Internalised Oppression -Naming and peeling away the layers of shame | Zed Xaba | TEDxLytteltonWomen

Woman - healing the soul.
Why do we respond to situations and people the way that we do? Zed Xaba is a director at Ndiza Le and has been working as a facilitator in the last 14 years. Her work spans different areas; conflict work, diversity, personal mastery, team effectiveness. She has also worked in different sector, government, non-government and non-profit sector, locally, regionally and globally.
Her years of experience of facilitation across different fields and sectors make her particularly suitable to work with organisations in the area of Mediation and Conflict.
Zed is an accredited Mediator with the Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) Network. She is trained in the CINERGY Conflict Coaching Methodology and has a Masters in Conflict Facilitation and Organisational Change from the Process Work Institute in Portland Oregon, USA. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @williamsmith3331
    @williamsmith33313 жыл бұрын

    It's good to bring awareness to this phenomenon because there are many people that feel this way deep down inside.

  • @amypasquale8261
    @amypasquale82613 ай бұрын

    What a wonderful speech and speaker! Brava! Thank you!

  • @billsay123
    @billsay1235 жыл бұрын

    What a fantastic talk! Thanks so much Zed for addressing this vital topic.

  • @bertramdavis7120
    @bertramdavis71205 жыл бұрын

    Oh sister dang this is so right ! I did not know how much this has hit home. Self loathing , self doubt. We need this message to get out now!!!!

  • @treborironwolfe978
    @treborironwolfe9785 жыл бұрын

    We are all products of our environment.. be it good or bad.. it is up to each of us to find meaning among the happiness and sorrow.

  • @BarbaraLeunerCorpina
    @BarbaraLeunerCorpina5 жыл бұрын

    Amazing speech, dear Zed! Wonderful to see you out there... Big hugs.

  • @missmsmrs.7309
    @missmsmrs.73095 жыл бұрын

    I really needed to hear this TedX Talk! Many thanks for making it available.

  • @billsay123
    @billsay1233 жыл бұрын

    Just watching this again after a year's time. Still such a relevant and potent message for me and for all of us I think! Thank you Zed!

  • @beloved5028
    @beloved50285 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful, thank you. Excellent research and communicated clearly.

  • @turtlelov3ify
    @turtlelov3ify5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for speaking on this!!! This really helped me

  • @jobless_mar
    @jobless_mar4 жыл бұрын

    Well said - As someone who suffers from internalized sexism, I just wish it was more well-known and explored to find real solutions to undo years of reinforced self-hatred.

  • @dr.katedow8933
    @dr.katedow89334 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful Talk !hanks for covering and sharing about such an important topic.

  • @tesa1376
    @tesa13765 жыл бұрын

    Very well done... provides a great new perspective

  • @dmcdmtsdccec4
    @dmcdmtsdccec45 жыл бұрын

    I really enjoyed this talk. I learned a lot from it. Thank you!

  • @vizikhungontshanyana6420
    @vizikhungontshanyana64206 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing. So true!

  • @lovemorebanda4719

    @lovemorebanda4719

    5 жыл бұрын

    So true

  • @nknelson8499
    @nknelson84996 жыл бұрын

    This message needs to be heard by many people. In this post-colonial "free society" we live in, the brain, which is the home of oppression, is often ignored. Great message you shared Zed! Thanks.

  • @mbalitshabalala1402

    @mbalitshabalala1402

    6 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Nkululeko, i hope you spread the word in your circles...

  • @ziyanda95
    @ziyanda955 жыл бұрын

    THIS IS SOOOOOOOOOO POWERFUL!!! Thank you Mam' Xaba

  • @susuu_3

    @susuu_3

    5 жыл бұрын

    Agreed!!

  • @trishadhakal
    @trishadhakal4 жыл бұрын

    i was studying about this topic thanks a lot, this talk was really helpful!!!

  • @jubilantsleep
    @jubilantsleep4 жыл бұрын

    A very important lecture

  • @kirstenwassermann3444
    @kirstenwassermann34446 жыл бұрын

    thanks, Zed, for this touching video.

  • @mbalitshabalala1402

    @mbalitshabalala1402

    6 жыл бұрын

    thank YOU Kirsten.

  • @davidx4008
    @davidx40085 жыл бұрын

    This is so true, I feel ashamed of my race this is due to the social normalcy and the media in the UK. In the Uk blacks are more socially accepted, particularly mixed race over south asians.

  • @KimberlyKToure
    @KimberlyKToure4 жыл бұрын

    Well done🙏🏿

  • @08duzi
    @08duzi5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Zed...you nailed it. How I wish we can say it loud...change is imminent... a lot of us have been down that road. But thank God to be where I am now to understand it better. Great job Zed 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾✌🏾

  • @samsonizy
    @samsonizy4 жыл бұрын

    Brilliant

  • @raulvega3335
    @raulvega33352 жыл бұрын

    All of Latin America is a great example of this due to the super power of America

  • @tharealroblee
    @tharealroblee4 жыл бұрын

    This was a little eye opening

  • @ilKazza
    @ilKazza5 жыл бұрын

    💗

  • @nellyg149
    @nellyg1495 жыл бұрын

    the sheer fact that this has been viewed theoretically well over 2,000 times, and only has 70 likes... should speak volumes

  • @prittyugly86
    @prittyugly865 жыл бұрын

    The 8 dislikes are from the internally oppressed :P

  • @thebodyshopathomewithbrand4531
    @thebodyshopathomewithbrand45312 жыл бұрын

    The laughter really disturbed me...

  • @shoanacharles5158
    @shoanacharles51584 жыл бұрын

    The reconciliation was necessary but the oppressors opening up about what they did during apartheid to us wasn't enough to set us free from oppression

  • @KeanuOR
    @KeanuOR5 жыл бұрын

    *** *Insert Close-up of H3H3* ***

  • @XxSongoftheHeartxX
    @XxSongoftheHeartxX3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your beautiful words. I am sorry that you have gone through all of this. Sometimes white people struggle too.

  • @adastra8218
    @adastra82186 жыл бұрын

    wtf is this

  • @EMCQ301

    @EMCQ301

    6 жыл бұрын

    A woman telling her experience about racism, and how it subconsciously affected her community (e.g everyday language promoting "whiteness"). I'm surprised it was difficult for you to understand, especially with a name like Abdi.

  • @missmsmrs.7309

    @missmsmrs.7309

    5 жыл бұрын

    This is TRUTH.

  • @nmazyck93

    @nmazyck93

    4 жыл бұрын

    Don’t mind this person they’re suffering internal oppression lol. It’s a great video to answer your question.

  • @tawvnmgmt7744

    @tawvnmgmt7744

    Жыл бұрын

    wtf do you mean??

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