Is Being Fat a Choice? | Middle Ground

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0:00 intro
0:32 Being fat or skinny is a choice
6:56 I would rather be skinny than fat
12:42 America has an obesity problem
21:59 Fat shaming is worse than skinny shaming
28:10 Diet culture has positive effects

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  • @jubilee
    @jubilee6 ай бұрын

    Exclusive prompt only on Patreon: bit.ly/47HwDsG “The body positivity movement promotes childhood obesity”

  • @MaxRamos8

    @MaxRamos8

    6 ай бұрын

    I think it's a 50% split cuz genetics, environment, economics, and upbringing are all factors that aren't controlled

  • @dohadena

    @dohadena

    6 ай бұрын

    are you guys not making enough money from millions of views and ads on here why is a part of the video behind a paywall? 😐

  • @catalyst3713

    @catalyst3713

    6 ай бұрын

    Yes it absolutely does.

  • @user-sf9gs2pg1b

    @user-sf9gs2pg1b

    6 ай бұрын

    @@MaxRamos8 I feel like genetics does play a role, but probably less than it’s implied. Consider that a family of overweight people will feed their kids what they eat and thus make it appear genetic, when in reality they’re just eating the same foods in the quantities their family has.

  • @LuZu_

    @LuZu_

    6 ай бұрын

    @@user-sf9gs2pg1b /simulating their lifestyle

  • @StingWe
    @StingWe6 ай бұрын

    Telling a dangerously overweight person not to lose weight because they're "beautiful" is like telling an alcoholic not to stop drinking because they're "fun".

  • @soylatte1288

    @soylatte1288

    6 ай бұрын

    But on the flip side, in studies it shows that bullying plus size people for their weight doesn’t actually “help” them lose weight but in fact increases binge eating due to stress

  • @RS54321

    @RS54321

    6 ай бұрын

    Being dangerously overweight isn't beautiful, though.

  • @mel-ed3yw

    @mel-ed3yw

    6 ай бұрын

    @@RS54321beauty is subjective

  • @Huge_Echman

    @Huge_Echman

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@@soylatte1288 What a wild false dichotomy.

  • @sf8262

    @sf8262

    6 ай бұрын

    @@soylatte1288 at least in part because society is pushing to make it too acceptable to stay unhealthily overweight, and make it frowned upon to mention it. family members and close friends should say something, but not random strangers

  • @millieegirl
    @millieegirl4 ай бұрын

    why is nobody talking about parker and the "some days i don't eat" casually 😭

  • @stacymiffin3243

    @stacymiffin3243

    3 ай бұрын

    No literally. Like Parker, that’s a disordered way of eating.

  • @ChaseBurns-kc7xg

    @ChaseBurns-kc7xg

    3 ай бұрын

    fasting isn't an eating disorder he does have one but choosing to cleanse your pallet once or twice a month or not eating certain things certain days isn't an eating disorder@@stacymiffin3243

  • @jsanchez8855

    @jsanchez8855

    3 ай бұрын

    My boyfriend looks EXACTLY like Parker. Like I had to ask him if that was actually him. But anyway, he also doesn't eat some days but he has IBS and ADHD and many days will just.. forget to eat, or avoid it if his tummy is feeling off. I have to actively remind him to eat.

  • @revekat2053

    @revekat2053

    3 ай бұрын

    @@jsanchez8855he might be on medication that makes him lose his appetite.

  • @NeptuneChildASMR

    @NeptuneChildASMR

    3 ай бұрын

    I went through a few years where I would forget to eat too. It wasn’t purposely. I also have ADHD. On those days I would sometimes be up at 3 am and realize I forgot to eat and then grab something and make myself eat it. Or I’d go a day without eating and wake up and eat cheesecake in the morning 😅 I have had disordered eating for a lot of my life but during that time it wasn’t purposely avoiding food so I wouldn’t have considered it disordered compared to the times I’ve struggled with actual eating disorders.

  • @nirvanaluvr19
    @nirvanaluvr19Ай бұрын

    Madeline saying she’s average weight for women in America just proves that America has such a bad obesity problem 😭

  • @voidackerman2082

    @voidackerman2082

    Ай бұрын

    she is wrong

  • @HaileysHealth

    @HaileysHealth

    Ай бұрын

    Madeline is delusional! She’s not average size, and her body is not at its “set point”.

  • @meridoughten9425

    @meridoughten9425

    20 күн бұрын

    @@voidackerman2082 yeah the average weight of American women is 170 lbs and, no offense intended, but she clearly weighs more than that...

  • @alla9916

    @alla9916

    18 күн бұрын

    Also don't forget that the average height is 5'4". Someone who is shorter weighs less. I am 5'6" and 160 and I feel overweight and uncomfortable in my body. I get tired easily and clothes fit me weird. I felt much better at 135 lbs.

  • @t_rok

    @t_rok

    18 күн бұрын

    @@meridoughten9425 omg 170 is pretty big

  • @quinn7694
    @quinn7694Ай бұрын

    Dominick seems like such a down to earth kind person, i wish him and his wife n kids well ❤

  • @BBCEmily
    @BBCEmily4 ай бұрын

    Bottom line: don't be rude or mean to people, but also, let's not pretend that being obese is in any way healthy.

  • @Tommy-nh4su

    @Tommy-nh4su

    3 ай бұрын

    And let's not pretend being anorexic is healthy either. Both are bad.

  • @sendcottoncandypls

    @sendcottoncandypls

    3 ай бұрын

    ​@@Tommy-nh4su theres a difference between being just skinny and anorexic and anorexia is literally the most deadly mental illness so like...obviously its not healthy and i dont think anyone here said that

  • @BBCEmily

    @BBCEmily

    3 ай бұрын

    @@Tommy-nh4su Of course both are bad. But this episode is about obesity.

  • @serah3338

    @serah3338

    3 ай бұрын

    okay, let's also not pretend "not being healthy" is why obese people are treated so poorly

  • @BBCEmily

    @BBCEmily

    3 ай бұрын

    @@serah3338 I'm referring to overweight individuals who try to glorify their condition, as if there is nothing wrong or unusual about it. Encouraging others to be obese / normalizing it as if "it's alright to be super overweight" is just as damaging as encouraging people to starve themselves.

  • @mycatsnameisgizmo4677
    @mycatsnameisgizmo46776 ай бұрын

    Seeing everyone jump on Lauren when she said skinny people don’t eat junk food was refreshing

  • @mra4955

    @mra4955

    6 ай бұрын

    It's not that skinny people don't eat junk food, it's that they don't eat too much junk food

  • @corsariocapitao

    @corsariocapitao

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@@mra4955what is too much junk food?

  • @spicycorndogs4619

    @spicycorndogs4619

    6 ай бұрын

    @@mra4955that’s also not true as a skinny person who eats way too much junk food lol

  • @uchennanwogu2142

    @uchennanwogu2142

    6 ай бұрын

    @@spicycorndogs4619trust me, search up daily eating of an obese person

  • @mra4955

    @mra4955

    6 ай бұрын

    @@spicycorndogs4619 ok, must not be true then

  • @noora78782
    @noora787822 ай бұрын

    Lauren saying she can't think of a single place that would be a food desert is so incredibly out of touch and ignorant I was shocked.

  • @tranatkikomi6873

    @tranatkikomi6873

    Ай бұрын

    I know some people just don't have a clue

  • @pimvankempen4218

    @pimvankempen4218

    Ай бұрын

    I'm confused about this. If there is a place that doesn't have a grocery store in the area but it does have fast food restaurants, what's stopping anyone from starting a grocery store there? It seems like that would be very profitable.

  • @noora78782

    @noora78782

    Ай бұрын

    @@pimvankempen4218 there are many areas that are more remote or just not major cities where there is not a grocery store for large distances. they’re usually in areas with less densely populated areas, higher amounts of abandoned homes, lower incomes and low education levels. idk what’s stopping ppl from opening one but probably profit margins. it’s more profitable to open a grocery store in a much more densely populated area than one with less. so basically the city planning is discriminatory against these rural populations

  • @down-to-earth-mystery-school

    @down-to-earth-mystery-school

    Ай бұрын

    @@pimvankempen4218did you understand the amount of funding you must have to buy/rent a property, purchase all the refrigeration, hire all the staff, comply with safety regulations/licensing/inspections. If your town is so small you don’t have a grocery store, chances are you are also too poor to start a complex, expensive business…

  • @ninjustumaster5101

    @ninjustumaster5101

    24 күн бұрын

    Imagine being this lazy

  • @terecitanevarez2905
    @terecitanevarez2905Ай бұрын

    " I chose not to eat somedays"... friend there's a name for that

  • @flamefusion8963

    @flamefusion8963

    Ай бұрын

    Called having discipline.

  • @terecitanevarez2905

    @terecitanevarez2905

    Ай бұрын

    @@flamefusion8963 u don't need to "discipline" yourself to stay thin when he alr said he's underweight and wants to gain weight

  • @MaryJaneJones.

    @MaryJaneJones.

    26 күн бұрын

    It's called fasting. I lost 50 pounds in 8 weeks. Now I'm 120 pounds.

  • @mollybetts3449

    @mollybetts3449

    26 күн бұрын

    @@MaryJaneJones. Fasting is fine intermittently, but your body needs nutrients to survive. You are only supposed to lose 1-3 lbs a week in order to sustain yourself and your metabolism. There's nothing wrong with fasting, but there are significant health risks with long-term fasting

  • @emfrida7917

    @emfrida7917

    25 күн бұрын

    @@MaryJaneJones.what fast did u do?

  • @bellalulu6249
    @bellalulu62492 ай бұрын

    i NEED to see overweight vs gym rats. Especially gym rats who were overweight i feel like it’s a whole new harsh but real perspective

  • @Musa_hi

    @Musa_hi

    Ай бұрын

    Fr we need one! but at the end I feel like the gym goers will be called "insecure" for changing themselves, I've seen so many of them get absolutely bodyshamed in the comments :/

  • @edwardgaiennie8956

    @edwardgaiennie8956

    Ай бұрын

    Lauren gives me the gym rat vibe. But I don’t think she had a transformation

  • @Musa_hi

    @Musa_hi

    Ай бұрын

    @@edwardgaiennie8956 she seems like a strict dietician rather than a gym rat

  • @joebriggs5781

    @joebriggs5781

    Ай бұрын

    @@edwardgaiennie8956 it’s fine to be a gym rat but she has an extreme relationship with food. You can be more balanced and still be in great shape. She’s free to do what she wants, but lots of healthy people eat junk food here and there.

  • @jadaolson6479

    @jadaolson6479

    Ай бұрын

    Why are gym rats the standard for health? Like what they gotta do w this? Some gym rats have disordered eating in order to maintain their bodies, how is that healthy?

  • @vjrdxt
    @vjrdxt4 ай бұрын

    when Lauren said she doesn't think skinny people go into the junk food aisle I already knew she was an almond mom type of person because that made no sense.

  • @divinedlibra9884

    @divinedlibra9884

    3 ай бұрын

    Fr. I have very fast metabolism. Sometimes i eat so unhealthy but I do not gain any weight

  • @kab9706

    @kab9706

    3 ай бұрын

    I think she worded herself badly, because skinny people do eat junk food and fast food, but thin people eat LESS of it. Smaller portions. A thin person is taking in less calories than a 400lb person.

  • @divinedlibra9884

    @divinedlibra9884

    3 ай бұрын

    @@kab9706 i agree. There needs to be a balance. But sometimes I do eat more junk food than people that are bigger than me. It’s weird. I think you need to find the balance between junk food and healthy food within your own body that fits your metabolism.

  • @kab9706

    @kab9706

    3 ай бұрын

    @divinedlibra9884 same I eat junk but I don't really binge eat or sneak snacks all night. Obese people sometimes claim they "never" eat or eat healthier than thin people, but those calories come from somewhere

  • @alyssamarie5306

    @alyssamarie5306

    3 ай бұрын

    ⁠@@kab9706what do you mean thin vs skinny…

  • @celinepa8246
    @celinepa8246Ай бұрын

    Noone should be wearing g-strings in public. Period.

  • @AppleOfThineEye

    @AppleOfThineEye

    15 күн бұрын

    Nah, people should be able to wear (or not wear) what they please as a matter of autonomy.

  • @cheesecurdinator4010

    @cheesecurdinator4010

    14 күн бұрын

    ​@@AppleOfThineEyenah its gross

  • @AppleOfThineEye

    @AppleOfThineEye

    14 күн бұрын

    @@cheesecurdinator4010 You don't get to restrict someone's rights because you find them distasteful.

  • @cheesecurdinator4010

    @cheesecurdinator4010

    14 күн бұрын

    @@AppleOfThineEye I do too

  • @unconventionalguitarist9129

    @unconventionalguitarist9129

    14 күн бұрын

    Yea, I agree with cheese

  • @Vilik-nm7ry
    @Vilik-nm7ryАй бұрын

    Saying she's the average weight is WILD, it's just not true.

  • @LINA-je9my

    @LINA-je9my

    29 күн бұрын

    Well historically it's not but nowadays it is actually the average weight.

  • @goldie12577

    @goldie12577

    17 күн бұрын

    @@LINA-je9my That is not average even by today's standards

  • @LINA-je9my

    @LINA-je9my

    17 күн бұрын

    @@goldie12577 ok

  • @LINA-je9my

    @LINA-je9my

    14 күн бұрын

    @@goldie12577 ok

  • @LINA-je9my

    @LINA-je9my

    14 күн бұрын

    @@goldie12577 ok.

  • @Welsh-Trials-Enduro
    @Welsh-Trials-Enduro6 ай бұрын

    Props to dominick for being self aware and balanced in his viewpoints

  • @TheSalami

    @TheSalami

    6 ай бұрын

    He’s the only one who mentioned seed oils let’s go

  • @ProfessorBonnie

    @ProfessorBonnie

    6 ай бұрын

    @@TheSalamihi carson

  • @Mary-lr5ok

    @Mary-lr5ok

    6 ай бұрын

    His point about farms in small towns was kinda wack tho. Those farms are selling their meat and eggs in bulk to nationwide distributors, not to local poor people lol

  • @pog8744

    @pog8744

    6 ай бұрын

    @@Mary-lr5ok He meant that the residents themselves are farmers or at least have their own chickens

  • @goosmus

    @goosmus

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@@pog8744 yeah that's correct! I've spent a lot of time on the road and while I obviously haven't visited every city in America, the thing rural cities had that places like LA certainly don't is land! People out there often had a few chickens of their own, and land enough to grow some vegetables, fruits, etc. so many fresh fruit trees, forageables, and more! Looking forward myself to getting well out of the city.

  • @Dioliolio
    @Dioliolio6 ай бұрын

    Shoutout to Dominick for being a totally reasonable and level headed dude.

  • @rollitupmars

    @rollitupmars

    6 ай бұрын

    He’s like this in all videos a really great guy

  • @TeenageDirtbag8

    @TeenageDirtbag8

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@@rollitupmarsYep agree

  • @masterqui-gonjinn90

    @masterqui-gonjinn90

    6 ай бұрын

    i hope he gets the help he needs

  • @goosmus

    @goosmus

    6 ай бұрын

    Aww shucks you guys are so nice 😍😍

  • @Lxrd_Rome

    @Lxrd_Rome

    6 ай бұрын

    @@goosmusbro why you let her say she’s the average weight for someone

  • @irishcoco725
    @irishcoco725Ай бұрын

    Red dress is obsessed with thinness equating to morally better. Seems like she is looking for a gold star for being thin.

  • @user-mo1hp4yu2i
    @user-mo1hp4yu2iАй бұрын

    As a fitness coach who has helped many people gain and lose weight, I want to share my observations. All the slim individuals who told me that they also eat a lot or consume a lot of junk food, when I delve into how much food they actually eat in a day or how many calories they intake, the results are astonishingly similar. In fact, none of the slim people consume a large amount of junk food. Their average daily calorie intake is much lower than that of a normal person, and their appetite is very small. Similarly, individuals who claim they eat very little but are overweight always underestimate their appetite and the calorie content of their food.Excessive obesity and being too thin are both harmful to the body and unattractive. What's truly important is learning to control your own figure, so that when you are dissatisfied with your physique, you can change it as you wish. Controlling weight is never a difficult task; it is merely a skill, similar to riding a bicycle or swimming, that everyone can master as long as you have courage to try and faith to overcome certain difficulties.

  • @The_Tortoise_and_the_Hare

    @The_Tortoise_and_the_Hare

    Ай бұрын

    yeah they should have said they eat junk food often, not that they eat a lot of junk food.

  • @Afrogirrl

    @Afrogirrl

    Ай бұрын

    Exactly lots of my friends who ppl say they have a ‘fast metabolism’ almost never finish their plate of food or that one fast food meal they eat ‘everyday’ wouldve been their only meal that day because they forgot to eat, or were preoccupied with other things

  • @The_Tortoise_and_the_Hare

    @The_Tortoise_and_the_Hare

    Ай бұрын

    @@Afrogirrl you can have a faster metabolism, but only people who use their body a lot will, the more active you are the more you'll burn off. Having more muscle mass makes you burn more calories faster than someone who doesn't

  • @Afrogirrl

    @Afrogirrl

    Ай бұрын

    @@The_Tortoise_and_the_Hare yeah i dont disagree at all. But I feel like if you’re a skinnier person seen with a burger you’ll instantly be claimed to have a fast metabolism

  • @The_Tortoise_and_the_Hare

    @The_Tortoise_and_the_Hare

    Ай бұрын

    @@Afrogirrl yeah, but that's just based on some subconscious learning, which yes, it's false. And also a burger isn't that bad, I think a burger at mcdonalds is like 350 kcal or less and if you eat that as a meal then you eat less than what a meal would be, typically a meal would be 500 calories.

  • @therandommusicguy4773
    @therandommusicguy47734 ай бұрын

    Dominick was the sort of person we should all be like. He didn't make excuses to suit himself, while also not bringing himself down.

  • @walkingonfiree7609

    @walkingonfiree7609

    3 ай бұрын

    no, but he made judgements on everyone else and assumed they should think the same as him.

  • @RaviPatel-lb7uc

    @RaviPatel-lb7uc

    3 ай бұрын

    @@walkingonfiree7609 He judged them after they opened their mouths and excuses came out.

  • @apowell539

    @apowell539

    3 ай бұрын

    He's my spirit animal, I loved his accountability.

  • @dont_harsh_my_mellow

    @dont_harsh_my_mellow

    3 ай бұрын

    @@walkingonfiree7609 All that came out of the mouths of the others were sad back stories to justify not putting in the work to manage their weight. Is it harder for some ppl? Yes. Do some ppl have to jump through higher hoops for the same results? Yes. That doesn’t mean they shouldn’t or can’t. It’s a CHOICE, as he mentioned too. The more we see a trial or obstacle as an excuse for complacency, the worse off we all will be. Imagine if Jackie Robinson thought how these ladies did. Would he really have gotten to his level of legendary status? No.

  • @randomaccount3119

    @randomaccount3119

    3 ай бұрын

    I agree. I hope he lives a great life. He said he wants to be skinny so I hope he gets to his goal. It will benefit him

  • @abi-fs5jt
    @abi-fs5jt4 ай бұрын

    lauren acting like everyone can go see an endocrinolgist and not worry about medication costs...

  • @familybitestravel4630

    @familybitestravel4630

    3 ай бұрын

    Yep. AND if she has hyperthyroidism... she is more likely to be skinny.

  • @tobiasdelasson8992

    @tobiasdelasson8992

    3 ай бұрын

    just live in europe 👍

  • @sapphire1817

    @sapphire1817

    3 ай бұрын

    That's exactly it. It's complete privilege to bekuege that we all can do that especially as women and don't even get me started on those who are ethic lol

  • @amandathaler1456

    @amandathaler1456

    3 ай бұрын

    She definitely carries the mindset of "I am thin and I am the better for it"

  • @gabby9388

    @gabby9388

    3 ай бұрын

    Literally

  • @ariannarodriguez3231
    @ariannarodriguez3231Ай бұрын

    Lauren has literally never met a poor person

  • @lukeandrew3335

    @lukeandrew3335

    7 күн бұрын

    She has such bad talking points, logic seems hard for her.

  • @JHNTR

    @JHNTR

    7 күн бұрын

    just an out of touch dumbass.

  • @bayamonrican
    @bayamonrican17 күн бұрын

    Madeline saying she is the size of the average American woman was incredibly disturbing. If this is how the average American woman looks like then we 100% have an obesity problem.

  • @gacusrunner2004

    @gacusrunner2004

    17 күн бұрын

    That's the same thing I wrote a second ago 😂 , average is 170 pounds she easily weights 300 pounds

  • @lukeandrew3335

    @lukeandrew3335

    7 күн бұрын

    Lololollo!!

  • @jusletursoulglobaby

    @jusletursoulglobaby

    7 күн бұрын

    almost 42% of Americans are obese.

  • @pxachholic
    @pxachholic4 ай бұрын

    Dominic seems very smart! He thinks very logically and doesn't victimize himself. I wish him a long and healthy life😁

  • @DoyinVoice

    @DoyinVoice

    4 ай бұрын

    Very smart and great communicator

  • @kab9706

    @kab9706

    3 ай бұрын

    Agreed, he's very smart and seems sweet. I like that he takes accountability

  • @JM-yn8mb

    @JM-yn8mb

    3 ай бұрын

    You better keep wishing LOL

  • @simba00784

    @simba00784

    3 ай бұрын

    He a guy

  • @TheGreatPapyrusSpaghetti2697

    @TheGreatPapyrusSpaghetti2697

    3 ай бұрын

    Fr

  • @Aviciiz
    @Aviciiz6 ай бұрын

    Madeline saying she is the average weight of a woman in America is either a lie or a big disappointment from America.

  • @edwin1845

    @edwin1845

    6 ай бұрын

    70% of the usa is overweight 40% obese

  • @CoolCat847

    @CoolCat847

    6 ай бұрын

    She is not the average weight, I checked the stats because I was so shocked. It's 170.8 lbs (77 kg) and she definitely weighs more than that.

  • @Aviciiz

    @Aviciiz

    6 ай бұрын

    @@CoolCat847 Yeah I knew that had to be a lie she probably tells herself to sleep better at night

  • @cngotham4111

    @cngotham4111

    6 ай бұрын

    She be lying to win an argument or shes uninformed

  • @db_2408

    @db_2408

    6 ай бұрын

    honestly, my jaw dropped when she said that

  • @aliakapoor
    @aliakapoor2 ай бұрын

    I really like the guy with glasses and red shorts. He knows that it's not black and white but grey. And the girl in the red dress is what my eating disorder sounds like.

  • @janatomlin1296

    @janatomlin1296

    Ай бұрын

    Yes!! She gives off privileged to another degree

  • @X11CHASE

    @X11CHASE

    16 күн бұрын

    You people are soft, can’t handle when someone doesn’t coddle you when telling the truth. The truth isn’t enough, you wanna be babied along the way… literally every out of shape person on these episodes acts like they did what it took to be fit but it just magically didn’t work for them

  • @kathysandoval7054
    @kathysandoval7054Ай бұрын

    We shouldn’t even think of “GETTING THIN” we need to strive for a healthy LIFESTYLE. Build healthy habits, learn to build a healthy plate, do research, exercise, lift, go outdoors! Eat your favorite meals too! Enjoy your “guilty pleasure”. We have so much access to information on the internet.

  • @Afrogirrl

    @Afrogirrl

    Ай бұрын

    If you want to be healthy then you should strive for all kinds like your body weight. ‘Guilty pleasures’ are guilty for a reason

  • @britwashereee

    @britwashereee

    22 күн бұрын

    @@Afrogirrl No, the number on the scale does not mean healthy or unhealthy in all situations. Correlation does not equal causation. Also, many guilty pleasures are things that people feel guilty about because it is something outside what they view as normal because of society. It does not mean they should actually feel guilty.

  • @Afrogirrl

    @Afrogirrl

    22 күн бұрын

    @@britwashereee society? People should eat to their hearts extent and it’s okay to have excess adipose tissue, because of society?

  • @britwashereee

    @britwashereee

    21 күн бұрын

    @@Afrogirrl Why are you saying something that I didn’t. That is not what I was saying, read my comment again. I was addressing what was said in the OC.

  • @rico14

    @rico14

    19 күн бұрын

    @@britwashereeethat’s a bit disingenuous. Most people in America are overweight by +30 pounds on their frame, and telling them that aiming for a smaller weight is harmful. Might actually be counterproductive.

  • @mikhaylasellars2362
    @mikhaylasellars23625 ай бұрын

    saying skinny people don’t eat junk food is insane

  • @RichardTavilla

    @RichardTavilla

    3 ай бұрын

    I don’t think you realize though that, even though they do, it’s the amount of it. Overweight people are extreme liars about how much they actually eat. They lie to themselves. Yes skinny people might have a cupcake once in a while but they don’t have three every day.

  • @sierra94iolana

    @sierra94iolana

    3 ай бұрын

    @@RichardTavillaas someone who is definitely considered skinny…I often eat a whole pint of ice cream and carb-centered meals on a daily basis. Our natural metabolism is a big determinant of our set weights.

  • @Mike-hk8lx

    @Mike-hk8lx

    3 ай бұрын

    @@sierra94iolana of course and age comes into play as well. Amount of junk and booze and I consumed in my 20s.

  • @user-un7yy3rh6h

    @user-un7yy3rh6h

    3 ай бұрын

    @@RichardTavillaa cupcake once in a while? 😂😂😂

  • @RichardTavilla

    @RichardTavilla

    3 ай бұрын

    @@user-un7yy3rh6h she eats a case a day

  • @MPLetsTalkAboutIt
    @MPLetsTalkAboutIt6 ай бұрын

    Dominick is the definition of accountability. He holds himself accountable but also is able to see its up to him whether he wants to change or not

  • @joeyhernandez7908

    @joeyhernandez7908

    6 ай бұрын

    Fax but at times comes out douchey

  • @jennosyde709

    @jennosyde709

    6 ай бұрын

    Perhaps so, though he likely does not have the background in psychology to understand that some of what he is saying is a bit silly. Even if he wanted to boil it down to willpower (though there are countless systemic factors which contribute towards obesity), willpower is quite literally a limited resource within the body that is regulated by blood glucose levels within the brain. People who struggle with self control are typically placed within environments where they are frequently exposed to high levels of temptation, which reduces glucose levels within the body making it more and more difficult to exert self control with each subsequent temptation. Many people due to financial, legal, or social circumstances cannot simply up and change every component to their lives, which can make it exceptionally difficult to lose weight simply because of this factor alone. People in Europe do not have some innate ability for willpower that Americans do not. The difference is that they have different systemic solutions to address obesity, including walkable cities, less fast food, higher regulation in the food manufacturing process, and better regional wages/work hours that leave people with the time and energy to cook at home. I do respect Dominick's willingness to take accountability for his own life, though this subject is far more complicated than being a mere issue of self control.

  • @hannahmacdonald9040

    @hannahmacdonald9040

    6 ай бұрын

    @@jennosyde709 Yeah agreed some of his takes were way to simplistic, weight is a lot more complicated than mere willpower...

  • @McKinley491

    @McKinley491

    6 ай бұрын

    it is an issue of self control and willpower and discipline. I'm not naturally skinny, i calorie count every single day and do calories in vs calories out. Some people lack that discipline, simple as that. Take accountability for your own obesity. @@jennosyde709

  • @McKinley491

    @McKinley491

    6 ай бұрын

    there's fast food everywhere, don't eat it maybe? You're not a child. Where I live theres' tonnes of horrible fast food, you just avoid it. Walkable cities? You can still go to the gym or run, btw though, exercise isn't necessary to lose weight. It's all diet (calories in vs calories out). You also don't need to buy sugary HFCS crap in America. And even if you do, it's still calories in vs calories out. You could lose weight on mcdonalds if you wanted.@@jennosyde709

  • @ellabella803
    @ellabella80321 күн бұрын

    10:59 there is no such thing as a fatphobic bias. If youre overweight and obese, you WILL get sicker easily. This is from personal experience, please just be so for real.

  • @ameerjabdoh5122

    @ameerjabdoh5122

    8 күн бұрын

    For the first time i hear this term in research !!! They always play as a victim and blame others and don't take responsibility for their actions .

  • @mysticarchives8823

    @mysticarchives8823

    2 сағат бұрын

    I think the point is that obesity can be caused by other conditions and that because obesity is so broadly correlated with worse quality of life, many doctors won't put in the effort to find and treat the root cause of poor health. If you have a genetic disease that causes you to gain weight AND is treatable by medication, but your doctor only tells you to exercise more and eat less, they're doing you a disservice.

  • @darionmartin7618
    @darionmartin761812 күн бұрын

    The taller larger gentleman is living in reality and speaks eloquently about it. S tier

  • @chuckbonanni9457
    @chuckbonanni94575 ай бұрын

    Lauren was the embodiment of privileged and completely lacked empathy for others life experiences. I’m 115 pounds and I would never belittle someone how she did.

  • @susse2343

    @susse2343

    5 ай бұрын

    She had the absolutely worst stink bombs of a take omg

  • @vlogsbyrow

    @vlogsbyrow

    5 ай бұрын

    It made me seethe how she tried to mask her arguments as "logic" when they were obviously coming from a place of deep arrogance and bias. She just tried to sound fair 🤦‍♀

  • @meadowsweetstudios444

    @meadowsweetstudios444

    5 ай бұрын

    @@vlogsbyrowshe was saying the truth, though. You don’t need to sugarcoat all time. Could she have been a little more empathetic? Yes. But was she wrong? No.

  • @Aging_Casually_Late_Gamer

    @Aging_Casually_Late_Gamer

    5 ай бұрын

    "Privilege" is a social construct.

  • @Jordan-xg4pn

    @Jordan-xg4pn

    5 ай бұрын

    ​@@Aging_Casually_Late_Gamerbaby all language is socially constructed

  • @goldengoddess8568
    @goldengoddess85685 ай бұрын

    The way she said “I’m the average weight for women in America, so if you’re looking for the average the closest you’re going to get is me”, the only reason that’s the case is because of the obesity epidemic… That was not always the average weight historically.

  • @destinypointer9069

    @destinypointer9069

    5 ай бұрын

    I agree with that statement. I was shocked when she said that she was the average, because I do not see many individuals who are that heavy. Do not get me wrong, I see overweight individuals, but I mostly see people who are 300lbs or below. Id say size 14-18 is the average for women because that is usually the size that is sold out most of the time.

  • @-danny.

    @-danny.

    5 ай бұрын

    @@destinypointer9069the average woman in the US is like ~5’3 and 170 lbs. So she’s definitely bigger than the average woman

  • @fdscrl6016

    @fdscrl6016

    5 ай бұрын

    wow that is insane as someone from europe... and it is a problem to be that big. being the average doesn't mean its not bad like...

  • @classtilton871

    @classtilton871

    5 ай бұрын

    She aint the average woman, shes delusional. Sorry if its harsh but thems the facts

  • @viaisabeauty7540

    @viaisabeauty7540

    5 ай бұрын

    @@-danny.omg im literally 5’3 170 lbs 😩😩…crazy I’m that spot on 😂

  • @vanishayvanna3486
    @vanishayvanna3486Ай бұрын

    That betterhelp ad came in as a jumpscare😭

  • @MammothMorals
    @MammothMoralsАй бұрын

    The issue with minimum wage jobs is not that those people can't afford to eat healthy. Its that minimum wage jobs often are the most time consuming. They don't have the tike to cook a healthy meal. McDonald's isn't cheaper than rice and beans. But rice and beans takes longer to prep.

  • @sunshinecherries

    @sunshinecherries

    17 күн бұрын

    I think McD's is more expensive per unit meal compared to groceries. I live in Toronto and $25 of fast food would feed me for 2-3 meals. But $3 rice + $10 veggies + $12 meat will feed me for 6-7 meals. I spend about $50-$60 on groceries per week and cook most of my meals. Going back to what you mentioned about time - my instant pot and slow cooker have been huge time savers for me 😅 just toss stuff in and let it do its thing

  • @Spijen

    @Spijen

    14 күн бұрын

    @@sunshinecherries i get the whole "cheaper in the long run to buy groceries" thing, but sometimes people dont realize that we dont have the $50 to spend in the first place. Luckily im finally able to buy groceries, but for a long time i only had $50/week and that was for literally everything-- food, toiletries, etc. Now i always buy whats gonna save money i the long run, but there were so many times where i had to spend my $15 on some super cheap fast food and had to make it stretch for days

  • @dannygonxalez9011

    @dannygonxalez9011

    13 күн бұрын

    mcdonald’s has gotten so expensive, i save so much more money when i cook at home and spend an hour or so meal prepping.

  • @MammothMorals

    @MammothMorals

    13 күн бұрын

    @@Spijen again $15 will get you more out of groceries if you buy correctly than it would fast food.

  • @sunshinecherries

    @sunshinecherries

    13 күн бұрын

    @@MammothMorals agreed. $15 will MAYBE get you 4 items from a super value menu. Generally, food is more expensive the more processed it is. I just buy "raw" groceries and cook food myself 😁

  • @isaiahharris7046
    @isaiahharris70465 ай бұрын

    They should do another episode to where it's the exact same prompt but this time it's nothing but doctors debating. That would be interesting

  • @christinasanderford5849

    @christinasanderford5849

    5 ай бұрын

    ooohhh yeah

  • @FKDame

    @FKDame

    5 ай бұрын

    Yeah except they’re not going to be debating because it’s not really a debate

  • @isaiahharris7046

    @isaiahharris7046

    5 ай бұрын

    @FKDame yes they would there's so many different opinions among various different doctors.

  • @elianavictor108

    @elianavictor108

    5 ай бұрын

    There would most likely not be a debate. Science shows that it is not healthy for someone to be overweight. In terms of beauty or ability to be a happy person, that is a different discussion, but most likely all doctors will agree from a health standpoint.

  • @chouyi7591

    @chouyi7591

    5 ай бұрын

    itd be hard to find a doctor that’s pro obesity

  • @laurynelizz__
    @laurynelizz__6 ай бұрын

    This discussion needed more people at healthy weights and with healthy relationships with food. Even the skinny people exhibit a lot of disordered behaviors from what I can tell, based on what they’ve told us

  • @TheDevastator619

    @TheDevastator619

    6 ай бұрын

    When Parker openly said he “chooses” not to eat some days, it screamed depravation to me. Sure there are days when you’re not hungry and your body doesn’t prompt to eat, but if you’re actively making the choice to suppress when your body is telling you you’re hungry is harmful.

  • @rosee8140

    @rosee8140

    6 ай бұрын

    I kinda wanna see the opposite, morbidly obese vs diagnosed anorexic.

  • @weirdflex8158

    @weirdflex8158

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@@TheDevastator619not necessarily no. Fasting is great for lots of people

  • @Idkchangethislater

    @Idkchangethislater

    6 ай бұрын

    Exactly both sides seemed kinda…Struggling…

  • @Formerlywendytestaburger1621

    @Formerlywendytestaburger1621

    6 ай бұрын

    I'm pretty sure he meant that his appetite is so low that he wouldn't eat because he talked about it as an unhealthy thing@@TheDevastator619

  • @biagalves6553
    @biagalves6553Ай бұрын

    I wish I could participate on this discussion, love talking about it and meeting people that know how to be polite when expressing their opinions is so great

  • @harrisonneil8444
    @harrisonneil8444Ай бұрын

    Crazy...Why are most the women on the panel making up reasons/excuses on why they are unable to eat healthy, and the only overweight guy on the panel is actually taking accountability on poor eating habits/choices

  • @JKDC97
    @JKDC976 ай бұрын

    Is anyone checking on Parker? He started the discussion saying that being skinny is a choice because there are some days that he chooses not to eat to later admitting that he is anorexic. That's an eating disorder and just as unhealthy as overeating and being obese. (Also, its important to point out that men's mental health, especially with regard to eating disorders, is SO overlooked and not acknowledged enough)

  • @isa640

    @isa640

    5 ай бұрын

    Why do we need to check on him. He said himself it's a "choice."

  • @aaronaldo14

    @aaronaldo14

    5 ай бұрын

    He’s aware that he is severely underweight

  • @prayed249

    @prayed249

    5 ай бұрын

    def not as unhealthy as overeating or being obese but he should find some kind of help so he can be at a healthy weight

  • @rainnnnnnn

    @rainnnnnnn

    5 ай бұрын

    Is anyone checking on overweight people in this video?

  • @annemmie

    @annemmie

    5 ай бұрын

    @@isa640well having an ed is never a choice

  • @gusudeani6071
    @gusudeani60716 ай бұрын

    I feel like Lauren views being skinny through her own personal lens rather than objectively. The fact she straight faced said skinny people don’t eat junk food is BAFFLING. I’m 118lbs(53kg) and during my early twenties I was eating cake for breakfast some days. I would’ve loved a little bit more back and forth and challenge to Lauren’s claims.

  • @uchennanwogu2142

    @uchennanwogu2142

    6 ай бұрын

    how many calories did you consume? daily

  • @popkick8350

    @popkick8350

    6 ай бұрын

    @@uchennanwogu2142The point wasn’t really about how much cake is eaten or not. It was about eating cake at all since Lauren made the claim skinny people don’t eat junk.

  • @gibbono

    @gibbono

    6 ай бұрын

    ⁠​⁠​⁠@@popkick8350 I’d like to think that Lauren was referring to the fact that skinny people don’t eat much calorie wise which is why she said they don’t eat much junk food either. Metabolism can play a big part but at the end of the day if you’re still skinny even after eating “a lot” then you’re not actually eating that many calories/junk food in this case.

  • @curryascocarrasco4829

    @curryascocarrasco4829

    6 ай бұрын

    I work out because it's fun and it allows me to eat more!

  • @chitownjaxxk7644

    @chitownjaxxk7644

    6 ай бұрын

    @@gibbonobut that’s not true , she should speak for herself because that’s false .

  • @fthidebessai3523
    @fthidebessai35232 ай бұрын

    shame doesn’t work as a motivator. people can only change through love.

  • @sidcrook-hutsler9155

    @sidcrook-hutsler9155

    Ай бұрын

    I disagree. We pushed love and now the majority think being obese is beautiful and healthy

  • @DaniBee2900

    @DaniBee2900

    Ай бұрын

    @@sidcrook-hutsler9155ignorant

  • @HaileysHealth

    @HaileysHealth

    Ай бұрын

    My mom pointed out I gained a lot of weight, looked unhealthy and unlike myself when I was 30. I lost that weight FAST.

  • @AdrianaCowick

    @AdrianaCowick

    2 күн бұрын

    @@sidcrook-hutsler9155It wasn’t actually love that was being pushed. It was deceit.

  • @sunshinecherries
    @sunshinecherries19 күн бұрын

    dominick is so well-spoken. i hope he gets the resources he needs to improve his life for his own sake as well as for his family :)

  • @keirahleesha486
    @keirahleesha4866 ай бұрын

    I laughed so hard when Lauren said “Skinny people” don’t go to the junk food aisle 😂😂 Just because someone is skinny doesn’t mean they are healthy ✌🏽

  • @sweet3488

    @sweet3488

    6 ай бұрын

    Lol yea they say junk food is horrible but people like Parker thinks it’s fine to not eat for entire days

  • @leftunsupervised

    @leftunsupervised

    6 ай бұрын

    @@sweet3488 And Lauren was really vibing with that grapes and lettuce only diet 😂 Ah yes, fiber and fructose bombs. So healthy.

  • @avalonstout1490

    @avalonstout1490

    6 ай бұрын

    @@leftunsupervisedshe literally said the exact opposite. She was actually anti dieting

  • @britterthecritter4531

    @britterthecritter4531

    6 ай бұрын

    Facts, I’ve been skinny my whole life and got high cholesterol 💀💀

  • @leftunsupervised

    @leftunsupervised

    6 ай бұрын

    @@AlesBejr-jk2py Thank you. I don't know why people keep ignoring what words mean in favor of how they are feeling about a word at the time they are typing it.

  • @Shirx.ley7
    @Shirx.ley76 ай бұрын

    It’s a huge problem that people don’t think obesity is unhealthy. Has nothing to do with being beautiful. Everything to do with dying early for no reason.

  • @9395gb

    @9395gb

    6 ай бұрын

    Thank you. They are focused on the aesthetics of weight and beauty. It should not be about that. It's about health...high blood pressure, diabetes, heart attack, joint problems, breathing issues, stroke and earlier death. This can be said for being underweight as well. But the lack of acknowledgement of the weight being uncomfortable and impeding their ability to live a happier and long life.

  • @leftunsupervised

    @leftunsupervised

    6 ай бұрын

    This is based on my experience, so caveat there, but I've never met an obese person who thought that their obesity was healthy or even pleasant. It's very uncomfortable physically. I've met obese people who don't want to be judged as less healthy in their habits than skinny people and treated differently as a person based on their weight alone. Which, to me, is fair. I know loads of perfectly thin people with terrible eating habits who never work out. And many overweight people who eat healthy and exercise. 🤷

  • @Shirx.ley7

    @Shirx.ley7

    6 ай бұрын

    @@leftunsupervised FYI I am an obese person. I never once have claimed to be healthy, as the people in the video are, nor do I think it’s ok. It’s a huge problem in America. I’ve been on a journey to get healthy and have lost 100 pounds in the last year because of my own personal choices. Everything comes down to choices. I’m still obese and I workout 5 days a week. At the core, nobody is naturally obese and I agree that we should all be treated equally but also obesity is a huge problem and only made worse by corporate greed and the overconsumption and gluttony taught in our society

  • @leftunsupervised

    @leftunsupervised

    6 ай бұрын

    @@Shirx.ley7 Congratulations! That's incredible! Is obesity healthy? No. Do many obese people have healthy habits equal to or exceeding the habits of loads of thin people? Yes. I know them personally. They're putting in the work like you, but they aren't getting the results like you. They have other conditions and health factors than you don't seem to have. So, GREAT! That's awesome! But know that your experience isn't universal, so you can't then stand up and say oh, well, it's always a choice. I think the people in the video, esp. Cambria, were saying that you can't assume she's just a person with no self-control based on looking at her. She has healthy habits, she just also has lupus and was given medication that made her gain weight. That wasn't her choice. She doesn't have the same scenario as you, nor should people assume that she does.

  • @Shirx.ley7

    @Shirx.ley7

    6 ай бұрын

    @@leftunsupervised I understand where you’re coming from but I also am studying nutrition and exercise science and there’s no health condition that prevents weight loss by caloric deficit. It is how our bodies are fundamentally wired. Being slightly overweight may not be a choice but being obese is. Some may have to work harder but science is a fact. Understanding your own body and adjusting to your own needs is what it takes if you want to be healthy. There’s no one size fits all, but all should make every effort to be healthy. Nobody’s body is at a 300 pound set point, that’s not how it works chemically. Even with hormonal syndromes and issues, there are choices you can make to be at a healthy weight, I’ve seen it plenty of times and have my own experiences with physical limitations. There’s truly no valid excuse to being obese other than you just don’t want to put in the work, which I understand but let’s be honest about it. If someone is happy with their body then I’m happy for them, but I’m not going to agree that some people are healthy and obese and some people just can’t lose weight when it’s just simply not true.

  • @NotTouchingGrassEver
    @NotTouchingGrassEver2 ай бұрын

    Dominic is a well knowledged person who is logical, and he is able to communicate well to others without belitting them by being self-aware

  • @RG_Eph

    @RG_Eph

    Ай бұрын

    He seems very nice but he is not informed about seed oils. There is so much false information about seed oils being spread

  • @destinyani
    @destinyaniАй бұрын

    The whole weight issue is not cut and dry… therefore, no need to be rude to anyone. Calories in/out is definitely not always the case either.

  • @elik8448
    @elik84483 ай бұрын

    Lauren 100% has the same vibes as a mom who very much causes all her kids to have eating disorders and control issues. I really valued Dominik's self awareness though, he not only acknowledged that being skinny can also be unhealthy and that he himself has unhealthy eating habits but also showed a lot of empathy towards others while they were speaking about their experience.

  • @GoldenGoosey26

    @GoldenGoosey26

    3 ай бұрын

    Or or or, she teaches her kids healthy eating habits

  • @DajaMoonSage

    @DajaMoonSage

    3 ай бұрын

    @@GoldenGoosey26 Doubt it...she said she was for 'body shamming' someone into trying to get healthy. This is how self-image issues start, which can then lead to eating disorders. Body Shamming someone generally does not work. If anything, it can push more mental health issues.

  • @batswanamodipane7774

    @batswanamodipane7774

    3 ай бұрын

    true, I like how he actually admitted that his perspective has changed, which is the whole point of these videos I think

  • @brieonymous

    @brieonymous

    3 ай бұрын

    How do you figure? I see her as the voice of reason. Obesity is not healthy, period. She was also not shying away from the FACT that obesity is not visually appealing to anyone save for people with fetishes.

  • @bekind9827

    @bekind9827

    2 ай бұрын

    @@GoldenGoosey26 My mother who is somewhat similar to Lauren and it has made me fairly unhealthy... Like I will feel like when she is not around I just need to stuff my mouth with bad food because its the only time when I dont have to worry about her judgement. I will say, to some extent the things she says make a lot of sense however she takes it a bit to far and struggles to understand that living a healthy lifestyle is not a one size fits all thing.

  • @enzogeet2463
    @enzogeet24636 ай бұрын

    As a nutritionist, seeing so many people think obesity isn't a factor leading to health diseases is concerning... It is really sad to know that's how it is across the atlantic, Europeans are usually way more educated on this subject.

  • @trackflix.

    @trackflix.

    6 ай бұрын

    They all know it's detrimental to their health lmao they just won't accept it

  • @whatoh3407

    @whatoh3407

    6 ай бұрын

    These girls are coping HARD!!

  • @logicallychaotic9139

    @logicallychaotic9139

    6 ай бұрын

    become a DIETITIAN then come back…

  • @jato2942

    @jato2942

    6 ай бұрын

    Another reason why Europeans are superior

  • @Momo-po5tn

    @Momo-po5tn

    6 ай бұрын

    Americans have brainwashed themselves

  • @vesuvius2444
    @vesuvius2444Ай бұрын

    I once heard someone who had a drug addiction and a food addiction. Say that the food addiction was way worse because we have to eat everyday while the drugs he took weren't something he had to do. So the over eating temptation is always there for him every time he ate. People can definitely change their lot in life but it's definitely not an easy thing for certain people to overcome. It's much easier to never be obese and maintain that. In some ways it's a choice, in other ways, it isn't.

  • @priscila______
    @priscila______24 күн бұрын

    "i chose to not eat some days" oh that's not...

  • @debbie510

    @debbie510

    Күн бұрын

    I went 😯

  • @alexanderhalloran

    @alexanderhalloran

    Күн бұрын

    It's called fasting and it's incredibly healthy to help heal your gut and expel toxins. Everyone should fast on occasion.

  • @NicoleReign
    @NicoleReign6 ай бұрын

    Lauren is so blind to her privilege, it’s tragic. In the US, no, everyone doesn’t have the choice to walk into a doctor’s office (which is hundreds of dollars….) and get checked. Crazy that she made that suggestion

  • @jaynez9027

    @jaynez9027

    6 ай бұрын

    Agree. Her responses were pretty out of touch.

  • @Eroshenkova

    @Eroshenkova

    6 ай бұрын

    If you realy care about yourself you will get the money for your health. Btw in Russia it's free.

  • @cd3xp

    @cd3xp

    6 ай бұрын

    plus not everyone lives close to a grocery store !

  • @sznlaura

    @sznlaura

    6 ай бұрын

    @@Eroshenkovain america average people can’t afford it. Have family ther but am from europe and its really nit accesible to many people there bc like for some its either paying for food and school and rent or doctor

  • @user-he2ou2ex2f

    @user-he2ou2ex2f

    6 ай бұрын

    @@jaynez9027 nah, she keeps it real. No wonder she can manage her own weight. We’re just a society that enables self victimisation. No accountability.

  • @arabellamoore2082
    @arabellamoore20826 ай бұрын

    are we all just gonna ignore that Parker is clearly struggling with an eating disorder....

  • @eleriamirayse6859

    @eleriamirayse6859

    6 ай бұрын

    Not just him

  • @zxr250

    @zxr250

    6 ай бұрын

    I've seen several comments talking about it - so people aren't ignoring it.

  • @AlisonMendez-bx8tp

    @AlisonMendez-bx8tp

    6 ай бұрын

    Multiple ppl in this video have an eating disorder

  • @oreochocolate_lavacake9960

    @oreochocolate_lavacake9960

    6 ай бұрын

    I think he's aware of it as he did mention he is underweight so I hope he's geting the help he needs.

  • @oreochocolate_lavacake9960

    @oreochocolate_lavacake9960

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@@eleriamirayse6859 We're not talking about other people we're talking about Parker.

  • @jasonmageria6274
    @jasonmageria6274Ай бұрын

    these are always interesting lessons in self awareness. Shoutout the boy Dom, he a real one

  • @hearts4av
    @hearts4av27 күн бұрын

    i love how civil this is

  • @rlrcia
    @rlrcia6 ай бұрын

    Being healthy is a choice.

  • @thecoolestcat5078

    @thecoolestcat5078

    6 ай бұрын

    no

  • @nukahina384

    @nukahina384

    6 ай бұрын

    @@thecoolestcat5078 it is tho

  • @Slim-MMA

    @Slim-MMA

    6 ай бұрын

    Fact. Obviously you can get unlucky, but for the most part it’s a choice.

  • @z3onix

    @z3onix

    6 ай бұрын

    Depends on the situation

  • @saltchipper-7147

    @saltchipper-7147

    6 ай бұрын

    Yes, and some people are healthy at higher weights

  • @Allhailpablo
    @Allhailpablo5 ай бұрын

    Dominick was definitely the voice of reason throughout this conversation. So refreshing to see someone who understands a problem and the other side's points and is able to logically and empathetically produce his

  • @Claire-ux2qu

    @Claire-ux2qu

    5 ай бұрын

    except when they were talking about food deserts

  • @SmallSnailMarie

    @SmallSnailMarie

    5 ай бұрын

    I appreciate how during diet culture discussion he asked for the other guys definition rather than just arguing with him without knowing what he considered to be "diet culture". It really shows that he is a cognitive thinker and he is trying very hard to consider everyone's background for their opinions.

  • @JessicaBlaze89
    @JessicaBlaze892 ай бұрын

    I am 35 standing 5'3 weighing 125. I've always been petite. I've struggled w gaining weight my entire life. When I started strength training, weight training, and learning about eating more calories than my body outputs with high metabolism. I've managed to gain 8 pounds with adding in more protein; peanut butter, eggs, milk, and protein shakes have done wonders❤️

  • @JasmineJones-dy1cx
    @JasmineJones-dy1cx12 күн бұрын

    I would’ve loved to be apart of this!! So cool.

  • @symonewest5449
    @symonewest54492 ай бұрын

    "Going to the doctor is a choice" one of the most privileged things I've ever heard

  • @Z1eepy_Rameos

    @Z1eepy_Rameos

    Ай бұрын

    It is if you are fortunate enough. It also depends on where you live. For example being poor in America in need of medical attention then you have the worst luck. I wouldn’t call having basic rights privileged tho.

  • @Martina-cr9io

    @Martina-cr9io

    Ай бұрын

    mainly in america

  • @Szaknj

    @Szaknj

    Ай бұрын

    DEADASS

  • @MrManagemiracles

    @MrManagemiracles

    Ай бұрын

    It shouldn't be, what's the point of taxes if there isn't public free /affordable Healthcare

  • @saf1692

    @saf1692

    Ай бұрын

    That's only if you live somewhere without free healthcare. Here in Canada it is a choice.

  • @lisac6905
    @lisac69056 ай бұрын

    This should be renamed Anorexia vs Binge Eating Disorder. In the first 5 minutes that one guy said he chooses to go without food some days. Literally every person on this panel has said something that relates to disordered eating. Jubilee needs to vet their speakers better because both sides are just pushing an unhealthy lifestyle.

  • @user-he2ou2ex2f

    @user-he2ou2ex2f

    6 ай бұрын

    Yh 100%. Jubilee just loves to get outliers in the discussion. While still interesting takes away from what the debate should’ve been.

  • @FeelMyRhythm2U

    @FeelMyRhythm2U

    6 ай бұрын

    Exactly.

  • @user-sf9gs2pg1b

    @user-sf9gs2pg1b

    6 ай бұрын

    Yeah, I thought that was incredibly strange. Once I saw the skinny guy I immediately thought he had an eating disorder or something.

  • @rosee8140

    @rosee8140

    6 ай бұрын

    The skinny side is definitely not 'anorexic', having disordered eating and being skinny is not the same as anorexia.

  • @trilogy135

    @trilogy135

    6 ай бұрын

    Yup

  • @compoking9413
    @compoking941317 күн бұрын

    Mad respect to Dominick. I agreed with everything he said.

  • @gacusrunner2004

    @gacusrunner2004

    17 күн бұрын

    Yea I have the same thoughts about him, he is very intelligent and have wisdom

  • @lamonnaiemer
    @lamonnaiemerАй бұрын

    I really love that they brought this variety of perspectives together in a harmonious way despite the differences of their opinions and active realities. I deeply appreciate this broadcast. And for the exposure and the interruption of Lauren.

  • @windwielder187
    @windwielder1873 ай бұрын

    Madeline did not just say she is average weight

  • @valarmorghulis25

    @valarmorghulis25

    3 ай бұрын

    Yeah that was insane

  • @queenleo5578

    @queenleo5578

    2 ай бұрын

    She said she was the closest out of all of them. The average size in the US is like a size between a 14-16 now

  • @n0isy-rat

    @n0isy-rat

    2 ай бұрын

    The average hieght and weight of women in america is 170lbs and 5’4 😰

  • @Goosebeoms_

    @Goosebeoms_

    2 ай бұрын

    ​@@n0isy-ratAin't no way💀🤚

  • @lcvinhannah

    @lcvinhannah

    2 ай бұрын

    @@Goosebeoms_ idk how true it is because it’s google but that’s what it says.

  • @lauranottuna
    @lauranottuna6 ай бұрын

    I dont agree with everything said, but I am so glad about how relaxed the conversation was. Not much shaming, no screaming, no talking over each other.

  • @Wanderlust06705

    @Wanderlust06705

    6 ай бұрын

    Same. After watching the trans debate this was really refreshing.

  • @rita8274

    @rita8274

    6 ай бұрын

    Even when they obviously physically disagreed with someone talking, they weren't taking it to the next level by being unnecessarily rude. Nice to see the episodes coming back to actual discussions instead of just screaming matches.

  • @mon3yw4y

    @mon3yw4y

    6 ай бұрын

    They were talking over each other sometimes, perhaps not significantly enough to change the atmosphere of the conversation.

  • @jayart7928

    @jayart7928

    5 ай бұрын

    The fats should be shamed.

  • @drawingdoritu

    @drawingdoritu

    5 ай бұрын

    @@jayart7928i hope this is a joke

  • @Mk11117
    @Mk111172 ай бұрын

    The word systemic used every 5 seconds 🤣🤣🤣

  • @x.elliek.x
    @x.elliek.xАй бұрын

    10:30 i'm sorry but if she's average weight then i'm a literal skeleton 😭😭

  • @YTho-ev1ej
    @YTho-ev1ej5 ай бұрын

    Being skinny doesn’t mean your healthy but being obese means you are unhealthy. I think parents have a duty to make sure their kids are healthy, both mentally and physically (and being overweight pertains to both)

  • @duels

    @duels

    5 ай бұрын

    ​@@KaitlinSkilton not very often you can say its not food related. people will always come up with excuses

  • @duels

    @duels

    5 ай бұрын

    @@KaitlinSkilton look at other countries, clearly something is going on that’s severely unproportionate. not just conditions as it’s made out to be

  • @lilithjones5455

    @lilithjones5455

    5 ай бұрын

    @@KaitlinSkiltonyes and this apparently uncommon thing seems to affect mostly Americans it seems. Definitely not the fact the USA is known for junk foods high in sugar and with less care about what chemicals go in than most other countries

  • @TheAmazingHoho576

    @TheAmazingHoho576

    5 ай бұрын

    And emotionally!

  • @tartantulakid666

    @tartantulakid666

    5 ай бұрын

    @@KaitlinSkilton it's a bit of a stereotype that the woman always looks for the exception and not the rule. Are we really going to pretend that 60% of the adult US population all have genetic diseases?

  • @veronicawinja3682
    @veronicawinja36825 ай бұрын

    As an African who moved to America, food and the food system has been one of the biggest challenges that I have experienced. It's a system that's not for the people at all! and it's even worse for the poor e.g. homeless people. The food quantities are abnormal, vegetables are way more expensive than junk food, there's a lot of variety of junk food. Food here is more for pleasure than for nutritional value.

  • @Summer-ke5es

    @Summer-ke5es

    5 ай бұрын

    Agree. After moving to the US I gained so much weight. And the creziest thing is that I'm gaining weight from simple stuff like potatoes, for example. It doesn't matter if I boil them or grill I still gaining weight. Back home I could it potatoes as much as I want and never gained even one pound.

  • @itsnotif.itswhen

    @itsnotif.itswhen

    5 ай бұрын

    @@Summer-ke5essame with meat quality. I suspect the way they raise farm animals here is different that contributes to the obesity epidemic.

  • @justme.11

    @justme.11

    5 ай бұрын

    Should be the number 1 comment.

  • @selinacadisch8449

    @selinacadisch8449

    5 ай бұрын

    its so crazy cuz for example in Switzerland,which is where i live, most American foods aren‘t even allowed bc of how much chemical and just generally unhealthy stuff is in them.

  • @Oxymera

    @Oxymera

    5 ай бұрын

    I always hear about immigrants eating the same diet they had from their home country and still gaining weight. There must be something in our food that causes this

  • @peardrop7840
    @peardrop784024 күн бұрын

    I’m a fan of Cambria, I think Cambria handled this conversation with a lot knowledge and integrity and empathy. I felt like she knew what made sense for her body and was able to talk about health objectively, she was still personal but I saw that she was thinking about how bodies work for themselves, not how bodies are told to work. the grace of her saying thank you to Lauren at the end expressed so much quiet confidence. Food deserts are 100% a thing as is limited access to fresh produce and if you think it’s not then that’s probably a privilege that needs checking and it’s time to do some research. Also the foods we get given as children will always matter to us and have nostalgia and comfort or they’ll be a trigger but either way, what we have access to as children matters. Choice is choice within a structure, Lauren talks about choices as if everyone has the same choices available to them and that’s not true. I’m glad Lauren got help for her anxiety around body problems and that she’s on a journey and I hope she reaches a truly non judgemental place of acceptance for herself one day, but her journey of oh I had a problem and then I went to a dr and ate healthy food isn’t as a to b as she sees it and I think she’s not seeing outside of the money privilege that she’s had access to; trainer, drs, healthy food, thinking food deserts aren’t real etc, also she kept interrupting, did she interrupt the skinny people as much? I didn’t feel like she was actively listening, I felt like she was waiting to speak and saw her opinion as more important, it isn’t.

  • @olliej.2603
    @olliej.2603Ай бұрын

    If you hate yourself while trying to lose weight then you’re most likely not going to either lose the weight or keep the weight off. Loving yourself through the whole process will not only grow you physically but mentally and emotionally. ❤

  • @The_Tortoise_and_the_Hare

    @The_Tortoise_and_the_Hare

    Ай бұрын

    because it's so easy to just love yourself?

  • @DearAliya
    @DearAliya6 ай бұрын

    I hope Dominick see's all of the support from the comments on this video and always feels motivated to achieve his personal health goals so that he can have the future he wishes for - he deserves it!

  • @georgiadriven

    @georgiadriven

    5 ай бұрын

    I agree!

  • @TheBluntDoctor
    @TheBluntDoctor5 ай бұрын

    “Skinny people don’t go into snack isles “ GIRL WHAT 😭😭😭

  • @EC-dz3fb

    @EC-dz3fb

    5 ай бұрын

    Lauren is a horrible, horrible person.

  • @raevix4766

    @raevix4766

    5 ай бұрын

    They go to it but just take less

  • @itzasweater9621

    @itzasweater9621

    5 ай бұрын

    Skinny adults, especially as they age, do avoid a lot of junk.

  • @ashlynnhillegas3960

    @ashlynnhillegas3960

    5 ай бұрын

    Them skinny people be eating the mosssssttt

  • @ethanhawkins3052

    @ethanhawkins3052

    5 ай бұрын

    @@ashlynnhillegas3960total calorie intake is lower for skinny people

  • @midapa2530
    @midapa2530Ай бұрын

    Dominic is such a lovely and logical person 👏👏👏

  • @yukslime8468
    @yukslime8468Ай бұрын

    “Your body like to be at certain weights” 😂😂😂 that an insane statement

  • @DealthTheGreat

    @DealthTheGreat

    Ай бұрын

    It’s true

  • @HaileysHealth

    @HaileysHealth

    Ай бұрын

    Especially when she’s obese! Lol

  • @yukslime8468

    @yukslime8468

    Ай бұрын

    @@DealthTheGreat 😭

  • @alla9916

    @alla9916

    18 күн бұрын

    It's true though. I am 5'6" and when I went under 120 I felt dizzy and weak. I feel my best at 136lbs

  • @justinvargas8517

    @justinvargas8517

    13 күн бұрын

    @@alla9916facts, as a 5’8” male At 150 pounds I was lethargic and could not lift weight At 170 I am much stronger and I feel 10x better. I also look much better

  • @bibbo3167
    @bibbo31676 ай бұрын

    This was one of the most genuinely productive episodes they’ve had in a while-no arguing, yelling, passive aggression etc

  • @ymoonysun9130

    @ymoonysun9130

    6 ай бұрын

    Productive for me is when the debate has quality and brings a logical fresh light to the subjet: but this episode was one of the most unproductive ones since no facts, no arguments structure, no science was brought, only weak opinions based on emotions ://

  • @bibbo3167

    @bibbo3167

    6 ай бұрын

    @@ymoonysun9130 baby steps baby steps lol

  • @LadyNellie

    @LadyNellie

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@@ymoonysun9130huh?

  • @BabyJellyfish

    @BabyJellyfish

    6 ай бұрын

    None of this was productive. Not shouting at each other is the barest of. Minimums

  • @ShadowJinxXOX

    @ShadowJinxXOX

    6 ай бұрын

    ⁠@@ymoonysun9130I disagree, an argument doesn’t need a statistic attached to it if it can still provide sound reasoning to its basis. And there was a decent amount of times that deductive reasoning was applied from both sides, maybe not always perfectly, but fair points were discussed

  • @koraliee
    @koraliee6 ай бұрын

    Dominick seems like a great guy and came off as very intelligent and level-headed. Props to him.

  • @Schroberry
    @Schroberry13 күн бұрын

    SUPPORT =/= ENABLING

  • @TheLostSheep578
    @TheLostSheep578Ай бұрын

    It is not about being skinny or obese. Both are unhealthy in their own ways. It is about being healthy. Your weight should correspond with your height and vice versa.

  • @tonyisnotdead

    @tonyisnotdead

    Ай бұрын

    what about being skinny alone is unhealthy?

  • @mengl29
    @mengl296 ай бұрын

    As someone who has lost a ton of weight (45kg aka 100 pounds), it is definitely difficult to lose weight. Getting over that initial craving / transition period is really really hard. However, once you get past that first month or so it does get easier. And it feels so much better! You can do so many more things more easily, and life just generally improves. If you are currently going through the weight loss process, don't give up, you can do this, I did, so you definitely can!

  • @poejavelski148

    @poejavelski148

    6 ай бұрын

    Great job on your progress! I absolutely agree. I was the opposite, I was once 130 pounds at 6’3, and lean bulked 60-65 pounds over a few years. The hardest part was definitely near the beginning, changing your life long eating habits is super tough. After about 30 pounds gained, I felt like I had developed much better habits and was much happier and just kept going from there.

  • @mengl29

    @mengl29

    6 ай бұрын

    @@poejavelski148 Sounds like you've done amazing mate, congratulations on your successful efforts. I will say, as someone who has been on both sides of the spectrum, it is still difficult for me not to either undereat or potentially overeat, however, i'm doing my best to maintain a healthy lifestyle, and in the end that's all we can do. Do our best to be the best version of ourselves we can

  • @poejavelski148

    @poejavelski148

    6 ай бұрын

    @@mengl29 Love to hear it, keep doing what you’re doing 💪

  • @JW-1089

    @JW-1089

    6 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing. There are so many weight loss stories on this app that are very inspiring.

  • @mengl29

    @mengl29

    6 ай бұрын

    @@JW-1089No, thank you for taking the time to read it, I appreciate it

  • @socialmimicry
    @socialmimicry5 ай бұрын

    I really don't think Madeline is considered average size as she claims.

  • @Lagiacrus1996

    @Lagiacrus1996

    5 ай бұрын

    Yeah like a quick google shows its about 170lbs. I don't think she's 170...

  • @rchilla5860

    @rchilla5860

    5 ай бұрын

    I almost spat out my damn water when she said she was the average.

  • @brxndan222

    @brxndan222

    5 ай бұрын

    i had to pause the video and just stare at disbelief in what she said

  • @hayleywhelan3243

    @hayleywhelan3243

    5 ай бұрын

    Maybe it's because she's so top heavy that can make you look so much bigger

  • @lilycakes49

    @lilycakes49

    5 ай бұрын

    Height contributes to how weight looks on someone. She's pretty short

  • @luyandalamula9009
    @luyandalamula9009Ай бұрын

    I love how it starts off with the disagreers for the first prompt explaining the nuances around her weight and the skinny girl continues to list things that may be out of your control as a choice. @3:57

  • @sanaaniz
    @sanaaniz8 күн бұрын

    It’s a choice… I hated being 200 pounds but I kept pretending it wasn’t big deal until I got actually tired and I made a change and never looked back!!! Being the only overweight person in the group makes you realize alot

  • @lovedlavender3266
    @lovedlavender32665 ай бұрын

    I'd love it if Jubilee made a common ground or spectrum videos about bullying, such as people who were bullied and even former bullies who stopped bullying.

  • @justhumanrampai4882

    @justhumanrampai4882

    5 ай бұрын

    Ohh, I’d watch this. I’d like to hear some of the thought processes

  • @lainaaa9075

    @lainaaa9075

    5 ай бұрын

    YESSSSSA

  • @shackles5850

    @shackles5850

    5 ай бұрын

    yes

  • @sowhat1674

    @sowhat1674

    5 ай бұрын

    Usually, bullies are not aware that they are bullies.

  • @user-ss4ek3zo4d

    @user-ss4ek3zo4d

    5 ай бұрын

    yeah, but how would you define that, because most bullies were bullied at home or by other people, most of the so-called victims of bullies have been bullies themselves, I feel like everyone on earth has been both a bully and the victim of a bully at some point

  • @taylorstephensen-beal5391
    @taylorstephensen-beal53914 ай бұрын

    “I choose not to eat some days.” Babes, that’s called an eating disorder. 1:26

  • @JasonVoorheeTalkShow

    @JasonVoorheeTalkShow

    4 ай бұрын

    Crazy how people are casually overlooking Parker stating he has an eating disorder

  • @marymcintyre1702

    @marymcintyre1702

    4 ай бұрын

    Fasting is not a eating disorder, some people fast for religious reasons first of all and this has been practiced for centuries. There are also numerous studies on the health benefits of fasting such as increasing memory, regulating insulin (decreasing risk for type 2 diabetes) fasting enhances heart health by improving blood pressure, triglycerides, and cholesterol levels therefore reducing risk for heart conditions. Fasting increases the generation of nerve cells to help enhance cognitive function and reduce inflammation. Fasting increases growth hormone secretion research shows that this key hormone is involved metabolism, weight loss, and muscle growth. Several studies have found that fasting could naturally increase HGH levels. One review article noted that fasting for 37.5 hours can increase basal HGH concentrations by as much as ten times and also reduces the metabolic rate at which the body clears HGH. Several animal studies have found promising results on the potential lifespan-extending effects of fasting. the effects of periodic fasting on the human gut and found that fasting increased the diversity of helpful bacteria in the gut microbiome, including the Christensenella species, which are related to longevity. The researchers also noted an increase in sirtuins, proteins involved in metabolic regulation that are also associated with longevity. Fasting could reduce tumor progression and increase chemotherapy’s effectiveness. Calling fasting a eating disorder regardless of someone’s religious beliefs or health reasons is incredibly ignorant.

  • @EowynSoup

    @EowynSoup

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@marymcintyre1702 fasting isn't an ED, but he later acknowledged he's severely underweight. Earlier he said he chooses to be skinny. It's all red flags to me

  • @medogerty6013

    @medogerty6013

    4 ай бұрын

    He seems happy doing it though and he’s not victimizing himself. So I don’t see an issue with it.

  • @simplecontinuous2343

    @simplecontinuous2343

    4 ай бұрын

    I was surprised it took me this long to find this comment! Or that more people weren’t bringing it up.

  • @jaidyn732
    @jaidyn732Ай бұрын

    the girl in the red dress (lauren i think?) is incredibly privileged to think everyone is able to live the same way she is

  • @X11CHASE

    @X11CHASE

    16 күн бұрын

    And you’re a moron if you think it requires privilege to be in shape 🤣

  • @dannygonxalez9011

    @dannygonxalez9011

    13 күн бұрын

    she seems uneducated and the wrong person to have on the “skinny” team

  • @tiapadilla7722
    @tiapadilla7722Ай бұрын

    lauren needs a reality check, ed help, and behavioral therapy

  • @rok9587

    @rok9587

    18 күн бұрын

    Well, if you can't handle facts, then it's you who needs therapy

  • @annaku_lickalicious

    @annaku_lickalicious

    16 күн бұрын

    actually lauren is brave to say things most slim people don't say on camera, but think in their head. because no one wants to be the 'mean' person.

  • @dewis9997
    @dewis99974 ай бұрын

    The plus-size community needs more people like Dominic to speak up because if a skinny person says what he said, it doesn't come off the same/ some might feel it's fatphobia, but if he says it, it's more accepted.

  • @jaysellers011

    @jaysellers011

    4 ай бұрын

    It's sad that the Western society is like that. I think humans with different backgrounds should all have a voice

  • @jeffisjeff5511

    @jeffisjeff5511

    4 ай бұрын

    Are you sure he’s plus sized? Because most plus sized people are healthy. Since plus sized is just a bigger build instead of overweight or obese

  • @gur262

    @gur262

    4 ай бұрын

    ​​@@jeffisjeff5511😂😂😂no plus sized is obesity, in almost every example of it

  • @jeffisjeff5511

    @jeffisjeff5511

    4 ай бұрын

    @@gur262 Plus sized isn’t obesity. They both are different things. Please do research because it’s very bad to spread misinformation. Many plus sized people are healthy. They just have bigger bodies which would be healthy for them. Again plus sized and obesity are completely different. Don’t mesh them together.

  • @Winkle-Dinkle

    @Winkle-Dinkle

    4 ай бұрын

    @@jeffisjeff5511I’m pretty sure plus sized is simply an umbrella term that refers to anyone above the average weight across a population. This can include oversight, obese, or morbidly obese. At least that is what the trustworthy sources purport.

  • @16ilovevampires
    @16ilovevampires6 ай бұрын

    Topic idea: Parents of multiple children vs. People who are childfree by choice Some prompt suggestions: I've been judged for my choices My moral or religious beliefs have contributed to my decision I feel represented in social media I sometimes envy the other side

  • @meyass4163

    @meyass4163

    6 ай бұрын

    this is the most interesting suggestion ive seen @jubilee 👈👈

  • @RachelDee

    @RachelDee

    6 ай бұрын

    Additional prompt: my financial habits and goals contributed to my choice

  • @dinkyboss

    @dinkyboss

    6 ай бұрын

    This! I have a feeling they’ll make that video soon because it’s very topical

  • @vl0731

    @vl0731

    6 ай бұрын

    Yes!

  • @savannahrichardson254

    @savannahrichardson254

    6 ай бұрын

    Yesss

  • @user-kx5mw2xx8z
    @user-kx5mw2xx8z2 ай бұрын

    The director knew where to point that camera !!!!

  • @EllaLuke-vc1pd
    @EllaLuke-vc1pdАй бұрын

    I've always found it interesting that people default to skinny being more healthy than obese. Like when you are on a medication that impacts your weight, you can CHOOSE to go off of it because you have free will - but that doesn't make it the healthier choice?

  • @tonyisnotdead

    @tonyisnotdead

    Ай бұрын

    medication impacting your weight doesn't make skinny the less or equal healthiest option to obesity

  • @oluchi8910
    @oluchi89106 ай бұрын

    Now this is a DISCUSSION! It doesn’t matter what side you’re on, people sitting down with opposing views and still being able to have a civil adult conversation while not cutting each other off and really LISTENING to all sides even if they don’t agree is super underrated

  • @oponomo

    @oponomo

    6 ай бұрын

    funny thing is: this wasn't 2 opposite views, it was 2 opposite body types. Most of them have similar views which makes this a very weird jubilee versus.

  • @tartantulakid666

    @tartantulakid666

    5 ай бұрын

    There is only one correct side in this discussion. Being obese shouldn't be normalised and shouldn't be accepted. All I heard from the obese people were lies about their eating habits and lies about how great they feel. When you start to see their behaviour from the addiction perspective, their lying and deceit makes a lot more sense.

  • @Piinnkbunnii

    @Piinnkbunnii

    5 ай бұрын

    lol my name twin! Are you Nigerian or Nigerian American?

  • @amyswallow742

    @amyswallow742

    5 ай бұрын

    i feel like this is one of the healthiest jubilee discussions i've seen and that's sad

  • @Brooklynnspov

    @Brooklynnspov

    5 ай бұрын

    @@tartantulakid666then your lying about liking to be skinny

  • @kaptainmuffins2712
    @kaptainmuffins27123 ай бұрын

    Should've got a bodybuilder in this

  • @user-dk1px4gi2v

    @user-dk1px4gi2v

    3 ай бұрын

    I think they should put people in here that no matter how much they eat they can’t gain weight

  • @shomplit9970

    @shomplit9970

    3 ай бұрын

    @@user-dk1px4gi2v they dont exist. unless they have a severe digestive issue

  • @RedWolvesF22A

    @RedWolvesF22A

    3 ай бұрын

    @@user-dk1px4gi2vThose people don’t exist. With proper exercise and nutrition, you can gin weight unless you have a disorder in which case this discussion wouldn’t really apply to you.

  • @AdmCornFlake

    @AdmCornFlake

    3 ай бұрын

    @@user-dk1px4gi2v The vast majority of people who claim no matter how much they eat, they can't gain weight, it's because they're misjudging how much "a lot of food" is. The point is they're eating as much or beyond what makes them feel full, but they're still not objectively consuming very many calories. I'm a person who cannot put on weight exactly after 165lbs, it feels impossible for me. But it's because I simply cannot eat that much consistently. Even though I can shovel myself full, proper calorie tracking reveals I under-eat most days on a regular basis, so those binge days don't have an impact. Having the liberty to eat what you want off impulse, whenever you want, however much you want really gives a false illusion and does not reflect the true reality of how much they're consuming in a net total of the week.

  • @yourdad2723

    @yourdad2723

    3 ай бұрын

    @@shomplit9970bro they obviously exist. I eat so much and cant gain nothing

  • @ellasoriginalchannel9713
    @ellasoriginalchannel9713Ай бұрын

    Dominick is amazing. Huge respect.

  • @cannonplays939
    @cannonplays9392 күн бұрын

    Notice how this is the only episode where they used seats instead of stools, goes to show the real issue here.

  • @kaitie4200
    @kaitie42006 ай бұрын

    As someone who has been both severely underweight AND overweight, the way I was treated while overweight was so much worse. Sure, I was made fun of while I was too thin - but doctors believed me, strangers were kinder to me, the world accomodated me.

  • @Sarah-xq4cf

    @Sarah-xq4cf

    6 ай бұрын

    OMG THIS! I was overweight and nobody ever batted an eye to me, never got compliments, etc. Lost 30 lbs due to depression and there were so many compliments but I was in such a worse mindset. I've gained back around 14lbs and I've been so happy even though the compliments went away. It's crazy how our weight (even just a minimal amount in change) can make people view us differently in seconds.

  • @chainsaw_king0476

    @chainsaw_king0476

    6 ай бұрын

    Actually I agree with this overweight people do have it worse when It comes to bullying but it comes to compliments I think it's because people overlook how harmful it is to be under weight. As they aren't as noticeable at a glance as clothes often times hide it

  • @DrArthurCGarp

    @DrArthurCGarp

    6 ай бұрын

    Bingo! I grew up very overweight, I don’t think I ever hit clinical obesity but there was no mistaking how big I was. When I finally lost weight the treatment I received from others made me want to cry and so I kept going until I was nearly underweight. When I say I went from getting zero attention (dating wise) to being hit on I mean it. When “nobody” cares about you and then you suddenly have people telling you how amazing you look and should feel it does something to you psychologically and physically

  • @ronny-yj8oc

    @ronny-yj8oc

    6 ай бұрын

    True, but being underweight is also a HUGE struggle that so many people are overlooking and feel free to comment and judge on easily since "you're skinny".

  • @Blakoss

    @Blakoss

    6 ай бұрын

    It’s pretty privilege. People are subconsciously nicer to better looking people. It’s got nothing to do with how healthy you are just how sexually attractive you look. It’s pretty messed up but it’s life

  • @hmhm4219
    @hmhm42196 ай бұрын

    That girl who mentioned possible link to the thyroid should be checked for hypothyroidism if she can, that definitely causes you to gain more than the average person

  • @zbridgjpxupzm

    @zbridgjpxupzm

    6 ай бұрын

    It's true thyroid affects things a little bit but at the end of the day it's your hand that puts the excess food in your mouth and it's your choice to not have physical activity

  • @moosh3044

    @moosh3044

    6 ай бұрын

    She for surrrrreee should!!!! All it is, is a blood test, the medicine is very affordable too and life changing !!!!!!!

  • @Yiti-ff4wg

    @Yiti-ff4wg

    6 ай бұрын

    I have hypo and you do gain weight but it’s not an excuse. You can loose weight and stay at a healthy weight.

  • @Meep295

    @Meep295

    6 ай бұрын

    Scientifically, it doesn’t cause as drastic of a difference as people think. It’s always calories in calories out. You’re the one putting the food in your mouth

  • @DayDayBradshaw

    @DayDayBradshaw

    6 ай бұрын

    ⁠@@zbridgjpxupzmthat’s not true, my mom has thyroid problems that has grown so big she looks pregnant. She’s not severely overweight but it has been difficult because quite literally she can’t drop that look because of her thyroid. You really shouldn’t speak as if that’s everyone’s situation….

  • @lamonnaiemer
    @lamonnaiemerАй бұрын

    Shame should not be used as a tool for motivation. If you’re trying to motivate someone, ENCOURAGE them. With kindness and respect. Show some compassion for people. PERIOD. Guilt and shame does not equate to any kind of push towards aspirations or goals or even better self esteem!

  • @dariusjohn7581
    @dariusjohn7581Ай бұрын

    I love the congeniality and well-manneredness of the plus-sized people. Great conversation and great questions.

  • @joshhoggle
    @joshhoggle2 ай бұрын

    i weighed 230 and came down to 140 it changed my life actually my whole outlook im more positive and my mental vibes are way more delightful

  • @dank4556

    @dank4556

    2 ай бұрын

    I think people underestimate how much isn’t just physical but mental. My therapist actually recommended exercise to help my mental health, I went from a bmi of 30.1 to 23.6 and not only did every health marker improved but so did my depression and really all aspects of my life. I feel so much better in all ways as I started taking care of my health

  • @joshhoggle

    @joshhoggle

    2 ай бұрын

    way to go pal!@@dank4556

  • @user-ch6uw4pf2x

    @user-ch6uw4pf2x

    Ай бұрын

    I think a lot of it is do to the lifestyle changed that came with weight loss. Body image is only one part of it

  • @Shark-pj8in

    @Shark-pj8in

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@dank4556it is physically straining which can cause mental strain too. As well as society hating on bigger people.

  • @Jaysi_NY03

    @Jaysi_NY03

    Ай бұрын

    That crazy I started 250 and now I also came down 140. I salute you !!!, it was not easy. “Self discipline”

  • @nae2115
    @nae21156 ай бұрын

    this was such an interesting conversation as someone who is considered skinny and is trying so hard to gain weight.

  • @silk132

    @silk132

    6 ай бұрын

    yuuuup. with you

  • @justinsime3786

    @justinsime3786

    6 ай бұрын

    Same here

  • @fatib3200

    @fatib3200

    6 ай бұрын

    Sure but there’s a certain point where you don’t wanna gain anymore

  • @julsskye

    @julsskye

    6 ай бұрын

    me too! i wish there was someone with that perspective in the video

  • @ohhhbirdy5975

    @ohhhbirdy5975

    6 ай бұрын

    not trying hard enough

  • @SS-qg9jk
    @SS-qg9jkАй бұрын

    Dominic was the best, well said

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