What has been the biggest transformation you have gone through?

@NigelRowe

3 жыл бұрын

Hmm 🤔 The biggest transformation; has been; changing my belief system( it honestly used to cripple me). This has enabled me to do things; I would have otherwise; been too afraid to engage in/ start. Furthermore it’s allowed me to stop setting limits on what I can achieve; I mean honestly if other people can achieve greatness; why shouldn’t this apply to me? although I’m not where I want to be; I’m much further than I ever thought I would be. I must however add; that being that I am an INFJ; everything i do is based on visions; and sometimes these visions although being extremely beautiful; do come packed with an insane workload 😅 ( seeing the results is what keeps me going ☺️).

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

👏👏😊👍

@meowtank

3 жыл бұрын

I am still trying to become better every day, but I have discovered a lot of useful information about myself while researching MBTI and my type, INFJ. I have become able to analyze myself and figure things out with much more ease. I used to not know anything about myself, confused about why I did and said certain things, but I kept repeating the same mistakes and losing progress, friends, and even myself. I am not nearly where I want to be at all, and I don't use MBTI or your videos as a crutch per say, but it does help encourage me and provide new information that I could use, or even reaffirm information that may have strayed far from my mind. So perhaps I'm transforming now lol. I started by figuring out what to do with friends that were holding me back, but without completely abandoning them like before. Thank you and keep doing what you love :D

@kuangtien3980

3 жыл бұрын

When I learned about the MBTI and took the survey 3x and all 3 end results were INFJ. After I watched a vlog about about self love and how INFJ's have high expectations , goals, and are extremely hard on themselves, resulting in self hate and low self esteem if objectives weren't met . After I forgave myself and endorsed the concept of self love , I feel happy and have finally found my inner peace , .....a journey which took a lifetime .......thanks for the info.

@kymelatejasi

3 жыл бұрын

Mine has been recent. And it's actually thanks to you. I used to feel down with my job searches, thinking I had to just take whatever I could and feeling like I wouldn't amount to much. But this was all things my family pushed onto me. I now know I need to find what will help me. I can't let myself get so burnt out again. And I need to ignore my brother's claims that I am a horrible example for our younger siblings - just for not having the physical capacity to work, let alone get up most days. I understand I need a job, but I need to ignore what types of jobs everyone keeps trying to push on me and find my own way.

I've always wondered why I felt so different until I took the MBTI test and found out that I am an INFJ. So liberating!

@Ram-1231

3 жыл бұрын

I just found out about a month and a half ago. Liberating, yes.

@AnggiSahamCantik

2 жыл бұрын

Hehehe I feel the same way. I should know this earlier in life so I dont spend decades wondering why do I so weird 🤣

@dathea1

Жыл бұрын

Same 🤗

When I used to watch motivational speakers, their message didn't completely resonate. Listening to you, I now know why. I'm not supposed to fit into the norm - I'm supposed to create my own systems. Thank you for your valuable work Wenzes. You're really an important resource on my transformational journey. It's great to hear someone so balanced.

I was a proficient public school teacher but becoming a practicing herbalist gave me the biggest positive transformation. Thank you for sharing your gift 🙏🙏🙏

What has been the biggest transformation I have gone through ? The transformation from the nice guy who encouraged other folks and was supportive , to the quiet guy who tapped into his capabilities and became the lone wolf, independent and free warrior I need to be. I still help and assist others, yet I don't allow others to monopolize all of my free time. I have a hobby as well as a career that are both going well. Also, I didn't follow the same path that others in the family took. I was the only one who enlisted in the military and retired from it after 21 years. I like this video. Thanks.

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

👏👏👍😊

@assidbath94

2 жыл бұрын

i would love to see some data on MBTI in regards to service in the military... how much of that are you able to see is created by our US culture and how much is genuine human compassion.... dont get me wrong... i do NOT want you to feel judged in anyway... i dont want you to feel like im saying you are the problem because i am most def NOT.... i just find it hard to understand how a true INFJ could kill anyone.... without genuine cause that is specific to the individual... i just dont see many real INFJ's becoming..... killers of other humans in any form or for any reason... i hate pedos... but even then im not sure id be able as a real INFJ, to kill anyone unless they were threatening those who cannot protect themselves... just personal thoughts please dont feel like anyone but ME thinks this.. you are perfect as you are... i am just curious is all.

I was thinking recently how much I have changed in the last three years but then I also thought "how come anybody is noticing?" It looks as though only I can understand how challenging (but also satisfying and necessary) this journey has been. Thank you for validating this for me

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

Yes...I can totally relate 👏👏👏 when you know you know

I was also in Finances (Im a C.P.A) for the same reasons - my parents and THEIR belief system, when all I wanted was psychology and social sciences, which I excelled in during high school. Thanks to COVID (thank you universe 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼) I have had the biggest transformation EVER - and I was always a transforming person. And you are so right. It's like the weight of the world had been lifted off my shoulders.

Wow this is deceptively mind blowing! Our ability to adjust our mindset is way stronger than others. We can use this to our advantage to extract the important lessons from our hard times and then discover what works for us!

@assidbath94

2 жыл бұрын

a real INFJ wouldnt care so much about using anything for.... blech.... ourselves... gross dude... go away you fake INFJ

Thanks for that! For a very long time, I was stuck in a job as a therapist that was generally good financially, but was torture for me as a human. I felt like an impostor for years, but once I began to do the heavy lifting on myself, and confronted all that was holding me back, I began to see the light. In short, once I realized how I had gone off the path, and was essentially living for other people, I kept working on letting go of various facets of my thinking that needed to go, needed to change. In fact, through the process of discovering that I was an INFJ, and pushed to learn everything I could about the real, authentic me, it all started to come together. I continued to re-assess my life, what had really gone on and why. You know, the kind of life review I think most of us perform fairly routinely, and it all began to come together. Long story short, I had gone to undergrad and grad school, and worked as a therapist for many years. I did love the work, for the most part, and was highly regarded, well-liked, etc., but I was miserable. Well, about a year ago I started my own private practice, and now, I have left my ball and chain that had become impossible for me, and am now doing the work I feel I was born to do. It took years of thinking, self-analysis, a divorce, a death in the family, and many tears were shed in the process. But in the end, it was a process that changed my life, and gives me hope that I thought was not possible for me. I am no longer confused about who I am, as I was for a long time. I forgave myself for beating myself up as though I had done something wrong, as though I was just a flawed human. Once I had the stark realization that not only is there nothing wrong with me (generally speaking, lol), but that I am, in fact, who I was meant to be, or at least moving toward that, the world opened up to me. Again, much hard work, both internal and external, was required, but I feel as though I have been reborn. And whether or not you care to know, perhaps for your own reference, I am pretty positive I am a 5x4. Anyway, thanks for your content. I appreciate your take! And this video was particularly relevant to my current situation.

Hi!! I’m 44, recently I discover that I’m an INFJ. It’s been a struggle all my life, but now, I know I can Be Me an authentic Me Your videos help me a lot, thanks for all your information an enthusiasm. Thank you very much!! 🙂🌸💕

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

Happy I can help 😊👍

I was hired by a sensing uncle in a sensor dominated group to build a business. I don't agree that we can enter most groups and find our chameleon-like way to success. The level of contempt & fear they have for our "methods" has to be taken more seriously by me. I call sensors censurers & sensors for good reason. There is other advise out on the interweb saying: INFJ? Don't stay where you are not wanted--where you have an ISTJ, for instance, supervising & doubting your every move--and, I agree. Getting something off the ground is challenge enough--you cannot add a cadre of group thinking sensors to your creative mix and expect to come out on top. Taking them seriously is hard--because their issues can be easily dismissed. But, dismiss them at your peril because now you enter the realm of normal people, normal sensors operating w a full display of disturbingly narky behaviors. I worked for a sensing group. It took a couple of months before they were re-introduced as flying monkeys. Devastation.

What just happened? You just brought a spark to my day

I work as a travel consultant for about 3 years now. I love music and always have dreamed to become a songwriter/producer. Lately I've been feeling trapped. I didn't know what to do with my life. This video has helping me so much. Now I know I can continue working as a Travel consultant while starting to pursue my real dream, I'm gonna start taking guitar lessons in the next month. I'm excited and scared but can't wait to spend the rest of my life in something I really like and know I can do it good if I study and train for it. This video has helped me a lot and know I feel like I found my way back to my dreams. Wish me luck!!

@rabeccaleezualia2099

3 жыл бұрын

I love music as well, I truly wish you the best luck!

@Alexa-ge5jw

3 жыл бұрын

@@rabeccaleezualia2099 thank u🥺

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

You got this!!!! You are going to love this journey 👏👏👏 just keep choosing you

"Helping others" That's my passion/purpose too....

I just love you!❤❤ I needed to hear this now. Ive been comparing myself to a bunch of ST all my life. But bc of you (and Frank James), im learning to embrace my NF. You're so awesome!

@liliaana6595

3 жыл бұрын

Frank James help me a lot too!!

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

Happy I can help 😊

I hear what you’re saying Wenzes. I want to be the one to kick myself in the 🫏! Hahaha 😂 I often get started then get distracted and time goes by it’s too late in the day to walk outside. I’ll set alarms, make a lunch, check the weather, make sure my water bottle is full, get my gear ready. Then the dreaded phone rings. Take care of that small fire. Then get distracted. Hahaha 😂 too funny. I refuse to worry about not getting started and carrying that self imposed guilt. Tomorrow is another day. No worries. It was a good day I accomplished things. Not as much as I wanted. It will do. Thanks Wenzes. 😊

The timing of this...

Thanks for the pep talk! Loving this warrior series. ❤️🙏

I replayed this as it is so much gold. I am transforming so much that I feel ungrounded and your speech is so realistic yet close to my heart

Thank you so much, I was able to relate to every word you said.

that’s MISS “Authenticity” ‘to you pal’ “🤣 gosh , terrific articulation of this subject , thanks , really🙌👍

Oh, how I needed this today! Right now, I'm struggling with finding my job path - all I want to do is write but who's going to pay me while I do it? ;) Also, due to COVID, my job situation is even more unstable than it used to be so I am definitely looking to use those transformative skills of mine. Right now, I don't know how but I how I'll find out. You ask about big transformation in our lives - well, I've gone from often negative and frustrated to quickly changing to "so what can I do to feel better?" mode - and doing that. I've also changed my carrier path once already, going from working with admin tasks in the local business retail center to teaching Danish language and culture. Huge step and much more me ;) Now, I'm ready to move past teaching and create something myself :0)

Wise words out there. For a long time, I try to fit in just like you. I become pc tech and net tech at a young age. Still, I never liked that in all my life I was attracted to the mystic and the hidden aspects for me learn on that was super important and full of joy there is not a day that not passing that I don't delve into the mystics, for a long time I was want to be a healer. Still, I have a problem taking money for spiritual gifts as it's not my way being INFJ type 1. I don't want to be like all those corrupted mystics. I still don't know what to do yet, but I know I figure that out I can feel it.

Great video!!

Hi. New subscriber here. Where have you been all of my life? 😀 That was amazing! I really needed to hear this today! Thank you so much!🌺

I can totally feel your struggle, i have also the same thing to actually make people grow. Economy can be sometimes the biggest issue for making it happen. If you are born to be what you are and you still choose something else then you aren't in full control. The finance that you work with can be as well a finance for what you want. If you are a Sigma in the society it will be much easier to find what you should strife for. Accepting the mysterious enigma inside of you isn't so bad as people might think.

Fabulous message, thank you so much 💕

These are the most best, the most accurate advices I needed for myself rn because I am in a mindset now to accept growth and positivity and honestly what u said is the thing I wanted to hear all along. U r just amazing❤

Wenzes,you are on fire 🔥 and inspiring. Fellow INFJ

geeez!!! it's been a while...lol...what i would do to hear that sweet soft voice of urs...lol...my biggest transformation is to had become all i ever wanted n needed(intelligence combat field engineer officer)...not to valorized myself but i gain so much knowledge, understanding n comprehension after my 10yrs of restless agonizing studies...lol...i decided to retire from the SOF...i had to take the fall n go to hospital for a month because of my dislocated hip n more...i'm not in the field no more...lol...i started back playing guitar after 10yrs of not touching one...i don't have to stay up for 32hours n sleep 12...finally...now i savor the peace n quiet...no bullets passing next to my ears or disarming bomb or blowing things up...lol...anyway... Cheers!!!..........*****👈😎👉*****..........RAL.....

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

👏👏👏👍😊

Yes, the commonly known rules to success are not adapted to us and it is counterproductive that people recommend us those rules because it brings to lack of confidence as we don't function like this

You are SO inspirational! Thank you!

Wow! I'm glad you quit banking so you have time for another INFJ like me who desperately need a direction, a strong force of advice....thank you so much...

Another wonderful and life changing video, WEnzes! Could you please expound on being a healer? I was told I am this, but don't fully understand what to do or where to start! You are amazing and I am so thankful for your videos!

This is SO true!!!

Wow thanks!! So clear and helpful and powerful! Im so struggling as infj in times im not aligned...

Thank you 💕💕

Hello.. there are not many of us i definitely appreciate you making this content ❤

Thank you 🌟

Wenzes is that lit tho. I feel as tho she’s truthful about exactly what she wants her audience to understand about the most rare personality type. The world of KZread is learning from pages like this one. I love this so freaking much tho!!

Love ya☺

I’m going through this. I’m a dancer but I love helping others.

Thanks

Dope 🔥💯

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

😀☺️👍

I absolutly hate to be one of all, to do what is accepted to. I love to love the unloved, to give hand to unpopular people and causes. God gave us existance but we give our selfs life and meaning in it and my meaning in life is to be a helping hand, the inspirer.

@TheParez

3 жыл бұрын

Word

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

👍😊

@nubianqueen8500

3 жыл бұрын

DONT really know how respond Overwhelmed

@nubianqueen8500

3 жыл бұрын

N were CONCIDERED WEIRD but internet THINK IM READY SOON TO START WRITING WELL SEND OFF PAPERS

@nubianqueen8500

3 жыл бұрын

Opps SRY AGAIN there i go brain out focus

Beautiful

Luv you 🤗

Thanks. The crooks need us to become ground to powder. From our original , beautiful selves . No deal.

Timw perrfect💪🏿✊👍

I don't think that you're an infj anymore, I think you've transformed into another Briggs Myers personality.

In my case i love the financial world money is energy and I like helping people fulfill this without financial freedom all other aspect in life get affected ofcourse goals ✨️ of each person are diferent but this my call

It's not hard if you do what you love. I love playing guitar, it's a new hobbie I started just before Covid was a thing(funny if you think about it, I started it just before, like it was the perfect idea and I didn't even know why, in hindsight I do now) and practicing daily to get better and better is boring for most people, but it's not to me because I love progressing, getting better, having a meaning behind it...it was always like that, what people find difficult in general it was easy to me to do on a consistent basis IF and very important IF is something I love doing. I don't think it's just INFJ, I believe it applies to everyone. I've seen it many times, I go to my job and some people love it, some hate it, even though it's the same job. What I'm trying to say is, nothing is hard if you enjoy the process, yea, we need some discipline, but if you know why you're doing it on the days you don't feel like it, then it's so much easier..because you still love what you do...even on a bad day. Idk where I'm going with this, thought I'd share hehe thanks for reading anyone, peace!

🌈XxGreat talk.... Xx

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

👍😊

Woah!!

I get tired of working with a whole lot of people in a company...I get exhausted from all the critics and there small talk..

Yes.

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

👍😊

I think iam wrong but this is video is 100% explaining a infp

this happen to me...100%

Im a true INFJ, when i was living at home i wanted to be a writer.. but no support. Castaway....

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

The support is always missing in the beginning...we have to continously chose ourselves. You got this 👍😊

🙏🙏🙏

👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

👍😊

You may not value science, but science is valued undependently of any thoghts. It's reality.

😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

It's not mandatory to do a healing career, we can do this a side and do other career. You shouldn't attach the infj personnality to the healing careers, every individual is different, not every infj is an NiFe Dominant. And INFJ is just a model it is not the final word.

P.S. I love acting.... .

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

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We are born children of god 😘