    @rusty6314Ай бұрын

    In the Law of the Jungle morality and civility are seen as a weakness not a virtue.

  • @doncartier6796

    @doncartier6796

    Ай бұрын

    I disagree with that. I actually find the jungle to be more civilized in comparison to human society. What we say about the animals is really our projections of ourselves. There’s nothing more uncivilized than a human being. A tiger is uncivilized, it’s supposed to be a predator. Humans, we pride ourselves on being more than our base desires. How’s that going for us these days? And we have the conceit to call the jungle uncivilized, I find nothing more insulting than to call humanity a higher species.

  • @rusty6314

    @rusty6314

    Ай бұрын

    @@doncartier6796 I understand where your coming from but there are also examples of human selflessness toward each other and other species. Unfortunately it is the exception and not the rule, thanks for the reply.

  • @blockaderunner

    @blockaderunner

    Ай бұрын

    @@rusty6314 The whole country of Japan is pretty selfless for their fellow Japanese in a catastrophe.

  • @rusty6314

    @rusty6314

    Ай бұрын

    @@blockaderunner I saw that after the earthquake years back. During WW 2 they were also known for their brutality. Curious how a people can radically change their values over time.

  • @blockaderunner

    @blockaderunner

    Ай бұрын

    @@rusty6314 brutality to non-Japanese still the same people

  • @kennynguyen2460
    @kennynguyen2460Ай бұрын

    Very inspirational, thanks brother.

  • @superseamstersewingshow514
    @superseamstersewingshow514Ай бұрын

    Thanks! Good information!

  • @Annihilate3275
    @Annihilate3275Ай бұрын

    Been listening to you for a few years and always liked your content. Congrats on 100k subs!

  • @hellofromdave
    @hellofromdaveАй бұрын

    I did that game for a few years and then got my own renovation business going. Then I bought real estate. Now I just work part time.

  • @hankson5002

    @hankson5002

    Ай бұрын

    Well done

  • @tanura5830

    @tanura5830

    9 күн бұрын

    Congrats

  • @AZCryptoRealtor
    @AZCryptoRealtorАй бұрын

    Well said really appreciate your genuine thoughts❤

  • @juangalvez8594
    @juangalvez8594Ай бұрын

    Just came across your channel, everything you are saying is exactly what I'm going true. I gave up on everything but myself. Thanks for posting. Got a new subscriber. 👍👌

  • @RANS87IROCZ

    @RANS87IROCZ

    Ай бұрын

    I lost near everything! But yep only living for myself

  • @mann8098
    @mann8098Ай бұрын

    Facts brother. You also suggested solutions. 💪👏🤝 Solutions are what's needed.

  • @DoritosBurger
    @DoritosBurgerАй бұрын

    Learn to appreciate the little things in life, and you won’t feel so bad about not having certain things.

  • @user-xm1yd6ds3j
    @user-xm1yd6ds3j4 күн бұрын

    You nailed it, brother. Nailed it.

  • @igrenne7121
    @igrenne7121Ай бұрын

    Another great video. Keep helping guys opening their eyes about what is outside.