Hi, INFJ's. I just want to say that I know is easier said then done, but pls don't let others opinions and judgements affect you. Only person who has a final say is you, because at the end of the day, the only person you have to depend on is yourself. We are all human and honestly, everyone judges and critisizes. Who doesn't have opinions? Not everyone does it to intentionally hurt you. I started using their criticism as self improvement and it only helped better me as a person.. When I realized that, I stopped caring what others think and it helped free me alot. Also, if you don't open yourself up, no one will open up to you. Not everyone will understand us, but that is okay. We INFJ's have a bigger role to play in this life. Also, don't try to force something. The more you try to force something, the more it will slip away. Whatever is meant for you will be yours I promise. Even if you run away from it.. I promise. 🤣😂 Anyways, I hope this helps some one in some way. 🙏🙏

@sokna4152

3 жыл бұрын

😌I know I was just a kid, but I can understand what you are saying. Thanks for sharing.I will keep that in mind.🤍

@bellabong8862

2 жыл бұрын

Exposing the Truth: I love your comment, and it was very helpful. Insightful, mature and positive. Thank you.

@taratreglown

2 жыл бұрын

It is the most intensely difficult thing we can ever do. I just want to say thank you. You help more than you know, and I see you. We cannot find our brightest light until we face our own darkness.

@douglas1428

2 жыл бұрын

I’ve heard,that lecture before. But as that personality type, it takes me a long time because I have to search from all angles let’s do perfectionist in me, but it is a good reminder so thank you 🖖🏼🤔👍🏼

@jessmason2112

Жыл бұрын

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My father hated me from the day I was born because he never understood me. He spent a half century berating me for what I wasn't, instead of cherishing me for who I am. Only complimented me ONCE in my life...the last time I spoke to him over the phone before he died. Told me I was "the most resilient human being he had ever met in his life."

I found out that I am INFJ last year (2021) and can swear that every time that discover something new about this personality, I cry as it is like discovering the secret of life for me, and with this video, after years of loving and being inspired by the Phoenix legend and using it as my source of inspiration to overcome hardship, now I realize that this Phoenix attitude is part of the very personality and it´s absolutely mindblowing

We want to fit with the world, working hard to make more money so we can be respected, admired but no matter how we try to be successful in these fields, deep inside us we are hollow. Money, glamour, reaching top positions just isn't our interest...I just realise that all we really want in life is to be of service to others..we have to help someone so we can be satisfied...that's why we cringe and feel sorry for most people who are going after boring stuff for us..they are all about themselves, how they will be accepted and admired and we just want to run away from their mundane world😅

I went my whole life without this knowledge 😥 but it’s fueling my change

@sunshineharmony5410

3 жыл бұрын

Much respect. I have wondered if there were INFJ men who were listening to this.

@byronjohnson3189

3 жыл бұрын

@@sunshineharmony5410 Yes Ma’am. Every video is Insightful.

@Heidi1466

Жыл бұрын

Better to find out today Than never !

@Kaelus41

Жыл бұрын

​@sunshineharmony5410 Another INFJ man listening

I had my moment a while back. Wenzes helped me tremendously to understand myself as an INFJ and to help me figure out how to harness my powers and unique abilities to not be afraid to show the world who I really am. Don't get me wrong, there will be setbacks...There always will be. But it's how you handle them and if you learn to grow from them that will make you stronger. And each time that happens, you ascend higher. Think of them as a staircase that eventually leads you to your INFJ epic life, where you are no longer afraid to be yourself 24/7 365 and around everyone and in any and every situation. I'm still not 100% there, but I'm exponentially further up the stairs than I was before I started this journey. 👍🏼

@seankody4804

Жыл бұрын

That's great Troy. I'm just starting on my own journey, and it's scary...yet, exciting? Sometimes I overthink stuff and I get to the point of ultimate panic...lol it's just nuts! But baby steps and slowly move from there. If I make a fool out of myself then let it happen...but, and there is always a but, I can't handle criticism and judgement. Can I find the strength to stand strong? I don't know...maybe. I guess by using the Phoenix imagery as a focal point to channel positive energy to act as reinforced buffer to handle the judgement...it's just, how? I know I'll figure it out. And it all starts with baby steps.

I don't want to be comfortable. I'd rather be on my feet and aware.

Homegirl spitting mad facts

No one has done, what's inside of my mind before. We make our own pace, and not fall prey to the pace of others. I don't let their ridicule, stop my vision.

Have you had your INFJ Phoenix moment already?

@alexanderrobertson4058

3 жыл бұрын

Yess 13 years almost but I'm getting there they are staring to see me for me a pheonix burning brightly

@simovtransportmedia1137

3 жыл бұрын

My „missing the INFJ Phoenix moment“ is what I can call my biggest dark side from tha past.

@lindateuling7862

3 жыл бұрын

Your video has a unique view of comfort zones and the Phoenix rising from the ashes. I know that we INFJs have our unique take on it , and I enjoy hearing about how you changed your life and built it on your terms. I've followed your channel for a long time and your growth shows. It's encouraging! ( By the way- I learned a lot from your earlier videos! 🙂) This video helped me combine two analogies: (1) the Phoenix rising from the ashes (2) walking up the stairs with a yo-yo. Example: I'm not a morning person , so every morning I used to think I wasn't getting anywhere - like fighting the same old negativity every day. But later I heard a story of a person walking up the stairs with a yo-yo. They're both moving up, but sometimes the yo-yo might be temporarily lower, even though the person is on a higher step. But thanks to the person's moving upwards, they're both making progress. To me, this applies to the Phoenix and the ashes. As I grow I'm moving ahead, and the ashes that I rise from every morning are at a higher level each day - even though like the yo-yo, I don't always feel like I'm any higher than before. But actually I am. I never realized that these two analogies could work together but they do. I guess you can say I have a lot of Phoenix experiences

@magei1613

3 жыл бұрын

Just started wish me luck

@heyheyvicky1498

3 жыл бұрын

Yes I'm still in it, my husband betrayed and left me last summer and I wasn't finished with my studies, had no clue what I wanted job-wise and also knew married life with kids wasn't an option for me anymore (I will never trust any guy that much again!). I already suffered from depression but it made it so much worse, I didn't know how to live on. But after the first months, I organized a flat, renovated and furnished it on my own (huge success!), tried to meet new people (I was very shy all my life), started to learn about INFJs (thx for your videos!), reading a loooots of books and started doing coding und web design classes online. Now I'm writing my bachelor thesis and then will try to get into some coding projects and hopefully get a job by summer. And I wanna travel alone in summer for the first time! Just the isolation from pandemic robs me off my energy.😩

being a infj with scorpio as you zodiac sign is a very interesting combo the phoenix burns within me always has the mbti helped me understand my childhood on another level

Wow!!!!! Scorpio pheonix and infj pheonix!!!! Double pheonix!!!

It's so easy to act dumb and we've had to to survive. However, that was least difficult. People underestimate, and that's ok, yes, that is ok

The need for confirmation is gone. So I'm free to just Go. Doesn't matter the outcome. At least I went for it.

That rings so true to me now I finally crashed and burned in a way that was completely out of my character I had so many things I wanted to share now that I have been holding in. I have learned now to severed ties way sooner so I don't have to do the crazy door slams at an infj OCD ADHD I didn't even know what was until starting to watch your videos and then branching out because each of us is so unique. Thank you so much for helping me overcome the depression I was in I found that a keto diet opened up a door for me that I had never seen before something about the ketones create a super me that wanted to break its boundaries and start to enjoy life what's the light started coming in I started walking running now I'm sprinting and I'm trying to bring friends along the way but if I have to I will leave them I will be there for them but I need to see where this road is going to leave I don't know you but I love you and I love all the INFJs because we need to know that. Alan McKinney Keto infj 1956 yes I'm that old I also am in the best physical condition in my life and by far far far far far far better mental awareness that I'm ever thought possible

Partially correct. Some INFJs are, due to circumstances, more like a match struggling against a hurricane rather than having the necessary resources and network to be a Phoenix. Stress and frustration? Those words are gross understatements. I don't think there are words that exist to describe the level of combined desire with simultaneous inaccessibility to the necessary resources to make positive changes in the world. NI vision means NOTHING without the necessary resources and opportunities to manifest them. Without those, the NI vision will remain as a master plan in the world of theories and dreams, hidden from the injured world that COULD be healing......if only........

SE extroverted steps..... That clarification is absolutely life-changing.

After every bridge I’ve burned while I’ve still been on it‼️🤔🙄😲🥴🤭😖‼️

THANK YOU VERY WENZES... 46 Y.O. INFJ HERE READY TO FLY.... SE HERE WE GO...

My SE is stronger than ever before I don't even care how some people underestimate or misinterpret me as any label or archetype I'm already above my peers and ten steps ahead of them

3 years ago I went to therapy for the 1st time in my life. I was 35 and I had a lot of wounds to heal. This video hit home for me very hard because on my journey of self love I’ve been called selfish and self absorbed. Actually removed myself from a group of friends that I felt I had a great connection with because of being called selfish and self absorbed. All the while I was just doing what I thought was best for myself as well as the people around me. Thank you for posting this!

It’s quite amazing because it wasn’t too long ago I went through heartbreak and I saw the word Phoenix everywhere.

Once again, I am inspired to be the best me I can be. Time to stop worrying about what others need. I NEED to thrive and be therefor myself instead of always being there for everyone else!

My Sigma pheonixed just months ago (& even I was surprised). Since then, I’ve not just been stronger, but I’ve been happier.

we are the type that "people can project onto us whatever they want".... aha, Lord God Almighty, have they not !

It was painful years for me before I discovered that I am an INFJ . I have a better understanding now about who I am. I thought I'm always misunderstood since I don't usually go with the usual norm. Thank you for all your videos.

INFJ Aquarius female here=a ruthless combo. Aquarians are known in Zodiac to cut heads off without remorse

The Secret of the Gods : "START ALL OVER AGAIN" ( anytime, anywhere, anyhow, anymore.....and in the end...ANYWAY !).THANK YOU FOR BEING WENZES.

"2:29(We as INFJs...) to 2:35(...feel safe) 2:50(We've created...) to 3:27(...downsides) 4:20(I had that...) to 4:34(...start at zero)"

Beautiful video! All this time - I felt the huge discrepancy between my vision and my "TE" reality - and thought I was crazy! Now I know #1 why my dreams (aka visions) have meant so much to me & now #2 bringing this new knowledge into the fold of "its not about the perfect next step" yet just making the next best step is how I get to my vision. Words can not express the relief this brings me - thank God for self development angels like you Wenzes 😍

Thanks. I have been trying for so long it's like looking down on the floor and see one thousand pieces of puzzle where do i begin and you find a corner and you are feeling good that you see a light,then something or some one just kick all the pieces back together.I am always starting over.I am in a black hole at this time i can't get out there is no light !!! there is a hand but it's to short and i don't trust the hand i know i am not crazy i know the person i am on the inside but putting all those pieces of puzzle together is overwhelming, you are doing a great job for people like me that is in a dark world and fear is holding us back.peace

As infj, i always want to help ppl but sometimes they got wrong idea. Why i always help them. Event its just small thing, until i knew they felt annoy about my act so right now i just ignore them even they want help

It looks very soft and feminine with just a little bit of wave-like you have it here too. Most importantly is that your comfortable. Bet you look comfortable and you feel comfortable in your presentation and you really do.

It's awesome living in this time

INFJ-T here. INTJ also ISFJ. Took the test 6 times. One time INTJ. One time ISFJ. I believe we are in the line of infinity. The closest to the most balanced. Which include death and life and the inbetween of both.

Thank you! I have mostly forgotten but am remembering that when I moved to this city I was 23 years old, I quit my job, sold my car and flew here alone, barely knew one person, and within a short time found myself without a job, car, place to live or any money-- and I Made It! I even adopted a stray cat and insisted that I would only live where he could come along too. Now my husband of 30 years has died and my old life is fading away-- so I'm scrambling STILL trying to figure out where I fit (Saturn in the 10th house = sloooww coming career) I'm going to keep my tenacious successful self in mind❤

Absolutely Correct! Thank you Wenzes!

I just commented concerning the Phoenix in the ashes but I had to add one more thing. I really enjoyed hearing your experience about when you learned how to swim. You got off to a bit of a late start but you conquered it. I can't help remembering when I moved to South Texas having studied Spanish for three years in high school but not speaking it much after that and then having to get fluent in Spanish after moving to South Texas. This Phoenix felt like she was crawling out from under the ashes two or three times a week but I learned the language and I even ended up writing and spelling it better than some of my friends who lived here all their lives. So I can vouch for the fact that tricky things can be learned if we're patient with ourselves and keep that Phoenix in mind.

You spoke to my soul, Wenzes...TY

I love hearing your personal experiences.

I have been binging your videos the past 2 weeks. Thank you so much

I’m having it rn and this video is helping me :) thanks 🙏

This is really very helpful honestly.💖

Best Wenzes video thumbnail yet

Perfect timing watching this one, thank you.

You are a true inspiration to me, I am so grateful to the Universe for you,thank you

I'm so thankful I discovered this channel and all that I am learning from Wenzes. This was probably the best one for where I am currently & bookmarked so I can watch again & again! Thank you, Wenzes!! You are truly inspiring and changing lives.

Thank you. Keep it up. You inspired me a lot 👍.

I love this video 👏👏👏

I’m a INFJ empath and Your right. Very true and correct.ℹ️💯✅❤️✝️🙏🏿📖🗡👊🏿👌🏿👍🏿🥷☯️😎

Amazing video! Thank you so much! You´re an inspiration!

@8:53 😂 oh how we all rationalize our visions

Outstanding! Truly outstanding. Excellent conceptual articulation. God Bless you!

You're a godsend!

100% so much sense ,thanks for sharing,✨

Thank you very very much for all your videos!!! I am finally see that I am not crazy!!! That every time I try to be myself everybody else dislikes me, it is actually them not wanting to accept the real me and not me not being who they want me to be!!! Thank you :) :)

This really makes sense to me now. I'm really so afraid to take the step, to do the new thing that I had in mind since when I was 16. I'm 27 now. I feel so afraid to do this even when it's all I want, the only thing I'm sure about, the only thing I feel so strongly about. I have been postponing this, coming up with reasons especially money but it will never be enough reason not to do this. I'm really scared but I'm going to do this anyway this 4th of June. Wish me luck :)

God Bless Wenzes, reading my life back to me.. telling my actions were all right not that it needs validation, bt happy to be part of the community

Thanks for starting me on my Phoenix journey, Wenzes.

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

👍😊👍

Hi. I love your videos because they are motivational speeches plus spiritually enlightening too. So your e xplanation so well made and round that it describe the situation in each way. I dont know how you able to speak that I can't oppose in any way.... there is no chance to say I can't do it. Thank you! You give me a lot of courage.

❤️well said it never bothers me what everyone thinks because I don’t think 💭 💋

Thank you wenzes for this powerful and insightful explanation on how to have an INFJ epic life 👏💪watching this reduces my fears and anxiety to be myself no matter what. I'm inlove with your videos and can't stop watching it. I learned a lot from you 😊

YEAH! GO INFJ!! ☀️☀️

@Wenzes. You know something? You are so right. As I was listening to you,I was doing what you would call, lateral thinking.I was on the floor doing some abb work, and I thought about what am I truly good at, that I hide from people around me, who I think would judge me for it. I believe I found it, and it was right in front of my face all the time and I just denied and doubted myself. I want to thank you so much. May God continue to bless your ministry. from your fellow INFJ WITH LOVE TO YOU, KURT

You awesome what channel does help. Connect the dots faster unable to see the bigger picture. Maybe sometimes see more than what you see personally. Keep up the amazing work

Ya really looking quite beautiful Wednesday's.

Wow you truly are a gifted person, this one video is like a shining star as far as which direction to follow. Thanks

You really know your stuff.

Ok stop getting in my head!!Never mind it's to late you already live in mine vs verse lol. ♏ here but in between eagle and Phoenix rising here phase. Have gone thru so many experiences that have brought me so down to the lowest but have always pulled myself up without much help. No choice either but to rise.

Very pretty and that purple Jewel tone sweater that's a really good color.

I am a Phoenix reborn. I feel fresh. I look like a model. Idk. Things are good. Also the spiritual gifts I have this cycle are unbelievable. Meditation 🧘‍♀️

INFJs are kinda like the Scorpios of the Personalities... 😊

Thank you

YEAH I TOOK IT ON !!! LEVELING UP 😉

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

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WHAT? You described my last 2 yrars A to Z From fully rejecting my character (appearantley you can do that) to building it from the ground up as I'D wished Then done the same wirh my 25m2 kitchen as well then vuild it from the ground up without experience uo front And NOW when I feel like I've done it and I feel amazing like my wishes are at my feet jumping from goal to goal and none of the energy I soent is spent on ANYTHONG I Don't like And only now I see your video hahaha wauw just the summary of this all I needed for closure Homestley.. you got me the chills and truly goosebumps as I'm kinda shocked.. Thank you and keep it up! You've just wiped the greatest smile on my face alomg with the chills of releive and closure

Damn Wenzes...🤓 You have a shitload of videos... Thanks for sharing...🙂 Blessed be!🔥

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

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This was all I needed, my whole unlived life. I have always thrived to prove myself to the world and seeking for that antagonism to settle myself up with these unrealistic expectations. I just overcompensated my feeling of brokenness all the time, just by mirroring this perfect reality and losing myself in self-pitty. It's the first time in my life I felt the discipline to accept myself for who I am, still being emotionally balanced and feeling the need to be sympathic from my true core. It makes me come up with questions like: Why am I driven by authority, success and fame? Is there even such a thing like perfection? (I know even perfection is not perfect) and perhaps most important Why do I rely on my feeling of divergence? Everyone has started somewhere. Everyone lives from their own unconventional perception. This five factor model is just like poison to me. It's good it's out there, because it's accurate and insightful, but for me it's just like another opening to find some assurance. Now I know my surroundings don't own me anything. They would dominate me, using their dark empathy and make me so intensely sad, I wish I had other parents. The moment after, the emotions would be gone and that's how the poisonous cocktail is continuously getting maintained. I'm getting hurt over and over again and it's incredibly hard to see others point of view, when you're in survival mode like that. I also do see now, that this survival mode is the causal factor. I am so glad you gave me the insight to NEVER CREATE a self-image on the basis of your external senses. I have so much more respect for my fellow men by watching this video. I can't thank you enough 👏

@sidlopez4599

2 жыл бұрын

Hello Wenzes , thanks for the encouragement. This is so appropriately relevant, (for me {at least} that is to say ) there really isn’t too much too elaborate on. 🤔😑👌🙏

Sorry I am not criticizing you in anyway, let me explain where I'm coming from, I've been relative to on-air work and we always assess colors and make up choices and hair colors because it looks different on presentation on television than it would in real life some colors pop and some colors leave you flat and we've discussed this thoroughly amongst my peers, so I'm just more speaking about where I'm coming from and giving feedback from that, it's not a criticism on your person you look gorgeous and I was right I must say your eyes are really beautiful in sparkling you can really see them clearly with these tones. I enjoy listening to the presentation I like all this kind of organizational stuff and insight.

Thankyou 🌺

Wow! What a imagination

I am in love a bit

Remarkable.

I'm a little bit late on this video but to my fellow INFJ's I would say never give up because the phoenix may ever returns from the cinders

Speak No More, Silence, The Valkyrie is Back!i!

I Only Mess With Exotics tht Voice Is It for Mie Ur Look Was U It Ain't Changed Which Was It ... ,

Note to Wenzes: It is possible that I have paste-posteed this to more than ne of your videos, but as a person who might have seen one of the videos may not have seen them all, this can serve a purpose. ----------------------------------------------------------------------- INFJ towards sigma: As one who has lived the life for all too long as the INFJ empath, and sees the problem of making INFJs contend with narcissists and narcissism, IMHO there is a fine line here to be cut and said distinction be made know, "imposed if necessary, but not necessarily imposed ". So we think of the INFJ, seeking to become sigma, yet caught with the conundrum of putting (as it were) the narcissist in hos place... "As Christians we are taught"... (That to mean that while we may have been taught X is a Christian environment, it still in practical common sense applies to ALL humanity, albeit in ecumenical fashion (AKA unity in diversity in some other religions) but also, in so propounding, makes due respect for other religions.) "A christian loves the sinner yet haters the sin" but this says little about just how to deal with the "combined conundrum". Hence, centuries later, we hear talk of "Tough Love"... So, rhetorically, might well the INFJ of this story think how best to impose the need for tough love on the narcissist, and then, on that basis, "Wash his hands". For the young and single set, is this not comparable to the "no communications rule" and all that entails and seeks to serve? Food for thought(iness)!

create... as in having a choice to do or not to do? i remember and miss choice effecting outcome, stay in bed, sitting up a tree, unknown extrovert solo bar roll playing adventure or hiding in a box! doesn't make a difference key moments will happen to me regardless. back when i was first experimenting with input mixes, prospective's source of intent such methods of application and outcome, much needed understanding of the toll on myself and limits stacked against the advancement and development of my path, the predictive formula was fun/thrilling to see and link outcomes with such ease, until i moved on with next required item to understanding and placed it aside for automatic mode can do the ongoing experiments/creations, big mistake nothing shocks me anymore, true story recently fell asleep driving home (2am raining 100kmh just ended 100h work wk plant maintenance shutdown) i drifted of the rural road into a deep slopped grass gutter when i woke and became aware i had only one conscious thought: YEEPPP HMM as my muscle memory did everything it had already done, that did not bother me but what did trobble me was that my body produced/experience any near death responses like strong dosing of adrenaline. and i forgot my reason

is there a video on this channel that I can watch to learn your qualifications or how you got to the point that you have enough figured out to help guide other people? You seem to have good sound advice and great insights but you are so young! I'm just nosey - and curious.

Es difícil vivir bombardeados de ambiciones ajenas, nos vuelve muy infelices. Me gusta haber encontrado todo esto del mbti, identificarme como una INFJ típica, muy típica, siento que ya no me siento tan sola como antes y algunas preguntas existenciales ya no son necesarias. Es interesante que alguien más use la frase: "no tenemos modelos a seguir", siendo esta una de las razones por la que los psicólogos nunca me han ayudado. Quizá estos videos y foros son lo más cercano a una terapia exitosa que he tenido.

@yonyspena7913

Жыл бұрын

Q grandioso es encontrarte Con este canal y con Personas como usted,apenas me di cuenta q soy infj y todo cambio para bien,te mando bendiciones 🌹♥️🙏

Yes. 💯

as an INTJ here, i KNOW that this ABSOLUTELY IS ALLLLLLLLLLLLL about Ne (extroverted intuition). and, as an INTJ here, i KNOW that Ne IS getting/putting/exacting/enacting your thoughts out there in the real world outside of the self. understand that it will not always be perfect. and, thats ok. just as you can revise and reorchestrate things in your head, you can ALSO revise and reorchestrate things out in the world outside of your head. and, THATS OK. people do judge from time to time. BUT, people VERY, VERY, VERY RARELY EVER - PRACTICALLY NEVER EVER - EVER judge us to the same degree with which we judge ourselves!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MISTAKES CAN, DO and, WILL happen (from time to time). out in the real world, though, what TRULY MATTERS are NOT the mistakes but HOW WELL YOU GET BACK UP AND >>>>>>> DO BETTER >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> MOST ABSOLUTELY NEEDS

Yes ❤️‍🔥

Thank you for this amazing upload. Apologies for my ignorance, but can you please help me understand what the acronym I N F J is, as I never heard nor read it before? Thank you for your time. Have a great day.

Follow yourself…

Be careful with the phoenix,..some things are not what they seem. Playing in the shadowlands can be kinda dangerous.

@susandoerr3896

3 жыл бұрын

balance, dr ramani and others.

this going to sound weird...my Greatest Wisdom is Balance...i know n understand everything n comprehend one thing which his nothing...lol...once u figure that one out u'll stop searching because it will come instantly... Cheers!!!...RAL...

3:36 - 4:23 anyone here with ptsd? I need tips.. I'm constantly worried about what's going on around me.. I feel like I have to pay attention to everything, it's incredibly draining.. 3hrs at a job feels impossible now, much less 8 I don't care if people judge me, I care if I get home safely.. even though home doesn't feel safe either. it feels like I could die any moment.. what do I do when that's a marginal possiblity...

I caught it on the 777

It’s amazingly beautiful honey❤❤❤

♥️