I See Dead People: Dreams and Visions of the Dying | Dr. Christopher Kerr | TEDxBuffalo

Dr. Christopher Kerr speaks at a 2015 TEDx event Buffalo, New York.
Dr. Christopher W. Kerr is the Chief Medical Officer at The Center for Hospice and Palliative Care, where he has worked since 1999. His background in research has evolved from bench science towards the human experience of illness as witnessed from the bedside, specifically patients’ dreams and visions at the end of life. Although medically ignored, these near universal experiences often provide comfort and meaning as well as insight into the life led and the death anticipated.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

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  • @purplemister5974
    @purplemister59745 жыл бұрын

    I worked at a hospital as a transporter. I moved beds, medicine, bloodtests and patients, including those who had recently passed away. Something I've noticed was that nurses were sometimes scared to follow me down into the morgue. They were scared of their own patients, just because the life had left the body. I was nervous and scared at first, but after a while I took my job with honor. A person's body is their greatest treasure, and it was my job to make sure that their treasure got moved down to the morgue with dignity. Some days were hard, some were not. But I always made sure that the feet of the deceased were properly tucked away, that their arms were crossed over their chest, that their body layed properly on the bed before I closed the door. It might just be corpses to some, but to me they're still valuable, and should be treated with respect.

  • @RotterStudios

    @RotterStudios

    5 жыл бұрын

    :)

  • @rakeshrana3852

    @rakeshrana3852

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thanks to God such people like you gracing this earth

  • @user-rd6dh4hq1j

    @user-rd6dh4hq1j

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 🖤

  • @forreal245

    @forreal245

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ida A...You are a blessing from God.

  • @purplemister5974

    @purplemister5974

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for all these nice comments. ❤

  • @shaunamartinez3461
    @shaunamartinez34613 жыл бұрын

    I was scheduled for surgery in 2010 and the morning of my surgery my mom and sister found out my uncle passed away suddenly the night before. They didnt tell me because they were afraid I wouldnt have my surgery. I had surgery and came home several hours later. I went to bed and slept through the night. My uncle visited me, standing at the foot of my bed and said I'd be just fine and he wanted to let me know my cancer was gone and he would keep an eye on me. Then he said goodbye and he loved me. It was vivid, and real.

  • @jenniferzhou8635

    @jenniferzhou8635

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hope you're doing well!

  • @praywithoutceasing2966

    @praywithoutceasing2966

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing 💙🙏🏼

  • @toryjohnson1305

    @toryjohnson1305

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oh it was definitely real, probably the realest thing you're ever going to witness until death itself

  • @ronaldk4225

    @ronaldk4225

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same thing happened to me when my grandma passed away, she was next to my bed, covering me with a blanket... It was so real, I can even smelling her... And when I was "awake" the blanket was on me... I use to sleep with my grandma everyday before she passed away...

  • @miriamcohen7657

    @miriamcohen7657

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @sundog3150
    @sundog3150 Жыл бұрын

    I was a volunteer helper for Hospice. I would go to the homes of patients and give the families some relief to run errands, take a break, etc. while I watched their loved one. One case involved a 90 year old man, very close to death. While sitting with him, he suddenly bolted upright, looked around his bed and said to me, with eyes bright and shinning, “They are all here, they tell me a party is going on and they came to get me.” He started calling out names of men, interspersing them with loud cowboy type whoops. When he finally fell silent, eyes closed he had the biggest smile on his face. I had written down all he had said at the request of his son. Later that day the son returned and told me that the names were of his fathers best friends, fellow cowboys that had worked a cattle ranch, out west, for years. They had all passed away. I can’t tell you how much joy it gave the son to think that his father’s friends had come for him to take him to a party.

  • @youtube.comJ-NETERER18

    @youtube.comJ-NETERER18

    Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful and that party was in heaven

  • @savage22bolt32

    @savage22bolt32

    Жыл бұрын

    Too bad you didn't have a tape recorder or smartphone.

  • @RowanWarren78

    @RowanWarren78

    Жыл бұрын

    One of the last things my great uncle said as he was dying was, "my cows are here"!! He was a farmer with cows that he was very attached to, almost like pets. This is not only reassuring to me concerning the subject of an afterlife, but also makes me hopefully that there are animals present in paradise. It wouldn't really be paradise without them. ❤️🐾

  • @savage22bolt32

    @savage22bolt32

    Жыл бұрын

    @@RowanWarren78 very interesting. I want to hold & pet my orange cat Jaguar. He died when I was 7.

  • @philclothier9028

    @philclothier9028

    Жыл бұрын

    Okay 😢😢😢

  • @user-ps2mi9ze5v
    @user-ps2mi9ze5v3 жыл бұрын

    I was taking care of a hospice patient when my brother died. She hadn't spoken above a whisper in weeks. My brother died on a Thursday afternoon 7 months after a stage 4 lung cancer diagnosis. He was buried on a Sunday and I returned to work on Tuesday. Around 2am my patient clearly said "Your brother is here". She had no idea I had a brother. She didn't know my brother was sick and had died. I didn't see him, but I like to think he was there to comfort me. I miss him every day.

  • @aprilmartian5837

    @aprilmartian5837

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow that's beautiful!!! 🧡

  • @laurafeher9694

    @laurafeher9694

    2 жыл бұрын

    God love you for sharing this with me. Deep Respect

  • @marywalsh3290

    @marywalsh3290

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this story.

  • @nightmessenger

    @nightmessenger

    Жыл бұрын

    OK, that got me choking up a wee bit, not gonna lie! So, heartwarming and yes that was for you! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @EastmanEditing

    @EastmanEditing

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow. So powerful! Reading this a year later after you wrote this comment and it’s so comforting. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏼

  • @rtnarayanan
    @rtnarayanan7 жыл бұрын

    The last words my father said before his death was "I have to go, my parents are sitting here next to my bed, they want to take me somewhere". He was very relaxed and peaceful.

  • @youneedtocalljane

    @youneedtocalljane

    6 жыл бұрын

    I was with my dad when he died in my arms; his last words were "take care of your mom"; which I did. Was holding her hand when she died years later. I considered it an honor to be present for their passing

  • @AnitaD28

    @AnitaD28

    6 жыл бұрын

    Jane Paxson - Jane, you were a great daughter and loving friend to your parents.

  • @GeorgiaIsOnMyMind

    @GeorgiaIsOnMyMind

    6 жыл бұрын

    Jane Paxson I want to congratulate you for your luck in being the recipient of two such honarable chances.

  • @katiekat4457

    @katiekat4457

    6 жыл бұрын

    I am so sorry for your losses. It is very, very common especially for the elderly that when they are closer to passing that they see and call out to their moms. Or dads or both. It’s actually so common that it is one of the things that a hospice nurse might tell you that is a sign of the time of passing getting closer. I think it is really nice to think that maybe those who go before us are waiting. I sure hope that to be true. I feel like it is.

  • @nenab1969

    @nenab1969

    6 жыл бұрын

    Katie Kat my pawpaw would call out for "momma" and my parents believe he was calling for his mother but he used to call my mammaw "momma" as well and she died less than 4 months before he did. Looking back on sure he was calling for his mother ......"momma" .....because the night actually less than 24 hrs before he died I was sitting in the room alone with him, watching him, at times he would look as if he had stopped breathing. During one If those breathless times he gasped, reached up, looked up and said, "Katie" that was my Mammaw's name........I miss him so much miss her too! I know I will see them again one day though!

  • @jmw599
    @jmw5995 жыл бұрын

    I was at a football game and the guy next to me fell out with a heart attack. They stopped the game and hit him often with the paddles. His color was an odd grey and I knew he was gone. I kept looking up because people always tell of floating up above their body. I kept staring up but saw nothing. The guy suddenly gave them a heartbeat and he was taken by helicopter to the hospital. I felt compelled to visit him two days later and when I walked in the hospital he immediately recognized me as the guy "who kept looking up at me," he said that I must have seen him because I was looking right at him above us. I left his room with very large goose bumps.

  • @michigancrownmolding

    @michigancrownmolding

    5 жыл бұрын

    wow... good one... very very believable..thank you so much for sharing, I cant wait to share your story with friends.... thank you again..

  • @kyletor6082

    @kyletor6082

    5 жыл бұрын

    Wow. Thanks JayT for sharing. O love it.

  • @rickstewart3584

    @rickstewart3584

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jay...if your comment is true..then that is what researchers have been looking for...for decades now.

  • @taylor6735

    @taylor6735

    5 жыл бұрын

    😳

  • @sherpatrailers150

    @sherpatrailers150

    5 жыл бұрын

    When my husband died, I remembered to look up, and throw him a goodbye kiss. I'll have to ask him someday if he noticed.

  • @paulcresswell2279
    @paulcresswell22793 жыл бұрын

    A few yrs ago as a police officer I found a girl hanging. I stayed with her as I didn't want to leave her until the soco had finished and the ambulance crew I took her. I was nervous and scared but at one moment I felt calm and I felt a breeze pass me. My colleague looked at me and said that's her going. He was a very experienced officer not someone given to emotion or religious beliefs. He knew tho just as I did. First time iv shared this

  • @EM-fs8nb

    @EM-fs8nb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Maybe it was her way of saying thank you 🙏

  • @katrinaasmrr

    @katrinaasmrr

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing 💙 my father’s a retired Leo. Your hard work is commended

  • @paulcresswell2279

    @paulcresswell2279

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@katrinaasmrr that's kind of you. It's just something that has stayed with me.

  • @paulcresswell2279

    @paulcresswell2279

    2 жыл бұрын

    Iv just subbed to your channel. I'm lucky to feel the effects from asmr

  • @katrinaasmrr

    @katrinaasmrr

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@paulcresswell2279 you feel that relaxing sensation? 🙂 the “tingles” ? Glad to have you there! Stay in touch. Would love to make sure you’re doing well.

  • @SweetUniverse
    @SweetUniverse2 жыл бұрын

    When my bff was dying of cancer, she was fighting. She didn't want to die. She was still a young 60 yrs old. The day before her body gave out, she became at peace. She stopped fighting and said, "I love you all, but my dad's here and I'm going to go with him." We both believed in reincarnation and promised that in the next life we would come back as sisters.

  • @jenniferho5183

    @jenniferho5183

    2 жыл бұрын

    On the morning of my husband's uncle passing ,he came into his dream and said " Goodbye". My husband jumped out of his bed n said to me , " I think my uncle has passed away." We left for the hospital and his aunt greeted us, " who informed you that your uncle has passed on?" My husband was absolutely shocked n surprised. He replied, " He came to say goodbye. " that's why l am here.

  • @flowerpower9541

    @flowerpower9541

    2 жыл бұрын

    I will forever be haunted by my mother's passing. She didn't have a peaceful passing. She was not communicating, and was literally fighting..rolling around, (I've wondered if she was in extreme pain). Couple hours later, I wasn't with her, the person with her, said there was nothing inspiring and comforting for us to hold onto as she went, she had just stilled, opened her eyes for a moment, and left us. These stories are comforting to me, to hope that momma received that peace

  • @vasudevsarvam6912

    @vasudevsarvam6912

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@flowerpower9541 You literally commented 1 minute before lol on not so active thread....Hahaha.

  • @flowerpower9541

    @flowerpower9541

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@vasudevsarvam6912 what? Gee thanks for your sensitivity. Considering how I was feeling writing about my mother. I don't know what you are talking about

  • @janicewood1734

    @janicewood1734

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@flowerpower9541 take no pass of him. Idk why that he said that Bonnie Potter but I feel like your mom did indeed have peace @ the end. Take care miss Bonnie Potter your name is like a storybook name that gives children peace. Your mom named you well. 💞

  • @lab4389
    @lab43893 жыл бұрын

    My brother died in a car crash when he was 27. I was 21, and had not experienced a close death before. It was the morning of his funeral. I barely slept. I was lying in bed very numb from shock, and I heard my heart music box come on. For about a minute. My brother was a musician, and I knew without a doubt it was him. What a gift. It taught me that our souls live on, and our love is everlasting. ❤️

  • @maggspaine5419

    @maggspaine5419

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oh how lovely for you

  • @jacquiventurini7877

    @jacquiventurini7877

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's beautiful. I had something similar too x

  • @jamesnguyen7069

    @jamesnguyen7069

    3 жыл бұрын

    they do and some will haunt their people who kill them

  • @chriskozak4966

    @chriskozak4966

    3 жыл бұрын

    I believe you! Life continues its journey in a spiritual way. Blessings 🙏🏽

  • @road2apples

    @road2apples

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@chriskozak4966 ♥✞♥Through the prophet he said, “I did not hide my face from mocking and spitting” (Isa. 50:6 ) [Isaiah was written 700-750 years prior to the birth of Christ. Psalms was written about 1020 years prior to Jesus' birth. Since Jesus died in A.D. 30 or 33, the prophecies concerning his death were between 800 and 1050 years old when they were fulfilled.] Pray without ceasing… -1 Thessalonians 5:17♥✞♥✞♥

  • @sunnygirl87
    @sunnygirl874 жыл бұрын

    "Mom, we dont really die." My son said this to me about six months after he was murdered. I know he is speaking from Peace Love & Light

  • @joannemp6786

    @joannemp6786

    4 жыл бұрын

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @angelalackey3521

    @angelalackey3521

    3 жыл бұрын

    Can you into more detail please for those of us seeking these signs? When and how

  • @sunnygirl87

    @sunnygirl87

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@angelalackey3521 Try this, any time you think of them, smell their scent/cigar/perfume, see their birthday, name, favorite bird, it is them.

  • @mafaldaamaro8536

    @mafaldaamaro8536

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m so sorry your son passed away... truly believe He is happy and in peace 💛🙏

  • @arijimenez2872

    @arijimenez2872

    3 жыл бұрын

    yes of course... YOUR SON IS ALIVE,!! AND I'M SURE SORROUNDED OF TO MUCH PEACE AND LOVE

  • @Rebeccakisosondi
    @Rebeccakisosondi Жыл бұрын

    I’m a hospice social worker. 8 out of 10 of my patients see visions of dead loved ones

  • @thelittlebluefrog

    @thelittlebluefrog

    Жыл бұрын

    What about the other two? How are they different?

  • @factsforyou2329

    @factsforyou2329

    8 ай бұрын

    ​@@thelittlebluefrogThey are maybe under strong medication that they unable to tell anyone or they are speechless during near death time.

  • @bella_k5230
    @bella_k52303 жыл бұрын

    I had a patient up in step down who was actively dying. As her nurse I stayed by her side and comforted her as much as I could. After about 20 min she began to wave towards the corner of the room. She had this immediate glow and joy. She grabbed my hand and said “look say hello to my mom” she began reaching her arms out to the the empty corner of the room. She died within the hour. So yes, I can confirm these things happen and there is no class or lecture about it🙏

  • @StopListenThink

    @StopListenThink

    2 жыл бұрын

    My father was dying he described four large beings that were brightly shining in gold…. And then he began to speak in ancient Hebrew…. My fathers has Only ever spoken broken English and Spanish -

  • @lisavan504

    @lisavan504

    2 жыл бұрын

    Bless you for sharing this and for the selfless work you do. No doubt, nurses are very special people in all they do, give especially comfort.

  • @peransix864

    @peransix864

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@StopListenThink My wife spoke in ver fluent latin as she died ,,a friend was with us he was a priest whorfecognised the language as a very old style of latin not usaed for ages ,,but she was having a conversationn with whoever in this other tongue ,,,

  • @StopListenThink

    @StopListenThink

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@peransix864 It is a miracle when you see things like this I don’t know who was there (spirit)with him but he was also doing the same thing and he spoke in third person to those in the room about my dad

  • @StopListenThink

    @StopListenThink

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@peransix864 I am sorry for your loss by the way but you will see them again

  • @tracy1394
    @tracy13943 жыл бұрын

    My grandmother, on her dying bed, said there were angels in her closet and also told here daughter, who could not have children, that she was pregnant. Her daughter told her that can't be. You know that I cannot have children. Eight months she delivered a baby boy.

  • @savemefromreligion

    @savemefromreligion

    2 жыл бұрын

    Goosebumps

  • @brendajimenez5869

    @brendajimenez5869

    2 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful, thanks for sharing 💗

  • @IrishAnnie

    @IrishAnnie

    2 жыл бұрын

    A gift from heaven delivered by a loved one.

  • @Q.Mechanic

    @Q.Mechanic

    2 жыл бұрын

    !

  • @candicemirisha912

    @candicemirisha912

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow what a gift

  • @wheatifer
    @wheatifer4 жыл бұрын

    I'm sitting here with tears running down my face, thinking, what a wonderful thing the internet is. We have the opportunity to realize how alike we are and to share these experiences with each other. Now I'm off to read the rest of these comments.

  • @alkasingh7227

    @alkasingh7227

    3 жыл бұрын

    We are alike.. But still we are alone.. No one can help us.. Not even alike people

  • @t.brackett7600

    @t.brackett7600

    2 жыл бұрын

    9

  • @carolynaitken7632

    @carolynaitken7632

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@alkasingh7227 Jesus will help us if we let him when we have Jesus in our lives we are never alone!

  • @YoursEteranally

    @YoursEteranally

    2 жыл бұрын

    Okay you converted me. I'm just sad millions are going to be suffering for eternity. But hey at betterr them than us right?

  • @alkasingh7227

    @alkasingh7227

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@carolynaitken7632 thank you

  • @gailknight3128
    @gailknight31282 жыл бұрын

    I remember a patient who was never very talkative and it was very difficult to even get a smile from him. Not because he was in pain or seriously ill. Went by him one day and he was looking up towards the ceiling smiling his head off, looked so happy. I asked him if was OK, barely moving his head, he said yes. I went into the sluice room, only for a couple of minutes, came out and he had died. But I'll always remember the sheer look of joy on his face, I believe he was seeing something, or someone which made him so happy. That was nearly fifty years ago, and I've never forgotten.

  • @azu7495
    @azu74952 жыл бұрын

    I am 20 years old and my dad passed away just a month back. He wasn't sick or diagnosed with anything, it was just a massive irreversible cardiac arrest. I have been so devastated and heartbroken and in so much pain. Watching this video made me smile for the first time since then. Thank you. My dad hasn't visited me yet. I wait for him every day, I am desperate to see him and hear his voice one more time. I am going to wait. Dad, please come and visit me. I feel very alone and broken 😭

  • @polynsngirl47

    @polynsngirl47

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m sorry about your dad’s passing. When you grieve, it makes it harder for them to visit you. What they need most is a prayer. When you see him in your dreams at night, and say you are hugging him, he uses telepathy to communicate, he feels like flesh, looks younger, these are all signs that the “dream” was a real visit.

  • @azu7495

    @azu7495

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@polynsngirl47 but why haven't I seen him yet ? 😭 I am so desperate

  • @glory1star

    @glory1star

    Жыл бұрын

    @@azu7495 hello girlie! Sorry about your your dad! It’s been 1 year now has he visit you yet? Hope so

  • @AndNowIWrite

    @AndNowIWrite

    Жыл бұрын

    I hope you are well. Grief is difficult and personal for each one. Look for your dad in your dreams and in symbols. I wish peace for you.

  • @cybertronika

    @cybertronika

    Жыл бұрын

    Ibogaine or ayawasca 🙏🏻

  • @karenpatterson8574
    @karenpatterson85744 жыл бұрын

    Dr. Kerr was the dr who was in charge of my dads care when he was in hospice care in 2004. He was a compassionate and very warm person in caring for my dad. I’ll be forever thankful for his presence during that time.

  • @christopherkerr7692

    @christopherkerr7692

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for remembering me Karen! So nice to read. Hope you are well

  • @meganlee162

    @meganlee162

    3 жыл бұрын

    The power and emotion behind his voice had me sobbing during his whole lecture. I feel what a force that man is.

  • @admiralhyperspace0015

    @admiralhyperspace0015

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@christopherkerr7692 Thank You so much for your work. I also want to do similar studies in future.

  • @judyvalencia3257
    @judyvalencia32574 жыл бұрын

    I was a nurse for 32 yrs. and it's true. I believe that they are not hallucinations,but that they are the loved ones that have gone on before and they have come to guide them to the afterlife. When they start seeing their dead loved ones and they start communicating with them, then death is close. I feel comforted knowing when my time comes my mother and grandmother will come to take me home.

  • @2eretz

    @2eretz

    3 жыл бұрын

    I was a volunteer at a local hospital one night I walked into a room and there with the patient was 2 sisters (family) and the patient was talking with her eyes closed I asked the family who was the patient addressing? They answered “oh don’t mind her she must’ve delusional she’s speaking to a family member that passed well the next morning I went by and the bed was empty and I was told she past away last night

  • @covidinfectedmonkeypox6775

    @covidinfectedmonkeypox6775

    3 жыл бұрын

    When people die the chemical DMT Is released into the brain and causes hallucinations peaceful hallucinations often causing the people to see family members who have already passed away this phenomenon has been studied by neurological scientists and doctors and they studied people who had flat lined on operation tables during surgeries and because they had technically died chemicals were released and caused them to experience out of body experiences and dead relatives comforting them but religious people don't want to hear that it's caused by chemicals releasing after the brain stops receiving oxygen instead most people prefer to believe that there is an afterlife an i don't blame them I'd like to believe that too but unfortunately I wasn't able to just accept that there was an afterlife I wanted to know if there were any other possible reasons that could cause people to experience these visions and after researching for a long time and following what these scientists and doctors were learning I had to agree with them because it's evidence that's been presented and can't be ignored like when a person takes DMT it causes the same type of effects that it does when it's naturally released by the brain it seems that our body is so impressively designed that it has a way of making death peaceful and not scary which is remarkable and at the same time not surprising considering how impressive the human body well all living things bodies but ya I still like to listen to people tell these stories because deep down I of course want to still believe that there is an afterlife I have lots of people that would be there 😊

  • @raptureready5004

    @raptureready5004

    3 жыл бұрын

    I was there when my Dad was dying, I brought him back, and asked him if he saw anything and he said "no"

  • @judyvalencia3257

    @judyvalencia3257

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@raptureready5004 I think there's a difference in dying and being brought back from the dead. He probably didn't have time to actually fully cross over? Just saying.

  • @raptureready5004

    @raptureready5004

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@judyvalencia3257 no he didn't, but he was and so many people have loved ones appear to them even before they die, And here he was deep in the process, it shocked me he said he saw nothing. Terribly sad.

  • @Tyger-Lee
    @Tyger-Lee Жыл бұрын

    I previously worked in EMS and had heard of these types of common experiences of dying patients. I recently had to put down my beloved medical alert dog of 15 years this past October. I pet him and tried to comfort him as he laid down, by telling him not to be afraid because I was with him. I don’t have family, so he was my best friend and my only real family. I kept whispering to him to please come and find me when it’s my turn to die. I want nothing more than to be reunited with my dog Bruno so we can be together for ever and both go home together. I don’t care about anyone or anything else. I just want to be with my best friend Bruno again.

  • @elbradavid6677

    @elbradavid6677

    Жыл бұрын

    Vincent, I understand: mine both passed after 16 years. I hope you take all that love and help other deserving dogs

  • @madisonmorell4336

    @madisonmorell4336

    Жыл бұрын

    I just lost my last childhood dog in December. I know exactly how you feel. Losing them is exactly the same as losing family. They ARE family. I wish you well. I also can't wait to tackled by my fur babies when I see them again.

  • @ErikKristianGonzales

    @ErikKristianGonzales

    9 ай бұрын

    I’m sorry to hear about your dog. You both will reunite one day!

  • @TattedIrishxxx

    @TattedIrishxxx

    7 ай бұрын

    I am so very sorry😞🫶 I miss my past pups everyday! 🫂

  • @sheilawalsh7847

    @sheilawalsh7847

    4 ай бұрын

    sending you Love and Peace, my friend ✨🌞🧡

  • @NoyChemChan
    @NoyChemChan Жыл бұрын

    I helped my Dad transition on 4/22/22. “Daddy, what would you like to stay or go?” I looked at him laying there without answering me. I can see him (his spirit) looking at me then at my mom sleeping at the hospital chair. “I’m worried about your mom,” he said. It was hard to him to let go of her, together for almost 50 years. He was looking to her for guidance & permission. Permission for him to leave this realm and go to another. To confirm she will ok without him. He wouldn’t leave until she said it’s ok to go sweetheart. I’ll be ok. :) it was the most heart touching moment of my life. I lost my Dad but I gained the true meaning of love.

  • @alexsimonelis164

    @alexsimonelis164

    Жыл бұрын

    God bless you all!

  • @wealth2815

    @wealth2815

    Ай бұрын

    I said the same to my father as he lay dying in hospital

  • @j03v1955
    @j03v19554 жыл бұрын

    Four days before my 89 year old father passed away l saw him raise his right hand and said " I'm coming mum, be patient I'll be there soon, I'll be there in four days". Four days later he passed. My father really loved his mother and it gave me great comfort knowing that she was there to greet him

  • @jamesnguyen7069

    @jamesnguyen7069

    3 жыл бұрын

    winchester mystery house. the lady stop building and died

  • @lordcromwell5512

    @lordcromwell5512

    2 жыл бұрын

    God bless.

  • @frenchysmith7473
    @frenchysmith74735 жыл бұрын

    We should always remember how mortal we are, then maybe we wouldn't do so many horrible things to each other.

  • @spencerfrankclayton4348

    @spencerfrankclayton4348

    5 жыл бұрын

    Actually, if we thought about how immortal we are, then maybe we wouldn't do horrible things. If there's no afterlife, our actions don't matter at all.

  • @lorimiller4301

    @lorimiller4301

    4 жыл бұрын

    We are Eternal. That's how Karma works. It couldn't possibly work in only one life. Nothing works like that. There is always growth and recycling. That's how we learn. We have to agree to forget the truth in order to gain and grow from the experience. Just like you know Movies aren't real but you agree to forget in order to really get into it. Now that the veil is thinning some of us are remembering. I just happen to recall more than usual.

  • @imogenjennings3992

    @imogenjennings3992

    4 жыл бұрын

    I agree with you about people not being horrible to each other, but God our creator doesn't forget (smile) and i do believe that is why we have de ja vues, or feeling like weve met someone before. Thats probably because we have and it could have been that person who we was rude to and God giving us the chance to go within, reflect and think "ok lifes too short whats the point in harming others" its a mad genius world! Blessings to you x

  • @laronzacoleman3121

    @laronzacoleman3121

    2 жыл бұрын

    True! I don't know too much of reincarnation or karma, but I feel like I've lived this life before. I've had dreams of meeting and seeing people but their faces are always shadowed, but the surroundings are clear. Some I already knew for years, but their circumstance would lead me to them but not knowing right away it's that person until I'm face to face with them. I believe in God/Jesus, and They have given me predictions about people passing away, and people to stay away from, and my Guardian Angel coming to me, and also my son's Guardian Angel coming to me before he was born.

  • @mierbeuker8148
    @mierbeuker81483 жыл бұрын

    I've pondered this subject many times in the past, always wondering which one of my very dysfunctional family will be waiting for me. Growing up mostly in foster homes, I don't really have any family that I was ever "close to". But as a military veteran I think I will have a much better reception than most, when all my buddies come for me.

  • @patriciavalencia2674

    @patriciavalencia2674

    2 жыл бұрын

    No doubt.

  • @SweetUniverse

    @SweetUniverse

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes angels come for people

  • @melissai4798

    @melissai4798

    2 жыл бұрын

    Your immediate family may have been assholes but you can be reassured you have many many great great grandmother and grandfathers who have watched over you and care for you will be there, along with your buddies of course!

  • @CK61380

    @CK61380

    2 жыл бұрын

    When your family passes, even the bad ones they will be showered by light and love. Your parents will meet you on the other side and all will be forgiven.

  • @NinaAndCoco

    @NinaAndCoco

    2 жыл бұрын

    It will be your buddies. For sure. X

  • @kimcat3767
    @kimcat37672 жыл бұрын

    My dad passed yesterday and my mother and I were blessed to be at his bedside as he took his final breath. I believe he sent me this video 💕

  • @jacqui2651

    @jacqui2651

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry for your loss, I believe your dad did also. Sending you a hug from Oz.

  • @kimcat3767

    @kimcat3767

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Kellybean 1 Hi. I just watched this video again. But I really do not remember watching it back in August when my dad died. Today is Dec 17, which marks 4 months since his passing. If you had not commented today on my original post I would not have gotten to see this video. Thank you Kellybean.

  • @MusicCoverSelena

    @MusicCoverSelena

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry. my condolences ❤️

  • @kimcat3767

    @kimcat3767

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@intuitivediane thank you so much. coming up on 6 months since his passing and still not easy.

  • @kimcat3767

    @kimcat3767

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jacqui2651 thank you so much!

  • @roseysherbert58
    @roseysherbert583 жыл бұрын

    i lost my daughter five weeks ago i truly hope she is in a better place now, after watching this video i think she might be, i just cannot wait to see her again i miss her so much

  • @smart22cute

    @smart22cute

    3 жыл бұрын

    So sorry for your loss. You're not alone, my boyfriend lost his son a month ago and I lost my daughter 5 years ago. I believe life continues and that we will see our love ones again in the next life. I pray you find peace and comfort in fond memories

  • @rosemarysolorio8101

    @rosemarysolorio8101

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sorry for you’re loss...

  • @user-ps2mi9ze5v

    @user-ps2mi9ze5v

    3 жыл бұрын

    Condolences to you, I'm so sorry. I wish you peace 🕊️

  • @ohdear2275

    @ohdear2275

    3 жыл бұрын

    I am very sorry for your heartbreak 💔 If it feels right to you, talk to your daughter, and ask God to deliver your messages. I do this with my deceased father, youngest brother, and with my grandparents. It is a comfort to me. And we WILL see them again. I know it.

  • @ec8787

    @ec8787

    3 жыл бұрын

    My condolences 💐

  • @lahoucine66
    @lahoucine665 жыл бұрын

    Am unable to stop reading the comments section of this video . Really amazing stories and spiritual experiences .

  • @ShrimpPerr

    @ShrimpPerr

    4 жыл бұрын

    Quran Now Same here!

  • @elizaeri1295

    @elizaeri1295

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ikr...I have to rewind the video and refrained myself from scrolling 😬...so that I wouldn't miss the talk

  • @AdventureswithAmirah

    @AdventureswithAmirah

    4 жыл бұрын

    💗🌟🌟🌟

  • @tejaswinizumbre4205

    @tejaswinizumbre4205

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here! I couldn't stop reading the comments..! As someone put it, the internet is an incredible thing... the comments shows vastly different people having similar experiences and how similar we humans are.. our spirits are eternal.. !

  • @grabbagcrafting6004

    @grabbagcrafting6004

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me2

  • @kmfa75
    @kmfa752 жыл бұрын

    My grandmother had a massive heart attack. She was dead for a few moments before being revived. A few weeks later when she was finally able to speak, she told us she saw her deceased parents, 1st husband & brothers, sisters, friends all sitting around a card table playing poker. They turned to her and told her they couldn't deal her in yet.

  • @johnr.8275

    @johnr.8275

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's amazing. An unusual take on a common theme. It kind of reminds me of something Leon Wilkeson from Lynyrd Skynyrd said after the terrible plane crash. Of the survivors, he was the most gravely injured, and flatlined twice in the hospital before being revived. One of those times, he said he saw Ronnie Van Zant, and Ronnie said something like, "What are you doing here, boy? It's not your time; you have to go back", and he awoke to doctors frantically trying to revive him.

  • @lizg8055

    @lizg8055

    Жыл бұрын

    That gave me the chills

  • @blazinbuc99

    @blazinbuc99

    Жыл бұрын

    @@johnr.8275 Wow!!!

  • @vhawk1951kl

    @vhawk1951kl

    Жыл бұрын

    Do you not understand that there is no such thing as "dead for a few moments"?-It is also meaningless

  • @annekinkelaar6507

    @annekinkelaar6507

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s awesome!

  • @bevkern3858
    @bevkern3858 Жыл бұрын

    Lost my dad in 1984 he was in a wreck 54 yes old . He came to me in my dream after the funeral .I was in a deep sleep he told me he was ok and he held me and he said he was ok . And he showed me inside heaven . But he said it was not my time I had many more yes to live . It was so real I was in a deep deep sleep . Woke up crying . But it gave me peace. .

  • @alexilaiho8534
    @alexilaiho85345 жыл бұрын

    My father just passed away today 8 hours ago and I cant sleep so here I am.

  • @FaVeritas

    @FaVeritas

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hope you are doing ok :(

  • @cscs9192

    @cscs9192

    4 жыл бұрын

    I hope you are well now!

  • @alekz2714

    @alekz2714

    4 жыл бұрын

    Much love bro

  • @rubinmendoza13

    @rubinmendoza13

    4 жыл бұрын

    alexi laiho I hope you are doing as well as possible, now. Big hugs to you...

  • @user-dt9jr3db7d

    @user-dt9jr3db7d

    4 жыл бұрын

    God bless your father 🙏

  • @kevintquin4641
    @kevintquin46415 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, your talk gives me hope. Recently lost my daughter, 22, to suicide, I’m battling a rare heart disease. This gives me some measure of inner peace.

  • @klujics123

    @klujics123

    5 жыл бұрын

    Kevin T Quin sorry for your loss.

  • @mille6se

    @mille6se

    5 жыл бұрын

  • @timothychamberlin6985

    @timothychamberlin6985

    5 жыл бұрын

    I am so sorry....

  • @Ghostrabbit22

    @Ghostrabbit22

    5 жыл бұрын

    my 2 year old son was desperately ill in hospital wired up to machines we just didnt know if he would live or die i walked into the room with a strong smell of pipe tobacco the type my father always smoked ,, i found the two doctors and a professor on duty and asked them if they smoked none did ,, the few guys there were all under 25 its ridiculous to think that someone would smoke on a childrens ward §§! I know 100% that my father was there looking after my son

  • @dianestallworthy4421

    @dianestallworthy4421

    5 жыл бұрын

    She was one of the rare, super-sensitive souls who found life too difficult but now she's free and when you are finally ready, she will sweep you up into her arms and your poor old heart will be full and strong forever... xxxx

  • @margscarpone
    @margscarpone Жыл бұрын

    My dad died when I was 9. He’d been in the hospital after a surgery and I think he knew he was nearing the end of his life, but I remember him being very emotional when we went to visit him. That night after coming home, he visited me in my dream. It was kind of what Heaven looks like to any child. We were in the sky surrounded by clouds, and while I’m sure there were other people around I just distinctly remember seeing my father dressed all in white. He was very tearful and said that he was sorry and that he loved me. Then I woke up and when my mom’s phone rang I knew that it was the hospital and that he had died. I’ve never told my family about this because I know they wouldn’t understand or would think it was just a dream, but it was real. Thanks to this final meeting, I never cried about my father’s death. Part of me thought it was weird for the longest time, but then I realized I’d been able to say my goodbyes peacefully and I knew he was safe so of course I wasn’t sad. I’ve always been a bit afraid of the actual process of dying, but after that day I’ve never been afraid of life after death.

  • @heatherwoodley8244

    @heatherwoodley8244

    Жыл бұрын

    God bless you. I'm so sorry you lost a parent at such a young age, but happy for you that you've always been at peace and your Dad is still watching over you.

  • @najeebullahmohmand2740

    @najeebullahmohmand2740

    9 ай бұрын

    Greetings. It may sound weird but I have the same story. My dad was at the hospital due to COVID-19 and I was with him the day before his death and by night I came home for rest and my brother went to look after him. I could not sleep all night I prayed for him alot and then in the morning I got asleep for a while and at that nap (((I saw my father in dream he told me for shopping and I said ok I will go it in a minute I am little busy now. Then he stood and said it's all right son I will go, I said no I am just leaving but resisted and forced me to stay and left on his bicycle waving behind the back and at the very moment I woke up by a scream of my sister holding phone. I was half awake and I was telling her as if I was still in dream, "has he left?" She screamed yes he died. And Then I woke up completely and realized that he has gone from our life at the same moment that I dreamed him leaving. ))) Both dream leaving and real dieing was at same time. I was 19 and That was the first family members I lost as a grown up boy. It was extremely difficult but now I am relaxed and waiting for his peacefull call.

  • @beverleyhirst9380
    @beverleyhirst93802 жыл бұрын

    I had covid pneumonia in December 2021 I ended up in hospital, on the first night my dad stood at the side of my bed, he was young, slim and had dark hair, he laid my hands over me and said ‘stay’ - he had died 3 years previously at aged 89. I had been a course of treatment that day and the following day I was rebirthed, every cell in my body.

  • @roots4140

    @roots4140

    Жыл бұрын

    Amazing.

  • @rachelpitt945
    @rachelpitt9455 жыл бұрын

    My aunt dreams of family members around her. In her last dream, she saw a tall dark haired handsome young man stand up amongst them. She needed no words. She knew it was my son, who passed away this year., he was no longer in his wheelchair, completely healed.

  • @meghanwebber4977

    @meghanwebber4977

    4 жыл бұрын

    ❤️

  • @sheshlane

    @sheshlane

    4 жыл бұрын

    💗💗💗💗💗

  • @JanCannell
    @JanCannell3 жыл бұрын

    As a hospice nurse, I can identify with all of this. Have seen it countless times. Great information.

  • @nancyfriedberg9516

    @nancyfriedberg9516

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your work

  • @kittydeckard4965

    @kittydeckard4965

    3 жыл бұрын

    I have lost my husband and I'm now alone and will say this was so comforting to me.

  • @xrpvegas5407

    @xrpvegas5407

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@kittydeckard4965 sorry for your loss... I was with my mom when she died... it still bothers me

  • @loisdick5307

    @loisdick5307

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@xrpvegas5407 i was with my mum too

  • @pmarreck

    @pmarreck

    3 жыл бұрын

    lost my mom last year. thank you for your service

  • @stephanierising4368
    @stephanierising43682 жыл бұрын

    I had brain surgery and was frightened out of my mind.The night before my surgery my deceased father (died when I was 13) spent what I perceived to be hours of him hanging out with me in my dreams. We sat together and talked for hours. Then he came to me again as I was waking up. He said tell your mother I am there for her also. I messaged her at 5 am (surgery at 7) and I told her what he said. She was astonished and indicated she had been up hours crying by that time. My dad ironically died during surgery. I was afforded peace by that dream. They don’t occur only when you die, but at other profound moments in your life.

  • @mariaanaliereyes2956

    @mariaanaliereyes2956

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's so true. When my had a few weeks to live, my grand mother who pass away appeared on my dream asking me why am I crying? I told her mom is dying of cancer. As soon as I told her that and as soon I had realized I was talking to my dead grandmother she disappeared and I woke up. But that dream gave me comfort that she was looking after me. Also to add a few days before my mom pass away she was asking the PSW helper if saw her mom. So yes my grandmother was with her on her death.

  • @lisaloyaga573

    @lisaloyaga573

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes,they are there to encourage you

  • @stanleystcyr4307

    @stanleystcyr4307

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sad. But. Its life may lord. God be wit us always amen an thank you lord an saviour hallelujah praise god ❤❤❤❤❤😐

  • @derekthompson5399

    @derekthompson5399

    2 жыл бұрын

    To try and describe what you experienced perhaps means little little to anyone else but I do think the movie *Ghost* was the best example of someone trying to put a death scene into words I watch that movew time and time again it is the perfect expression to me out how all the mansion worlds of creation are all linked together ans we experience them with our emotions not our brain.

  • @ohdear2275

    @ohdear2275

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mariaanaliereyes2956 That's beautiful. I'm sorry for your loss. You'll see them both again

  • @annapacana1409
    @annapacana14092 жыл бұрын

    I had a lonely, difficult childhood. Never saw my father till I was 17 years old. He was distant and very cold with me, maybe because of guilt for not looking after me. The day he died I was on the other side of the globe. I was staying in a friend's house then suddenly an old, dusty, broken grandfather's clock started making a very loud noise. About 5 minutes later my mother was on the phone saying that my father has died, on the hour that the clock started banging. When my friend got back home I told her that the clock was banging. She thought I was crazy because that clock hadn't been on use for 20 years. Second. My aunt and I had a small disagreement before she died of cancer. On the hour of her death, I was again on the other side of the globe. It was noon and was about to enter a huge mess hall with trays and trays of food lined up. As I opened the mess hall door a splash of flower scents, like that of a string perfume hit me on the face. Again, I heard the news of her passing. I guess dying people want to reconcile to people whom they have hurt or wronged. I have forgiven them from day one.

  • @taramiller2672
    @taramiller26724 жыл бұрын

    About 6 years after my mom died, i was laying in bed one morning still sleeping. Then i felt someone pat my leg and say "Time to get up sweety"... it was my mom. Without opening my eyes i answered "ok mom, just give me a few more minutes "...Then i realized...ITS MOM!!! And i sat up suddenly wide awake! She was gone. But, i know she was really there. I felt her touch and heard her voice. I'll never forget it.

  • @danmccurry3810

    @danmccurry3810

    4 жыл бұрын

    Touching story, thanks for sharing.

  • @judybooth110

    @judybooth110

    4 жыл бұрын

    Actually this is not according to the Bible.

  • @danmccurry3810

    @danmccurry3810

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@judybooth110 She is a witness to her moms voice and knew in her spirit. She's not selling a doctrine or denomination. As for Jesus and God of the and the Holy bible...The miracles and acts of God are countless...If everyone of them were described in detail, I suppose the world itself could not contain the books that should be written..Amen John 21:25

  • @AD-ts7zb

    @AD-ts7zb

    4 жыл бұрын

    Tara Miller The devils have been living around us for thousand of years, they know us from the day we were born until the day we passed away, it’s very easy for them to mimic anyone and usually the dead one. I believe the spirits of the deceased are in a place of a different dimension, no longer in this world.

  • @danmccurry3810

    @danmccurry3810

    4 жыл бұрын

    I agree with you on that matter, familiar spirits do exist, but so does God's angels .In this case Miss Miller had a fearless feeling of peace and closure! "On the hand devils leave fear, confusion and no peace or closure"

  • @melodyneibert1424
    @melodyneibert14247 жыл бұрын

    It is the most wonderful blessing to be present at a birth and the greatest honor to walk with someone to their death

  • @AnitaBarneycastle

    @AnitaBarneycastle

    6 жыл бұрын

    Melody Neibert amen!

  • @themacocko6311

    @themacocko6311

    6 жыл бұрын

    Melody Neibert That was awesome!

  • @nextwave1314

    @nextwave1314

    5 жыл бұрын

    Melody Neibert Such a beautiful sentiment.

  • @dawnriley1625

    @dawnriley1625

    4 жыл бұрын

    So true! I’m so connected to that too!

  • @j1sc211

    @j1sc211

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amen. Beautiful words.❤

  • @sarahcosta4882
    @sarahcosta48822 жыл бұрын

    I worked for 20 years in assisted living, in that time I have seen many elderly pass from this world to the next. The one thing they all had in common was that their deceased relatives were coming to them in dreams to take them home. On a personal note, my daughter who was in a coma for six weeks told me her grandparents were around her bed telling her that everything was going to be alright and not to worry. He father, Uncle, and Aunt were also there, all these family members had passed away. She said she was frightened at first but then she felt better. My daughter passed away five months later. I know she is with family who love her.

  • @violettheorgangrinder3232

    @violettheorgangrinder3232

    2 жыл бұрын

    My deepest condolences on your terrible loss. But at least you know for certain she is with your family and they are taking care of her.

  • @godschild4988

    @godschild4988

    Жыл бұрын

    Condolences and prayers for you and your family ✝️🙏

  • @flashesintimephotography4867

    @flashesintimephotography4867

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m terribly sorry for your loss. What a beautiful passing she had running into the arms of all those loved ones. I’m glad she got the chance to communicate this to you.

  • @vhawk1951kl

    @vhawk1951kl

    Жыл бұрын

    What exactly is your evidence for a "next world"? - It is fantasy, is it not?

  • @zeroounce8874

    @zeroounce8874

    Жыл бұрын

    My stepdad had visitations from his family and friends 2months prior to his death. First incident was- He told my mum that he was having good time with his friends, his friends visited him and they had a party in his home. When actually we all knew he was by himself. From that day he had visitations from members of dead family and friends for 2 months. He would talk to them but at the same time was aware what was happening in this world. Doctors told my mum he will die soon. Even though he was fine, didn’t have any illnesses but I guess they knew that his time has come because of these visitations. They called it hallucinations, which in reality is very real.

  • @michaelmcilvoy3448
    @michaelmcilvoy34482 жыл бұрын

    I lost my Father in 2017. He was very close to my middle daughter. She looked up to him and loved him very much . She suddenly passed away 4 weeks ago at 28 years old. I take great comfort in thinking that he was there for her when she passed and they are together now telling jokes like they used to do.

  • @bethmarshall4796

    @bethmarshall4796

    2 жыл бұрын

    so sorry for the loss of your child.

  • @RC-fi4ix

    @RC-fi4ix

    Жыл бұрын

    My condolences and God's comfort and peace be with you!

  • @simosc2
    @simosc25 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Dr. Kerr. I am an old woman, closer to death than life. Your talk was very comforting. God bless you and your work.

  • @TiggerHappy68

    @TiggerHappy68

    4 жыл бұрын

    The Bible is the “Book of Instructions Before leaving earth” fear of death is not there when you know you’ll be in heaven if you accept that Jesus died for our sins. I have so much more peace now and realize our spirits live on and our bodies are just a tent!

  • @tammyslaughter9587

    @tammyslaughter9587

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@TiggerHappy68 I know and deeply love Jesus and hope to meet Him after death but I do not believe He came here on earth to die "for" our sins. He died "because" of our sins!! He came here and brought so much to enhance our world and to teach us and we kill Him. Killing Him was not enough but then we had to torture Him and humanity's excuse and justification for doing such a horrendous thing is to in turn say that it was required from our loving Father in heaven to erase our sins. What a travesty!

  • @Dee8Bee

    @Dee8Bee

    4 жыл бұрын

    simosc2 if you are interested, you can read the books of Dr. Brian L. Weiss. His books about patients and their previous lives give me great comfort.

  • @jennw5299

    @jennw5299

    4 жыл бұрын

    i hope you find peace

  • @Jkstolz

    @Jkstolz

    4 жыл бұрын

    May God Bless you as well ❤💓

  • @charleshouston3626
    @charleshouston36263 жыл бұрын

    My wife and I , along with my sister in law took care of my 88 year old father when he was diagnosed with terminal cancer. About a month before he passed away, they had this little dog. She was always growling looking towards the corner of his hospital bed Hospice had set up in my parents living room for him. I asked my dad, what is wrong with that dog? He said she probably senses my mom and dad. They are here waiting to take me home. I asked him how long have they been here? He said just a few days. A month later he died, After he died. Mom, she was 89 years old at the time..she said now she can go ahead and go home to Heaven as well. She said she was just waiting for dad to die so she could go . Dad died June of 2011, Mom died in September of 2011. She died suddenly. I thought I’d share my story of people seeing love ones before they die. It was really a eye opening experience when my father told me about his parents being there waiting there to take him home. I’ve heard story’s about that. They were married for over 60 years. I really miss them...it was an Honor to take care of both of my parents while they were in poor health.

  • @marcgovaerts644

    @marcgovaerts644

    3 жыл бұрын

    so, Charles Houston, did the dog's growling end up from the moment your dad passed away ? was the dog around as well when your mum passed away and what happened then ? Thanks

  • @southerncross4956

    @southerncross4956

    3 жыл бұрын

    I am just 75 and understand what you are saying and as a friend of God I believe you are right. I have learned much in 75 years but the most important thing learned (sorry to say learned in seems the past 10 years) is I don’t know anything compared to what I could and should know by now. I have said to my Father that I want to out live my wife so she will never be alone. Father gets that, and why not, He knows. Sure I talk to God, He’s always open to conversation and ends up telling me stuff, like what you are telling me if only I would pay attention. You are a honorable, reasonable and logical man so is God, this I do know.

  • @pamelabryant7390

    @pamelabryant7390

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing that story. So touching. I believe everything you said. I’m sending you a virtual hug. Take care and God bless

  • @karensommer9068

    @karensommer9068

    3 жыл бұрын

    God will bless you.

  • @odieyama7

    @odieyama7

    3 жыл бұрын

    My mother was Buddhist. She joined this religion after marriage and while stateside. She practiced for over 55 years this faith of hers. When she was near death, I told her that if Jesus reaches ou to her, take His hand please. The next 2 weeks until she died, she would barely look at me. I was really torn but not regretful about speaking to her of Christ. Her last few days she was mostly asleep.. What comforts me is that God spoke to her in a way I couldn't and took her home after she reached back. I had three dreams after she died which showed me, thru God that this was His work. He gives us dreams and visions to help us know He loves us.

  • @salsero397
    @salsero3972 жыл бұрын

    My Son passed away Jan 5 2021 after a long battle with addictions. Thank you very much for the information. Many of us appreciate your conforming words

  • @wednesdayschild3627

    @wednesdayschild3627

    2 жыл бұрын

    My brother died from addiction. Ot is a terrible thing. Sorry for your loss

  • @salsero397

    @salsero397

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@wednesdayschild3627 Thank you friend. So sorry for your Pain also. May God give us Strength to keep living without our love ones. 🙏🙏

  • @uglyroach4063

    @uglyroach4063

    Жыл бұрын

    Lost my son 2/22 at age of 38, addictions as well. I can’t wait until I can see him again.

  • @marthakaine4132

    @marthakaine4132

    Жыл бұрын

    Sorry for your loss

  • @jaqenhgar7732

    @jaqenhgar7732

    Жыл бұрын

  • @maryheany1067
    @maryheany10672 жыл бұрын

    I regret when I hear excellent talks such as this one that Dr. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross is not mentioned . She was the first to begin talking to dying patients about their deaths and document it's value. She almost lost her hospital privileges because at the time it was very offensive to tell people that they were at the end of life, denying them the experiences mentioned by Dr Kerr. She helped establish the hospice care system in this country.

  • @pointsettaqueen

    @pointsettaqueen

    2 жыл бұрын

    I read her book right after my father died. He dropped dead at work and it always bothered me that none of us were there, and he died alone. After reading her book, I knew that my dad was not alone. His dad was there to be with him. Daddy told me that if he could send me a signal, after passing, he would. I won't go into details, but three times he has sent signals to me. The last one was so powerful, I've never doubted again. There is something after this life.

  • @alro7779

    @alro7779

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@pointsettaqueen Of course, after this life there's another one, way too much better than here.

  • @jasminejones9937

    @jasminejones9937

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes Dr Kubler-ross was a great woman she was the first one and way ahead of her time ⌚

  • @pakababy3710

    @pakababy3710

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm reading her book On Death and Dying right now.

  • @cathieferro9028

    @cathieferro9028

    Жыл бұрын

    I had the privilege if hearing her speak for over 2 hours on stage when she was 80. No notes, no chair. She was such a spectacular woman.

  • @darrenglick100
    @darrenglick1004 жыл бұрын

    A few years after my Nanny (grandmother) passed, I had a dream where she appeared vibrant and illuminated. I had never had a dream of her before or since. She only said two words "Its True"! And so I was racking my brain as to what exactly she was referring to. After about a week or less, I remembered I had had a conversation about God and Afterlife with her. She knew I was a believer in the Afterlife and asked me what made me so sure. I told her (at the time she was in her 80s) I was pretty sure, but that is more likely that she would know for certain before me. So we both made an agreement that whoever found out the Truth first would try to tell the other one!

  • @brendawatson757

    @brendawatson757

    3 жыл бұрын

    Darren Glick 7

  • @olgaadubova

    @olgaadubova

    3 жыл бұрын

    I have had the same agreement with my father. He passed away some days ago....

  • @darrenglick100

    @darrenglick100

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@olgaadubova and?

  • @olgaadubova

    @olgaadubova

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@darrenglick100 still nothing

  • @darrenglick100

    @darrenglick100

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@olgaadubova give it time!

  • @fusedart
    @fusedart4 жыл бұрын

    the kind of comment section i love the most. it has lots and lots of stories and i am reading all of it. just like a short stories book. wish youtube had comments like these everywhere and not the hate ones

  • @rimckd825

    @rimckd825

    3 жыл бұрын

    and not the hate ones - yessssss

  • @tejaswinizumbre4205

    @tejaswinizumbre4205

    3 жыл бұрын

    So true.. !

  • @admiralhyperspace0015

    @admiralhyperspace0015

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @Cactusflower2000
    @Cactusflower20002 жыл бұрын

    On February 6th, 2010 my mother passed from cancer. It was just she and I lying on her bed and she had fallen into a coma the night before and I knew she would not come back from that. Something tapped me five very distinct times on the back of my shoulder. I turned my head and nobody was there. Somebody from the other side connected to me in the flesh to comfort me. What a gift that was. She passed away just a few hours later when I had left the room just for 5 minutes. I miss you mommy 😥

  • @mattheweaton1420
    @mattheweaton14202 жыл бұрын

    For years after my grandpa died, my grandma had a recurring dream where she was in the forest and could hear him calling her, but she couldn't find him. A few months before dying, she found him in the dream, and they climbed a mountain together.

  • @RC-fi4ix

    @RC-fi4ix

    Жыл бұрын

    *heart*

  • @miapdx503

    @miapdx503

    Жыл бұрын

    That was beautiful 🌹

  • @factsforyou2329

    @factsforyou2329

    8 ай бұрын

    My mother saw her mother smiling towards her in young age look just one week before her passing.

  • @ohmeowzer1
    @ohmeowzer16 жыл бұрын

    I’m not afraid to die ,,I miss my family that died ,,I look forward to the day ...I’m old and miss them so much

  • @frncscbtncrt

    @frncscbtncrt

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hugs to you Beth

  • @360.Tapestry

    @360.Tapestry

    5 жыл бұрын

    travel well

  • @SB-mp4zt

    @SB-mp4zt

    5 жыл бұрын

  • @lisagerman2111

    @lisagerman2111

    5 жыл бұрын

    Beth g; I respect your position and view re death - it should not be feared. While I'm relatively 'young' @ 60yrs, there are more than a few days that I also feel tired and miss all those who have gone before. I'm now the only living person in my immediate family - the sorrow when I reach for the phone to share antics of grandchildren with my parents / brother, all passed now, is a sharp hit in realizing yet again there's no-one left to laugh over past and present. The sharpest hit is in realizing that there is no-one left to ask for clarification of shared memories of both my childhood as well as stories told by father / mother of their childhoods.

  • @nickacelvn

    @nickacelvn

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@lisagerman2111 well they smiled and said it's OK we are here x

  • @Kelly-hh7jz
    @Kelly-hh7jz5 жыл бұрын

    A few days before my grandmother died she put on her makeup and did her hair because she was "waiting on a (deceased) friend to pick her up and take her on a fabulous dinner date"

  • @sherpatrailers150

    @sherpatrailers150

    5 жыл бұрын

    Man, just wait til she tells you all about it!

  • @jude1143

    @jude1143

    5 жыл бұрын

    how wonderful .

  • @forreal245

    @forreal245

    5 жыл бұрын

    Something similar happened to a very religious man I know just recently. He was totally coherent & told others he "knew" there was a "feast" waiting for him in heaven & c/not wait to meet Jesus. He died peacefully the following day.

  • @karencarney7595

    @karencarney7595

    5 жыл бұрын

    That's the most beautiful thing I've heard I think ever not. I'm sure your grandmother was absolutely gorgeous and not just physically but in spirit you're very lucky to have such a loved one with such tenacity and determination

  • @Ballard206Journal

    @Ballard206Journal

    5 жыл бұрын

    We don't die

  • @sandyblue8082
    @sandyblue80822 жыл бұрын

    My mum and dad were in bed and Mum saw my Dad sit up, look in front of him and smile the most beautiful smile, then he passed over. When my Mum was a couple of weeks from her passing, heavily sedated and sleeping in her chair, she suddenly opened her eyes, smiled a beautiful smile and said "Your dad just kissed me". Both experiences soothed their passings I know.

  • @annaclaes6769
    @annaclaes6769 Жыл бұрын

    My sister died in February of this year and she told me that she had seen our long deceased father in her dream. They were in the house where we used to live with our parents and our siblings and my father told my sister he came to take her with him. This gave her great comfort.

  • @salemkid1979

    @salemkid1979

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm very sorry to hear of your loss, but I'm glad you got that comforting message.

  • @rachaelsheller9339
    @rachaelsheller93394 жыл бұрын

    Thanksgiving 2017, we were eating dinner as a family when my Aunt Francie out of nowhere started talking about a dream she had the night before. In it, her long deceased sister Helen greeted her warmly and gave her a letter. The letter was from their long deceased mother. Francie was only a couple months old when their mother died and has no memory of her. In the letter, it talks about how her time is coming and how not to be afraid. She missed her baby and will see her soon. Three days later, she died. I don't know how to explain all of this stuff, but it's something I will never forget.

  • @brendajimenez5869

    @brendajimenez5869

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow.. speechless.

  • @SweetUniverse

    @SweetUniverse

    2 жыл бұрын

    That is just ... wow ....

  • @jayviolet7480

    @jayviolet7480

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow that gave me chills

  • @jenjim1999
    @jenjim19995 жыл бұрын

    I had a family friend tell me this story... her sister's kids were in bed, asleep when all of a sudden they awoke giggling and laughing. Their mother went to to their room and told them to quiet down. When she asked the kids why they were suddenly awake and why were they laughing. They said "Grandma is tickling our feet" . Their mom told them Grandma was at home and certainly not tickling their feet and to go back to sleep. Not even 10 mins. later the mom got a call to say that her mom (the kid's Grandma) had a massive heart attack minutes earlier and could not be revived.

  • @ZorlacSkater

    @ZorlacSkater

    4 жыл бұрын

    wow, is this really true?

  • @essen00cat

    @essen00cat

    4 жыл бұрын

    Of course it's not true

  • @faithfullfertility2090

    @faithfullfertility2090

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nice story

  • @fredtello

    @fredtello

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@essen00cat When we were kids my sister woke up with a dream that our grandpa came to her .... we got a call he passed of a heart attack an hour later,,... just saying...

  • @essen00cat

    @essen00cat

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@fredtello Just joking,I've had similar experiences,especially in the period when a loved one dies right up to before the funeral.Say for roughly a week,by getting strange vivid dreams with the loved one being in it.

  • @Markinfilm
    @Markinfilm2 жыл бұрын

    I was there until the last breath when my mother passed. I always imagined it would be a horrible experience but I was so wrong. It was probably the most beautiful experience that I have had in my life. The circle was completed.

  • @lmp23612
    @lmp236122 жыл бұрын

    My coworker came into work one day and told me her grandmother had died, and then told me this story. Her grandmother lived in her own apartment, but family members came every morning and evening to help her. The morning before my coworker's mother had arrived at the apartmet and the grandmother told her that her deceased sister had visited her the night before and she was going to die that night. The mother tried to reassure her but she was adamant. When my coworker's aunt arrived that evening and put her into bed, she repeated the story. The aunt told her not to be morbid and also reassured her that she was in no danger of dying. After her daughter left, the grandmother got up, put on her best outfit, jewelry and did her makeup and got back into bed. The next morning they found her dead all dressed up.

  • @sorabh651

    @sorabh651

    2 жыл бұрын

    queen

  • @bethmarshall4796

    @bethmarshall4796

    2 жыл бұрын

    oh, if my great grandmother could have, this is exactly what she would have done. I love this.

  • @laurafeher9694

    @laurafeher9694

    2 жыл бұрын

    Determined to go out in style ❤️

  • @saraw9317

    @saraw9317

    2 жыл бұрын

    My favorite story of the bunch!

  • @sarahwong5592

    @sarahwong5592

    Жыл бұрын

    I think this might be my favorite.

  • @Pschychotically
    @Pschychotically4 жыл бұрын

    "In our culture, the richest and most thoughtful discussions have always come from the humanities and never medicine, but from poets, playwrights, and philosophers." ~ Dr. Christopher Kerr, 2015

  • @tammymcleod4504

    @tammymcleod4504

    Жыл бұрын

    I loved that line...and it's the absolute truth. Except when it comes to Dr Jordan B Peterson. He's amazing.

  • @Rozie_vo
    @Rozie_vo3 жыл бұрын

    My brother died on my first day of school after my holiday break in 2009, he appeared to me in a dream or vision and we walked around the school as we were talking since it was a boarding school. Later that day I was called in the office and told that we have a family function that I had to attend, immediately the words "Please God let it not be my brother" kept running in my head, although he was very sick I did not ever imagine loosing him. The trip took 8-9 hours by bus but the words kept playing in my mind. Normally my dad picked me from the bus stop but this time round I went home by myself, I was 18 then. I reached home and saw a picture of my brother framed, he was wearing his school uniform, I broke down and cried because , "please God let it not be my brother" was actually my brother, it took me years for my heart to be calm. 9 years later I lost my Father, I act strong but am writing this with tears in my eyes, it's really difficult to loose someone that you love. I am happy that he always told us that he loved us and he showered us with love equally. Always say I Love you, it comes with peace later in life. I hope this brings hope to someone.

  • @jenniedevereaux2696

    @jenniedevereaux2696

    3 жыл бұрын

    So brave of you to share your story soo sorry for your losses. ❤️🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿🙏

  • @DarkWisdom95

    @DarkWisdom95

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm really sorry for your loss. It must have been so hard on you :( thank you for being brave to share your story and please always remember that someday you will definitely meet your brother and father again. This life is only a transition to another world. It is merely testing us to be better individuals. Blessings ❤

  • @alkasingh7227

    @alkasingh7227

    3 жыл бұрын

    I can feel your pain😢

  • @josephinelovsin4961

    @josephinelovsin4961

    2 жыл бұрын

    M

  • @rubynibs

    @rubynibs

    2 жыл бұрын

    "Always say I Love you, it comes with peace later in life." The most important words I've read in a very long time. Thank you, Rozie.

  • @KatrinaLaurend
    @KatrinaLaurend Жыл бұрын

    My mother died of brain cancer when I was a teenager. At first I say her in my dreams still being sick or partly healed. Now I see her being completely healed or back alive. Last time when I saw her in my dreams, i was showing her off my driving skills (taking diving lessons currently). Guess I just want her to be proud of how far I have made it. Im sure she is. I have made piece with my mom. But still sometimes I get emotional about it. Death really does teach us a lot.

  • @anelysemowery1348
    @anelysemowery13482 жыл бұрын

    This is about a pet that visited me from the other side. My childhood cat, Meowzers, passed after 18 years of life in April of this year, he was the healthiest happiest cat I’ve seen, even up until those last weeks. It’s one of the most difficult losses I’ve dealt with so far, especially the first few months. I dreamt about him a lot but always woke up missing him more. Not comforted. Until I had a dream in June, I don’t know what took him so long…but you know cats follow their own agenda. In the dream I had been taken back to my final morning with him, coming upstairs at 6am seeing him hardly be able to lift his head, running to wake up my parents, but in the dream they said, “it’s okay tell him you love him he’s right here.” And then my cat spoke to me and said “I’m okay.” And we sat on the kitchen floor while he watched angels flying around the room that I couldn’t see but I knew they were there. And he started to walk up into the air with them. I woke up sobbing and feeling so at peace. I knew that had been my cat that had visited me. Anyways thanks for listening.

  • @colinkillian9265

    @colinkillian9265

    2 жыл бұрын

    Cats are nothing but animals, they don't have souls and they don't go to heaven.. You just had a vivid dream and nothing more, you need to make some friends and stop with the cat obsession it's pathetic.

  • @DblVrgo1313

    @DblVrgo1313

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@colinkillian9265 Your humanity and compassion are truly astounding.

  • @johnr.8275

    @johnr.8275

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@colinkillian9265 You're an animal, too, guy. Humans think they're so above it all, but at the end of the day we're animals also (and among the most vile on the planet). I've had cats with a thousand times more personality than many people I have known. I guess you get back what you give with animals. If us "superior" humans have souls, then I guess cats, dogs and all other animals do as well.

  • @lanarenee7135

    @lanarenee7135

    2 жыл бұрын

    Animals also have soul group consciousness souls, and greet us on the other side of the veil. People have seen and felt their beloved animals who have passed brush past them. You'll be with your cat again, when your human experience/contract expires. 🥰

  • @yourkarma2250

    @yourkarma2250

    Жыл бұрын

    beautiful xxx

  • @herbalcreations7941
    @herbalcreations79415 жыл бұрын

    I'm a hospice nurse and everything he says is accurate. I wish more people knew this but our culture fears death so no one wants to talk about it

  • @riverratrvr9225

    @riverratrvr9225

    4 жыл бұрын

    I too was a hospice aide. This is so true. God Bless

  • @rushpatriot2866

    @rushpatriot2866

    4 жыл бұрын

    Or they shrug it off because they cant use science to explain it and if you have evidence which is experiences to back up what you say you are just label as insane. They fear the unknown and are to egotistical to think different.

  • @lisettecallis5329

    @lisettecallis5329

    4 жыл бұрын

    so tru. no one wants to listen, they call you morbid..Im not morbid at all.

  • @kevinadamson7571

    @kevinadamson7571

    4 жыл бұрын

    I have smelled my mothers perfume when ive been down.

  • @lisettecallis5329

    @lisettecallis5329

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@kevinadamson7571 that's great. I semlled my mum's in a dream. I smelled my dad's drum the past couple of days.

  • @cathjoy9567
    @cathjoy95673 жыл бұрын

    I have been scrolling reading all the stories of people's experiences with loved ones dying .❤ My brother and I were placed in a foster home together ages 4yr & 5yr .We became very close ,like twins. When he was 17 yrs old ,he loved fruit picking, riding his motorbike to his destination . I will see you at Easter Cat were his last words to me .I remember thinking I felt like giving him a hug good bye .I didn't. Three days later a police man came to my door to tell me he was killed riding his motorbike. He turned around to help 2 people who waved to him on the side of the road .He did not see or hear the truck coming who honked his horn. I was devasted .I was18 yrs ,my grief was deep .It took me 10 years stop grieving . I wished I had hugged him . One night after 10 yrs after my brothers death .I had the most vivid beautiful dream. My brother gave me the biggest hug,no words spoken .I felt unconditional love . This helped me so much to accept his death ,spirit lives on .I view life differently now.I am extremely Positve.,not religious ,spiritual .Believe in Jesus 🙏 My brother also came a month before I became very ill .I Felt,sense his spirit .Called out his name. A month later I was flown to a hospital with a bleed on my brain. As you can see I am ok . Yes !! Spirit does live on !! Thank you for sharing your stories ❤🙏

  • @violettheorgangrinder3232

    @violettheorgangrinder3232

    2 жыл бұрын

    It took me around 10 years as well. My condolences on the loss of your beloved.

  • @pepelkaboy
    @pepelkaboy2 жыл бұрын

    When my brother died I was do depressed I couldn't go out of my bed. A few times I had a dream about my brother taking me on the other side of the tunnel. It was beautiful, peaceful and warm. Only clear water, beautiful nature and warmth. From that day until now I never saw him in my dreams again. 6years since he is gone this month. I miss him still. ❤️

  • @glow1815

    @glow1815

    Жыл бұрын

    He just letting you know he's crossing over. As to why you never dream of him again.

  • @alexsimonelis164

    @alexsimonelis164

    Жыл бұрын

    God bless you both!

  • @cyndeemacphee5756
    @cyndeemacphee57562 жыл бұрын

    My Mom passed away in August of 2018. She had a hard life, because my Dad was an alcoholic ( but still a good man in his soul). Because of this she was very bitter for many years. In the few months before her death she became much more at peace and would just look quietly and lovingly at my Dad, which was so nice to see. She was clearly at peace. In my soul, I knew she would not be with us for much longer. 6 days after her death the sun was shining into our kitchen, and the most beautiful picture appeared on our wall from the sun through the trees. My daughter saw it first and we were in awe. It was a very very clear picture and looked like an angel to us and to all we have shown it to. One of my sisters laughed and said it look like a bat to her and within two days she happened to glance at the TV and it was showing the ceiling of a famous church with a painting of god surrounded by angels EXACTLY like the one that was on our wall. I so wish I could post these pictures for you all to see. It truly is miraculous. I consider myself very spiritual but never looked for anything because I have always believed we are connected anyway. But I feel so blessed to have been left this gift by my mother. It has brought peace to all of our family.

  • @Godsforever1

    @Godsforever1

    Жыл бұрын

    amazing, would you be able to email those pictures or send thru facebook?

  • @skylark72ls
    @skylark72ls6 жыл бұрын

    I love this.... as a former Hospice nurse I can tell you this is all true.

  • @LK-pc4sq

    @LK-pc4sq

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lisa, did the dying seniors see the spirits of loved ones in the room waiting for them to move to the other side?

  • @amorfati2192

    @amorfati2192

    5 жыл бұрын

    LK I was a care assistant to the elderly for 13yrs, common place for people to see deceased loved ones.

  • @dianer6056

    @dianer6056

    5 жыл бұрын

    As a nurse in charge of a geriatric ward - this is in line with the many things they told me before they died

  • @rogerdarev7374

    @rogerdarev7374

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hey Lisa, just wondering if the people you were around was all believers or if some were not? Just wondering.

  • @shihtzumom1283

    @shihtzumom1283

    5 жыл бұрын

    I’m a NICCU nurse

  • @cindysheldon849
    @cindysheldon8494 жыл бұрын

    I was in a really bad car accident. While I was in the helicopter I started to die. I was bleeding to death. I spoke to god and told him I was too physically hurt to fight and asked him to take it from me that I would live or die by his will. A bright silver light surrounded me and I felt at peace and wasnt afraid. I made it to the hospital. I had a ruptured spleen, major blood loss that caused a massive heart attack. Lung damage, both legs were broken. My left femur came out of my leg and i lost a little bit of it. I had to have multiple surgeries and a trach. I was in the hospital for almost 7 months. 2 months of that was under deep sedation. I got pneumonia and came close to death 4 times. One of those times i saw both of my grandmas and a cousin who passed in a car accident just like mine. One grandmother told me that I was going to be ok and she loved me. We were standing in a field with trees surrounding us and the brightest sun and colors you have ever seen. I am home now. I am in a wheelchair and can walk some with a walker and hav a ton of scars but i am here by gods choice.

  • @joemac84

    @joemac84

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful story, make sure you share it with others whether personally or on KZread or wherever you are called

  • @gymguy63

    @gymguy63

    3 жыл бұрын

    😢

  • @brendalucier4560

    @brendalucier4560

    3 жыл бұрын

    i would love to meet God I pray every night to please come see me am I foolish to ask him this I lost all my family I just want to go home thank u for telling your story

  • @sporter527

    @sporter527

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@brendalucier4560 He loves you more than you can ever imagine

  • @brendalucier4560

    @brendalucier4560

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sporter527 thanks I no he does there is way to much going on sometimes I feel so alone when u r taking care of 2 sisters that have cancer it's hard

  • @jameslipke354
    @jameslipke3543 жыл бұрын

    As someone who started out as a CNA in a nursing home at the age of 20, I'll be 55 in 8 days, I have had the privilege of witnessing what this Doctor shared. I worked in the medical field for over 20 years. I have witnessed true beauty in my life when each one of my kids and granddaughter were born; but also when tending to those who are physically leaving this world. Their stories truly have been illuminating. The privilege has been all mine. ~April Lipke

  • @cinaannie7338

    @cinaannie7338

    2 жыл бұрын

    I also was in the nursing home field. As a CNA also. I've had the privilege of holding people as they take their last breath. So often people gather near and far for weddings births and even divorces! But sometimes in nursing homes, people are there to dial by themselves. I've been asked how I could do this type of work. My response to them is I can't visualize myself doing anything else.

  • @jameslipke354

    @jameslipke354

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@cinaannie7338 Very well said Cina Annie. Well said indeed. Too many fail to realize that it has been an absolute privilege to be present during those moments. It's such a shame. ❤ ~ APRIL LIPKE

  • @palestinalibre7

    @palestinalibre7

    9 ай бұрын

    :(

  • @Yea_ok2003
    @Yea_ok2003 Жыл бұрын

    I woke up one morning to the sound of my mother yelling for me. I ran downstairs to see my father dead in the living room with a pool of blood coming out of his mouth. He was a severe alcoholic that we tried to help any way we could. I then drank alcohol myself to suppress my PTSD. A few weeks later I had a profound dream of my father and I sitting in his truck. At some point I realized he was dead and that I’m dreaming. He then looked at me and smiled. I said “oh my god I love you and I miss you so much.” Then I woke up. It was so overwhelming I started crying. I still don’t quite get what happened, but I will always remember that dream. To rationalize this I thought of it as him saying “it’s okay.. I’m okay” It was an amazing and relieving experience.

  • @nawrasbalkan6911

    @nawrasbalkan6911

    Жыл бұрын

    It also means...dont stay at this ride, ur in his truck..he is driving...dont go the path of drinking..dont follow his footsteps in drinking alcohol but rather acknowledge ur feelings the way u did in the dream, deal with ur emotions...and all will be ok. Stopping and looking back at you symbolizes also that he wants this ride to stop and let go of the pain ur bottelibg inside....wishing u good healthy life.

  • @RachlakiniAql348
    @RachlakiniAql3486 жыл бұрын

    Nothing is more interesting than reading and scrolling down to the comments and then you realise you have missed the whole video 😊

  • @melissafeds1344

    @melissafeds1344

    6 жыл бұрын

    Dynamo A i was doing the exact same thing

  • @HenryTheBoilermaker3rdYear

    @HenryTheBoilermaker3rdYear

    6 жыл бұрын

    lol!

  • @LeonidSpartanKing

    @LeonidSpartanKing

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jahahahaha yes the same

  • @jamierupert7563

    @jamierupert7563

    5 жыл бұрын

    Haha I thought I was the only one that did that. Thanks for letting me know I'm not. :)

  • @sandrasames6926

    @sandrasames6926

    5 жыл бұрын

    Oh, you are so right! I, too, have not seen the video! I've read books on this subject and it's fassinating.

  • @jinxsmith275
    @jinxsmith2755 жыл бұрын

    This guy is good. And he makes me want to better myself and help people and stop wasting time and start living up to my full potential because I have not.

  • @jessicadoban2564

    @jessicadoban2564

    4 жыл бұрын

    I literally thought this very same thing. We will get there.

  • @greeneyedcat2748

    @greeneyedcat2748

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm hearing that clearly too.

  • @Lwolfjaw07

    @Lwolfjaw07

    4 жыл бұрын

    Outstanding. Jordan Peterson says that you should carry a burden in order to give your life purpose and meaning and you should pick what that shall be. I think that you are on the path to enlightenment. Good.

  • @virgie4715

    @virgie4715

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same. I’ve been on a “journey” of “finding my purpose” for lack of less-tacky terms lol and this is the second time I’ve ended up on this exact same ted talk with this exact same mindset I’m in right now. I’m gonna listen a little better this time.

  • @jessicastarlight8937

    @jessicastarlight8937

    4 жыл бұрын

    What about now, we are all dead two metter, from each other😕😕😕

  • @joemarshall4226
    @joemarshall42262 жыл бұрын

    My brother suffered from advanced colon cancer before he died. His life was agony. Several times in the last two weeks, my parents came to him and said they would be there to help when his time came.

  • @elisekrentzel-rebelwriter
    @elisekrentzel-rebelwriter Жыл бұрын

    As long as we view "death" as the "end" of life we will miss the most crucial aspect of life. There is no end or beginning as we are continuously in a cycle of rebirth and growth. We must make our lives worthy of dying for the next phase. Since both my parents passed I have seen and spoken, heard and felt them and continue to have very close relationships with them and my grandparents.

  • @matiasrocha1308

    @matiasrocha1308

    Жыл бұрын

    I think exactly the same, we live many lives over and over again, we come to this world to experience, love, LIVE... Through the I Ching I learned that most of our life is change, transformation, everything depends on our decisions and Actions.

  • @patriciadaly6938

    @patriciadaly6938

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes our lives are mapped out, when to be born and when to die.

  • @josephpostma1787

    @josephpostma1787

    Жыл бұрын

    What do mean by "There is no end or beginning as we are continuously in a cycle of rebirth and growth."? Can you explain your first sentence? Why not have a relationship with your great great great grandparents?

  • @maryaswell9943
    @maryaswell99435 жыл бұрын

    The last words my husband ever spoke were “look there’s Mum”. She had passes several years before. He never spoke again and passed a few days later. I take some comfort in thinking he is with his Mum. He was 47 when he died of cancer and I miss him every day.

  • @joeycianos5576
    @joeycianos55764 жыл бұрын

    I would give anything to see my mom again.

  • @Cosmogirl014

    @Cosmogirl014

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Hibiscus Syriacus I too never see Mom or Dad in dreams. BUT I do however see signs here on earth that I'm surrounded by them! Incredible signs...I shall leave it at that. There is definitely so much more than this. When my beloved Mom passed in 2015 she said she'd try hard to come by and see me first. OMG and she did just that when she passed. She came in the form or a spirit cloud, like a whispy angel with wings. That cloud was at my house for at least 2 hours it never left just kept changing in same spot, I kid you not. AND to shed light it's true as much as I can, my cousins wife sent me the same picture I took of that cloud from another part of town far away and said " I think this is for you" but I'd already posted it to the family on social media. It was HER, my beloved Mother whom I miss so much, I truly believe she kept her promise. 🥰 Since then SO many signs.

  • @stacitaylor1064

    @stacitaylor1064

    4 жыл бұрын

    Joey Cianos if I only had one wish...

  • @rubinmendoza13

    @rubinmendoza13

    4 жыл бұрын

    Joey Cianos Me too... But the fact that we miss our moms so much, must mean we had amazing mothers and they loved us dearly...

  • @Abr022575

    @Abr022575

    4 жыл бұрын

    You will

  • @AD-ts7zb

    @AD-ts7zb

    4 жыл бұрын

    Joey Cianos I suggest you pray to god every night before you go to sleep and ask if you would like to meet your mom in your dream, it happened to me after a two consecutive weeks of praying and finally I met my deceased dad in my dream. Good luck

  • @violettheorgangrinder3232
    @violettheorgangrinder32322 жыл бұрын

    My Dad saw his deceased mother at the foot of his bed. When he passed he came to my daughter in a dream. A bright light at the window woke her up and he came through the light, wearing a white robe. She said the light didn't hurt her eyes. He came over to the bed, hugged and kissed her. Said he'd always be with her, that he loved her and he'd see her in the morning. That morning was his funeral. She was 7, and at 33 she remembers every second of it.

  • @juliam1099
    @juliam1099 Жыл бұрын

    One of my grandmothers died in a hospital out-of-state after a brief illness. Her daughter and daughter's husband (my aunt and uncle) were with her as much as possible. My grandma looked up toward a corner of the hospital room and had a really beautiful smile on her face. My aunt asked her what she was looking at and my grandma said, "I see Jesus and the family." My grandma was the youngest of seven children and the last to die.

  • @asuzordavid2962

    @asuzordavid2962

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Jesus Christ 😭 🙏

  • @MorenasOracle
    @MorenasOracle5 жыл бұрын

    My dad took his life about three months ago. My great grandma (my dads grandma) is 89 and has dementia. We decided not to tell her about my dads death because she would only remember it for about 10 minuets and complete forget. She told my aunt that my dad came over and talked to her, she said that he was worried about his kids and missed me and my brother. She also said that he was cold, so she invited him to sleep on the couch, but he had to sleep outside. She said all this a couple of days after his passing. I don’t think it is just a coincidence, it really means something to me. I love my dad even though he didn’t stay to see me grow up, but I think he is going to watch me grow up in a different place where he isn’t hurting:)

  • @silvergirl3688

    @silvergirl3688

    5 жыл бұрын

    Isa Moreno I pray your life is blessed. I’m sorry for your loss. May God comfort you.

  • @silvergirl3688

    @silvergirl3688

    5 жыл бұрын

    Isa Moreno I agree, not a coincidence. Amazing story.

  • @homebodyheaven6114

    @homebodyheaven6114

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lovely Lori Only those who have experienced such grief can understand. It’s so incredibly painful. Are you thinking of others when you slam a car door on your hand? All you can think of is escaping the pain. Fortunately we have an incredibly loving and forgiving God.

  • @therealwilfreddierkes9980

    @therealwilfreddierkes9980

    4 жыл бұрын

    Isa Moreno I am so sorry about your father. I don’t comment much on here, however, you touched me.

  • @M_K_M_K_M_K

    @M_K_M_K_M_K

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lovely Lori I think you don’t realize depression is an illness that can often times be fatal...

  • @laykantheealien5722
    @laykantheealien57224 жыл бұрын

    *God Bless anyone who works with or for Hospice thank you if you read this* ❤💜🧡❤💜🧡❤💜🧡

  • @louisab2687
    @louisab26872 жыл бұрын

    My neighbour was surrounded by his family when he passed a few years back. He was baptized Catholic but I don't believe he was a practicing Catholic, so it's beautiful to know that as he was passing, he looked up and said in amazement, "Jesus, you came". I've told many people this story because it's so important for people to know.

  • @angelfire77777

    @angelfire77777

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you 🙏

  • @joannemp6786

    @joannemp6786

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing this 🙏

  • @johnhegger1392

    @johnhegger1392

    Жыл бұрын

    Phew, this is good to know, because I'm in the same boat. I was baptized and was even an altar boy for years. But, as time passed, and I worked in a career that tainted my belief system, I gave up and couldn't understand how anyone could allow the things to happen that I unfortunately had to experience. But I told the story about my mom earlier, so based on what I saw, there's definitely something that happens. It just stinks we have no control over anything. I don't know about anyone else, but that scares me. Knowing that I could walk out the door in a few minutes and just never come home. I guess not to this home, but hopefully there's another.

  • @ethank4820

    @ethank4820

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m only 17, but lately I’ve been experiencing doubts in my faith and wondering if Jesus will truly save me. I feel that this comment was a message from him telling me to keep on believing. Thank you and God bless.

  • @louisab2687

    @louisab2687

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ethank4820 I believe this message was intended for you to read, I am happy that I shared it. Anytime I had a crisis or question about Jesus, He always answered me in a way that I did not expect. God bless you.

  • @Dana-ld4wf
    @Dana-ld4wf3 жыл бұрын

    My mom was not talking or interacting the last couple weeks before she died. While I was in her room at the nursing home, out of the blue she said in a very clear voice," Hi Daddy". She died a few days later and it gave me comfort knowing she could see her dad.

  • @RC-fi4ix

    @RC-fi4ix

    Жыл бұрын

    This is fairly common!

  • @kreshia777
    @kreshia7776 жыл бұрын

    As a hospice nurse as well as from personal experience - i know what is shared here is true

  • @maryannhope8276

    @maryannhope8276

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for being a hospice nurse. Known some great ones. 💜

  • @Allyoop-mu4gg
    @Allyoop-mu4gg4 жыл бұрын

    Its nice to see a Doctor looking past science

  • @lungshenli

    @lungshenli

    4 жыл бұрын

    that's not even past science. its just in an area not many have advanced in. the understanding might be just within reach

  • @stacitaylor1064

    @stacitaylor1064

    4 жыл бұрын

    ally lycenko most do once they have experienced something not in med books...

  • @DaiBei

    @DaiBei

    4 жыл бұрын

    Pure science doesn't exist. Every scientist has presuppositions, certain convictions or axioms, what is in the way to do pure science. Science evolves the more of those limitations are left behind. It's a long process, because most if the scientists wants to keep their beliefs where their are important. Actually science should examine all the areas of life, also the areas that they don't find serious for the moment.

  • @Christopher-Lenz

    @Christopher-Lenz

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@eileenridgway6800 yes! Exactly! Laws of Thermodynamics.

  • @nickshires9537

    @nickshires9537

    4 жыл бұрын

    "Science" doesn't have a clue!

  • @AuthorCAL
    @AuthorCAL2 жыл бұрын

    Powerful, thank you!!! This brought me such comfort. I lost my husband in August, and he was in ICU dying for days and I was unable to be there with him at the end because of Covid. This talk brought me peace.

  • @debbieporter8610

    @debbieporter8610

    2 жыл бұрын

    On my I Am So Very Sorry For Your Loss Sending You Huge (((((((((HUGS))))))

  • @lisavan504

    @lisavan504

    2 жыл бұрын

    I am so sorry you lost your husband and to covid and the cruel separation it demands. I’m so happy to read that you were given comfort on this wonderful post. Bless you. Catherine. I will be praying for you. 💜

  • @NurseSnow2U

    @NurseSnow2U

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oh honey, this breaks my heart and I too can unfortunately say it is a gnawing, aching void that I wouldn’t wish on even the worst humanity had to offer. I lost my fiancé, the love of my life and my dearest friend on April 8th, 2020. He was only 43. I graduated from nursing school one month later, grateful that there was no commencement as I couldn’t cope with the thought that he would not and COULD NOT be here with me to celebrate one of the greatest accomplishments of my life. Almost 2 entire YEARS out I thought I was doing better, I met someone who is a beautiful but tormented soul. I’ve learned so much, I’ve gained so much clarity and purpose, I started a charity in honor of his unconditional love that helps children that have lost a parent or caregiver to COVID. I am the one with the chronic illness, the one that has been so close to “the other side” including one experience where I fully crossed over and was given a choice in relinquishing myself from the physical pain I’m in every single day (sickle cell anemia)….I NEVER would’ve imagined my dear Sam would be the one to leave me first. As a very spiritually inclined woman I know in the depths of my soul that physical death cannot separate us from love. Love is energy and it never dies….but it doesn’t always soothe the fracture in my soul that was created when he transitioned. It was the beginning of the pandemic, there were no FaceTime calls, I couldn’t be at his bedside to pray over him or to beg and plead with the universe that may just maybe if he could hear my voice he’d pull through. About midway through his 3 weeks on the ventilator I could FEEL that his astral body had ascended. All of the parts of him that made him the greatest love I’ve ever known were now free from a body ravaged by an unseen enemy. I often stay up for days wondering what his last moments were like, was he aware? Was he afraid? What would he have told me even if only with his eyes if I would’ve been able to appreciate his physicality one last time. There were no options for funerals or memorials or ANY of the standard grieving processes we a lot for ourselves. I am so sorry that you too know the often times unbearable pain of trying to move in a world that wants to “get back to normal” as you scream and rage at the void because there will never be a sense of normalcy for you without your partner by your side. If you ever need an ear, PLEASE feel free to reach out. Our darling husbands live on through the love they’ve bestowed upon us. All in all, life is a temporal experience for us ALL and I am just so grateful, even in those moments where it feels my grief will CONSUME me and I’ve contemplated submitting to it…I am reminded of how blessed I am to have experienced pure unadulterated LOVE in a world where that is almost non existent. Send you so much love and healing energy. -Kryss, almost wife of Samuel Wade 💔 🕊

  • @fayaiibuilds

    @fayaiibuilds

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry you lost your husband. My mom lost her husband my father July 22,2022 this yr to covid. We feel your pain. God bless you. 🙏

  • @alexsimonelis164

    @alexsimonelis164

    Жыл бұрын

    God bless you all!

  • @jamesshaffer7005
    @jamesshaffer70052 жыл бұрын

    My grandmother died almost two months ago. I never heard her talk much of her own grandmother until the day she passed away. She saw her grandmother and would try to hug her. These stories are real, these things happen. Much love to all who have been through or are going through similar things.

  • @palestinalibre7

    @palestinalibre7

    9 ай бұрын

    :(

  • @janmorgan7435
    @janmorgan74353 жыл бұрын

    My friend had passed away, which was unknown to me. I dreamt he was standing at the end of my bed , wearing a dark suit and he told me he was dead . I then checked this out and sure enough he had sadly passed away and he obviously wanted me to know , by contacting me in a dream. I’m not sure how this was possible, but it was true!! There’s so much more to life than our life on earth.

  • @paologarrone5569
    @paologarrone55694 жыл бұрын

    Goodbye dad, you passed two months ago, but you will stay in my heart and my tears forever and ever. Thanks for the video.

  • @judithniles2827

    @judithniles2827

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'am so very sorry for your loss and I know your pain and anguish because I just lost my best friend, my mother on May 28th 2021. 😭😭😭

  • @beyondblonde2237
    @beyondblonde22372 жыл бұрын

    The last thing my grandmother told me before passing away with cancer was “ why are there two angels behind you”? I was only 10 at the time I got so freaked out and left the room I’m 28 years old now And regret it. But she knows that I love her ♥️♥️♥️

  • @gregwilliamsono9360
    @gregwilliamsono9360 Жыл бұрын

    I also dreamed of my grandma not too long after she passed. She said to me.."I bet you weren't expecting to see me!" I immediately started crying tears of joy seeing her. I also met a little white dog im told she had before I was born (I'm 48)

  • @tracyjohnson8183
    @tracyjohnson81837 жыл бұрын

    As my grandfather was being wheeled from his hospital room to get a CT scan, he looked at my grandmother and said..."If I don't see you here, I'll see you there" He died in the CT scan.

  • @HenryTheBoilermaker3rdYear

    @HenryTheBoilermaker3rdYear

    6 жыл бұрын

    WHAt? He died in the CAT scan?

  • @angelleighiaamy9187

    @angelleighiaamy9187

    5 жыл бұрын

    He knew.

  • @whychoooseausername4763

    @whychoooseausername4763

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@HenryTheBoilermaker3rdYear It happens. I had a dying patient in the ICU that we took down to the CT scan during our night shift. Thankfully he didn't go into arrest, but we had to have a discussion about what we would do in that case (ie: resuscitate as my resident wanted, or let die as my attending preferred). What I could do and did was hold his hand, look into his eyes and say everything is going to be ok. He lived through the night and died with his wife by his side.

  • @debarooo22

    @debarooo22

    5 жыл бұрын

    Wow

  • @bobinthewest8559

    @bobinthewest8559

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amy Angelleighia... I find it strange how some people will have no clue at all, and will pass suddenly, while in the middle of something else... And then others, seem to "just know" when their moment is drawing near.

  • @karenmcardle142
    @karenmcardle1424 жыл бұрын

    The hour before my husband passed away due to cancer , we laughed so much for the first time since he had been diagnosed . He did say that they were all here with outstretched arms . The peace in his face gives me comfort even though it broke my heart losing him, after 30 years together, it was comforting knowing he was never alone . R. I..P bbz ❤🙏

  • @amyfarrelly4580

    @amyfarrelly4580

    4 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @ez2u1

    @ez2u1

    4 жыл бұрын

    that is beautiful thank you for sharing this

  • @karenmcardle142

    @karenmcardle142

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@amyfarrelly4580 Thank you 🙏❤

  • @karenmcardle142

    @karenmcardle142

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@ez2u1 Thank you 🙏💐

  • @AdventureswithAmirah

    @AdventureswithAmirah

    4 жыл бұрын

    💗

  • @in2delite
    @in2delite2 жыл бұрын

    When I was visiting my grandpa at the hospital, upon entering his room, I've heard him having a conversation with someone, and to my big surprise...he was alone. When I asked who he's been taking to, he replied it was his mom, who just left the room but will be back later. My grandfather died 12 hours later.

  • @ednacastro829
    @ednacastro8292 жыл бұрын

    I had a vivid dream of my dog named Blackie. He had died about 10 years ago In my dream he was on my shoulder and I could feel his silky hair and his warm breath . I woke up and I could still feel his warm body on my shoulder. I had tears and I knew 😢he loved me after his death.

  • @sharonkraciuk9393

    @sharonkraciuk9393

    2 жыл бұрын

    You made me cry

  • @lareverie8285

    @lareverie8285

    2 жыл бұрын

    I had a cat that slept at the foot of the bed and passed away years ago. I moved away but when i moved back to my parents i would feel a cat walking in my bed; i thought it was my other cat but she was sleeping on the floor. Charlie had come to visit me.

  • @laurafeher9694

    @laurafeher9694

    2 жыл бұрын

    Tears "I knew he loved me after he died" ...

  • @HerbDeMars
    @HerbDeMars4 жыл бұрын

    I thank this great man for saving my life! A wonderful surgeon with the hands of God!

  • @redrobyn3912

    @redrobyn3912

    4 жыл бұрын

    MorbidManMusic Well now. Aren’t you just Mr. Know It All....NOT. You have a BIG surprise awaiting you if you think there is no God.

  • @josoffat7649
    @josoffat76493 жыл бұрын

    As he died, my dad said "Well, let's go then" as if he was talking to someone. He was not a religious man by any means.

  • @road2apples

    @road2apples

    2 жыл бұрын

    ♥✞♥Through the prophet he said, “I did not hide my face from mocking and spitting” (Isa. 50:6 ) [Isaiah was written 700-750 years prior to the birth of Christ. Psalms was written about 1020 years prior to Jesus' birth. Since Jesus died in A.D. 30 or 33, the prophecies concerning his death were between 800 and 1050 years old when they were fulfilled.] Pray without ceasing… -1 Thessalonians 5:17♥✞♥✞♥

  • @praywithoutceasing2966

    @praywithoutceasing2966

    2 жыл бұрын

    His angel came to take him home 😇

  • @reillyhatcher-campion3466
    @reillyhatcher-campion3466 Жыл бұрын

    One of my dear friends about 6 months before a tragic accident that killed her, told me about a dream she had about one of her friends deceased mothers visiting her in her dream hugging her telling her it would all be okay 😢 Rest easy Alexis 💕

  • @nancyfahey7518
    @nancyfahey75183 жыл бұрын

    When my mother passed she was on the floor in the hospital and they couldn't revive her. We wanted to sue the hospital for neglect but didn't have the strength. Weeks later I had such a vivid dream of my brother, deceased in 1978, reached out to her, she got up and walked away with him and left her body where it lay.

  • @cherylmekarski1059
    @cherylmekarski10594 жыл бұрын

    I am a very pragmatic person that only believes what she can see. But my sister, days before dying of cancer, in her hospice room surrounded by her chatting family, said “Be quiet! Mom is trying to talk to me!” Mom had passed away a few months earlier.

  • @ishouldbesleeping1354

    @ishouldbesleeping1354

    4 жыл бұрын

    Cheryl Mekarski oh WOW that’s SO AWESOME 😇🥰

  • @AdventureswithAmirah

    @AdventureswithAmirah

    4 жыл бұрын

    💕

  • @danmccurry3810

    @danmccurry3810

    4 жыл бұрын

    It's like seeing what we can not and reuniting with love ones that went before. Thanks for sharing!

  • @nicholasonciul5770

    @nicholasonciul5770

    3 жыл бұрын

    I wasn't born for this but apparently my great grandpa died from cancer when he was 66. At the time, his father was still alive and was like 94 years old. A few months later, he got sick. I'm not 100% sure what he had but I think it may have also been cancer. One day, he told his wife that his son George came for a visit the night before. Though he was told George had been dead for six months, he kept insisting that it was really him, and he died not long after that. Apparently, he also came and visited my Grandma to let him know that he was okay in the afterlife (she's still alive and that was almost 40 years ago so clearly that was not an end of life hallucinatory thing)

  • @MCastle4.2

    @MCastle4.2

    3 жыл бұрын

    Quite a few of my patients seen their loved ones shortly before they passed. We knew once they seen a loved one there was not much time left.

  • @PLuMUK54
    @PLuMUK545 жыл бұрын

    When I was sitting with my dying aunt, who was in a coma, I was the one who had the experience. I looked up and saw two people standing a little way from my aunt's bed. It took me a moment to realise that I was looking at my grandparents. I was shocked to say the least. Later, I spoke to my mother about what had happened. She was not surprised, and told me of others in the family who had had similar experiences. My father thought we were mad! When I was sitting with my mother, as she was dying, the curtains around the bed moved, in fact one of them landed on my head. There was no open window, and I couldn't explain how it had happened. Then I saw my grandparents. Most importantly, mum, although comatose, smiled, and her face showed that she was at peace. I told my father to prepare himself because I knew mum was about to leave us, which, within a couple of minutes she did. 12 weeks later I was sat next to my father as he was seriously, but not fatally ill. He had laughed at mum and me over our "experiences", but as I held his hand, I felt him stiffen, his eyes widened, his mouth dropped. I could not see her, but I quietly asked if it was mum, and he nodded. I was the only one not surprised that he died a few hours later. I have had a close brush with death, being told I had only 48 hours to live. The doctors and nurses couldn't understand my calmness. I wasn't able to tell them that no one had come to me, so I knew the doctors were wrong. My parents were, as you can imagine, unhappy about the news, but mum immediately stopped worrying when I told her I'd not seen my grandparents. I know many will scoff. Many will think I'm mad, or worse a liar. However, I do not care. I know what I experienced, and it gives me great strength. I do not fear death, I'm not ready to go yet, but when I do, I will not be fearful.

  • @soniakiwi

    @soniakiwi

    4 жыл бұрын

    Your story is very moving and touching. ❤❤❤ Thank you for sharing it. BTW, your cat is an old and sweet soul. Please kiss and comfort her. She'll always watch over you. ❤🐱

  • @thiery572

    @thiery572

    4 жыл бұрын

    When you saw it, did you see it physically or on your mind's eyes?

  • @thiery572

    @thiery572

    4 жыл бұрын

    Tell your grandparents to go away, if you don't want to die.

  • @thiery572

    @thiery572

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Wyatt Earp Hiiy, I don't want to die anytime soon. Go away. No way. I don't want to die. lol

  • @MisterUrbanWorld

    @MisterUrbanWorld

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@thiery572 I'm very sad maybe you can sing a happy song for me

  • @livingauthenticallyonmyownterm
    @livingauthenticallyonmyownterm3 жыл бұрын

    Amazing !!! I was an RN and relate to everything Dr. Kerr has said. Death is nothing to be afraid of as our dead ancestors, friends and people who have made an impact on our life, come and take us home.

  • @youtube.comJ-NETERER18

    @youtube.comJ-NETERER18

    Жыл бұрын

    That's the peace about that

  • @stephenberry1205

    @stephenberry1205

    Жыл бұрын

    Just lost a close friend. Funeral today. Also 1 year anniversary this week of my mum passing. This video and your words are of amazing comfort & peace.

  • @natalierussell7491
    @natalierussell74914 жыл бұрын

    Today is my dads birthday. He died four months ago. This has brought me so much peace. Thank you 💙

  • @M_K_M_K_M_K

    @M_K_M_K_M_K

    4 жыл бұрын

    Natalie Russell I’m sorry to hear about your loss.... But glad these stories have helped you. I have been fearing the inevitable loss of my parents for years now.... All we can do is love each other and be good to them ❤️

  • @gofigure8222

    @gofigure8222

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my dad in 2010..its never easy for us who miss our family,but I believe he's at peace. Hope you find your peace and comfort.

  • @RGTomoenage11

    @RGTomoenage11

    4 жыл бұрын

    Natalie Russell peace be with you sister...

  • @nikhilsinha4327

    @nikhilsinha4327

    4 жыл бұрын

    This was a message from your dad on his special day. Consider this message as a gift and love to you from him. He gifted you peace... May the One be with you.

  • @kristinafawn1766

    @kristinafawn1766

    3 жыл бұрын

    💓

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